started right here [Music] something to talk about cause everybody's talking [Music] about time [Music] that's why foreign [Music] oh oh oh [Music] oh oh oh [Music] all alone foreign [Music] hey can y'all hear me I see my thing moving so I hope so happy Saturday hey beautiful Choice how are you doing hi Linda Gamble hey Gigi nice to see you hi Miss reesy how are you long time no see well I saw you in other chats so how are you doing hey Damita Joe how are you how are you yes thank y'all for being here so of course I gotta say thank you to my trendy tribe members I appreciate y'all um the lips on the side are the emojis that are um available on the YouTube membership because the YouTube size on inside unless you use emojis but yes uh and y'all see because Choice be throwing them things out there hey live laugh love how are you yes y'all I got a treat and this is thanks to 41 fit because now I have to be in the mood too so the stars have to align but she suggested drawing uh Lauryn Hill's lips and so I'm going through like okay let me get a good post because I know she got some beautiful lips well y'all I don't set up here and I got a whole Lauryn Hill portrait that I wanted to try to do we shall see how this turns out it's it's anybody's guess you know but it is what it is I'm willing to try and we shall see how it goes the the girl in the bottom left is one I've done but that was like two three years ago when I did that one so we'll see but yes it's going to be fun either way so sketchy Saturdays are really like how when we have free form Fridays where you can throw out any topic you really want to talk about I just usually I don't do politics and I don't criticize other content creators at least nowhere good you know but like the gossipy stuff you know so y'all can throw out stuff I have a couple things on my list so we can keep it flowing in case no one has anything they want to throw out to talk about um and then I do eventually let y'all up on the panel if you want to discuss something and not just type type about it so that's how we do it and um yeah so this is our sketchy Saturday also any art that I do good or bad because they might not be the best day it's free to the patrons and the YouTube members so yeah you'll get a link to download it if you want to oh thank you Miss Reese can't wait thank you so much I'm I'm just happy to have y'all here so we can talk about things okay y'all so I'll I'll get it started but y'all drop your topics and you you won't be interrupting me if you put things up there that's the whole point is I try to talk to y'all as I do this so don't feel self-conscious about bringing up stuff that's not on topic um I just want to keep it flowing so we can all have something interesting to talk about but yeah so anything there's no such thing as out of order on sketchy Saturdays and and really free form Fridays so yes thank you choice yeah okay I'm checking everything okay okay okay cool beans all right y'all so let me make sure I got my brush set correctly it's been a long time I was out here testing different different brushes I don't know okay I think I found my brush so we shall see I hope y'all are doing okay I hope you've had a great weekend so far happy birthday to the Leos I posted a short for the Leos uh it's an older video but I don't care it's still fun to me so um it's where that the whole wait staff is dancing uh when they do a happy birthday dance but they're not saying happy birthday they it's a whole choreographed dance um so okay so for y'all that's coming in we are live sketching so this is going to be a Lauren Hill digital pastel oil painting-esque type style about to happen here so we shall see how this goes let me move my avatar so I can make my screen bigger hey Sylvia P my trendy tribe remember how are you doing good to see you okay let me get my let me move my avatar out the way there we go so my screen can be bigger oh you know what I could have kept it and just changed the thing oh well let me hold on there we go I could do it like that okay so the first one I was going to talk about y'all is Kiki's interview with DJ Richie Skye I thought that one was a very interesting interview um and y'all I felt bad I felt like Kiki heard me I know I'm not the only one that said it but when she was like I know I'm long-winded I just think about a lot in my head I'm like oh Kiki look I don't think you're a bad person for doing it I just be I just can't watch her lives because of it but you know how you feel pressure to change from for people and stuff so I feel bad about that so I'm like don't be feeling pressure to change from people or anything it just is it's how you are and we adjust to you so for me I just go watch somebody usually summarize what she was talking about you know so I felt bad when I saw that so I'm like oh Kiki no don't feel so bad about it but the interview was really good um oh my gosh seriously okay hold on let me see if my short keys there we go okay the interview is really good um I can't go in chronological order because I didn't take notes and I'm over here trying to trying to quotation marks paint right now but let's see here she talked about of course her addiction and she was very very ashamed um but she said so many women have reached out to her since then that she loves that it turned into you know something positive and you know something that she can uh oh let me see what layer I'm on uh oh why why are you doing this I feel Kiki pain I'm long-winded too and I tend to over explain things well especially at work Gigi I am one of those people because I feel like you if you don't know everything you'll come back and say I didn't tell you and think that I intentionally held something back from you and that's not the case you know so I totally I do understand her just it was just from a Time perspective and entertainment perspective I couldn't do it but um what else okay so uh and then her whole thing was she and Tisha saying that she feels like more of the strain it started when it was like 13 years old but even more of the strain came from the fact that Marcel intervenes in a it was a weird way that he intervenes too from the way she was describing it like he would take the phone from Tisha if they were talking or no she was crying to Tisha on the phone and he took the phone away to be like look she's not apologizing to you uh all this other stuff um hey Tanya B how are you doing good to see you um he's just I mean we see how he is he is very very entitled and rude um but she said that like it's only she and Tisha butt heads all the time but like Tisha doesn't fall out with tisha's friends Kiki doesn't follow with Kiki's friends but they always fall out with each other she said she thinks it's because they love each other hard I'm like it might be a one-sided love Gigi says I just feel that I may not say things the way I mean them just misunder I know GG that's the same word I have so I feel you when you say that like I just want to make sure I'm clarifying so you were we I want us to be on the same page so Gigi when I tell you I understand you I do it's here's the thing with Kiki the times I've gone to see Kiki I was coming to see the mess so I'm like girl tell me the mess you can clarify after you tell me the point though I need to I need the main thing but you can't help how you are um what else did Kiki talk about she was saying how when she would go try to get the the med the pills and stuff after she her doctor Cut Her Off from it first of all she said she actually didn't feel like she needed anything that strong but the doctor prescribed it she her body got used to it but she was saying when she found somebody you know on the street that would keep giving it to her they even told her like this isn't for you you shouldn't be here um and she was like uh I'm not saying that anybody should it was just she was like for her she started feeling like this isn't my life this isn't what I should be doing hey Ladon my trendy tribe remember how are you doing my newest one too thank you for joining Ladon I think you might have had to leave where you might have been at work but I just wanted you to hear me say thank you again oh and what else happened on Kiki's interview y'all oh she said that's not in her character when she threw that water and teach her face she had just got so mad she was so mad and frustrated um she was like but of course I regretted that's not my character it's not it wasn't a TV moment I was genuinely frustrated Kiki and Tisha issue started long before the show with Wanda yeah I agree and I I feel like Kiki did say that um I feel like she said because she said something about 13 years old and then she said something about how it did intensify right before the the show started uh between how Marcel was kind of egging things on but yeah you right Gigi yeah thank you thank you um we're doing Lauryn Hill Ladon that's what I'm well that's what I'm attempting to do with our that's I'm trying to find my right color because I feel like I'm color picking the right one hold on y'all why is this thing this thing is about to I'm on the right layer yes Ben okay maybe I need to go one more darker I have my whole color palette set out like I am ready I don't know why okay yep I was just on the wrong color y'all don't mind me not Miami Okay so anything else with Kiki's interview that I'm I didn't say I feel like that was like I'm shortening it but I feel like those were the key key things she talked about I do like how DJ Richie Scott interviewed her um he gave her room to breathe and talk but he also asked he asked some questions I don't know if he didn't ask if she would have clarified and addressed them in the way she did so I always appreciate a good interviewer I do hope that if I get the chance to interview people like that that I can have those questions that you know people honestly want to know still respectful but the questions people have cool loved her office but she always had good lips what you mean her old face Ladon did she get her face done if she did I didn't know that is and I'm guessing this is her old face because this is the Lord I recognize when I saw it when I was going through picking it out so maybe I don't know new face maybe that's why I'm like what what old face um okay and then hold on oh and thank y'all for sending me uh videos in my DMs I'll be looking I can't always make a video about them but I'll be looking so we can talk about them on the weekend and stuff too so I'm actually gonna go back and check a couple of those now to see what's going on um Chit Chat was we were we were on chit Chess Live me and choices over there at chit Chess Live and I saw a couple of our people over there too but um of course chicha was uh covering the how NBC and Bravo are starting to get sued for alleged uh condoning of Revenge P y'all setting that precedence cause you know what we care about it for you already know what we looking for no she didn't get work done she is oh she is oh oh poor thing I don't know what to say because nature is taking this course poor thing it's probably too I don't know she do be seeming stressed out I don't know if that's stress or just you know genetics was gonna play out that way okay little I thought you was talking about some plastic surgery or something for a second but yeah y'all it's precedence being set over on NBC and Bravo side oh and this is stylized Lauren Hill I don't do exacts of people so this is you see the reference I'm using we're going into one of my styles that I do I can't draw exact I don't even try I'm like that's just nope hey who says that how are you how are you doing [Laughter] um so uh it was Revenge P it was very it was hostile work conditions that they were being sued for um like enabling people's addictions I think it was it's a lot of stuff over there um I know like a lot of people don't want to hear from Bethenny Frankel because she did get up she is and has gotten a lot of privileged um what is it treatment from them but if somebody's gonna say it that's okay let the privileged one say it so they because their privilege can help the fight you know so it is what it is let whoever we're gonna say is say it so they can uh be brought to task um hey pn2 Ross happy Saturday happy Saturday I'm doing a stylized rendition of Lauryn Hill okay I say stylized because again it's gonna look like what it's gonna look like but I'm having fun and that's all that matters um what else with the Bravo thing I think well that's really it we're really waiting to see let this take precedence and honestly they might happen concurrently because things take so long to happen it may not uh we may not get to see the whole thing play out before it comes up with on Carlos how he played his role um in in the Revenge P you know when it comes to Melody and everything so his alleged role whatever so we shall see we shall see but I'm just glad it's you know the more eyes the better that's on it okay let me see what else checking y'all's messages that y'all have sent me a lot has happened okay got that one let me go to this one and if y'all have any topics you want to talk about you can throw them out there just no politics um let's see okay we did talk about lizzo I think it was a lunchtime live we talked about the lizzo thing um and I'm sorry y'all it's gonna be a very shallow surface one sketchy salad is a more shallow because my hands and eyes are doing more than one thing at once so uh but I have heard that there was a documentarian I don't know if that's what you would say the word is I'm glad who says that but she had withdrew from doing the documentary on one of lizzo's Tours because of the she saw how the working conditions were for the dancers and she was very uncomfortable with it um of course you got the three dancers that actually filed the lawsuit I I saw that they said the dances are only hey Sunkist dark and Danny how are you doing good to see you um I heard that they're only suing for it it's probably maybe 75 000 each and y'all that would barely cover probably their legal fees so if that's the case it's definitely not a greed thing and and like uh it was said you know if they decide once they decide to do this they probably knew they would they would prob they may get blackballed one not a lot of people hire plus size dancers so the numbers are already uh crazy small there and then two anytime you start speaking out against an employer even if they're wrong uh allegedly wrong you're going to probably be black ball because no one else wants to be called out in that manner and now you're looked at as a person that's you know even though you're not trying to be the Troublemaker they look at you as the troublemaker you know so that's that's that so that's just a little extra layer of course lizzo came out and said that you know that is false it didn't happen um like people said with the Carly Russell thing they said look after Carly Russell I'm just gonna wait and let the whole thing play out so I have my biases against um select mostly celebrities in general I do but overall I ain't gonna be out here just stomping my foot like lizzo is for sure wrong I just have my own thoughts about it definitely not a payday if that's all right pn2 Rose um I just you know we all got to see it play out so we shall see but you know you know you kind of know where you're leaning either way but um not trying to publicly condemn what we don't know for sure I'm just saying I could see it being possible and I can also see um a disgruntled employee in it just like Shan would say so we shall see um okay so that was lizzo's issues let me see here oh oh um up of the Unicorn was watching her video uh and she was showing that well she didn't show the like but she was talking about it apparently stormy out there on Facebook liking posts about basically it was talking about either millimeters or Melody and she was hitting she hit love on it and I'm like girl you looking for support anywhere you can get it because it was a horrible one too it was one that was like not that one storm if you don't like one you gotta at least pick a good one I can't remember what it was but it's on ugly unicorns uh Channel why are they saying that her boyfriend was manipulated and she stole him through manipulation right he is a grown man Sunkist if he he he gave himself away to her he didn't get stolen yeah no that's a grown adult person he wanted to go hi Keisha how are you good to see you again I enjoyed you yesterday definitely enjoyed you yesterday yeah she was out there just she hit love on the dumbest sounding post and I wish I could remember but you'll see it because the title has it in there about stormy liking the post or something it was yeah it was about millimeters and melody or something it was dumb I can't remember what the topic was over like what it actually said it's like this is so dumb you'd be finding some weird heels to die on yep Sylvia up of the Unicorn Studio was very good yes it was I didn't I found her this week I think in my opinion stormy just wants attention I yes because the way I'll be seeing them those oh those those music videos pn2 raw says it all for me stormy just wants attention however she's gonna get it that's what she wants he's a grown not over baked smell over baked so I know I know and I'm just over here this is just a h i mean at this point I people change over some years I ain't saying never but at this point I don't expect anything else from her but but stupid stuff like that like obviously you wanted to be seen that you liked it you know obviously um or you you wouldn't have done it because we all see you know what you you know how you see stuff on Facebook so she wanted people to see that so it got seen girl whatever and live laugh love if you're still over here live laugh love wanted to talk about the video I did about how every time I do something usually when I in fact it's only so far when I've done something on stormy that I get somebody that's like oh so we're just out here criticizing black businesses I don't see y'all doing that to other businesses I'm like that's the dump okay let me stop I said it was a fair question at first but the more I thought about it I was starting to get upset I'm like we criticize what we know about so and then like a lot of comments were saying they were like no it's just any business idea deal with and my biggest point was I am going to criticize uh black business that is allegedly scamming black people because you that's your community you know you know how hard it is already and you talk about the stereotypes and yet you turn around and do that thing so yeah I'm gonna talk about it and I talk about other businesses too stormy isn't even on the path to start doing the inner work she's I know Ladon she she's not on the path I was trying to think years old on the path yes so true so true oh my goodness um Choice hold on let me see if I saw it let me see hold on Choice don't forget we're doing the thing we talked about [Laughter] because I already see I already see it so I was going to go ahead and uh say it but you gotta let me know when you're ready um hey Keisha I missed the live but watch some of the replays sending you virtual hugs our story is someone similar wishing you continue peace and we wish you the same Sylvia continued piece for you as well Tanya says stormy's like was about hating on millimeters and praising oh tisha's kids hair products which in my opinion are stomach's products Tanya I wholeheartedly agree with you that they are stormy's products and that's why I thought it was weird when um and I don't I I don't know if stormy told the lie to Anthony I don't know but I believe she's lying when she was like she didn't know Tisha was using her products I'm like that's just not possible I'm sorry it's not possible she knew it she knew it like that's just weird to say you didn't know like why are you saying that that's weird like the on the unnecessary lies be making me so mad like why are you wasting time on this bad lie so ridiculous right that part right we critique and speak on the wrong of any race that is egregious in their business dealings the heck right and like someone said we we black people first of all again like let's not let's not like I don't know why they play that game but you know we we um complain about anything it could be Chick-fil-A it could be a airline it's anything like anything we deal with we talk about make other people aware you know and critique it and everything else because you're talking about your experiences so yeah like I'm so I'll be so like just so you're okay with you you don't want me to critique this so you're saying please be quiet and allow someone to allegedly continue not to deliver on the product or service that they said they would get because they already got the money the money's in their hands like that's crazy easy stormy had to know Tisha was using her products they really think most fans are Done Right Sylvia like come on that's not like come on now I don't know why they well you know what I won't even try to figure out dumb I'm not gonna try to explain dumb how do you figure that out you just don't where did Tisha get the product to even do it so she knew she gave it to her to do it right like and then to have it on TV you y'all I don't know why they play with us like this but we all know the truth um also might be giving her elf ears so if you see her ears looking a little longer it's because okay I have a thing I usually do like a jewel on the forehead like a little it's like a stick on Tiara I guess not not really a tiara but it's a thing that I do it's just like my little uh Avatar oh yeah which I gotta put her up here um and then I usually make them little elves so if you see that that's that's that's what's going on um let's see here oh for better for worse if you remember you get this art if you want it just and I don't do a lot of portraits especially especially live so that's why I say feel better for worse oh when it's time to cheer and Champion a black business such as our girl Mel we do right how loud are we with that sun kiss exactly we are so loud when it comes to that that is so true I'm like you just don't see I guess your faith getting praised or you know whatever so you think it's a problem but yeah we we definitely do we are so loud with it all right let me see what else we got going on in here [Music] I'm saying because some of the some of the things that just so dumb you can just say about it something that you can say which is it's just a heavy sigh moment okay let's see here I did that one that one let's see you said hold on okay I'm holding Choice I'm holding all right let me see all right so now I'm going to my other one oh okay y'all this happened yesterday but rally is in North Carolina South Carolina rally the it was a woman right and she pulled over into a Food Lion parking lot and this guy pulls into the parking lot too gets out of his car goes to tug on her car door she pow-pows him he's unalived and she will not be charged because there's a thing called Castle something hold on let me see Castle I'ma find the phrase oh my gosh I gotta prove I'm not a robot I swear to God I'll never get in here now anytime I prove I'm not a robot I never make it I never met oh my oh my God just forget it Google it's called Castle something it's like a it's like a stand your ground type thing but it's called Castle or something it's like they consider your job I think your house and your car Your Castle right and so um you can uh basically they already saw the footage The Authority saw the footage and they're not even gonna file charges on the woman it seems like it was something to do with possible road rage and he came to open her doors if you know he just had every right to and they said her her pow pow was registered to her it was legal everything was in order in my opinion black people are the only group with a million excuses on why service Merchant customer service is bad and want Grace and don't try to make it right I won't go that far just because I don't want a group us that high like you know what I mean I don't want to generalize that bad I just want to because because I don't know how other ethnicities are holding each other accountable internally but I I so I'm just gonna say what's close to me is what I talk about but I don't want to give them all that sauce pen to Ross just in case because you know I don't know I don't want to generalize that bad on them I'm the same way I can't ever prove I'm not a robot right hey melanated energy Trinity you're a robot oh my gosh I'm done y'all I will be in the next 30 now see if it was free for on Friday I could play around and keep proving a lot of robot through like the 30 questions that's gonna ask me and make me click what's the stoplight and what's a bus but I can't do it if I'm trying to do this too like this is not the day it is it's so frustrating and then it has to ask me if I'm a robot all day today y'all now I come try to show y'all something now all of a sudden am I a robot okay no not be on here all day logging in and out of all kinds of stuff like whatever Google so you're gonna make me over you know what that's what they're gonna do they're gonna make me go over here and use Bean just to be sassy hold on let me see if Bingo asked me if I'm a robot because all I need is the answer I don't need the extra sass Google let me see Bing did not ask me if I was a robot just want to let y'all know I'm trying to see what's the name it's called oh unders it's the oh it's the castle doctrine I guess let me see yep it's okay it's called the castle doctrine I guess when defending oneself inside your home car or vehicle whatever yep y'all Bing doesn't think I'm a robot I got it right away I see how it's gonna be Google when times I'm in a crunch I can't do it Google because you're gonna sit up here I can't like it's one thing if I'm trying to access something personal like my um my Gmail but how you ask if I'm a robot just because I want to search something what does it matter it's so frustrating but that's okay Bean got me what's the other one big and what else I would go back to the Internet Explorer y'all keep messing with me oh my gosh just get on my nerves okay yeah but did anybody hear about this woman yet if you didn't I promise it's gonna be coming at you fast in the next couple days that um and it looks like it was a white male I don't know what ethnicity the woman was yet because you know I had to know I need to know the whole story but it looks like it was a white male that tried to tug on her door and he quickly I mean it was the last lesson he learned I'm sorry but if a man is that aggressive to the point where you so mad at me about a road rage issue you follow me I mean the consequences follow you I'm sorry I don't know what to say because no I I don't know I mean I know I got to hear the whole story because it might be some weird stuff that happened I'll be like dang I regret saying that but right now face value you get what you get that's funny just for a search yes fancy Ross that's the one to meet at Joe Duck Duck Go duck that God don't never ask if I'm a robot and hey Demeter Joe I don't know if I got to say hi to you earlier so how are you doing foreign [Music] [Laughter] so I'm trying to work in Shades too y'all so I'm trying to do all the Shadows the most of the general Shadows then I'm gonna go back with the mid-tone well actually I kind of I was smart I painted the whole thing in the mid-tone I'm adding the Shadows then it's gonna be the Super Deep Shadows and then the darker darker outlines to sharpen some things and then I'm gonna try to go in with the highlights that's what I'm gonna try to do while that's bold she definitely wasn't fit for her life right right and they looked at the footage oh I mean I'm sure she had to give a statement okay Demeter Joe good okay I don't know if she had a uh had to give a statement but they said we saw the footage we saw it you basically you good that that means he was wrong wrong they they don't even wanna they don't even have any more questions because of the video footage oh you wrong wrong you um oh let me see if I got her whole okay make sure I got her whole shoulder the worst thing in the world is trying to get that last piece of detail after you finish the whole thing it does not work out that way you got to get it at the same time okay let me see what else was the stories we got here let me see all right [Music] oh did y'all listen to Haley Haley Bailey's new song or watch the video I love it it has that classic Chloe and Holly feel how they did when they were still together as a Duo I enjoyed it wow he had to do something for her to walk that day right right Sunkist that's what I'm saying that's what I'm saying I enjoyed that Hallie song I am like thank you Hallie for giving me the song that made me fall in love with y'all too so I am excited about the album at this point I want it I want the visuals I want the song what all of it I am just oh I'm ready ready I am so ready yep yep yep after round and found out I guess that's not nice but it is what it is GG that's where I'm at that's where I'm at Gigi found out yeah and you put them in it you put her in a defense mode you you could have just yelled out your car stayed in your car got your little temper out you know it's absolutely beautiful that visual Holly song Yes Sunkist it sure is I'm all in me too me too I'm so happy I can't wait I cannot wait oh hold on y'all let me see oh here we go okay I see it I see it I see it choice all right y'all Choice do you want me to do it towards the end or do you want me go ahead you think I should do it now because you know you you started this so I'm asking for your input so let me know in the in the chat or in Instagram what you think she went pop pop went home and went night night and not like I'm sorry I'm sorry he did not he could have just yelled out his window or really you keep going about your day period Cause you really don't ever know like oh sir you messed up I know his family gonna be like he's something something he was we don't know where how far was he gonna take it to be bold enough to get out of Europe to follow someone stop where they stop get out of your vehicle and then go pull on their car door are you crazy you lost your mind that's that Nina you have you lost your mind or uh what's the name Stanley from the office have you lost your mind I'll help you find it that's one of those moments you crazy the audacity that's the entitlement and that's what happens okay all right so I said we could do it now okay so we choice and I have started having these little hidden contests you can't we can't say what it is because then you know you just you just might do it because you already know so I didn't say anything I was just waiting to see if I saw somebody do it so I was waiting for somebody to say something about the tribe like in their when they wrote something like in there and if I'm not mistaken and y'all can double check me because you can scroll up but Sunkist was the first one to mention the tribe like the trendy tribe or just you know the word tribe and so that was our little secret giveaway phrase we were looking for today so some kids if you have a cash out if well y'all verify me and if you don't see if anybody else did it before Sunkist Sunkist can you put your cash out in your uh in the in the comments uh because you want a little secret contest and that's thanks to choice so that's why I was like I gotta wait for a choice to tell me uh what she wants to do I could have a sick sense of humor at times I know I know me too son kids uh Mr Trinity be telling me I'll be laughing at the most inappropriate times too I'm like it's a it's a coping mechanism sometimes today is not safe to do anything so you get what you get period pin two raws you ain't lying it is the truth it's every choice you know because then even if you try to make the choices to stay out of it sometimes you still get put in it so don't go looking to be in it you know let me go ahead and get logged into my stuff while I wait but some kids put your cash up in there please if you are still here let me see who's okay nice I'm in the right one already I'm in the right account so that's one step hey okay I see you I see you all right I'm gonna verify your icon before I hit send two hold on one second but yeah every now and again we have these last time I was a Sylvia did you win last time Sylvia won because she was like the first comment that came into the live um so she won last time let me see yes Sylvia it was Sylvia yep yep yep okay so now y'all be at sometimes I swear when you multitask it feel like you never did anything and you're doing it for the first time that's what it feels like right now as if I've never done it before okay so I go here nope that's not right okay here we go Lord help me today people check in just for blowing a horn yes and that fool has the audacity to get out of his car and go to her car right pin too rough I'm like see he don't know he well again he found out but it was the last thing he found out though so okay Sunkist Doc and Danny is the winner yay okay Sylvia I thought so all right now I'm trying to make sure I do your name correctly Sunkist let me all right let's see here and then I I'll ask your icon too to make sure I got it all the way right just in case okay we only got one there's and your hair is the same in here too so I I only have one option so that's good okay okay and anything else that I need to do and all you gotta do is let me know when you got it son kiss so I just know awesome thank you choice and got checked out yeah checked in and got checked out that is so true so so true y'all let me tell you too Troy's been out here working this weekend she gay what did you say choice if I add up both days it was like what 60 almost 70 000 families with uh getting school supplies and stuff because I know you said it wasn't District dependent or what or something like that congratulations yes um Troy's been out here working uh I'm over here just like they Choice show me how to be like you okay I'm going to the next I think I can move on to the next highlight or next tone because because yeah then I'll see where I can fill in more mid-tones or whatever I think we're getting there we're getting there okay y'all so we got the rally woman okay who's next let me see here and if you're just coming in if you have a topic you want to talk about throw it in the chat because sketchy Saturday is like freeform Friday where it's not a set thing that we have to talk about I just be looking at topics like okay well let's talk about this let me see did y'all see that crazy Jamie Fox post I had to go to his account to really make sure it came from him but he was saying what did he say he said basically something like if you think they won't come for you they kill Jesus hashtag fake friends and all that stuff did y'all see that crazy pose I'm like dang what is going on over there because I I thought his account almost honestly somebody else was posting from his account seriously because I'm just like why would you post that like that sound like something almost a teenager post but he kept replying to people in the comments and they were like is this really you he like it's me okay all righty then this is different this is different that's all I'll say um okay that was really it I just want to know if y'all saw that who else is on here [Music] it's a lot of people it's always a lot of stories with some unfortunately someone being unalived and I try to I try to not share all of those because it can be a lot after a while but I swear I scroll ten times and that's mostly what I be seeing let me see if y'all stayed in the team check my comments no praying for his safety okay yep pn2 Ross same bless your heart choice I know they appreciate it but you put a smile on their faces yeah you put yeah for real for real okay [Music] um okay keep it going keep it going did anything else happen in the loving match Huntsville streets that we haven't talked about I mean between all of Wanda's lives I I was watching other people to catch I was watching live laugh love to really honestly understand what she was doing on her lives I couldn't I could not do her um I'm trying to think of anything else happen oh here we go uh who was that it just posted that somebody just posted Porsche got beef with her husband Simon Lord stop it all right I'm gonna go to the next I'm going through all my little gossip accounts hey Bad Apple how are you doing you it didn't come through oh Sunkist I hope that was you I really hope I sent it to you it was only one profile let me see here do you is your profile with your hair looking like that but you're posed in a different way like same hairstyle though I don't feel sorry for her or Simon I don't either I still I'm sorry okay how long they get married I'm like this is fake I don't even believe in this relationship it's a joke she's mad because Simon didn't tell her that her wigs live back okay Bad Apple thank you she came clear with that one up real fast I hope not it's way too much toxic drama these streets I had to unsubscribe to several got you with a white shirt let me go back and see because that's good because then it might just be taking a little bit longer uh Sunkist so I'm hoping yeah hoping yeah it's a white shirt and you got some like a pink necklace on you might have to go see if you to accept it and check your email too I don't know if you get a confirmation through email too or not I'm Legit about to wear my very first frontal how does the wig slide back like that oh Bad Apple if you're not doing the um adhesive which you know if you want to save your edges you shouldn't do it can slide back now they made this thing called a wig grip and it's like got a um a velvety texture and now that thing is it's nothing to do with adhesive that thing I've seen can really help it stay in place where they say you can get hot so I I bought one I had to buy one but I didn't use it yet because it's summertime but yeah them things can slide back okay okay okay maybe it's just taking a while because at least thank goodness that is you and you were the only one that popped up so maybe it's just taking a while I hope I hope I hope I'll keep oops I'll keep checking back with you to see um okay oh let me go to let's see what else we got going on here okay it says the actor you know who you y'all remember kale Mitchell from uh Keenan and kale it says he begs the judge to file a motion prohibiting his ex-wife from taking him back to court uh let me see how many they say how many times she's done it oh gosh they've been they've been separated since 2005. y'all they share two children lyric and Allure she she they said for years um his ex claims that he owes her millions of dollars accused him of being a Debbie father he said he was forced to start over and made an active effort to get his life in Affairs in order and rebuilding relationships and his career oh my gosh the judge previously ruled 425 000 that Taisha received from the sale of the couple's former home covered any support owed by the Entertainer but this did not satisfy her so she since found multiple emotions for contempt against her ex she also drags his current wife into battle and has requested 1.9 million dollars from kale he's pleading with the court that they don't have to go back and forth y'all jeez I got the glueless unit from Amazon yeah it can slide Bad Apple just be prepared it can slide well unless unless it has Combs some wigs some glueless wigs don't have combs if you have combs you ain't got nothing to worry about that thing ain't going nowhere Bad Apple why don't they just go ahead and divorce already they are divorced are you talking about why are you talking about silver you talking about Simon and Portia are you talking about the kale thing because kale is the voice he got he has a new wife but yeah kale kale is not with you she is truly his ex-wife it's about child support it seems but the judge a previous judge already said that the 400 and some thousand would uh would cover his debt now will he continue continually owes I don't know but it looks like she's saying that that wasn't enough to cover the past and I mean we've seen he ain't working like that so I'm like if you based off his income that was probably a good chunk please Trend and refund it and resend it please um I don't know how to refund it choice because I sent it I think the person would have to send it back to me let me check my stuff oh it says pending I think she has to accept it from somewhere but I can't refund it well let me see if I can take it back let me see okay hold on I'll cancel payment here it goes it does say cancel payment dark and Danny before I cancel it if there's anywhere else you get notifications to check and see if you got it because I can't it will let me cancel and I'll try to do in the next 60 seconds after I see if you reply because if it's not you but if your name starts with an n on here I think it's you it's the it's the right picture from what she said he used her and treated her bad okay but financially how much more is he liable I wonder that's what I'm wondering but I mean you know it's possible anytime people get uh famous the whoever they with as they getting famous they usually don't seem to treat them that well so I don't put it like I told you I don't put it past celebrities now kale I thought you said they were separated sorry I misunderstood oh sorry Sylvia I I did read the word separated then they never changed it to divorce from what I was reading from so I could see that yeah but the only reason I know he has to be actually divorced is because he has a new wife that that's the only reason but yeah I see how I read that I see I see okay I'm giving about 30 more seconds uh Sunkist and then if you don't if you still don't see it I'm hitting cancel just to make sure okay I'm gonna cancel it and let me let me check YouTube to make sure I don't see okay yeah I don't see you replying so I'ma cancel it let's see what happens okay let's see let's see okay so it's back to me so I'll give it time we'll try it again if his income goes up her child support goes up now Ladon I can see that but for some reason it seems like she they're trying well the way they're phrasing it you know how people phrase stuff that she wasn't satisfied with the back payment part of it now he definitely should still be paying for the two children because they're currently still under 18 from the ages that I think I saw so now that that he better still be doing right with he better definitely be paying that in which maybe he not because if he already had back child support that they had to sell a house for him to pay yeah you know that could be uh possible he's not he's not taking care of it like he should [Music] let me see oh okay did y'all see that Jocelyn had to surrender but I think she's back out but she did have to surrender to get rebooked on two new charges and they said she had to be taken into custody to get booked because later they didn't want her lawyer to say that well she never got formally booked on these charges so those charges shouldn't be added to all her other stuff I think Greg Abbott is messing around with the AC again it's still 104 degrees and it feels like my windows open all right Bad Apple see I'm not in in Texas right now thank goodness oh my gosh why can't you say right now I haven't I haven't I've had to move around a lot for my jobs and stuff but I'm so sorry I'm so sorry I don't know if we busted a hundred I know we got to 99 where I'm at now but I don't think we busted a hundred good for her oh my goodness okay oh oh and sunk it since it did let me pull it back I do want to ask you do you know how to accept a payment because sometimes you don't automatically get it from new accounts you have to manually say I accept this payment from somebody so you might want to check uh do you know how to look at that on cash app that's that might be one of the things because it wouldn't have shown as a new balance for you you would have had to go and accept it from me since it definitely let me pull it back that's probably what it was girl it's pre-health here in DFW I'm sorry y'all my Texas girls Choice Bad Apple P2 Ross I'm sorry y'all the back pay will not change but generally a portion of what the non-custodial parent is paying is a portion of what they pay but if he wanted to clear out the back pay they can just pay that part well Keith that's not saying the Judgment cleared his back pay he he got the Judgment that the back pay was cleared when they sold that house and she got 400 and something k so the thing she's taking him back to court for based off how they write the article is that she just didn't like that this it was settled for 400 and something case she thinks it should have been like one point something million oh you're in DeSoto wow Bad Apple I know DeSoto that's crazy Desoto Duncanville Cedar Hill um like you said Oak Cliff uh I know that area oh you're in DeSoto too fancy Ross that's crazy that's crazy boy it's a small world small world wow wow wow um okay do y'all have kids that go to this to anywhere in DeSoto because I'm trying to remember who their Rivals were like the biggest ones I can't remember if it was it was Duncanville okay Duncanville yeah yeah yeah that's crazy you should know because you worked for child support don't be calling her out of choice oh let me see here [Music] okay here's the okay y'all have y'all know how AI is doing right okay oh they show on the order what the back pay is at least they do here in Tennessee I I did not pull the order I'm looking at people you know how they post little they're they're posting information about it but not the document so I didn't pull the document Keisha because yeah the order would say so off of his word that was the order but I ain't pulled the order yours goes to Desoto battle Carter Cowboys not choice you have you might have to catch me up on where that comes from because I don't even know I my brain isn't going there for Carter Cowboys is that the nickname for another area or is that literally a school and that's the that's a thing my daughter goes to a charter school okay okay just call me out shorts I know 92 Grand where'd you graduate from Bad Apple I love Carter Cowboy okay okay how you doing good to have you in here okay y'all um oh the AI thing Lil Wayne says he doesn't think an AI could duplicate his talent I'm sad to say the way AI studies people and they be making music oh off the style of somebody else and basically mimics their voice I'ma tell you Lil Wayne now now in person you're gonna be fine but this AI can mimic really well because it has so much of a catalog to go off of I've seen it mimic a few of them now it's still working on it it's not perfect but it's learning fast so all I'm saying is I think artists should learn how to embrace AI because AI is going to be used for convenience no matter what so they got to learn how to go ahead and use it to their advantage before someone uses it on them oh wow look at y'all yeah oh Carter okay okay Carter Got You Bad Apple okay gotcha gotcha okay let me see here [Music] y'all Busta Rhymes said he had to lose weight after he was struggling to breathe during love making y'all that's how he realized he needed to lose weight that's what he said he said he felt like he was having an asthma attack whoa that's a wake-up call oh and for y'all that just came in did you hear Hallie Bailey's um uh new song for y'all that just came in I think it's a I think it sounds so great like I said it sounds like the Chloe and Halle song that I fell in love with so if you haven't heard it it's called angels and you should if you did like that sound auto tune is AI the newer version of it is live laugh love that's true that's true that's half the battle now and then they can pick up on his lyrics like AI does not play around it can learn he lost a hundred pounds wow Damita Joe damn dang the David W Carter oh I know Carter now I think my little brother had to go there I think he went there why does that sound familiar did you go to Carter okay oh why is Carter now now Carter's starting to sound real familiar Busta Rhymes is a vegan that AI is wild they already replacing a songwriters are you a songwriter Bad Apple um that's one of the reasons for the actor strike two they're asking actors to sign releases for their voice and likeness for future use and yes I don't know how an actor can use it to their advantage because they're not the ones controlling it but yes that is so true um they're doing AI is already writing what children's books it's writing um I'm gonna tell y'all how I'm using it as a YouTuber because I think YouTubers should go ahead and jump on it I really do um you should like if you are trying to get your thoughts organized you can um like say you know help me to write an outline on this you know what I'm saying now I'm not saying like uh write a thing word for word for me but you now you can't ask it to do that I'm just saying you can't it is out there but the way I have personally used it is to help me write an outline when I was thinking of how to uh what channel name I wanted to use it didn't give me good ones it's still learning but I just want you to know I did try I was like you know give me 20 Channel names that have to deal with this topic and it wasn't hidden but it I'm just saying that's the way you can prompt it and see what you get just so I'm and the reason I'm saying this is because in your everyday life there are ways you can use it just don't give it personal information because you all know about that but like for instance say you wanted to help you write in a certain resume Style I just all I'm saying is learn how to use it in a way that you're not giving away personal information but it can make your life easier some people have it right now um nutrition plans um you know stuff like that but yeah no sign it but back to what Bad Apple was saying I don't see how it can benefit actors unfortunately that is an area I definitely understand why they're on the strike for it I really do know haven't heard Hallie Bailey I or haven't heard Haley I'm gonna check it out if you like the Chloe and Halle Duo sound together Shan you won't be disappointed if that wasn't your sound if you you may not it may not be for you I will you know Fair um review hashtag Jesus no in my opinion I would never sign up with Maurice pn2 Ross I know I know but oh my gosh what if what if they just wait them out and the actors still want to go back to work I I think of the worst because it comes down to the dollar um because live laugh love look up V tuber that's what you want you and that that's uh I know it's a form of AI but it's before all this other kind of AI but look up how to create a v tuber and there's uh I almost made a video about this too um but you you need a v tuber and there's different people that offer services to create you a YouTuber you know and if that's something you really like you don't have to go that far but I just want you to know like that's what they call them as a v tuber so you can at least be in that category so you can see where you want to head and cater to where you're trying to head so yes it's a v like virtual tuber V tuber yep nutrition plan training is AI available through an Apple software okay I'm personally using chat GPT for myself at this time and I only ask it General stuff I do not ask it I don't give it my personal stuff for instance when I covered Carly Russell I asked it to uh help me write uh in a format of profiling a person Tanya so stuff like that that's how I ask it because when you're trying to cover a lot of topics that's where I find it helpful um it's a lot of different administrative stuff that it can help you with what if you're trying to write a more professional email you know what I mean it can help you format it uh grammarly is a form of AI so there's different kinds of it you know but yeah you be careful with what information you give it but it can be very helpful lawyers are getting in big trouble for using it to write legal briefs I'm studying on how to use it to run my Amazon thank you for putting that in there bad apple yes because um can you first I'm gonna have to bring you up I need you to explain further how lawyers are getting in trouble for it like is it because they're using personal information or like they're not doing anything else outside of just using the AI like why are they getting in trouble for writing it because you know they're also creating an AI lawyer that's going to try small like traffic cases and stuff like that I want to have you heard about that but yeah like you um but yeah using this to run your Amazon that's all I'm saying there's ways that people that are it's it's especially with it being mostly a free service that's where you can um learn to use it and know nothing in life is free that's why I say please don't put anything personal or you know like that in there don't don't do that because nothing technically in life is free Facebook isn't free because we are the product you know what I mean so if you look at it that way don't give information you don't want it to have but you're already using things that are free because technically you're the product anything social media related it's because we are the product that's why it's free because you know what I mean so just um stay wary but if you're already on social media you've already been you know I don't I'm not trying to advocate for it what I'm saying is is going to keep evolving know your own limits and kind of know what it's all about and how far you want to be involved with it I'll just leave it there I don't trust anything about AI I know pn2 Ross but it's being used on you don't have to use it that's not what I'm saying I'm just saying that for those that are like I've been curious but I didn't want to touch it because ain't nobody really telling me anything practical about it but yeah don't touch it if you don't like it don't touch it I definitely understand where you're coming from because it's still in development they're getting caught up with plagiarism it writes a lot of the same stuff for multiple users yes and one of the things I tell it bad apple and it's still after a thousand times you still probably getting the same thing because I'll be like okay rephrase this statement rewrite this and I'll say give me 20 different ways in the same in the OR about this subject or you know what I mean because that is very true plagiarism is real um I've also even asked it sometimes to help me create a YouTube title I'll be like okay this is what I'll put in there I'll be like um say something about stormy right and I'll be like this person is not shifting on time but can you make it like a YouTube title then it'll suggest something I'm like okay well can you make it more funny and it'll suggest something like can you suggest more 10 more things that are funny along these like 10 more things similar to this title so that's the way like as a YouTuber or if you ever go into anything I don't know where you just want I don't know you can use it your everyday life or as a YouTuber or whatever that's just me personally how I've used it so far and on my art side too I've been like you know um suggest common things artists want to learn or something that way I know we're kind of to focus my video and stuff like that but yeah that's that's um I've seen okay plagiarism yeah and it tells you too it's something it will not do like it'll be like um it's still leery about gossip stuff it'll sometimes be like this this uh sounds like uh bullying or something and it'll be like we cannot suggest anything or or you know it has its limits for now you know um but yeah it's that's how it's out there though I have to update my cash app number but thank you so much okay Sunkist no problem no problem it'll be waiting on you there's no expiration date so just you let me know wow sounds like someone college students could get caught up using oh and pn2 Ross chat GPT is like the one that that has most commonly been said let me tell you now they already have ai to get around a lot of plagiarism for college student papers they it's it's that's I I think GPT is almost starting to be the baby one and they're already it's crazy out there people too Ross I'm just it's crazy out there I'm so excited y'all can't keep drawings I'm talking with my hands I'm sorry oh let me see oh I see you requested it hold on let me see if I can send it to you send it back to you hold on Sunkist I see you requested it okay let me see all right you ah now Sunkist before I hit paid because I see you requested it did you try to send a request for it let me make sure I should I gotta ask better questions to make sure because boy these Bots man if you sent the request I will then honor the request you sent for it that I could get around it that way too oh okay let's see what else so basically Lil Wayne should be slightly worried um and just learn how to embrace it I am so wondering about like you said bad apple songwriters um and I don't even know where to begin with actors and the writers because they said the writers the AI can learn the format that TV shows writers and movie writers write in and so if they need a quick change because the actor fell out because they got sick or injured they can just prompt the AI to be like write this like this character would say it you know what I mean yeah as an artist I see artists I feel like went through it first we were the first ones there was like no AI as far as art went because it's not creating new art it's taking an amalgamation of artists work that have been out there on the internet and creating a new image using other people's work it's not actually creating new art when people prompt it so that sucks believe me as an artist that sucks so yes everybody should be worried there isn't really probably an area that's safe on that one and that's that's for me why I'm like I have to learn how to use it to my advantage because it's not going to go away money rules everything AI can write literally anything you can write a whole novel or screenplay with it exactly exactly exactly exactly now let me tell you this um no I ain't gonna say it right now I'll wait till AI becomes more common than I'll say I'll wait because within not being like it's not a general broad term yet and I still feel like I'm like right now let me wait for it to become more common before I say that okay y'all Patti LaBelle has the best-selling food brand at Walmart you know she started her stuff for her I think to be what diabetic friendly because she's diabetic but yeah she has the best-selling brand at Walmart and she's she's um working on uh some new things I think some breakfast foods because her grandkids Inspire her to come out with some breakfast foods I hate that machines are taking over I know Sunkist it's to me I feel like this is the time how when um okay you know how they used to have uh the actual in-person operators that had to switchboards but then the whole answer machines and everything else took over that whole thing or like the lines just connected who it needed to connect to I feel like it's that big like that's it's going to change it that big or when uh computers took over typewriters like it's that big I feel like this is a whole nother generational shift technology is going down a semi-dark rabbit hole in my opinion there are so many stories I've seen where people are using technology and science for bad things right right right right right you said not those pies pants not those pies did you not like them I still haven't tasted them because I ain't gonna lie I I don't like going in Walmart I've been curious about the past but I don't like going to Walmart do you pin to Ross did you try a pie my mom was an operator for a long time that's crazy or a long time ago Gigi that's crazy you're the first person that's told me that like that I've met in person online or anything that's so I think that's that's so cool because do you know how quick reflexes you have to be to be a switchboard operator respect much respect I remember working at the bank in my early 20s and them talking about how the tellers were going to be replaced with machines and it is actually happening in my lifetime wow wow wow wow wow I didn't like it okay you didn't like the Patty pie to meet a joke the pies are not good okay y'all okay you know I trust y'all y'all be pretty reasonable Walmart be low-key hiding or low shelving her pies and Foods I picked them up and put them on top of them one person at a time the t-1000s from the Terminator are gonna be among us pretty soon those machines from The Matrix two people better get ready honestly I think versions of them are like because if you think look at everything in levels Bad Apple I understand where you're coming from I understand you coming from and I'll be like I do be like dang y'all okay in my lifetime can we not get that far in technology please I agree Sharon she's 93 now wow wow wow yeah she was quick she was quick on her and her mental for sure and literally her arms and everything had oh my gosh I can't even believe it the mental sharpness that they had to take girl I remember when those pies first came out I searched all over Dallas for one of the nasty wasted all kinds of kids Pizza Ross golly [Music] oh my gosh that's funny pn2 Ross I'm so sorry the pie doesn't taste like my granny's pies I'm a picky eater okay Shan and you know the only one I wanted I said I just want to try a sweet potato pie because especially now Shane I know you're not from Texas but I'm telling you what sweet potato pie and I know it's not just a Texas thing but my passion for a good sweet potato pie I feel like it's unmatched and that's all I wanted to try I'm not I'm not as curious now my granny didn't make sweet potato pies like that got you fancy I love her pies I'll be working at Walmart when I shop only for black businesses I'm not a racist however I don't play about my silly people so kids that's okay black people technically cannot be racist they can only discriminate and they can be what's the other one Prejudice they can't be racist because there's no system to back black people being racist so it's okay you're never gonna be racist are we scared I tried the peach cobbler ones no things dang GG I tried to sweet potato pie I hated it now okay Sunkist you're in the minority Sunkist which one did you try and you already said you liked it but yeah which pie did you try Sunkist if it was sweet potato one day somehow I don't know how because I don't like going to Walmart but I I'll I'll try to sweet potato one day I'm scared to try one of Patty's pies she's one of my heroes I feel like it might be like meeting her and finding out she's an a [Music] man Apple I actually understand where you coming from I didn't know she made peach cobbler however I won't be looking for it Dave into Ross it's done I agree everybody can't make a good sweet potato pie every house I go to is different and banana pudding I saw a picture of choices banana pudding and just like all her other food it looked delicious and then she said she likes the cookies more than bananas I know that's banana pudding is hidden I already know it is I already know it is the sweet potato I understand a lot and I woke up big wait what what happened Sunkist I still love Patty I know right the pies do not reflect Patty's overalls don't do it oh my gosh oh my gosh y'all that's now that's not the story I thought I was gonna get it popping I'm so glad I said something about that then because y'all are cracking me up oh my gosh you said wait okay you said wait okay okay okay um okay y'all here's one and honestly I'm not gonna lie I'll be kind of like laughing at his downfall so when I read this y'all I'm not reading it in a place of sympathy please understand that it says Diddy's 185 million dollar investment to create the largest black owned cannabis company falls through after failed agreement pay them artists they money and maybe it'll succeed there that's all I can say I don't know I'm sorry for you I guess I love it when Patty come out her shoe right did she do that at um not this last Essence Festival but the one before that wasn't she an Essence Festival I think she came on her shoes then right everyone can't make banana pudding either but I love Patty sticking to singing yeah yeah yeah mother yes so true so so true now I do want someone to help the black sector of the Cannabis business I heard you know it's a huge um what is it I don't know what I was gonna say it has a lot of capital over there like a lot a lot so I do want somebody to do it but I I don't care that Diddy's didn't didn't work out I don't care um I and just the fact that he owns it is I don't care that that makes it black owned like because Diddy don't be to me for black people in my opinion so I don't care did he catching all the ills right between that what was it the tequila whatever that drink he got the Ciroc vodka whatever it is between that this I can't stand them in my opinion he's wicked I know same to me to Joe same that's Patty's trademark taking them shoes off right yes I don't care I don't I do not care he lost that money good only thing I wish is he didn't if that that money somehow made his way to the people that deserved it let me see this is what he said y'all let me stop it it says my mission has always been to create opportunities for black entrepreneurs in Industries where we've traditionally been denied access and this acquisition provides the immediate scale and impact needed to create a more Equitable future in cannabis boy bye not you not you you might be quoting a good stat but he ain't gonna help nobody I oh you said you oh the sweet potato when I woke up afterwards I woke up bigger is what I was trying to say gotcha gotcha got you Sunkist Shaunie O'Neal whatever her last name is important industry her and her son unless she sold out after she got saved and Sanctified and married [Laughter] yeah I don't know what Shawnee I sought out her since Basketball Wives so I don't know what she's like but is she investing in it too is that oh yeah she did right she um she did invest in cannabis right with her son I do remember that I remember that being too Ross I'm invested in a few cannabis companies I couldn't find any emerging black owned ones though Got You Bad Apple the last right to be to Joe sorry for the errors on my typing but i'm talk typing oh you good pn2 Ross I'm gonna put it together I'm gonna put it together okay I'm gonna look for a couple more stories and I'll I'm gonna drop the link so we can talk that way I can try to actually finish this while y'all are still on the uh on the line with me let me see oh this was said okay y'all I'm sorry this is Debbie Downer one um a dad a dad drowned saving his two kids or his three kids from drowning I'm sorry they they got into the river and it says they immediately became distressed and basically he saved them but he couldn't keep his balance and um when the authorities came they yeah I I hope they found him I think they found him but unfortunately he didn't make it with the kids and I know those kids are the weight that that's gonna have on those kids Minds for getting in that water in the first place yep yep Diddy can go with his dirty money that he lost take that not take that tank that's a kiss oh my gosh that AI though they don't made Whitney Houston cover Aretha Franklin Send Me an Angel now Bad Apple is that a Lord have mercy like although that's wrong it was great or like all of it was wrong and you didn't enjoy it at all I know I know I know I know I'm sorry y'all I just think about that that like I just oh I told you I ain't gonna tell you everything I see but that one that one got me got me because he saved the kids um I don't know if anybody ever watched Euphoria I never watched it uh I mean I I was half interested but I'm like these are really this is a really young crowd and I'm like I don't know if I'm there anymore to watch shows with the with the people that are portraying kids of a high school age I'm not sure I don't know if I'm there anymore so but if y'all watch euphoria one of the actors he is no longer here it sounded like an original it's beautiful okay Bad Apple I thought that's where you were coming from with it right beautiful but just don't sit right with you prayers for those kids right Keisha yeah looks like that should have been mine hold on what was I talking about Sunkist what was I talking about when you said that should have been mine that's how bad it is I'll just be skipping around out I forgot OMG so sad he's the second black father to drown while trying to save his children in the last few years my condolences to his family yes Damita Joe Euphoria is a great show okay so DaVita Joe do you know who played you remember do you know the actor that played that the one of the drug dealers he was the uh the white kid he he he's no longer here anymore I look look up the young lady that was missing in Atlanta and I'm not gonna say it Gigi what you talking about hold on hold on you know I gotta use Bing because it's gonna ask me if I'm a robot if I don't hold on let me find Bean here we go okay is it [Music] um you know you know what's so sad it oh no is it the one is it the woman with the kids and and I'll just say a burned car Gigi is that the one my oh okay okay that oh dang Sunkist I got you I got you I got you I'm praying for Armani Robinson's kids and I'm not even religious hold on let me see who is that hold on who is that uh hold on is that the same lady that I just let me open this first to see because that might be this y'all might be talking about the same lady let me see what her name is oh it is the same lady okay Bad Apple okay yes oh my gosh Euphoria was interesting I like the actor that passed away it was a wild okay Sylvia yeah I heard it's wild and you're saying it's it's interesting and uh who all said they watched it and they camera boost that they watched it it's one of those like I'll probably watch it when it's long gone and not even ever going to be another season made she's gone and her husband did it that's what it's it's looking like they found her last night and arrested her husband that's Heartbreaker about the father Yes Sylvia yep that's her okay and her mother this is her right fourth child fourth child okay Damita Joe you said Euphoria too okay okay yep it is on those watch eventually list uh well I want I say I've been interested enough and curious enough that it could be one of those things one day um I'd be I don't know I don't know but y'all the fact that y'all are watching it too says it's probably a pretty good show um I'm looking more at Imani story real fast oh I can't stand these dudes all four children are safe oh my gosh I'm I'm catching up right now um I watched the first season of euphoria but the teen with adults turned me off is good though yeah yeah yeah yeah Bad Apple that's that's one of my hesitations you called out in one of my hesitations bad apple you don't have to be religious to be honestly sincere there are many deaths in the churches that have dried oh not dry brittle prayers and you're right Sunkist and you are correct I've I've seen better and more sincere to me praying and honestly being um genuine with people here on YouTube then a lot of times I would see in the church and I'm not saying that's all of them I'm not I'm not it's the show-offy ones they usually make me side on them you know what I mean but yes some kids not the dry and brittle though I like that that's so true she was only 30 because she yeah that one's gonna that one's gonna be out there for a bit I think I because I I remember seeing that picture run across a few times on my timeline dang I'm so sorry oh my gosh y'all Okay so yesterday I got my first bot okay I got my first bot it was crazy I've edited it out but it was crazy for the people that were there when it happened live because it happened live so I'm gonna have to do like chit chat does put my banner up and verify it's really you and all that greatness because they were copying people's names from the chat and then that's why I had immediately opened it or let them up and it wasn't them and I didn't have no banner up and boy boy I would try to never do it again spiritual and religious hang two different yes I like I and people used to some kids and bad apple and y'all the media all y'all do y'all remember when people used to make fun of people that said they were spiritual and not religious I'm like I know what they mean it's like I I I honestly am looking for the people that are genuine and good people not someone that just has memorized something or you know what I mean just there to condemn me for something like I I like to me when you say you're spiritual and not religious I'm more like okay okay all right I can take that I can take that because we can you know I feel like we can reasonably talk about things and you know you can even like have a good uh like let's examine this can we get into these details and let's just see what do you think about this well what do you think about this and he did it in front of the little ones oh my oh my gosh that's what I'm saying these oh dudes like him not all dudes dudes like him are pure trash put them under the jail if they even should still be here period you are so welcome Sunkist oh choice no go take care of yourself choice you already know I told you before it ever even got to this day I said now you know you're here when you can be here but you better always take care of your health first B just take care of yourself choice please what copying people's neck yeah yeah okay yeah Damita Joe Sylvia I'll tell you what they did so first they would pick people's names out the chat Unfortunately they targeted live laugh love's name so that's who they copy so you know you can enter any name when you go up for stream yard so they put in live laugh love's name I didn't even think to check cause it's never happened to me you know I'm over here just whatever and so I let I let that person up that was not live laugh love and then they posted a pornographic picture and played a sound that had the n-word in it and then I kicked them out put my Beyonce gift up to cover up the image so I could get them out of there and then um two more started coming up and one of them before I could because they kept just were coming up so you know you can put you can type in the private chat when you come up so they start typing some racist stuff in there it was a whole thing I was like y'all would not deter me we gonna talk about Keisha's story and keep it moving but they tried they tried to bring me down I was like not today y'all don't y'all picked the wrong one but yeah it happened though Bad Apple her baby is only a month old I am more spiritual now than religious Gigi they're looking for other suspects and I mean they should they should do their due diligence but if it was him he's trash and I and y'all said they took him into custody too I our ancestors were spiritual right to me to Joe good point Damita Joe Satan knows God better than we do because he was once in heaven for thousands of years but does his action show it good questions Sunkist exactly if every other word out your mouth is religious it turns me off and I was raised in the church you can speak spirituality religion without beating someone over the head with the Bible [Music] um yeah yeah get well soon choice I hope you are taking care of yourself I don't want to make sure she didn't try to message me okay no okay yeah choice I Choice knows like I um you do take care of yourself first always always Gigi they have a toddler two I think three years old she had both with her at the time he brought them home with him oh my gosh oh GG okay Keisha thank you thank you thank you it was him he told the police that she dropped them off at his place her burnt car was found not far from his home whoa that Ninja oh my gosh so if the bot posted up is it really a bot or well they use okay so the creeps and trolls used Bots to help them do things faster Tanya that's what it is uh so for instance because a bot can be created to do any kind of action that's why people when they go try to get tickets for popular concerts or like when the new Jordans drop and all that stuff they'll create Bots to pick up the uh links and stuff and do the actions faster so it's a real person that started it but they created Bots to do the action fast so pick up the link fast keep requesting and popping up fast all that stuff so yeah but it starts with a real person the bot is almost like a command prompt to to the to the computer or you know it's yeah more complicated than that but that's that's the best way I can explain it it's a quick well I tell y'all the truth they don't want me to say nothing do they they kick me out okay hold on let me share my stuff again Jesus okay our spiritual message should be well seasoned not too much of any spice yeah facts back off when a person is good you're very welcome Taya did you see that Simone biles is back competing I thought I saw that a little bit ago I didn't actually but is are they just showing actual images of her competing now because I remember she announced she was coming back I do remember that let me see hold on you know I gotta stay on being and then I tried to open a new tab with Bing and it was like are you a robot I swear I was like see y'all trying to make me curse you're trying to make me curse okay I see you 14 hours ago and one day ago they started saying she was actually set to return to competitive gymnastics after her two-year absence absence sorry yes I'll be watching comes on a at peacock okay okay yeah she is something else she is awesome I I like her too I really really do okay y'all so I am gonna drop the link and basically I'm gonna be asking y'all what y'all thinking what else did y'all want to talk about so I can pick this dog on digital pen back up and see if I can get y'all somewhat of an image before we end because once it is I'm I know I'm not coming back to this piece it's gonna be on to a new piece for next time so I was trying to find it on TV so I could DVR it oh my goodness but yeah I had to trim out I had I was sitting there waiting for the video the live to process on YouTube last night so I could trim out the craziness and choices like no I didn't see it I don't think it made it up to us I was like choice if you go back I promise you see it you do see it and unfortunately Choice solid so I got it trimmed out she needed that I'm so proud of her for taking time for self-care yes yes yes yes yes yes that's exactly what she needed to do and I love to see it I love that she honored herself and took care of herself I I do like that's how you do it because I mean here's the thing she has already done the thing so anything she does on top of that is just even you know greater but it it will not take away from the success she already has so yes take care of yourself I love the examples she set and you know that's hard to set those kinds of examples too because people just be they make it they make it hard to just make a good decision let me see let's see if I have anything else okay I think I'm good there good yeah oh Kenny having a whole uh birthday party okay Shan in the chat let me know if this is you that popped up just now oh you probably can't do you might can't do both hold on okay I'm just gonna put my banner up and hopefully it's you hold on y'all I can't control they if it is a bot and they put up the stupid audio but I can't at least make sure y'all don't get exposed to craziness okay oh that was not gonna cover it okay there we go all right so Shan I just need to hear your voice oh Lord okay hi it's me yeah hello Chris you so much so kids let me know some kids is that you yeah can you hear me yes I can hear you okay oh geez okay girls fresh right now how are you doing good so glad to have you up here hey okay I came in late I was just like oh my God I forgot it was Saturday I lost a day somewhere it happens it happens okay y'all so uh let's start with the uh Amani story first if y'all know anything about that and then you can kind of free for all it after that but if you know of any details I would love to hear y'all's um anything I have no clue you know I've been in the dark so I don't really know much enough where's your power did you get it are you still on generator I still have my I have my power back now it came back Saturday night but I have been trying to get organized because you know when you use the generator you unplug everything and you plug it you plug plugging it into the generator so I had to put everything back so it's like okay okay oh okay y'all well um uh before Sunkist before I ask you the same question once y'all get up here if you can just let everybody um you know take turns and have a say because right now I'm one I'm gonna try to get back to this art piece um but I'm about to see if this is pn2 Ross it's the right picture hold on one second okay pn2 Ross is that you it's me okay you were here yesterday weren't you yeah yeah it was crazy okay let me okay y'all uh well some kids did you know about the at the the young lady in Atlanta no I'm not familiar with that story okay okay that's okay I'm gonna ask pn2 Ross and then if if you're not familiar either pn2 Ross y'all can go into the next whatever topic you wanted to talk about um we'll just go back up Shan again sunkiss and then pin to Ross but Peter Ross did you know anything about the young lady in Atlanta which is a young lady in Atlanta the Amani that uh her car was found burned she has the four children no oh Lord okay okay we got okay I don't even want to know they get bigger I know it's gonna get bigger it's gonna it's gonna grow um okay well Shan you start we're gonna rotate Shan Sunkissed into Ross and y'all go ahead and start and I'm gonna try to get back to this to Lauren Hill's uh portrait oh okay I think I think now that you mentioned okay go ahead I think I do now that you've mention it I think I am familiar with it if you can Sunkist if you can get closer to your mic when you do come back on you sound just lower than the other two ladies okay I'll try to get a little closer okay all right Shan well what I was about to say is that is so sad because I at first I thought you were talking about a story that I did see where a mother of six or five I think it was five was unalive the day before the divorce hearing or something like that here so and then I had saw another one where um I believe what well you know they're still on the look for that one lady who is missing who the boyfriend was found in her car so I'm like oh yeah going on here like our like what the what the what like you got all these women missing these significant others doing stuff to them it's like all like over the last week it's been several because every time I look up it's like have you heard or somebody's sending me a DM or something about a story and I'm like wow right is this a new one or is this the same young lady it is so sad like just what's wrong with divorcing or leaving someone and just going on about your business like if y'all not together no more just separate it's all right okay one second okay it's still your turn I just I need to check to see if this is g r GG hold on one second um I gotta find my banner I mean my uh what's the name again Lord okay GG is that you yes ma'am it's me okay you're you'll be after p and two Ross and we can hear you just fine hey GG okay hey okay why is this wondering like what for me it's sad but then I'm thinking like what can be done as a deterrent to keep doing these things to these women like yeah who who's I'm feeling like just hilarious who's protecting us at this point like right like how do we get protection like what what is our deterrent for this kind of behavior towards us like what what is really what's really going on like it's sad I just I don't I'm like 102 worlds I don't even want to know the details because we also had this would be like here in my area in the last month I know for sure of three maybe four different stories about a significant other one guy he underlived the he tried to unlock the mom it he didn't do it but then he did the daughter because he thought he had unlocked the mom so it's really sad and it's like come on people like wake up it's okay to move on there is somebody else out there that will put up with you God right it is somebody else that will deal with you like yes and I'm sorry I well you know what since you already said you don't it was another story I saw and like I said I'm trying not to tell y'all every last one I see because that's how bad it is that there's so many that I you know what I mean it's so many to talk about but it's another I'll just say it's another one of those cases where they can't just move on right just move on they didn't they can't move on and they do that instead and it's like jeez not only can you not move on but in most instances it's your fault that this relationship didn't work out doing things to make the relationship fail keep doing the right thing and right we'll still be together that's it that's it right right right right and that you know what that's what get me it's the accountability the lack of accountability for me is that you are the one you're the Catalyst as to why the relationship is not working and then when this person decides okay you know what I dropped my bags here and I'm not budging these are my standards and I'm gonna need you to go that way and because this person has standards and they enforce them you get upset and say no I want to do this to you because you're not taking my frailties on my weak broken ego you won't deal with what I am bringing to you and you want or you won't continue to you know to take what it is that I'm bringing to you so therefore I want to unalive you what kind of mess is that it's like the lap the the narcissism um I it it blows my mind you're the reason why this is not working and yet you want to do this to me I can't I'm just so over it right now I'm so over it and this is not like an isolated event this goes right constantly all the time it's to the point to where and this is so sad to say but it's almost to the point where we're becoming desensitized because it's like this is all the time now we're still like up in arms because the day we just kind of like flip through it and just go oh then something is wrong with us right right it's almost like it's to the point to where this is so new it's of the norm now and it's it's sickening it is because people are now because we as women are learning our words we're not only learning it but we're knowing what it really means and we're saying okay this is what our this is what self-worth really means because a lot of us didn't learn from our mothers I know with me I didn't I had to learn As I Grew and so now I go oh this is self-worth so now I'm gonna put it in 3D I'm gonna put it in the stereo on steroids I'm going to add taxes and I'm going to enforce it and so when I'm if I meet a Dusty or a baby back bone as I like to call them and you will get upset and say this is what I'm going to do to you because you won't accept it so it's like not only am I I'm looking at the women over there that could happen to me you know that is scary it is terrifying oh my goodness you're right you're right and what oh my gosh let me read uh Sylvia and Damita Joe said about the same thing Damita Joe says it's like Martel will move on after melee divorced him and it's his fault that she divorced him yeah and Sylvia says just like Martel there are women still willing to deal with him and they have to know some of what he did to his ex-wife but he refuses to leave Mel alone yeah yep it I just wish I could five minutes with him in the bathroom because I know he can't fight ain't that the truth we'll just put that up to uh I'm impossibly wonderful and a couple others like we know you ain't gonna fight when you got step two we already knew you only like to fight women yeah that's why you got Ariana fight he came he can't give me five minutes I'll come out and I still have them I hide my heels or my stilettos I still have them on I won't have hair still in the place let me come back oh yeah my last song was still the department would still be aligned to my nose yeah my bell girl yeah he out he out yeah let's go in the car we're gonna go we're gonna go get lit because I promise you he cannot he is someone like that he will he will have to do something it was treacherous yeah because he can't do it to you he he no he is a coward that's why he hide behind women right not only are those two little suits are his mask as a narcissist but he also used women as a mask yes he does he and he used women to fight and you have so many different and man I got a calm down in the girl makes me mad shots let me come back I know he's trying to find them for my men women he definitely do yeah and I'm not going to call them women the only woman he had in his classes is male man you right inside of them they're all females and I hate to use that word but I only use those words when that word when it applies they're females and he used them as His attack dog and that's why he sits back in those two little suits with no socks on Keisha says my biggest fear has been my ex-husband doing something to me so for a long time I stayed in hiding and isolated myself and my kids from everywhere I don't trust them from what you told us Keisha you being vigilant and you do you you stay on your toes Keisha seriously I pray I pray for your safety because yeah I'm so PR you know what uh I'm okay I'm about to get emotional you know what you she's very strong and it takes a lot to do that and I'll say this much and I don't say it to on too many to I've been in hiding or what's in my narcissistic relatives would have asked and no contact for going on five years because narcissism people are when somebody get cut off in the traffic or get cut when somebody you know say something bad or what people say they're not you're not you don't know what it's like to deal with a narcissist until doing narcissistic abuse until you live with it and so when people water that word down it makes me cringe I got you this young lady this young lady that is in hiding especially when kids are involved and all that I I I I can I wish I could hug her I hug her from here because it takes a very Vigilant strong person people think oh they're hiding their cowards or they must be no it takes a strong person like her to be able to walk away to be able to do it because the hardest part is to walk away from a nurses because they that's why male will always be that chick I don't care what nobody say that's cheese that chick because to walk away from a narcissist and to do it the way that she's doing it to do a backups and them high heels let me tell you something that's a bad chick and to do it and I'm gonna tell you something when she's online I'm gonna be very careful as to what I say just in case he's listening to do it online when she's smiling that's why I always Champion her yeah because when she smiles you don't know how many tears she's dropping behind their smile right it takes years to get to that and so my thing is this whoever this young lady is that just made their comment yeah you don't know it takes years to be able to get to be able to be able to say that much and it takes years to get to get past that and if you only knew what narcissistic abuse due to you see all the acronyms that are behind your name oh my goodness so she whoever that just said that she needs to be champion because it takes a lot to get in so I I am in hiding right now and I won't speak on a whole lot but I'm in hiding right now and when you have flying monkeys that are helping them to be able to try to to take you out it takes a lot yeah it takes a lot and I want to speak on a whole lot because my left side is starting to go numb but I'm gonna take a lot and he needs to be celebrated yeah and Keisha's the one that told her story yesterday Sunkist that's the one that said it she told her story yesterday oh that's awesome you know what I I I peeked in and heard it but I got triggered so I had to understand but I couldn't because I I was fighting my depression yesterday and I couldn't it triggered me and I'm so sorry I couldn't hear her story but no we and I tried to put warnings up on her originally get that I definitely get that and and hey succeeding yeah yeah yeah she she's awesome she's a very strong person yes I applaud her yeah but the the women we were just talking about we can go back to her but it's the women that are going through that what you were saying if we uh we who yeah we have to fight so much all day every day [Music] we have to go through so much and then to just to think all because of their egos if there is their egos we I can't compete with your eat just your ego alone I can't compete with that because it's a patriotical society I can't I can't compete with that because it's always going to be is going to always outshine us their egos will always outshine us at the end of the day thank you thank you yeah keep yourself calm I don't I don't want it to be that like that for you keep yourself calm thank you for sharing uh-oh I think pn2 Ross dropped down I'm gonna see if she comes back up but GG if you want to go ahead and go you are you're more than welcome I'm gonna go man um I'm older I'm a baby boomer and my generation has failed this generation that's behind me as far as my children and and that kind of we fail um we felt miserably okay and I tell my friends this a lot we failed because we've raised a bunch of people that think it's okay to do this to others okay and it's not somewhere along the way you know um we lost a sense of community we lost a sense of family whether we were family or not we were raised we were raised different us baby boomers you know the neighbor could tell us something and we did it and all of a sudden now I can't even say nothing to happen these kids nowadays I just look at them and walk away because they rude they're disrespectful and they think they're are entitled I tell my son this girl does not belong to you she is sharing herself with you if she decides she doesn't want to share herself with you anymore you accept that and bring your butt back home okay but she's not yours she doesn't belong to you got it she's sharing her life with you that's her choice same thing with my daughter it cuts you off Gigi it said same thing with my daughter but we failed we have failed and I don't know how we're gonna get it back I I don't know if we are going to get it back I'm praying that we get it back but right now we have failed and you see the result of our failure this lady has lost three this is her fourth child that she lost that's what she said she was on a nude she was crying before they even announced all of it she was crying that in the past 10 years she has she she lost three children in 10 years and this girl was her fourth wow so four four kids in 10 years and I don't know how old she is I don't know you know I don't I don't know how old the mother was but it's a sense of entitlement Martel thinks Melody belongs to him that's that's not your property he thinks those children belong to him they're individuals they're human being they're your children yes but just because they're yours you don't get to I don't want to say this wrong but they're still individuals and human beings and they have their own minds and yes they're your children they'll always be your children but nobody belong that Melody doesn't belong to Martel and I have a I'm not gonna say it out loud I've thought it and I've prayed about it a lot of times but I think she's covered okay pow pow I think so too plus like uh homeboy would walked up to the car that's all I'm gonna say about that roll up here if you want to up around and find out all right that's why he only does it in front of other people they're holding back that fool ain't crazy he's he's stupid but he ain't crazy so you know that whole scene at the birthday party it was a lot more to that than what they showed us all right you know GG oh yeah those cousins oh boyfriend walked out of there with his tail between his legs because they was gonna give him a new one when Carson's husband rolled up on him what'd he do punk out immediately yeah I heard about that immediately he walked by her to cause a scene to get a moment and those two grown men rolled up on that pump and what did he do punk out I'm like the last Lady I wish I was there for about five minutes five minutes child please he's a punk [Music] and and and he'll roll up and he he thought he was rolling up on that girl at that party last week and her husband stepped to him and they said Marcel ran over there just as quick to try to help [Music] what did you mean right don't ever roll up on my wife again I think it was more today I think it was more than that scene with um him and Lou too because that it was cut the way they showed it how it was cut I was like oh Lou stepped off into somebody and when they came back they were shaking hands and all of that stuff so everybody thought Lou didn't do nothing somebody put me on there they said no yeah definitely more to that scene oh it was more than it was so much more to that story and if you notice Lou hadn't been back on that set again yeah until the the the until when I haven't seen Lou again when did Lou come back you're right hold on let me think oh the S pose when we saw him next I think okay the Expo is when we saw him next time he beat Carlos The Peasant beat um trying to trying to make uh fluff uh Martel martial I'm gonna call him Martel Marcel up make him make a little hotel Holiday Inn but but no he's stupid but he ain't crazy yeah yeah that whole birthday thing with him screaming in her face like that all right that triggered me um and I stopped watching for a very long time because I was ready to ride the Huntsville I'm in ATL I don't live that far let's do this homie come on scream at me like you screamed at her I promise you you might walk over here you won't limp back somebody else said that too hold on let me see if I can find it I just okay you might walk over here you're gonna limp back but what we have to do as women as black women as people my dad used to say something like a woman can teach a man what she thinks a man is but it takes a man to raise a man and respect yes I did not have um I left I left that narcissistic food the first time okay like I said I don't play ain't got time for the nonsense I'm not having it I'm gone all right I left him when I was six months pregnant see ya all right you're welcome to see your child but I'm not with this nonsense I'm not about to live my life like this [Music] feel good for you yeah thank you God I had a brother who stepped in I had my father who had his own issues don't get me wrong he wasn't the perfect father but he stepped in the man across the street stepped in I have friends right now good friends very good friends I call them my baby daddy brother but he stepped in so my son is he's crazy as all Outdoors but all right he's 35 he works every day he don't have no wife no children I keep asking them to give me some grandkids he's like Mama you sure you better be he got that with the ones that she have and I'm like can I get just one he's like nope I said okay you know you better hurry up boy I'm getting old but for for that very reason you know he gave me trouble as a teenager yeah we didn't live in the best neighborhood okay but he didn't turn out like he could have and I thank God for that and I thank God for the people that I chose to have around my son right right one one second Gigi um succeeding uh I had to put my banner up and verify whoever comes up because Lord it happened um and succeeding you're after GG so Gigi's the one speaking right now but I'm gonna be gone because I gotta finish cooking my dinner for tomorrow I did my mom I did my mama's thing today I cooked my Sunday dinner on Saturday night okay okay you went old school on us okay well I'm marinated seasoned and almost ready okay okay I'm ready for a nap all right all right but you take kids uh trending sweetie I love you I listen to you all the time thank you I love your little giggle it makes me giggle okay thank you so y'all take care thank you for letting me talk I hope I didn't talk too much because you know I was talking about that today how I talk too much and I hope I sound okay but we gotta do better without with our boys with our men we gotta teach our little young men that this girl does not belong to you yep she does she's not yours y'all are y'all are mutually there together to share each other if she doesn't want to hear you anymore there's somebody else out here that will right but she doesn't belong to you you know it's it's terrible it's horrible and I feel sorry for that lady that lost her fourth child in 10 years and this this girl's baby is a month old the baby will never know his mother the three-year-old will soon forget her um you know so it it's just really sad but I see y'all later let me go stir my greens okay Goku have a good night okay I'm bringing up succeeding Sunkist Lord between succeeding and sharing Lord hold on okay succeed is that you hey hey okay okay um so see and I saw you talking about you shy when you was in Black Titanic I said no she didn't say that I was representing trendy's you heard me oh my God yes thing froze I'm trying to bring it back up but okay go ahead what time is dinner GG we'll be over GD dropped down could you hear us GG we'll be over you stir them greens real good and slow I'm making some tonight too so I'm real nice and slow [Laughter] but did you well you you came in I don't know how much you got to hear but you can kind of uh cover any topic you you want to talk about so yeah so I heard you all having real good conversation about um the generations and how things have changed you know this is a time where young women think it's cute they think that person is showing them love because they're being aggressive or being extra um with them you hear him say oh he's doing this because he loves me but that's how he starts right [Music] and you know and it's sad because if they don't get that love at home they're gonna look for that love somewhere yes you're right and that's why um it is important for us to even when it's not our children to love on all kids I have a lot of um I I call them my church angels I have a list and it's in my phone because there's so many it's like 20 something and so I would have to write down who I gave gifts to because see it's a lot more than 20 something kids at church it's like a hundred and something a couple of hundred so you can't give all but I had these 20 core and and they and that's what they want like I helped them wash Cars one day and they said to me thank you so much for staying out here with us and they just appreciate it and these are teenagers they appreciated something just that small me staying out there with them to wash cars best yeah and it does it is the actions for them you know right it really is I know I told this story on another Channel how one of them he's over like our animal Ministry so we have like animals like uh we have horses and stuff so one day I said I was gonna help him I volunteered we were gonna have like a couple of thousand people for this particular Hallelujah party and we're gonna have like bungee jumping and we have a haunted house and everything so I decided I would help him out because I know his mom I didn't know they were gonna actually put me to work like building a fence you know with chasing a chicken a chicken that got out and but I did it you know I did it just to kind of you know be there for him and even when we went downtown to the parade excuse me it was only three of us that were like adults that went with them you know with exception of the person driving you know the vehicle that we were in but it was and they're very mature because they're used to doing stuff like that but they still want and they still desire to have parents around them that's still important to them no matter how old they get you know oh look at Sam is the one man is the one does she didn't have power do we know Shannon she has power she's she's getting back to normal she says she has actual power okay because we've been worried about you Shan we've been wanting we've been wanting a caravan down there and bring you some food do a whole had ribs and everything and but I do I think it's so important for us to Mentor kids to Mentor young people because sometimes we're the only ones that they'll see and we can't look for the next person wait what happened to me to Joe she said what are you talking about succeeding probably probably about the fact that succeeding was checking somebody in in the live that's probably what you I was like what the meeting Joe talking about okay okay Queen Damita and that's the name Queen d itch you don't want to piggyback off of what you just said hey Queen um it's so important that you know that um who was that I forget who that was um was it huh what was it it was it she in earlier which one was it when she was saying about her son she got off to go cook which one was it that was GGG what's it gg gg got off the door okay when she was saying about her her son how even though she his dad wasn't there wasn't around she made sure that he had male figures in his life even though she had to you know kind of like go throughout her family and her community you know it's it's cliche but it Bears it takes a village it doesn't have to be I I'm so I'm a big proponent on saying how I don't my blood relatives I'll stay in the main people say your summer says that's not my family those are my relatives relatives by default family is are who is by acts of kindness love about their actions that's who your family is doesn't have to be about DNA and so even though it takes a village it who kids are all I don't care it can be a small animal it can be a child kids are always going to warm up to you and love on you according to it all depends on how you treat them if you treat them good and you're sincere they're going to warm up to you and I always say whenever someone says well you know when they I've had you know different ones come and say what do you think about him well you think he's a keeper because I'm always you know I'm a bit I love love so I'm always oh you know but here's the thing I'll say you know what I'm never going to tell you not to be with someone I'm never going to be that chick unless he's harming you or your kids so I'm gonna always say okay let's talk about it but here's the thing you and your children are a unit you're as yours one so one I always say the barometer is by how you how your kid warms up to you if you want to get to know a person watch them around an animal and or a child so your child however your child operate to Mom that person not just the first time if they're nice with your kid and your kid gets along with them do it again yeah oh they got along do it again oh it worked up do it again now do it again do it again and they keep on showing up and it keeps working out right you gotta keep true and so however you that child responds to you then that that is you you I'm telling you Ten Years Later 20 years later that child will never forget you oh they never forget because my sister I raised my sister my mom passed when she was 11. and so my sister her friends would come over and they they didn't have just one or two friends it was like four or five of them and they would spend the night and they still to this day when they see her they talk about their memories and I would be the one I guess I was the only one you know those parents they were emptying me if y'all know what I mean because it would be winter it's still outside I'm going to take them to the movies and for some reason I was the only one that could go pick them up yeah but they still remember that those are memories and I would do brunches so I would invite and I would do these meaningful brunches so I invited one of my daughter's friends over it was her birthday and my introduce wasn't anyone I had known for a long time but her mom had done me a favor I had a couple of early morning meetings so she let me drop her off which was nice so I invited her over and I put together a candlelight dinner for three of them oh I pulled out my crystal I had sparkling cider I had the crystal coaster I went to the bakery I had the tree with all the desserts I had lasagna they had you know bread they had salad and before we got inside I said soche I hope that you like um KFC and her face was like oh KFC I said yeah and then as soon as I opened the door I had it where the I had the candles lit so when they walked in they were like wow oh and I could hear I didn't stay in a room with them so that they could kind of take that in and I remember I could hear him because you know you listen to the conversation and I didn't hear him saying no one would believe us if we told them wow but that's an experience you know yes that is and she and and there was something that you should put there Keisha put a comment and Demeter Joe she said her nickname is Queen yeah her nickname is Queen sugar the middle John nickname Queen sugar the real queen sugar okay and Damita Joe you said you're a retired educator that's probably why I like you since my mom was my teacher you know it's it's funny that she said that because I was sitting here thinking um when she was saying about the kids you know remembering you and all that because I was thinking when it comes to school teachers we all remember who our favorite teacher was right why because of how that teacher showed us um individual attention how they were patient with us how they loved on us how they they listened to us for whatever reason I still can remember my favorite teacher and I'm a whole half of a hundred so you know what you know we still can remember that some go to like a couple of them just happened to go to my church and I met and when I said and she looked at the last name and she's like wow she said that was my favorite teacher she said I had her in high school she um I got an A in her English class I took her honors class and this guy he reached out to me on Facebook and he told me that my mom taught him how to be the man he is and he's a teacher today and he um she would have conversations with the girls about their hygiene about how they should be treated you know that that type of thing and then she would have conversations I guess with the young men about how they need it kind of the same things that you all have been saying how they needed to treat the young women and and Damita Queen sugar she has that look you could tell well I could tell what kind of educator she was she has that look where she didn't play um that's Stern but serious and people used to say they my mom was their favorite teacher and honestly as a person a child in high school I didn't know why because you know as a teenage girl you don't always think that way of your mom yeah yeah and she would take them to plays downtown Chicago because she wanted them to experience something new and if they didn't have enough money she would do like you know teachers do she would pay for them she took them to see The King and I with Yul Brynner she took them to see The Wiz with Mabel more Melba Moore I mean she's taken them to see Dream Girls I mean she's taking them to see Othello which Jones because I would with my class because I didn't want to go with her and you know but she took her class wow wow and so they do they want to going back to what Keisha said paraphrasing what I think I remembered she said they do they just want to be around and they love that discipline they may complain about it because I've had young men at church to ask me one young man asked me about having a conversation with a young lady like what should I say what should I one young man came to me when he needed a tux I made a phone call to someone who had donated some talks to us once and she donated the tux to him and the funny thing about it one young lady I said to her let did you get your prom dress she says no not yet I said well let me know because I always get excited about girls in proms let me know if you need me to take you three weeks before she lets me know you all and I my daughter like five two this girl was like Sixth Street I didn't think about shopping at a store being different and so I didn't know what to do so I took her a couple places everything hit her at the ankles she told me last minute she says you know what I'm gonna need you Auntie and so I took her and then I called someone I said do you know someone that sews because I'm thinking nothing is going to fit her you know based on her height so my friend said yeah you know my mom was a seamstress so I had the young lady to call her dad and the next day he met her that night for money to bring money we went and picked out the fabric and everything else was history I had someone to donate shoes for her I gave her mom the opportunity you all I didn't let her mom know everything we were gonna do I just called my Secret Angel circuit and one person did choose one person did accessories one person did the pedicure I mean everyone did something wow and the mom she did get her hair done but I waited to see if she was gonna do any of those things and when a young lady said she was going to wear her sister's shoes I'm like oh I just brought her the boxes with the shoes in it oh and she cried and when she went on Prom you all the same young man that I had helped to get the touch and the same young lady I was going to see had someone to do her makeup too and so they were there we met him at the house he says I didn't know you would be here told me you never know where I may be like you know the mother nature you know in the mother nature it's not nice to fool Mother Nature yeah other than that voice you never know where Miss T may be oh wow and um I want to read Sylvia P's comment and Sunkist if you want to jump in there you are more than welcome to just so you know um oh okay oh that's so sweet Sylvia she says my favorite teacher was Miss Denson she helped me with my stuttering she's where my love of reading came from she helped me find new words to express myself when I felt anxious she was the best that is so awesome yeah that is and I um favorite teacher where the stern was Shane I'm not surprised mine was too I was like the CERN teacher because I had this teacher I used to say every day let me know if you need me to take over the class just let me know and I was joking but one day she said please do oh this is English literature I said oh please do and she said yes please do she had a headache that day you all oh my gosh so I actually had to go in front of the class and I had to teach the chapter on the book and the class was very respectful they were you know addressing me with miss you know there he is my favorite were the stern teachers so Shane I went to all girl high school and I used to get in trouble because I don't like to wear my uniform to school Shan because it's not cute everyone knew what year you were based on your uniform like freshman sophomore head you know one color freshman had one color sophomores you know each class had their own colors so we didn't want the boys to know what class we were in and so I would get a detention and then that got old getting a detention so I got good with the dean of students y'all I wouldn't miss yonicelli's office and I said hi missiana Sally me and my best friend Lisa we still best friends today I just came to say hi now I'm talking to you and I need a pass to get to class because I just came to say how do you miss Yana Sally my detention my life changed y'all she changed my whole life I never had to go to detention again my detention turned from going up to the third floor and writing from the discipline book with the little pencils that the nuns would have us to write with my life changed to watering her flowers oh Santa oh don't even talk about the paddle see I went to Catholic grammar school too though we had them in our school I wasn't even in the Catholic school they just had corporal punishment or whatever they call it oh yeah it was a public school and I didn't need it thank goodness it never got used on me but it was it was always there oh you went to Catholic School I didn't it was a public school are you talking about us oh it's a public school you went to Public Schools they had paddles yeah they had paddles the principal to the teachers could use that thing what yes wow it was in Texas so that might be why but yes yes well hi Miss yada Sally we decided Lisa and I decided we didn't want to use our lunch money anymore so we got good with the ladies in the um lunch room so what we had to do was we had to put the trays in the rack to go in the dishwasher and then we could be late going to class because then we had to get a pass of course and we didn't have to pay for lunch and we could keep all the extra money oh that's nice I know Shannon did the same thing Shand didn't spend her lunch money on lunch that's nice oh let me see missing let me see Keisha at least one t-shirt every year knew my grandparents or a family member so I always had to be good oh my grandmother oh my mother my mother substituted for my kindergarten that's when she had first started teaching my kindergarten class my first I'm sorry not kindergarten first grade she knew the teacher but you know I never told my mom like if my teacher did something that maybe wasn't right I didn't tell my mom because my mom wrote these letters like you know how your mom may write a letter if something was going on my mother never addressed the teacher by name her letters always said to whom it may concern okay Tara will not be saying after school today to whom it may concern is that good or bad I'm thinking I I'm thinking there's a little bit of um separation there may concern Dear Mrs you know Jackson or Dear Mrs you know why not personalize it like just in case it's a different teacher I got you covered I would tell her the teacher teachers of course as a kid you're going to correct your mind her name is Jackson not you know what we gonna do yeah the letter still said to whom it may concern I'm grown you gonna tell me what's a right that's what she said you see Shan said child never spent any of my money the pans in the milk okay she did the I knew and I must be sisters y'all have to be it's like too many things but and our birthdays aren't even the same month because Shan you're January aren't you well that's kishan Choice that's January right yeah choice is a an aquarius yeah Keisha too I think he's yeah you had it in Florida too live laugh love corporal punishment I was waiting on you to come up here to tell you a piece about the black business critiques and stuff my black my um Florida sister you said back business what now oh your choice thank you Sunkist oh we talked about why I did a separate video about um I was I had time that dang online so I made a video about people asking why uh I hope they hope I feel good about critiquing a black business do do we do this with white businesses or other businesses so I made a whole video and basically it was like you're not gonna you can't tell me not to talk about who's scamming our own Community you know they they are the community and they scamming the people that look just like them so uh live laugh love was like she wanted to talk more about that I can't wait to hear it yeah so I was saying if she wanted to come up yeah because yeah I did you know Shannon Shane I'm a Taurus too oh it's not I mean oh yeah okay yeah I do remember you you said something about some someone was saying something along those yeah every time I do stormy that's usually the time I see the comments like oh like one comment was oh are we criticizing a black woman's business I'm like no we are no but no you you causing her bad business habits Like These people aren't getting a product at this point I don't even know if it should be called a business in my opinion yeah all they deserved was a link to the Better Business Bureau what'd you say Sunkist it's the gas lightning yes I cannot I know I'm like y'all y'all not gonna tell us we can't talk about it needs to tell us what she thinks too because you know she gonna have a person let me pull up Shane comment hold on hold on you say you were Taurus like me uh Chit Chat goes live in 25 minutes I'll be winding down and hopefully y'all y'all see how the picture is coming I'm trying I'm trying um yeah let me find share a comment though it is funny I can't I'm done people and I've tried I don't Jamie my husband he be telling me don't entertain the don't come off your chariot and I'm like most times I don't I don't right but I had an answer that day I couldn't help myself but you know what there's sometimes you'll be like you know what you gotta take it down the earrings yeah you're like you know what let me slide them down and let me take these these and the person that said that to you they they probably don't know this because I didn't put that there I'm anti-warmer I'm gonna let you all know I do not shop at Walmart I am not shopping at Walmart I am not giving Walmart any money because we subsidize insurance daycare and housing for their employees right they do everything they can not to uh not to pay not to get people in the pay range or the hours yeah so I'm not patronizing them and of course also make sure they don't unionize them correct unionized so oh this is going to be interesting with the um with the Bravo thing I can't wait okay sorry hold on I gotta um I'm not in Google I'll just I might hold on let me see if I can make it bigger all right so Shan said first chance said ciao people are slow slow I take no L's I complain and send stuff back to everyone the problem is you never get a product and just supposed to let her keep your money I stay getting free stuff for my criticisms I don't care what race the owners are doing exactly however black businesses often treat us worse as far as customer service and she clarified she said she meant in her area but hold on I got the result she said I should clear up I met my local black businesses you would be shocked at the customer service when I travel um support I will travel for what I like sometimes 30 minutes each way when I get bad service then let them know hey I like your products I come from a distance but the service is awful that's true that is true and most of the comments were like they're like we're not it's not a race thing but you're gonna talk about what you know about but yeah like obviously we criticize all kinds oh okay I got you live laugh love hold on one second here and they also can't take advantage of us because we are black and say that we're supposed to you know let them go with um I have I have your money so this I'm gonna tell you all I have someone I know she's Jamaican I patronized her business since I have driven from where I used to live when I first moved back to Chicago from to Chicago I drove 20 almost 30 miles to get to her business I patronized them since 1991. one time I went to her shop I didn't know that the bank had put a stop on my card because something was causing a make them it made them think that it was fraud okay okay so as long as I've known her and the fact that I know her from church and I've given her just because give a nice just because gift you would have thought she would have let me leave with that dinner she told me where I could go to a oh her system wasn't working she told me where I could go because at first we thought her system wasn't working she told me where I could go now I could tell you this I know two other business owners close to me there is no way neither of them would have let me leave their businesses without food because one every time I go he thinks he's supposed to let me try something new and the other one the first time I met him he gave me um or he donated food for 50 women for me for an event someone I knew was having you know but yet her with this one dinner you know and I didn't go back to the restaurant y'all I've only been back maybe it took me two years to go back and I've only been back twice and it's my I loved your chicken one one second succeed I gotta do my verification yes check baby check baby one two three check baby baby one two oh okay okay I see you live laugh love okay okay now let me see how to do them with Kim one two um [Music] wherever you can enable your mic I think you also can disable your camera I thought yeah good business doesn't have a color oh you disconnected both your mic and your camera you know how we have to work extra hard in the workplace that same level of Excellence should come when you're doing business with people blacks are doing business it's with other blacks that same level of Excellence don't expect uh oh I'll leave that trash there you know and you should be okay with it um yeah okay well at least I know it's her so I'm gonna take the banner down and then I just I'll add her when uh when she comes back with her mic because it if you can hear me live laugh love it disconnected your mic and your camera just so you know yeah um but yeah this is y'all this is a powerful painting thank you succeed and I'm struggling over here I love to see some vocal colors where you have the white thank you because I saw something like that um at you know painting and it had like blue red you know just can't you see that okay yeah all right okay live laugh love I'm about to bring you up I'm still gonna you don't have to enable your camera again but I'm gonna put the banner up just to make sure they didn't try to duplicate you sister [Music] I've been in the background I've been cleaning up why I've been listening so y'all been motivating me you sure can to me that your queen Queen cell phone yes I'm up on my cell phone yeah tamita Joe you just um press the link and then use the and then I'll take It'll ask you what name you want to enter in as yeah only only enable your mic uh you don't have to enable your camera because to me the Joe has been up before so she probably has her picture saved and everything um okay live laugh love what you got what you got yeah that's what you got for us you know I'm gonna give it no just kidding come on but I was gonna say um I think I left several comments um that day nothing new but it's just some type of trend I don't know if this is the new um black business plan or whatever you want to call it but it's just like because it's a black business there's are we supposed to be giving black businesses a pass right and not to allegedly scam I give you a pass for real Growing Pains but not to a life no but why should we have to I mean you still should give the same I'm so sorry you know I'm not going to be mad at that time but I think that yeah there's the expectation that we don't even have that expectation you're right because if I if I have an issue with your business and it's a legitimate issue right not nothing Petty Betty type uh situation and I bring it to your attention you as the business owner should you know take the burden you know correct the issue you know in make the customer whole now what I'm hearing is that it's the customer takes the burden you know the customer cannot complain we should give a pass because it's a black business yes and I don't understand that because like I said in the my comment if I want to donate to a black business without any expectations of receiving a good or a service I will do so and like you said it's charity then it's not right it's a donation oh Demetra I probably just used to seeing your face because you'll be all over these streets you like you and Linda Gamble don't talk about London oh no they'd be all over so that's probably why you've been on a panel before Jimmy to Cho but we want to hear from the educator we herself Queen sugar so Damita Joe if you don't get on up here because what is your name hey friend you got Sunkist Sunkist hey thank you hi hey hey Adrian this is what I want to ask okay is this supposed to be the show is supposed to be about black Excellence right yes this is you know on one of my books I wrote a quote quote and I always say that as humans because we're imperfect and we're heavily flawed and we should remain grounded but yet we need to elevate hourly so that we will remain stagnant okay always try to rise rise and try our best to find a way eat fun even if it's small find a way to elevate ourselves hourly right this is what I don't understand we as black people we are the only race and I hate to always use our race but my thing I'm big on accountability clear out our own backyard before we look in somebody else's try to clean theirs so we're going to stay in our community so we as black people are always always find ways to be low vibrational in every genre of life and the minute the second we say let's rise we go yes yes yes that's right black Excellence all right let's go for it and the minute we say black excellence and we go to reach reach up the minute we reach up we hit the loser switch and then when someone call us out on it we get mad and even if it's our own you critique our own self we stay in our own backyard we get angry with one another we're doing just that forget about howling about the white man because if the white man do it oh my goodness let the heavens fall if the white man do it but even more so when we do it if we stay in our own backyard we want we've been we get mad because if we don't support one another we don't support one another but the minute we support one another and then when we fail and we don't we don't rise to the occasion and we say we're getting we're supporting you but yet you're not offering your goods as you we expect you to right then you get mad right what are you really like what's wrong with our own money we're giving you the money we're supporting you as you bad you're saying black accent we're not saying it you're saying it right right a dedicated show saying black Excellence I didn't give you that title ma'am you are seeing your black accent we didn't ask for that lie you're giving us a lie we didn't ask for right you say black excellence and you're not living up to it and then the minute we say black Excellence you're lacking you get mad and you want to say how dare you are you kidding me they mean that too they mean it damn mean don't talk about it if you're not supporting it then give me my money back give me my money back then we call it even but that's fine I won't talk about it and then I'll have my money and you won't have my money yeah I don't say nothing and you won't have no money foreign [Laughter] if y'all I listen I'm I'm pulling at my listen my hair follicle is about to bleed I can't move forward don't fool your hair because this is what black this is what I'm saying standing out my own backyard y'all feel me when I say this these black people we say support black businesses okay here's my money my brother or my sister where is my product that's all right I have it okay most likely the prices are going to be higher because it is a smaller business and it's black you know all so I'm already paying more right yeah here's the thing we're good with that and then you're both excellent yeah I'm done check the mic I'm done I'm done I'm done but keep the The Language clean I kind of love it I kind of love it don't get no blood pressure up I'm done listen we black we black women y'all feel what I'm saying see I can't even I see I'm I'm stuttering it's the principle and it's like it's harder you're coming at me for pointing down for the next sister or brother doesn't get taken advantage of how do you think but not at the ones that they're actually doing this to thank you now it's your fault though spilling some water right it's not spilling some wine that's going to stay in the carpet and you want and you tell if you're going to go to all the wine companies until I tell all the wine companies off because this person's part of spilled the wine it's like when you're telling them off because this person spilled it well you could just tell this person right here you we're actually not to be not to be jumping around and and because we forewarned you that she was gonna Spill the Wine but you kept on doing it and you still and you stay in the white carpet but you want to go and tell off everybody that made the wine all across the country that was the dumbest thing you ever come to Tran and go out for her because it was stubborn what okay I'm back I left I'm back it's accountability yeah now when I lived in Florida I had great black business experiences well I shop online if I you know if I see a black business that offer a service first of all I have to do my research because number one if you have a no return policy I don't do businesses it's sad but you have to yeah it is so it's so sad it's really sad but I I beg you to do that it's to the point that we can't trust each other because of the stormy mess now they're mad at male because male representing they want to come to train and and all the other YouTube YouTube content creators because of the stormy but you get more stormy than you get males in our community and I am so proud of you for going and do your research but start to say you have to do your due diligence before you purchase it's sad but you better just have to say better and I do it for all businesses you know in in general because yeah I don't I don't play when it comes to that type of thing yeah yeah [Music] look I'm Gonna Come and I got you back girl they're gonna have me coming on that listening for me not listen girl that's just how that's my problem my sister my sister be like that's what you asking listen look that's just that's always been a part of me that's my problem I'm gonna pull up I mean I'm pulling up they better back off because when I know you're a good person yeah you're the rock you're the wrong one you better you you better get to Alabama you better get to Alabama stormy you this one right here back up off I mean let me back up off a train and get to Alabama okay that's what you that's what you want to do a girl I'm so mad I can't oh my it's the flying monkeys willful ignorance you know that's that's what it is Demeter Joe I know Queen sugar you shy so don't be shy we I have welcome you to the beach up come on too can you hear me monitoring me with your presence especially yeah because I started the same way I was so shy to come up on anybody's life thank you for choosing to come up on this live I got some kids to come up she told me she was shy kids thank you too yeah I know all Sunkist thank you I am deeply I honestly I am truly the most shy person ever now whatever I I can walk a room but I truly and I have very bad anxiety I said you would never know it but I have to channel it if you don't get up here to this panel it is sugar everything Sunkist said I agree with sounds like you said it again yes you sound like my aunt in New York I love your voice she's a teacher also I I I'm an Upstate you New York I see I know my New York accent she was in oh yeah he was in Huntington I live in Rochester yes you have a teacher she does that voice of excellence in these streets Damita Jones excellent [Laughter] Melody has a great worth work ethic yes then sell her products in a timely manner whatever time I order from her I get her products within a week now tell us what you've ordered Damita I've ordered everything except for the last two things that came out okay the lips this lip scrub and the um what is the face scrub yeah yes okay do us a commercial do a short infomercial so we know the best things to order when we place our next orders they're all good now the only thing I have never ordered her merch right okay yeah but her um good they're all good excellent yes I said when I finish using down my my products oh sorry y'all I've been over here just yeah I'm sorry I have um I have some of her merch what do you have a couple of shirts yeah yeah a no hats shirts Joe what uh because I feel like I just want to make sure you you finish your point too I want to make sure oh what is your experience been uh with um because I know you don't play y'all East Coast people oh y'all don't play when it comes to business with Melody stuff no not with her but I mean in general what is your experience been when you found black businesses to support uh some of the black businesses have been great yeah um overcharge you some of them especially restaurants some of the restaurants the workers are rude and um customer service is terrible right in my experience that's you're right because they want us to pay for bad customer service right that's what she is point was too that is what she was trying to say like and that's just horrible you want me to pay for bad customer service that's insane and give it to me they're not complaining right yeah don't say nothing yeah oh different y'all y'all know our East Coast Queen was speaking y'all okay I can't hear it yeah I want to hear what she was saying oh give me the joke what were you sending me to Joe I was just talking I'm gonna talk about Popeye's Chicken yes one year they were selling I think they were selling fish fry uh fried fish and I got the fish and when I got it home it was as thin as paper what what I had to take it back and then I I wrote to corporate and and yeah they sent me they sent me I sent you some coupons didn't they for free food like I don't like free food give me my money back yeah they're always gonna send you that free food yeah yeah so they can keep the money yeah yeah and it's okay if they're sending you something extra because I did contact the company about their um these quiche that they have and they're like a spinach quiche vegetable quiche and they're really good if you all have them like in your area and so this company they were so nice that they gave me like maybe I had a bad experience with one product they sent me extra items including the quiche and the quiche were like were thirteen dollars wow and they sent me I was able to give my neighbor four of them and I had four I mean they sent me like 10 coupons they were just super generous and I didn't expect them to do anything more than that one item do y'all see what GG said did you see where the workers at Popeyes beat up a customer because her order was wrong and they pulled her hair they were arrested oh my goodness no it was another one with four Cheddars customers got arrested for beating up uh Teenage waiter at chess Actually I don't even think he I think he was taking a long time because they were busy but I don't think it was anything I mean yeah and this is the workers we don't make it I just want fast food not a fast butt whooping just give me that food okay [Laughter] okay for the food don't beat me I haven't even paid yet at a Waffle's House Now Waffle House oh God you said they're fighting there oh yeah all the time I've only been a waffle house once we don't have them here succeeding you wouldn't I don't think you'd survive in a waffle house there's gonna be so many fights in now in these these uh fast food restaurants whatever happened to you okay look you can keep the smile you ain't even got to smile when you make my food don't even worry about it just don't know you don't even got to get my condiments bro I got it don't worry about it yeah because I'm afraid you're gonna swing on me then whatever do you need me to fix my phone just give me the apron too because at this point can I make the fries so you don't jump on me goodness yes I think yeah at that point I don't want them to make my food if it's an issue I just want my money back I definitely want you to make any food something is this okay how about this since she won't give me my money back because clearly I know that you're not gonna give me my money back and you don't want to give me the food um your money back I went to get my hair done I ordered five glazed cake munchkins when I say glaze cake I mean glazed cake I don't mean cake and I got into my friends to do my hair and I had five glazed munchkins I saved those Munchkins I got my day done when she she finished my hair I went back to that Dunkin Donuts and I said to them it was the principal I said to them I ordered glazed cake Munchkins and he said oh we don't have glaze cake I said well why didn't you tell me that when I was trying my order oh I could give you no I don't want a a donut right I want my money and they gave me my money and it had been two hours with no receipt because of course I don't have you know that they don't always give you a receipt Sometimes some of those Dunkin Donuts yeah no I want the glazed cake munchkins I want my money back and he gave me my money back yep I don't care if it's two dollars and 25 cents I want my money back if I'm not getting what I'm paying for correct it was dangerous baby crap these Popeyes I tell you they're going through and I noticed like some McDonald's they say they've changed their Windows to where they had cameras on them good I'm like oh my goodness so that um because people are attacking the workers trying to yeah go through the window on the workers yeah they are they I've seen some footage it's crazy okay y'all she turned out okay where I feel oh Jesus okay workers wow that is something where was this what state what's this in y'all Louisiana was it Florida saying it could have been yeah you know how to get down Florida is so ratchet they're so ratchet oh my God Georgia Georgia be right behind them and yeah on some old some whole other stuff oh hi Janie welcome what was Georgia welcome welcome to the chat um and Georgia okay wow okay y'all I'm over my time but I done found my groove I gotta finish this thing because I'm not gonna do it once we get off this live so y'all are still good to talk for now because I gotta finish this thank you thank you you're also scared something thank you thank you thank you but I have to tell you all I did taxes um for H R Block when I lived in Florida I the one thing I noticed when I got there was everyone that I knew except for those it was on it was just a few of us that were black in my department we were the only ones that I knew that did not have a second job everyone had a second job there I was like oh my gosh yeah yeah y'all work a lot there everyone had a second job and there were so many business owners in Florida but I had to teach them like okay you have to start putting this on your taxes so you could you know benefit from the you know the deductions a lot of people that during tax season they were you know I was very proud of that number of people that I met there that were um black business owners that's cool yeah I thought that was really exciting so Damita Joe yeah so but you say that you got some facial scrubs from from um from Melanie too yeah oh no no no no no how are you liking it no no you didn't get any paper scrubs yeah the lip scrub or the is it fake the last two things yeah last two things she pulled oh you didn't oh you didn't get any oh okay so so what exactly did you get I got the oh wait a minute hold on I I'm at my sister's house but I brought I brought one oh you brought your goods with you hold on welcome welcome Renita hey Renita I wish our leader was in here because I was gonna ask her because she needed she was writing me our little Jordan was writing me on patreon and she was telling me that how like do I ever you know think about colors and they have meanings and I do sometimes and I was going to ask her what color should I make the jewel that I'm gonna do on the middle of the forehead like my little trendy girl oh yeah because she was the one asking me about different colors yeah because they do because I know my like people I know from India when they're wearing them there it's a purpose that they have when they know yeah yeah so um I'm I don't she might she might not was late now okay y'all so hey Linda gamble the hardest working woman but I'll put the uh thing on to you able to okay there you go I'm adding you back up Demeter okay you want to know what I got yeah hold on yeah I saw you on camera both times which one can you remove the one you're not using you got two devices did you just show yourself on camera uh yeah but I'm not but I uh cut the camera off okay I'm scared to take one down I'm well you just gonna stay up here twice I got room oh I'm up there twice yeah I got you up here twice hold on let me show you look see it's two oh wow I don't know what it does that sometimes hey CeCe Monet how are you doing CeCe you you came at a good time oh yeah Linda if you're still in here Linda since Arlita I don't see Arleta tell me what color should I do her Jewel on her on I do like a little Jewel and then like um well y'all see how trendy got her thing my little icon that's that's how I do like my life yeah you're trendy yeah my green Trinity um do my confrontation you let me know your schedule because I'm Friday Saturday Sunday I'm usually good so Demeter Joe what did you get now what did you would you bring the sisters what I brought to my sisters was the I can't see vitamin boost faces now how was that right there oh good well but I might as well read the first thing because this is I got to go in order because it's one one two three steps um facial cleanser then after you wash your face with that you use the hydrating facial toner the spray you spray Michael get spray and then you put on lastly you put on the vitamin boost facial moisturizer and then the lip primer oh you'd be sitting pretty over there don't you that's right and then I have um I don't have it with me because I will bring all that with me over to my sister's house but I have the uh the body the oils all that I got that girl I love a good body scrub yeah do you remember the H2O store no okay now do you live close to Woodbury Common shopping mall this is a very important question you're asking me yes um Woodbury I live in the outlet mall in in Newburgh oh no no I live in Rochester New York okay I wonder how far that is from Woodbury Greg came from Chicago to Woodbury so you're closer I didn't even tell my family I was in town that's how trifling I was because I was just going to do shopping I was going it was I was going to the outlet mall wow yep I planned a family trip separately you're a shopper you are that's what you said you're a certified Shopper though too so yeah that's not like a shopping but I mean I I took it empty I took empty suitcase oh you weren't playing yeah yeah for my purchases [Laughter] she ain't playing yeah because you know you could find some I like that Woodbury shopping um that outlet mall they had like all kinds of everyone it was like brands that I thought I could afford until I got back to Chicago not not thought yes I was like oh my gosh you all have good prices in New York I'm an online Shopper I shop for all my things online so I have to go in stores because see I have to stimulate the economy and I and I'm serious I'm not just saying this to you all I live in a community where everything is close and I like it I like the the thriving you know I like to be able to drive five minutes and be close to everything and so I don't want that to ever change and even with the pandemic none of this only two businesses did I see one close actually during the pandemic and the one business was the lady who I knew she owned the black Boutique but she was very over the prices were very high and she closed and um Bed Bath and Beyond they just closed but all the other businesses are doing just fine well and so that's why I have to go to stores I have to go in Home Goods I have to go in and they'll show me like they're very nice you know they showed me like pillows with black faces on them they'll go in the back they're so nice and they'll get me things wait a minute do they have those black faces uh on pillows they have those in the back they had them hit well that's because she saw them and she knew she had another one oh okay so she ran and write the same question they know they know what they know what they have that they don't even have out yet you know what I mean okay and so she's like you have to see this so then she started looking but someone must have bought the ones that were out and then she went in back and she started going through boxes and she um and then one they couldn't find me a match in the in the general manager told me when she went to another store she was going to find me one oh well that's nice so they've stepped up their game but they still do personalized Services there and so yeah so I don't that's why I don't do as much online I just started shopping back at Amazon after the pandemic because their stuff was coming from China I'm just saying y'all so I'm just saying you know what I'm saying yeah and so I wasn't shopping during the pandemic or right before the pandemic I was not shopping on Amazon because I had a theory and then when I saw her truck from Target it had the big in China it had you know one of those containers it had the China they said you know like the name of the container I was like oh my gosh can't take it nowhere can't take her nowhere I can't go to Target I'm like oh Lord so yeah so I don't and everything on Amazon is not always cheaper right no that's true they have definitely because I bought my first item on Amazon in 2007 their prices have changed yes mm-hmm it used to be like it used to be as easy to sell on Amazon as it was on eBay they even changed that to where now they want you to do some monthly subscription yeah they've they've gotten you know so big mm-hmm yes you all but I'm definitely anti-walmart I hope y'all not shopping at Walmart either I'm not well you came in late we were talking about some Patty pies ain't gonna lie but I was like at Walmart but here's the thing I actually shopped there I worked there while I'm shopping so you know I um I stopped temporarily while I'm there I sacrificed you know when they when they lost [Music] um succeeding Patty's food line was Walmart's best-selling line apparently that's where she came up at I know I'm still here melanated energy I'm trying to finish up this portrait I like if I don't finish it while y'all still here it ain't getting done so that's why we still lie so I hope they gave her her money I hope they gave her her do and change I'm sure I'm sure yeah I know I know I had something to do with that because I mean I'll be I boy I'd be hurting them see 41 feet ain't in here either she's the one that suggested Lauryn Hill boy I'm trying to catch my people I gotta make sure y'all using black syrup now what's the what's the actual black syrup Michelle she's she's in Illinois she wrote a book called sweet expectations okay oh and she talks about how she um got her start and during the pandemic a lot of people started buying Michelle's products and she talked in that book about how she got in stores and it wasn't such her name is Michelle High Michelle what now her name is Michelle Hoskins Hoskins and where should we find her products it's it's in a regular grocery stores I haven't yeah I haven't seen anything in the Box okay I'm gonna tell you all the bottles are not big but her syrup is really it's not pure Maple it's um because I buy every flavor she has okay but during the pandemic they said people were going and looking for this particular syrup oh wow and I know a lady I watched her on the news and they talked about how she drives from this area in Oak Park Illinois all the way to the south side of Chicago she's teaching her daughters to shop black businesses so she goes to this particular spa and I've been to that spot and this lady is really good and she goes there she only goes online and she looks for black businesses where she buys and she opened her cabinet and it had like all these products this product is there I'm back go on I'm sorry go on [Laughter] she she just does a lot of extra you know she even goes to like to get her nails done so she does a lot of extra because in her community that's not what she's gonna find okay okay what do you all think about that I think that that's admirable and the way I do it is because I'm like Damita Joe I am an online Shopper so I keep my my stuff bookmarked for certain uh stuff when I see a black person's the one selling it and I I I'm an online customer for a lot of black businesses that's what I try to do yeah it's this lip gloss too if if I'm allergic to petroleum and um it's this lip gloss called Tower 28. um I go to you can get it off Amazon but it's cheaper a little bit cheaper probably like maybe six dollars cheaper at um my mind just went blank at um really I'm looking dead at it when you go get all your make really okay and I don't know it may be also I don't know for sure but I know I go and get it from Sephora um it's probably like 20 bucks um I think with taxes and all it's like some change under 20 bucks but listen I'm allergic to petroleum and my lips were so chapped and dried they were cracking and splitting I'm talking about Puffs I mean I don't mean that's TMI but it was like it was it was bad so I could barely talk I put that stuff on my lips literally by morning my lips were almost healed oh well I left her like that for like like a week or so maybe too close to two weeks because I could not find anything that wasn't petroleum-based power this young black Lake young young lady when I tell you everything is organic oh wow this I have two bumps right now literally I have chill bumps when I tell you I start I broke down and started crying because I thought it was like my lips were like it was like a black piece of leather on my lips and cracked in in the middle and it was bad and I I was embarrassed I was almost too ashamed to hold my head up because I couldn't find anything I was online trying to figure out how can I make something and all that people were saying oh do this do that nothing worked until I found this and I thought something I kept thinking here I go again I bought one tool but I was out of probably a little under 100 bucks buying all this madness anyway I found that literally by morning I could literally move my lips my lips were literally almost healed this young lady knocked it Beyond out of the park I sing it off the mountain tops so anybody just please support her first I didn't know that she was she was it was black owned and so I I got one to digging what's the name of it it's called it's called Tower t-o-w-e-r 28. okay yeah and when I saw that she was black on I went to Sephora I'm about to I'm literally I'm about to get choked up literally and this was like over a year ago yeah well over a year ago what I tell I went and I got a basket and I literally gave her probably my almost my savings because I'm telling you I I cleaned them out and you can get it in clear then there's a pink tint and then there's one in color I think a nude or something like that I I I said she will forever I don't care about and literally I don't even here's the thing she healed my lips so good I now can use petroleum-based lip gloss I literally wow and and here's the thing I can use it now I can use it for so long and then I have to back up I can use it for probably like three to six months and then I have to back off because I can tell my lips start to tingle a little bit that's how good she healed my lips that's what I said yeah she will forever I I don't care when somebody said when my 28 and I don't somebody can say no I was gonna say my lips just a little dry from the wind Oh I thought and she's young and this girl knocks it out the park this baby is it yeah so that I just had to put that in there if you listening you hear that okay perfect okay the product is there so now you hear that stormy tyler28 is there okay I'm back when Melody came out with her products I think stormy was listening because then she stopped talking about hair products so much and she started talking about her body plays yep I heard about that real fast um okay now I'm winding down because I found my point where I like that word gonna be thank you succeed I'm so glad you could be here tonight because you know how you be talking about your expressionist art and everything I know you know I'm really in the art yes so I'm glad you were here you have to do now is figure out how to transfer your art to a canvas transfer now you know you could you could have that you know you could you could order your art and now it's not that expensive because when I first started putting art on canvas transfers it used to be expensive but now you could do it very reasonable that would be perfect on a canvas transfer thank you thank you man you are so talented yeah that would be perfect thank you she sure is I was trying to find my way on YouTube to be able to share this like so I was like oh y'all can y'all want to hear me run my mouth and I can do my arm s we're supposed to have a party with one oh I'm yep I think you named it slipping Saturday I know I don't know who said that no I did I didn't I didn't you know what I can't I'm good at I do poetry and all that you know here's the thing it's funny because if you get like a uh well you know what do they used to call in the school like a um what do you call that uh you call that look my stuff look like hey man that's what you're trying to say stick figures yes yes yes the nun cursed at me in high school and my best friend if she was on here should tell you all she walked over she's like a hippie nun you know when nuns first stop wearing those habits and they started wearing like those like she was wearing those wide bell bottom pants and those big glasses and she walked over what are you doing and I said in my timid voice I'm trying a purge and she said no you're not you're just doing this UD please I didn't ever tell my mother that I waited until the last day of school oh no and she walked over and she said what are you doing and I said casually I'm just doing this I damn please she said okay you know she she might have did this in August and sure I remembered it all the way until May and I said it's so casual my friend she bucked her eyes out because she said she actually thought I had lost my mind please and she walked away she says oh okay and walked away oh my God words from each person y'all so we can I was trying to catch some well chitchat be on for so long I know I'll catch it but yeah last words from everybody and thank y'all for coming up here no I had a great time yeah you know we gonna be over there for to about um for three two three hours oh y'all need to watch the Bell Collective cause I got to talk about it I watched about collectives um this morning I watched it see I wanted I wanted her to talk to me about it in real time and I went on her page and was like did you watch and she's like no I'm not yet then I wanted to talk to her about NBC chin respond to that either she gave me a heart I'm like oh great a heart so she's not gonna tell me why everyone is happy that clear Bethany has now said that there is an issue no no Bethany from um you know my channel thank goodness it ain't me oh no you would have you would have right away responded Yes um like weird hours you know but I happen to be asleep this time I was up one um morning like 3 A.M doing like a wait Simone Simone biles oh I love Simone yeah did you really say that you're a Taurus was that just my imagination you and I cannot both be taurusan it is not room in the world are you a May Taurus I'm an April Shan now succeeding is your last thing so I can go around the room so I can face no last words except you all are amazing and I can't believe that sunkists don't ever tell anybody again in your life like my mother used to say as long as you say black that you shot uh okay that you shot okay I I just have to be around the right people yeah yeah and that's usually how I am I can work a room but I have to just I have to hide behind my the core of me is really really shy and my anxieties yeah see Shannon is a bay Taurus yeah see you can see those similarities in Shannon act y'all are peas in the pot that's why I was telling you if Sharon internet was good sun kissed you would have had another show up here I'm telling you and queen sugar Demeter Joe if I had a name for you it would actually be in addition to Queen sugar it would be cool breeds because you came up here like a cool breeze it's almost like you came up here like a a Tony Morrison see I'll say yeah I'll say you're local a Tony Morrison right here Joe Damita Jones yeah hurt I think oh my God [Music] you sound like it's a natural thing for you it you do like Cool Breeze oh yeah Tony Morrison was perfect that's a perfect description yes and that's and that's and that's that's a local favorite for them yeah yeah and then I can't even talk about live laughs because that's my Florida sister she came up here like a hurricane Florida hurricane live laugh love she came up here like a hurricane and trailing behind her is a crab boiling sausage the boiled eggs the corn did you get to say everything you wanted to say for your last go-round oh oh no I I think I said everything I just just thank you I'm very appreciative we're happy you came out thank you yes yeah yeah y'all helped me keep sketchy Saturdays going so thank you we came here wait to hear what you say next time right and um okay live laugh love what you got I really enjoyed everyone look my Southern baby boy song okay okay Phaedra laughs oh God she wasn't ready for that I love it I love it did you say did you get to say your last goodbye yeah well I I just want to say I had a great time I'm glad I came up and and actually this this made my day you know this kind of like frying my whole day I caught it and thank you so much again for the for the cash app that was so nice of you yeah thank you yeah it's great I had a great time with you ladies and I I have to you know storming I've heard from other content creators how y'all do little peekaboo shows throughout the you know the the um the channel that's funny girl get you get you get your um get your status up and get it out and uh stop blaming other folks so so before I'm sorry going I was gonna ask y'all do y'all think it's gonna be everyone on the show well no well I guess because yeah the LA they do these micro Seasons so I guess the next show is gonna be the whole cast well I just want to say to her you know she don't want don't come for Trend you don't want to come again the stormy stormy it's gonna be a storm it's gonna be a bathroom you don't want to come from Trends the storm's name is drizzle so it's go if you don't want to come for Trend it's all I got to say yeah some kids you you can win me on the piano don't you go windmill it for me I want y'all wasting y'all energy her name is drizzle I understand but she don't want to come for you that's right it's not too many people it's not too many people I win me or four seriously and I'm dead serious it ain't too many because I I save my energy for me because I normally put I used to put people ahead of me to a fault but it ain't too many people when I I can tap into I'm a bear because of coming from a lot of childhood trauma I I you know I I know how to read the room very well okay having high sensitivity and all that and there's too many people I wouldn't live for and when I can tap into it and be like that's okay she's she's genuine she's deeply genuine I usually I have to put the wrong people behind me I don't put people by well if I put a person behind me these days it's for a reason she don't want to come for friends that's all I got to say stormy you you I acquired your storms it's all I got to say that on that note I'm gonna leave it at that okay thank you so if we need you to do your picture like this so that you could have it for your because that's just a perfect picture for your house and we need you to go to easy canvas prints and put it on canvas I might this one came out the one in the Bible is the one like I said that was my first one when I tried to do yeah like I like that but yeah I did I I'm pleasantly surprised I'm telling y'all every time I do these we all surprised together on what it's gonna look like I need you to understand yeah I do I like it thank you I think you've done an excellent job uh training and thank you on the chat I see y'all too yeah Miss Renita Elliott I should try to DM Lauren Hill I might share okay ain't nothing to do but try all right Renita that sounds like an attorney I'm being represented oh no don't play with me because I'm being represented by attorney Renita D Elliott and Associates okay y'all I'ma I'ma shut it down from here but I'll see some of y'all in chit chat so I fall asleep okay yeah okay thanks for your folks yeah okay yes you too and by success thank you so much for coming up Cool Breeze yeah yeah thank y'all thank you thank you my Florida sister bye I'll play us on our music out it's our sketchy Saturday music today I'll play y'all out and by 16. bye y'all [Music] right here [Music] something to talk about cause everybody's talking [Music] each other [Music] that's right 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