tensions Run High when a jealous ex-wife crosses paths with her husband's New Lover what starts as a casual encounter at a bar takes a shocking turn the ex-wife backed by her attorney claims she came to talk but alleges she was attacked without warning who's telling the truth let's dive into the drama and see how it unfolds I think so go ahead and get it yeah she was on me she was on me she hit me hard she was my tooth can I see where where you chipped your tooth do you know which one it was the front one right there all right who did this Jan Jan Jan according to the ex-wife and her attorney whom officers speak to on the phone she came to the bar to speak to her ex but claims she was attacked by his new girlfriend without any provocation I just wanted to I just wanted to talk to her I'm going to press charges against her okay would you be able to do a uh a written statement for me yes okay while the officers gather a statement from the ex other heads to the new couple to ask them for their side of the story hey Mr Joshua yes how you doing so what happened yeah honey my ex-wife who I've been divorced from for almost a year now first of all we divorced because she stabbed me in a drunken incident so I had a restoring order for against her for almost a year until recently I've been dating Jen since that time she's had it out for Jan the entire time she showed up here on our on her child sharing time with my two boys at home I don't know if they're safe or not drunk saying where's Jan where's Josh Jan Josh show me the messages yeah she blew me up we're sitting in here she blew me up on our child sharing app I mean I mean come on like this so come outside and talk to me I'm going to sit by your truck I'm not moving I'm not going I'm not doing anything we walk out here that's her car right there her white Expedition MH past the trees she approaches Jan calling her calling all Calling her all of these things and just comes at her and just starts wailing so obviously a scrum entailed and we tried to get her off of her and Trey came out all the patrons came out all of our friends came out trying to get her off of her but just so you know an incident had already happened inside she tried to come in and they denied her coming in he had already kicked her out so she she's just violent like she is there video of it huh did y'all take a video of it somebody was saying a video so I dropped a video afterwards you can see her coming after me call her things there you can watch it byebye byebye you can watch no this is before you can rewind it do you want to rewind it when you go to jail so do you want to do that again she's been texting him come outside you want to go to jail you have understand for one year we had a restraining order get Ser with him I was looking at it on the way here and he dropped it we didn't go back to court so like because there's two children invol actually three children three children involved can I show you something somebody needs this doc ready for is that yours yeah do you need EMS no just stop wiping down cuz there's like loose skin just Pat it cuz I don't want you to like lose skin and Scar she needs to be I mean she has no boundaries where did this happen all you on you piece of sh oh my God and like literally when she got here like the bartenders instantly like blocked the door and not they're like you know you're not outow here you know they're here anybody record fight no okay are you you want to press charges yes absolutely absolutely will you grab your ID for me yes this is yours thank you and you saw everything would you mind grabbing your ID yeah it's right here I got it she I know she's she's insane man she's supposed to per our marital settlement agreement she cannot drink neither of us can drink during our parenting time it's her parenting time right now how old are the kids so she has a biological daughter of 15 I adopted her several years ago so it's ours together and we have two boys together seven and four so is De so actually 16 7even and four 16 7 and four okay and I don't know where they are right now I don't know if they're safe I don't know who's watching 16-year-old but not we'd like them you have a phone number to contact this 16-year-old just to see if she's with them and make sure they're good give it to you or you can go I was saying you can call just to make sure to see like if we need to make arrangements whatever you want to do for y to go get them but she's not actually the best babysitter but I'd rather have them and both of y'all were out here witness no we we were literally about yeah we're about to leave they were the only ones out here you were out here sir and my daughter okay I'm going run back over there and fill in the other deputies I'll be right back with Y the officer heads back to deis the other deputies about statements from the couple and Witnesses he explains what was seen on the video but that the actual footage of the fight unfortunately was not recorded the ex-wife called her new boyfriend and attorney to be present for the rest of the incident while he is on his way the deputies head back to take one more official statement from the husband's new girlfriend is it okay if we talk to you alone absolutely okay let's go over here yeah okay how far back do you want to go we had a baseball game tonight as far as tonight I today what happened here we're sitting here with friends before we get into what happened here I just did you need an ambulance to check you out or anything I know you got some scratches and stuff I can see but you don't need like to be okay absolutely not it's mainly my my she grabbed my hair a lot but no okay um that is is that your hair and and her hair no sir that's your hair okay so the left wad I actually pulled out of my hair and put in my pocket the right wad was on the pavement Lacy goes to walk in I'm clueless and our friend Nancy is like did she show up unannounced yes she just showed up how did she know y'all were there because this is the only place we come okay so you come here pretty frequently so she just guessed that you were here only only place we come do you know why why she would have come here no but you can read his messages to see why okay so I mean we have a parenting app I say we I'm actually not a parent obviously we're not even legally married so they have a parenting app that they use it's not even text message it's a parenting app um and she started texting him but so he doesn't have his phone on alert so he didn't even know that she had texted him and um once she came to the door um the bartender let us know and like actually our friend is like lacy is right there and I turned around does the bartender know who you are so they so they know you well they they know everybody she's actually banned from the bar oh she is MHM and she knows she is we have begged her to be trespassed from this place because of problems but she knew she was not supposed to come here she came to the door he stopped her at the door and you ran LA right I did she's he stopped her at the door and told her to leave so we could see her but Trey stopped her and he took her outside and that was it uh Trey who's that who's Trey Trey is the manager tre's okay mhm okay so then she's sending Josh a text message to say I'm sitting out at your truck okay and I'm like hold on a minute which one's his truck the Ford mhm okay and I'm like that is not okay like not okay yo so if you read the history you know that he had a um domestic violence injunction against her for one year okay it's not active right now no so when it was up for Renewal he didn't fight they had two biological children together and one adopted that he adopted so instead of going to court y you guys know what courts are like like you would have to prove okay in the last year that she's tried to violate it or whatever she really it was hit miss it was a lot of like verbal stuff but nothing nothing like this nothing like this we didn't see her she texted him and said I'm sitting out at your truck come talk to me okay he's like he never responded to her because he didn't want to speak to her our friends were leaving the bar and they're like she's sitting out by the truck and I'm like okay you need to call the police yeah I do which one so he and I were beginning to leave as we were leaving she got out of her car okay we didn't know she was there the people didn't see her cuz she wasn't sitting here anymore she was in her car okay and what was the what was the context of the text messages can you read them instead of me we will we will okay but just was it just was it just like kind of like demanding to talk to him I take second place to everything and I try not to read everything but it was basically like why aren't you coaching our son in baseball y'all I don't even know you know what you're doing like why don't you come out and talk to me is Jan not letting you just y'all what was she saying you want to read it I mean do you want to hear it I the video yeah you want to see it okay yeah you want to go get your phone Dro my phone yeah just go get your phone Josh it's just as well unlock the door so you you'd seen her at this point yeah but I you need to call him and tell them to get here now now she standing right there the courthouse when you go to jail so do you want to do that again why go home why can't we talk get the out of here get the out of here get the out of my life go home byebye byebye all you want you goodbye every husband in this town see you see you later she got that switched everyone else in this town why don't you stand right here and say it then a right here sleep to how many people in this town recorded all you want you piece of [ __ ] what else where are our kids tonight lazy on your time they're at the house with who and who are they with when they're with you Josh and they're begging to come home with me why can't you speak stra did you see anyone else in the car with her at any point so she drove here plastered basically Place coming yeah who are they with you can hear the slurt speech just from this and just like you're staying up here at the bar here where are they that's why I do such a good job at work right because I I'm so drunk every night here right yeah you here that's not here right yeah and you can't keep it job yeah sure I've had the same job my entire life at okay record all you want you how many boys have you f in the last year what happened there I dropped my phone why because she was coming after me just then okay was that when it started pretty much the whole debacle okay go I'm not when it was done I'm not stop called yeah bit I know baby are you okay with us collecting this as evidence who are they with to get more context of the whole situation they also speak to the husband alone to review the messages his ex was sending him prior to the altercation so um we were having a good time I'm here tonight just alone so she walks in she's had a history of causing AR Ruckus about us being here and she tries to cause problems here before but has never been violent but she seemed very violent I guess at the door so Trey the bartender stopped her and said hey you're not welcome here and he let us know um I look at my parenting app which is at close which is the only way we can communicate and she's blown me up and we'll look at the messages but what was she saying on phone just she want to talk to you yeah come out here and talk to me I deserve a conversation um do you know what she want to talk about I have no idea it's been 2 years man I don't have no idea she you think it's just drunk she's dated 20 dudes I've dated one girl it's the same girl I have no idea she hates Jen okay she calls her all the time and all the things yeah you know so I'm like I'm not responding to that I'm just going to wait for her to cool off and leave and I would definitely I would probably petition for another restraining order yeah I mean this is I mean started here I said she would drop the baseball stuff off you had a baseball game tonight and then you can you can read from there but you should be coaching what's the whole coaching thing just I have no idea this is this is we don't speak really and so something about you look better out there I have no idea man it's a jealousy or something I have no idea and it's not really aggressive verbiage it's just incessant so go here you go um yeah STL s stuff name data broke all that good stuff and just write down what you what happened okay I'm a so I don't have to that's okay I probably have one in the truck but yeah take um go ahead take are you good with us taking photos of these yeah man if you um code is locks I only 2421 I got it I think the first thing we want to clarify before we move forward with anything and I know it's it's stressful situ ation A lot's going on I know there's a lot of context to this but just I'm going ask you one more time are you are you wanting to move forward with this with criminal charges yes you do 100% okay is there any information you want to share with us you haven't shared with us before about the situation no I was on the phone with her I talked to you yeah and I was on the phone with her what was going on yeah and she was talking to me and then all of a sudden phone got dropped and I could hear Nicholl saying Jan Let Her Go Jan let her go yeah my I stand on the phone I was like hell what did I have one question though why what did you want to talk to your husband about exactly when you came that's not relevant it's just it's contextual information it's not relevant if you don't want to answer the question that's fine okay all right um would you have you gotten his information no he's not I gave him my card okay that's perfect well it's that's important if you're on the phone and heard kind of that part cuz yes that's also in in the video we have okay um so if you're sure you want to pursue charges um okay 100% 100% I want to what's that 100% I want to press while the officers couldn't make an immediate arrest due to conflicting accounts and limited video evidence Justice ultimately prevailed in court the ex-wife identified as the aggressor faced assault charges and a restraining order was renewed to protect the victim