Yo, what's going on? So, today we got a video from Unpopular and the title of the video is police save family from an extremely terrifying grandmother. She pushed me back and I knocked into him and he fell over. She got in my face, smacked the out of me. >> That's when I stood up because yeah, he called me a son started getting scared. You know what I say? He tried to break it up, but that's not what happened. He's been out for me ever since he saw my dad called me. He's nothing but a donor. How do I go to jail in my own house? I >> I need defects. He's not well taken care of. >> On November 16th, 2024, officers responded to a residence after a report of a man and his mother arguing over custody, which escalated when the mother became physical. >> I come home now. My mom and I are talking. We were standing there and then she started saying something and started getting loud amongst the both of us and I told him, "Hi, buddy." Say hi. >> You all right? >> He's fine. Um, she pushed me back and I knocked into him and he fell over. But otherwise, he's he's perfectly fine. Mom and I exchanged a few words. I told him, I said, "I don't want to ask you all for nothing. Neither one of y'all." >> And my stepdad and I started getting into it. Hey, don't poke him with that. We're not supposed to have anything that can poke, stick, or stab. I've watched enough cops, man. I got anything that'll poke me, stick me, or stab me? Nope. Okay, cool. And just to reiterate to y'all, I don't have anything on me. I just got my keys. I took my knife off and put it up. >> Yeah, bro. >> Um, just cuz I got a a handgun upstairs. cuz I don't we ain't even going to get into that. I didn't threaten nobody to hurt nobody. Then my mom got in my face. So I stood I'm going to stand kind of close to you. We got you know this close a little bit closer. Don't mind me. She got in my face. Smack the out of me. You can look at my neck. >> Broke my glasses the rest way. Smack my glasses clean off my face. And then you know I grabbed a hold of her. Try and deescalate it and get her away from me and >> keep her, you know, away. She's not going to harm me. >> She's been drinking when she get fizz. Yeah, there you go. But she gets to drinking and gets hostile. She was very hostile. >> Um, and then her and I started getting into it and then her and I started kind of >> guess she say scrapping. I'm not going to call it scrapping because I was defending myself. I didn't She ripped my my shirt, ripped my necklace clean off, broke that. >> Um, >> and then whole dick back I mean my stepdad um decided to try to intervene. He says he didn't swing on me, but he 100% tried to swing on me >> and it did not work out in his favor because I chapped him away and he wanted to sit there and argue back and forth and told me to get out and all this other stuff. Like I said, they both been drinking. The one in the blue has been smoking a little bit. He's going to say that I I scratched him. I cut him. I ain't do. >> Okay. So, it's going to be from >> Absolutely. >> They live together. He's a son. She's the mother. >> But did his injuries come from him being aggressor or do they come from Well, she said that she put her hands on him first. He was just verbal, >> but just can't get in some of his expect. I agree there. >> Their story is obviously custody, whatever. She had the custody of he came over here and was being done at a rate, got in her face. She admitted to put hands on him first. >> But that was because he was up in her face. >> Mhm. >> That's what I told him to put in a separate room or something. >> So, does he just son live here? >> Yeah. Does he? >> Cuz she said that he was just going to put she >> he said he said upstairs in his room. Now this is she admitted to put hands on him first. I asked I said did he touch you right? You put hands on him. She said no. But he was in her face. >> Well he has marks. She ain't got nothing. That guy has a little cut left for us. He showed up to her house late from what she said. His wife whatever dropped the >> she said he gets home by 15 5:30. He was out till 7:30. She called her trying to see where he's like, "No, she's making." >> Mhm. >> When he showed back up to the house, he was acting she in her rooms, he was he showed up these big balls that I guess got in the face and was arguing with her, was being mad. He was mad that he she had he was told about it prior to it happening and he got in her face. She said she she never said she hit him, but she said she got him, but you know what I mean? Got him. >> Pushed her. So he said he said that she pushed him first which made him knock to the correct. >> Mhm. >> And then at what point did she slap him? Was it when did he like get back go back to back to her face? >> Yes. >> So the the guy husband said that he never put hands on him other than to separate him. I never swung at him. Never hit him. >> And this guy said that he swung at him but didn't make contact. Right. So I >> I mean that could very quickly somebody >> is your wife inside? >> Yeah. Let's step inside real quick. >> Absolutely. >> From your point of view, what happened? >> My point of view is they were arguing. >> Okay. They Who's I need you to specify >> redemption. >> Okay. >> Redemption. Stay out of it. >> The altercation happened. >> Elaborate on altercation. >> Yeah. two. >> He He was in her She was sitting. >> He was over here. >> He's over there. >> Sitting there. Okay. >> He was right here. Okay. >> The word started to happen and told her to come at her >> and she stood up, got in his face, >> and that's when he went like this >> and pushed her back. >> And then >> instant reflexes. She pushed back like and then that's when I jumped up and tried to break him up. I'm bleeding here. He stood up. >> Uhhuh. >> She put her hand like this. >> She did >> like like to move moving back a little bit. >> Like he's in her face. >> Okay. >> He goes like she goes like that and he pushes her hands down and starts pushing her back. And that's when I jump up and try >> Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Does he Does he say she stood up and got in his face? Cuz I'm pretty sure, see this is the You see how I got the little lumps here? Right here on this timeline. That means that it's it's a popular part in the video. Cuz I know other people that's watching this is probably thinking what I'm saying. Wait, what? What is he saying? Is he saying that she got up and got in his face and he nudged her back? That means she would be the aggressor. I gota I gotta run that back. Oh man. I gotta run that back real quick. Hold on. Cuz I'm trying to I'm trying to I'm trying to see what's going on here. >> Okay. Right here. Okay. The word started to happen and told her come at her >> and she stood up, got in his face, >> and that's when he went like this >> and pushed her back. And then aggressive >> instant reflexes. She pushed back like and then that's when I jumped up and tried to break him up. I'm bleeding here. He stood up. >> She put her hand like this. >> She did >> like like to move moving back a little bit. >> Like he's in her face. >> Okay. >> He goes like she goes like that and he pushes her hands down and starts pushing her back and that's when I jump up and try to break it up. >> A second ago you just said that he pushed into her first. Now you tell me that you put her arm up first. She put her arm up first. >> Okay. Absolutely. >> Okay. And that was to give distance and the arm was like this. >> Okay. So, if you don't mind me asking how did it how did his shirt get ripped? >> Oh, no. >> That was through the There was a touch >> here. I ripped it off of him when I Look, it's self-defense. I got it. It's right here. >> Okay. That's his shirt and his necklace. >> Yes. >> Okay. >> That ain't no self-defense when you got up and got in his face first. >> Whatever. What happened? And don't say the same thing he said. >> This is a typical I mean my son. >> Okay. >> Taller than what do you expect? I do go into police mode. >> Have y'all ever had issues like this before? >> What happened last time? >> I ended up kicking out his car. >> So you you tell me what happened like step by step cuz I I heard his side. I want to hear your side. >> We had words because Okay. It all started from about 3 3:30 this afternoon. Okay. >> His mom the mom dropped off. She called me and asked me if it was okay if I could drop off the and I was like well of course why not right >> and she's like can you call Curtis and I was like absolutely so I called Curtis you flipped out about that >> why do you flip out about you having >> because it wasn't about me having to it was the fact that she didn't contact him and that's where it started >> um I was like bro just be glad I got him like yeah >> it saves you the trip you can just come straight home right you don't have to meet So he and her were there fine. Haven't heard from him. He he flipped out on the phone. So I was like, you know what? I'm hanging the up right now. I look up on him. >> That's And then it was like 7:00 7:30. I was like, "My son's delaying home. He gets off work at 4:30. Is he okay?" Right. So I call him like, "Hey, are you okay?" He's like, "Yeah, I'm down at the dollar store." I was like, "What? You closing out the dollar store?" >> He came home and just the whole flash attitude with it. >> Okay. So from that point, what happened? What what the whole altercation that happened? >> That's when I stood up because yeah, you call me a >> Okay. >> Yeah, my boys are bigger than me. I have two boys. They stand definitely taller than me. They have grass that they think they have. And >> All right. So when you stood up then what happened? >> We ended up swinging at each other. >> Swinging at each other. >> Raised the hand and it caused me to Yeah. And mark something. >> All right. So when y'all both stood up, did you go towards him or did he come towards you? We stood in each other's face. >> Okay. And then So when y'all see each other's face, did you put your hands on him? >> I mean, one person went to the other. They didn't both get up and equally come to each other. So by her saying that we both went it. No, that means she she knows she in the wrong and she trying to, you know, cover it up a little bit >> first. >> Not at that point. >> Not at that point. Okay. So who put their hands in who first? I ended up touching him for >> Okay. By touching what did you do? >> Swung at him. >> You swung at him. Okay. And then >> I end up knocking his glasses off his face. >> So then he went into self-defense mode >> like we all do. >> Yeah. And then was covering himself up. And did he hit you back or did he push back or how'd that work? >> He did push. >> Okay. >> Which drew me even more to swing at him. >> Okay. So he swung again. Okay. Where was that when all this happened? He was actually back there. >> Okay. So, didn't witness it. >> Okay. So, the didn't get knocked down when you pushed it. >> No. No. Absolutely not. >> Okay. >> He was definitely not in the middle of it, but >> yeah. Let me get that for you. At any point in time, did the altercation happen outside? >> It just smack him across his face outside. >> Okay. And I see you got a ring camera. >> I do. >> Can I watch that video, please? >> This is where we have. Just remember that his mouth >> defense shut your face. >> You can't stand the truth in yours. >> This was actually us waiting for y'all to come in. >> Okay. >> That's when y'all pulled in. >> I should Where's the forward? It would have been right in here after he went back in the house or he went it would have been right in here. >> Go to the one before that. >> That's the one where we came out waiting for y'all where he kept talking to us. >> It would have been right in between there. >> Got home. We were talking on the back porch and um I had asked where his outfit was and she told me it wasn't with him. I was like, "Well, that's kind of a problem." And I don't like that that it wasn't brought back to me. You know what? I'll address all that with her on Monday or on Tuesday when I drop him off. >> So then we come in. I knew she was going to ask me a question. I I knew it was coming. I knew there was something coming because of the phone call we had had earlier during the day >> because I'm supposed to pick him up every Saturday at 5:30 at Circle K& News. >> The last four weeks I haven't been able to do that >> and I enjoy doing it. >> Okay. >> So I got a little frustrated because my mother, one who's in there, >> had to call me and let me know. and his mom did not. So that frustrated me, >> but you know, I calmed down by the time I >> mean that's that's on his mother, not yours. >> Right. >> Right. And then that's what I said like that's that's his mom's job. That's not my mom, his grandparent to let me know what's going on. >> And I expressed that to her, but she didn't seem to care and decided to back >> his mom. >> Okay. >> So after after that happened, then what? >> She had asked me a question. I don't remember exactly what the question was. And things started to slowly verbally escalate. >> Mhm. >> Louder and louder. And she said something along the lines of, "Well, as of tonight, don't ask me for nothing." yada yada yada. I'm like, "You know what?" I looked at both of them. I said, "I'm not going to ask either one of you for a No, I'm I'm not." That's when he decided to perk up and start immediately max volume. So, him and I went toe-to-toe verbally. >> My son started getting scared, so my mom broke away, went and comforted him. >> Mhm. >> Him and I were going back and forth. She got in my face. I addressed it with him. It was probably right where the hat is where we were. >> And I was like, "Look, chill out. Chill out. Chill out." She threw a candle, broke the candle, almost hit me with the candle. >> Okay. >> I was like, "Bro, if that would have hit me, that that that would have hurt and that have been a problem. You It would have lit me wide open." >> Mhm. >> And she's like, "You know what?" She grabbed his little cell phone and threw it. It bounced off the back of my head a little bit. I'm not even worried about that. It got close and was like, "Bro, chill out." It's like, "Chill out." And then she snapped out of me. Slapped me again. respected several times and then wanted to get hands on and physical and that's when I grabbed a hold of her and tried to get her on the ground to deescalate and get her away from me and then I broke away and went to the living room which is on the front half of the house here. >> She chased me down and just yelling at me were yelling back and forth and then you know I grabbed a hold of her again to try and deescalate not to hurt her. Not I didn't swing I didn't smack nobody as you can tell from marks on me. She lit me up quite a few times even once out here. He got in the middle of it, grabbed a hold of me and tried to swim, but I ducked it. He's gonna tell you that he didn't. You know what I say? He tried to break it up. That's not what happened. He's been out for me ever since he saw my dad called me. He's nothing but a downer. And I'm just like him. They're like, "We're calling defects. We're calling defac. I'm going call himself." I said, "Y'all ain't nothing but a bunch." Like, "Y'all y'all ain't >> I mean, from my take, I I feel like the mom is in the wrong. I mean, she she she hitting him, you know. I understand him being frustrated, but you shouldn't be frustrated at your mom. Like, initially, this all starts because you have an agreement with the with the child's mom and she keeps breaking the agreement. If he's supposed to pick him up at this place, then that's what it is. You know what I'm saying? But she's dropping him off at the mom and all of that other stuff. I mean, it may seem like she's doing a favor or whatever, but if you guys got an agreement on something, try to stick to that agreement because the last four weeks, he hasn't been able to do that. And, you know, whatever. They pick him up at Circle K, they whatever him and the child may have a routine. He may pick him up and get him to his uh favorite, you know, food spot or whatever the case may be. You know what I mean? Like, it's just Yeah. I mean, and good for him for not hitting his mom back because clearly he's a big boy and if he was to hit his mom, she'd be all lumped up crazy. Okay, she'd be all discombobulated. All right. So, good for him for, you know, just being able to absorb the abuse, but just hold, restrain, not necessarily hit. So, that's that's good on his part, man. But she's definitely the aggressor and she got to go to jail, man. She got an attitude problem. >> Like do what you got to do. So we moved out here. I came out here for one to separate myself and two to meet y'all out here. >> So way you already know like look, you already had a description of me. I'm standing out here. I ain't got nothing on me whatsoever. Might as well, you know, address y'all as soon as you get here. >> Yeah. >> Not trying to get one over on nobody. >> I'm going tell you my side is the She's still hooting and hollering. Neighbors heard us. I'm sure she got my face again. It's on the ring camera unless she deleted it. She smacked out of me again. I said, "That's okay. You can enjoy that assault charge cuz I'm not even I'm not even worried about it cuz you're eating that, not me." Cuz I didn't swing at nobody. You have no visible marks to proves that I hurt you >> or swung at you. He took the pictures. There's marks all down my neck, everything. >> So, I take a picture of him before he changed shirts cuz he said it was uncomfortable, which is unfair. >> I had a V-neck on, man. I was exposed. I had n popping out left or right if I heard. >> By the way, that uh the other officer has your nichls. So, next question. Where was your when all this happened? >> In the living room, unfortunately. >> But I'd have rather not have seen any of that go down. Um during the argument between my stepfather and I. Um he started getting scared. I guess I I didn't even get a chance to look over there. I knew he was sitting on the couch. I guess my mom had saw him. He was visibly upset, visibly distressed. And I guess he got upset. She went over and comforted him. Mhm. >> And then immediately came back into the situation after I guess he was comforted. >> Okay. >> I don't understand why. Like we could have just had it all said and done, said a few words, and that would have been it. But when she drinks, I let them know she's been drinking. >> She has smoked. She had asked me to pick her up some rappers. >> I did. >> Like you said, inside you already know what's happening. >> I'm going to jail. >> Yes, ma'am. My next question is, is there going to be any issues with you and him when we leave? >> Um, I would like him out of the house. >> Well, he lives here. We can't make You're going to jail. You see what I'm saying? What I'm saying is he lives here. We can't make him leave. >> Why do I Why am I going to jail >> in this situation? You're going to be the aggressor because you swung first and you continue to swing. You admitted he swung multiple times. >> He admitted you even hit him once you come outside. >> Did you see it on camera? >> No, but you admitted it on body camera. And he also has marks and you did not. You also had his nickels and your shirt in your pocket. >> I have marks. >> That tells me she deleted it. Remember the dude said, "Well, we came outside and she smacked me again and and it's on the ring camera unless she deleted it." And by her just saying that, "Did you see me hit him or whatever?" Tells me that she deleted that part. That's why we couldn't see that part on the ring camera. There's everything else, but she deleted that clip. That's a fact. What you stated was from you trying to break them up. >> So that's a you put yourself in that situation trying to break him up. >> What am I supposed to do? >> And I get that. But I'm saying >> I mean what am I supposed to do? I understand that. So >> do you mind going in the house getting her some shoes? >> Can I go get myself some shoes? >> That's fine. One of us going to escort you in there. >> That's fine. How do I go to jail in my own house? >> Because the fact that you swung on him and assaulted him >> and he's pressing. >> I'm sorry. I'm sorry, buddy. Well, it's family >> because >> mother and son. >> I called friends and >> they they live in the same house and also in front of is I'll get you out. >> Call my boss. >> Yeah. Yeah. I'll take care of all that. >> Can she get out on something? >> Uh so she'll see a judge. >> I can't make him leave because he lives here just like you do. You see what I'm saying? I'm going to ask one of y'all if y'all don't I mean I don't want no more issues. I don't want to come back out here again. Okay. So, if you have somewhere else you can go, cool. If he has to go, cool. What? I'm ask >> anywhere in my own house. >> Well, that's cool. >> And I can't make you >> I can't make him eat. >> But, uh, I need defects here. >> What you need? >> I I need defects. He's not well taken care of. >> We can make a defax referral. >> Absolutely. >> That defects can come out here. That's not a problem. >> Now, I'm getting the gesters. >> Oh, dear. >> The middle finger. >> Um, yeah, we can make a defax referral with the report. Yes, sir. >> Absolutely. All right. >> He He's unfit and the living conditions he keeps the unfit. >> Okay. But it's it's here, right? >> Yep. >> So it means that you would be associated with that cuz it's the same household >> and that's why I'm filing a report. >> So you know you're going to be in the report as well as >> the mother to have them. >> Okay. >> The mother's fine. >> That is your choice. Uh I feel like it's more of a >> petty. Yeah. >> Is this guy an idiot? Is he an idiot? You want to get child protective services? You want to get them involved in saying that he's unliv unlivable conditions or whatever? You live in that same house. What are you talking about? This guy, I don't even know. And I was going to bring this up earlier, but I was going to wait until the end. You know what I'm saying? I thought of it earlier, but I'm like, "All right, I I'll say it at the end when we're done watching this video." But why is this guy even getting involved? This is between the mom and the son. Who? You a step. You You Come on. Come on now. You You not even involved. Like for real. For real. You not his dad. Like get out of here. You know what I'm saying? You somebody that was that Nah. No. You know what I'm saying? It's not even like you a step from like the like little, you know what I mean? Like, okay, the the dad is completely out of the picture and then you raise the kid or something something like that. Like, this is just come on. This dude here, man, he's annoying. He is annoying. You going to call child protect unlivable conditions? You're you will be a part of that. Like, what are you crazy? >> It is. I get it. >> Which at the end of the day, the only person that surface the >> I get it is P. >> Yeah. The one she suffered, not the father. >> Well, the father's no not fit. He has no place to go. >> Okay. >> All right. So, you have anything on you? >> Anything in your pocket? >> There's nothing on me. >> Um, >> you want to take off if you want to take off your rings and stuff and go and give them to him. Just that way. That way it's there's I'd prefer it that way. That way there's nothing that you have. They have your possessions. I'm saying >> get my fingers out of there. >> Just that way nothing could possibly go missing. You have any other jewelry you want to give? They're going to make you take all that out. I don't care about my earrings. >> They're going to make you take all that out. Necklace. >> Will I be able to see her tomorrow? >> Um, that's going to be like What do you mean like visit her? >> Yeah, they do video chat. >> They do video chats. >> She's going miss. >> Look at that. I love you. >> I'm going to put your hand back real quick. >> I know. >> You want to take your bracelets off and watch off? >> They're going to take it off. >> So, how do I go about getting them out? >> You're going to have to go to the courthouse, file for an eviction. all through the courts. I mean, you have to go through an eviction process since he's legally just like y'all do. >> That's you can't legally evict him without going through the courts >> and you can't like for instance, you can't lock him out of the house. You can't put yourself out. I'm I'm just I'm just saying you can't lock I'm just I'm just giving you guidelines so you know to many privileges. >> So, what can I ask what I'm being charged with? >> You be charged with battery, fam, and cruelty. >> No, no, they're all mis >> they're all mismanaged. the the child cruelty because present. >> No, he wasn't. >> He was in the other world. >> He was in the other world. >> But why is he not getting charged with that? >> Because he's not the aggressor. >> Well, he's a parent. >> But he's not the aggressor situation. >> Who gets charged? >> Okay, that's fine. I love you, Alex. >> Love you, too. >> Give me one second. I'm going to go finish this up real quick and we'll head out. Okay. >> No, don't do that. >> Don't do that. You know >> I'm talking to them. >> Yeah. Don't do that. You knew you said that loud enough for me to hear. Don't do that. >> I'm not like my dad. >> You know that's my trigger. >> All right, guys. Y'all going to have to be Y'all going to have to be adults, man. >> Y'all really are. >> Right there. >> Are y'all going to be all right after we leave? >> [ __ ] Asking that question. You >> going to be all right after we leave, sir? >> Go to your room. >> You got to worry about me, boss. >> Worry about >> Please don't let us come back out. >> Yeah, >> I won't. >> Just try just just try to be adult situation. I I I just want him to grow up now, not have to we're not going to be away from this because >> so she's going to jail for family charges. So she's going to have a conditional bond against him and the child. >> So she's not going to be able to come around. >> So that means if he lives here >> Yeah. So you have to figure that out whenever she'll have to figure that out. So Monday when I get her out and she has to come home, >> he has to go somewhere, right? >> Well, it depends on how the conditional bond is conditional. >> It's either going to have no contact or no contact. >> Okay. >> If y'all need us back out here, just call us. Okay. >> The woman was charged with battery and endangering a dependent. >> Insane. Insane. I don't like step pops, man. He he he's a trip. He's a trip. You want to get them them child people involved? Unfit conditions. Y'all live in the same household. You are respon you are part of the conditions that the child is living in. What type of sense does that make? I ain't like that at all, man. I feel bad for that child, man. You know what I'm saying? One thing about all of us is that we don't get to pick our parents. Our parents pick us. You know what I'm saying? See, so I mean, and and you know, unfortunately, that child was born into that tox toxic environment like that. Um, this is bad, man. You know what I mean? So, anyway, I think the cops did the best that they could. Um, I think they did a pretty good job, you know what I mean? She she was the aggressor. She tried to get slick deleting that footage. They get a four out of five from me, you know. Four out of five from me. Let me know in the comment section below how well you think the officers did. And I'mma catch you in the next