On July 28th, 2024, officers responded to reports of domestic disturbance at a hotel. >> This is her. She's saying that they got into an argument and he grabbed her, pushed her out of the room. >> Okay. >> Um, he's up there now throwing all sorts of stuff. I haven't made contact with her, filling out a statement. She does not wish to press charge, but they are dating. So, >> okay. How long have they been together? >> How long you guys been together? >> A year. >> A year. >> You guys live together? No. Well, we're in a long distance relationship. >> Okay. He has been dating for a year, though. >> Yes. >> Do you guys have any kids together? >> No. >> Did you check her see if she has any marks? >> No. Yeah. >> Did you He said you put He pushed you. >> Yeah. He pushed me out of the room. >> Okay. Like he put his hands on you? >> Yeah. >> Where at? >> On my arm. >> Okay. Do you have any marks or anything? >> No. >> Do you mind just putting your hands out for me? >> No. Just put them out right here like that. >> Flip them over. >> I can tell you the story. So, we were outside last night. We got into real quick. Last night we got into an argument and he was outside and he's texting me like, "Oh, I'm talking to this other girl right now. I'm about to go out on the boat with her. I'm not paying any of him." I'm like, "Yeah, whatever. You're probably sitting out at the pool." Cuz he's constantly texting me like, "You're talking to another girl, but you're >> texting me for an hour straight, but you're talking to another girl." Whatever. So then whatever. So we got over that. Blah blah blah. We had a great day today. So then we're outside just now and he's like, "Oh, uh, yeah. So, I was about to go out with that other girl last night. And I'm like, "Wait, I thought you were just saying that to spite me. You know what I mean? You were really talking to another girl last night." He's like, "Oh, no. Yeah, I was. >> I was going to go out. I was going to sleep at her room last night." >> I said, "Okay, well, we're done then." >> Yep. >> I walked upstairs. That's all I said. I walked upstairs. I got into the shower. Started getting in the shower. Whatever. >> He came in the room and I hear he's like pounding on the bathroom doing open the door. Whatever. Whatever. this office, oh blah blah blah, we're leaving. As soon as we get back, we're we're done. Blah blah blah, whatever. I see taking a shower and I hear all this like crashing. So I come outside. I come out into the room or whatever. Excuse my language. And I'm like, "What's going on?" He's like, "Oh, we're done. We're done. Get the call the cops." He's like, "Call." And he took my arm and pushed me >> out the door. >> Mhm. >> And here I am. >> Okay. Did at any point, this is just questions that we asked. Did you put your hands on him at all? No. It was just a verbal argument. And then he said, "Get he pushed you out the door." >> He didn't say, "Get my" I said, "I'm calling the I" I came out of the bathroom and all of my stuff is all over the floor. Like literally all over the floor. And I'm like, "I'm calling the cops." He said, "Go ahead, call the cops." And shoved me out the door. >> All right. >> I'm like, okay. So, here I am. Like, I don't know what else to do besides call the cops. I don't have my phone. I'm not I'm in another state. What do you want me to do? >> No, this is what you should have done. Did he Did my partner already get your ID or no? >> I It's upstairs. >> I just got out of the shower. >> No, no worries. No worries. Just work on filling that out. Okay. >> Is he going to be combative when we go up there, do you think? Or >> possibly. >> Again, >> no, we want honest truth. Like what? You know him. We don't know how. >> I do know him and he's combative when >> has this ever happened between you guys before? Like any type of like altercation like this happened between you two? >> Yes. Yes. Okay. >> Where is Where's your ID out of >> Where is it? >> Is it out of Florida or >> Oh, out of New Jersey. >> Out of New Jersey. >> Hey, can you just hang tight right here, >> sir? Right here. >> Wait. Right here. >> We are investigating something right now. You're staying here with us. Okay. >> Stay right here. Stay right here. You're staying right here. I'm not asking you cuz I don't care. >> Why you fool? Turn around. Why you fool? >> Turn around. Put your hands. Let go. >> You're being detained at this time. Okay. All I want to do is you want to take me. >> We just told you we were investigating something and you were not >> investigating what? >> Stop. Stop. I'm pulling you. >> Stop. >> Stop. Okay. >> Really? >> Really? >> Really? >> You feel me detaining? You feel me pulling from you? Am I pulling from you? >> You were. Yes. >> No, I wasn't. >> Yes, you were. >> No, I wasn't. >> Okay. >> What do you want? I just want to >> We're here investigating domestic violence. >> She's There's no domestic violence. She did this. >> We don't know. We showed up, right? We tell you to stop and you just keep walking out the door. >> You see me leaving. >> Okay. But when I'm telling you to stop cuz I'm investigating something and you just keep walking off. Okay. So, you're detained until we figure out what's going on cuz we're investigating it. Don't know what's going on. We're here to figure it out. >> So, when you start walking off when we tell you to stay, this is what happens. >> Is that my right? >> No. You're being detained. We are investigating it. Crime. >> I'm asking you right now, is that my right that I can walk? >> Not right now. No, it is not your right. You can't detain you for what now? What are you doing? >> We are investigating domestic violence. >> Your domestic violence claiming that you pushed her and threw her out of the door. I don't know what happened. I haven't heard your side of the story. But when you start walking off from me, when I'm telling you to stay, when I'm giving you a lawful command to stop and you continue to go, this is what happens. >> Okay? So, let's all take a step back. Let's calm down. Let's listen to your story. Listen, at this time, you're being detained right now. You're not under arrest. >> I hear it. I know I'm not under arrest. >> You're just being detained. I know. I know right now that this is not something that's supposed to be done right now. If you take your arm off, you take your hand off you. No, I'm not because of what just happened right here. I'm not taking my hand off of you. >> Not until we all just >> All I can say is this, that she >> disrespected me. >> Okay. Well, that's what we're here for. We're here to get your Can I speak, please? >> Yes. Speak to my partner right here. Explain to me what happened. >> So, me and her was in the room. >> She disrespected me. I paid for our trip to come down here. >> Okay. She feel like, oh, um, because I don't this I'm not respecting her. She going to do what she want to do right now. For real. I decided I wanted to leave. But you see, I'm doing right now. And you're doing this to me because I choose to leave. >> We This is happening because when we told you to stop, you continued to walk out the door and we told you stay and you just kept. >> I just feel like my legal right is you have no legal right to stop me from walking because you didn't. >> We are investigating a crime. We have the legal right to detain you when you start walking off. >> Yes, I hear you, sir. But hear me for a second, though. If I'm legally walking and I have my luggage with myself, legally leaving cuz I want to leave. I don't want to entertain none of this situation. >> It doesn't matter if you want to entertain or not. We're here to investigate it. Now, so you are going to you're going to stop when we give you a lawful order to stop. >> This is what happens when you refuse it. Okay? >> Do something. Ask me the question what you want cuz I ain't do no crime. I ain't break no laws. So, hurry up. You you got to do what you for ask me your questions cuz I definitely going to be released from this cuz I ain't break. >> Okay, that's fine. So, start from the gimming. Tell me what happened. What happened that led us to get up here? >> Okay, so she disrespected me. I pulled her down here. >> What does disrespect you mean? >> Can I tell you? Yeah, tell me. Stop talking, please. >> And I will tell you. >> Tell me. >> So, me and her was in a room just now. She slapped me. She disrespected me. She told me, "Oh, I'm not listening to you anymore." So I packed my things to leave. She came downstairs and >> now in front of my face right now because me >> I wanted to legally leave peacefully. And I'm I'm sitting here like this with her on my arm right now like this. >> Yes. >> For leaving peacefully. Peacefully. Why you think I feel like this right now? For leaving peacefully. And y'all detaining me like this. And the person that harmed me is the person in there. >> All you had to do is stop and talk. How about How about this? How about this? I'm pressing charges right now for her slapping. >> Do you put some cuffs on her, please? Do you put some cuffs on her, please? Yes, she slapped me. I tried at least peacefully. >> Where she slapping? >> Left or right? >> Left. >> Left. >> Left. This side right here. Go grab her, please. Go grab her, please. You might not see it because I She didn't slap me too hard, but yes, she physically harmmed me and I left off the run. >> Okay, Dad. >> And she ain't going to take I didn't touch her either. >> You never touched her at all? >> Nope. Okay. >> Nope. I just physically grabbed my things and just came outside, try to get in my car and try to go to the airport and leave and go back home peacefully. >> Okay. Now, wow. I bring my license back over here, put it in my pocket, and let go. For real, I'm trying to tell you right now, I don't got no warrants. I ain't got no problems. I ain't been locked up. I do I do nothing wrong. I make sure I pay my taxes and I do just like just Okay. Okay. >> All right. Stop. >> Yo, >> stop. We're not >> with you. But we're not doing that. Stop. >> Can you stop though? Right now >> my right now for real. >> That's fine. My I'm saying >> that's fine. >> Yes. I was you hurting me for no reason. >> What you just >> Stop. >> Calm down. >> Stop. >> I'm hurting for no reason. I did nothing. >> I'm pulling away. Calm down. >> I have been leaning. Stop leaning up and stop pulling away. >> I'm not leaning. I'm just sitting still and I'm still hurting. >> My thing. Go ahead. >> Yeah. Let him go. >> Let him go. >> Oh, your license is suspended, too, man. >> Yeah. Yeah. Let him go. I guess you could drive. >> Yeah. Let him go, though. You get Eva. Let him go though. >> Let him go though. Nothing. >> Nothing. >> Nothing. Let him go. >> Place him under arrest. Let's move on with it. >> Arrest? Yes, sir. >> For what? You're under arrest for dating violence, battery, and for resisting arrest. >> I never resisted arrest. >> Offer. I just watched you do it. >> I said, >> "Oh my god." Stop right there for a second. >> Really? >> And I'm pulling away. >> So, what are you arrested me for then? >> The resisting would be failure to follow law commands when you're being told you were detained and for reaching in your pocket after being ordered not to. >> Violence would be for shoving your long-term girlfriend who you're in relationship with. That would be it. I never shoved her and I reached in my pocket. I give you my ID. >> No, you did not. You said I pocket my do not reach in your pocket >> and we told you no. >> And you continue to reach in your pocket >> and therefore you are under arrest. >> Okay. Again, like I said, >> put your feet in the car. >> I'm going to say again, >> they're properly spaced. Put your feet in the car. Get in the car. >> Can you listen to me for one second, please? >> I'm listening. I just adjusted your cuffs and double locked them. >> They are still hurting me right now. Okay. When we get to the station, if you chill, I will put you in a belly belly chains and shackles. >> But right now, this is what you have to be in until you get transported to the station. >> I have no problem trying to get you better situated. >> The man was charged with battery and resisting arrest. Share your thoughts in the comments below. Don't forget to like and subscribe for more content like this.