Please. Whoa. Whoa. Me. What's going on? Can you step out, please? Uh, yeah. I'm sorry. I was just talking to the door like that though. I didn't know. Me. For what? Because um we got called out here. That's for what? Let me talk to you in there and then I'll Oh, you can talk to me out here. Okay, that's fine. Step over here. No problem. anything. What's going on? Absolutely nothing. We were sitting here um we're talking line like I understand there's a where there's a call from. We're not arguing. We're not What's all the glass on the ground? The grass wine glass I dropped. Oh, you dropped like I was glass and it dropped out of my hand. Oh, I didn't see any wine. I just saw the glass. It was just I clean it up. What's your name? Okay. It's your home. Uh I live around the corner. This is her home. This is my girlfriend's home. Your girlfriend's home. Okay. What's your address? Um, so you said who's knocking on the door like that's not even your house? Well, I stay here most of the time. No. Okay. But like we're How long you guys been together? About a year and a half. Okay. But we're sitting here. We're just talking. I No physical contact, no nothing, no threatening. We're just talking. So if if she called the police, she got Huh? This little wine wine glass in there. Okay. Wine glass. I threw it in the ambulance. Oh, you threw it. I threw it in the sink. I threw it in the sink. Okay. Anything else on your hand? No. No. I just throw my wine glass in the sink. Okay. So, what were you guys arguing about that? I just none of your business really. Okay. But it wasn't violent. It was nothing. If she wants to press charges, go ahead. I've done nothing wrong. So, there's nothing to press charges. But I really don't want to talk. I never No, not even a little bit. But like I don't want to sit here and talk to you guys. Okay. Yeah. Well, I'm going to sit here. I'll sit here. Perfect. Thank you. Y I ended our relationship and we won't leave. Like, no. It's been a few hours. He just threw some wine glasses. Okay. I've asked him to leave them multiple times and he won't. Okay. Did he throw his hands on you? No. No. Dave just broke the glasses. He threw them and Yeah. I tried and he cut himself and I tried to give him a bandage and he threw those on the ground, too. Okay. And I asked him to leave again and he said no. We're going to try to get him for getting him out of He's also on probation. So your partner told me that he No, I want to see the report. I want to see the report. We would um No, the report. No, the board's in your car. Right on right on your dash. Yeah. No, you're not going to look at our computer. Okay. So, let's go down to the precinct. Where you going? Let's go. Let's go. Go to the precinct. Let's go. Stop moving around. Okay. Sit down. Let's go to the precinct. I want to see the reporter again. You'd have to wait five business days to be able to get Okay, let's go to the precinct. I'll wait five business days. Let's go. Okay. I don't care. I'm not doing nothing wrong. Do you have somewhere safe just for tonight to go so that you're not here? Obviously, he's not safe. We're getting him kicked out. But I don't want him to come back here and then cause a whole scene. Obviously, he's intoxicated. Mhm. Well, cuz he lives around. Okay. Well, yeah. But he didn't put hands on you, right? But he said before breaking my property my wine glasses for a few moment. Can you turn I don't know if I want to do that but I'm just discussing it with you for purposes of trying to make up my mind if that's okay. Yeah absolutely. I mean it's all up to you obviously there's no I'm going to run and make sure that you said he's on probation. We'll we'll figure that out. He's going to leave for the night. um depending on what you decide, you know, is if you stay or not here. I would just feel safer. I would feel safer for you if you did. I have four dogs. He doesn't have a key, but just give me I don't know. I he lives right around. Um let me go figure some stuff out and then I'll be right back with you. Okay. Yeah. No, not married as a spouse. Okay. Uh, what crime are in this subition? Uh, right now we're investigating domestic disturbance. Okay. She just told you we haven't done it. Okay. So, I'll stand over here, but she just told you no, there's been no hands put on nobody. We've been talking. Somebody called. Conversations is not a is not against the law. Okay. No one said it was. Okay. So, then you stay over there. I'll stay over here. Okay. Sounds good. Yeah. It's crazy when you can't have a conversation with with your spouse without the police being involved. Are you married now? It's a spouse, a partner. Not married. Spouse doesn't mean Yeah, it doesn't. No, it doesn't actually cuz you could be married for 7 years and have a spouse, right? And that's common law. Married would be married. No, I didn't say married. That's his spouse. Okay. All right. So, stop trying to prove me wrong. Just be a [ __ ] You know what I mean? You're [ __ ] a cop, so you're obviously dumb. Whatever. I didn't do nothing wrong. I put no hand over even talking. Did you call him? Did you call him? Jody, if you called him and there's a problem, then you could have told me to leave. I would have left. I did tell you. I did tell. So you So you called him? I did tell him. When? Uh after you broke up my glasses and before he broke up my Okay. So rest me, guys. I'll go to jail. I'll be out. You know what I mean? So you you do this. We We're having a conversation. I've sat on the couch the whole time having conversation. I threw the wine glass in the sink. We're having a conversation. So, this is what you're doing. That's fine. Cool. Arrest me to check you. No, no, that's fine. I'm going to jail. Okay, that's fine. I'll go to jail. That's fine. Okay, that's fine. I'm going to jail. I'm going to jail. It's fine. Okay, that's fine. I didn't put No, we were talking. We had a conversation. We're sitting there having a conversation. I've asked you to leave. Okay, that Jo, if that's what you're going to say, like we're sitting here having a conversation. You said you want me to leave when that's fine. That's cool. That's cool. I would have left if you told me to left. But you wanted to keep fighting. Yelling at me for hours. I've not been yelling. I've been talking to you. No. Okay, you say less. Okay, I'm not going to do that. You're right. I'll go to jail. It's fine. I did nothing to her alone. I've been sitting on the couch talking to her. There's glass all over on my on the sink on cuz I threw the wine glass in the sink. No, I threw the wine glass in the sink. There's glass all over the floor. Where did I throw the wine glass? All over the floor. Okay. Where did I throw the wine glass? The wall. No, I threw it at the sink. I was throwing at the sink. It's all over the wall. Did I ever throw it at you? I I did. I didn't. I was trying to get I mean, when you open the door, I saw all the wine glasses. Yeah. Yeah. Did I throw it at the sink? No, I threw it at the sink. You missed. Yeah, right. 100%. But it wasn't intentional. Yeah. Okay, J. If you want me to go to jail, just say it. I have four dogs. Thanks. Do you want me to go to jail? Just say it. Hey, I'll see you later. Like, you're my what? You're my spouse. You own my house. Like like I'm trying to come to a agreement with her. Last night she comes to all the Jodie. Jody is what? Just let me know what you want them to do so I can know. So we can just not do this. Do you want me to go to jail or not? So we cannot do this. Jody, you're pressing charges. Other officers call. Jody, are you pressing charges? Jody, I don't have to tell you anything. Okay, you don't. But are you pressing charges so I know if I'm going to jail or not? She doesn't have to tell you anything. I know she doesn't, but she has an option if she wants to. Correct. She clearly doesn't want to. He hasn't replied. She hasn't responded. Yeah, exactly. Okay, but it doesn't mean you It doesn't mean you have to keep on telling me. No, I have a freedom of speech. Correct. I didn't tell you now. I'm just telling you. I know. I I just But I did nothing wrong to her. I moved down here from New York. I didn't say you did. I Okay. Can we start over real quick? I would love to. Okay. My name's Nick. You got blood all over. Okay. Not this one. Okay. My name's Nick. Hi, Nick. How you doing? I We came here tonight. You know what I mean? Like everything's been I moved down from New York to be with her. You know what I mean? cuz she had a boyfriend that died on a boat motorcycle. I've done everything I can to be with her. I'm a good guy. I work at her shop every day. I I take care of her glass shop. I run. I do all of her business. Everything I can to I mean she comes and she's like No, we're on the corner. It's like a stained glass shop. We do stained glass and I mean it's super cool. I love her to death. I mean that's why like cops come. I'm not abusive or nothing. May I say you like say some things that are the truth? Sometimes the truth hurts. I'm sorry to tell you, but you've you've you [ __ ] me. You had me coming all the way down from New York to be with you and then out of nowhere you tell me you don't love me. What do you want me to do right now? You know what I mean? Like what am I supposed to do? All I've said is had my my my voice raised. And it's not even like an angry. It's just passion. Like what am I supposed to do? I've done everything I can for you. I I run your glass shop for you. I run all over town, dude, cuz she's a CPA. She's got a big business. She's a successful. I do everything I can for the woman. You know what I mean? I do everything I can. We went to Zubri's music [ __ ] show this afternoon. On our way back, we're s we're sitting on the couch or something. All of a sudden, she sits there. She's like, I need you to go home. Don't you think you should go home or your dog? And I was supposed to be moving in the other side. And all of a sudden, she's like, oh, I don't think I want you to move in the other side. And this and I from where? And all I've asked for for a conversation. All I ask is a conversation cuz if you're going to completely I moved down from New York to be with you. It means 7 months ago and you've been playing wishy-washy the whole time. I could be cool if we're just friends. I love you. I'll be just be your friend. I'm cool with that. But if you're going to but then you're going to call me your partner. I spend all you make me spend all my time with you. I'm running in all over town for you to make sure your business is good. Like I'm trying to help you out. And then all of a sudden randomly out of nowhere you're like, "Oh, I don't love you. I I want to know what it's about." And I'm not being aggressive. I'm not being violent. I'm just being assertive and wanting a conversation. And I think I deserve that. As when you're in a relationship with somebody and you make a commitment with them and I moved across the country for you, I believe I deserve some type of conversation about why this happened or why this isn't working or something. because I I gave up my life for you and I can't help it but feel some type of way like I'm passionate. You know what I mean? Like please let me know what I did and I' I've done nothing wrong. What did I do? And all I told her is I want to sit here. She's probably want to have a conversation maybe when cooler has hit the veil. Well, that's all fine and good. And then she takes and but then she takes a pan and I'm kind of cool and I there's been nothing about me that's been out of line. That's why I was surprised you guys showed up. The the glass game broke. She told me, "Fuck you, Nick. I never loved you." And I'm like, "Well, I'm taking your glasses. I'm over here picking all your stuff up here and cleaning." I threw it in the sink. Okay. I threw glasses in. You want $5 for the glass? Like Like I threw it in the sink and she didn't tell me to leave after that. She didn't say anything like anything after that to like She never told you to leave. No. Okay. Like I told her, I'm like, "This is my last time talking. Like I want to say my piece. I'm going to sit here." And she sat there and we've been talking for the last hour and a half and then you showed up. So, how am I supposed to know? She uh get out and leave and told me to leave and really want me to leave. How am I supposed to know that? She didn't say nothing. She doesn't think I don't want to have this conversation no more. Well, nobody wants to have this conversation when you're the liar and you're getting caught, but this is a relationship and we're going to have a conversation that's respectful and I'm sitting on the couch. She's sitting on a computer 20 ft away and we're having a conversation and that's all I'm asking. And then she told me she did something that is [ __ ] up. And I threw a wine glass in the sink and then from 3 ft away. I I threw the wine glass. It broke. Is that criminal miss? If it is, rest me then. You know what I mean? Like I mean technically it is. Yeah. No. So if it is if it is if she wants to press charges on a that then I I threw my wine glass all the I do all the time. Probation. Yeah. You know that would violate your probation. Yeah. I don't want it to. But like what can I do? I'm just arguing with her and I'm a good guy. I've done nothing. I moved across the country to be with her. She had a boyfriend that died. She was talking about killing herself. I came across the country to be with her to help her to get through it. I've done everything I Huh. I had an art market down on [ __ ] central one day about a year and a half ago. Like she's amazing. You still living in New York? No, I was down here with my brother. He was living down here at the time. That's how I came down here. But then I met her. You know what I mean? She's be It's been awesome. Like where you staying? Where you stay? I got I got my apartment like right across the corner. Okay. like right around the corner. But like it's not it's not even the point of it. She's the thing is is like I'm a good dude. Like I've given everything to her. Like I moved across the country for you. I do everything for you. So like Yes. I'm going to get mad when you tell me I've done everything I can and like you've then tell me [ __ ] you. And your social. You have a Florida ID or New York? No, in New York. Yeah, it's in New York. Sorry. I'm working on getting it switched over just cuz I got a citation for the like Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Middle initial. But it's not like it's not violent like that. I threw the wine glass into the sink. I didn't think I didn't think it was going to break. It's a sinks right there. I toss some in the sink all the time from there. It broke. Like but regardless of it, I put hands on her. I'm not nothing. I'm trying to talk to you and have her civil conversations with her. And I told her, "Just whatever you got to say, just tell me. Be honest with me and I can accept it." You know what I mean? And we've just been talking. I didn't know she called you guys. She never said nothing about the police. She said nothing. You guys are complete. Well, she didn't help us. Okay. Okay. So then that's what I'm saying because we were arguing. This is an argument like and it's some sometimes things need to be argued about. It wasn't a violent argument. I was also sometimes I didn't put a hands on her. I was saying you did. But also sometimes if there's an argument, people need to separate for a little bit, right? We did that earlier. We did that earlier and then come back and we're not screaming at each other like that back and forth. We're talking at this point. You guys showed up. We're just in there talking back and forth. You know what I mean? It's at that point where we're figuring out what we're doing. It's an You were pretty amped up. No, I'm amped up because you guys cuz you guys knocking on the door and it was pissed me off because the cops are here and we're having a conversation. I mean, but there's no way we made you go from zero to 100. Oh, yeah. Already. Oh, we're in there talking almost like my whole relationship for the last year and a half. Like I'm not from down here. I don't have friends down here. I don't have nothing. You said your brother's down here. Me and him I got in a fight with him because of her. Me and him don't even talk down because of her. Huh? Same. Yeah. Yeah. But me and him aren't cool. And he's a drug addict. So like I'm trying to stay away from all that. Like I'm trying to do better with my life. You know what I mean? And she's an amazing person. She's a business owner. He's like I'm doing amazing with her. You know what I mean? We had a great day at the Zubatic theater on her way home. She was, "Well, I I I just don't love you. Where's that come from?" You know what I mean? And I'm not trying to attack her. No, nothing like that. But like, my feelings are valid and I moved across the country from you and I want to know where is this coming from, please? Because I uprooted my life for you and cuz you wanted me to. And now like you want I just want to know what's going on. I need to know. Cuz she's like, "Well, I don't know. I need to know one way or the other. Do I either got to shut you out of my feelings completely? You know what I mean? Like bury you. I love you, but just bury those feelings so it doesn't hurt anymore. Like just tell me the truth. And that's all we were doing here is talking. And like obviously talking sometimes under situations like these. They're not talking like this. Sometimes there's emotions involved. Of course. But natural. Yeah. But I'm talking with emotions involved from me to you to here. There's no threatening from there. There might be like I'll blow your whole place up. No one's saying it for her. No, no, but I'm just saying like, you know what I mean? I'm just explaining my situation. What's going on? You know what I mean? Like, so that's the situation that's going on. If if if she was the one that called you, then I would have gladly got my house over there. Like I told her a couple times. But the thing is is we need to have this conversation. The conversation needs to be had. Just because it's a difficult conversation doesn't mean it doesn't have to be had. But it can be had respectfully, you know what I'm saying? Unsafeely. And I mean, and that's what I'm trying to do with her. But sometimes when you call people out on their [ __ ] they can't take it. So then they immediately they attack back with so it becomes something bigger. But I've done nothing. How I'm talking to you right now is how I've been talking to her the whole time. You know what I mean? Well, you've been talking a lot. So if if that's how it's been, then I can see how she would be frustrated because Good point. Good point. Good. You barely let me get it where Well, cuz at this point you're I'm trying to get my point across. Like your point is not valid at this point. What's my point? Your your your views other than if I committed a crime or not. It's not valid. I'm I'm explaining to you the situation. So like I don't really What's your What's your point? You weren't here, right? You weren't here. So I can't really Your your point's not valid at that point when I was explaining that. Okay. I'm not trying to be a [ __ ] I'm just being real. Okay. No disrespect intended. I mean, just like let's be like this. This the the facts of the situation. Yeah. And that's why we're here. No. No. 110%. Hey, Papa. Get inside. It's Papa Cat. But it's not it's not about anything like that. It's like I told her is like we can end this but let's have a conversation where we can finish like let's just have a conversation where we finish all this. Like let's not things left things unsaid. Let's like put everything on the board and talk about it. And there's nothing illegal about that. There's nothing illegal about talking assertively. There's nothing illegal. Wow. No, there's not. There's not nothing. There's not at all. Well, it depends on the situation. No, it doesn't. No, assertively. It does. Freedom of speech. Tell me where I'm wrong. Okay. Um, so if she told you to leave and you continue to stay, but I I've been I've been living here for the last uh 2 weeks, so this is ta I have I have two places, but that doesn't mean I have two residences. I've been staying here for the last week. Well, only one can be your permanent. It's not permanent. I've been staying here for the last week. So therefore, explain to your situation. No, but I'm saying that's why that's why I was saying what I saying. Okay. Well, I was explaining to you what I said what you said. So, so legally so legally I'm still in the clear. Okay. Um, there's several things that go into that besides I'm not trying to cause a problem, but I'm saying so you talking Yeah. said she had an injunction against you. If you were talking to her, that would be a crime, right? She has no injunction. Okay. But you you said that there was no instance where that would be a crime and I was just letting Right. Yeah. Well, that if she had injunction, then it would be a crime. or right now there's no injunction. I can freely speak my feelings and my feelings are valid and I'm allowed to express them. And just because she doesn't like like them and doesn't like the what I'm saying does not make it illegal. So, and that's all I've done. I haven't threatened her. I haven't gotten aggressive. I've done nothing. I've been quite calm and cool with you guys and her as well. You guys seen her interaction? You know what I mean? Like, we've been here talking back and forth. So, she didn't even call him. Why are you guys still here? Oh, because we are talking to her. But but I'm saying she didn't call them. She didn't call. But well, if she wants to press charges, then put me in custo. Let's go. I got enough. I'll bail out. Let's go to go there. I got enough money in my pocket. I'm not the one talking to her. But I'm saying like it's going to be less than a grand. So I got a grand in my pocket. So can we do this? I'm tired of this. Well, this isn't New York. It wouldn't be just No, no, it is. No, the the the bail is going to be less than a grand. My DUI was 675. But if you are on probation, you'd be in violation of your probation. That would be no bond. Okay. Well, then we can handle that when it comes to that, you know, but she'll she'll rebond me because this is going to be not an offense, but it won't be tonight. Okay. I mean, they got kind of comfy CS. I mean, it's not my I did I've done 12 years locked up. I'm not worried about going to spend a night on a a C. I mean, I've done nothing as But I've done nothing wrong. My whole thing is I've done nothing wrong, so I'm not worried about it. So, if you're saying you've done anything? No, no, but I'm just saying if I So, that's what I'm saying. I'm not worried about it. If I was to have done something wrong, then I'd be worried about it. But if you take me to jail now and I've done nothing wrong, I'm paid. Okay. Cuz I've done nothing but be very calm, cool with you guys. Like I've been cool with her. Trying to have a cool kind conversation. You know what I mean? Girls at first. Huh? So you came out really hot. Well, I'm I'm from New York. I'm a loud person. You know what I mean? Like But saying that you've been really calm and cool with us. No, I have been. I You're banging on my door loud as [ __ ] What are you doing? Okay. She did not knock on your door very loud. You did. No. No. You guys knocked like this. I'm going to I'm going to answer the door. No, I was showing him how he knocked. I was showing him how he knocked. He said he didn't lock the house. That was me knocking. Oh, you knock out regardless. Regardless, I knocked on the door. It's not against the law. So, okay. Calm down. So, anyway, my point stands. No, mine does, too. Okay. Do what you're doing. I don't know. She didn't call. She didn't call him. There's been no physical or nothing. If she wants me to be out here for like talking, okay, whatever. I'll text you. I mean, like, she can go file for restraining in the morning if she wants one. She still pays for my bills. You know what I mean? Like, we can do this. I mean, you guys showed up to make this a more difficult situation than it was. I promise you, we didn't come. No, but you guys But you guys showing up made it more difficult. Okay. Go grab the pamphlet. All right. I'm going to jail cuz I'm going to just sit down and go to jail. Yeah. Yeah. All right. Hey, I'm under arrest. No, I'm not under arrest. But you're not allowed. Why? Because we're not done. Well, I'm getting my cigarettes. Can I grab No, you're not grabbing anything. All right. Something doesn't have to be. Can I get my cigarettes, please, sir? [Music] I just want to sit around. Well, if I ask you to stay out here, it's for a reason. I didn't ask you. You do realize like I told you don't go. I've been here all night long. I was going to get my cigarettes. Okay. Well, when someone asks you to do something, I was already inside. Can I just grab my pack of cigarettes? Can I just grab my pack of cigarettes? You can't really smoke cigarettes on this. I I was going literally to grab my pack of cigarettes. There's been nothing to say. I couldn't be inside here. Yes. I told you multiple times. No. No. As you were walking in, I told you. Yeah. I was going to grab my pack of cigarettes. I've been here. I'm a resident here. I've been a resident. I'm a res. Show. Yes, I am. Okay. Let's see your ID that shows I can show you a piece of mail. Show me your ID. That I'll show you a piece of mail. I'm asking you for ID. The piece of mail shows it. The piece of mail is residence, sir. Yes, it is, sir. You want me to show it to you? I'll show you online. I can show you. Yes. A piece of mail's residence. I'm not trying to be a [ __ ] but you guys got I just went to go grab a cigarette. Trying, but you're succeeding. I went to go get a cigarette. Okay. And I told you no. For what? You got no reason to tell me no. I've done nothing wrong. You have no reason to Amy. Yes, we do. What? What's the reason? Okay. We are keeping you two separated because we're Okay. But there's no reason to. You want me to answer you? No. You What's the reason, Amy? What am I being under suspicion of what? Under suspicion of what? I'm trying to What am I being detained under? No. No. What am I being detained for? No. What am I being detained? No, cuz I'm about to turn up. What am I being detained for? You're being detained. Not betained for. No. Detained for what? What? Detained for what? Okay. What am I being detained for? You're not going to let us. If you release me, unless you tell me what I'm being detained for. Are these items? Put all three of those on. What am I being detained for? Because I told you to stay on. No. What? What law? What law? It's called obstruction. Yes, it is obstruction. Obstruction. No, you didn't tell me to stay out here. Nobody said anything to me. Do not go. I went to grab my cigarettes and I went to go leave. Hey, just because you're the So, what are we going to do? So, what are we going to do? Cuz it's going to turn into a bunch of charges. I hope you don't trip and No, we're going to turn a bunch of charges now because I was just trying to get my cigarettes and leave. So, now you guys are going to ruin the next 3 years of my life. So, let's do this. What? You just You guys got me in cuffs without for no reason. I went to go get my cigarettes and you put me in cuffs. You Nobody told me not to go in the house. Yes. I said I was the one. No, you didn't. No, you [ __ ] didn't. [ __ ] [ __ ] you. Let's go. Let's go, man. You guys reason. Let's go to jail. I didn't do nothing. I didn't do nothing wrong. I done nothing to you guys. What did I do to you guys? Well, now you're going for instructions. If you want to stay out here, I stayed right here. I I walked 3 ft from you. Let's go. Where did I go? Where did I go from here? How did I instruct you? Excuse me. How do they instruct you, ma'am? I'm We've explained it to you several times. No, I I'm standing in the same place. I'm standing in the same spot as you guys are. Can you widen your stance? Yeah. I'm standing in the same spot you guys are. How did I No, you right there. I was I was in a yard contained. So, you're going to tell me that Are you going to really tell me that's distracting? Yes, sir. When you deliberately disobey a law, I stepped back from you guys. I stepped back. You stepped into a house I told you do not go into. No, that No, you did not. You told me that after I was in there and I was already outside and you continued to walk and I walked outside and I was outside. No, you didn't. I No, you did not. I walked right outside. Look at your camera. I walked right outside. I wanted my cigarettes and I told you outside to get your cigarettes. I walked inside to get I told him that. Yeah. And he told you not to. No. No. He said, "Don't cause a scene in there." No, I did not. All you see all is like I go in there and grab my vape and I've done nothing wrong but talk to you guys. So how am I wrong right now? Huh? How am I wrong right now? I already told you like multiple times. You don't want to understand that? No, I'm trying to talk. I'm in the yard. Okay. I'm in the yard. Are you serious right now? Uhhuh. I've done nothing but say you're talking to you guys. I've been cool with you. I've been checking nothing but been cool with you guys. Where my Can you ask for my keys, please? Keys. The keys were right there. Yeah, we are. Yeah. [ __ ] do. All I'm doing is sitting there trying to get my stuff. She didn't ever tell me not to be in the house that way. For what? Like, what am I? She's never going to say nothing to me. And the recorder.