if you said that the other female was able to see no she was in the car uh with my daughter but you originally told me she could she saw it she saw it so when I asked you if there was any Witnesses you said that she saw it no I said that she that nobody was here that the whenever they pull up the uh friend or whoever was driving the Mustang uh she was in the car my in the car I just wanted to make sure okay all right uh let's we're waiting for her and is she coming back yeah she's coming back yeah she's at her cousin's house pick up the kids and now where's the cousin at uh the cousin's right by my car that's probably her right there so she's in that vehicle yeah hope 231 10 15 get she has touch no yeah I know oh goodness who who I'm like wait a minute apparently cousin that this is going um what he told me was he was just here this is Richard's house right yeah big dude we have to figure out why she's here he told me that she came here to confront him cuz this is her brother's this is his brother's ex-girlfriend's car she thought he was cheating on so she came here to confront him about it well that's the hello hello are you Juan's girlfriend um not no more but yeah were you I guess yes he tell me what happened um well um I had received a call from him and cuz he's fixing my car cuz he's the one that broke my car um he did okay so I'm carless so I called him to tell him if to see if he can get me to my cousin's house cuz I needed um my grandma was going to do something to my daughter cuz I have a 1 month yearold daughter and he started saying a whole bunch of [ __ ] like and I was like well there's something going on because that car is not even his um and that's the [ __ ] that he's been [ __ ] around with so I did pulled up and I told him I was like that's why you wanted me to leave the house that's exactly what I told him where do you guys live we live on in I don't know if he gave you his address and and he got off the ladders and he grabbed me by the neck and that's why I got the scratches oh can you move your hair all the way back so that's why I hit him back and I didn't even hit him I bit him you bit him yeah where did you bite him right here on his cheek how long this happen um how long ago to get no I'm good any other in no Echo 46 EO 65 and it's not the first time I actually have a police report can you look at his face and see if he has a bite mark where his injury is the bite mark right here the one that has a bruise that was a bite mark Cuz I didn't even punch him and I bit him to get him off of me did you tell you it was a bite mark huh you didn't say was you didn't say what he say he got punched no it was a bu Mark I know what I did get him on face yeah to for him to let me go for my neck I get it but I get it give me one second so I yeah po ass look that my then what happened after that and then I left you just left yeah she went to my house I live on the other street so how did you get here um my friend Lindsay brought me from my mom's house cuz I was at my mom's house what kind of car was it it uh black Mustang a black Mustang okay but she's not she just Dr me off she didn't see she didn't see anything because it was actually in that little room so you couldn't see anything where he where he actually did it so he just came here conf front of them about cheating yeah that was about it he he grabbed me by the neck and and and I did bid him to let him for him to let me go I did do that let Miss see your teeth okay and then you just left after that yeah I just left and I got did you say anything to him when you came up to him you just confirmed him y That's all I told him I was like you you're just a [ __ ] liar that's exactly what I said to him okay do you know who lives at the house where he's at um Richard okay an old man did you know he was going to be here today um yeah he had told me but I didn't know he was going to be driving the um his little [ __ ] um car how did he say he was going to get here um Uber Uber that's what he told you yeah when he tell you out this morning in the morning cuz he he went in the room and he told me to ask his dad to come if he can come um drop me off with my kids to school drop them off at school and to drop me off at my mom's house okay cuz that [ __ ] was still there when he grabbed you how'd he grabb you around the neck he just grabbed me like this just with one hand with his nails that's how he got so he never grabbed around your neck at all like no he grabb me like this did you lose um were you able to breathe yeah I was breathing but he grabbed me that's why I have those scratches here so he didn't hel hold you down against your will okay so he just grabbed you like a call Mark mhm and that's where I bit him in the cheek right here where he has bruise right here I wish I would have punched him but it would literally be a punch when another question when you confronted him he turned was he on the ladder yeah he got off the ladder though were you saying anything to him before you got on the ladder yeah that's why I I I actually scared him because he didn't know I was coming cuz I don't have a phone okay when you initially scared him what did you say to him I was like yeah you [ __ ] liar that's what I said and that's when he got off the water and that's when he came around and grabbed you by the net okay are you able to provide a swan run statement what happened oh yeah okay I'll be right back I got to wait real quick the other officer has my clipboard with the th statements okay can I see your hands uh how long were you guys together for 12 years 12 years okay how many kids do you guys have I have three kids with him unfortunately you guys are never married though no okay unfortunately I just had my my daughter she's only so unfortunately this is domestic due to you guys having kids in common you guys have been together for that long live in the same household okay so there is going to be report taken and depending on investigation what's going to occur okay I already had a report on him with the sheriff department has he been arrested for no he didn't I didn't want him to get arrested for it cuz it wasn't it wasn't the first time um I got hit and I got hit when I was pregnant actually of his daughter how many times has he physically hit you a lot no this is a this is the second time that I actually well he called the cops cuz I didn't call the cops on him yeah so the first time I did call the cops well my mom did and they took me in the um the they took me to the hospital to get checked because I was pregnant and I didn't I didn't want I didn't want them to take to jail and like he has hit me like five times but this is the second time with the cops report he didn't get a rest of no it was my hair dye oh I got my hair Dy like a week ago um she run into the story yes okay how'd you get here um my friend Lindsay okay was it just you and Lindsay in the car yep and my daughter and your daughter where's your daughter at now with my grand is it that the one month yes okay she's a baby all right where did Lindsay Park um behind that white car behind the white car and then walk me through it just I know you just explained it but walk me through it so she parked she Parks um behind that white car of his little [ __ ] she parks and she stayed in the car okay with my daughter cuz my daughter was sleeping and I just comforted him and where was he at he was in that little shed inside where that door is open uhhuh and he was on the ladder by where the wall is at okay so nobody could see anything okay and he got off the ladder because I I actually scared him cuz he was on the ladder and I I I walked in and I told him I was like you're [ __ ] liar I was like you over there with your little [ __ ] you have her car okay and he told me he was going to get here with an Uber okay so he he came up with his stupid story you knew where he was at though yeah cuz he had told me in the morning before he left um his mom's house where we live does he come here often huh does he come here often to help that old man yeah okay to actually work for him I guess cuz he was painting or something so he get down from the ladder then what happened he grabbed me by the neck so when he grabbed me by the neck what sparked him to grab you by the neck because I told him he was a [ __ ] liar and that he was [ __ ] his little [ __ ] okay so he grabbed me by the neck and when he grabbed me by the I did bid him on the cheek okay for him to let me go selfdefense and then then what happened he let you go he let me go okay then what Happ and then he called his mom what' you do I told him I was like you can call the cop cuz he said he called he called his mom directly right after while you were still there yeah okay and then and he said that he was going to call the cops so and I told him I was like well you can call the cops I'll stay right here and he started talking to his mom and I left Dr off your his mom told me his mom told me to leave him there so I just left and I didn't come back H you you got ripped out probably I found it I found it just ex needle do you use any IV drugs who me no no him um probably the old man his medicine or something I don't know I have no clue and like I was telling the officer I already have a sheriff department report cuz he had hit me when I was pregnant of his daughter go to jail um I didn't want him to go to jail yeah I told told him we told him the sheriff Lake County Sheriff's Office didn't take someone ja no um they didn't find him they went to go look for him got yeah explained her already but and I have the police I have his number the one that has that case and he told me that how long ago was that um I was probably like 7 months pregnant and I the newborn right now yeah with a newborn yeah has he ever been arrested before let me see your arm you got paint on it that's from in there right yeah that's when he pushed like when I led on the thing where he was painting that's when he in front of him you on it your no your hands hands hands hands hands hands your hands stop taking you're all right did you punch him or not be real with me I bat him all right that's cool but did you punch him no 100% yep you right or left I'm right okay okay all right you can relax uh I wish I would have punched well it looks like he did tell you that um where he was standing yeah okay my only issue is I can't tell right they both have legit yeah they both have so is that that was from today that one scab yeah already look at this one that one's scab that's scab back open okay so he admits he grabbing her he didn't say that to me to get her yeah I said I said I said she has a lot of scratches actually I see the scratches one one time so I want you to be completely 100% honest with me okay when did you get those scratches and don't tell me it was 15 minutes which ones the ones with the blood and the other ones were he had scratch before but I never call the cops on him okay what where those at it's really hard to well they're actually right in um like on the same area where I had the old ones how do you do that with his hand too same thing yeah well how long ago was that obviously recent it been recent to be hon I don't even know okay why didn't you go to cop then cuz I didn't want him to go to jail cuz he's the father of my kids and I'm being stupid that but you know you're going to now we're in the predicament right now you I mean you would have been like hey qu C it's easy breakup he leaves and then you say okay hey we're done don't come back and then you'll have no contact order you can't come contact just I mean that's that's the way to do it all right give us one more second we're going to go talk to him hello sir so just walk me right through exactly what transpire just walk through it again um well this morning I came to work um I didn't I don't have a vehicle I asked for uh that vehicle um everything is fine uh until uh probably about an hour before I made a call um that she found out that it was uh this girl's car does she have a phone does your does your girlfriend have a phone uh not right not right now she she does have a um a Wi-Fi phone I guess how did she know you were here you have that I I told her told her everything everything was fine uh you know she knows I'm working she so let me ask you this you guys fought you guys have been arguing recently right um arguing yes okay when did she get these scratches cuz I know it's not from today what scratches she she got like scratches like this on her neck but I know they're not from today because they're they're scabbing so unless she's like one of the X-Men there's no way she heals that quickly you know what I'm saying right right so that's previous which probably is not in our jurisdiction cuz you guys live in County jurisdiction or you Tillis but um you know she's also claiming that there's also fresh injuries in the mix of those bad injur uh the old injuries so um when you grabbed her to get her off you we exactly on her body did you grab her um I just push her away like this like but like how from the front from the back from the front so like from the front of the throat like with one hand two hand like this how' you do it no both hands because she was punching me kind of like this or did you grab her by the neck no no like push her so like you just pushed her right here from the front like get off me okay you never grabbed her neck or anything like that where exactly in this room um 632 4705 430 431 is is there fresh paint right here yes it is fresh paint right there probably but now was it fresh yes how long ago did you paint that um 10 15 minutes before I made a call okay um I was so you you painting in the process when she came here8 Okay and like I said I was on top of the lad uh facing that way and she say okay and then after that she conf she came in here confronted you and you got down what did she she say she was she punched you bite you kicked you no whenever I got down that's she start punching me start punching you yeah well first it was just I think it was just she was overheating until I put it through the and then after that she just left no um did when she punched you did you like and you just pushed her off yeah or did she land when you push pushed her like where' she get push she were just standing right here so you just like slightly pushed her and did she move at all no no you just tried to get her off because you're punch and then she just walked out no she ran no no no no um I I tried to um I said all right well then uh I explained to her that the gentleman right here can tell her I've been here the whole time that nobody's been here and um I open the door to try to uh get Richard get Mr Richard but he's uh he's really tired so he didn't come outside and she was inside uh you know was still screaming so she was screaming at you or Richard no me inside the residence yeah then she what happened after that and then um I just I didn't know what else to do um so I called my mom um reason why I call my mom is because she really does um uh care care for my mom what she she would say and um did she talk to your mom and all yes yes um and my mom was saying all my mom told her was um that uh to please just let me finish doing what I was working um she told her that um what was she doing here if she was she supposed to be taking care of her kids while I'm doing my my work your job yeah and um to to just leave and then whenever she gets off work uh she will go pick her up and then that way uh you separate we can uh talk and you know come to so once she got off the phone with your mom she left yes sir did she say anything to you after that uh no she just slam the door and then she left okay let me see this let me see this are you done you know I was well she keep Hing me streaming I try to p and she left and she left okay yeah just put left and you're good now than I have a question I really don't want anything um so here's how it's going to go man you guys have been in a relationship for 11 years and you have three kids in common and you guys reside in the same dwelling as each other so due to both of you guys having marks on you one of you go on jail it's domestic we don't have hands in this there's no if she wants to press charges or you want to press charges it's a state who automatically presses charges okay all right man I'm going to go talk to my supervisor and see what's going to go on what's going to transpire okay just stand right here s right here what's up boss man tell me your tell me your I concur you concur I concur who do you think means I oh sorry I'm not thinking yeah you think P so you think his his statement's more accurate I just don't like the scratch marks yeah that kind of sold me on it where like oh how in this you think she like on the way she scratched that she could have been scratching and there doesn't look anything fres well it's here then you can tell something's just been peeled off and there was another one that's turning yellow it's been messed with so um and then the fact that her excuse was there in the same position I'm noty he wouldn't say anything about that I I'm sure I'm sure he doesn't want to put himself guilty this is domestic violence for sure explains your rights she is going to go to jail today okay so what's going to happen is are you able you're able to pick up your children right yes sir okay it just explains your rights and what you can do um so what's going to happen she is going to go to jail she's going to have no bond she's not going to be able to speak to you why have no she'll have to see The Judge first first thing but she won't you you guys won't be able to speak to you unless whatever happens with the case happens with the case okay they they don't want to press charg okay here's here's the thing is and I have no problem explaining to you what what's going on I'll put the C okay the scratch is there put in my Bo you scratched me there yesterday and today okay the chance I'm not saying you're l by all me not line what I'm saying is if you were to ask n out of 10 people on the streets right Hey listen she has old marks that are scabbing and and fresh right like they just been either picked or scratched okay then you see his injury okay I did bit him no I I get that here's the thing is in the State of Florida we have an obligation to separate parties to to arrest the primary aggressor right I'm not saying by any means what you did was you know wrong okay but what I'm saying is is that the fact that you came here basically to argue is instigating the the fight okay that's being the primary aggressor in the Court's eyes but I don't want him to grab my kids okay well you yeah I don't want him near my kids cuz he does drugs where are your kids at with my Grandma okay here's um your have your grandma no it's my house but she's at my house okay how many kids you have I have three okay here listen so you guys stay together yeah fortunately I live with him all right here's my next thing um is because it's domestic you can't go be okay so I can't go get my stuff no yes you can but you're going to have to call you're going to have to call either the county or whoever's jurisdiction that is to get your stuff you technically have to do it the right way don't go because here's the thing is if you go in there by yourself he can easily call the cops and you're going to be rearrested for a violation of free- trial uh free-trial and then they're going to no bond you get ready to let me know you want to stop your so you get out so don't do that listen I know this sucks okay unfortunately we have an oblation to go by public so that's and why yall can't take them me too huh why can't you take them too because here's the deal is it's it's not mutual combatant he didn't come he didn't say hey meet me here and we're going to fight if I look at my boy here and says hey dog let's go to mil Street we're going to fight and he willingly goes there now we're Mutual right now it's like okay he made a decision so did I he didn't make the decision to argue and fight that's what the that's what you come in here did okay the courts are going to say well if you never showed up none of this would have happened right that's what they're going to say right for this and would have happened somewhere else more than likely right but for this particular case that's what they're going to say and that's why you're you're going to be the that's why you're labeled as a primary aggressor okay not saying that he didn't injure you prior uh he's going to document that obviously there's been prior instances listen there's only so much someone can take right so if you're being abused and you're doing all this right and 31 your hit your load where it's like hi dog no I'm G to lay it on you it is what it is listen if you've never been in trouble I don't see this 511 1583 US Highway 441 FR of someone has to go get two vehicles 15 Dodge white sedan there is ues not sure about blockage 8 :00 you're going to see first appearance ST1 he's going to expl it's not a trial uh you may have a second to explain to him listen this has been ongoing you know he's me before we have multiple case with Lake County Sheriff's Office uh but he's just there to explain to your charges at that time he will set a bond which more than likely will be $100 or $1,000 which through a bond SP is $100 okay once you get $100 you're out and then they'll give you obviously either a court date or public defend okay make sure that they have an updated address which would more than likely be theirs so any paperwork that you need or getting he's not getting access to and basically you missort date or anything like that okay do you need anything with you you have anything that you have anything at the house at your house no do you have numbers to call someone you want to write their numbers down just in case you have yeah you have a I don't know how I don't know how I'm here okay I don't know if you guys are not okay I'm not okay so just stay away from him okay um he if he I don't want him around my kid so that's something so I find your cousin if he comes to your house hel has nothing to do with my kids take care of you guys AR you guys aren Mar no never you have full custody okay in the the vehicle was coming off of 441 and she was coming out and it hit her in the side now it's not like saying that he can't you know petition you know if he wants to get DNA test and petition it that's that's all but as of right now if you know he's doing drugs listen I know it's not it's a hassle DCS the way to go because they can easily start making their way in there and they won't as in like let's say he does fight for custody it's deny because he has this DCF that would Pro to be correct or that he's using like here if we know this is a noric house and he's continually R here that's not a good look right we you can you can even say the c walk in and there's syringes on the ground and it ain't for medicine you know what I'm saying we know what those Ser I know what drug he does he does crack well I wouldn't doubt it this whole block basically so um just this is a this is a speed bump and quite honestly this might be the best speed bump you get care I'm just talking you straight all right it sucks you're going to have to go but it's a speed bump because it solidifies right ain't no coming back now I tell you what you get back with him that's your choice but this should solidify it right thank you you're so sorry don't even get near stay over there stay over there don't even get near me more documentation so when you don't call right even if it's an arguing right no one goes to jail for arguing but it lets us know that hey these people are having issues so now when we're coming out to your house three times four times a week and then next thing you know it's now it's turning into this but we can we can show like okay this is how it's been consistently right because if we don't have documentation which we don't in this case right we never dealt with either that we come out and this is the first time we have to deal with you so we only have to go with what we have here okay they can't ready to go you want to talk to Mom real quick you want to talk to Mom real quick yeah I want to talk to my mom can you put on speaker real quick talk to Mama I'm going put this in the car real quick go ahead