On July 4th, 2025, police in New Jersey were on patrol after the local fireworks display when they heard a loud argument coming from a parking lot. As they approached, they observed a male and female, visibly intoxicated, engaged in a verbal altercation. >> What's going on? >> Um, we had a confusion discussion about who lives in that house. >> No, no, no. >> Okay. >> He's been he's been my face. I tried to walk away. I I made a gesture to him and he got so offended. So that's all. >> And she cut me open right there. >> Goodbye. >> Hold on. Look at her and talk to her. >> All right. So, what's going on? >> What's going on? So, you guys got to >> Here's the deal. >> We've had some marriage issues. >> So, what's going on tonight? >> Uh, I I don't want to deal with it. I was looking over at that house tonight and I was looking at sparklers with my nephew. She is very hyper sensitive to thinking I'm looking at other women. >> All right. So, are you guys >> married or? >> Yeah, we're married. He spit in my face. He left me twice for 30 minutes. >> Okay. >> Um >> she's like, "What are you looking at?" Like my eight-year-old, we're looking at sparkles. And then my brother was like, "Oh, yeah. I know who lives in that house. Remember that girl from our grade?" I went to private high school. I don't know who he's talking about, but I dumbly just agree with it. >> Whatever. I What? It doesn't matter. >> So So what was the what started the argument? >> It it does kind >> What started the argument? I asked him something and I I I can't I I really >> Okay, hold on. Hold on. Hold on. >> No, no, no. >> Christian, if you're going to do I I just rather go home. Let's go get our stuff and go home. This is This is ridiculous. This is ridiculous. on your foot. >> So So >> I'm not I'm not doing this. Actually, don't touch me. Megan, >> don't touch me. Megan, do not do this. >> Then then let this go. I don't want to be >> I'm just telling them what's going on. And then >> maybe it's not their business. >> Yes, it is. >> No, it's actually not. It's It's not. And for you to do this, I'm Megan. So I just go home, get my stuff, and I'm going to go home tonight, and I'm going to go maneuver, whatever. But this is not their back up. Stop. No. I'm trying to resolve this in a fight. >> Cuz all it is is don't separate us. >> Yeah, we're going to separate back up. >> You did this thing. Fix it cuz I'm done. >> I am trying to fix it. >> No, you're not. >> Cuz then let it go and let's go home cuz I No, >> you're speaking to me. I can't just walk away. >> Stop doing that. Stop. >> Okay. Nope. Let me get take away handcuffs then. >> Please do not do that. Please. >> You did this. You did this. You over. You did this. Nobody. >> No. Then talk to us together. >> Stop. >> Megan, stop. >> I'm not doing this, Christian. >> You're going to get arrested. You're going [laughter] to get arrested. >> No, because I will go. >> Megan, stop it. Stop it. Just stop it. >> Jesus Christ. >> Don't go near the road. You still need to stay here. >> No, I don't. I didn't do >> You can't arrest me for >> I can. >> Okay. For what? >> Okay. Well, you have >> What are you going to arrest me on the grounds of? >> That's what we're figuring out. >> For what? That's what we're having these conversations for. >> No, no, no. What would you exactly arrest me for >> right now? >> Yeah. >> This conduct for >> which is what? What? What did I do? >> Bailing. >> I didn't scream or yell. >> Oh, you did >> when? >> Right there. >> No, I didn't. I said I don't want to be detained, but uh there was absolutely nothing in which I screamed or yell. >> I didn't scream right. >> No, I didn't. And I'm not now. >> So, what are you okay? So, what are you going to arrest me for now? >> Nothing. Or did I just I just needed the separation. I just separate. I just wanted to have a converate >> with you to see what happened. That's all this is. >> That's all this is. I'm happy to separate. I want >> to I just wanted to figure out what happened tonight. >> It's not really your business. I'm happy to separate. >> All right. >> You can go back to him. >> No, I'm good. >> I'm going to stay here. I'm out. I'm going to get an Uber and I'm going to leave. >> Not yet. >> Well, you're not going to keep me. >> I am. >> For what? >> You can't. Legally, you can't. I didn't do anything. I didn't have disorderly conduct. I'm leaving him. Then you guys can talk to him. And if he wants to do something, go for it. But that has nothing to do with me. And I'm allowed to get an Uber. I'm allowed to leave. I know that. I know my rights. Go hang with him. I'm not going to go back to him. Go for it. >> No, no, it's f3231. Show me the field contact in the area. What are we doing here? Why are you following me? >> Huh? >> Why are you following me? >> Because I told you you're not free to go. >> Uh, you have to die. Because when the Uber comes, >> why? You're not getting in it. >> For what? >> Uh, because you're currently under investigation for possibly assaulting him. >> I didn't. >> Well, his arm's bleeding. So, if you keep walking, you're going to be >> detained. No. >> Listen, I'm not following you down Ocean Avenue. You have to stay here. Okay. >> Yes. >> Do you want to be detained? >> I don't want to put you in handcuffs. >> I'm going to get an Uber. No. >> And I'm going to go home. >> I'm not being detained. I'll give you my information, but I'm leaving. I'm free to go. Nope. You are not. Yes, sir. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Stop. You have to stay here and do not push me. >> Then do not touch me. You're not allowed to touch me. you. >> That's all we're doing. No. All right, >> come here. You're under arrest. Don't resist the issue. Don't Don't >> Are you serious? >> 419. >> What are you doing? >> I'm being arrested you because you're >> Why? >> Because you scratched your door. >> Are you kidding me? Christian, what the >> want now or no? >> Can I talk to him? What the >> Are you serious? >> What the What are you doing? >> Put your hands on you. >> What are youing doing? Can you let me talk to you? What are you doing? >> Put your hands behind your >> No. The man spit in my face. What are you doing, Christian? What are you Stop. >> Give me your hand. >> What are you doing? Okay, I'm going to get up. >> Give me your hand now. >> What are you doing? >> Give me your hand now. >> Can you let me down? >> What are you doing? >> What are you doing? >> What are you doing? Can I find my mom, please? >> Let me get to the headquarters. Yeah. >> What are you doing, Christian? >> All right. >> Well, can I talk to him for you? >> No. >> No. >> Christian, what are you doing? >> What are you doing? >> Christian, they can't do this. If you're saying what happened, >> I told them I asked them not to do this. Then what are you? So what did you tell him? You had >> He has a scratch on his arm. >> Okay, Christian. They can't arrest me cuz you have a scratch on your arm. >> Actually, we can. >> Can you come with me then? >> No. >> Why can't my husband come with me? >> Cuz he can't. >> You can't. He You can't You can't arrest me if he's not involved in this. Christian, wait. Can you please can you please have my husband come here? >> Stop. Please. Can I talk to my husband now? >> Yeah. If you get in the car, we'll roll down the window. >> Get in. >> Can you please let me talk to my husband first? >> You sit in the car. >> I have a right. I have a right. >> Let me talk to my husband. >> Sit in the car. >> Christian, >> please let me talk to my husband. Please let me talk to my husband. >> So then what happened? Um, I walked away because I was being basically accused of knowing who's living there, having some type of interest, some attraction. >> I don't know who the lives there. >> No clue. So, I don't have a clue. I walk away. >> Mhm. >> I walked for 20 minutes. I come back. I keep trying to talk to her again. Um, and I came back. She keep repeating the same story. I pulled the chair towards her. I probably shouldn't have done that. I was getting mad again. I was telling her like, "I don't know what's going on." She's like, "Oh, well, your mother knows who lives there. Your brother, it's just stupid. It's dumb. It's been like this a >> dad." Uh, >> a simple conversation that could have been very easy. >> Christian got very frustrated, walked away for about 30 minutes. I stayed there sitting patient waiting. He came on the beach. bit a chair. >> He came back. >> He was very mean. He kept pushing the chair, pushing me, being physical with me. I still sat there in my face. >> And then I get mad. I I was like mouthing her. I must have spit in her face. And then I walk away again. And then I'm thinking to myself, what am I supposed to do here? There's no logic. There's no rhyme. I can't logically get through this. I come back again. I'm trying to talk to her again. Then I'm like finally like she's pissing me off again. I'm like I'ming out of here. >> She starts chasing after me. She grabs me. She cuts me open. >> And I I'll be honest. I have scars all over my body from stuff like this happening. I'm pushing her back. I'm saying, "Get away from me." I push her against the fence. I keep and I think I don't know if you guys saw me, but I'm sitting here trying to move and it's just been I mean this has been going on for a while. >> We've we've had a lot of trouble in our marriage. So like the thing is >> she's very determined and I'm freaked out that she's going to try to get herself arrested by telling you guys that you shouldn't be doing this. All I want to do is go home to my parents. Okay. I asked her three times to leave the beach since the fireworks. Mhm. >> Where do your parents live? Okay. So, she's been sitting here for the last hour. I've left. She hasn't left. I come back. >> Try to talk. Nothing. Leave. She doesn't leave. I come back again. >> All I want to do is go home. >> Mhm. >> This is driving me. I didn't expect this. Now my arm is killing me now. >> Yeah. Well, with signs of injury, she's probably going to be arrested. >> I don't want her to be. >> It's It's not our It's not up to you. >> Did he ask you to do this? >> He showed us his arm. There's signs of injury as you know. >> I'm just asking a simple question. Whatever he showed you. I'm asking if he asked you to do this. >> No. >> I told him. >> Did he ask you not to? >> He said he would prefer not to, but I told him it's not up to him. >> And like it's like it could have happened to anybody. It's a nail. And I get it. It sucks. It looks bad. >> I really don't want her life ruined. >> No, I got you. I mean, it's not going to ruin her life, >> but I I don't want any anything out of this. The 41-year-old female was charged with simple assault, a criminal charge that can lead up to 6 months in jail and $1,000 in fees. But in this case, we were unable to find any record of a court proceeding, which leads us to believe that the charges were either dismissed or a clerical error was made in filing the record.