He started throwing stuff like that at me. Can we just go over there? It's kind of narrow here. Yeah, I I'll take Shoved me in the wall a couple times. Okay. Have you been drinking a lot more lately? I I I see it. What are you doing? What are you doing? What are you doing? On January 16th, 2025, police responded to a home after reports of a domestic disturbance involving a woman and her current or former boyfriend, Cody. When officers arrived, they found Cody visibly intoxicated and highly agitated. The officers separated both parties and began speaking with each of them individually. It's a rough day. Cody, real quick, my priority is just to make sure you don't have weapons, man. No weapons on you? All right, just don't reach for it, man. Throw that other hand up on the table for me. I appreciate you. Can we just go over there? It's kind of narrow here. Yeah, I I'll take What's going on? Okay, well On my way home from work, he called me, asked me if I was hungry. No. Not hungry. So, I'm just tired. Cuz we were up last night until 12:30 arguing. Yeah. And I waited for him to come home so at least I could go to bed seeing him. Yeah. He was mad cuz I didn't want to eat the food he brought home. Okay. I said, "I'm not hungry." Yeah. He said a whole bunch of stuff. Called me names, called me whatever, told me I was cuz I didn't want to eat. >> Yeah. I said, "I'm just going to bed." Came in here, shut the door, said, "Good night." And then He stormed into the bedroom violently, threw a lamp and cans of drinks, and scattered food all over the kitchen while she was simply trying to get him [music] to leave her home. There's food all over the kitchen cuz he was mad at me for leaving. >> that? Did he hit you with that? >> It went over my head and hit the mirror. And it all fell over there. Um Shoved me in the wall a couple times. Okay. Cuz I wouldn't He said I had my phone, which at the time I didn't. It was out there. Had you called 911 at this point? Okay. >> Um I didn't call 911 till he cleared the counter and there's a glass tray that I heard break. I don't know if it was the window or what. >> Okay. Um So, sorry, let's pick up. He pushed you in the wall a couple times? >> let me leave. He kept telling me to leave. He said, "Just leave my house." And he's your husband? No. Oh, who is it? >> even live here. Who is it? >> boyfriend, kind of ex-boyfriend. >> Okay. He used to live here. Yeah. Put his stuff out. All of his stuff's at his mom's. None of his stuff's here other than what he's wearing right now. Okay. I just asked him to leave. >> Yeah. How did he get here? Did he walk or did he drive? No, drove. Is your car here? The white truck is his. What's going on today? This has been going on for a while. I I lost my job. Sorry to hear that, man. I lost it cuz I I couldn't get up at like When did that all happen? A little over a week. Where were you working? Midwest Transit. I got you. How long were you there for? 10 months. It was a lot of stress. I used to work work it over at First Student with with her. So, you got a lot going on. Yeah. What uh what happened tonight? It all just kind of came to a head? I just feel like I like I can't get up at like Mhm. You know? I get it. Is that your wife? It's my wife? No. Girlfriend? Girlfriend. I got you. How long have you guys been together? 6, 7 years or so. So, you guys been together a while. Yeah. Have you started looking into any new gigs? This is all a new thing to me. Then I go Uh you don't have to say nothing. You can ask him. He knows the whole story. Okay. What I I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm a good friend with Beth and I'm not sitting here judging you, man. I mean, it's it's hard being a >> don't want to be judged. It's it's hard being an adult. It's hard being a man, especially when you you got to provide and all that stuff. So 32 years old and here I am. Yeah, it's tough. And you said anxiety was the big cause of leaving there? Are you taking medication for it at all? Yeah. All right. Yeah. Is that doing the trick? How long have you been on the anx- Been years. Years? Does it usually curb it or is it just recently it's just all the stress is just kind of pulling through it? If you lost your job, how would you feel? >> No, I'm I'm with you, brother. I'm not Trust me. I'd be at I'm not trying to be rude. >> No, no, no. I I got three babies, man. I I get it. It's stressful. It's stressful when you're a provider in the home, you know? It's all on your shoulders. You ain't got no one to back you up. You know, it's just you and you. So, I get it, man. I'm not I'm not judging you. It's just Just like Tristan said, he I'm not here to help you. You're on your own. Well, well, we're here to help you tonight. Everyone has their low points, man. That's why we can come out, we can >> to take me away? We ain't going to take you nowhere. But I I I I just I I feel I just feel bad for everything I've done. Have you been drinking a lot more lately? I I see it. I like my bourbon, too. >> Nope. But >> Yes, I have. Nope, I haven't. I just I noticed that you've been you've been picking it up lately. You've been Last time it was just a couple of six-packs, now you got a bottle with you. No, I've always been a I've always been a whiskey drinker and What did you say to your wife after what you did to her? Or your girlfriend, what you did to her first? We need to have a discussion about that. And then we need to have a discussion about you saying you want to kill yourself. And everything that you said along with it. That you're going to make her write a note, say that it was her fault that you killed yourself. After you got done questioning her around and throwing stuff at her. She's got marks and bruises all over from your actions. So. She doesn't have marks. Yes, she absolutely does, man. Don't sit here and [ __ ] me. I'm not going to play the nice guy like this guy's like this gentleman's doing right now cuz that pisses me off. You should be ashamed of your actions. You should be ashamed of yourself. Oh, okay. So. You're going to sit here. You're going to talk to the paramedics and they're going to decide if you need to go to the hospital or not. You don't have a choice. I have no choice. >> You have no choice. Can I go about that? Yep. Okay. Let's go. What are you doing? What are you doing? What are you You got that off. All right, guys, don't worry about it. We're good. We'll get it. Don't We'll be all right. Chill out, big guy. >> Chill out, man. Chill out. Chill out, brother. I got Chill out, man. Chill out. Hey, stop. You hurt? Nope. All right, big guy. Look. >> [music] >> You better find some big room in that. Relax, man. Relax. Chill out, man. Relax. So, real quick >> [laughter] >> if I could just get a picture You got a mark on your chest. Where did that come from? He shoved her against the wall multiple times, leaving visible bruises and marks on her body, including her arms and chest. Can you just take that off for a sec? What was that from? That's You got shoved in the wall? What about this arm? So, I know you explained it to him already. So, just kind of run me through. Grant you 34 in the tank. Why don't you let the cuffs off? Go, let's try to sit him up. I don't want I don't want to hurt Gary. When he was informed that he would be taken to the hospital, he resisted the officer's orders and attempted to become combative, forcing them to restrain him with handcuffs after a brief struggle. Oh, this is just lovely. He wants No, he wants to be a wet noodle. You're breaking my wrist. Well, that's your [ __ ] fault, homie. Okay, give me Give me 1 sec. Give me 1 sec. 1 sec. Let me stand at least. Stand the [ __ ] up. Oh, there you go. Cody, you got to relax, man. Relax. There you go. Now chill out. No more kicking and [ __ ] Sit back. He was then handed over to paramedics and transported by ambulance for further medical and mental health evaluation. Yeah, okay. We might put the leg ones on. What I said I'd get a spider? He said can we comes behind him. 159 066