But he thought all of this is because he woke up. He's my baby daddy. We got two kids together. We've been together 19 years. >> Stop talking. >> That's not how the law works. I know HOW THE LAW WORKS. HOW YOU GOING TO TELL ME TO CALM DOWN? YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I'VE BEEN THROUGH this morning. >> You don't live here. >> On October 9th, 2024, Pensacola police responded to a call about a woman causing a disturbance and refusing to leave a man's home. [music] When officers arrived, they learned the two shared children, but the relationship had ended and he wanted her gone. As police spoke with her, she became defensive and aggressive, relating the situation further. >> I've been asking her to leave for two, three weeks. She won't leave. And now she she she jumped on me and so I called you guys. I get tired of her physically hitting me and stuff like that. Then when [music] >> this is another video and case in point about it's not just women who are careless about who we choose to have kids with. [music] You you men will have children by anybody. You just want to have kids. [music] It seems like you just want another you [music] that some of you don't even want to take care of. [music] Stop having relations with crazy people [music] who will ruin your life. Possibly put you in jail [music] or prison or possibly put you 6 feet under. Stop doing it. >> I tried to keep her off me and she makes it more of a problem. You know what I mean? So, I just I I want her to go and I've been asking her to go and she just won't leave. Okay. She came over to to wash clothes and and and she never left. >> So So she just came over to wash clothes and you let her wash clothes here to wash clothes and that's it. >> And I've been asking her to leave and she just want >> she she has her own apartment. >> I didn't control the village and I've been wanting her to just go home. You know what I mean? >> All right. Um you guys married or kids? >> We just have kids. >> Kids from She I told her to leave. She went while I came outside. She went in there and stole my keys. Yeah. >> Who's got custody of the kids? >> She do. Okay. So, she was supposed to be taking them taking them to school. I don't want her to come back. >> You live here by yourself? >> I live here by myself and I don't want her. Okay. >> Hey, how you doing? What's going on? >> I haven't did nothing unlawful. I just been standing out here talking because he's been talking to me. Yes, I have. >> Okay. >> He asked me to leave and I told him I am not leaving. I've been staying here for over 6 months. I told him if he want me to leave, he can go to the courthouse and give me a picture for me and I will leave. My kids, if you want to look, my kids and all of our stuff are up in here. He only want me to leave because he went to my phone and he found out about he walking around saying I got a Easter picture. Okay, I do. But he's and it's always ignorant people who tell the cops everything. Like no one needed to know know that ma'am. Nobody. [music] point that being a side yeast infections aside. She has a side dude. But notice she won't go to his house though cuz he won't have that. He either doesn't want her like that. Well, obviously he just doesn't want her like that or he's homeless or something. So the first the baby daddy is responsible [music] in her mind for her life and well-being. [music] >> Oh, this is because he woke up. He can find out I was talking to somebody else. >> But I told him if he want me to leave, he can go to the courthouse. >> Why is he wired? Is he saying you have a place in Pensacola village? >> You know, I do have one in Pensacola Village, but it's it got mowed all over the place. He know about that situation. It has mowed all in my apartment and PCB and I can't say I haven't I can I can call PCB for you right now. I haven't stayed in my apartment in over 6 months. I've been here for over 6 months. I can show you pictures in this house from 6 months ago. I have no reason but to lie. >> Okay. So, what is it agreement that you have that you're staying here? >> He's my baby daddy. We got two kids together. We've been together 9 years. >> Mhm. >> The only reason that I had got an apartment in PCB because we got into it last year and he got a restraining order on me and that's when I had got my apartment. And ever since he dropped the restraining order, we've been staying up in here together. [clears throat] >> I have my apartment in PCB and I pay it every month because me and him we get into it a lot. And when we get into it, I go to my apartment, but I can't go to my apartment because it has mold everywhere. All in my kids clothing. >> And that is a issue that you address with the landlord. And you can then not like you can put your rent in escrow and call whoever else you need to call. Like there's resources for [music] that. That doesn't mean you crash at somebody else's house and and bust your way in on false pretenses. >> [music] >> When you pick the clothes up, I can take you to go look at it. When you pick the clothes up, it's mold that's coming off of it. But me and him, we've been together nine years. I've been standing. >> Will you take me inside, please? Turn around. >> I will. >> The viral Paleo Valley meat sticks are on sale right now for up to 20% off. There are tons of flavors and they're naturally fermented so they're nice and juicy and you get none of the nasty preservatives. [music] >> You said the owner lives here. >> Is the owner here? >> My mom's the owner. Your mom's the owner. Is she on the on the lease? >> She's not on the lease. He's >> I'm I'm the lease. >> He told us I'm the only one on the lease. >> My sister's on the phone. He's came to us multiple times. He came today because he wanted to ride to work and I came out here. All the argument proceeded and then it got worse because I guess I got out here cuz she thinks I'm picking sides. I'm one of the people I don't pick sides. I just >> I said the arguing her. >> I'm sorry. And my mom's inside. My mom's disabled. So I She's She's getting out. She's getting upset upset. She's coming out here. I don't want my mom to have a heart attack cuz she's disabled and she has a bad heart. So, he's came over here multiple mult. [laughter] She's came over here multiple times to tell us that he does not want her anymore. My sister's on the phone. She can tell you the same thing cuz they talk more than me and him. >> Okay. >> My mom doesn't want her anymore. >> I do. I told her earlier our text message. >> No. Okay. Let's see what you mean. >> I'll just call you later. >> Wait. Hold on. What is this? Oh, this is >> this is the least. This is the least uh >> Have we been out here before? >> It was for my son. He had ODed on the porch. >> Okay. What about between you two? Have you been out here? >> [ __ ] >> I don't think you been out yet. >> Okay. So, >> yeah. >> I don't want him to have keys to the house. >> It's your parents house. >> It's my It's my parents house. My god parents is dead and I don't want them to have no key. I let him rent the house. >> He runs house. She's not on leave. She don't belong in >> She's not on leave. It's not a month or two. It's been ever since. >> I don't know how long you've been here. We didn't even know you were staying here. We didn't know you were staying here. We didn't know you were staying here till you said something. >> Stephanie and Wendy. >> When things weren't bad. When things weren't bad. We didn't even know you. >> So, when did When did When did you have her come over here? >> See what she did in the show. >> When did you ever come over here, man? >> It was only like maybe like a month ago, maybe. Okay. It ain't been very long. >> And she doesn't pay no bills. Doesn't do anything. my head. >> All right, look. Grab your stuff. Get out. Get gone. You're gone. You're out. >> And see what happens when you just scream and yell and cause a disturbance, you won't get what [music] you want. And I believe some people were taught if the loudest, and it's [music] narcissistic in nature, that the biggest and the loudest should always win or wins automatically. And that's just not how life works. >> [music] >> it. Americanism fosters that belief because [music] people seem to enjoy big, loud, annoying people in this country [music] and that's seen as dominant. I don't know. It's tough or you're going to jail for trespassing. >> Okay. >> I'm going to call my sister right now. >> You going to go to jail is what you going to do? No, I'll get my stuff. No, you want to get my stuff when I've been here for 6 months. THAT'S NOT FAIR. THAT'S NOT HOW THE law work. I know HOW THE LAW WORKS. >> I'M explain to you. You have no proof one way or the other. Have the owner >> What kind of proof do you need? Tell me what kind of owner. >> What kind of PROOF DO YOU NEED? WHAT KIND OF PROOF DO YOU NEED? >> Show me what bills you paid. >> Okay. >> What you mean? >> And she just throws the dog in the car like it's a sack of potatoes. [music] Poor puppy. >> Everything. What you pay? >> That's not fair. >> Okay. The owner says you're not even on lease. You ain't even supposed to be here. >> I'm not on the lease. >> You're not on lease. You already told me you have a place in Pensacola Village. What's going on with that? >> I can't go to Pensacola Village. Know that. Know that. Listen to me. >> That's not bad. Where am I going to take my kids? You're not listen because you're NOT A PARENT. WHERE AM I GOING TO TAKE MY KIDS? I CAN TAKE YOU TO PCB RIGHT NOW. >> How does she know if he's a parent or not? And parents wouldn't do this in front of their children. [music] They wouldn't. Parents do good parents do [music] everything possible to keep as calm and as sane as life as possible. [music] And I'm not a parent. I'm just putting that out there. [music] >> I'll show you my apartment. THAT'S NOT FAIR. >> You need to calm yourself down. No, BECAUSE HOW YOU GOING TO TELL ME TO CALM DOWN? YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I'VE BEEN THROUGH THIS MONTH. You don't live here. >> Yes, I do. You have no proof of >> I'm going to show you videos. >> Video doesn't Video doesn't mean anything. >> I've been here for 6 months. That's not fair. YOU CAN'T TELL ME THAT I'M LYING ABOUT SOMETHING THAT I KNOW. That's not fair to me. I'm hearing something different from somebody else to other people. >> She just said that I've been here for months. >> No, she didn't say months. She said maybe a month now. >> So, how many months have I been here? >> How many months? >> It doesn't even matter how many months you've been here. You don't reside here. >> Okay. You don't pay any bills. You have no >> and you hook up with some guy who you can't call if you need something [music] then what is the point of the man being in your life? Like that's one [music] thing for me. Like I mean not about side pieces and stuff like that. Why have a [singing] man in your life [music] who can't do [ __ ] for you except be an available dick? A walking penis as it were. [music] That's all he can do. That's just me, I guess. >> One way or the other, you want to make a complaint, you can go downtown. Can I talk to >> Yeah, you can make you can talk to a sergeant when you leave the property. >> So, right now, I'm giving you 2 minutes. >> But what I'm asking, can you just listen to me? How is that fair to me? what I've been saying 6 months. >> There's no proof one way or the other. >> I have no proof. >> You don't even reside here. You don't reside here. You already told me you got a place to pens village. >> But I don't I can't go to my apartment. Can you follow me to my apartment? >> No. I have Look, we all have jobs to do. Okay. >> But you're not listening. >> I'm telling you you don't reside here. >> Okay. So, where am I going to take them? >> I don't know where you going to take them. Okay. If you're having issues with living spaces, you need to get with the management of Pensacola Village because they should be if there's if there's they should be another apartment. All they all they offer me was a couple hundred off my rent. Then what I can do is I can give you a pamphlet that's going to have options and uh resources that you can call reach out to. Let them know they can accommodate you possibly your or and and your children as well. I'm sure. >> Like you not understand. I'm not trying to be violent and I'm not trying to be upright. But you got to understand that this man woke me up out my sleep with this. He went through my phone last night. He woke me this man do a whole basic. >> Then she's going to allege domestic violence to stay in a house with the person who's violent. >> [music] >> or in hopes that he gets thrown in jail so she could be in the house, [music] which is more likely. [music] And [music] I mean, women, we women go through, well, if we can [music] go through our men's phones and in the and wake our men out our out their sleep screaming [music] and yelling possibly throwing something [music] like like that's like that that's not anything new under the sun. [music] >> That's why he got that rip his shirt because when I was going to the floor I grabbed his shirt. He already cleaned up the glass off the floor. I got woke up to this. So you got to understand why it's okay. Okay. So, >> and now I'm getting kicked out of somebody. >> What you're telling me now is a whole domestic violence situation happened, which I'm going to write up as DV. But you're still going to have to leave. >> Listen, please don't write up a DV. >> You're still going to have less. >> I will leave. But please, I'm begging you. Don't write up a DV. >> Well, that's You just told me that happened. >> But I just got done with the DC. Okay. Please. >> Okay. But you So, but you just told me he threw a base at you and you grabbed your shirt. So, did that not happen? >> He threw He did. But the base did not hit me, but he did throw a base at me. I thought he >> Did he intentionally throw it at you? >> I'm in trouble. >> Okay. >> I just don't need a DD case at this point. If you gonna do a DV case, I will leave. I'll do whatever I got to do. But please don't get DCF involved again. I can't have that. I just just just went through that and I just got done with my case. >> Well, you're telling me a whole DV situation happened. So, you're either making it up or >> he did it to it. >> No. Let me let me get your ID, please. >> Okay. I made it up. I made it up. >> So, it did nothing happened. >> That's I mean, you tell me. >> If you're not going to write a DV, I made >> Well, that's not how that works. It either happened or it didn't. >> I made it up. >> Made it up. >> So, you don't live here. You need to go grab your clothes, >> get what you got to get. >> And he said, "You have custody of the babies. They're going to go with you. And I will give you a pamphlet with some resources that Oh, I'm sorry." That you can read out to. I assume she thought that the male police officers would just go charging over there and throw the guy in cuffs and throw him in the police car without asking further questions, [music] which is not how any of that would work. I don't know. She just she's not she's she's she has no emotional excuse me emotional [music] regulation. That's that's the problem. >> New phone numbers. Uh maybe some women shelter, something like that. Anything that you need if village will not be accommodated. But ultimately, you do not live here. Okay. So, I'm going to let you go inside, get your stuff, get what you got to get. >> Hey, let me get my keys. >> Yes, you do. She had my keys in her pocket now. She Now she >> Do you mind if I look in your pocket real quick? >> Yeah, they might be in the car somewhere. They are. Yes, they are, sir. Look, he's locking her door. >> I'm unlocking. >> Can you stop? >> I'm unlocking my door. Like, >> why don't you go somewhere else for now? I'm just >> This is This is his This is speaker. >> I have a set of keys and and I won't have to change my lock. >> I really don't have no key. >> Get it. >> I really don't have no keys up in here. So, >> you have Do you just mind if I look in your pockets just so we can we can >> Man, you can look wherever you want to look. I ain't buy his stuff, bro. >> Look in the pocket. Do you have pockets? >> He ripped them. I don't have no pockets. >> Okay. Okay. You ain't got no key on you. Just go ahead and get your clothes if you don't mind. I'll just look in there. >> Are we one of the trespasser? >> And I'm not sitting here saying that I don't believe that there's not things that shouldn't be going on in a healthy relationship going on. I think they're both just as toxic [music] and they both throw each other under the bus. >> [music] >> and don't take accountability, but [music] I don't know. [music] I don't know. >> Hey, can you tell me what happened last night? >> Huh? >> Can you tell me what happened last night? >> Last night? >> Yeah. >> Good. >> Ain't nothing happened last night. I just went to bed. What happened with the base? >> With the base? >> Yeah. >> That was this morning. I was asking to leave. That's what I was telling you. I was asking to leave and then leave. I turn the It wasn't even a base. It was an ash train. >> That's right. >> It was ash. And it was sitting back there in the back. Then I turned my back to when I did this said, "Man, can I leave? Please leave." And I ran out. God, leave. And that was it. And that was it. I didn't >> You didn't throw it at her. >> No, I didn't. She did. I told her I told her I wanted her to leave. She grabbed me and she started punching me in my face. I mean that's and that what happened. That's and then that's when I called her. I didn't call like when I was out there. >> She didn't give me she swarm >> and then I got to get >> So you saw this? >> I saw her swing. He was he was in her pocket like this. I wasn't pulling, grabbing a snack or [music] nothing in her pocket trying to get the key cuz there's one key for the whole house, but that house there's a whole you see what's in the house. It's antiques and stuff. >> Gotcha. >> So, she was trying to get >> I don't know why someone would only have one key for her house anyway. And then this why she's going to try the damsel in distress white women being attacked. And I get it. She just wants this lady out. And I get that. It was just a pathetic attempt. [music] Honestly, she seems like a more rational girl to be with [music] than that other situation. >> And she said, "Get up." She did this. She said, "Get up off me." And she and then me and her got into an argument and she would act like she me cuz she was calling me a white [ __ ] I am saying I'm white. I'm not going to be my daughter. >> Do you have a cave? >> She's always doing this. since I was acting like this. >> So, I mean, I've had a history with >> So, I got in the car and I'm I don't I don't fight people. I got in the car and I didn't want to do nothing. She kept talking like she wanted to fight and I just stayed in the car. >> I said I I showed them a cop. >> Okay. >> No, no, you got to tell me what you arrested me for. What did I do? >> I did not. Wait, wait, wait. I >> FYI, police don't have to tell you what they're arresting you for. It's a courtesy, but they don't have to tell you. >> I hit him. Tell him. Tell him I hit you quick. Please tell them the truth the truth. Listen listen, baby. Please. Okay, I PUT MY HANDS BEHIND my back, but y'all got to listen. Y'all can't take me to jail for nothing. Y'all got to look at the evidence in the house. >> Y'all got to look. Oh, listen. I'm going to I'm sorry. I'm trying to talk to y'all, please. >> Where's that at? >> But y'all, I'm just trying to show y'all proof. Y'all can't take me to jail for no reason. I did not touch him. All I did was grab his shirt, sir. >> Did you grab his shirt? >> That's it. I swear to God, all I did was >> And she just talked herself right into a DV case. Grabbing in some states is DV, not just like a slap or a punch or pushing. It might depend on state pushing is seen as DB too, cuz all states are different. >> Can you take me in the house so I can show you the glass and show you where it happened? >> I looked for the glass. I didn't see it. >> Come on. He He He swep up, y'all. Please. weapon. Can I show you? Please don't. >> I got a witness. You're clearly the primary aggressor because you are >> I'm standing out here yelling. That's all. That's all. But y'all, I promise I did not hit him. I'm telling the truth. >> Look, I'm trying to >> I need I'm trying to loosen up these cuffs. >> I need y'all to go back and talk to him. I did not hit him, y'all. >> Y'all, I did not hit him. Y'all have to listen. >> We're done. We can explain that in court. But now, >> listen. I can't go to jail for nothing. I GOT TO START WORK. PLEASE, I have to start working. >> We're passing. >> Please. Please move. >> I didn't tell him to. >> But tell them about the glass. TELL THEM ABOUT THE FACE. OKAY. HE JUST SAID HE BROKE THE GLASS. HE TOLD me he did broke the glass, but that's how it happened, y'all. I didn't hit him. Okay, >> but y'all, that's how it happens. My phone, y'all. My phone. But sorry, can you please listen please? Oh, I promise I did not hit him. >> Can you please I've been listening this whole time? >> I did not hit him. Please. I put [laughter] that on my Please. Y'all taking me to jail for nothing? No, I didn't hit him. I told y'all about it. >> I told you he had the waste. LISTEN, Y'ALL. PLEASE. Y'ALL LISTEN TO ME. Y'ALL TAKING ME to jail for nothing. I look up the path for the car. >> All she had to do was leave and then none of this would have happened. All she had to do [music] was leave. And I do not understand the mindset of refusing to leave. I don't get it. Leaving is so easy. And I have never in my life been asked to leave somewhere. [music] >> Now I know I don't want y'all to listen to me. Why would y'all listen to me? Can y'all please listen to me? >> I just want y'all. Please. Please just listen. >> In the car before I charge you with resistance. >> I'm asking y'all. Please. I'm telling y'all the truth, y'all. Y'all I'm telling y'all the truth. Please. I'm telling y'all the truth. Please. >> She wants to brush her teeth. Like all that stuff around her mouth is like plaque. It's gross. >> Okay. Put your feet. Please don't put your feet in the car. I'm asking yall to look up the past reports. Sir, please don't be mean to me. I'm trying to talk to you. Please, please let me tell you the truth. >> Listen, why would you listen to me? >> I don't want to listen to you. I don't want to talk to you. I want you to stop. I have a problem with your listen. I did not hit him. SIR, I DID NOT HIT YOU. SIR, I promise you I didn't HIT HIM. HE JUST TRIED TO TAKE MY KIDS. PLEASE, HE DID THIS BEFORE. Y'ALL GOT TO GO LOOK AT THE REPORT. PLEASE GO LOOK AT THE REPORT. Please never be I wouldn't let you choke ME IF I WASN'T THERE. I'M >> NOT TRYING TO TALK to you. I'm trying to get you. >> Please. I wouldn't LIE TO YOU. >> I'M going to drag her back if you just >> It's really childish and annoying. Really annoying. Like she's so lucky as much crazy cops we got out here that they didn't just like tase her or or worse. [music] cuz there's cops out here who will break that leg. [music] As much as these types of people complain about police and then make life worse for everybody else of color because they think we're all like this and we are not. [music] Guys, please listen to me y'all. I need y'all to look up the reports. Please, please, please look up the reports, y'all. Y'all, please look up the reports. Please, Y'ALL, LOOK UP THE REPORTS. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE LOOK up the reports. He did this before. Y >> She was arrested and charged with misdemeanor battery and resisting an officer without violence. Together, these charges carry a maximum penalty up to two years in jail, 2 years of probation, and $2,000 in fines. >> [music]