oh did you get 14 over here no I have no gra my what happened tonight man did you speak Spanish uh not enough to get by sorry buddy we just in the party uh we come inside to the we are in the pool taking beers you know and with the friends y I work and we go to the apartment of our friend we are dancing with friends MH and another girl boy from me and that dancing I am in that pissed her off no this is my girlfriend that pissed her off though the other girl dancing on you no the other girl come from me and tried to danceing and my girlfriend don't like that and my girlfriend put very female beding from the you know and we try to go and all because I want to go to my home with my girlfriend usually I don't like that sir so what happened here huh what happened here my girlfriend she punch you yeah all right well do you want medical treatment I don't want to take a problem with that just I just want to go home brother no no no I got you you do you want medical treatment I don't want to Medical I don't want to buddy you understand we got to we're here we have to do this we have to talk about it now that's why I got ask these questions you know what I'm saying I'm fine I don't want a problem I just want to go home brother I don't touch girl what' you do in the car or did you do it out there in my car did she punch you in the car or over there over there okay I just don't want problem I just no no no I got you I got you I got you we got we have to unfortunately we have to work through some stuff right now because of what we have here okay you and your girlfriend are fighting right we still have to talk about we still have to ask questions that's what I need I need she understand and go home because she takes some beers and she is not the same when she is clear I got you understand what I mean yeah yeah I take some beers but I control it yeah I'm fine I can drive I can go home I'm fine you can test me if you hey what's your phone number it's that's all word bro it's feel all word I I got you man oh my just wait one second okay okay you want to get FD here for yeah so buddy listen you can refuse right but because you have an injury to your ear we still have to call and get you checked out okay huh no I'm fine I'm fine no no I know you are and you're telling me you're fine and I I believe you but our policy dictates when there's an injury like this we still have to call and have them give you the okay that's what we have to fine you need to call yeah I need to call I'm fine I'm really fine no and you can refuse all that that's fine but the problem is is because we're here okay I have to I have no you have to yeah I have no leeway in it okay I'm not trying to make this more embarrassing than it already is but this is where we're at okay I just want to go home I got you 574 how long and you and your girl have been together uh 3 months 4 months 3 months almost four months do you have any kids together no okay have you ever lived together huh have you ever lived together live yeah no we are just uh spend uh weekends okay you guys had sex before I'm assuming right huh you've had sex before you had sexual relations together yeah of course okay how' you meet it how how I me yeah I'm just asking these questions that's All Copy 5 S 5 ft 7 in no no no I'm sorry how did how did you two meet J meet at a bar sparking spark driving she work at the same water ask me oh okay okay okay I got you but you don't live together right huh you don't live together you don't sh share the same house no okay we don't have any problem this problem just today so basically I just want to run this by more time okay so you guys were having a party right they were having a party your friend yeah girl the girl was dancing up on you that she didn't like girlfri another girl other girl yeah she is my girlfriend I respect she this girl yeah listen she she don't like what other girl dancing around me behind me and she think that I'm I'm not respect he but I respect she e your [ __ ] she's got so this is because she's been drinking that's why drinking yes but I don't like do sir know I got you I really feel b sir man hey hey P just take a breather okay yeah listen but if I if I tou her yeah I got you this my [ __ ] problem bro yeah I don't I don't like that it's not okay for her to hit you regardless no she is not okay but I'm not okay too and I love this girl sir mhm but she's drinking she's a different person when she drink yes sir okay um how much do she drink I don't know maybe you what she drink how much she drink what did she drink what she drink yeah oh me her H Sant Teresa r with Coca-Cola uh three or four cups and two or three beers okay mix it um and me too but I I'm fine I can test it I it maybe I'm not worried about that I'm not worried about that right now I feel good um this is I really feel good uh sorry the party over here how so how how did we get to the point where she punched you ear was it outside was it inside I don't remember maybe when I tried to get she because she going going to walk in and I say come to my car and we talk when we when when we arrive at home because we are in the street and the police can't come in because we are in the center of the street and I don't like that because it's a she you were on this street right here she com in walking and I try to talk yeah stoping and come home normal when she my girlfriend yeah she feel bad but I don't want to when did she punch you first with the with the with the what is the name of this the purse or the choca with cha yeah first boom with the CH okay and second with the Boon with her with her fist yeah okay so where she hit you with the l in the head right here I don't remember yeah maybe okay all right just give me one second okay for that that's not I want I don't want to report you well listen I'm telling you right now okay right now because we are involved we have to talk about stuff so what that officer right there who's the one who came across it she's the one who just makes the ultimate decision okay she's the one who makes the ultimate decision regarding she got make a decision yes so we have to just go through this process just stand here relax take a Brea I want to process I don't want to I got you in the asum process in this country I don't want to problem none of that is going to affect any of this I don't want to problem sir okay I really don't want to problem listen do you want me to be I'm going to be real honest with you right now okay so the State of Florida all right when it comes to domestic violence which this is domestic violence I just know domestic me let me finish I don't feel violence Pedro let me finish okay I a man sir I respect girls right so we happened to come across it right you were trying to get it caged in right but it didn't work okay you have an injury to your ear and face I got it you're fine but I'm explaining to you why we are where we remember I told told you about the fire department right they to come out and check you out okay there's another thing all right when it comes to domestic violence okay we have to do something we have to I know so this is why says I don't I don't want to the I don't want to that's fine and that's fine but for right now okay this is where we're at we got to talk we got to figure this stuff out and then we'll go from there okay but just do me a favor okay don't interact with her right now just stand here I'm going to talk to the the officer okay off Jake Jake yeah okay what did she get so far um the they were at a birthday party um apparently the I guess some other female was ging him a lot Dan of some sort um she said it continued longer than she would have liked and he didn't try to push this female off so she started yelling at him he said let's just go they went out of the apartment downstairs in the apartment parking lot they started each other she said he shoved her then she shoved him um and she doesn't know how he got the injury to his ear um and um then they got the car they ended up out here the car was like right here in the middle of the road like literally in like oncoming like facing me when I got there and they the first the original story was oh ran out of gas but they I mean they have L gas but they had gas on um so I guess they Contin to fight in the car and then I guess she pulled the eat break and that's what caus the here so you said that she [ __ ] beat him with her chocolate which is Spanish for her sandle that's probably how she he got this and he punched her and she punched him in the face she said he punched her in the face too does she have injurious uh she has blood on her but Wass her blood so if I put a bet man she's primary agressive so yeah so she she's the one yeah he was just trying to gather her into the car so she said she said he was trying to get her to CW in the car she was the noise complaint was these two I'm yeah that's what I was guessing said the party I was like probably but I'm sure it's all dissipated now but that um so they've been together 3 months that we got from her she oh he's up so yeah um yeah the one that yeah they don't live together they don't have any place together that's what you said no kids no kids so um what's your uh take you want to talk to him first yeah cuz I mean he's got a completely different story than so you want hold on to this for now just him oh you got got it right now I'll take the gift to you that's all okay okay yeah I mean you can Reas her some stuff I guess and see if she'll change anything or if anything changes when she talks speak for English yep okay hi ma'am all right so I know you talk to that officer okay I need you to run me through what happened okay so you're at a party right okay who's he to you is your boyfriend both huh both both okay can hear me face hold on hold on hold on let me see [Music] okay all right so let me see your hands go like this all right so I want to know what happened prior to all this so what give me a rundown what happened all night okay we coming on the party we meet the G the girl uh working it was her birthday we was here uh it was her family goe listen like a barbecue something like that and then we the family go out and we was on the part and on the pool okay the pool finished we went to try here her to all to the apartment M all the people leaving just my boyfriend me the girl the birthday and one friend stay at the home we was eating dancing enjoying whatever and the other girl tried to put on my boyfriend like pushing in the seat dancing in the [ __ ] dick like four time the first time was like okay all are drinking that's fine the second time 1 time the fourth time I was like what the [ __ ] M I'm here he said that's normal I Tri to he never say no everything F all the [ __ ] crazy and say respect me whatever the year the birthday she say um please say call now whatever please we leave me when we was to the his car everything the fight is star um when he pushed me push me how' he push you pushed you he pushed me and I pushing and everything was where did he punch you huh where' he punch you in the face what side I don't remember I think here here he was okay really we have to we have to it's our it's our policy because we have people with injuries we have to call somebody so anyways continue on with your story so did you walk away huh did you try and walk away yes was he trying to Crow you into the car he follow me to a here and he tried to P me into to the car inside when we started to fight and I tried to uh you hit him a chun chun did you hit him yes when he pushed me I push me like because why you have to push me no because my last exboyfriend pushed me a really bad and he know that that's why I really put C because he know that my [ __ ] boyfri push me okay that what pushing yes he know that [ __ ] [ __ ] I I saw him talking picture and don't do the [ __ ] [ __ ] you know that my talking is push me don't do no [ __ ] [ __ ] girl sitting in your [ __ ] this dancing in my [ __ ] face yes I push him because he pushed me okay so she has possible injuries to her nose in face and he has injuries to his face over there okay um so you want to check him out it's just it's merely it's purely like just check him out that's all it is so she's claiming that he hit him for correct and she was defending herself that's what she's talking he's he would not and may grab don't worry I'm fine I'm fine to just come who started the argument so when I've come across this before and I had super prises who started the argument they're the primary agressor you know what I'm saying whatever you who you right now her or him who youing towards right now and she has a little bit of like a blood it looks like in her nose in her nose okay she said he hit her in face so she might have redness over here but I can't tell whether it's makeup or redness right so yeah I noticed that the that's the first thing I noticed when they were in the car was that so I me she I guess supposed to hit him with the [ __ ] sir I just want to just just go stand over there for right now okay I talk to her real fast okay any alcohol tonight yeah yes or no alcohol alcohol yeah okay any drugs no no drugs just alcohol yeah alcohol Hey Jo do me a favor just stand over there while I talk to her real fast okay all right he's clear thanks bud thank you I would say that both basically mutual combat on both right cuz you can't tell who who first all their injuries I would say whoever started the whoever started the argument is a primary Resturant yeah so it sounds like she started so I can I go ahead go ahead calm down one thing one thing at a time right now we got to deal with this I told you I explained to you and she probably explained you to right when it comes to domestic stuff we don't have any leeway so we have to work through this know sir I know listen I know crime for I don't have raid I a Manor I have 25 years I have a really hard life in Cuba Cuba is a dictator I don't know if you know what is Cuba is a [ __ ] government is a [ __ ] everything is [ __ ] CU [Music] okay my English is not enough forain [Music] you [ __ ] [Music] okay she let me do you want what I need to do yeah I guess if she's available yeah see if she can translate I'm going to have uh a female Spanish speaker I'm trying no no no no no listen listen listen what I need to do really I don't want [ __ ] here his confidence with me he tell when I when I meet her this girl three four months ago our relationship was really beautiful really beautiful believe me sir believe me I understand that that happened everything is normal okay I just feel like I can't do anything because this situation get out to my controller okay you know I can't control it mhm but what is more important she and help because the last boyfriend these man hit this girl I know the the name the full name why is she saying that you hit her first she's saying you punched her he told me that no no she is just saying that you punched her in this fight okay she's saying that you started the fight by punching her I'm punching her first yes just tell the truth sir okay when when I Tred to come with me you don't you don't have to describe we understand come with me come with me you are drinking but I don't touch this girl okay I don't want to fight with this girl okay I don't want a problem I don't is said if you punch some girl in Florida you break the rules it goes both ways it goes that just men it's just it's women too whatever [Music] whatever pyra right now help sir right now I just want to help this my girlfriend because I love my girlfriend sir okay I don't want to fight with my girlfri I and I don't don't disagree with that but what I'm saying to you right now okay just to explain I'm going explain it slow so you understand okay in the State of Florida when it comes to you and her and domestic relations all right you guys are in a relationship okay yeah you're right boyfriend girlfriend okay we don't live together but it doesn't matter okay you guys are in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship okay the State of Florida okay who we represent yeah all right they give us very little space to choose happens when it comes to domestic related issues or boyfriend girlfriend issues okay do you understand what I'm saying so far yeah a little bit okay so it's don't accept our job right is to come out here and and find out who is the first person to start the argument or fight okay and that's why we're asking these questions okay we have to do something after that point I never shoot this girl I just trying to come with me come with my car she CH me with the with the juice in my face and listen we're we're working through this one piece at a time right now you need to slow down and let us talk so we can figure out what's going on okay we'll talk to you in a minute all right but just take a breather okay take a nice understand I just feel bad for she she take some actitude bad for think another wrong situation because I never touch another girl I respect she that we're not about for everything we're we're not we're not that's not in debate we're not worried about that we're worried about who hit who first she she with his sh so let me just talk to her real fast all right you guys good yes yall good yeah appreciate it no we got it it doesn't [ __ ] matter whatever what do you want you want take a second to think about it I mean at this point point it's I mean it's I'm going to say she's prob I mean she started fight right so she did start it I mean it's he's got the physical injury right um I'm not you know something may have happened between them as far as that goes I mean as far as him you know on her I can refer you knower I would refer regardless um on him and then um so I mean there's that and then there's also I mean she I'm pretty 100% sure she's not good to be driving so I mean so NE yeah so and I had her in possession P whe so oh there's that issue too so all right [ __ ] yeah all right um just tell me what you need man I got you do you want me try to get photos of his and stuff like that I feel that me yes if you can yes cuz I feel like he's more receptive speaking to you because you're you know he's like cult yes so um yeah you can he'll probably more receptive to you with that and then you know then I guess have to figure out where I'm going to go from here if I'm going to do domestic and what if I can do di investigation on top of all this or what what I'm going to do with all that so that's up to you I I can't help you with that one no no no I know I know um I mean the car wasn't running when I came up here but she was sitting behind the driver seene so you can also just put it as like hey she don't to jaelly either way it's the issues being taken care of tonight too so yeah those your choice is yours and I support you either way so let me know what you want I'll get try and get photos of that over there okay all right said she had some yeah I'll try and get those two as well all right turn your head H turn this way all right you stay here for a second okay just I got take a quick photo here okay turn your face this way see what I mean yeah let see your hands go like this flip them over all I got photos of the whole everybody so okay is that stuff from your car that's on the roadway over there huh all that stuff that's on the road over there is that stuff from your car no I I can't see but I don't remember that me all right hey so you've had a little bit drink today right yeah a little bit but I'm fine you want I check your eyes see if you're okay to drive huh I want to check your eyes to see if you're of course so listen with your eyes and your eyes only okay follow the tip of my finger you see the tip my finger uhhuh all right all right mhm and don't move your head mhm don't move your head mhm don't move your head all right just stay here for me for a second okay h what's going she's talking to him right now that's all we have to do an investigation that's all we're at right now what huh so in the State of Florida okay because you guys are a dating relationship okay we we have a certain level of stuff that we have to do as police officers okay so we have to investigate any domestic related issues okay and the reality of it okay is that usually someone has to go to jail for the night okay we have to determine who the primary aggressor in the argument is okay whether it's verbal or whether it's physical okay so she's talking to him about that right now she come over and talk to you as well okay we are going to the game uh I don't know she it's up to her so when it also when it comes this okay is because domestic issues are very highly emotionally charged okay they have a lot of emot with them [Music] okay are the state statutes in the government who we represent okay says hey we have to do something about this all right so that's why we're doing this okay this why this this a whole big thing right now okay whoever if if she decides that someone has to go to jail tonight okay it's not the end of the world okay because there has to be a victim in a crime do you get what I'm saying if I don't want so say if you don't want to do anything you can drop it tomorrow it doesn't matter we still have to act regardless a one for the day or if she decides whoever she decides who the primary aggressor is okay whoever person have to go uh necess yes why because again I just explain it to you right is we don't have very it's hard to explain so this Florida State Statute that governs domestic violence okay which is battery whatever it may be okay is very very specific about our actions as officers okay and to prevent any possibility of someone else getting hurt down the road okay even it's for the night okay we have to decide who's going to jail or not really really we it doesn't work like that unfortunately so that officer over there the the female officer okay she's making her decision okay based off the interviews that she had with both of you guys okay and then we're going to decide from there all I'm doing is standing here while I talk to you that's it okay is any other is any other just a fortunately not when it comes to domestic stuff no you both have injuries on your face okay from the fight all right again that officer is the one who's I don't want the ja right I don't know who's going to jail it may be you it may be him I don't know okay and again just because you go to jail okay doesn't mean that you are convicted of anything okay all it means is that you're going to jail for the night okay and say he goes to jail right right you don't want to press charges against him all this is expunged it's gone it doesn't go on his record it doesn't do anything it doesn't affect I know he's in immigration status right now right he he doesn't want me to go to get on those say want can't go to jail unfortunately it has nothing to do with want tonight okay someone is going to jail no he if he going to the jail how much um so because it's domestic related okay what happens is you're held to the first thing tomorrow morning so 6:00 a.m. okay then they have a hearing all right then the release usually on their own he can't he doesn't bond out till 6:00 in the morning he doesn't have to BU nothing usually they're usually they're released on your own okay again I'm I'm being 100% I don't know if it's him going to jail or you're going to jail I don't know I'm just being real with you okay she the only officer the officer over there she knows I haven't got a chance to talk to her I being huh I know being so that's very crazy listen it's not 6 a.m 6:00 a.m. is when the they have uh what's called the probable cause hearing for the arrest okay so listen it's not the end of the world you want to appear in my right call he can't no so here's the thing it only appears on your record after and the same goes for him right after you've been convicted of the the crime being arrested for something doesn't mean it's going to appear on your record does that make sense yes okay so you can get arrested tomorrow for murder right but if there's no victim to that murder right or the the courts find you not guilty of said M of said murder it doesn't go on your doesn't go on your record okay that make sense yes okay it's because it's because we unfortunately all right with with like domest again I hate using this word domestics do you understand the word domes do you understand what I'm saying about domestic yeah domestic because you guys are in a relationship boyfriend girlfriend okay it's because so many bad things have happened after cuz it used to be right like you guys said you're good we'll let you guys go on your way figure it out if I say to the police oh no we're good this never happen right but if there's you guys have injuries right so we have to investigate okay but say there no injuri is right say hey we we argued that's it you go on your way and then you kill him or he kills you he comes back on us okay because we were in a position to act and we didly do you see what I'm saying because the last time a normal relationship should have zero hitting in it I never do nothing you know I was either way you know what I'm saying either side there should be no listen I'm married I I didn't have a you know a um proof U when I TR two years um B go because he still try to call me and text me and uh um follow me and that's it and I try to put uh something to the police and they say you don't have you can say you know again that comes behind that right I'm going to say to you that because there's injuries to both of you guys right we have to do the full investigation that's proof those injuries are proof okay again whatever happens tomorrow and you're like hey I don't want him to I don't want any charge against him or he goes hey want charges against her right then that's it it's done you're dropped it's nothing happens with it okay I'm telling you on a personal level okay none there should in a relationship like going to the point where you're hitting each other is not a good relationship I know I know that listen I've been married for 10 years okay to a borica right that's why I know Lanka yeah so that's why I know Lanka She Drives Me Crazy but never once in that 10 years have ever wanted to punch her right you know what I'm saying yeah that's a healthy relationship okay drinking never help I never G eager you know what I mean yeah drinking doesn't help either though you know what I'm saying when people have drinks emotions go high that's what happens and listen what he did was not right with the girl I'm not disagreeing with that at all okay uh you felt slide did about it I put gra test me the car bag yeah and then is he I checked his eyes he's going to have somebody so he does those lights what I can't see anything with those lights yeah I know I'm sorry okay go ahead and turn around me okay they s put your hands okay so like we were talking about right in the State of Florida when it comes to domestic situations okay between you and your boyfriend we don't have a choice we have to arrest a primary aggressor okay he's also going to have charges referred on him for what he did to you okay remember I was saying like if you both don't want to be victims of anything it can it drops after a certain point okay so you got to tell the courts that that's your choice you can't force that if you don't right so it's going to relocate you in a second and you I just