On March 16th, 2024, [music] officers responded to a residence for a call of a domestic dispute. >> Good. What's going on? >> Okay. >> I want him to remove himself tonight. He will not do it. He won't remove himself. Can you please remove him for tonight? He won't do it. No folk go tonight. That's all I ask. He saying no. He ain't got to leave tonight. Yes, he do. By law, you if I say we got to remove ourselves from each other from tonight. We had a miss. >> How long have you lived here? >> For months, sir. >> How long has he lived here? >> Since last year, >> ma'am, has he been here? Since last year? >> No, but he been here. >> How long has he been here? >> No, but he has been here. >> How long has he been here? >> He's been He's spending night every now and then. Yes, he do. >> How long has he been here? >> Um, I say on and off for about three three maybe four months. Then he's definitely not going anywhere. >> We at a home miss. He don't get to stay here. >> He's been living here. What? >> I can't kick him out. He's been here for months. >> He has no failure. >> He's been here for months. >> You just admitted to me he's been living here for months. >> No, I said that he's been here on and off for 3 months. This not saying he's living here. He's on and off. How >> you saying he's been here? >> This is This is housed property. This private property. If I say I want him to be careing, we have not been getting along. We have been tustling. I want him removed away from me. My child is upstairs asleep. I have the right to say that or I can charges on him and you have to remove him. I said I want him removed tonight. I want him from here. >> That's enough. I've heard enough. >> Well, listen to what the hell I'm saying cuz you ain't listening. >> Stop. >> You stop. >> All right. It's too early in the morning. >> I agree. Take a couple of deep breaths and stop talking. >> Who just does that for no reason? >> A woman don't do that for no reason. >> Now, as far as tonight, >> has he threatened you? Put his hand scratched me just like I done scratched him. So, like I said, all that I don't care about. I just want to remove from here and I deserve it. >> So, where's he scratched you at? >> My neck. Just like I didn't do the same. My neck everywhere. Right here. The same thing. You can look at him and I and I scratched him too. Facts. So, like I said, I don't care about that. I just We've been drinking. I want him removed from here. You have to do that. Even if I stay for two night, you have to do that. And y'all know that. >> No, we don't. >> Well, he not coming back house. Stay here. So, as far as ma'am, >> sir, back up. Back up from my house. Back up from my house. >> Yeah, it's a whole dog. Back up, sir. >> Ma'am, if you shut the door on me, we're going to have a problem. >> Are you serious? >> That's enough, >> bro. You doing too much, bro. Get away from my house, bro. Get away from my house. Hello, doggy. >> I do not have to. She ain't no She's not that type OF DOG. YOU THINK I'MMA beat my dog? See, what I be talking about worried about the dog. >> I can't CUZ I CAN WALK AWAY FROM Y'ALL IF I WANT TO. THIS IS WHAT I'M SAYING. YES, I CAN. >> You can talk to him. You can talk to me, right? I can't turn around. >> Shut your mouth for 3 seconds. >> He can walk back in the house. It's okay. Y [laughter] you're definitely right that you guys have been drinking cuz this behavior know why he didn't come through there before and it's disgusting to me cuz y'all know what I've been through before y'all got me. >> So I need you to stop take some deep breaths. Stop demanding stuff from us as if I was stop demanding stuff. >> Okay. >> Stop trying to him out and talk to me about what happened. >> So what happened in regards to the injury? >> Nothing. >> Goodbye. Okay. >> Cuz you can stay by. >> Okay. So now now now there's no now there's no talking. Okay. Where's your ID at? >> I got you can't do nothing about >> I know you have an ID. So where's your ID at? Cuz now I'm investigating the family violence offense that you ain't no family violence. >> So where's your ain't no family. Where's your ID? >> Y'all say he ain't got to be removed. Where's your ID? >> It ain't no family violence. >> It ain't no family violence. It never was. >> I just told you it's family. >> I want my significant other moved. Y'all say he can't >> and now you just being funny though, bro. And it's fine though. You thought my dog going to do something to you and it's a family. >> I was petting your dog. >> I ain't even going to do nothing to him. >> No, it's all on video. So where's where's your >> all that on video? Then you know I said no thank you. Y'all said he can come. You don't get to say no thank you. >> He come make you get to say no. >> I can't say no thank you. >> You don't get to refuse investigation. I said I'm done. >> You're required to cooperate with law enforcement. Well, I mean, you're not required to, but then you'll go to jail for obstruction, man. Move out of my way so I know. Move my way so I can go get >> Hey, look. I said move out of my way. You ain't No. No. A man going. I can go. I can go get I YOU DON'T HAVE to come in my house though. It's private. Private. You don't have to come in my house. >> I'M NOT GOING NOWHERE. I'M WALKING UPSTAIRS TO GO GET IT. >> NO. NO. I'm going to go get it. But you can get back. >> You're not going to WALK AWAY. >> I AM. I'M GOING TO GO GET MY LICENSE, SIR. >> STAND right there. Stand right there. >> Yet, bro, >> you have a picture of your ID on your cell phone. >> What? >> Do you have a picture of your driver's license on your cell phone? >> Why? No, I don't. >> Well, you're not going to go walk inside and walk around this house. >> Go upstairs and get my whole You know what? I can't. I'm going tell you why. Cuz I left my whole pocketbook downtown getting his drunk ass which I said on the phone making my report. >> You have a picture of your ID on your phone? >> I don't. I got a picture of myself. I got hella pictures of myself on Facebook, wherever else you wanted. You can't look. Let me tell you something. One thing about this one been of course you going to calm down when it's time to calm down. But before this, everything I've been through before y'all got I went through everything before I CALLED Y'ALL. LITERALLY everything before I called y'all. And the fact y'all don't understand what blows. >> You're not what happened. >> I shouldn't have to. If I say I want him removed at me, I'm trying to >> What happened? Who? I ain't got nothing to say to these folk, bro. I'm going to show the man my ID. If they say he can still come back in here. It doesn't matter what happened, JEFFREY. THAT PART YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND. IT doesn't matter what happened. So, yeah. Oh, he stayed here. He can come back in here. I'm going to get him my ID. Let me show you my ID that I got on Facebook. >> I'm going to give you my ID I got on Facebook. Look. Talk to him. >> Let's start with what happened. What happened? We were downtown. >> We had a misunderstanding. He separated from me and my cousin right there. I called a Uber to get home. >> I left my pocketbook in the bathroom. We got all my identity. We get back home and he was still talking [ __ ] And I called him out and I said, "Jay, if you don't stop, I'm going to call the police." Start pushing me down. So, of course, I'm going to push back. I just came out of some domestic ass [ __ ] bro. You're not going to push me. And I ain't put my hands on you. I don't like it. It's a trigger for me. I been through that before, bro. You keep doing I'm telling you to leave. You like, "Oh, no. I'm leaving in the morning." But you still doing all this at me in my face and pointing my touching me in my face. All the We both doing it to each other at a point after he started doing it. We both doing it to each other. I'm not going to lie to you. But I kept asking him to remove yourself from him. Look, let's talk about it later on. Oh, no. I'm leaving the bar. I ain't got to do this. But you lifting up windows. You yelling out a lot. I'm like, "No, bro. We're not doing this. my child in the room next door. We're not gonna keep doing it all, man. We're not. >> We are three years apart, bro. I'm not going to keep doing that with you, bro. We're not. And yes, I've been drinking, but I am not. You can look up anything you got to do. I'm not a violent person. >> Period. Point blank. But, bro, everybody got their limits. You're You're not going to keep doing my child right there, bro. You're not going to keep doing it. >> Like, we're not doing it. >> How do you get the scratches? How do you get the scratches? >> Yes. No, I'm asking about how he got his first and then I grab my neck. I punch and and I got a broken nail. That's how Yeah. Facts. And you can look at my neck. >> Yeah. Like I said, a trigger. Yeah. You grab my neck, I'mma punch you in your face. I'm going knock out. Yeah. Like I said, let's remove oursel from the situation. >> You don't want to listen. I'm not going >> and back cuz I don't even care about that cuz like I said we were arguing and we just had a moment and I don't want to bring no charge. I don't want to do nothing. Like I said we both been drinking. We both got heated. I don't want to pray no charge. I feel no type of ill feel towards him but I want him removed. I say no. So you can say what you want to say and we go to court and I'm still going to say no it's not. >> We both did the same thing to each other. So then what? Baby, why is you doing? >> It's no bae. Cuz I went bae 35 minutes ago. When I said let's remove ourselves from each other. Before all this happened, when I said let's remove ourselves from each other. You didn't want to do this. We didn't talk about so it can go how to go, man. You going to apologize to me or not. I'm not going to keep doing it with you. I don't care right here. Apologize to me, Jay. >> You know, as far as your uh >> Huh? >> Apologize for what? Yeah. >> As far as your um neck ma hand was around there. Could you breathe at all? >> You're not going to answer. >> Okay. All right. Well, Officer Von, if you want to keep an eye on him, I'm going to go step inside and talk to the cousin real quick. So, Officer Thomas are done with this tonight. But >> uh she said that you weren't upstairs, so you didn't see what happened. She said, you said you were down here. You might have heard what happened. So, I mean, as far as down here, do you know like what exactly you heard or? >> Well, I heard them just argue going back and forth and a lot of them tell him to leave and he want to leave his stuff and all this and I'm trying to tell I'm trying to go work in the morning. You know what I'm saying? I got be work at 9 and then put my little cousin up son upstairs babysitting. So I'm trying to tell them to stop cuz I had to hit it anyway. And that's all I remember them just arguing about about some whatever that happened with them downtown and it went from there and um she just kept asking leave all that whatever they were fighting or whatever. I ain't going to hear that part cuz I was I was sleeping and then what scared me how I knew then when um when I heard dog and they made me jump over what they going on cuz I was tired. >> Um what happened with the clothes outside? >> Nah, that I don't know. I ain't no clothes outside. Why I tell you I was out here on sleep the whole time. >> Okay. >> So I didn't know nothing about no clothes outside or nothing. Then they can tell you they they bar. It don't matter. You ain't thinking about your mama before what happened, >> bro. You weird. You're weird, bro. Think about what you do. You don't think about this [ __ ] bro. >> You don't think about what you do, bro? We ain't got nothing going on. We >> All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. >> I All right. All right. >> You do stay in here, bro. Don't stay here. >> What happened with the clothes outside? >> All right. I told him to leave. He would not leave. So the stuff he been having since he been coming over here, I started putting it out because he kept pushing me down on the bed. Like I said, we were pushing each other back and forth. Yes. Yes. I told him to leave. He would not leave. Yeah. He was throwing my stuff. If you go in there in my room, [ __ ] go every goddamn way. We were throwing [ __ ] It's mutual. Only difference was I threw it out the goddamn back door, the window. You damn right. Yeah, I did. Yeah, I did. So, I told him the back door or the window. >> The window. The window. >> Upstairs or downstairs? >> Upstairs window. He would throw in my stuff. I would throw in his stuff. We throwing each other stuff. But I threw it out the back window cuz I told him to leave. He will not leave. I said, "If you don't leave, I'm going to call the police." He said, "We going to call the police cuz I ain't going nowhere tonight." I said, "Well, okay, that's fine. Then we'll call the police and they'll tell you to leave. We can do it like that." >> Okay. I'm going to grab my uh cell phone. We're going to take some pictures and then we'll go to go from there. >> Late at night. I'm not you didn't think about it when you disrespect me in front of my son and my disrespect to me. You did you my child got up when he went to the bathroom. YOU WANT TO KEEP TALKING WHILE the camera >> Yeah, exact I don't care about no video, bro. I don't care about no picture, nothing. I'm not pressing no charges on you guys upside down. >> Like I said, I ain't pressing no charges on you. This ain't even what I called for. They making >> Thank you. >> They making more out of what it is. I never complained about n got to do with none of this. And y'all got video and I said what I said and y'all got to show that in court. You show all that. All this >> sister. >> Yeah. >> You show whatever. We got the same goddamn thing. We both got [ __ ] going on. We both did this [ __ ] to each other. >> Stay still. We both been drinking and we both bruise easily. >> Don't say because we both been drinking. >> You're an idiot. I'm not doing that to you. >> You're an idiot. >> It ain't got nothing to do with alcohol, bro. I cannot sit in small spaces. >> You just said alcohol. Heard you being funny. >> Your um demeanor. >> It's not demeanor, sir. I'm trying to express you. I cannot speak back here without passing out. You said my demeanor. It's not It's my fear. >> What did you say? It's my anxiety. Y'all saying Y'all saying it's alcohol. It's not alcohol. >> He's talking to the the >> I'm talking to you. I'm talking to him. Talking about I'm doing it. Look, I'm doing it. I'm doing it. I'm doing it. I'm sitting down. It's not my demeanor. It got to do with alcohol. I just I just told him I bang my head just so he can see the like I was trying to tell him I passed out. I bang my head. >> He heard you. He's on the phone with somebody else. I need you to slide into the car. >> Okay. Just wait a second, bro. I just can't. Okay, sir. >> My gosh. Tell me what, bro? [ __ ] up. Why you think I've never been in trouble? Sir, it's not necessary. Why are you being a jerk, bro? It's not necessary. Why would I say all that before we left my apartment, bro? I got I got papers. >> I know. >> Don't go there. So, stop, sir. I have an anxiety attack. You think I'm making him do all that? I know I'm going to jail, sir. I promise. I'm not trying. >> I said that. I said we're halfway to the jail. >> All right. So, I needed to stop. So, why do you got to flash a light in my face? Because I asked him to stop, sir. >> So, we can see. >> We don't have to see. Only he has to see. Sir, you don't have to flash a light in. He's seen you, sir. You don't have to put a flashlight in my face. Why would I faint about my anxiety before I got in the car, which made me feel? >> Both individuals were charged with domestic battery [music] while the woman was also charged with resisting arrest. 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