July 19th, 2025. We're in Escambia County, Florida, responding to a domestic disturbance that feels less like a police call and more like a reality TV audition that somehow got green lit. We've got a divorced couple still living together, which on its own is basically a slow motion car crash. And they're fighting over everything from parenting to sovereign citizen ideology. This is not the first time >> this type of situation, >> but I actually talked to >> basically she's my >> Can you step back in the car for me? >> So, she's my ex-wife. >> Uhhuh. >> I let her move back in. >> Can you step in the car for me? >> I can't. You broke my door handle. >> Not true. It opens. >> You did break my door handle. I cannot open the door. >> How did you get in the first time? Can I buy another? >> Hey, if you keep arguing with them, you're going to end up in my car instead of yours. Okay. >> You can open. Would you like me to open it for him? >> Are you able to open it? >> How? >> It's just got to hold to one side. >> How long have y'all been divorced for? >> Five years. Four years. 2002. >> Okay. What happened today? Well, today >> when she she has an alcohol problem. >> When she drinks, she gets aggressive and violent. >> Mhm. >> And I haven't talked to I called the other I called like about a week ago because I'm trying to have her removed from my house. I'm the sole owner, title owner of the property and she's a guest, but she's out waiter. She's outstayed her welcome because of his drinking. What's going on? >> What's going on is that he is doing his manipulation and your deputy up there is like anti-women. >> He's just doing his job. >> Like I understand. I understand. Trust me. I know. We were married for 20 years almost. Have a grandbaby. We just had like I don't know if you've ever been in my position before, but like being I'm 41 years old. I have four kids. I just had a grandbaby. And I am like going through menopause right now. And I have this. And then you're looking at me like I'm crazy and I have this person act like I'm crazy. I know. But I'm about to like >> my my hormones are literally through the roof right now. Literally. Like he is an evil freaking human being. We have four sons together. We live here together. We just had a grandchild on Monday. This person has busted my lip yesterday. literally have video after video after video after video of him literally putting his hands on me, choking me to the point I almost passed out. My 10-year-old in there that will gladly tell you he walked out while I was passing out. And he's the reason why I'm a light right now cuz he walked into that. I have been abused multiple times. I have been dismissed, discarded, acted like, oh, whatever. Cuz I don't call the cops every time he does this. >> She hit me on camera. >> I'd ask her to leave. She has a car. >> She's trying to act like she's afraid, but she's free to leave like the whole time. She's trying to get inside. >> Okay. Where do you >> Where do you have it on camera from? >> Just from my opinion. I have like >> I have like four or five videos, but >> she's bringing out all the And I'm literally trying to kiss them in a million years. >> Why were you recording in the first place? >> Cuz this is what happened. >> Why were you following her? >> She's trying to break into the door. >> I'm just trying to keep her on camera so there's no question. >> I was just wondering cuz I saw her walking to the car. >> Yeah, she was >> away from you. See, even though you're on video camera, you can't protect me like that. You cannot [ __ ] your elbow and hit me in the ear, [ __ ] You're not [ __ ] >> You're [ __ ] [ __ ] >> I hate you. Oh, now we're going to lie. Huh? Now we're going to lie like that. She hit me again and grab my nuts. >> Why she coming up on me like that? If she scared me. >> Defend this is the end. But I have >> there was one maybe this is the one where she I was standing at the door she ran up on me and I went like this and she fell down to abuse. >> I promise you know what you mean. Oh, like you did like you have like you had put your hands on it, right? Huh? How about that thing to choke me out of your 10-year-old to the point where I almost passed out when you walked out here? Huh? >> How about that? How about when you bite my lip in the car on the way to the hospital yesterday? Huh? You violent motheruckers. Let them gone while you're sitting there. You think they haven't already seen a bunch of guys like you that beat the out of women that sit there and act like they don't do anything? You think you're the first one? You think you're the first one? Huh? You think that They're not going to notice. I'm done. I hope you're >> be able to email all those charges on you. I swear to God, >> I'll give you my email if you can just real quick. >> What's the name of your son that was out here a second ago? That was also in the video. How old is he? >> He is 13. >> Did he see any of this? >> This? Mhm. Like anything to happen today. >> Today? >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> Yeah, for sure. >> They see it. Oh, >> check Gmail or mail email. >> What uh what did this argument all start over? >> She'll get aggressive and violent with the kids and I said that's not going to happen. Then she walked outside. So, I locked the doors. Okay. >> And then I asked her to leave numerous times. >> How many >> She refuses. >> How many times total does she hit you today? >> Three. >> Three. Where at? >> Back of the head. Side of the head. >> Okay. It was it all open hand slaps or was it a closed hand at all? >> Close hand. >> Close hand. >> Just hang tight. >> So I know I act like a crazy person right now. I know I do. I have four [ __ ] kids in there, three that will tell you. Three sons that will tell you they've seen him literally almost kill me physically and he wants to play victim. Oh, she I need her to leave. Oh, he wants to play something. He wants to play something. He's mad and cuz I don't want him like multiple things he has done for multiple years. And I have three boys in there, one at the hospital having a baby. And I'm literally trying to get this house ready to go for them to get home for my grandbaby to be home. And and then I look like the crazy one cuz I have snapped. I have snapped. I am 41 AND I HAVE SNAPPED. I'M GOING THROUGH PARMENOPAUSE. I have snapped. This [ __ ] put me in jail for 14 hours. I would never in a million years go to jail ever. I cannot handle jail. I cannot handle jail. Even now I'm not going to jail. I will go to a psychiatric ward before I ever go to jail. He should have been in jail multiple times for multiple things. and his own parents, his own family would [ __ ] notate that. But I'm the crazy one because I'm snapped. I'm 41. I have four boys. I have a grandchild. I'm going through menopause. I just got fired because of him. He got me fired from my jobs because he can want to control every part of my life. And I just snapped and now I'm the one that's going to look like the crazy one. >> Okay. Do you have your ID on you? >> No, he stole it from me. I have my passport inside my house. He's got my ID cuz he stole my ID. And I know what kind of [ __ ] psycho I sound like. I really do. I really know. >> Don't listen to him. Just tell me what happened in your words today. >> What happened in my words is I have not slept in 48 hours. I'm tired. My baby, my our oldest son just had a baby. They're in the hospital and they're in there for 10 days because he's got to be on antibiotics. So, I've been up there every day. And I got choked to the point where I almost passed out because >> today. >> Yes, yesterday. Yesterday. >> Okay. >> Um Oh, multiple times. Like I love how he's up there showing right now. I swear to God, I have multiple videos myself, too. Multiple videos. >> Well, don't focus. >> I I've hit my limit. I've hit my limit. I've hit my limit. I've hit my [ __ ] body limit. >> Don't focus on what he's doing. It's Why don't we come Come over here on the side of the car with me. So, we're we're not going to focus on what he's doing. Where's >> that [ __ ] cop? Hey, don't [ __ ] >> I know, but he's Oh, you can be in the back of my cop car because I know I'm crazy right now. I know I'm crazy. I know I'm crazy. And I know and I'm I was a parillegal. I know I don't like this [ __ ] I don't I don't like me right now. I'm not normally a crazy person, but now I understand why people snap and crash out. Now I [ __ ] get it. He has choked me. Yesterday, literally to almost passed out. My son, my or her oldest son has a baby. Um, I divorced him three years ago after being married for almost 20 years in marriage. Thank God I divorced him. Unfortunately, I'm back here with him since January, which in the meantime, he has tried. I could have put that [ __ ] in prison. >> Happily had him locked up multiple times. I had video after video of a locked jaw. I have bruises. I have permanent scars all over my body. Okay? I'm not the violent one. I am not the violent one. I hear you. I'm not I have been beat to a [ __ ] pulp. >> I have been beat to a pulp. Okay. He has >> He is a disgusting human being. Disgusting. Literally >> married for 20 years. >> I had one boyfriend that I was with for four years and then unfortunately because of that situation, I'm back here with him, leaving me with him because I don't financially have anywhere to go except for my mother's house. that I choose to be with my children and he doesn't care because he doesn't work. He's a sovereign citizen. He's on a he is not a uh citizen of the United States and he is doesn't follow rules or doesn't believe in the cops or anything else. He does what he wants to do and he does it just fine. He gets away with lots of stuff from you people. Lots. Okay. So, yeah, he has choked me out literally. I have, like I said, three kids in there. Uh, 17, 13, and 10. That will tell you how he's almost [ __ ] killed me multiple times. >> I am here for them. He has done that then today. He >> I don't know. He just I'm not doing things like he said. Like he said he told my like he told my 17-year-old last night, women need to be beaten. They need to be told what to do. They need to be hit and they need to be beaten and they need to be told what to do. Your mom is not a real woman. She doesn't listen. She doesn't do what I say. She doesn't do what we say. That's what you need to do. >> That's why we're in this position right now. You can walk in my house. You can see my babies, my my son. They're they're coming home from the hospital. I have every bit of laundry washing. My my whole focus is this [ __ ] baby's room, this nursery. My whole life. Go walk in there with me, please. My whole life is this, not him. I'm not worried about him. I'm worried about my kids and this baby coming home. And I have a grandbaby. And he is ruining all of it. And he's getting away with it. He is getting away with it because because I cannot hold my emotions in. I need I need a woman caught here who's like my age, 41, who's going through a pen parames the [ __ ] I'm going through and who has been with a piece of [ __ ] [ __ ] like him. Seriously, I'm serious. I am a girls all the way. I cannot do this anymore. is that cop soon as he said, "Oh, oh, miss. Oh, you'll be in my car if you keep talking." Yeah, I know. Cuz he's got you in his pocket cuz you're a [ __ ] dude. And there's been multiple of you that have been on my side, but he is not. Clearly, >> he's not on anyone's side. >> Oh. Oh, he's on the side. I have a video. You want to see it? Where he said, "Oh, you keep talking. You'll go to his car when I ask a simple question." Oh, I will. I'mma post it on [ __ ] >> We put people in the back of the car when they can't be calm. >> I wasn't even not calm. Now, now I'm back home. You have every reason if you wanted to right now. I wasn't like that with him. Do you understand me? Please. I know. I know he's your partner. I know all the things. Okay. I know. I'm telling you. >> I've the crash out or whatever this whole little trend is going on. >> It's not a trend. And I'm doing it right now. It's happening >> and I can't stop it. Literally, I have four [ __ ] boys. I HAVE A GREAT BABY. I JUST HAD A GREAT BABY. I HAVE A [ __ ] GRANDMA. I am like I don't like the cops right now. Like I do normally I do I do like the cops but right now they're not my favorite. Hold on one second. Just stay right here for me. Okay. >> She's not really saying anything about what happened today. She just keeps going on about >> he's beat her. He choked her yesterday. Um her son can attest to it. She hasn't slept in like two days. And I she just keeps circling around and around and around. I keep trying to think what happened today and you're in his pocket and that's why blah blah blah. Like literally like not getting anything about what happened today. >> 13year-old. >> Okay. >> Yeah. Okay. He just wanted to tell me what he's hearing. Okay. So, what >> lies? >> And that's fine. That's why I'm talking to you and trying to get your side of things, right? So, what happened prior to us coming out here today? What caused us to get >> caught today? I took a nap literally like I've been up since 4:30 this morning while his lazy fat ass has been sleeping. And I'm sorry. >> It's okay. >> I know I'm being a lot. I know I'm being a lot. >> It's okay. >> I wish I could take you inside right now and show you all the things and give you a timeline. I woke up at 4:30 this morning and I am doing my normal thing, cleaning the house and nobody else cleans. I have four boys. Nobody cleans. We have two dogs. Nobody takes care of but me. And he's sleeping with his little [ __ ] light machine in his room. $7,000 machine that makes it frequency frequency machine. And here I am cleaning all goddamn day long. I [ __ ] lay down and took a nap. Mhm. My ex-boyfriend from seven months ago, the only person I had been with and 20 [ __ ] goddamn years except for him, called me when I was asleep. He got the phone call. He got jealous and here we are. >> So, what happened when he got jealous? >> He got jealous. He uh sent a video saying, "Oh, here to my ex-boyfriend. I talked to my ex-boyfriend. I'm like, >> I don't know what he's [ __ ] doing. Like, I broke up with that [ __ ] for a reason. He He's harassing him. He went he's got a felony charge right now because he went and tried to bust his door down. My ex-boyfriend right now he's got a felony charge right now for trying to bust his door down >> literally and stalking and >> everything else today. He called my ex-boyfriend, sent him a video all this stuff and I'm like, "What the hell?" >> He sent your ex-boyfriend. >> Yes. Yes. And I have all of that. Okay. >> Which I don't even care that. That's not an issue. That's my ex-boyfriend. I don't care. I have a lot more things going on. No, but he locked me out of the house. I walked outside. Oh, you're locked out. I'm calling the cops. Oh, you're calling the cops after you literally choked ME AND BUSTED MY GODDAMN lip >> and made my lip ble last night. >> I know. But I just love how he pretends like he did nothing wrong. Like, you're Mr. Officer's best friend and you're you're so smooth. >> Hey, you're letting him get worked up. >> I know. I know. I'm the [ __ ] crash out. THIS IS [ __ ] I SWEAR TO GOD, EVERY WOMAN, this is [ __ ] This [ __ ] So, yes, I [ __ ] lose it. I lose it. We lose it. Rightfully so, because those [ __ ] make you lose it. >> Hey, you're >> Look at him with his little beard. Like, he literally you meticulously did this. >> Stop looking at him. Okay, don't focus. >> I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. >> It's okay. I'm not upset with you. Right. >> I'm sorry. He's doing this on purpose. Like, he's literally sitting there. I literally want to kill him. I swear to God. >> I understand. >> I don't want to kill him. You didn't hear that. >> I I didn't take it as a literal threat. >> Listen, I'm sorry. He seen my thing. I was sleeping. I took a nap. >> I took a nap. I've literally been doing everything in this house for [ __ ] six months. >> Yeah. >> I took a nap and he I don't care. You can text him. I don't care. He deserves it. That my ex-boyfriend is a piece of [ __ ] He deserves every bit of it. I hope he believes all the lies that he just got told. I don't care about that. What I care about is the fact that he I walked outside and he locked me out of the house and called the cops because he plays games constantly. >> So, were you guys like arguing? >> He took me, slapped me across the [ __ ] face, knocked me on the ground. Yeah. Before he called you and acted like I'm the problem, he [ __ ] knocked me across the [ __ ] face. Knocked me on the [ __ ] floor. Smacked me multiple times. He has smacked me. And I've never called cops on him. Not one time for all this [ __ ] that he's done to me. physically violated me today multiple times before you guys got here. >> Do you feel like you need an ambulance? >> No. >> Okay. >> No, >> I just have to ask. >> No, I don't need an ambulance. I need like some backup. >> I I hate him and I know I shouldn't be saying this to you. Like I really I can't I have never hated someone so much in my entire life. Like and I believe in Jesus and forgiveness and I need all of it because I've done so many things >> where I need forgiveness. But he is a snake in the [ __ ] grass and he [ __ ] knocks me out. Literally, this [ __ ] has hit me so much. Choked me to the point where I thought I was going to die. Literally, my 10-year-old watch watch me as my I was blacking out. Hit me to the point where my jaw clicks every time I open it for years. I have a scar on my back right here. >> Mhm. >> From him. Multiple scars on my body from him in the last 10 years. Multiple. However, guess who went to jail for 14 hours because they broke his poor little finger? Me. Which I'm glad I broke his faggam finger. But I went to jail. And I don't do jail. I don't do that. Like, that's not me. I cannot do that. So, as crazy as I am, I cannot go to jail. I cannot do jail. But I did. And his ass was there in court on a Saturday morning first thing getting me out because >> he knows I don't deserve to be there. So, he's the one that got me out. >> He's the one that put me in there. He's the one got me on. He's probably the one that's going to put me in here tonight, too. So, you're not taking me there. You're going to take me to a public tell you that or to the morg because I'm not going to jail. I cannot do jail and I cannot do people like him or him who sits up there and he's like, "Oh, and I am not a feminist womanizing whatever." I'm not I'm not I am pro what is right. I am pro what is right. >> And I'm 41 years old and I have gone off the [ __ ] deep end. And I'm very well aware of that. At least I'm saying as crazy as I am, I'm very well aware that I've gone off the deep end. I am. I'm very well aware I have. I'm not gonna hurt anybody and I'm not going to hurt myself. >> Okay. >> Now, him, >> what statement have you got from her? >> She's not really saying anything about what happened today. She just keeps going on about he's beat her. He choked her yesterday. Her son came yesterday. She hasn't slept in like two days. She just keeps slipping around and around and around keep trying to think what happened today and you're in his pocket and that's why literally not getting anything about what happened today. >> Okay. >> He slapped her, pushed her and then locked her out of the house. >> Okay. Whatever you feel. All right. >> Okay. Are you going to arrest me back? Wait a minute. Put your hands behind your back. Please do not. >> Why are you arresting me? I want to know why you're arresting me. Wait a minute. >> Wait a minute. >> I have a right to know why you're tell >> I'm getting arrested. So he hit me. He literally physically abused me multiple times and I have video of it and now I'm getting arrested. >> So So I like literally my jaw is popping. I have bruises on my body and I got literally physically hurt and I'm going to jail. This this is what kind of am I paying taxes to? This doesn't even pay taxes. >> I am a taxpaying citizen literally and you are going to put your hands on me. Get your hands off of me. Actually, you're going to put your hands on me after you like buddy buddy up with him. This uh sovereign citizen who does not pay taxes, hates all things conservative and beat the out of me and then call the cops and now I'm getting arrested and you are pawn to his scheme. >> Cool. >> I would like to know seriously why I'm getting arrested when I want TO PRESS CHARGES ON HIM. I WANT TO PRESS CHARGES on him. Can I say that right now? >> You can say whatever you want. >> Yeah. Well, uh, make a note of it. I'm placing charges on him for [ __ ] violating me. And you, too. >> Turn around on Facebook first. Spread your feet cuz I'm a Spread your feet. Oh, we got we got we got the people out here, the little kids. Fun times in a great neighborhood. >> This is disgusting. Seriously, you're do this to me while that is in there with weed and lots of other things in there. And I can tell you what. >> Oh, you are recording me. You're going to blast your legs over. Here you go. Here you go. Here you go. You need to get all look at it. Hold still. >> To understand why this spirals so fast, you have to understand how domestic calls work for police. When deputies show up, they're walking into a fog of emotion. Two people talking at once. Two stories that don't match. Years of resentment condensed into one living room. And in that moment, the job isn't to solve the entire marriage. It's to identify the primary aggressor in this incident. That's the legal puzzle they have to solve on the spot with limited time. incomplete information and the very real risk that someone gets hurt if they guess wrong. The wife immediately tries a strategy that shows up constantly in these situations. Historic justification. She doesn't just talk about what happened tonight. She zooms out and starts narrating the last 20 years. She brings up alleged choking from the previous day. She brings up his sovereign citizen beliefs. She's trying to build a context where her violence looks like reactive abuse. not her being violent, but her finally defending herself after years of torment. Psychologically, it makes sense as a survival story. If she can convince the deputies that he's the villain, then her punch becomes a plot twist instead of a crime. In her mind, she's not the aggressor. She's the finale. But the street level legal reality doesn't run on therapy logic. It runs on probable cause. And that's where the husband holds the ultimate trump card, video evidence. in 2025. The smartphone is basically the silent witness that doesn't get flustered, doesn't forget details, and doesn't change its story. He shows the deputies footage of her charging him and striking him, and the air leaves the room because at that point, the discretion disappears. The deputies aren't weighing who's more annoying or who had a harder week. They're looking at a recorded battery. And here's the part that sounds harsh, but is actually the cleanest line in the whole mess. Once there's clear evidence of battery, a lot of states, including Florida, push officers toward arrest. Not because they enjoy it, but because domestic violence calls can reignite fast, and the legal system treats them as high risk for escalation. So, no, I haven't slept in 2 days doesn't erase it. Menopause doesn't erase it. Becoming a grandmother doesn't erase it. None of that is a legal delete button, it can explain someone's emotional state, sure, but it doesn't undo the act on camera. The law doesn't have a loophole for crashing out. Once she realizes the video just slammed the door on her narrative, you can almost watch the psychology shift in real time. This is where displacement shows up. She can't fight her ex-husband anymore. Not without making things worse. So, she transfers the rage onto the deputy and she targets the male officer specifically, accusing him of being in the husband's pocket simply because they're both men. That's projection mixed with powerlessness. She feels controlled in her own home. So, every male authority figure becomes an extension of her ex. Her insults then start going full paradox. She calls the officer a white misogynist, then calls him a racist, despite the fact that both she and the officer appear to be white. It's not coherent. It's frantic. She's throwing every buzzword she can reach like she's spinning a wheel of outrage, hoping one word will force the deputy to back off. It's verbal flailing from someone who realizes she's losing control of the story, and she's trying to win it back with volume. And that's where the grandmother angle comes in. What I'll call the status shield. She keeps yelling, "I'm a grandmother. I have four boys." Like her family resume should override the penal code. That isn't random. It's identity panic. She cannot reconcile her self-image as a matriarch with the reality of being the person in cuffs. That gap creates cognitive dissonance, and the brain hates that feeling. So, it tries to patch it by blaming external forces. The hormones, the lack of sleep, the stress, the ex-husband. She even admits she snapped, which is a real human thing people say when they temporarily lose executive control. But she wants the understanding part without the consequences part. She wants empathy for being overwhelmed while acting like someone who's ready to fight anyone within arms reach. What makes the ending even more frustrating is that the deputies actually lay out the alternatives right there. The female deputy spends real time explaining legal options. an injunction for protection, a restraining order, and the Marchman Act if substance abuse or treatment is part of the picture. In other words, she gives her a road map for how this could have been handled without anyone getting hit. Eviction processes exist, protective orders exist, court remedies exist. None of them are quick or emotionally satisfying, but they don't end with felony footage, either. And that's the tragedy of it. This was a case of legal solutions versus emotional reactions. She let emotion drive the car and it drove straight into the back of a squad car. She wanted to expose her ex-husband as the villain, threatening national TV appearances, named dropping big commentators. Yet, the only clean, undeniable evidence created that night is 4K proof of her own inability to regulate in the moment. It's a sad, chaotic end to a long relationship. And the law's message is brutally simple. Being pushed to your limit can explain your behavior, but it doesn't excuse it. June 24th, 2025. We're at a Publix in Boon Beach. Usually the kind of place where the biggest drama is whether the deli line is moving fast enough. But today, it's chaos. Police respond to reports of a woman outside screaming, refusing to leave, and turning the front entrance into her personal stage. When officers arrive, they find a suspect operating on a completely different frequency. She calls the officers ugly, casually name drops Donald Trump and Elon Musk like they're in her contacts, and then, because, of course, throws a box at them. This isn't just someone having a rough afternoon. This is a full-blown meltdown fueled by entitlement, confusion, and a reality filter that has completely snapped. She claims she's working for Coca-Cola, says she knows Ivanka Trump, insists the officers are disabling her, and somehow demands a hospital without men while screaming for red rum. What starts as a basic trespassing call turns into a felony battery arrest in record time. And it only gets stranger the longer she talks. And look, of course, we've all had moments in public where we felt overwhelmed. Maybe the line is ridiculous. Maybe someone's rude. Maybe it's just one of those days where the universe keeps poking you. But most people don't respond by throwing trash at police and claiming their dad is the president. So, if you're ready to watch someone turn a grocery store tantrum into a multi-charge arrest while referencing Orange Rage and Spider-Man B and getting carried out like a sack of potatoes, hit that like button for moral support because honestly, the level of delusion we're about to witness is going to be exhausting. >> How about you pick UP THE LITTER? NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. GET THE AWAY FROM ME. NOT INTERESTED. CALL TRUMP. YOU'RE THE ONE COMING UP TO ME. I'll >> talk to you. I don't like you. >> Get the away from me. >> Are you doing okay? >> Leave me the alone. I'm not littering. I'm picking up my trash. It's got embarrassing cuz I'm on video. So get the away from me. WHAT'S YOUR NAME? OH, FENDER. >> FENDER. ACTUALLY, >> FENDER like a fish. You look like a flounder. >> All right. Do you need any sort of assistance? >> Stop and get the pick up your garbage. Littering. Now I'm littering. >> Pick up your garbage. >> Funny. How about you take it? You're being disabled. >> I didn't do anything wrong. >> I didn't do anything wrong. >> Stop. >> I didn't do anything wrong. >> I didn't do anything wrong. >> Relax. You need to relax. >> Okay. >> I'm here to talk to you to figure out what's going on. >> Stop. >> And you just threw a box at me. >> I SAID BOX. I did. I threw a box. >> Stop. >> Stop. Stop. Call my uncle. >> What did I do? >> What did I do? >> I didn't do anything wrong. >> I didn't do anything wrong. >> I didn't do anything wrong. Please stop. >> Stop. Please stop. I didn't do anything wrong. Stop. >> Okay, >> relax your arms right now. >> I am trying to. Oh my gosh. >> No, you're not. You're resisting. >> This is hurting me. >> I understand. CALM DOWN. >> OKAY. PLEASE LET ME GO. I'LL TALK to you. [screaming] >> I'm sitting. I'm sitting. I'm sitting. Please, help me. Help. I didn't do anything. I didn't do anything. >> Calm down. GIVE ME YOUR HAND. >> This is very sweaty. >> No. What the I didn't do anything. Please don't. I didn't do anything. I didn't do anything. I bought my food. >> I can't breathe. I didn't do anything wrong. >> You're not >> [screaming] >> They're hurting me. I can't breathe. He's hurting me. >> If you sit up, calm down. >> Elon. Elon. Elon. >> [screaming] [crying] >> Take a breath. [screaming] You need to take a breath. >> You need TO CALM DOWN. ALL RIGHT. >> What the is going on? I didn't do it. >> Stop touching me. >> Copy 663. Normal traffic at 187. She threw a box. >> I didn't throw a box at your face. >> And she said, >> "I bought my food box and I'm walking to find my I'm walking home." Ow. Ow. I live right there in my >> Stop. Take my glasses off. >> TAKE MY GLASSES OFF. DRUGS ARE HURTING ME. >> [screaming] >> Take my glasses off. >> What's your first name? >> They're breaking my >> They're breaking my >> This time I'm going to read your rights. Okay. >> Okay. >> All right. I'm required to warn you before you make any statement that you have the following constitutional rights. You have the right to remain silent and not answer any questions. Any statement you make must be freely and voluntarily given. >> You have the right to the presence and representation of a lawyer of your choice before you make any statement and during any questioning. If you cannot afford a lawyer, you are entitled to the presence. >> Am I getting put behind bars? >> Let me let me finish. >> Please not. >> If you cannot afford a lawyer, you are entitled to the presence and representation of a courtappointed lawyer before you make any statement during any questioning. >> Okay. If at any time during the interview you do not wish to answer any questions, you are privileged to remain silent. I cannot I can make no threats or promises to induce you to make a statement. This must be of your own free will. >> Any statement can be and will be used against you in a court of law. Do you understand your rights as I wrote them? >> Mr. >> Okay. My partners are going to come over here and ask you some questions about >> we got a call about you acting erratically uh knocking banging on car windows preventing cars from leaving. >> You want to shed any light on that? >> Not sure. >> You're not sure? I just like Alex. There was like Alex and I was just trying to get my drinks because I'm trying to >> signal two or 57. >> I haven't got there yet. >> So, I was just buying so >> Have you had any uh narcotics today or any alcoholic beverages? >> No. >> Okay. Have you diagnosed any mental illness? >> Take what? >> What's that for? >> Okay. So, you have a then? >> Okay. >> So, what was the reason that when the officer went to make contact with you, you started acting erratically? >> Cuz I just I've just not been interested in talking to people this like lately. I've just been like isolating myself because I don't like my father. >> Okay. >> And uh I'm like waiting for a while. My mom's the one that dropped me off. >> And you started talking about calling Elon Musk. >> Yeah. Elon. >> Do you know Elon Musk? >> Yes. >> Personally? >> You have his phone number? >> No, not personally, but I just like hypothetically understand. >> I just I was going to walk back. >> Step out. >> Yeah. I'm just going to pat you down real quick just to make sure >> Yeah, if they're just okay. >> Oh, sir. >> Good. >> Have a seat. >> Have a seat. >> I'm sitting down. >> Have a seat up there. What's your name? >> I know Ivanka, too. >> What's that? >> Ivanka. >> What's that? >> It's fine. >> Ivanka Trump. You know Elon Musk and Ivanka Trump? >> Mhm. >> Okay. >> I just want to be able to Can you give me a ride home? I mean, I don't mind walking. >> No, you're under arrest at this point. >> How am I under arrest >> for resisting arrest? >> I didn't do anything wrong. >> I didn't do anything wrong. >> Where's >> I didn't do anything wrong. at work. Please don't do this. Where's >> Mr. Domino? >> I was just trying to buy my groceries and go home. I live right over there. >> I live behind that. Please. I wasn't doing anything wrong. I won't say anything. I just want to leave. Please. >> Please. >> Please. >> Please. I just want to walk back over to where I live. Please, you can call my >> um >> my mom. That was who was dropped me off with my mom. >> My mom dropped me off >> and I would go to a hospital with Fender. >> I don't need to go to a hospital. ELON, >> please let me. I'm so sorry. >> Before we get going, what's your first name? >> All right. Thank you. >> Hey, do me a favor. Turn. Can you turn the clock? Yeah. >> Can you look forward? >> Can you look forward? >> I'm looking forward. >> Okay. Thank you. >> You can ask for a second. >> Swing your feet in. >> I didn't do anything wrong. Look what you guys did to me. >> We're going to go get you some treatment. >> No, I don't need treatment. >> Put your feet in the car. >> I have work. >> Put your legs in the car. Put your legs in. >> I didn't do anything wrong to you. Why are you doing this to me? >> I'm scared. I don't know. >> All right, we're at the hospital. >> We're at the hospital. >> We're at the hospital. Come on. Let's go. [screaming] >> I'M GOING TO THE HOSPITAL. I DON'T NEED TO BE IN THE HOSPITAL. >> I'M HERE TO GET YOUR HELP. Come on. I DON'T NEED HELP. OKAY, LOOK WHAT THEY'RE DOING. >> Come on. >> I don't need help. Thank you very much. I don't need help. >> Okay, I don't need help. >> I don't need help. WAIT TILL WAIT TILL BIDEN HEARS ABOUT THIS. OH, BIDEN. BIDEN. [screaming] Look what they're doing. Wait till they're going to know your name. They're going to know your name. Look what they're doing. They're going to know your name. THEY'RE GOING TO KNOW YOUR NAME. STOP PUSHING ME DOWN. STOP. [screaming] YOU'RE BREAKING MY ARM. ELON. OH. OH. OH, that's Elon. That's the short term for Elon Musk. It's Oh, wait till they hear about Can you Do you mind letting go of my arm? Ow. What the >> Do you mind Do you mind? My shirt's falling down. Do you mind? Do you mind? Stop. I didn't do anything besides go to Publix and get Coca-Cola. >> No, I don't need medical clearance. Thank you very much. You're the one hurting me. I did nothing wrong besides buy Coca-Cola and I'm working for them. >> Yes. Call Coca-Cola. I'm working for them. You're in big trouble. >> Big trouble. Wasn't resisting you at all. wasn't resisting you at all. >> Okay, >> ma'am. Do you have any? >> No, I have no allergies. >> All right. >> I take cuz I get anxiety. >> How tall are you? >> 5'9. >> How much do you weigh? >> I'm about 130 lb. >> Orange. >> Just 14. 54 so far. 215 >> looking at orange. All right. >> How small did you say you are? >> 59. >> And how much you weigh? >> Like 130 lbs. >> Did you take any or drink any? >> Nope. But I've been clean and sober since I've been to >> I'm just going to clean your knee, honey. Okay. >> Um, it's stinging. Can we just >> It's just water. That's all. >> I know. But it's fine. You don't need to clean it. >> Well, we do cuz I have to make sure. >> I didn't do that to myself. >> I didn't do that. It's going to sting. It's going to burn. >> It's literally just water. It's not going to >> I know, but >> it's just water. >> Vitamin B. >> She got the info to register. >> She did. >> Yeah. >> Red rum. >> So, is it >> I don't know if it's e >> Uber. I got Uber. I can take Uber. >> I can take Uber. I got Uber to get myself back. >> Thank you very much. >> We'll just get her bracelet and we'll bring you to a room. >> I don't need a room. I have a room. >> Thanks. >> Really? >> And you said there wasn't like No, no, no, no. Not like that. >> It's code. >> It's code. >> Yeah, it's code. >> Code for what? >> You wouldn't know. >> What? What's the code? Most code. >> Yeah. >> My dad's middle name. President. >> Oh, I got you. Your dad's the president. >> No, but in my family tree. >> Gotcha. Look what they did to me. >> To make sense of what we're watching here, you have to look at that messy overlap where mental health, public disturbance, and police authority collide. From the very first exchange, her speech is chaotic, disorganized, bouncing from topic to topic with random insults and nonsense word choices. She calls an officer Fender, says he looks like a flounder and drifts into this stream of loose associations that doesn't really connect to anything. That word salad style can show up with severe intoxication, but it also shows up with manic episodes where the brain is sprinting and the mouth is just trying to keep up. Then you get the big red flag, delusions of grandeur. The Trump and Elon thing isn't just being dramatic. It's her trying to elevate herself above the situation. In her head, she isn't some random person being asked to leave Publix. She's a connected VIP with a hotline to power. So, when she says, "Call my uncle Trump," she's not joking. That's her attempt to summon a higher authority to override the officers in front of her. Like, she's calling in air support. But here's the problem. The law doesn't care who you say you know. It cares what you did. And the moment she throws that box, the whole situation changes. In Florida, intentionally striking or touching an officer, yes, even with something light like a box, can be charged as battery on a law enforcement officer. Florida statute 784.07. I know some people hear battery and picture a full knockout punch. But legally, it's much simpler. Intentional contact. Throwing an object at an officer counts. And once that line is crossed, the officers aren't dealing with a disruptive person anymore. They're dealing with a suspect who just created a felony situation in real time. After that, the resistance starts stacking, pulling away, dropping to the ground, refusing to walk. Those behaviors usually lead to resisting officer without violence. And she does what a lot of people do when their actions and their self-image collide. She goes straight to I didn't do anything wrong. That's the brain trying to protect itself from the obvious reality. It's cognitive dissonance because it's hard to say I'm the victim while you're also the person who just threw something at police. Now, what makes her especially chaotic is the way she mixes legitimate sounding claims with total nonsense. She screams, "I can't breathe. You're hurting me. I'm being disabled." While officers are doing basic control, holding an arm, guiding movement, trying to keep her from flailing. Sometimes people use those phrases deliberately because they've seen them work online. It's a way to frame the interaction as abuse, especially if bystanders start filming. But in her case, those claims are constantly undercut by the bizarre rambling. Red rum, seessaw, random name drops, and sudden shifts in mood. That's why this doesn't feel like a calculated performance. It feels like someone whose brain is genuinely misfiring, grabbing at anything that might stop the momentum. Her insistence on going to a hospital without men adds another layer. That could be paranoia. It could be trauma. It could be a fear response that's getting amplified by mania or intoxication. The problem is once she's offered help, she fights it, rejects it, and swings back into combative mode, which is exactly how these situations become impossible. Officers can't therapy talk someone into calm if that person is actively escalating and creating safety risks in public. And then we get the missing puzzle piece, the hospital conversation with her mother. The mother confirms a diagnosis of bipolar disorder and a history of not taking medication consistently. That's not an excuse for throwing objects at cops, but it absolutely explains the rapid mood changes, the oppositional behavior, the grandiose claims, and the spiraling logic. It also explains why her mom's reaction is so cold, because family members dealing with severe mental illness often hit a wall of exhaustion. That you're on your own attitude isn't cruelty as much as it is caregiver burnout, years of chaos, broken promises, medication non-compliance, crisis after crisis, and eventually the family's emotional battery is just dead. You can even see flickers of self-awareness in the middle of the mess, like the orange rage line, which sounds ridiculous, but also hints she knows where this is headed. An orange jumpsuit. That's what makes it sad. There's a person in there who for moments can see the consequences coming, but she can't regulate herself enough to stop the train. In the end, this video is what happens when untreated mental illness crashes into the blunt mechanics of law enforcement. The officers actually show a lot of restraint, trying to talk to her, asking about medication, even addressing her scraped knee. But the law is not flexible once you start throwing objects and disturbing the public. At that point, officers aren't just being mean. They're responding to conduct that's unsafe and escalating. She wanted to be working for Coca-Cola and texting Elon Musk. Instead, she ended up facing felony charges and a psychiatric hold. And it's a harsh reminder that the line between eccentric and criminal disappears fast when someone stops taking the meds that keep the guard rails up. December 13th, 2021. Police are called to a public lounge where a woman named Autumn has decided that a common area couch is her new bedroom. This isn't her first rodeo. She's been trespassed from this property before. When officers arrive, they find her deep asleep with skateboarding playing on the TV like it's a bedtime lullabi. What should have been a basic, "Ma'am, we need you to leave turns into chaos fast." And 62. Hello. That's the police department. Hey, you got your ID on you? It's >> not. >> Is it in that purse spot? Champ, >> it's not. >> It is not. >> No, it is not. >> What's your uh first name? >> I'm not here to give out any identities. >> What's your first name? >> I'm not here to any agency, sir. >> Okay, you're talking just fine. Let's talk normal. What's your first name? >> My goodness. I'm here to go. >> No, you're going to tell us your first name. We can do this easy way, hard way. That's up to you. >> We're trying to find out who you are. >> What is your first name, my lady? >> We're trying to make sure you can find out who you are real quick. Okay. If you don't have any warrants or anything like that, then we're good. Why don't you get your first name and all that information? Okay. >> I'm just I just keep not interested in doing that. >> Understandable. But this ain't a bedroom. >> Oh, okay. I'm going to walk to my bedroom. Where's your bedroom? >> I'm not interested in anybody right now. I just woke up from sleep. >> Uhhuh. >> What's your first thing? >> I want you to get home. >> What's that? >> I'm not I don't understand. I'm so sorry. >> Well, you're not free to leave right now. >> Okay. >> So, let's begin with your first name because if So, have you are you familiar what resisting is if you don't give me your information? That is what we call resisting. >> Yes, sir. So, what is your first name, young lady? >> Um, I don't have one. >> Open up your purse and give me your ID. >> I don't have one. >> Hm. >> I don't have one, sir. >> You don't have one? >> No, I actually have to get my ID back today. >> From where? >> My girlfriend's house. >> Okay, then give my officer your first name. >> Nothing. >> Huh? >> No. Give him it now. Are we're going to go in cuffs and we're going to walk downstairs and I'll find out who you are later. >> You said she's been trespassed before by officers and anything. >> You got the case number? >> Yes, sir. I was just contacting my supervisor and it looks like her, too. >> Mhm. >> Okay. 602 dispatch. >> Okay. No, thank you, sir. >> Say what? >> Okay. No, thank you, sir. >> They had the skateboarding on and I fell asleep. I apologize. >> Now they're watching racing. We're just trying to help you make sure you're okay. >> Can you please >> Huh? >> Can you please not sit over me like that? >> I'm I'm not trying to intimidate you or anything, but >> if you live here, why are you sleeping up here on the couch? >> I said I was watching and >> Oh, you're watching You were watching something. >> Oh, okay. >> Oh, this does not. >> Not yet. >> I really No, you're not. >> Okay. Well, I'm going >> No, no, no. Don't stop. >> Please don't touch me. >> Go sit back. Go sit over here. Go sit back over there. Go sit back over there. You're not You're not free to go. Stop. >> Please don't touch me. >> Go sit back over there. >> Please don't touch me. >> Go sit back over there. >> You're not free to go. >> You're not free to touch me. >> Yes, I am. >> Am I being detained? >> Yes, you are detained. You are detained for what? >> For an investigation. Go sit down. >> What type of investigation? >> Let go of me. >> Let go of me. >> Seriously, let go of me. >> Sit down. >> Seriously, if you don't sit down, I'll put you in cuffs. >> Seriously, let go of me. Turn around. Turn around. Stop. Stop. Stop. >> Yeah. >> Stop resisting. Stop. >> Seriously, let go of me. >> No, >> I got you. >> Okay. Why? >> What did I do? >> Just ask the restroom. >> I have to put a rest order on you. >> Sorry. >> Yep. >> Here. room. Would you stop? >> Seriously? Can you guys real quick? >> I just Can I please? >> You just kicked me. It's going to be wondering if I [laughter] can use the restroom. Sir, will you walk me to the restaurant? >> You're under arrest. >> That's definitely not happening. >> So she doesn't try to slip on. >> Now you're going to jail for freaking battery on Elio. >> Double up here. That way. >> Stop. [screaming] Stop. What the [ __ ] You're hurting my knee so bad. >> Stop kicking and stop squirming. >> I just want to use the restroom. Oh [ __ ] >> 755 dispatch 175. >> Stop kicking the restroom. >> You will when you get to go to jail. >> Sure. Please stop. Please get your hands off my ass. PLEASE GET YOUR HANDS OFF OF MY ASS. PLEASE. >> HEY, SORRY. UM, if you got a problem or if somebody else wants to come here with a hobble, she's like kicking us and everything, too. >> Please get your hands off of my ass. >> Please. Please. Please just let me use the restroom. It's all I asked. Holy [ __ ] >> Stop kicking. Okay. >> What is wrong? What can I do? >> Well, you're under arrest for trespassing. You're under arrest for battery on LEO. Now, >> we're going to um just have you write a statement, too, about the previous incident. And then was that >> I mean, it's the restroom. Yeah. >> Seriously. >> Yes, sir. No worries. >> Please. >> Yeah. No worries, sir. We can [laughter] go. >> Please stop. >> Stop. >> Just >> Can you get off of me? >> No. >> Why? >> Because you're kicking us and you're >> Because you're on me. >> Because you're resisting us. >> No. I'm asking if I can do something. Will you walk me? >> No, >> I'm not resisting. >> You are resisting. >> What? >> Why am I going to trust you now when you didn't do what we asked the first time? >> What did you ask? >> To stop kicking us. And what did you do? Keep kicking us. >> You're pathetic. >> I asked you to sit down. You went down. >> Get off of me. >> Get off of me. >> JUST RELAX. >> GET OFF OF ME. >> STOP. STOP. >> Get off of me. >> Stop hitting your head. >> Stop hitting your head into >> Get off of me. You're hurting me so badly. Get off of me. I keep getting down to get off of there. [laughter] [gasps] [laughter] >> Where is my >> Stop. Stop. >> You have no [ __ ] clue. My go Holy [ __ ] bro. Please stop. You're scaring me. Get off my back now. >> STOP. >> STOP. What do you have to do? [screaming] >> Oh, please. Ow. Get off of me. >> She is scratching me, too. >> Get off of me, pathetic piece of [ __ ] Just let me use the restroom. Please stop. [laughter] Why you stop? [laughter] >> Yeah. >> Why are you doing this? >> All I said was I didn't want to sit down. I wanted to use the restroom. That's literally it. I can use the restroom. Get off my back. >> Stop hitting your head against the ground. >> My back. >> Yeah, we'll we'll pick her up. >> Sorry, do that right now. >> You'll have to take her down. >> Yeah. >> Can you grab your head and hit the floor? >> Yeah. >> Somebody's trying to get >> I'll put it here. Um, whatever that is. >> You're hurting me so bad. >> All right. My hands are on your back. You see? >> Stop. Please stop. Ew. Ow. [screaming] Oh my god. >> Get off of me. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Make sure you grab her by underneath her by her shoulders and everything. >> You're not biting. >> You're not trying to bite him. >> No, you're under arrest. >> For what? >> Like >> for what? >> Go underneath her. >> What am I under arrest for is what I'm asking? >> On this side? >> For where? >> Like this. What am I trespassing >> underneath here? He's going to get in the lightings. >> So gross. >> You get that sound? >> Yeah. >> Why are you doing this? >> Cuz you can't behave right. >> All I just to go to the restroom. You guys most >> Yeah. YOU'RE HURTING MY ANKLES. GET UNDER THE WATER. SORRY. >> Why are you asking me like this? This hurts. What did I do? [laughter] >> My flashlight, too. >> Yeah, he's got a flashlight. Cool. Here, >> can you carry me differently? Do you have any idea what you're doing to my body? >> Here, go down the knee. >> Can you please carry me differently? >> Can you walk? Like, >> yeah, I can walk if he doesn't put me on. >> Okay. No, listen. >> Spitting. You're not going to get a chance. You understand? >> Don't spit on him. Stop. >> It's all you. You got a mask for down there. Please stop. >> Set her up. Let it come. Okay. >> Put your feet down. Put your feet down. >> There you go. >> There we go. There we go. There we go. Here. Shut just a little bit. To understand Autumn, you have to start with something I call territorial entitlement. Even though she's in a public lounge, she's mentally upgraded it to her space. That's why when the officers wake her up, she isn't embarrassed. She's irritated. I'm deep sleep, she says, like her nap has diplomatic status. In her head, the couch is hers, the TV is hers, and the people telling her to leave are the ones being unreasonable. This is a pattern you see with repeat trespassers. After enough time crossing boundaries, they stop feeling like boundaries at all. Public and private start blending together until everywhere feels like home. And that entitlement is exactly why she refuses to give her name. "I'm not here to give out any identities," she says. One of those phrases that sounds official if you say it confidently enough, but legally it's just noise. What she's really doing is trying to control the one thing she still can, information. Because she knows the second an officer gets her name, the system is going to light up with the prior trespass warning. And now we're no longer in please leave territory. We're in you already got warned and you came back anyway territory. That's the legal foundation here. Trespassing after warning. Florida statute 810.09. And yeah, I know statute numbers feel like reading the ingredients on a shampoo bottle. Nobody asked for that. But what it means in plain English is simple. If you've already been formally told you can't be on this property, coming back isn't a misunderstanding anymore. It's the crime itself. Autumn isn't getting approached because she's tired. She's getting approached because the property has already drawn a line and she stepped right over it. Once officers have that lawful basis, the stop changes. At that point, they're not just making conversation. They're investigating a crime and trying to identify the person committing it. And that's where her my ID is at my girlfriend's house line becomes more than a story. It becomes a stalling tactic. She tries to play a word game. I don't have one, meaning she doesn't have a physical card on her. But the law doesn't require you to produce plastic out of thin air. In a situation like this, officers can still demand identifying information and refusing to provide it can slide into resisting officer without violence. Florida statute 843.02, even if you never swing a punch. It's basically the legal version of you don't get to freeze the situation by refusing to participate. Then comes the bathroom request, and this is where experienced officers immediately get cautious. People watching at home sometimes think, "Why not just let her go real quick?" Because the bathroom isn't just a bathroom during a detention. It's a controlled environment turning into an uncontrolled one. Doors lock, hands disappear, evidence disappears, people hurt themselves, people run. It's one of the oldest ways to create a break in control and force officers into a bad position. So, when the officers deny it, they're not being cruel. They're doing the boring, unglamorous part of policing, preventing the next problem before it happens. Autumn's response to that denial is what seals her fate. The moment she escalates from verbal refusal to physical resistance, kicking, thrashing, scratching, this stops being a difficult person and becomes a person committing new crimes in real time. That's where resisting with violence, Florida Statute 843.01, and battery on a law enforcement officer, Florida Statute 784.07 come into play. And here's the tragedy. She didn't walk into that lounge facing felonies. She created felonies by turning every lawful instruction into a personal insult she had to fight back against. All because she couldn't tolerate hearing the word no. During the struggle, she runs a familiar psychological play. Darvo, deny, attack, reverse victim, and offender. She kicks and fights, then immediately screams that she's the one being hurt. "You're hurting my knee," she yells while resisting the exact actions needed to safely control her. She even throws out lines like, "Get your hands off my ass." to sexualize the encounter and plant the idea that something inappropriate is happening, hoping it makes officers hesitate or makes bystanders second guessess what they're seeing. It's not random panic. It's a manipulation style that tries to turn accountability into controversy. And if you're wondering why the officers respond the way they do, it's because they're climbing the force ladder in real time. They start with commands. They try physical guidance. When that fails and she starts kicking, they have to secure limbs and control her movement. When she refuses to walk, they don't drag her. They use a twoperson carry. It looks dramatic, but it's often safer than pulling someone across the floor while they're fighting and twisting. And when she begins spitting, the spit mask isn't punishment, it's protection. Nobody is obligated to take bodily fluids to the face as part of their job. By the end, Autumn stacks up the worst possible combo for a situation that started unbelievably small. trespassing, resisting, and battery. And the body cam wipes out every narrative trick. It captures the difference between I'm being mistreated and I'm actively attacking people. She wanted to sleep on a couch in a lounge. Instead, she earned a bed in jail because she treated basic cooperation like surrender, and she treated lawful authority like a personal enemy.