now what's going on what's going on we're good we're good what's y''s relationship this is my girl she just mad at me because we're good we're good me trust me okay I don't care know I'm going to tell you I'm going to tell you come talk you don't care stop step back I'm fine step back I'm fine hey you can talk baby baby no I can talk to him it's fine [ __ ] you stop hey it's a fight and I'm done with okay what's going on we're okay we're okay we're okay trust me no cuz I saw what happened I did first of all no step over there just let it let it let it play off play playoff right I've been dating him for a year and a half okay okay we're here on vacation I'm sure you deal with your own thing whatever he he was we had a few drink there done that I I should have touched him I've never had to deal with like his [ __ ] before but this time we were out around a lot of girls he's touching on the females you know how his alcohol is involved I don't like that I don't like that it's disrespectful the second thing was is he was calling me out of name he's never done that [ __ ] you you [ __ ] [ __ ] blah blah I don't like that third thing was she's got no problem stop the third thing is like he's got these [ __ ] pictures like falling out of people it's me like I don't like that understand so you say you've been dating for a year and a half yeah y all live Le anything the first time that's the first time we've ever gotten like a real fight y all live together Sami live together he's like with me 5 days out of the week and then he goes yeah we are kind of we don't we don't have t of him I I don't like that like we've never like really gone on like a we're good we've never gone like on a real big vacation I don't care you know we're out here there's beautiful women like it's no big deal like I get it you know but like if you're going to touch on a woman be like oh you're so beautiful like you work out I'm sorry I'm sorry but like oh you work out like oh let me see your muscles it's disrespectful black tank top hey so you want to talk to he's fine he's never going to touch me it's just [ __ ] like it's a stupid thing it's just a like one disput it is girlfriend that's all it is we want to so I know there ask questions you all been together a year and a half okay is there an expectation of intimacy between the two of you is there a what expectation of intimacy between the two of you what do you mean like sexuals yeah okay okay and you all said you live together for the most part yeah well we live together we don't live together but I say he's like at my house 5 days all the week and then he goes home okay so why' you push him oh really I saw you do it I did push him I did because he's disrespectful calling me out well he had a girl come out of it his ex-wife it's one of those things like where he's like touching on a woman drinking and he's like oh your muscles are so great oh you look so great and then after that he calls me a [ __ ] like five times that I'm acting crazy and then his all these pH photos fall out of his wallet of like his ex [ __ ] like is no girl going to push like mother like [ __ ] why are why is there three encounters with three different [ __ ] he keep kissing photo exactly like is that not going to throw someone over the edge we're both Realtors like we make a ton of money like if I got to get in trouble I'll get in trouble but like I don't I don't like I'm all about respect that probably do look very respectful but like I'm not going to throw any man in front of him what do you what do you like 22 it's not like that do you have an idea on you ma' I have it on my phone I didn't read cuz we were in the water all day can I show you a phone photo we were we were water I'm a good girl I never get in trouble I promise she does she would you go away she's my older sister what the hell is that all about but I will tell you like when I go back to Texas like I'm done with his how long have you two been together about a year and a half a year and a half I'm not I was married for 13 years he's the first guy I've dated since I've been married and it's been a long-term relationship I've never had to deal with a man I've never my relationship ended because my ex was like an alcoholic and I don't want to deal with that I've never had to deal with another woman that's a problem three times in one day like I don't do that [ __ ] i' would rather be single yeah you all need to learn how to respect us ladies I agree I'm just saying if I got to get in trouble I will but that sh you all got to the real ones we don't put up with that we don't go away I'm trying to help you I'm getting you my ID I'm older sister you know how old I am I'm old enough to be your mom and probably your mom I've never been in trouble if I get I'm 50 how old are you close I'm old enough to be your boys's mom and I'm her younger sister but no no we went to uh CRA I got to get these other people drive you go find some real stuff which one hey so you want to talk to me real quick yeah you want to talk to me over here so what's going on man man my girl is that the one he's talking to right now yeah she's just mad at me cuz we're on the uh uh TIY you know TI oh yep so she got mad cuz I was talk some girls over there okay whatever the [ __ ] we a good time but then she went to my wallet right now and then my ex my ex wife picture came up mhm and I'm like oh my [ __ ] God I th I thought I threw all her pictures at out yeah apparently I had that one [ __ ] picture in my wallet mhm and it's just like who was it I'm like oh my God so it's over on the side I threw it out I was like look I [ __ ] forgot about that picture yeah and I just mad cuz she she doesn't like my my okay uh I guess I guess you I mean they're not going anywhere so yeah so that was it and I was like look I'm [ __ ] sorry I didn't not throw that [ __ ] picture away mhm and now she's having a cow mhm and I'm trying to not make C the scene you know what I mean we're trying to we're trying to come in here just have a good time have dinner and have a good time yeah but now you know how you know how it went on they get mad mhm and I'm like she's already on my ass yeah so and that was it I'm not driving my brother driving okay um now were yall just arguing just me and my girl yeah yeah uh she's argue more than I am I'm just like hey it's done it's done I just want to have a [ __ ] meal but she trying to argue we're not trying to cause a [ __ ] scene for everybody you know what I mean yeah obviously y'all are here to keep the peace which is I understand um that's it I mean obviously she's going to [ __ ] hate me so wait we get back home next week you know what I mean yeah um do you have an ID on you it's in your wallet no I got my okay I'm going to talk to him real quick yeah 10:26 give I mean it's [ __ ] dumb I'm sorry had to [ __ ] here some [ __ ] but i' I'd rather get here now I know I know but I mean you probably got better [ __ ] to do than deal with this [ __ ] but like I tell everybody man you're loing traffic they'll be all right um I would rather get I would rather get here now before you know stuff progresses trust me I'm too old to [ __ ] bull you know what like I don't want no drama have a good time yeah but she's [ __ ] mad at me some [ __ ] okay all right I'm going to talk to him real quick and then uh we'll go from there uh said they were out at Island she was going through wall and stuff found a picture of his XY and they've just been arguing ever since what do you say happened out here huh what do you say happen out here nothing why' you push me we're at a crab so we're at a crab Island so we're just having a good time talking to some girls she thought I was like trying to go with some girls and I was having a good time you on the beach but what happened here for her to push you um she the same reason she thought I don't want her to get in trouble I I know I'm just asking I don't want anybody in trouble so soon was push me because so soon push me because I the want to get so but you did push you I mean it doesn't matter can can you not you go I saw it out I know but please state Florida when we have problem cause for domestic violence we have to make an arrest not I I have to uh cuz I saw it happen I I have to I have to rest I don't have a choice but but I have to bail her out yes well you're not going to be able to bail her out some else ask she'll she'll have to go see the judge tomorrow morning oh my God we to take off tomorrow so she have to stay here for theight okay do you can I there's nothing anyone can do I have to I don't have chice like nothing especially because I saw it with my own eyes CU I saw it with my own eyes you just you can't like Let It Go just say like look I didn't see anything what you can't let it go I saw it I I know you did but and she said she did it I don't want to passes I don't want in theate Florida it doesn't matter you mind getting all this info can you get all his info and like write on piece of paper so I can't run it yeah you yeah they got some good St did you get all her info yeah can you turn off for joh back room really yep ni wait what what are we do together unfortunate she was under why for Dom domestic battery there's no battery here there's no battery on PO you guys have nothing better to do I we don't no seriously you guys have a lot better orse no no no we're not Stu why is she being arrested we have to we don't have a choice so what do I do you guys have idea who we're we affiliated with you have worse cases than that not you're pushing right now this is what we have okay oh come on you guys have nothing better than it's just a matter of words don't do that because it's domestic violence in the State of Florida yes it is no it's not yes okay I'm not going to even talk if you're not if you're not going to listen I'm not going to talk listening to let's talk to my car can I talk to you at your car me you're an [ __ ] you never know I did not um when it comes to a domestic violence situation um because y'all are in a relationship that constitute constitutes domestic violence I did I did not maybe stay over here let her know that I did not we we will let her know um so in the State of Florida there's a lot of um people where I don't want to press charges and it's gotten to the point where it's like a stupid argument you know what I mean like it's not even worth it I I understand it but so the State of Florida picks up and the State of Florida automatically presses charges I will let her know that it's not even like a it's just a you know misunderstanding not even uh but can y all just let her go please unfortunately we can't if we let her go we go to jail oh [ __ ] yeah so we have to Dobe I I did not press a charge on you you're you let her know you let her know I did not press charges baby I did not uh can you let her know it's not me I know I I'm going pleas I'm going to explain that yes I did back can you let her know was it me please you just did and he agreed I baby it's not me I wanted it's not me what the [ __ ] all right just down where can I bail her out I'll write down the address and everything for you can I ba her out tonight no it she has to go to see The Judge first thing tomorrow morning so the judge will set her uh Bond we can do no can you please 278 1015 step back over there it's not me you're an [ __ ] it's not me what I'm going to take your phone do you have anything else on look can I can I just say something please I've never been in trouble I know but I'm on vacation I'm supposed to go home my kids do you have anything on you like what anything no can I have my purse though I can get you yeah I can get your purse my makeup this sounds stupid but you have anything else on you there no okay I have a seat in my car right but can I ask you a question what um what's today Friday I'm supposed to go home tomorrow to my daughter you're going to go to court you're going to see a judge in the morning in the morning morning you're now all right let's have a seat if I need to move I will like can I bail her out right now you're not going to be able to bail her out can they bail her out they can bail her out in the morning in the morning in the morning after she sees the judge so what time uh usually about 8:00 a.m. but you're not you two won't be able to have Conta for a while can can you let her know please that it's I I don't explain that to her because it is the state of Florida pursuing this not you I'm going to make I know but we don't have a choice I get it it sucks but we don't have a choice from my understanding it was observed by this officer and Did You observe her yes I saw you deserve her kit pushup yes oh come on please my little sister she's 7 years younger than me sitting in my car and a there's a ton of other crazies out we will get fired and get standard you won't get fired you even have the freaking we will get in a hurry so I don't have it on video do you have the video no so then just I don't have a choice man you do have I know I'm in law enforcement I all three of us will lose our jobs you guys have I'm not going to lose my jobs over this respect a job over pushing yes we don't have discretion we have no discretion when it comes toass violence none push I know how many girlfriends have pushed you a ton you know it cuz you got the green eyes walk away you tell me like is she going to report in the morning yeah she so she has uh they usually do it between 6:00 and 9: so I can build her out what time so she goes to court talks to the judge she gets taken back to the county jail and that's that the judge at that uh court hearing says this is what your bond about going to be and then you then after she gets back you can go I can't give you an exact time what time they get back because it depends on how many people but are there uh we got to back so she come back for yeah she'll probably have to come back for a court date you just can't pay the sign so no so the the state um get his phone number oh not yet sorry just what's your phone number sir so what what can I bail her out you like I said you're not going to be able to bail out they can bail them out tomorrow morning at what time M midday probably probably but I can't make any guarantees and then what time uh whatever fin you has to pay you spay online or do they come back out here they there to bail them out wherever the bail is going to be okay how do you spell your last name for me real quick sorry I was just telling him I'm a c like I'm a child advocate for like the children so I know the laws I'm in court all the time so that's I'm saying like is there any way you can give her a chance don't is there any way you she's my little sister if domestic violence we do not have a choice I get it do you have her purse she wants her purse her purse her wallet can you go see go see like I get the laws I get the laws Rubio is that your name rubo rubo just give me a chance like I I go to put all the time on Abus and neglected children that's what I do for a living I respect that please just give her a chance if if I had any say in it I understand I you do you're not recorded I listen ma'am I am recorded you are yes and she said she did it he said she did it I listen I saw it yes there was no physical that is physical in the State of Florida the way the Florida laws written yes it is okay I understand I'm not saying that what she did is illegal yes okay I understand her frustration I understand where she's from how I understand it the scenario she explained to me I understand why she was frustrated and why she did what she did however it is still illegal to me and that's where as long we don't understand that part of it but cuz I mean I we don't I don't even know if that's part of domestic violence pushing pushing yes I mean we we have so much yeah that's her so I can't take that a whole thing but if she has like a wallet in there I we have so much more that we deal with I don't know the Texas laws I know you're from Texas but we don't enforce Texas laws in Florida we for Florida I understand each State's going to vary a little bit here and there unfortunately this one falls under battery so I know like Pennsylvania has a separate harassment statute for it's not a not a no I understand you guys have to go by the law and everything but I don't see her wallet here she don't have a wallet can I ask her I don't know I'll ask her where where's your Purser wallet at you know what it's a it's a beach bag actually okay do you have like a wallet in there cuz I can't take the whole beach bag that has like food and everything in it am I only going to be there till like the morning yeah till morning okay that I'll be fine it's okay I don't want any one to have my phone can you have my phone I have your phone your phone will go with you won't I will write it down for you it's up near I turn [Music] um yeah so you go it so it's CR CH you guys going straight up to 10 to half or you guys flying uh no we're driving okay so if you go up to I 10 from here um you're not going to be able to pick her up no we were just talking about can they pick her up yeah tomorrow so I don't know about I don't know what time probably midday typically they start first appearance at 8:00 a.m. and it depends how many people have to get through Etc but can you let her know that she thinks that fcking I'm going to explain to her that this is solely based off my observations solely because Florida it's Florida pressing charges it's not you pressing Char I'm going to explain that to like I said I I will personally explain it like I told you I do have to go over this so he didn't want to be pushed and he pushed him but he wanted to be pushed ask him don't ask him if he wanted to be pushed go ask him don't say that did you ask him did you ask him did you ask him I'm going no he's not stop come back over here he come here you're going to you're getting ready to go to jail acting like this ask him no bab I'm not going to have you tell us how to do our job step back over there you will not I raise my voice ask him if it was an unwanted push ask him and then he could let her go she's my little sister I mean you can ask them and let it go ask them nothing against you based off what I observed I saw them arguing each other we're not doing that why because because they have all AG there's lots of I'm an advocate for children that're abused anded getx I respect that 100% don't and this is not on the scale that is an unwanted push was it an unwanted push it was [ __ ] it was not an unwanted push no this is some [ __ ] disag that was it like do the right thing it was not a we got a lot more hear from the you will be happy once you let us go I understand you lost but you're hearing it from the horses now you don't have to we do believe we have a lot of I'm going to get out of here with her okay all right hey ma'am what's your name Lisa Lisa all right I'm Deputy Atkins with the OKO County Sheriff's Office I did not uh I was the second Deputy that I got here and pulled him off to the side okay um so I I just want to explain to you what had happened real quick so it Deputy rubo the the deputy who is placing you under arrest um he was actually driving through the parking lot in he was parked but I saw him yeah but parked okay um but he was already in the parking lot and observed it I saw him I saw him when I pushed one like I saw him but I didn't think like a push was going to be like the end of the world um I guess it was so in the State of Florida um any unwanted touch or strike uh constitutes battery in the State of Florida what if he says it wasn't unwanted what you want what's that what if he says it wasn't unwanted will you let me go uh so it was Deputy rubo's observation um and it's his probable cause but the State of Florida automatically pursues the charges no matter what um it's not you think it's dumb huh do you think it's dumb that I'm in here I I can't say yes or no um at the end of the day we have to do our job or we go to jail ourselves so I just wanted to clarify no one no he didn't call and and none of neither of those two called so and it's not that he's specifically pursuing charges it's the State of Florida automatically says we are so do you have any questions for me at this time okay hey I explained I explained the state's the one that pursues get out of here okay I'm going to get them I'm going to get them the County Jail's address real quick and we'll be out of here please let her go please unfortunately like like I said man if we do then we go to jail you guys have better things can I go to jail over no you guys have better thing to do what are you doing there's worse got drug traffickers got people that are breaking the law we cannot flout our domestic violence laws there's no no it is it's Dating Violence in Florida which is treated under the so that's where she's going to be tomorrow the Okaloosa County jail and that's the address can yeah so I just I don't know their phone number off the top of M her out tomorrow we can about her out tomorrow does she have her phone with her uh she she does yeah I ended it back okay how far is this uh here 40 minutes from this spot right here no it's in Crest View I don't know where right here crestw Florida yeah you can look it up on Google Map so [ __ ] hates me right now all right is there anything y'all need from us at this time to know who the law Breakers are okay like you guys know better today it was her today she pushed her boyfriend she went like this you guys know that there are other things you should be breaking the law for I'm a I'm a casa I'm a child advocate for sex trafficking children and children that are abused neglected I'm in the court all the time not you it's not you your boy chose that choice listen you guys wer here know if you guys sh if you guys weren't here and that happened it would have just brushed off they would have went they would have ate would have could very well be that that is the truth but you have to make you have to make you guys have to do your job a thing out and we respect that and we respect you and we and we honor your position you have no because we are highly highly in respect of police officers like that's our thing like we support police officers we we support our law enforcement and we and we prot we ask that God protects you and we agree with that so we're good with that sometimes you got to I don't know but anyway we're good go do your thing we'll figure it out what you got D you back yeah it all right y yeah so TJ left I see right back there never left yeah never in just a second they'll do that