Why do couples not know when to stop when the relationship becomes this toxic? 911 police. Okay, are you hurt? Hello. What's going on today? Hi, I just recently just moved in here a few days ago. So, me and my baby dad have split recently and he has not been handling it well. Okay. He's been hurting me. I have bruises and marks all over. He just I just got door dashed here. My door is unlocked and he just walked straight in and just started He went upstairs. I have my guy friends here. We just ordered pizza and he kicked he kicked my guy he kicked my friend out and then started spraying on me through my phone. He broke my controller. Um right there stepping on it. He broke a few more things and then he freaking punched me. And let me let me take a look. Where you got Where did you get struck? But I got marks like on my on my Okay. That happened today? Yeah, and then he strangled me like 2 days ago. I couldn't breathe. Did you call us then? I don't know. It's just like he has my son and he won't he won't give my son back. I have no custody right now. Do I know black male? He's black. He's 6'2. He wears glasses. Did he take a child? Yeah, he he was supposed to be watching him for a couple days. It was his turn to watch him. I've been trying to like work it out with him and not go to court and just like Wasn't there a be civil but he went to go drop him off and then saw my friend was here and started the bright He grabbed that, threw it, came downstairs trying to break things up, kicked my friend out and then grabbed my baby, grabbed a whole bunch of his stuff and ran out. And now he's at his mom's and his mom and now he has it in his car but his mom and his sister are making, you know, they've been texting me, talking [ __ ] calling me names. Um he ran out and got in the car with the baby. What kind of car? A white a white Honda Civic. Is it a 1990 or what? Today, did he strike you at all? Yeah, he struck me in my face and threw me up against the wall a few times. Mhm. >> Open open close fist Um it was closed fist. Where did he hit you in the face? I don't know right here in my eye right here. So, what's going to happen with my son? I'm going to answer I'm just going to grab my son. Okay, well right now we're we're trying to find him. Okay. And once we do I'll have him over there, okay? Okay. 47 I'm with him. Put your hands out of the car. Put your hands out of the car. Put your hands out OF THE CAR. THE KIDS IN THERE. KIDS IN THERE. KIDS IN THERE. Shut off the car. Shut off the car. 47 hold the channel. We have him. The kids in the car. All right. With your left hand, go ahead and open up the DRIVER'S SIDE DOOR. I'VE GOT WALK HIM BACK TO ME. I'LL GO HANDS. All right. Go ahead and step back and face away from me. So, step out of the car, face away from me. WE GOT IT. HEY, YOU TWO SETTLE DOWN RIGHT NOW. WE GOT IT. STOP TALKING. BE QUIET. At one Hudson gives commands. Do your seat belt. All right, I'm doing it with my right hand. Okay. Go ahead. There's no weapons in the car. Okay. Just continue to listen, okay? Go ahead and step out. Face away from me. All right, interlace your fingers on top of your head. All right, step back to the sound of my voice. Step back. Step back. Step back. Keep coming. Keep coming, bud. Go to your left. Step to your left. Step to your left. Keep coming. Keep coming back. >> Keep coming. Keep coming. Keep coming. This All right. Where's the kid at? In the back seat? All Hi, Bubba. Hello. Okay, we got it. Just chill out for a second and we'll talk to you. I saw you on our tour as I was turning on >> I had them all day though. Okay, well we'll figure all that out, okay? Here, you can put them in here. No, I know. Oh. No, it's okay. What are their names? Um that's my mom's Shakina and my little sister Mariah. Okay. We got We got a call. But that Okay, so you guys know the situation already. We got to invest We got to investigate it and it's it's it's okay. What's the Do you know the custody agreement with the kids or anything like that? Right, right. Uh-huh. Mhm. Okay. Do you know the address of the apartment they share? So we need to figure out So listen, LISTEN. WITH YOU WITH YOU GUYS YEAH, with you guys With you guys yelling With you guys yelling though, we can't figure that out. So any information you have is helpful, okay? But we need you to talk to us, okay? I know. I know. Okay, okay. But see, We So Okay. Well, like we're there's no denying it's his kid. We're not saying that. She said something about a court order. There is no court order. I swear on everything I love. Okay. He is on the birth certificate. Jacari has his last name. >> Listen then maybe you'd understand. Okay. So uh came in it's a possible kidnapping right now, okay? I I know, but I know but something happened, okay, over at the mom's address, okay? So that's where we're at right now. So we're I can't provide all that information to you, okay? But that's where we're at right now. So right now we're figuring that out, okay? Have they ever been married? No. Okay. So per Ohio law, it doesn't matter if he's the father or not unless he has a court order saying he has custody of the child or share custody of the child, the the mother is has 100% custody of that child and he cannot take that child without any any any rights or anything. But he's on the certificate. Doesn't matter. But this is not a mother state anymore. I'm sorry, what? This is not a mother state anymore. Incorrect. It it's still a mother state. It is. Correct. But he's had the baby and she knows the baby So the N what so so the N what unwed mother uh has 100% custody of the child until otherwise given by the court. That's what it says in the state of Ohio, okay? Okay. Well, so what we're we're figuring it all out now and stuff whatever. Yeah. Yeah. That's what figured out. So there's officers on scene over there, right? That he's just detained for the investigation, okay? No one's hurt. Everything's okay. He's being cooperative. I understand why you're upset, okay? But when we have knowledge that it's a possible kidnapping, we have to respond this. But we don't know but listen to me. But we don't know that until we investigate it, right? Mario, go in the house, please. So if we didn't respond this way and a kid got hurt, then it's then it would still be our fault, right? Okay. So, I'm going to explain everything here in a second from what I know, okay? Cuz right now I'm assisting, okay? So, I'm going to read you your rights, okay? Cuz I'm going to ask you some questions anyways. You have the right to not answer any questions or make any statements. Do you understand that? Okay. So, what transpired today between you and the child's mother? So, He was with me all day today, sir. Like from the moment we woke up Actually, he was with my mom this morning. He was with me last night. Um I picked him up around uh 2:30. You know, I had to go up to uh to Westlake for something. I picked him up at 2:30. He's at me over my sister's house. My sister stays right down the street, right down there on uh right past Anderson. Um he's with me all day. Um I was trying to um contact his mom so she can see him. You know, she hasn't seen him. I'm FaceTiming her, FaceTiming her, FaceTiming her. She's not answering. And like earlier, she asked She texted me. She's like, "Is my mom keeping him tonight?" She wanted either me or my mom to keep him tonight. So, I said, "Okay." I'm trying to FaceTime her so she can see him. She's not answering like FaceTime calls, you know? Like we were just together. Um she got her assistant housing. I caught her texting another guy. I'm like, "Yo, okay. All right, we're done. I'm not doing this." She um told me she would have no other dudes over there, but I knew there was a guy over there. By the way, she wasn't answering my calls and she just hung up so abruptly. So, I I went over there. I brought Jakari, my son. I brought him over there. The door was unlocked. I'm knocking on the door. I'm bang I'm knocking on the door and me knocking on the door pushes the door open. So, the door was unlocked when I got there. So, I closed the door. I'm I'm walking upstairs. She's She's at the top of the stairs. I'm like, "I tried to call you right now. You're not answering." I walk in the room. There's another dude in there. So, I'm like, "Yeah, bro, you got to go. You got to leave." I didn't put my hands on him or nothing. I'm like, "You got to leave." He just left. So, I'm like, "We're going back and forth, da da da da da. Why are you got another dude in here?" I'm trying to put his coat Jakari's coat on so he can leave. And she's just like, "Stop taking my Stop taking my son." I'm trying to put the coat on him. She's She's constantly grabbing on me, hitting me while I'm trying to put while I'm trying to put the coat on him, so we can leave. Cuz she wasn't asking for him all day. Like I have the text messages she didn't want him all day. Until I got there and caught her with another dude in the bed. So I'm just like, I'm taking your car, you're not taking him. Like you didn't want him all day. So I'm trying to put his coat on I'm trying to put his coat on and she just hit me and pulling on me and hit me. So I I pushed her away from me. Mhm. Cuz she keeps she she won't stop coming at me. >> Where was she hitting you at? Back of my head. Like Cuz I was I was I was facing away from her. Like I had the baby on the uh Uh you know probably you didn't see nothing but I was >> I'm just looking. I'm just I She hit me on my head. Hit me on my on the back of my neck on my spine. Like So I'm like, back up. Like stop. Like I never punched her. I never closed hand her. I never open hand her. I just pushed her. Like get off of me so I'm hitting me. I'm trying to leave. And then I ended up leaving. I get here she's like, bring my son back or I'm calling the police. I'm like, you calling the police you didn't even want him all day. Like call them. Call the police. Like But you understand too if she has a 100% full custody no matter what if she wants the child she has to have the child. >> I understand that but she didn't tell me she wanted him back until I got back here. Like I just got back here like like 10 minutes ago. And that's when she was like, call the police I just called the police. >> you were you were just driving around? No, I I left. I came back here. Uh this my mom's house. >> Well, I know but I just saw you on Archway. >> was I was I was I was No, I was going to She said she was going to call the police so I was bringing my son back to her. I didn't even get the chance to get there. She already called the police. Okay. All right, just sit tight for me so I can figure this all out, okay? Cuz right now this is coming It came in as a kidnapping. Okay, now are you serious? How is it How is it a kidnapping sir? How is it a kidnapping when I have my son? So she's claiming that you assaulted her there, okay? And then took the child of which she has a 100% full custody of, okay? Which can constitute that, okay? So that's why and that you broke into the apartment, okay? I I didn't break into the apartment. >> Listen, I I'm just explaining it to you. That's why I want you to know the apartment. Yeah, so that's why that's why that's why that's why that's where we're at right now, okay? >> was not locked. >> Well, that that's where we're at right now, okay? So, that's That's why we're figuring out. Just let us do our job and we'll figure it out, okay? >> I'm complying. All right. What was he trying to do? You want him charged with the destruction of your property as well? For what? For the controller? Somebody has to pay for anything he damaged, you get it? So, he's he's already going to jail. Okay. He's going to go to jail, but you want him also charged with the destruction of the controller? That's fine with us. It's just a stupid controller. >> Okay. Just wanted to confirm it. She want damage too? No, she just wants the DV. Okay. Who took this? Yeah, he struck her multiple times leaving visible injuries. That's all right. >> take care of you guys. She is a liar, man. >> I know, but apparently I'm not there, but she >> She is a liar. My son has never ever, if you listen to this recording, she jumps on him. He has never put his hands on her. Ever, [snorts] never, never. She has always been the one. I can let you listen to one right now. Where is my phone, Mariah? So, he's going to jail tonight, but if you actually want this to stick, you do have to put in some, you know, work for it. We're going to sign on your behalf just because we have to transport your child and everything. Okay. But, understand that if you do want him to stay with DV, and remember, he came into your house, he hit you, he took the kid. Okay. If you want that actually to stick, you have to go through with the court, okay? Okay. So, you just need to file it. So, she got bruises, bumps, and all of that. She does. So, April. So, her putting his hands on him, too, it's still going to It's a felony. I was on the show on her way here. Who? Mom? Uh, that I don't know, but uh, you're going to go to jail for domestic, okay? Cuz her eye is swollen shut. So, >> hit her in the eye, though. Oh, her eye is swollen shut somehow. So, you're going to go to jail for domestic violence today. Can I call her at least? Can I talk Can I talk to her? No. I can't talk to her at all? Mhm. Sorry, bud. Can I Can I talk to my mom? Huh? Uh, maybe when the wagon gets here, okay? Is there a way that Is there any way they can get dropped before? Like, can she drop them at any time? Yeah, she could drop the charges anytime. That's That's up to the victim. Well, that it's just on her. Course, you can't You can't coerce a victim to drop a charge. I know I know she said I I know, but that's another charge then if you were to do that. So, just just don't do it. >> the wagon gets here so I can talk to my mom? All right. Well, I Like I said, I don't know if you'll be able to talk to your mom, but it'll be here soon. I know you didn't, son. I know cuz that's not the type of person you are. >> do it. She said that I broke into the house. The door was already unlocked. No, no, the new place her new place, the door was already unlocked. Like, I was knocking on it and the me knocking on the door pushed the door open. It's okay. I put And I seen her at the top of the stairs, so I just walked in. I have her kid. How am I breaking the house when I when I have the kid? And she said They said I'm going to jail for domestic. Can you just I got you, son. You know I got you. >> Just talk to her, please? Like, talk to her, please. >> All right. The man was arrested and charged with domestic violence. Drop your opinion in the comments and hit like and subscribe for more videos.