back in the day and at that point she got to school and grabbed my arm and grabbed my crotch. And so at at that point >> that was from her. >> Yeah. And so and so at that point, you know, she turned around because I got loud with her and she ran into a table and fell. >> Okay. >> And so some of my property now that was on that table was broken. So I'm just like I'm I'm at my wit's end. What's uh it's the program grabbing your arm across you on physical altercation or what? >> Yeah, that's that's what she did. And so when I went to approach her, she turned to run and and fell over that table in there. >> She's intoxicated. >> She was earlier. She had an hour and a half nap and I thought she was going to be okay, but she's got up and she wanted to get in this car, that Nissan, I mean that Toyota Rav 4 that's hers. And I didn't think she was capable of driving. Okay. So, I told her that I wasn't moving my car and that I needed the keys to my car. >> When she grabbed you, was she trying to cause cause you any harm or >> She wasn't trying to cause me harm. She was just being, you know, grabbed me. And then when she turned to run, she's like, I'm going to tell them that you threw me down. And I'm like, I'm not doing this. I'm calling the police. >> Is there any cameras in the house? >> No. No. >> Um Okay. Where's she at now? She's in the house because the lady I was talking to on the phone with dispatch >> said for me to separate from her. >> What's her name? >> Her name is >> All right. You mind if we talk to her? >> No, not at all. And and you know, really >> does she live here? >> Did she live? >> She been living with me since June 16th. >> Okay. >> This door is open over here, sir. >> This is your girlfriend. Are y'all married? >> How long have you been dating? >> Right. >> We had dinner at Caps on the Water in St. Augustine. Uh, how many was she drinking before y'all went there? >> Yes. >> How many drinks did she have before and while you were there? >> Yeah, she had um some some saki >> Oh, that she had in a Yeti cup when we left here to drive up there. >> And then we went to home Office Depot and bought a file cabinet and went to fish camp and had two drinks and then we drove out and she had two glasses of wine there. Then we drove out there and she had two um rum pain relievers, which is a cocktail that they make. And then when we got back home, >> she got back into the saki. There's a empty bottle of saki in the the drawer in the refrigerator. >> Okay. >> Um let me see your arm. That's from >> That's just where Yeah, that's where she grabbed me and she grabbed my crotch. my arm and my crotch at the same time. >> And that was was that here? >> That was here right there in front of the that library cabinet. And then whenever I told her, "Stop. Don't do that." And I got loud with her, she turned to run, and that's when she fell over. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> I didn't touch her, sir. >> No, I understand. >> I understand. Uh we're just trying to get all the facts of the story here, you know. >> I understand. There's always there's always >> I just I just really you know I hate it that you know she had that and she she had an hour and a half >> two hour and a half or 2 hour nap. She just woke up. >> That's a lot of alcohol. I mean to be 45 minutes in since she's been up and she wanted to get in that car and leave and I'm like I'm not I'm not >> What was the original argument about? Cuz I asked her and she said there was no argument that you guys just came in and you pushed her over the thing. Oh, no. No. She started an argument with me up at at Caps on the Water. >> Okay. >> And we actually >> What was that about? >> It was about um me not helping her break her cl crab claws on her lobster. The the claws on the lobster. >> Okay. Um, and then when y'all got here, you went >> when we got when we got here, um, I called and talked to my mom like I do every night. >> And she was outside on the hammock. Um, and text me five times while I was on the phone with my mom. And then when she came in and she called me two or three times while I was talking to mom, then she came in and I told her that she really should just go lay down. And so she spilled the drink on the back patio. She she messed up a blanket that was out there on the hammock. >> Is the blanket still out there? >> No, I brought it in and washed it cuz it had saki on it. And so then after she did that, she took this nap. And when she got up from the nap, she was upset that there wasn't any alcohol in the house and she wanted to leave in that car. But I told her I wasn't moving my car and that I needed my keys for my car cuz she has a set for mine as well. Mhm. >> And I I pay for the insurance on both these vehicles in my name because she moved in with me on June 16th. And so I didn't want her driving that car or my car. I'm >> Yeah, you did the right thing. Um >> was there any argument about your son? She said some I asked her what argument about. She said y'all were fight You were upset about something about your son. I was upset because she said that she had been told I had been with a girl while she was in New York for 3 weeks and that the girl had told my son and that I needed to get with my son. And I'm like, I'm not talking to my son. My son and I haven't talked since June 26th. I'm not going to call and ask him about that. >> Right. >> I don't care what people say. >> That was the only thing about the son. That was the only thing about the son was he said she told me that the girl that I had been with told my son >> that she had been with me. And I'm like that's not true. I've been with nobody but you since April. >> And do you normally bleed like that when you >> Yeah. I've got I've got I mean it doesn't take anything for me to I was putting that on a buttons on her desk chair that she bought yesterday. Mhm. >> And and that's what happened. >> So it doesn't take anything for me to get >> This is her address where she stays at though. She doesn't have another house or anything. >> No, she sold her house and went to New York to start a yoga studio at a retreat and the deal fell through and she came back and she was living with some people over in East Hampton. And so while she was living with them, we were dating and um we went on a trip and we decided that it was so good. I said, "Look, you sold your house. What are you going to do next?" She said, "I don't know." I said, "Well, come live with me a while." >> So, she's been with me since June 16th. >> Okay. >> All right. >> And I did change her address over to mine so that she could get her mail. Yeah. Yeah. >> And I did pay for her insurance on her car so that she'd have insurance cuz her license her her insurance is voided out. >> All right. Give me a minute. >> What happened? >> I mean, what what do we need to do, boss? You tell me what's going on. >> So, um I'm going to be honest with you. So based off the information that you've provided to us, >> yeah, >> she's provided to us and the evidence that we've gathered, it's considered domestic violence, right? Cuz you guys live together. Um Florida doesn't take domestic violence lightly, >> right? >> Um it appears that she is going to be the primary aggressor in this situation. Okay. Um going to be honest with you, she's probably going to go to jail. Do you have to do that? >> Unfortunately, >> can you release her to her friend's house? Cuz she's had one of these before. >> And I just spent $897 trying to get it expuned. >> She had one here in Florida. >> Yes. >> With uh who? Okay. When how long ago? >> Previous boyfriend. Um well, I I don't I can't remember the dates. >> Okay. She got arrested for it. >> Yes. >> Okay. So, I don't >> I I understand that. Um, unfortunately, I mean, we we've got called here for a reason. Um, you know, I'll be honest with you, if there wasn't evidence, you know, she has evidence on her eye that she was cut. If you didn't have evidence on you, it you would be going to jail. You know what I mean? So, somebody would be going to jail regardless. Florida doesn't take domestic violence lightly. Okay? I'm just being straight up with you. All right? Um, we got called here for a reason. Now we're here. We have a duty to act. We can't just walk away. All right. Um, do you want to fill out a written statement of what happened? >> I really don't. I I don't I don't want this girl to go to jail. >> I understand that. I mean, either way, I mean, everything's been recorded. So, everything that you said has been recorded. It's your right if you want to fill this out or not. >> I I I really don't want to fill that out. >> Okay. >> I I mean, um, I don't want I don't want anything happening to her. Only thing I only thing I I do need though is uh You got somewhere we can write? >> Yeah. >> Right on this car. You want to ride? >> Uh yes. What do you want? >> We We'll go right here on this trash can. >> Yeah, if you don't mind. >> And then just put down right here. I do not wish to fill out. This is a willingness to prosecute. Um, if you wish to pursue charge, if you don't, um, I'm going to be honest with you. It still doesn't matter if you do or not. The state still can pick it up. Okay. >> This is if you don't, this is if you do. >> So, just sign. >> So, this this is my name here. >> If you do not wish to pursue charges, >> I do not wish to pursue charges. So, what do I what do I put here? >> Just sign your name. Do you mind if I just take pictures of your injuries? That's good. We >> just step right over here. Look at that. Got another piece of paper I got to give you. Oh, just stand straight for me. [Music] All right. Any other injuries that you have on you? >> No. >> You grab my crotch. >> Yeah. No, we don't need that. >> Yeah. I mean, really. >> Okay. Uh, just hold on to that pen for a second. Give me one second. She's been arrested already once for domestic. >> She has. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. He already knows that she's going to be gone 10:15. Yeah. I've already pretty much he doesn't want to. Um I mean, I think she's the primary aggressor on on the situation. Let me make sure. Let me see what you got. Make sure I got everything right. >> She started drinking that or what time? >> Let's see. We had breakfast at 11. So 11:45 noon time. >> Have you had any drinks? >> Yes, sir. >> Okay. How many have you had? >> I've had four beers. >> Okay. I had two Bud Lights at Caps and I had two Yinglings at the other place. >> What time? So you you guys got back here at 6:30 or you left >> somewhere around there. Yeah, cuz we were there at like 4:30 5. >> Once you got back here? >> Yeah. >> Um you guys went inside. She went to sleep. Is that what you said? No, she went out back and got in a hammock and she was out back in a hammock for a while and I was on the phone talking to my mom and then she came in and got to where she was in a t over where was her phone, where was her phone? And her phone was in the side cushion of the chair in there next to the headset that was on the end table. She got all upset about that and then she went and got in bed and fell asleep. And then she got up and she's like, "Uh, why'd you get up?" I'm like, "I never got in bed with you. You went in here and I've been watching the Yankees game." >> How long was she sleeping? >> Hour and a half, hour and 45, something like that. >> Okay. And then when she got up, when did the argument start? Um, as soon as as soon as she realized that I was going to watch the baseball game instead of paying her any attention >> and she and then that is that when she wanted to leave to go get more alcohol. >> Yeah, that's what Well, she was in her bed clothes and she got up and came out here and said, "I need you to move my car. I'm going to the store." And I'm like, "No, I'm not moving my car and you're not going to the store." And that's what really set her off. And I told her I needed my car keys cuz she got a set of this Atlas and I didn't want her jumping in that Atlas taking off either and ruining my insurance. >> So then she went back inside. Is that when you guys were standing in the hallway right there? >> Yeah. >> And then that's when she she just approached you and grabbed you. >> She was yelling at me about some girl that I was supposed to have had something to do with. And she says, "You're going to have HIV and AIDS cuz you were with that fat bitch." And she grabbed my arm and my crotch simultaneously. And I backed up and then said, "You're not going to do this tonight. You're not going to be like this tonight." And I I took two steps toward her and she started running. And I've never ever, sir, touched her. >> Okay. So, I mean, I I don't get it. >> And that's when she turned around and fell over the uh >> Yeah, she was taken off back to the bedroom, I guess, cuz I was telling her I was going to get my keys from her. I sure don't want her having to go. >> And then after she fell, what happened? >> After she fell, I picked her up and I called you guys and said, "She's in here tearing up my property cuz she was breaking. She had broke stuff. Okay. Um, can you just get him to fill that out real quick? And then I'm going to go talk to her for a minute. >> You're going to take her tonight? >> Mhm. >> Have you told her that? >> Not yet. >> Okay. So, I can't go in the morning to get her out because she's got to see a judge and there might be a no contact. >> Mhm. >> Yep. So she uh they'll either release her on her own recognance means that she doesn't doesn't have to pay to get out or um they'll give her a bond. So >> do I have any influence on that? >> So you can contact the state attorney's office um tomorrow and talk to them. Um >> who's that? >> The state attorney's office. Just you just Google state attorney's office for Flaggler County. >> Okay. >> And it should pop up with a number. You can contact them. let them know what happened. Um, let them know you don't wish to pursue charges. And you know, because at this point, since you don't wish to pursue charges, the state still picks it up. It's domestic violence. >> I understand. >> Um, but there's in the past there's been times where they've dropped it if you know the victim's not cooperative or something like that. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Um, just do me a favor if you can just go in through the front door while we talk to her. Do you mind if I talk to you for a second? >> Mind if I talk to you for a second? >> Go ahead and put your hands behind your back. For >> put your hands behind your back for what? >> Do not do not resist. You're being placed under arrest for domestic violence. >> No, I didn't do anything. >> Ma'am, stop resisting. You're You're going to get another charge. >> I'm I'm going to give you another charge if you if you don't stop. >> Stop resisting. Do you understand me? >> Ma'am, you are still fighting me. Stop fighting me. No, I'm not. >> You are fighting me. Stop fighting me. >> What's going on? >> We will talk to you in a second. Stop fighting us. >> Oh my god. >> Ma'am, >> you're still fighting us. >> No, I'm not. >> You You are. >> No, I'm not. I want to know what's going >> Okay. Put your hand behind your back. >> Put your hand behind your back like you're praying. So, like I explained to you, you're being placed under arrest for domestic violence. >> Well, for what? >> I didn't do anything. >> Okay. That's up for >> I have the bruises. >> Okay. That's up to a judge to determine. Okay. >> Okay. Okay. Stop. >> Can I get my belongings? >> What do you need? >> My purse. My My ID. >> I have your ID. >> No, I need my purse. Okay. Is there any lighters or any knives in your purse? >> No, of course not. >> Where's your purse at? >> In the house. >> Okay. He's going to grab it for you. >> There's a brown one on the table. I can see right here. Okay. He's going to grab it for you. >> My volume. >> Okay. He's going to grab He's going to grab your purse. >> I didn't do anything. >> Okay. >> What am I What did I do? >> Ma'am, he he has bruises on his arms. >> He always does because Okay. >> That's ridiculous, ma'am. >> He has a blood condition. He always has bruises on his arms. >> Okay. I have >> You also told me that you had two drinks. You've had a lot more than two drinks. >> No, I have not. >> Okay. >> You can tell right now. You can tell right now. >> I can smell the alcohol coming off your breath and you have slurred speech. >> No, I don't have slurred speech. Okay. >> You can tell. >> Ma'am, I'm I'm not going to argue with you that you can bring the You can speak to the judge about everything that happened. Okay. >> All right. You're more adrenaline ridden than I am. I'm totally fine. >> Perfectly fine. Everything's recorded right here. >> Okay. >> And I'm totally fine. >> Okay. >> This is not okay. I'm not going anywhere. I I I'm >> I understand. Do you have anything on you? Do you have anything on you? Nothing. Do I really have Do you have pockets at all? >> Do I really have to be cuffed right now? >> Yes, ma'am. Cuz you're going to jail >> for what? >> Domestic battery. >> I haven't touched anyone or anyone. >> Let's go this way. Don't you have to harm someone to to burn through your batteries? >> No, it's just touching somebody. >> Unwanting touching. >> But so um look at my eye. >> I understand that. >> I'm the one with the cuts. >> Okay. And he he has bruises also. Okay. >> He has no bruises. >> He has no bruises. I'm the one I'm the one. >> We're going to go to this car here. Do you have anything on you? Do you have any pockets at all? >> Nothing. Nothing. All right. One second. First, >> have a seat. >> Um, >> can I dispute this >> because this is really ridiculous. >> When you when you can speak to the judge in the morning. Okay. >> Oh, yeah. Okay. >> Can I have my purse? >> Yes, ma'am. We're going to bring it. >> Okay. And I I want this disputed because this is [ __ ] [ __ ] >> What is he doing in my purse? >> He's searching it to make sure you don't have anything illegal in it. >> Oh my god. Of course not. >> Okay. >> My god. You [ __ ] [ __ ] I get caught. I have a wound and I go to jail. Are you [ __ ] kidding? Sir, >> ma'am, I'm not going to argue with you. >> Okay, you don't have to argue, but I have I'm the one with the wound and the the wounds were coming my way. You could see by the the way everything fell. He was the one at the door. He pushed things my way. Oh my god. Are you serious? [ __ ] a [ __ ] can't be doing this to me right now. I'm the one who's freaking wounded, not him. I didn't touch him. I want I want this disputed. >> Okay, I guess it >> this is not right. I want my goddamn belongings. Where's my [ __ ] purse? >> Right here. >> Why is your My purse is here? >> Yes. >> Is it? >> I have one. >> Yeah. Well, I want it in my possession. >> It's coming with you. Don't worry. >> This is not okay. What did he say? >> What did he claim? Cuz it's false. Based off the evidence that we got, >> sorry, >> based off the evidence that we we gathered, you guys got into an argument at that time that came home. You got into another argument. You grabbed him on the arm of the crotch. stop. And then when he he told you to stop, you turned around, went to run back, ran into the to the side table there, and knocked everything off. >> That's ridiculous. Okay, that is so ridiculous. But you wouldn't believe that. Okay, he pushed me into that stuff. That's why I got the [ __ ] cut with the glass in my eye. He pushed me into that. That's why I have glass in my eye. In my face. My god. What a [ __ ] dick that is. Oh my god. Now I know why he asked me to live with him. So he could do this [ __ ] to me. That's bizarre. Sick. >> Where are you taking me? >> Sorry. >> To the county. >> Which is where? >> Right here. >> Which is where? >> Right here. >> You want to know where? I want to know where. >> Sorry. >> We are in Banell, Florida. On on what charges? >> Domestic battery. >> What What were the h how battery? What were the charges? I mean, what were the wounds? >> Yeah, I've already explained that to you. >> Yeah, he had a bruise. Pre-existing. Okay, that's [ __ ] He had a pre-existing bruise cuz he has a blood condition and he bruises super easily. That's [ __ ] [ __ ] He wouldn't bruise immediately. And I did not hurt him. He's lying. Where are we? This is not right. This should not This is not right. This is not correct. This is not the front of of anything. >> I I don't I I want to know where I am. You are at the Flaggler County Inmate Facility in Benell. You are at the Flaggler County Inmate Facility in Banell, Florida. >> Okay. Well, this is not the front door. >> We don't go through the front door. We have to wait for them to open the gates. >> Oh, really? Well, see how [ __ ] up this is. Okay. Ma'am, >> how much do you weigh, ma'am? How much do you weigh? Echo follow my Xbox. I want to know where I am first before I answer any more questions. I'm not answering any questions. Where am I? I want a lawyer. >> That's fine. >> I want a lawyer. I'm not answering any questions. Where am I? >> I've already explained that to Where am I? >> In Slagger County, MMA facility. >> I want to know what the charges are. I did nothing. I'm the one with I'm the one with injuries, not him. I'm the one who's injured. >> He injured me and the the direction of the fall of the the um objects were towards me. >> Not him. I'm the one who's injured. You're falsely arresting me. This is a false arrest. This is a false arrest. >> What am I waiting for? >> We're waiting on the jail to open the gate. >> Oh, really? So, is this how that people normally go in? Cuz I don't think so. >> Yes, ma'am. >> What is this? This is the jail. We're waiting on them to to open the gate. >> Yeah. Well, I don't really I don't think so, >> man. We We don't just take people random places. >> We have to wait on the jail to open the gate. >> What the [ __ ] going on? Cuz this isn't nor this is not normal. Tell me what the [ __ ] going on. >> Ma'am, I've already explained it to you. >> No, you haven't. >> This is not a normal way. >> Argue with you. >> This is not normal. >> I'm not going to argue with you. >> Okay. I'm not asking you to argue with me. [Music] >> Oh god. This is not normal. >> I don't like this. >> No, this is not okay. I I want I want video of this. This is not okay. >> Everything is videotaped now. >> Okay. This is not okay. >> All right, ma'am. I'm just going to ask you a couple questions before I get you out of the car. Are you pregnant at all? >> Am I pregnant at all? >> I just got to ask. No, not even a little. >> Okay. Are you right-handed or left-handed? >> Right-handed. >> Right-handed. Are you feeling suicidal at all? >> What? >> Are you feeling suicidal at all? >> No. >> No. Okay. Are you under the influence of any drugs or alcohol? >> No. >> No. Okay. Are you going to be combative with us if we pull you out of the car? Are you going to try to fight us? >> Why would I do that? >> I just got to ask. People like to fight. >> No. >> All right. But I just want to know what the charges are and why I'm here because my boyfriend was the one who pushed me and and you can see in my base that he's the one who injured me. >> I mean, we're not the arresting deputies. We weren't the ones there. We're we're the jail. >> Okay. So, I don't understand even why I'm in this building right now because that's not normal. >> Okay. Well, you got arrested. >> I I know. I get that. But where where am I? Do I have a right to ask where I am? >> You're in You're at the jail right now. You're just in the Sally Port, which is our garage. >> Yeah. Why am I in the garage? >> Because that's where you they drop you off and then we take you inside, do our search and everything. >> Okay. I I'm I'm not liking this, but Okay. These are false pregures right on this side.