A man gets kicked out of a bar, loses his phone, or thinks he does, and decides tonight is the night to go to war with both the bar staff and the cops called to the scene. What follows is a masterclass in how one bad decision stacks on top of another until a simple where's my phone situation ends in handcuffs, a drug charge, and a judge with zero sympathy. Let's break that. >> Okay. Well, we'll get it all figured out. Do me a favor. Just step over here for me. Hey, do me a favor. >> You were very aggressive and he was very nice. >> Okay, listen. What is your phone look like? >> My phone is a black phone hold. >> All right. >> Have you you already paid your tab? >> How are you going to call that phone? >> I paid my tab. You can call my phone for me. >> Okay. I'm not going to call your phone for you, but >> I know. Please be nice because when y'all lost your phone one time downtown, I bought the phone to a [ __ ] police officer. >> Okay? >> And he dropped it. >> Two things. One, >> I don't care. >> One, I'm going to help you out. >> Two, you're just not going to tell me what you're going to be doing. >> Ranking the jump, the officer sets a calm, problem-solving tone. We'll get it all figured out. That's deescalation textbook. He's not aggressive, not dismissive. He's actually trying to help. But there's already a red flag baked into his second sentence. He tells the civilian that he was very aggressive with bar staff while the other guy was very nice. That's not just small talk. The officer is already drawing a contrast, letting the civilian know his behavior has been clocked. Now the civilian's response, instead of taking that as a cue to calm down, he immediately tries to flip the dynamic, bringing up a past incident where a cop dropped someone's phone. He's not answering questions. He's building a case. In his mind, he's already in a courtroom. The officer shuts that down fast. I'm going to help you, but you don't get to dictate how I do my job. That's a boundary being drawn early. The civilian doesn't hear it. And that right there is where this whole thing begins to unravel. >> So, they they don't have your card because they don't keep cards. >> They card. I ask for my phone. >> Okay. I was just telling >> I'm not I'm not I'm not yelling. >> No. No. Stop. Because I listen, man. What the [ __ ] Because I I talked to them before I talked to you and I asked No, no, you with them. And I asked them for a simple question to hand me my phone. I'll talk to you like I talked to him. >> NO. NO. NO. WELL, then go on. >> You're here for you. >> No, you're not here for me. You're here for them to protect their establishment. >> All I want is my [ __ ] phone. All I want is my [ __ ] phone. down the phone. >> We don't We never search. >> Okay. So, when I find my phone and I track >> back up, please. >> You're going to back up. >> When I find my phone and I track them, it's here. That's on y'all. >> Good night. >> That's fine. You could You could try that in the morning. They don't have your phone. >> They don't. >> They never even served you. >> You [ __ ] lie. Cuz I got >> Good night. They don't have your phone. Good night. Good night. >> USE A GOOD LIE AND GET THE [ __ ] OUT MY FACE because >> have a good night. Yes, >> sir. Ma'am, >> I just went in there and had a drink. So, please go in there and >> now you're not back in there. They don't want you there. >> No, they kicked me out of there because I fired up a black. >> Okay, I'm I'm telling you right now, they would not steal a phone. >> Okay, you went in there. They Your tab is paid. Would I recommend doing Can you listen to how I would handle the situation? >> Are you reasonable? Are you reasonable? You look like a reasonable guy. >> I am very much so. Me, too. >> But how can I pay a tab and I paid it off with my phone? >> I They probably don't have tap to pay in there. You probably have to use your credit card. Do you have a card on you? >> I use tap. >> Okay. They don't have your phone. I What? >> It's not making sense to me when I >> It's not making sense to me. If they If the business tells me they don't have your phone, >> but she doesn't give a [ __ ] >> Well, when you say it like that, I really It's not my problem. So, you were trying to help you and you're not being >> find somebody else to play with. That's not me. Because I got people in places. >> How is you? Someone else play us. Have a good night. >> Get the [ __ ] out of my face. >> One more time. >> Be nice to you. Do what the [ __ ] you got to do because it's not me. It's them. >> Have a good night. You're done here. >> I don't want no good night when I They got my card. >> We're done here. >> We're done. >> They don't have >> They don't have your card cuz you paid. >> WHAT THE [ __ ] THEY DO. >> YOU PAID WITH your phone. That's what you just said. >> Right now. >> They don't have your phone. >> Have a good night. If you come back, you're going to go to jail or you'll just go for trespass. >> That's fine. I don't either. You dumb [ __ ] >> Give me all of her documentation, please. Thank you. >> What's that? >> Give me her documentation. Thank you. >> Shut up. >> No, it's no Shut up. Give me the documentation. Thank you. >> You come back, you go to jail. >> Give me the documentation. Thank you. >> Give me all your information so when I get So when I prove you you're wrong, you can look like a [ __ ] fool. Thank you. No, that's no good. Give me all of your documentation. I can go the [ __ ] out. Listen. Give me your documentation and I can go the [ __ ] I got. Give me your documentation. Give me your No. I need your card and your name. NO. NO. NO. NO. BABY. >> Give me your card and your documentation. GIVE ME YOUR CARD AND YOUR DOCUMENTATION. I CAN GO OVER the [ __ ] where the [ __ ] I got to go. Give me your card. No. Give me your card and your document. Please give me your turn. >> I'm not resisting. >> I'm not resisting. >> Stop resisting. >> I'm not resisting. >> Give me your arm now. >> I'm not resisting. >> Give me your arm now. >> I'm not resisting. >> Give me your arm now. >> I'm not resisting. >> I ask you a simple question. I asked for information. >> So me asking for information? >> No, you snatching an officer and putting your hands on >> I've never touched that officer. >> You lying. >> Check his waistband for guns and stuff. >> I've never touched that officer. >> Roll this way. >> I've never touched that officer. >> Just roll him over and get him uh get him up. Get him up. All I ask is a simple question for information. >> I asked her I asked your information >> for 619. >> Ma'am, I asked your information. >> I gave it to you. >> No, you didn't. I asked for your card and your information. >> Ask your card and your information. >> There you go. >> I'm not doing nothing wrong. I ask for card and information. Y'all can drop me off home. >> All right. For card and information. >> Come on, man. Check this out, man. >> Multiple times you were warned to stop the office. >> For card and information. >> She started getting the paperwork for you. >> She didn't do nothing. >> Now you're going to jail. Is your Is your name Darius? >> Is your name Darius? >> No. All your name information. >> Is your name Darius? >> All access for card. >> Is your name Darius? >> I'm just asking. >> Your debit card that you were looking for was found in your right pocket. >> I didn't ask somebody about no card. >> You did, sir. >> No. I asked them about the drink. >> Nope. You asked about that and your phone of which they don't have your phone. The debit card that you were looking for was in your pocket. >> That's what I asked him about. >> Hey, it's not in there, bud. We told you that. >> It is. All you got to do is >> You wanted to do the most. >> I asked her for some. >> All I asked is for card and information. >> I went to go get it, but you wouldn't stand there. >> Yes, I did. What are you talking about? >> All I ask is for card and information. >> Uh, let me kind of start going. >> Can you just hold that for a second? >> Yeah. >> I asked for card and information. Information. >> I'm not You need to relax. Okay. >> All I ask for is >> whatever you have in your pockets, you need to relax. Okay. >> I don't have nothing in my pocket. >> I got these shorts for my cousin. >> Stop doing that. >> I'm not doing nothing. >> Stop doing that. >> You're going to go back to the ground. You understand? >> It's going to be >> 25-1693693 came. Thank you. >> Well, there's stuff on that side. That's why. Hey, just do it on this side. This side. This side. Well, >> here. >> Let's zoom out and look at the full picture because this encounter is a textbook example of how quickly a situation can compound when someone refuses every off-ramp they're given. This man walked into this encounter with one legitimate grievance, a missing phone. That's it. The officer who responded wasn't hostile. He wasn't dismissive. He was actively trying to help, asking questions, walking through the logic, even appealing to the man's sense of reason. Multiple times, he was offered a clean way out. Go home, come back in the morning, let it go for tonight. Every single time, the civilian chose escalation over resolution. And here's the brutal irony. The phone wasn't stolen. The card wasn't stolen. Both were either with him or simply not there. The entire premise of his rage was wrong. But by the time that became clear, he had already called an officer a dumb f asterisk asterisk k allegedly put his hands on law enforcement and been found with cocaine on his person. The no bond ruling on the assault charge is the detail that stings most. Every other charge had a dollar amount attached, meaning with enough money or a bondsman, he could have walked out. But the assault charge, the judge looked at that and said, "No, that's not a slap on the wrist." That's the system saying this particular charge is serious enough to keep you right where you are. The lesson here isn't complicated. The escalation is a two-way street. The officer held up his end remarkably well. The moment the civilian decided the officer was his enemy rather than his best option for resolving the situation. That's the moment this outcome became almost inevitable. So, here's the question. At what point do you think this could have been avoided? And whose responsibility was it to pump the brakes? Drop your thoughts in the comments below. If you found this breakdown valuable, hit that like button, subscribe for more in-depth encounter analyses, and share this with someone who needs to see it. >> Here, there's stuff on this. >> I got it. I got it. >> No, I got it. That's fine. I just put my password usually. That's all. >> All right. Have a seat. Is there anything else on you that we can find? >> No, man. I ain't nothing wrong. All I was that >> debate that with the judge. Okay. Put your feet in. >> My cell phone is in there. Put your feet in. >> Put your feet in. My cell phone is >> anything else on you. It's going to be another man. I'm telling you. >> There's a positive cocaine. Seems fair. >> Approximately half gram. >> Step up. >> No trying. Don't think I'm being wrong. >> Can I go independent van for asking about my cell about my cell phone? Have a seat. >> Watch your hand. >> The man was charged with the following offenses following the incident at the bar. Assault on a law enforcement officer. Possession of cocaine. Bond $2,500. resisting an officer without violence. Bond $1,000. Trespassing in an occupied structure, bond $500. While bonds were set for the drug and trespassing charges, the judge ordered no bond for the assault on the officer, resulting in him being booked into the booking release center, BRC, and remaining in custody rather than walking free. Unfortunately, any further case details are locked for this case.