This is something that has bothered me because this is literally my worst nightmare to get scabies, bed bugs, and head lice. I think that is like everybody would be scared of bugs crawling in their skin, right? He tells me this. I'm already upset about it. I'm trying to help him get rid of it. He has dreads. They can live in his dreads. So, I'm doing a tea tree treatment in his hair for him. >> And he's like grabbing on my legs. And I said, "Can you please just not grab me right now?" And he said, "What am I getting from this relationship?" He hasn't washed his hair, he says, in 3 years. And then he says every once a year or so and then you know like he always changes the story. And so I'm like okay I'm elbow deep in his hair and he's sitting there like grabbing my legs like trying to hold on to me while I'm doing this. And I just said can you please not grab onto me right now? And yes I wasn't nice like this is a really serious situation that you're not really taking very seriously right now. So he proceeds to tell me that I I am not affectionate whatsoever. I never give him affection. And before this, I had already discussed with him for the last 3 months. He has been gaslighting me or doing that and like always puts it on the other person, but also makes them feel like they're crazy for even bringing it up. I was just like I literally thought I was going crazy. I'm like, I'm confused like all the time. I'm confused and like I don't really know what's going on.