Hi. I'm Deputy Wons Meyer. Are you on the phone with our dispatch center? You can hang up the phone, okay? Do you have an ID on you? Um What's going on today? He kicked me, though. Okay. He just put his hands on me and then like I put my hands on him. And then yeah. Okay. Where'd this all occur? His apartment. Where's his apartment? Just right over there. Okay. >> Then he called the police on me, too, because >> What's the phone number for you? >> [snorts] >> Are you injured at all? Um no, I don't think so. So your address is in your address? >> No. What's your address over there? Or no. Like my address or >> Yeah, your address. So you don't live over there, he lives over there? Uh well, I did live over there. Okay. All right, just me and you, I'll be right back with you. She said she lived over there. Then she gave me an address. What's up? Um they got into a physical fight at the address over here. Hello, Deputy Stein with the Sheriff's Department. What are you injured at all? No, I don't think so. Okay, do you have a need for rescue to come check you out at all? No. Okay. What happened? Um he kicked me out and then he didn't put his hands on me and I put my hands on him. Okay. When you say that, right, I can kind of depict what happened, but what specifically? What I guess what led to the argument? >> the the dresser drawer and then he picked me up and started like throwing me on the bed and started like pushing me down and stuff and then like I started kicking him to get me off. Okay. What what caused the argument or what Cuz he kicked me out. Okay, so he just woke up on the wrong side of the bed and he said you got to get out? >> Yeah, he said he needs space. Okay, he told you to get your stuff and get out. And then what happened? Oh, and then I just started packing my stuff and then I started slamming doors and he got mad at me for that. Okay, so you were slamming stuff just like frustrated or >> Yeah, like just like dresser drawers like Okay. While grabbing your stuff. >> but like Closing them hard. Closing them yeah, like Okay. And he didn't like that. No. And what did he do? That's when he grabbed me and then started throwing me on the bed and then Like from behind you? >> Yeah, like or like he grabbed me like this and then like up and then like grabbed me and then threw me and then um I started kicking him and stuff. To get him off. Okay. Cuz he was like he was on top of me and then like there was another time I slammed the door again and he like grabbed me like by my back of my arms and then like picked me up and threw me again. Okay. On the floor or on the bed? >> again. Okay. Um Are your arms anywhere else? Do you have notice any injuries or anything to them? >> I think Well, I'm not seeing [music] any redness or anything. I'm not saying that it didn't happen, but um the mark on your neck, what do you know what that's from? I don't know. I have no idea. Okay. I don't know what that is. Did he grab your neck or anything at any time? >> Yeah, he like choke hold me like with like Were you able to breathe? Yeah. Okay. Did it cause you pain at all or was it just more like trying to pull you away from him? >> I was like well I was pulling away at the same time so like Okay, so kind of like he trying to control you, you trying to get away from him and >> Yeah. Okay. All right, you sure you don't need a rescue or anything? Okay. Did you do anything other than kick him to get you to get away or get off of him? Um yeah, after I slapped him. Okay. When did you slap him? At what point? >> I don't remember. I know it was after like after he got off of after he got off me I slapped him. Okay. >> Cuz why are you touching me like Yeah, yeah. Mhm. I don't know. Okay. So it was after you were closing doors. Yeah. I'm just going to reiterate what you told me but you woke up in the morning he said that I need space, told you to start packing your stuff. You guys had argument about the moving out part. Yeah. You proceeded to get all of your stuff it looks like it's in your car for the most part. >> Yeah. But while packing you were just closing things. He didn't like that. In order to stop you from pushing or closing things shut he grabbed you from behind threw you on the bed. Somehow now you rolled over on your back and started kicking him off to get you off. >> Yeah, I like >> Did he get off of you then? He a little bit or like for not for a little bit he didn't but then after I kicked him in the neck he did. Okay, so you kicked him in the neck but to get him off of you. >> Yeah, yeah. And then you stood up slapped him. Yeah. And then proceeded to continue to pack things. >> And then I started slamming doors again and then he got mad again and started grabbing you. >> grabbing me again and threw me again. Okay. Nothing else after that you were able to get your stuff get it out to the car. I kept asking him what I did wrong. Okay. How long have you guys lived together? Like a month. Okay. Or two. You guys have any kids together? No. Okay. Have you lived together with him before this? No. Okay. Where are you currently? Where would you be going? What's >> My mom's house. >> Where does mom live? Yeah. Okay. What's the phone number for you? For me? Uh Bailey Ann, is that correct? Yes. Okay. Or just B. You go by just Bailey? Yeah. Okay. Was there anybody else there? No. Just the two of you? Or was it like somebody's mom or My best friend was on the phone with me. Or well, his sister, which is my best friend, was on the phone with him. And he she was telling her to call the cops because I kicked him and was hitting him or something like that. But I was just trying to get him to tell him to get trying to get him off me. And uh uh she heard some of it. And I don't know what she heard, but she thought we were just arguing. Okay. That mark on your neck kind of looks like an older bruise just based off of the color. It's almost got like a yellow on it already. You don't remember anything that that would be from? No. So it does look like there's any other marks on your neck, but um when he grabbed you by your arms, did he use like his fingers or was it like a bear hug? For the arms, he grabbed his fingers. Okay. >> The second time. Was it would you say it it caused you pain or was it just >> I have a I have an implant right here and like it was like pushing on it. Okay. That hurt though. Um during the argument, was there anything that was said? I mean, or was it just him telling you to get out? >> Yeah, there was lots of stuff said. Okay, such as? Um, well, I was saying a lot of mean things to him and he was saying I don't know if I want to share. Okay. Well, I mean, who knows what he's saying? That's why I just want to get the full picture. So, I'm going to talk to the other officer. If the other officer comes over here and talks to you, um, can you please relay There's a lot of times he said, she said, right? Mhm. So, but fair to say just insults back and forth at each other, is that what it comes down to? >> Like profane insults, like cussing and swearing at each other? Loud voices? >> like more like loud voices, um, not really swearing. More like insults like, "Oh, you I said he's got a small dick. All right. Yeah. All right, okay. And he got mad at that. Like mad to the point of what? Like he just started yelling. Okay. All right. Give me a couple minutes, Bailey. I will see if the other officer is going to come over here. It sounds like they're out with him over at the apartment. Are you guys both on the lease or just >> No, just him. Just him? >> Yeah. Okay. Do you pay rent to him? Uh, no. Okay. So, do you you live there full time? I mean, you got all this stuff in there, right? >> live there full full time. But I just wasn't on the I got something on my phone I can show you. You're 18, then? Yeah. How old is I can see what happened to you real quick. What's that? I can see what happened real quick. >> Okay. We'll get to that. We'll kind of touch on things right now. Basically, I like end of June. And I gave her house key. I said you can slowly like come in, make your peace. Like well, if you're if I'm working, you want to come over, you're allowed to. Mhm. And the last week we've been fighting. Um she haven't sleeping together. She broke my toilet by flushing something down the down the toilet and then posting about it as a joke. So right there was kind of my last straw from that all maybe 20 minutes ago. Okay. So I came inside said you need to leave tonight at least. Like you can pack up your stuff and go. I need my space. I said if you want to do this, we can, but I need space. Like I need to have my life back and for this is not this is getting toxic. And then she started crying, throwing [ __ ] freaking out, slamming [ __ ] that's broken. And she started slamming [ __ ] So I Did I never like Can I Can I grab you, sir? >> No, you can't. >> Okay. I got you. >> You're just asking, not checking. So I kind of like picked her up. I never like punched her, never slapped her, anything. I just picked her up, tried to move her away from the [ __ ] she was trying to break. Okay. Um There is a quite a mess up there. But then I took her [ __ ] and took it all down here outside. Then I mean you you can ask the person I called and my landlords, they all heard it. She was out here making a ruckus, honking and throwing [ __ ] saying I beat her. And I know she called I was going to call her mom to say like you need to get your daughter to leave cuz like I'm trying I'm trying to get her out of my house like I didn't lay hands on her or anything. And then her mom said she's going to call the cops, so I called the cops, too. So I I don't want to call the cops but I just wanted to get her [ __ ] and get her to leave. Right. But after this I'm going to want to file a restraining order. I don't know if you guys can help me with that. That's goes through the court system and so we can't touch on that at the end when we're all wrapped up. Okay? Cuz that's nothing that we can take care of right now. So how long has she been living here? She doesn't like live here, but she's been staying here probably the last maybe three or four weeks. >> Okay. Where is her prime Where does she primarily live then? >> With her mom in that city. So Okay. The dog uh All right. I was just going to hide my cat. All right. You said no one else is here? No, I don't know anything. No, no, no. I live here alone. I will like first I will the water is kind of getting up. I mean here is a bottle of water. Well, Does he have a bottle of water? Yeah, he had me, yeah. Um all this is going to be this bowl. This is right here. Careful with that right there. And my phone is right there. Drink water. I'm going to take some pictures of y'all. Yeah, you're good, dude. And then how'd you get You said you might have some marks on your back? I I I I mean I'm just I I feel burning, so I don't know like Yeah, I didn't see anything on your back. Yeah. outside, but So all these clothes were up here you're saying? Yeah. This one I don't And you said you picked up the bowl and stuff? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, before she had just left and I was on the phone with the police. I was trying to pick up a little bit, but then the guy said just leave everything. I must leave everything. And then this was here as well? Yeah. So she was yelling. I'm like, "You need to get your stuff out and leave." blah, blah, blah. She started [ __ ] just wham, wham, wham. And then she was right here, so I went like I grabbed my arms around her, picked her up, and went like this instead of kicking, and then slapped me, and whatever else. I never like did any of that. All I did the most was like I don't know if you guys you guys fight and fight with women. I hope not. Like if someone's laying a hand on you, it's a grill. The first thing you want to do is like try to wrap her up. You're not going to want to put your hands on her. You're not going to want to abuse her. Not like that. All I wanted to do was for her to stop going crazy, throwing stuff, hitting stuff. All I did. All right. Well, we're other officers are talking to her and kind of getting her side of the story. >> Yeah. How we doing? I'm pretty sure it's going to be some [ __ ] so. All right. What's your phone number for Good. Good. Um I guess if he doesn't want to charge Um We're still going to cuz I'm We're still doing the criminal damage though. Yeah. We've got to do what we've got based on the evidence. Um he can say what he wants in the statement, but yeah, we'll take that into consideration, but our hands are tied at this point. >> didn't know if we just do the DC or if we still do both. If that's the case, it's got to go both ways. I think we do both. >> Yeah. Let's throw both and they do what they want with it. Yeah, this girl is 18 years old. She's in a deferred prosecution agreement for a criminal offense. And then she has pending [ __ ] from California. Well, I actually just underage drinking in California. Interesting. DC resisting is what she was on a deferred prosecution agreement for a while. Stan, I'll give you this back. What's that? No, we're No, we're What's that? You need to make some calls. I know it. I'm going to work on that. Um I can call over to the DA's office and see what that really means. I don't think it does. I think it's at I think it's only if she's arrested for another crime. Like say she was arrested, they can revoke that agreement, but I don't think it I don't think she's necessarily on bail right now. Cuz I was thinking Hey, it's Stephanie with the Front County. How are you? Hi. Hey, so there's a female that we're out with with a She's on a deferred prosecution agreement. Um and does that mean she's on bail or does that mean that the bail's done and she's just if she gets arrested or screws up on that DJA, they resent her? Can you look her up? Okay. So she's still on bond now. Okay. So a situation where she wouldn't be on bond, like just for future reference for me, um that would be like found guilty and then DJA would be the sentence or how does that work? Okay. All right. Sounds good. That's all I needed to know. Thank you. Bye. Yeah, you're welcome. Bye. Yeah, so that's uh she's it's still an open case, so I'd be still considered bail jumping. >> Oh, it is bail jumping. I think you can bail, that's good. I thought it'd just be DJA. Yeah, so if they dismiss it and then they enter into a DJA, then it would be considered no longer on bail, but they never dismissed it. They left it open. They all have it open. Yeah. So, if I have they have charges or there's never been a charge. Yeah, she would be bailed in. Hey Bailey. I just want to clarify with you. He's saying to the other officer that you don't live there, you keep stuff there. That you actually live with your mom. Is that true? >> No, he lived This is all my stuff I have. Okay. And he literally like he can't ask me to move in, but he was like you should like slowly move in. So, I was like okay, so I slowly moved in, brought all my stuff, and then now all of a sudden a month or two later he's like I need space. Okay, so how many how many days out of the week would you say you stay there? All the all the time. I don't go home. Like I never go home. That's why I live like I live there like Okay. I I he cooks for me. How long would you say that's been the case? >> Two months, a month, a month or two. A month or two at the same place here? At the same place, yes. Okay. Since early July. Okay, why why would he be saying you don't live there? I don't I don't know. He He told me to me he was like you don't live here, you're not on the lease. I think that's probably what he did. Okay, so he's just under the assumption that you being on the lease means you live there when Yeah. Okay. What What are you What were What are you looking at done today? Nothing. I just My mom just wanted to make sure I was okay. What's that? My mom just wanted to make sure I was okay, so she called the cops. Okay. All right, Bailey, give me a couple of minutes. Okay. All right, Bailey, can you please step by the car? Come on. I'll explain it to you. Can you face your car for me? You're arresting me? Why? For what? >> I'll explain it to you in a second, okay? What did I do? Can I turn my car off? Yep, go ahead and turn it off. We'll get it all situated for you. Oh my god. >> have anything in your pockets, Bailey? No. Okay. What did I do? >> happen to have a like a box lanyard for the apartment key in there? No, I don't have one. Okay, you don't know where that would be? I did not have one. I just What do you want grabbed out of your car? Nothing. You got your cell phone? Yeah. Okay. I'll walk you over to the car quick. I don't want you to stand here. You want us to lock it? Uh there's a different key. I don't know where it is. Um Can you just stand right in front of my car here? I I want to get you to face that way. Oh. I just want to check your pockets. You don't have anything in them. It might be in my key in the wallet. Like car key? Yeah, I don't think so. What did I do? What can you tell me what I did? Yep, I'll explain it to you. I don't understand. Why Why do I have to get arrested? He put his hands on me first. Okay, let's have a seat back here. He put his hands on me first. Watch your head. You could throw that right on my bag. You called 1080 on the bear or no? Yep, give me 1 second. I I promise you I'll explain, Bailey, okay? Um Is this her car keys? Yeah, I got a PC. Do you want me to search car or anything? >> What?