oh God here she is am sit down you I piss you I piss you are you going to calm down so I can talk to you like a normal human being oh you g Jesus Christ best of body cam randomly saying that in unsatisfying way this is going to be a nightmare uhoh guys angry mother's behavior during wellness check gets her arrested and the top comment on this has 7,000 likes and it says clearly the guy is just scared of his wife and she runs that house yeah is your wife okay yeah she's a migraine re bad migraine okay is she sleeping or she sleeping yeah okay can I talk to her or do you mind waking her up um she's well she when she gets them she took medication you she took a couple of tablets so okay yeah so just let her sleep you me cuz you wake her up for me I just want to talk to her um Let me let me try you officer okay let me see okay I don't know what happened before this to bring the officers to the house but if they're saying you need to wake your wife up this is not good come in yeah you can thank you oh sorry officer she sleep sorry not really no am I like a too much of a fearful law-abiding citizen that like if I'm asleep and my husband comes and says that the the police are here for any reason like I would be like oh [ __ ] T like yes I would get up because well that's me assuming I probably I don't think I've done anything but like even if I have this I'm still like yeah the officer are here I need to talk to the officer to follow the the law say she's had a bad migraine you know does she need an ambulance then cuz this girl was very concerned and she drove up on a curb and picked up your child it's very concerning oh I I know no I think she's fine so maybe she was drunk okay I need you to wake her up huh I need you to wake her up uhoh I I can hear her speaking to you she's she she's just she just took some M she has bad my all the time so okay you keep telling me that but I can hear her speaking to you upstairs oh yeah but she's just so to me this tells me you guys are hiding something from me oh I'm not I'm promise you I'm not hiding okay then she needs to come down and speak to me okay come on oh God here she is hello hello how are you wonder why you're here well the school called us oh my God she's so aggressive from the jump they were very concerned with you picking up your daughter today so you drove up onto the curb you didn't talk to them or anything was something going on today why why would you be driving like that um I didn't I didn't did not drive up into the curb so I have no idea that thing that you're here to talk about that took a lot of effort for you to stand up and and and bring to my attention that didn't happen so do what that you will youing loser you don't know why they would call us no idea okay what were you doing today prior to picking up your daughter you didn't do anything no I've been here coming to go most of the day yeah is she drunk am I black yes she's wasted that's also why they pulled up was cuz she went to go pick up her kid from school and she was very clearly drunk so the school called the police on her so that's why they were so adamant about bringing her downstairs is there a reason why you're so stumbly or I'm what excuse me just stumbling around wow I'm stumbling that posture and everything like I always think about this in terms of kids is really like gross when she talks to people like if okay if I'm talking to you like I should be like dead center here maybe if you're taller like I'm looking up a little bit or something like that but like what she does is she like postures her neck up while she's talking to you and she's I did what it's so condescending you're just very off balanced it seems like oh I'm not I'm not off balanced excuse me I know but like you're asking me that I'm off balance I'm not off balance and also she's willing to come to the officer like this imagine the stuff she says to her family behind closed doors like this how she coming at the officer normally the manipulators they're like what officer sorry my husband's a dumb didly doooo Pop um what did you say I do well I didn't do that so you can go now bye Mr Officer well D officer what did I do I'm okay not doing a very good job right now are you think about how life-changing it would be if you knew that your parent didn't have it all together the way that they portrayed it like what like and it's just not possible right you can't like at 12 have a healthy acceptance that your mom is trying but like doesn't have it all together right you just you just think that they're like so perfect and when they're like not perfect at all it's very complicated I just had to come here to ask you some questions that's all okay yeah that's it okay get off oh my God the tone what do you do about a woman that's staring at you like this she looks like goddamn the principal and Matilda it's such a weak tactic because you can see it you know like if you don't call this Behavior out you feel it you feel somebody looking at you like a bug but when you see it it's like oh the thing that you're doing that hurts me so much is you're just putting your hand on your hip and raising your nose up that ain't doing girl who call I told you the school call she's looking for somebody to blame School call it's not about you I'm sure you're a nice person o new tactic your heart but cont train hi Holly do you want to go talk to them for a second thanks oh my God you make me sick I'm sorry I make you sick I don't you do because the tools that these people use when you just like see them just and they're not affecting you personally aren't they so silly can I explain something to you from my perspective what I get a call from a school who you drove up on a curb and picked up daugh the school tried to talk to you and you didn't speak to the school I get that didn't happen though okay I have pictures of what you did to the curb I had pictures from the school I went to the school first and then when you came home when somebody starts going into that didn't happen L you tell them what the concern is and they say well that didn't happen and then you say Well it did happen and they say well it didn't happen you're at a standstill right there right cuz either you try to convince them that it happened and then you're exhausted cuz you're trying to pull them back into reality in these moments I think if you get to the standstill of this is what happened that didn't happen yes it did no it didn't then you say okay well that happened and then you continue your line of thought as though it really did happen because it did happen right so don't try to convince them it happened just continue to talk as though it happened because it did happen and eventually it's so miraculous they will join you they don't know how to fight back when they want to defend their delusions because they're so not based in reality but if you lead them down the path of well you did and here's what happened and you just keep going and you refuse to accept anything else as fact it's like you're taking their own tactic they will walk with you and it's like actually so funny because they're stupid does this make any sense at all did you pick up your daughter from school today yeah like you do all the time yeah okay so what happened today where you would drive up onto a curve okay so you were telling me that I did something horrible no you drove up on a curb no but you like um you so horrible um school so now he should just continue with this the story because she's engaging with it she kind of is and then he should just be like yeah well you came to the school and you drove up on a curb you're clearly like inebriated and people saw you and so they called so what do you have to say for yourself when you walk care about you let me speak okay when you walk down the stairs you almost fell down I not fall down I'm not a idiot okay I'm not calling you I said almost down you almost I am not a an idiot I'm not calling you one just breathe You're A Yank you're a and that's all you are I'm sorry do you want to sit down you know what's so sorry about you why because because when when things really happen your country can't do your country can't do I'm be like okay call Biden like I don't know you are me to do breathe into this and shut up other officer told you that the school called us about why for what reason I have no [Music] idea the manipulator always wants you to try to convince them of their bad behavior remember that you're trying to convince them that something happened you're trying to convince them that they really did it or you're trying to convince them that they hurt you and they're like what are you going to get no I don't want that I don't want that and then you think you're coming into the conversation so honestly Oh My Sweet Summer child they don't care about your feelings they don't and they're going to ddge anything I did what what tell me how give me an example they want home did nothing wrong okay that's just what they told us we're not saying you did anything wrong that's why we're talking that you supposedly were Jesus Christ hold on stay here she she oh down you okay I don't give a all right let's take her in mon your daughter right there I did nothing to you I mean you just pushed them so I don't give a your daughter is right there why are you acting like this right now do you want can I do I do something wrong you just pushed him I think um a crappy mom should get scolded by by officers in front of the child so the child knows that the mom is bad sometimes that would be life altering for me I'm Irish I'm Irish to you are not Irish because you Irish this wouldn't happen so don't come up to me say Petty with your little my green shirt don't ever come up to me St Patrick's stay and say you're Irish don't ever do it don't ever do it because an Irish person would never do this okay okay I I can I have no idea what happened when somebody switches from being aggressive to being defensive to crying to laughing to being angry again to crying again this is this is an emotional instability right and part of reason that I think this is because uh our extreme emotions like sadness rejection hurt or anger or you know hurt whatever sometimes people end up covering up those emotions with other emotions when you get nervous you cover it up with humor when you get when you're sad really sad you cover it up with extreme anger so what happens is in a conversation like this this is triggering for you you go from your anger which is your cover up to somebody says something and then the real emotion comes out and then you go back to your default of anger and then now you're nervous and so now you're laughing and she's on an emotional roller coaster because her true emotions are mismatch to like her cover up emotions I sweared at you because when someone talks me he didn't talk I didn't touch you you touch me okay you want you want to go with them don't you go okay you have no Irish in you do you we're back to the nationalism that matter because not no it does matter because he has nothing in it okay I don't know what you have but she pushed me so I want to 95 her you do yeah let's do it put good F by me so why are you in my house get what happened no did you just push my officer she did oh my God turn around said turn around you're under spattering a police officer told you can't put your hands on me are you fuing kidding me I'm not kidding you stop can you can you push your hand back father this is one of my favorite energies all right and I'll be real it's always a white lady and I feel like y'all have met this person before she got the cap or the sunglasses on or something and she always says like in the lightest voice like okay you want to tell me what's going on like but she's she's so serious and she means business it's always the same exact type of lady and you trust her with your life you know you really do I'm just going take her in this what you do to people don't get p [ __ ] taxes I can't believe you do this can't believe you pushed me too I pushed you I push you oh I'm mother the rest for pushing you let go mying hands I that okay that not Not only was that embarrassing this also screams to me about a very sexist Dynamic where she will push somebody she physically assaulted somebody it doesn't matter what the degree of it is afterwards right and then it's a man so she then belittles him for quote not being able to take it that's basically what she's doing right now like Oh I pushed you so that's why I think about these Dynamics with like her kid or her husband or something because this definitely happens in the home she's like oh you can't you can't take me pushing you like you've done something wrong and that's up are you going to calm down so I can talk to you like a normal human being oh you G I was going to tell you if she's being problematic turn your body camera up or this yeah I'm keeping eye until we get her in there a I was supposed to have you only turn it on sometimes you're a liar who did I B her who did I owe you you prank and me you're nothing but a bastard listen now you can take your focus off him cuz you I can not B him cut out my I did not batter him bed me I never tou oh I battered you oh my God I was losing it for a minute and she really brought me back with that switch up did I B you did I B you drunk you tell me you can't understand this conversation oh my god dude you R of alcohol they're doing a really good job of dealing with her like like truly like they're not giving her anything to hang on to where she like has any power she's just like losing it police officer back to you you need to come out of the car I'm not getting out of the car no then you're going to be dragged out of the car I'm too scared you're I'm too scared to get out of the C come on because you're you're you're [ __ ] I okay we're [ __ ] that's fine I like when she switches up I'm not get out the car we're on camera I'm not get out the car listen are are you going to get out the car or no um not I'm looking on in the car until someone brings me home okay listen you bring me home there's two options you hear me out there's two options you get out the car we take those dude Far Cry from where we started with that little smug chin up nose up look Far Cry guys and you get in you get out of here okay or going take me home I I I want her anywhere near me I don't want that [ __ ] anywhere near me all right if I walk that any you to me I talk to you but I will not talk to her I don't want to see that [ __ ] again well she's going to be here for the moment oh she wants a little power aggravated battery to an officer 2x which she deserved misdemeanor reckless driving endangering the life of a child and resisting SL obstructing an officer and you know what if she does it again call them the again bro there ain't nothing worse than being a wear and being picked up by a drunk parent that sucks