All right, we're getting a shot at 3334.
On February 26, 2025, officers with the
Oaklair, Wisconsin Police Department
responded to a call for domestic
disturbance. Upon arrival, officers
observed a woman laying across the top
of her boyfriend's car.
I need you. I just need you. I need you.
Get off my car.
 Get off the car. Get off
of the car. You can I got to go.
 Get
off. I need you to stop right now.
 I
need him.
 I need you to get off of the
car.
 I don't want to talk to you though,
dude.
But pull my squad up to this car.
 I need
him.
 And I don't want to talk to them. I
want to go.
 Hey, I need
 I need you to
get off of the car.
 That's all I need.
Can you roll the window up, please?
Right now in there.
 I just want you.
That's all.
 I don't want to drop you,
but I need you to get off of this car.
Why are there more, bro?
 I'm driving
away. She's got two seconds. I go.
 I
really want you. I just want you.
 Go
away.
 Grab Grab your arm.
 I just want
you to car
I just want you. I don't want
 We're
going to walk back here.
 Okay. Stay
right here. Turn off the vehicle. Turn
off the vehicle right now.
 Turn off the
vehicle right now.
 Why? What did I do?
Turn off the vehicle right now. We need
to talk to Bro, what did I do? And talk
to him, bro. I'm not doing this. I will
drive away.
 Turn off. No, don't do that.
Turn off the vehicle.
 Can we get a CO
here, please? We have a male
uncooperative car. Have a box in the
driveway right now.
 I've had a [ __ ]
14 hour shift not been able to do this.
I came home to a drunk, bro. Bro. Yeah.
Nice shot. Nice shot.
 Get out of the
car,
 bro.
 Get out of the car.
 Okay, bro.
Get out of the car. I'm
 What did I do?
What did I do? What did I do, bro? Get
out. Okay.
And the
 What did I do? And wait, what
did I do, bro?
 Okay. Why are you
grabbing me now?
 Okay, then don't touch
me.
 Don't Okay, can I go in my house,
please? I didn't do a thing.
 We need to
talk about this,
 bro. And they
Why are there eight cops here? And why
the are there eight cops here? She was
jumping on here.
 Listen,
you
Listen, Kayen, just listen.
I have my dog inside. Can you do
anything about that?
I'm
sorry. I'm sorry. I'm
sorry. My feet are so cold.
 We'll grab
your shoes. Can you just sit in here,
please?
Can you turn my camera on?
Veto, when you get a chance, can you
just take her
 back there?
 Why can't I go
in my house, dude? What did I do?
 Take a
breath.
 No.
 What's What's your name?
Kayen.
You ain't seen the [ __ ] video?
 I have
not.
 Oh, okay. I'm sure I'm going, bro.
I didn't do anything illegal.
 I
understand, but we need to talk to you.
I don't care. You got the culprit. It's
done.
 But we we need to figure out what
happened, right? I'm not
 I've been I've
been I've been at work and I came home.
She started jumping on my car. What do
you want?
 Okay.
 I literally just got
home from work. Do you need to see? I
can call my boss.
 No, I believe
 work
night shift. Okay. Those are all your
answers, bro. I just got home.
 Okay. How
do you know her?
 Girlfriend.
 Okay. Do
you guys live here together?
 I live
here. She lives here. Yeah, she's on
lease.
 Okay.
Okay. So, you got home from work?
 Yes.
Okay.
 She was drinking prior.
 Okay,
bro.
Okay.
 And why do they always just keep
oning showing up?
 So, so she was
drinking?
 Yes.
 You get home?
 Yes.
 But
you didn't even get out of the car.
 I
went inside for a few minutes and she
started coming at me. Then I came out
here. My bad.
 Okay. Nope. You're okay.
So, what do you mean? So, you you got
home from work. Where do you work at?
Okay. So, she's been drinking. You got
home. You said she came at you. What do
you mean? What do you mean by that?
She's literally been coming at me. And
yes, I pushed her to get back away to
come out to my car and then she came out
here.
 Okay.
 I've been trying to distance
myself. I've been on the phone the whole
time. I was trying to record it.
Okay.
I like I was trying my best. Can I
please No, you're not grabbing my phone.
You can look.
 Watch it. Okay. Thank you.
The damage on top. Is that from
 Yes.
Okay.
My [ __ ] feet are cold. Can I go in?
Everything's solved.
 Is it okay if I
stand in there and talk to you?
 No, it's
not. You're not going in the house.
Okay. Well, right now I need to I need
The problem's out here. The problem's in
the back of the car. Can't I go, bro?
 If
you want to sit in the car, so you're
not standing outside.
 I want to go
inside. My dog's in there.
 Okay. Right
now, we got to figure out We got to
figure this out. Okay. I'm not trying to
take up more time than we need, but I'm
just trying to figure out what happened.
Okay.
 Mhm.
 She's going to ask 8,000
questions over and over. Same [ __ ]
answer I'm going to give
you. Just got home. Okay,
 remember that
Asian mung cop? 1.7 million views. I'mma
off with all you guys. A bunch of jerk
offs. You guys don't remember hearing
about this? I'm going to give you the
same answer with the same questions.
Speed it up.
 So, you got home. Speed it
up.
 What do you mean she came at you?
Describe that for me.
 She came at me.
Can you describe what that looked like?
I walked in the door and she's coming at
me.
 Okay. Did she?
 It looked like a
Mexican coming at me.
 Okay. Did
 If it
was you, it look like a big white man
coming at me. Any further questions?
Okay.
 This is really [ __ ] [ __ ]
dude. You're asking the most [ __ ]
questions in the world. I said she came
at me. I came outside.
 Okay.
 You see the
damage?
 Yep.
Goodness. What's your name?
What's your name? I'm Officer Carlo and
you can call me Veto. How about
that? How old are
you? Do you live here?
Yeah.
 Okay. You live at this house?
What's your boyfriend's name?
Jaden. And I'm just really sorry.
 What
are you What are you sorry for?
 I peed
in the bed.
Okay.
You You wet the bed and he got upset.
Can you tell me about
that? Tell me about what happened.
And it's really cold.
Get out of here. Go. You got the person.
So she came at you.
 You pushed her and
then you came outside.
No [ __ ] [ __ ] Like I just told you
that.
 Okay.
 Same question. Same [ __ ]
answer. Eighth time. You want to do it a
ninth?
 So coming at you.
 Asking a ninth
time. Oh my god. This [ __ ] Waller Jr.
And
get the chief. I don't want to talk.
 Do
you have an ID on you, man?
 Get someone
else. No, I don't have an ID on me.
Kayen,
 you need me to spell it? My mom
is right here on the car. Do you want to
talk to her?
Can I talk to her?
 No [ __ ] [ __ ] I
gave you the phone through theing
window, [ __ ]
 Like, this is honestly
like I get mad when more of y'all show
up. You guys are escalating this.
 I'm
not trying to escalate anything, man.
It's already over, bro. Just want a
[ __ ] bed.
Okay, I understand that.
No, you [ __ ] don't.
[Music]
Can you tell me what your name is at
least?
 Gracie.
 Chrissy.
Gracie.
Gracie.
Gracie. Okay.
So, so
Gracie, I just I just want to know. So,
you had been drinking tonight and
you you wet the bed and by accident?
 I
went to bed and I woke
up and he was yelling I think and
 you
what?
 I was still
under a little and drunk and I just
 did
not get the name.
 I don't
know. So, why was he mad at you?
 Because
I peed in the bed.
 Okay. And he was
yelling at you. What was he saying to
you?
 Just to clean it up. And I was just
trying to get his attention and I just
couldn't. And I
just I just wanted and I just wanted to
leave.
 You You wanted to leave?
 He
wanted to leave.
 And you wouldn't let
him leave. You didn't want him to leave.
I didn't want him to leave. Okay.
 I've
been waiting all night for him to come
home.
 But but what you got to
understand, right, is we have to figure
out
 understanding. I don't [ __ ] care
what happened.
 I told you whating
happened already. Word for [ __ ] word,
bro. And you keep asking the same
questions.
 I understand. But from my
perspective, man, I just want to hear I
want you to hear me out from my
perspective. Okay. When somebody tells
me she came here,
 okay, but you came
here jumping on my car.
 I understand
that. And I wanna I want to get to that,
but I also want to understand
 I want to
understand what led up to that
happening. Okay. And I know you told me
Me and her have been arguing this week.
Okay.
 She's mad cuz I'm out with
friends. She decided to drink tonight. I
said, "Okay, have your fun." I came home
to her pissfaced drunk attacking me. Do
you need me to [ __ ] say it again?
 Did
she hit you at all?
 No [ __ ]
 What do you
mean by that?
 She slapped me like eight
[ __ ] times and I just sat there and
ate the cuz I'm not a puss.
 Okay.
 Okay.
comprehend.
 Okay. Did that hurt when she
hit you?
 Kind of, I guess.
 Okay. Did you
I'm assuming I know this is a dumb
question.
 I pushed back. I never smacked
her. I already said this.
 Okay. And I'm
assuming this is a dumb question. I know
that, but I'm assuming you didn't give
her permission to slap you.
 No, I'd
never give someone [ __ ] permission to
slap me.
 Okay.
 These are [ __ ]
 Okay.
Can I Did she slap you in your face?
Yeah.
 Was it like
open-handed or like a punch?
 Enough to
knock my glasses off my face and take a
cleanse out.
 Oh, wait. Can I take a look
at your face to see if there's any
marks?
 If you really want.
 Okay. And did
that happen in the house then when you
got inside?
 Would you mind looking at
me? I'm not trying to shine my light in
your eyes.
Okay. Why did he want to leave so bad?
I don't
know. I don't really know.
 Is it because
you guys got into an argument? Okay.
I'm really cold.
 I know. I just I'm
trying to figure out what's going on and
then I can keep the car warm. I can shut
the door.
He's just really He was at work all
night. He was He's exhausted. He wants
to go to
bed and I just peed the bed. I wanted to
have a good night with him.
[Music]
It's not your fault.
It is my fault.
 It It was an accident.
Okay. And and there's no reason to yell
at somebody for an accident. What
 you
mean to do it?
 I know you didn't. And
nobody means to do something like that.
I don't know how to I don't know how to
clean it up.
 Well, you
 I really don't.
It's tough. It's not It's really not
that It's not the end of the world,
though.
 To do it.
 I know, but it's You
know, that's not the end of the world,
right?
 More the more the thing we're
concerned about is your safety and his
safety, right?
And I think
 I felt fine.
 So, did did it
get physical at any point?
It didn't get physical.
 No.
 Did he push
you at all?
 No.
 Did he hit you?
 No.
 Did
you hit him?
 No.
Okay. So, you go inside. She's been
drinking. She's upset because you've
been hanging out with friends. She comes
at you, starts slapping you like eight
like eight times. You said knocked your
glasses off.
 I don't know. I'm not
[ __ ] counting. I was
 multiple times,
right?
 Sure. Whatever you want to say it
is. You're putting it in your own story
after I told you eight times already.
Well, I'm just reiterating,
 bro. You're
not reiterating it. I told you word for
word whating happened and now you're l
literally rewarding it in your owning
way as y'all always do. May I go?
 Not
right now.
Bro, you want to talk to her [ __ ]
mom? I was texting her in the same
thing. She won't get off my car. D, you
want to call her?
 Yeah. Hang with him
for a
second. I'm going out the other way.
Nope, you're not. You're going to stay
right here.
 Do not [ __ ] touch me now.
Stay right here. You're not going to go
out the other door.
 Yeah. Try it, bro.
Why do I have to sit in my car, Ann? Why
the do I got to do this?
 Cuz there's an
ongoing investigation.
 About what? Dude,
he's just You guys just verbally argued.
And then why were you on top of the car
then? cuz I didn't want him to leave.
Okay.
 We have a history
of he likes to leave and just not come
back and I just don't like it.
 Okay.
 But
he never hit me or anything.
 So why were
you on top of the car when we got here?
Cuz I didn't want him to leave. That's
the only reason.
 Okay.
 That's the only
reason I thought I could make him stay.
Okay.
 Cuz if I got on the side, he would
have just drove off. Sure.
 I just don't
want him to weave. I just don't know
what to do.
 Well, why don't you just
stay warm? All right. And then
 Okay.
I literally told them what happened and
he wants to continuously ask the same
[ __ ] questions.
 Hey honey, it's his
job.
 It's his job to be [ __ ]
[ __ ] Thank you for answering my
question.
 Thank you. At least someone
gets it.
It's his job to ask you a million
questions. Yes,
 the same one.
 Yes,
because then you can see if you're
interested.
It's a domestic. So, I'm probably going
to jail, I'm sure.
Where's Gracie?
 In the back of a cop
car. That's why I don't get why I'm
being questioned. They already got this
figured out.
 They're not in my house and
they're not going in there.
Where are they?
 They're surrounding my
damn car.
Bro, stop leaning in the [ __ ] You can
[ __ ] stand outside my door with your
hand on it, but you don't got to be up
in my business.
 I'm just going to stand
right here so you off. Oh, I should
probably say it to a nice man. Can you
please off and back up a step?
 No.
 My
bad. Okay. Thank you.
I don't want to do anything about the
car. The situation's resolved. Can y'all
please go so I can go to bed?
I already knew how this was going.
 I'll
fix the car myself.
What a wast waste ofing resources.
Oh my god.
All right, man. Did you want to do
anything about the damage of the car?
 I
already yelled that out loud. So, can
you please
 I didn't hear you. I was
talking to someone else.
 So, here's
what's going on. Okay. She's going to be
arrested.
 Perfect.
 Okay. With that, I
would like to do some paperwork with
you.
 No.
 Are you willing to do any type
of paperwork with me?
 No, sir. You're
willing to go, though, right?
All right, man. Did you want to do
anything about the damage?
 I already
yelled that all out loud. So, can you
please go?
 I didn't hear you. I was
talking to somewhere else. So, here's
what's going on. Okay. She's going to be
arrested.
 Perfect.
 Okay. With that, I
would like to do some paperwork with
you.
 No.
 Are you willing to do any type
of paperwork with me?
 No, sir. You're
willing to go, though, right?
Just get
 Are you refusing to do all
paperwork with me, including
 Is that
illegal for me to go? Am I going to go
to jail if I do not do paperwork?
 No.
Then get out of here. Go.
 All right. I'm
not even pressing charges. The car's
fine. Give me my keys and get the out of
here. [ __ ]
 I handed my keys to y'all.
Where the are they? Right here.
 Thank
you. Get your [ __ ] white ass off my
property, you monkey.
Have a good night, man.
Say it again.
Okay. So,
Gracie'll be
What's that? It'll be enforced using
everything.
 Okay. So, Grace, you're
going to be going to jail today. Okay.
What?
 For domestic DC.
 What?
 Domestic
DC.
 I never hit him.
 That's That's what
was reported.
[Music]
Okay. I've never been to jail. I don't
know what I'm doing.
What do I do?
Just easy.
 Just listen.
 I never hit him.
I have bruises on me.
I don't understand.
I have bruises on me.
I don't understand.
 I was advised by
other officers that you needed to be
arrested. Okay.
 I was the one that
interviewed you and they interviewed
him.
 For how long?
 So, it's a for DC
it's $150 to bond out.
Okay. Well, Cord will be at 11:00 a.m.
tomorrow.
Is he gonna come?
I don't know.
 Can you ask?
 You can make
a phone call to him.
 Am I able? I don't
He doesn't have data on his phone. Can
you please talk to me?
 Will there be
someone Will there be someone else that
you'd be able to call?
 No. Can you
please talk to him?
 He doesn't He
doesn't want to talk to us. He just got
into an argument with us officers.
 Can
you just tell him to answer his phone,
please? That's all. I don't know what
I'm I don't know what I'm supposed to do
like at all.
 So, you can make a phone
call when you go to the jail. Okay.
 He
doesn't have data on his
 Well, how is he
supposed to answer his phone?
 Exactly.
That's why I'm telling you if you can if
you can just ask him to answer my phone.
So, there's going to be a 72-hour no
contact. So, you can't have any contact
with him.
You can't have any contact with him.
Okay. Just close the goddamn door.
 Okay.
[Music]
Okay. So,
clearly you weren't on the same
page as your
boyfriend and you didn't want to tell me
at the time what was going on. Okay. I'm
just
 I know he wanted to go away.
I'm going to read you your Miranda
rights so that way we could talk about
some stuff. Okay. You have the right to
remain silent. anything you say and will
be used against you in the court of law.
Yes.
 Realizing that you have these
rights, are you now willing to answer
questions or make a statement?
Sorry, what?
 Are you Are you willing to
answer questions? Statement.
 Yes.
Tell me what happened tonight. Be very
specific.
Um
I I was just drinking, cleaning the
house.
 Okay.
 Um I went to bed. I had a
couple friends over, just two, um, just
for like a drink. They went home. They
were fine drinking. Um, they just had
one, so they were fine. Um, they went
home. Um, I went to
bed. I woke
up. I don't really remember what
happened when I
w Okay.
I know you want to go back and that
that's what your comfort is and it's
like your normal.
[Music]
Yep.
 Okay.
So, I have no idea what else to do.
I don't know if there's anything on my
legs. My foot.
Can I get a picture of your lip?
 Do you
need my foot? I don't know.
 That's okay.
Okay, please be
safe. Okay, just understand how serious
these things turn out to be.
 Yeah,
 these
situations. Okay,
 you haven't seen it
before.
Hey, how's it going?
 Good. How are you
doing?
You own this property or
 I don't I'm out
here giving my buddy a quote.
Okay.
Cold for what?
 Um, he want he's looking
into roofing and signing.
 Okay.
 Is there
anyone home right now?
 I honest to God
have knocked. He told me to meet him out
here at 2. I love him early. Get came
out early to get some pictures.
 Okay.
Sounds good. All right. We're just
following with the tenants about
something that happened last night. So
Oh, yeah. No, I got it. Okay. I was
like, this guy's taking pictures outside
of it. That's kind of weird.
 Are you
guys I'm going to jump on the roof. Is
that Do you guys care? Do you We
appreciate you, man. We're not going to
interfere with your business at all,
man. You guys appreciate you.
 Yep.
 Yeah.
No, I have a knock, so I don't know. I
don't know the records or nothing, so
Okay, sounds good.
 All right. Thank you.
What's going on, Nate?
So, apparently there was a domestic here
last night and uh they arrested the
female. I don't know if you saw that
case at all, but um when they got down
to the jail, they saw that she was
pretty beat up and uh
 William, go ahead.
I was asked to follow up with it. Go and
see if she'll talk to us. with that.
Oakclair Police Department.
Hey there, sir. Uh, actually just
looking for your uh
 Oh, my neighbors. I
don't think they're here right now.
Okay. I I'm pretty
sure Kaden left with someone else and
Gracie was here Greece like shortly with
her parents and then they left again.
Okay, sounds good. Um, you hear anything
any disturbances in the last night or
Yeah.
 Yeah.
 Were you the one who called
last night?
 Okay. Could you kind of tell
what they were fighting about or
anything like that?
 Um, as far as I
know, Gracie had been drinking because I
went out and checked on Kaden
afterwards. Y
 um she'd been he came home
from work and she'd been drinking and
when she drinks she can be a little um
aggressive I guess. And this isn't the
first time I've heard them fight before
but it always seems that Kadan's trying
to separate himself from the situation
and that she's preventing him from
leaving.
 Okay.
Um but yeah, this basically just what
happened. But last night when I looked
out the window, I saw her on top of his
car
when he was trying to drive away to
again remove himself from the situation
and I was like that's not safe. So then
I
Good call. I appreciate that. Um did
anyone talk to you about that last night
or uh killed it? I heard it was pretty
chaotic scene so not
looked a little I was like that's not
safe for anybody. So yeah, no one talked
to me about it last night though.
 Okay.
you see anything physical happen? You
saw her stand on top of the the
 Um, no.
I know that I heard him like yell at her
to stop coming at him or to stop hitting
him or something.
 Was that when they
were in the house or out?
 Yeah, in the
house. And then that's when he went out
the house cuz he was like, "I'm not
going to be in a physical altercation
with you or whatever cuz I mean he
didn't say those exact words,
but basically what he said was, uh,
 I'm
not going to fight you." Basically.
Yeah, I'm not going to hit you. I'm not
going to like keep like trying to get
away from you kind of thing. So,
 okay.
Um, have you seen anything physical
before happen? I know you've heard just
them.
 Mm- No, I mean I've heard them
chat and stuff and I know that I've
heard him yell at her a few times like
in the past to get away from him.
 Mhm.
Um, but I don't haven't seen anything
concrete.
 Sure. Okay.
 Initial reports
indicate that Gracie was charged with
domestic disorderly conduct. However,
after an exhaustive search through the
court records, we were unable to locate
a filed charge for her. Kaden, her
boyfriend, was recently featured on Code
Blue Cam's channel. We have a link to
that video below.
 My girlfriend, we can
argue in public. Here you go. I want to
make some decisions. I'm sorry. I didn't
mean to throw them at you.
 You okay?
Hey, come here.
 What do you need? Don't
I'm going to talk towards me. Since the
interaction, her boyfriend Kaden has
received two charges for operating a
vehicle while suspended, two citations
for operating a vehicle without proof of
insurance, multiple speeding citations,
and charges for possession of cocaine
and drug paraphernalia. Kaden also has
prior charges that include disorderly
conduct, possession of THC, possession
of paraphernalia, and a civil case
related to a restraining order. If you
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