foreign [Music] [Music] thank you [Music] foreign [Music] [Music] thank you [Music] [Music] thank you hey trendy's trendsetters and my trendy tribe please let me know if you can hear me oh my goodness I've checked both of my settings and it seems I'm not on mute so we shall see okay you can hear me okay awesome good good all right so let me say hi I didn't get to uh greet y'all properly last time first of all Ladon shared her story yesterday evening so appreciative thank you again Ladon um it was like a healing night you know so yeah that was really good so if you have been curious about ladon's Story please go check that out because she shared her story and it was beautiful um okay so thank you again to my trendy tribe members I have two new members lady queen and Gloria chop uh thank y'all and thank you to those that just you come in you hit the like button thank you I appreciate that you stay around and uh listen you know us run our mouths so thank you so much but hey Karma Girl hey Linda gamble lovely Linda hey pn2 Ross how are you hey 41 fit my nickname Queen hey Ruthie Lewis let me see I'm gonna say it again Watch look that's how bad my yep I did I say hey Karma Girl hey succeeding good evening trading chat is Daddy Saturday for me as usual but I will try to jump in before you all end if we are not out too long okay succeeding um I'm gonna try to keep my time schedule because I am a cutie cute can I get it out I'm a cutie crew member so I do try to catch Chit Chats lives on Saturday so I'm gonna try to stick to my timeline of getting off of here by a little after eight if possible hey professor Damita Joe hey Shan hey son kiss dark and Danny yes I love that name let me see hey Sylvia how are you doing and hey my Leo sister live laugh love how are you awesome okay okay perfect perfect all right so as you know today is sketchy Saturday and I'm so excited y'all okay so those are the ones it's uh especially if you just are finding out that there's art available to 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my first Deep dive really really well and so total time invested has taken about I'm probably at about 18 solid hours of if you only count the times that you're sitting at the computer and editing I'm at about 18 hours so far so now it's taking weeks but it's just 18 total hours if I just count it when I'm sitting here doing it and I got so far today because I love my [ __ ] I got so far today but I'm not I think I still probably got another 10 to 12 hours of editing possibly but I think I think y'all appreciate it when you see it I hope so I'm gonna have to join to get a chair you can get to Ross you can have a chair without Jordan you don't you ain't gotta you don't have to join I would love if you do but you can have a seat you ain't got to join to get your chair oh you're talking about the art to download okay that might be what you're talking about I thought you meant a timeout like like 41 feet but you might be talking about the actual art 416 is a character okay um so there is I didn't bring up visuals today because I'm like I'm gonna commit to actually doing this sketch because I always start off and then I talk with my hands and then I'm all over the place so I don't have visuals it's gonna be us talking yeah Shan I'm really trying yeah you'd be so proud of me Shane I think you would significantly be proud of me because I know the hard work that you do so I think you really be proud of me on this one I can't wait for you to see the result of it hopefully it's um hopefully it's um what was I gonna say hopefully oh I just threw myself off oh hopefully I can put it out by next week that's what I was trying to say hopefully it's done where y'all can see it next week if not I'm trying not to rush it because I will be so mad at myself for getting that far and then rushing the very end of it child you can have several seats with me welcome yes oh okay you up here too Ross come get your art um oh okay I'm gonna answer the the question what's the difference between being a member on YouTube versus patreon YouTube gets the custom emojis like these right here like while you're in the live chat these lips on to the right you can use those as like your custom emojis and stuff that's the that's one of the bigger ones um I also feel like patreon notifies people better than YouTube I'm not sure if that's true but that's what I feel like so there's pros and cons to each when we do our watch along we'll all be joining each other on stream yards so it won't matter if you're on YouTube or patreon side um but those are the biggest differences to me and uh patreon the way you can upload a video I I like I like it better than oh copyright you don't have copyright issues on patreon that's another thing I like about it yeah that's my main things hey live laugh love okay so let's start off with I saw so much stuff so I don't I'm not following Love and Hip Hop like that but after I brought my head up and the subscriber told me about it I all I saw non-stop was the news about this so that's where I'ma start get my bookmarked together this dog on fight where what's his name I know his name too but Erica Mena got arrested I cannot call this dude's name I have to see it I've seen him with the group a lot of times I think he's is he a main cast member now because I feel like he moved up to main cast member at some point but it was three of them and they got mug shots I think coming out let me see okay here we go Bambi Erica Mina and zelle swag yup thank you Sylvia P Zell swag arrested in Atlanta for allegedly fighting at a bar it's in this is from neighborhood talk neighbors this tea is hot air Camina Bambi and Zell swag have been arrested in Atlanta for allegedly fighting at a bar Chow I've been watching Love and Hip Hop since day one Zell is on the Hollywood cast thank you Shan Atlanta police told Channel 2 Action News officers responded to reports of a physical altercation at the Luca Lounge on Far Road at 11 40 p.m on Friday when officers arrived they quickly broke up a fight involving 35 year old Erica Mena she's only 35 oh gosh they are aging her get away from Safari girl 35 year old Rodney Shaw AKA Zell swag 37 year old Addie Richardson AKA bam BC Bambi don't see I'm not seeing 37 in Bambi and Kareem Cadet officials have not said what caused the fight or if anyone else was involved yeah Safari is Agent Erica Damita Joe good evening sexy mommy hey Gigi hey sexy mommy sexy how are you doing it used to be real now I just feel like it's a bunch of folks making up stuff I watched the early days and yeah I could agree with that Shannon I love them early days of Love and Hip Hop we see here what else they say cause different people are saying oh Saucy Santana uh they said he explained what happened but since they ain't gonna put the caption I ain't got it I need you to just give me give me Cliff Notes don't be blaming Safari she's a mess before yeah she is she's a mess before him since since uh yeah since uh with Rich what's his name Rich she was with Rich and she's done her own dirt I agree I just feel like that's the first person that maybe actually stressed her out and she would just stress other people out I think that's what I was thinking Shan hey let's be clear how are you doing [Laughter] Okay so uh any other details about them um y'all Miguel's performing at some uh what did they call it a listening event called the visera experience and this this boy got this man has two ropes pierced in his back and is hanging as it lifts him in the air Miguel can sing I got booted again okay sorry I got booted again but Miguel hanging from ropes y'all that's pinching the skin on his back I I don't know what's going on let me see Erica came in the door a mess and I thought she had gotten better but no yeah Richie dollars thank you Professor Damita Joe they say they were fighting each oh yeah we're gonna need the details yes I like Safari able 41 pin do you mean do you like for good TV 41 fit I thought he was a little um interesting but I don't know now I just I I can't I don't Vibe with him as much but I'm not watching it as much to sit there and be like I can put up with it because like because he's good TV so I I don't know for sure but our boy ain't nothing LMAO sounds painful right Sylvia yes yes coming well they're they're pinching his back hold on I'm gonna have y'all gonna have to visually see this one aren't you because it's so ridiculous I don't know how else to tell you what's going on let me get to my bookmarks you have to see it for yourself that's just what it is hold on okay good let me pause let me share the screen if I if if I drop out y'all I'll come back it boosts me so many times a night I'm not sure why yes so far is great for TV did I say hey to you Sylvia they did something like that on black ink New York it's wild looking ugh okay let me take this off oops take that off okay this is this is Miguel I don't know exactly what's going on it's no sound because the sound won't be good quality anyway so I'm just showing you how he hanging with the things it looks like it's pinching his back but someone used the word piercing his back but I see pinching back skin it's still uh either way why is he doing this like what is this what's the point what is that y'all had to see it for yourselves okay [Music] um let's see oh my gosh this is a story I know ew this woman I'm gonna read I'm gonna tell y'all the story so we can come up and talk so I can free my hands up that's the plan is he into pain or something maybe oh don't start with me internet maybe Shan because I don't know why else you would do that okay we're just gonna have a time today come on back oh now it's not showing it at all okay uh thank you to live laugh love that says Steve Harvey is Steve Harvey and Marjorie are apparently getting a divorce y'all seen that corset on the woman's back on black ink it was too much oh I know good feeling did y'all see this I didn't read the story let me see if it actually come up okay that one came up I was like oh they must not I mean even if you think it I don't know if you should post it if you want to keep your job I don't know but it says Steve Harvey isn't feeling one of his employees after they posted a negative tweet from his account last week why would I do something like that they don't even make no damn sense and it said basically from Steve Harvey's account somebody said a comedian you don't find funny at all and then it posted his pictures but it was from his account child he hanging like me right oh he is that can't be true Marjorie gonna leave the money well she trying to get 50 I think um they said Shan and I I can't imagine that he's not smart enough to have a good uh prenup too like come on now I I don't know I'm not really rooting for Steve Harvey though I think he's he's as a as a guy he's kind of trash so I don't really care if she does or doesn't get his money I'm not really rooting for him not when you said in your your uh female supposedly friends and people that's like family to you what up with these other trash dudes AKA sure what's his name Shirley strawberry's husband no he I don't care Marjorie is going to take him for everything he got that's what I'm thinking to be the job that's what I'm thinking let me see Oh I thought this was so cool I ain't rooting for either one of them though I know I know I remember I'm not really rooting for Marjorie I'm just like if it happened that's on him oh well Marjorie knew what she was doing she had a plan I do believe she had a plan feelings I'm so sorry that's what I was thinking when I saw it I said this was probably part of her I don't know how long they've been married but I was like sarcastically thinking this is part of like a seven year plan Mike Hill for Cynthia wait did Mike Hill try to get Cynthia's money Shan is that what you're saying I'm not a Steve fan at all 41 fit Marjorie is going to be his karma oh yeah my oh yeah yeah I think so too pn2 Ross I hope Steve made her sign a prenup Linda shame on him if he didn't she's taking everything and new teeth yes I can't imagine he would but boy I don't care if he didn't uh create a prenup I totally agree PNC Ross um I don't know if y'all can hear this sound because it's not downloaded it's still from Instagram so we're gonna see how this goes but y'all you know I love some Luther we all think most of us love some Luther I haven't liked him since he divorced his first wife and took her money and son away from her dang Damita Joe I knew he had done her wrong but I know he was taking kids and money I didn't know that hey Sheila Massey how are you Steve introduced Cynthia and Mike oh oh that's another trash relationship he set up got you Shan his daughter said that she has ruined their relationship with him I was hearing announced I was seeing uh I won't call him Whispers because it was making stories but I skimmed the headlines I'll put it that way Gigi and I was seeing that it was weird it seemed like they were saying he was way more affectionate with like Lori which is a stepdaughter than his actual uh children you know that he would have known obviously their whole lives versus I'm not sure when how old Lori was and they got married but I'm like those are your kids I don't I guess you out here about to be another Brian McKnight out here read the tell-all book about Marjorie it has a lot of tea about Marjorie oh if I ever I ain't well see this is where I just try to make sure I don't mean uh making promises I can't keep if I find the time and I can just do it but I always feel like I'm listening to stuff I will try uh Linda that might be one of my long-term like let's let's go into the history of Steve Harvey type uh books that's the one his ex-wife wrote Linda right that Steve Harvey because that's why I think live laugh love even was talking about on her live because I swear I didn't even hear about notebook so I was watching live laugh love today um Steve is messy he sure is Phyllis I meant to say second wife because Marjorie is his third okay okay wow uh Marjorie wasn't his first wife I believe she was his second or Mary wasn't his first wife I believe she was the second I think okay y'all straightening it out out there Trina Steve Harvey should be your next Expo say well okay this is what I realized 41 fit imma put him on my list but the ones I really can get into is one well you know what maybe I still can't if there's like a divorce uh filing or something because I need the court document to help me really paint the picture that's what I realized when I'm doing the one I'm doing right now I'm like if I didn't have this court document I would not have known to be looking at certain things and I would have missed a lot they would have painted a really good picture so the people that have court documents out on them like an actual filed public complaint oh all day we're not gonna say all day because it takes a lot of time but I know for sure I feel more comfortable speaking uh on them uh if I'm gonna do like a deep dive on them I've been but with that book I might I don't know he could be a deep dive just off that book 41 foot I've been good the rest of the day he gonna be a parter too like a a multi-parter if I do Steve Harvey like he he got a lot going on Think Like a Man really right feeling she Phyllis Marjorie took that book to a whole new level so I'll show you how to Think Like a Man and ran game yes we need to read it Live Like Love say yes we need to really live that love because you said you probably read it in a day right it'll take me a while but I would do my best to um it just have to be one of those Evergreen type things because it ain't gonna come on no time soon but when it comes it'll still be good is Chrissy time I want to know if she cheated on Steve with that security guard dang Marjorie ex-husband wrote the tell-out book wait oh marjorie's ex-husband wrote the tell-all book so this that's the T on Marjorie is there t on Steve too I thought somebody wrote a tell-out book on him too that's a lot I want to know if she cheated on Steve with it I'm coming back to the sorry Chris it's Chrissy time yeah I would like to know as well that be on him that's on him oh well oh well marjorie's ex-husband just got out of prison and wrote a book about him okay you need the receipts understood you know me 41 fit it just it comes to bed it comes together better for sure it's a less that Steve Harvey filed first okay Linda okay I would love to read that uh what would that document be called because a divorce decree I think is once it's finalized but what is it called just the uh application for divorce I would love to read it though I would love to read it allegedly Steve blocked Mary's book oh I could see that [ __ ] of course he did of course he did oh thank you I saw where's your banner thank you thank you uh Steve is an underhand snake and in my opinion Marjorie helped him mistreat and get over on his Xbox oh yeah yeah oh for sure that's what I in my opinion that's what I think two p and two raws I used to think I used to be neutral no no I'm sorry I used to like Steve Harvey from the um was the one he was like a high school teacher or something and the woman that is now on the game she was the principal I used to like him then I liked the Steve Harvey Show thank you The Steve Harvey Show uh I used to like him on there and then I liked Kings of Comedy um it wasn't until actually I think one thing like a man came out and he started running his mouth too much because I didn't listen to this radio show like that except sometimes when Nephew Tommy's prank calls and stuff like that I didn't listen to him but I'm like what are you talking about yes Steve is also mentioned in the book oh everything said on this channel is a ledge and everyone's on his head thank you for being too Ross dang here's the thing he allowed himself to be Doug Felix that's what I be thinking when these men do that like you are I mean I guess you're a prize because you have funds but like sir without the funds I don't know how much of a prize you are so you y'all y'all was playing each other I don't know it's another lady that he blocked that has all the tea wow he treated married so wrong and put a gag order on her I love Kings of Comedy but he started rubbing me the wrong way on the radio right share right I didn't see had I heard him early on the radio I probably would have been off of him earlier but I think when I heard him preaching after the thing Like a Man movie came out I was like you go there's no one size fits all and then that's why you said you acting like I don't know I just didn't like that he was really trying to tell and and just oh you know I don't like it he was like do y'all think he was kind of in that Kevin Samuels Lane before we knew about it Kevin Samuels because it's kind of where my brain's going right now Marjorie is from Memphis okay Martin knew what to do oh Phyllis put Phyllis Phyllis and time out Phyllis is in time out Steve is the reason that no one is talking about strawberry situation oh well thank goodness um now if I could ever get my hands on them court documents I wanted to talk about it too but I want to say thank you to Chronicle speaks because that's how I know the most details about that Shirley's strawberry situation he had all those docs blocked Mary can't even get them allegedly wow I stopped having respect for him he double crossed oh he double crossed version well now wouldn't be surprised I shouldn't be surprised I should not be surprised why am I reading it as if I'm surprised he would do that yeah I wouldn't have liked that had I known at the time either live laugh love I keep hearing a lot of stuff allegedly he tried to block Bernie Mac from a lot of stuff dang yeah I wouldn't do I would have been off him had I known that show our system Love by liking sharing and subscribing thank you 41 fit oh man okay all right so Phyllis is in timeout with you 41. okay I don't know how good y'all are gonna hear this hear this sound but I at least want to try because it's not downloaded so it's not gonna have that quality it's just you're gonna kind of hear it through my mic but we're gonna try but I was going through these slides and I like stuff like this so it said oh I can believe that Phyllis I can believe it I stopped talking to him I stopped liking him then too Shirley Strawberry needs to stop doing the strawberry yeah it's really weird to don't I know it's probably her I don't want to say only bread and butter but I didn't know of her name till I heard that phrase um she gonna find something else you gotta find something else that's really weird right now ma'am because because it's not like he just um cheated no it's some weird stuff going on with your dude yeah it's not it's weird I know one time on his show he asked Marjorie what is one thing that he can get her to improve their marriage and she said a pool boy wow Sheila yesterday not find that info and tell you who the lady is okay PS2 Ross I appreciate it wow okay get into some Luther then I'm gonna drop the link so y'all can come up it looks like we're gonna go into some some Steve Harvey stuff for sure today and then we could talk about of course some love and marriage Huntsville stuff if y'all want to because I'm gonna drop that link so I can free up my hands so I just want to show this about Luther I just thought this was really neat okay so most most people probably already knew but I didn't know that Luther used his own money to finance his first song never too much and every record label turned him down moral of the story always been on yourself this one said Luther used his own oh same thing they just put him with a different um audio um it said that time Luther had to gently remind Whitney not to play in his face the amount of legendary Excellence on that damn stage Steve is giving his advice on the letter ew Oh Linda Linda say more say more on just in general her strawberry letters or on her specific situation going on right now either way it's too much I was sleeping my notifications Papa okay all right here's some sound oh wait I can only do the one that is not him him because of the copyright I forgot okay so I'm not gonna play that I'm gonna play the one where he's talking about his story how he sang a jingle and then they gave him that deep to high thing he would do or that loose the growl you know the famous Lutheran thing so uh hold on instead we talking 80s R B I'm talking Luther Vandross loved Luther's voice but I heard he was something serious to deal with he might have been the greatest greatest most talented people usually you hear that that they are a lot to deal with so I'm he gets a pass it's too late for me to um think anything else he's an angel he gave us uh dance with my father again I'm done you can't say nothing to me about Luther yes it's a bio movies coming out on Luther and Teddy Pendergrass oh I love I love biopics I will be there I will watch them trending the ladies will follow with all the information is Geneva's closet she's on YouTube very interesting I think I heard of her but pn2 Ross she referred back to Chronicle speaks believe it or not but I'ma check her out again to see if that's the same lady I feel like I've heard of her though and I feel like I've heard of her because of Cheryl strawberry and I'll say this too because I don't want to take credit for nothing I oh well I won't say because I don't know for sure if I'm remembering the right person but I feel like Geneva cited Chronicle speaks because I think she said something like y'all don't want to believe me to Chronicle speaks drops a video and I was like well who's Chronicle speaks and I went over there that's how I feel like I saw her yeah never too much too much I love Luther singing but personally he was nothing nice okay DaVita Joe I hear you I hear you I'm not surprised when oh I'm not surprised these when these talented people it's rare you hear someone super talented super revered and they're like oh and they were a nice gentle person too I I don't usually hear it so I can't be surprised Steve goes back and does his take at ugh on each letter ah guys or that Tick Tock when the lady uh so it was when it was The Isley Brothers versus someone when they still doing the verses right and the this young guy was like Mom Steve Harvey's gonna host the verses and the mom was like oh that's the sound I think of now when I think of Steve Harvey Geneva was on Mims and she spilled some tea is this recently because drop her link Shane if you get a chance or just DM me later so I can go back and watch that section or whatever because I'm very interested I've always heard Luther and Teddy was a bit too much never too much never two I never liked Shirley Strawberry dang I didn't know of her I ain't gonna lie to unfortunately the way I had to learn about her was because of her husband yes on each letter that uh see look I'm just like that Mom just uh if I remember correctly some actor's supposed to do a Luther movie not sure I'm here for it I'm ready they better cast it correctly Teddy P was a hot mess did he did he get paralyzed later in his life I love watching those docu-series and stuff so I don't know if I'm mixing him up but I love seeing that stuff I need to know your business when it comes to the celebrities and how they became I love the development before they become and then like what was that pivotal moment that made them become you know like get that lucky break or whatever you know it's hard work it's not really a lucky break but like I like the the connection of the dots it's very interesting to me I don't even tell my husband like a lot of stuff when it comes to like um drama shows and stuff and movies I love the build up to the relationship more than when they actually get into a relationship because I like the dots that connect I remember that it was The Isley Brothers and oh Earth Wind and Fire thank you Linda Earth Wind and Fire yes he had wreck oh yeah I can't really forget that then Phyllis dang was this dang I feel as you jogging my memory because I don't know if it was TV one or unsung you know how those do I was trying to catch all those when they post them to YouTube and stuff I was I'd be watching all of those if I can get them yes it was a car accident that Teddy was in WoW wow that's crazy wasn't Teddy people yo yo that's what they saying Sylvia wow Teddy P got caught with an alphabet person in the car wreck too wait you said two so who was the other person hey Miss reesy how are you we over here going down a little music Memory Lane appreciating uh Luther but also talking about apparently he was a big diva and but I still love me so Luther I can't I can't not love Luther and we talking about the Steve Harvey Marjorie stuff in in the the X's that are doing the tell-all books it was unsung okay Linda I do like I like some unsung when I can catch it I do I'll be all up in I'm like oh now how do y'all connect it cause I'm like when they name pop up I need to know how you get authority to speak on this now how are you connected I love our son yes okay I'm gonna get my sound oh I gotta wait because I don't want copyright okay here we go Vino's Pizza and the general was uh it went Gene hoes you'll go for the food we've got Gino's you go for it sizzling hot and the producer her name was Debbie McDuffie she says can you give me just something to make me feel it hot make me feel it's sizzling hot and I said Gee knows you're going for it and you know I just could see the control room just jumping up and clapping and stuff and I just said to myself oh I guess when I make a record I'm going to throw that in there so I didn't do it on any of my Jingles I saved it for for my own records he sold so many products and he sold them so well you know that you know everybody just adored hearing him it was really a wonderful came out of Gino's I love it let's see okay Bob Barker passed away early today right right uh Linda who live laugh love that's who was on it live laugh love um y'all I love I love a good witty morbid joke okay and somebody said how did they say it how they say it about Bob Barker they said he he was as close to to 100 without going over because you know he was Price is Right I said oh my gosh I get it and I love when you do it right I love a good kind of morbid joke and that one was like perfect witty to me I was like that's so true you know Teddy lived in that fluent neighborhood and someone kept cutting the brakes they made a show what I like it when the person is still alive yeah yeah I love it more when they're alive because I want them to tell I want them to be sitting in that chair and telling they started somebody else saying well this is yes I love that live laugh love all my Grandma had me watching bob every morning when I was little he also slept with Dr Jay's wife hey I mean I heard that name but I'm not making a connection in my in my mind Soulful voice yes I know Linda but I thought Bob Barker was TNT Ross I said the same thing today I said the same thing my husband said hey Bob Barker pass I said he was still aware man was already gone to see the Lord off topic with what y'all think of candy and Ty's movie trailer oh gosh I didn't watch this Sheila I'm with candy not for the movie part of it or like Todd's production part of it OMG 99 . [ __ ] my mom called me crying about Bob Barker this morning oh she cared she cared I got some I'll cry I do I know I'ma cry on some of them it looks good to me let me begin my grandma would have been the same way Dr J is a basketball player okay now I gotta connect back what was the comment about doctors he also slept with Dr J's wife was that that was Teddy Pendergrass also said with Dr J's wife that's that's crazy sir you were you just trying to get on people's side Trinity you making me feel oh I'm sorry GG I'm sorry I'm sorry someone gonna be saying I'm gonna be saying that to someone real soon my time is here really I ain't gonna say it's coming my time is here because I got some stuff like what you mean y'all don't know about such and such and such and such my thing nobody can use my bed yeah that's what they were I I'm gonna say I got briefed yesterday that the scene the main scene was taking place in their actual bed but look they already beat me up yesterday so don't be coming up here getting no candy today we're gonna get we're gonna stick on Stephen Marjorie in any of the exes Ted uh Teddy Pendergrass uh Luther love America oh and if y'all didn't see if y'all didn't see it's Chrissy time she did her video uh her live right before this live and she was talking about the okay now she was talking about a lot but I know a lot the part that caught me the most was when she said that bugs which is one of The Barbers ended up seeing Marceau somewhere and Marcel uh approached him I think maybe in a different way because I don't know how she actually said it because if you want to know no you got to go watch um you got to go behind the paywall for Anthony but it's Chrissy time did a very good summary summary of what she could share and I definitely want to hear about bugs candy and time move would be on peacock I cannot say I would that now I support some things I even got to go to the old lady gang restaurant I'm not I I don't know if that's gonna be one of them I don't know now someone does some clips and I can out of context talk about the clips maybe so Erica Bambi and zail swag went to jail yep Sheila we talked about them we sure did hold on I still got it in my bookmark too we yep yep yep yep okay I'm gonna drop this link so I can get to the art part and y'all I won't show your face but just show yourself on camera how you coming back off because yeah it's trolls out here for real for real okay I'm gonna prep my screen for our art and we're doing Nubian theme Nubian TV network themed lips tonight that's what I'm drawing what he should have bust Marcel in the face I know live laugh love I wonder what happened I wasn't impressed with OLG restaurant okay I oh what did I get because I was satisfied with what I got but I could tell that there would have been some things that I maybe wouldn't be happy about and I can't remember because I did it when they first their first year or second year that's when I went but what I got Angola I liked it but I knew I would like it because of what I picked and I can't remember what it is now who has been being Scrappy kids oh I don't know are both of them in jail just because uh Scrappy is so I see you Shan because uh Scrappy is so uh just a deadbeat y'all already know he don't have them because I'm like dang what was scratch [Music] hey Shan hey how are you I'm good I need more details I read it on TMZ and um they said they were fighting each other so did what happened like I need to know what happened I need somebody to tell me who hit who and I feel like Zales a hothead Eric definitely yeah baby probably got caught up if I was just to assume based on them three I love the Nubian Network very informative yes Miss greasy they were disrespected at the restaurant okay which restaurant um the bar uh Scrappy disrespected who though it was just zail Bambi and Erica I see you live laugh love I don't know I know that's that's what I was that's what I saw Miss receipt they said Erica was fighting everybody even the police that's where she's gonna catch a hot felony your camera's still on I don't know if you want to keep it on or she trying to go after Safari he gonna be to have them kids if you end up in jail man the sad part is I'm like do they want the kids hold on put my banner on [ __ ] hold on I'm putting my banner up I'm bringing you up live laugh love I don't know if you want to have your camera's still on so I got my banner up so you can't be seen okay did you want to keep your camera on uh oh I said device is not connected hold on okay I'm gonna keep my banner up to she either okay she dropped down okay and Teddy P I heard Teddy Pendergrass my aunt was in love with Teddy P she used to be like Teddy P it's a mess he was they said he was out here knocking them down he didn't he didn't care okay I see you live laugh love but Linda is that true what's I don't believe that okay Linda let's break that down Erica upset that Bambi news Safari was trying to get with Sierra I think in my mind and see I'm a fan I'm gonna say I'm a fan of safari and I'm a fan of um the other Jamaican lady what's her name spice Erica Mena lost me in New York I'm not really a fan of hers and since New York because she always trying to fight at Yale and let people get their work let she just take over people's things let them get their words across let the people do they sing but the way that it came out and the things that's been coming out it's like they're playing the setup game and I think Safari was just being Safari he's an idiot idiot so he's funny that's why I like Safari because I laugh at him everything he do I laugh at him because I can't believe they falling for this stuff he pulling that's why I like him because I'm like y'all can't be serious like for real that's true I cannot take him serious like I'm I'm sitting there like Street yeah I know right hold on Stan hold on live laugh love your camera's still on I don't know how to turn it off uh-oh once I get in I know how to do it before then but I don't see okay drop drop down come back up I'll just verify you with voice and that way you don't have to turn it on in the first place okay okay I think Erica trying to make him look bad because she's trying to win people over which she don't realize we never liked you really in the first place ma'am you came on the scene just like he popping on the handstand like nobody really like that like you came on the scene just like from day one but yeah I saw that on the episode but the way that it came out then did you see the live Sierra did because Sierra did a live saying they had talked about it beforehand so I'm like I feel like actually because of someone replayed it a content creator replayed it okay yeah and I was just like okay okay thank you hey girl hey Shan happy Saturday hey lady Miss Linda that Erica and them they need storylines they do like that's why Bambi came with all this stuff about Scrappy daughter because whatever you do in Scrappy daughter and his baby mama five but leave the daughter out of it she not a baby she not a kid 18 to me is still a baby like my 20 something year old brother is still a baby to me I was telling him that last night he's still a baby to me I don't care how old you get you're still gonna be the baby boy so it's just like the things that they're doing is not good in the light for their children just like she trying I believe she married Eric for a storyline I said that last season when they were getting married Sierra Sierra Mary aired for a storyline Bambi who married yes it's me okay hey girl hey [Laughter] not replay game today I've been doing good the last couple of days you have and Bambi married Scrappy for money because you know Bambi was trying to get on all the way back the hot tub with the Basketball Wives right we know Bambi been trying to get on forever so I feel like they all playing this game and Safari he does it because looking Safari he making money across the whole franchise this is why it goes from Miami New York Hollywood with family reunion and I believe Safari's sleeping with everybody he gonna hit he gonna knock off whoever he can knock off and if you let him you off after you see all this stuff that's your fault right that's true I hope I hope Amara don't take him serious for real for real like please don't take that man seriously I don't know it looks like they already broken up I hope so and that might have been a storyline too I hope so like she took it that way she didn't take him seriously that's what we need don't take that man seriously right but in my eyes I might have looked at trying to get married I don't know why she just didn't go back with omj MJ would have took care of them babies and MJ would have just been MJ and for her like why are you doing yeah MJ was the house man why wouldn't you just stick with MJ why would you try to go be with his friend because he got more money that's crazy supposedly I don't know right and you should have stayed with MJ MJ was taking care of her and her mom like come on now but I think all that Love and Hip Hop Atlanta stuff is fake I think he didn't say nothing they could tell me that's for real that's what Carlos get the concept from exactly uh Sunkist do you want to turn your camera on before I bring you up I won't bring you up with your camera on hey I know sunk his voice by now too hold on Sunkist okay is that you Sunkist yeah it's me I think it's all I got you okay yeah cause I'm looking like a Hebrew slave we don't we don't need that oh my gosh I got you girl you know I like my family yeah okay so listen Okay y'all oh hello hello panel hello ladies so okay so Amara that's my girl okay you know I I love the rich skin I'm I'm I got rich skin and I'm like okay we gotta stick together sis when I heard she was with her um I said okay so I gotta go ahead and I gotta start stalking her and not gonna hurt him do it no we're not this is we're not doing this this is we didn't fall too hungry about 200 years [Laughter] this is what we're not gonna do and here's the thing too and see Safari going back to what you ladies were saying about him being a joke that's the biggest caricature you ever want to run up or he's a joking earrings okay I'm back I had to leave for a minute so back to what I was saying oh you stayed on that one you knew with that one here's the shade with pink lemonade I mean listen to me let's start getting you out there you know clearly I I got some picked up anger okay and so this is obviously so yeah and I'm gonna I'm gonna take it out on her I'm Gonna Take It on Safari okay I'm not gonna think about her because you know I can only go so far my sisters I'm a girl's girl I'm gonna you know tap on her shoulder then I'm just gonna I'm gonna growl on him here's the thing first of all we got somebody like you said he didn't went from one one street to the next and cleaned up every street you could possibly clean up on talking about the cleanup woman though this is the cleanup man and then for him to have two he got some kids and then you buying her kids Rolex watches watches first okay see who's taking him first of all buttons he looked like he has over we can't say the c word over oh Lord 19 no no over 28 not 19. you cannot sit on my toilet sir no kids Rolex watches you should you're supposed to that's just so you can say hi to me Rolex watches just so you can say hi now goodbye and go that way now go y'all go off I can't these these women for just for me I understand I understand but I think I think a lot of what they say Safari is doing is so far-fetched it just can't be true play with him and then let him go you're gonna catch something yeah that's what's wrong with everybody on every show and some of them women as they said on Brewster Place if you know what who what Bruce the place is you know what I'm going to say thank you women ain't clean thank you they all need they need something with a drop a pill and a shot that's all I have to say I work in the Middle School field he got something that they ain't got no shout out no pills they just walk around here itching scratching and burning that's awesome yeah why were they fighting did anybody do do we really know why they were fighting no they didn't even say they're still they're making us look bad y'all we don't have to make a petition and just sit okay too rowdy in the section that they were in okay there's security called the police once the police got there because the the charges that they have are against the police they're not against anyone else oh okay but these women got small kids what was these babies at Scrappy and Scrappy go out and have a good time but but these guys wouldn't do that for them they're catching charges and bring it leaving their babies behind for these these pieces of drones willing and their buddy is so messy he probably started the whole thing you know he did Zell always that's what I'm saying I said I don't know but I feel like Zell did this or started it some kind of way yeah y'all seen my boy hey Bad Apple My Boy Santana my boy Santana was running like a damn track stuff that's what he said he was out of there baby he's from here where I'm from and honey all I saw was at the corner of my eye a flash of red baby he was running hard I was like who is that running and I was looking and I was like no Santana no yeah that's not unpopular here um I hope so I definitely like for me I'm like it's always it's always gonna be the guys well these type of guys always they fall not every guy but yeah yeah well 41's fit said even though he's a walking disease y'all gonna have to get off our boys [Laughter] it's only so far I can go with it right because he don't embarrass you again have to work with and you know don't do much else for him because he gonna get everybody I get accused of I I get accused of so much I get accused of what what's that word they be calling they they mean male male male identified male identified but they be saying I'm male identified I'll be like these people don't know me can y'all quit diagnosing and labeling people y'all know like for real because I'm with you with you right now with you I I ain't with you when you're wrong and most time it's the women who I'm with when they wrong too so that's why I'm like people just get up here and if you don't agree with somebody they just that's why I like it here because we don't agree it's an opinion yeah it's okay that we don't agree because me and playing too Ross I don't think we we always you know it's just like you go any worlds and they just all over you because oh we don't agree and at the end of the day if you really break it down we do agree I just get to mine different than you get to yours right and even if you don't it's okay because guess what this is America and and we have freedom of speech and we are and as individuals that have brains it's okay it's my brainy your brain don't align on everything right right but that that's why opinions are not unique because we all have one right that's why they're not unique it's they're just they're just like belly buttons we all have one and they serve no no purpose I mean so just just put it out there we can all agree to disagree if you we don't agree with what you say okay that's fine it's on the table let's move on you know 41 fit said y'all all we can do is Rock from side to side and sing Negro spirituals when it comes to some of these Menses oh it just rock side to side and just moan and suck our thumb goodness I only I only I oh my thing about Safari is if you get caught up with them you should that's kind of where I'm at with that yeah you know like right yeah I love that like Erica dinero says the Yelp reviews are already out you got to read the Yelp reviews like they already exist man like him I love it you know what one thing about Safari I have to give it to Safari for this okay it's consistent since day one so when you say hello to him you know exactly what you're getting whether you date him befriend him don't like him or whatever he is who he is and honey he ain't switching up to nobody but my Turning Point with Safari was when he threw the birthday party for Erica and had all the pictures and of him [Laughter] that was that was up in here that Apple hey bad apples [Music] hey Bad Apple we sits in the wall up here home girl I know thank you for coming thank y'all for letting me up these kids you know starting school had me just kind of in a choke hole Yeah my niece and nephew that I have but um yeah you know y'all [Laughter] sorry like I said popular opinion I just have to sit back at these uh women and laugh I have I don't I saved my tears for black girls uh yeah yeah I understand what you're saying I ain't got it for you sis I'm sorry if I uh I know I'm sorry but y'all know another thing too bad apple so Erica's getting what she's given exactly I like that I like that yeah all right cause I know I've seen like her history on um Love and Hip Hop New York it's not that great okay her and her girlfriend Santana like though those women yep they really like they played on Preference they played on being a princess yep exactly like I can't feel sorry for them because you get what they say the same black man yeah there it is I can't I can't feel sorry for you in your situation I mean even you know when you're looking gone and uh like a starving Ethiopian on your IG like actually I'm so sorry for you I really can't because you playing you played in our face yeah Love and Hip Hop New York then you come down to Atlanta trying to play in our face again like no no no no no no no no and see Safari see I'm from Dallas okay yep I remember when Safari jumped on Nicki Minaj down here at the uh Hilton oh yeah I thought he was just immature he twerking so I guess he would jump on her so right right when y'all say the Yelp is available the guilt has been published it was published like 15 years ago wow and there wasn't that about wasn't that about yeah it's been a minute yeah yeah like at least 12 or 13 years ago I would say because it was around ah yeah feels around 809 yeah yeah I'm not meeting fan so I wouldn't you know yeah so you can it's like no baby no baby you stand there [ __ ] you stand on that you said as long as he was and you know those type of men were like I'm so glad uh your hair is like this so you know they say slick stuff and they Revel in that stuff yeah right and that's flattered about women like Eric what's what's the Evelyn Lozada I know that they do that not every woman that looks like them but I know those women do that wow and they they monopolize on that they they they they stack on that and what they do is they're going to their little community of women like I said not just the women but the women that think like that they think that because they're their Preference they think that they're they're Step Up Like A Cut Above the Rest and what they do so ah how you can't sit with us because y'all mean prefer us so then with the if the chips fall and they go oh my goodness look how you're treating me how dare you and so it's like we're sitting there going uh-huh we pay not fingernails popping out gum like yes you ain't no better you ain't know you're not the same type of man oh you want to be a victim yeah you're not a hitting you you're not you're if you're a victim then we're a victim and we're not acting victimized you can be you can't act victimized so get over it you don't know right and even as the victim that she's acting she lying about it that's what gets me with it like the whole thing about how she fell out when they gave her the new her lawyer called her about how much she was getting a child support he's not giving me anything um and then come around he giving you four thousand dollars a month for two small children man oh girl that's why she had that other baby when that's why her and Bambi kept having them during babies when no men told them they didn't want no more children they were looking at a ching ching but baby 18 years it ain't enough money for a change and Scrappy have to go through like a eviction because Scrappy ain't managing no rent no funds nothing right I know I heard yes yes and then he turned around and bought him a house oh that's weird well Scrappy giving scraps he's not that because if you go back and you look at some of the stuff that happened on Love and Hip Hop first came out Dixon was still working already she had a good job and that's why like that's why I believe her and Bambi get into it because a lot of women don't they'll get with a man and they'll go against a woman regardless when if you're a decent type of woman you're gonna be like you're not gonna talk about her right yeah got in here and was in on it though we just don't know right and you cannot tell me that Scrappy went for custody and Bambi wasn't helping because it was my brother I would have been helping him so it's like miss me with that because Bambi wants us to think she's a victim when everybody pay attention to the timelines if you watch Love and Hip Hop because back when I was watching it he was still with Erica and then Diamond just brought it up that he was once he left Erica he was with diamond in between him actually saying that he was with Bambi wasn't there a shade in between all that too yeah yeah oh yeah cause uh Mama D like Shay and that was in Erica Dixon okay between Erica dick he was messing with Shea and Erica Dixon at the same time then proposed to Erica Dixon I thought I was like wow and you catch a man this dog says anything negative about his kid's mother or about his any of his exes to you when you want to talk to him about you know about him that's a red flag and you jump on his side here's the thing you gonna be in line next because you're gonna be dog next When Things fall out between you and him but women thinking that's a flex women be really thick enough but for me because at the end of the day if you doing everything you supposed to be doing what regular black woman gonna be complaining we always get the short end of the stick so we got him in that's doing his part we ain't gonna be talking on it it ain't gonna be no friction that's when you know the ninja line because four thousand dollars and nothing is a long stretch for me yeah like four grand and zero is a difference and see that's when you get somebody like me who like hold up e hold up girl cause you told us this man ain't doing this this man ain't doing that and then we found out you getting four grand a month hold up four grand a month some of us making that a month working right right requirements right but you know these men are getting more money than they really are um she's supposed to be getting money too so yeah you getting money and he getting money they're not just gonna give you all of his money now I don't think women understand that like you get money he get money and they go in between and give it to the person who has the kid the most but when you get legal physical when you get physical joint physical custody of children that's what I'll tell you don't get any money so yeah apparently they're giving her just the difference between their salaries and I ain't saying he had money because he very well could because most smart men got stuff in their mama name I mean it is what it is but after he showed spice what he was paying and then she came back and said well he passed September and October in October and November and I'm like but is he not paying because I've dealt with people in the court system that ain't never paid after 15 10 15 years you gotta be my daughter that you got something last month for this month like you should be able to sustain and amongst this or you should have had them babies because at the end of the day it always falls on us before I had any one of my children I realized and even my mother-in-law told me girl you you better make sure like do you want to stay on camera dimita even though I loved it yeah that's when she should have exited when you said that there's a chance he could be hiding money and we don't know for sure because we ain't counting his money but you have a point there because if you're buying Amara's uh kids each her kids Rolex watches you hiding something any additional things he do to get money they not gonna be assessing that every month and telling him you know so that's what you do you get your that's why I tell people to go through the court because once you get your court ordered you know exactly what you have to do I don't know why men do not like to go through the course because it's really I don't know it really can't benefit you protects them did I miss anyway to just get a contract anyway with him because the way his life set up and and I know this because I I know some people that do some stuff it appears that he has a deal with his jury person and he wears all that jewelry it's given to him yeah we could probably arrived that time because he didn't pay for that so he like dang I gotta get that back because it's gifted to him so you know that's why he was upset he wasn't upset because I got robbed oh my God he upset because hey I don't know if he gonna give me that like that next right but then Rolexes was they were marketing and business for the jewelry person who he works with okay okay but you know what normally I'm usually for the woman getting her coin I'm like you know what he can do come up off some money he got but in her case she did get her coin she was I thought he just wasn't supporting the kids another thing too if you [ __ ] when they go live because a lot of times when I get notifications about people going live on Instagram that's the only time I hit my social media most of the time he goes live a lot but I've seen his children a lot now one thing I will say is I've seen him on his live with him and Shekinah and him just doing stuff with his kids hanging out more than I've seen them on hers put it like that well we already know you know her having the older son that she won 100 fit but um this is me this is my opinion we might we women this why this bird might be where the sisters break up together but it's okay um it's to me to me it's not about the men taking care of the kids because if you look at it they're actually in most cases they're taking care of their children it's about the woman being mad and bitter and trying extra instead of her going out there making her coins and adding with the coins that they're supposed to take care of the kid she trying to feed him drive where he can't do where he can't live if he can't live how's he going to take care of his kids I'll add this on there for yours it is about Erica Mena being mad that Safari is not giving her more money than she thinks she actually deserves right because it's not all well I know I know we don't think it's all women but you know I gotta do for the public is nobody's talking about all women okay here that's getting a hundred dollars a month yeah yeah they that they not out here living and balling like them right can make it on a hundred dollars a month you mean to tell me you can't make it on two thousand dollars or four thousand dollars right right [Music] no way you gonna tell me that a kid needs that much money a month to sustain a kid no you trying to get your nails done every week yeah you're done every week you trying to go out here and floss every week with the girls yeah about those children it's about being bitter and mad trying to get that money for himself or he ain't got no money for the girlfriend yeah she don't wanna yeah yeah she don't wanna she want him she want to be um taken care of too yeah hey hey y'all Sheila said well maybe she should have charged him for urinating on her or her like she said he did in the last episode oh is that you Professor Demeter Joe yes okay okay cause y'all know she said that's what he wanted to do but and that's another thing too like I think some Safari puts on a show for us he does a lot of different stuff in the background like it only came out that she was trying he was trying to get back with her because of the Armada stuff so Erica was mad because at that point he really had broke it off and I believe at that point he said forget her because whatever he just and I was wondering and I'm always wondering like well what happened to make this happen like this and it's always filling out on TV now like yeah he's saying that he they were getting back together next thing you know he looked up he got the kids she in Mexico on a trip with a dude Erica said it was a group chip but we all know Erica it may have been a group trip but we know it was some dude you know you know what it was we know what it was so it's like I don't blame him do you now get out here and be your old clown self and I think that's what he doing and you can't be mad at the man for doing that because at the end of the day as long as he take care of his kids okay his kids let him do him when he's supposed to get them give them give them kids to him and you go do you and when you got him you do you be the mommy that you support the best mommy you can be but yeah quit trying to drag each other down that that what does that do other than damage things and for anybody that wants to show he don't even really talk about her like that but do you remember when his mama if anybody watched the show his mama came on and said anytime she give us the kids if you busy I'll take the kids and we know that his mama is always ten toes down with him she's just not yeah she's just not a Mama D so Erica you have no excuse because I had a mother-in-law that was tiptoes down with my kids regardless I could drop them kids off of her anytime I feel like it and just skirt out even before we was married so it's like I unders I I see the other stuff that's happening and she just puts what she wants us to know and I'm like well is her storyline because you know these people in these storylines getting out of hand right right about now hey little toy 4150 said she want to shake the table a little bit she said do y'all think that Erica is cutting up like that because Amada the negative is a beautiful woman of color yeah she breaking down like Evelyn did with oh she's gonna want the money before I think she would want the money regardless she would want more she's never gonna she's cutting up more I think because she's like you're with the one that's not what I thought you know yeah did you see that live she did when he gave them babies she lost her mind she popped up like coleslaw almost like yeah she lost her mind she wanna know what her baby watches it baby and he said they got watches at the house that's what he said she was like that could have been an extra 2 000 on my um [Music] you can get more with him with uh that's another reason why I didn't like Erica because she was messing with DJ Envy and she knew that man was married yeah I don't like DJ envelope or Gia I don't know that woman but she probably the same girl she was going to a support group because you know she couldn't get pregnant after they don't have however many kids they got she wanted to have another but she didn't already had kids when she said that that's too much how selfish that's selfish you know I would kick her out of that group if I wanted women that group get if y'all get your behind but you know what she is doing that because he's doing what he did and when you have to do the one-ups and all this other extra stuff you maybe need to leave you might need them yeah if that's how you because that's that where the people realize they're not that's a mental a b as well so you need to go ahead on and move on because well what you gonna do about these Rico charges honey well we we gonna discuss that every minute are we talking about Rico real estate yeah oh yeah that's the Deep dive I'm working on I'm trying to have it done by next week all the doctors 176 Pages yeah no charges well I didn't know it was Rico I ain't gonna lie the one I got okay I was being messy but um no I knew what you was talking about I'm about to say hey online now I ain't got that one I'm like dang I'm already behind we don't say small group not Rico's okay yes y'all think she caught from greasy oh and he like okay let me stop because I was because then they're gonna think I'm not talking about the group I'm talking about him it is very more of a turn off for him to be diabetic than a normal person to me I don't know why but it just made me see because it's him though not because of diabetes it's because of him oh Richard yeah rich dollars oh that's another one that's walking around the real creep Squad I'm passing out stuff he can't get it right they got stuff that they they don't remember yeah who's Rasheed Rasheed she didn't don't have a storyline that's why she got to get in the mess because she went from Spice and Carly's mess Tanashi at Bambi and Erica Dixon and you can't tell me Miss Sheila Michelle you know like I know that Rashida knew what Erica was gonna do because Erica has always been the pop off Queen remember that show that flashback when Erica rolled with her to front that girl off she knew Erica is down for flipping tables that's why she did that she but she but see the thing is Bambi looked like a deer headlights Bambi was a deer headlights because she like not bad she ain't gonna say she ain't gonna fight yes she is dude you're not know me no Bambi won't fight but Erica was sitting there like she was like secure to get her secure to get her did Rasheeda get a boob job she I believe she did have what yeah her brother Carter is that his name am I being after baby Carter mm-hmm I believe she did she got it looks like a list more of a lift because her confessionals she's just bursting out of that red dress yeah she coming out that dress is Rashida on This Love and Hip Hop with them yeah oh y'all like you can tell I ain't been watching I'll just be looking but she had a skirt she had a story line since Kirk had that baby on her she had a storyline since Kirk had that baby on her daddy last season didn't kind of work out but she really had a story story it's time for them to leave yeah all of these shows to just be taken off the air because I can't tell you when the last time I watched because it's just I'm with you I have to keep up on the on the panels and stuff on what's going on and then it's funny because since I don't watch I can just jump right in and get my opinion because that's the same old stupid stuff that they were doing the last time I watched hilarious I'm serious it's time for all of these Housewives all of these Hills yeah it's time for them to just go away and someone come up with something original and let's start off with some new people that hopefully got just a a teaspoon of scents and let's do it because this one because I don't know about anybody else but after a while that stuff weighs on me and I have be I have to turn it off because that part yeah oh you know I have a whole new cast in New York I just think it's fake it because it was fake to me at some point it becomes y'all because they gotta keep a storyline in the in the producers I feel like it's the producers that's putting the pressure instead of them just naturally you know seeing you know how things are gonna play out the producers are pushing pushing pushing to come up with these crazy you know storylines and then you feel like you have to do it or are you gonna put off the show you know and unless you have something else going for yourself you kind of Trapped but they really need to start coming on these shows and have an exit strategy instead of trying to just stay on here okay I want to move ahead for y'all because I just thought about uh Mr um Harvey hurry to see this yes and I am mad because I was two weeks days old when I found out that he was trying to block my boy Bernie from a from uh Ocean's Eleven movie did an interview because you know that's why I was never a follow-up to the Kings of Comedy because of Steve Harvey wow they said Bernie had the interview way back and he was saying that because y'all know it took Bernie forever to get his own show because Bernie was like the last person to do a lot of stuff yeah Bernie said it came out that whenever you know I guess you know how it's everything is small everybody know everybody yeah somebody finally came back and told him that Steve was coming back saying oh I could do this oh I could you know what I'm saying like cutting wow for a long time you never even seen him with uh Cedric or um DL or any of them but you will see them doing stuff was at war with him wow I hate that I love about I didn't I couldn't watch Bernie Mac's show too much because I didn't like them kids I'm not gonna lie I love running it I did not like some kids but I did not like them kids didn't know that's part of the story I thought he actually fell out with um Cedric that's why I thought he fell out with but it was Steve and you know Steven said it's like a package deal since the Steve Harvey Show yeah but I thought it fell out that's why I thought all of that stuff went down I didn't realize it was with him and Bernie Mac but wow nothing and stuff surprises me on like I said I've I might not have the right lady's name and she probably and her stuff will probably tell you the right person where it actually details some of the Foolery and shenanigans and for somebody that was in his position homeless and stuff you would think that he would never in a million years stoop to some of the stuff he's done old lady Cut Throat that's that Cutthroat and that's why when he had that tax situation that he had a few years ago I was like child give him IRS get him [Music] she may have been uh how are you going in and out saying no businesses okay let me find my ear all right now you found better okay what I was saying was Mary may not have been uh mental like very healthy mentally wide mental wise but he I think once he took Winton the son and he went and got so got with Marjorie so quick that that that did something to her and he blocked her from everything and he didn't give her he didn't really give her what what she earned as part being part of his why his team on the come up because well I think when Mary went wrong at Mary should have got her own attorney I don't know why she shared attorneys with him because that's where she that was her number one downfall because he told her he wasn't he wouldn't do her wrong and he stopped doing the wrong thing [Music] yes bombed her like times a million right oh relationship he kept doing that to her so of course if you own Fleek love bombing somebody because he ain't sent that woman's shoes all kinds of crazy stuff that man did that you would be like wow he really loves her he cares about her but he love bombed her so wow married and then even afterwards they didn't know what uh you know what she would I can't blame that woman because she didn't know what to think because the way he loved bomb he blindsided her too I think but you're okay now this this bad apple you just it was just you better speaking right uh yeah yeah okay pan two you know what you're absolutely right but you know um I was following um what's her name Essie Berry and on another uh YouTubers Channel and he did a full breakdown and you know he was had her thinking that he was going to marry they were fully engaged Full Throttle and you had a fourth throttle engagement and she she had no she was planning on you know going through the whole kitten caboodle or talking about them getting married until Steve Harvey's mom said what do you mean y'all gonna get married she said yeah and she going on and on just you know talking about the wedding and all that and his mom said how could want to get married if they're already married that that is how she found out that Steve was married right and she I mean can you we majority of every young woman we by the age of six we didn't already talked about our way our white wedding gown about an age of six four to six years old we didn't we didn't fantasize about it now it's not you know it wasn't me now but majority the average woman has already the average woman has done that and even if it's not consistent we've done it a hit and miss throughout our lives and so but by the time you know you and this is not no say to Mary please don't don't take this the wrong way but she is not Not only was she she not mentally sound after what he did but you can tell you can deal with talk to a woman and tell if she is if she's a woman of strength prior to her being traumatized it was easy she was easy to pray he's a narcissist and by what what what the full breakdown with me I mean Essie Berry talked about he's a Full Throttle narcissist okay and I was like yeah so here's the thing narcissist knows that that what how to seek out their prey and she was the Target and so that is just times that by nine for her when she found out through his mom that that woman was our her foundation was cracked yeah his mom's his mom who she thought was gonna be her mother-in-law taught her that and then and she said she stayed she was like okay we're going to work this out and she thought well she's just gonna wait and see so you know what she was already then he loved about as you said pen to he loved wonder he loved bombed her some more I had her holding on and then later on you had this preference of a woman a lot of skin pretty hair I think you know and then she this woman is nothing but Couture because let's give it to her now Margie come on now physically she's a catch we have to give her her props so you you now we have gone by to the you know the the world's um standards put her and Mary next to each other now Mary is a very beautiful very beautiful chocolate chip mm-hmm but we know about the preferences next to the the darker skinned black woman you know she compared herself right that's like her foundation even more and she sunk until she became a shell of a woman then he took her child do we sinking her and more and more and more to the quicksand come on now come on that we ain't even got to that they said she had a breakdown wow he did a smear campaign on top of that took everything on this woman come on now come on nothing yeah and like I said they they shared the same attorney so the attorney really was working for him like she probably felt you know isolated alone and like you said it's so much hitting her all at once I mean even the strongest woman would crack you know he just need it she needed the right people surrounding her that's what she really needed Steve's I put the uh they said Linda says Mama D just went live and she said she would served with papers by who what kind of papers it's the craziness of them craziness of it all where is earnest because when she was already talking about her husband she was talking about her husband one day they was lying okay so they still together she said they wasn't but the lives she did when they was at the Grand Daddy or the grand the grandparents house the scrappy was there she was talking about her husband so oh she put them back on camera and he died somewhere in the dungeon a palace in the back room what paper husband s child teeth Harvey was messy messy yeah I won't even watch anything he's on that's how his stuff but you know what y'all I put the links in the chat and I sent them I DM them to you uh for the on me to trending but y'all have to watch towns and I think his name was Jim towns and talk about Marjorie that lady is smart as a whippersnapper and Steve you know she used her look but I I think what she was she I think she was um strategic to be smart to be talented and to be strategic those are three separate categories I think he's very strategic and she used her looks as a weapon now here's the thing am I mad at her I personally I I would like to I would like to say I hope I will never ever do anything like that and I have never done nobody like that because that must come back on you but if you're going to do wrong do wrong right and when it comes down when it comes to Steve as to how he did Mary and his first wife and all the other people get okay this is horrible and I'm about to say but I'm thinking get him get him if my fingers take all his money sis take all this money now do our support unto do I support uh Marjorie do I watch anything would I ever buy anything she owned heck no almost buy a flip-flop no no no okay I'm bad like they're just some dumb I don't know yeah just get them if you have money well if you listen to Jim Townsend that's the one that's gonna get him because he talked about Marjorie and how she did things yeah if you listen to how I didn't put Tasha K in there because I go find her I ain't supporting her Link at all but I put me and stuff in there but if if you go listen to how Jim talks about how she thinks and how she does things you think she's smart and the reason why I think she's smart is because she had these men going to prison for her because from my interpretation of what Jim Thompson said is he took the rap so she wouldn't take the rap because she could have went down with them too right he took the whole thing against a man if I put her against a man that had a brain I may think she was smart but I think she's one-upping I don't I don't think they will have to be um just in case because I I don't do turns anymore but y'all just make sure you let each person finish their sentence just in case the chat they haven't ever said other people like I didn't get to hear that person so okay no Shane I want you to finish because I want to hear everything you have to say when you say smart can you explain it I want to hit I was like drinking up everything that you're saying when you say smart can you expound on that that's what I was saying yeah when I say smart I mean she walked away with property money and she's never not lived the Couture lifestyle from the downfall of all these other people and she's continuing that in her path so you have to have some stimulants of smarts book wise business-wise and she's she's just all that book wise master and if you listen to the interviews it's like when she walked away she had money and property and she had all that kind of stuff so it's like if you walk away from these Street guys they all go to prison or end up or they unilive from whatever they do and you end up walking away with all the fruits of that and you not even you have to be I work in the system so you have to be smart to get away with it that's what I'm saying like she didn't get caught up in the web of the legalities of what was going on because every man from what the inner interview what I got from the empires every man she's been with allegedly has had some legal money issues that she never got swept up in but she still came out on top with money businesses and property and it's like wow like she is the game she the game she is the game and I've seen some of this stuff even like in courts where they go to prison and they still have all the money they went to prison with that's because they're intellectual and she's Beyond slick because slick always get caught in in the legal system because slick only slides it don't get away it just slide it don't go away sleep don't dry up on its own and I feel like I know enough Street people and enough legal people to know the difference between being smart and being slick and being conniving and being underhanded and being able to get away with you you're right you're so right I was sitting here girl my toes are like scrunched together you're so right that is so right one second it's back to you Sunkist um I'm not far enough on my lips like I thought so we're gonna be here past eight so y'all can settle in and be comfortable cause like I'm not worried that part Phyllis she's a professional gamer and you know professional Gamers never get cooked yes is if they catch themselves they never get caught and that's where I'm trying to go and it's hard to go there without me saying stuff that I shouldn't be saying out here and that's that's why I was trying to explain it as simplistic as I could because I don't want to be on the internet saying some of the stuff that I was thinking yeah but it's like she she knows what she's doing to the point to where she's not gotten caught and if you don't get caught enough this time and then you manage to turn all that stuff legal um and that's what she's done she's turned all that which all my opinion was illegal activity money yeah you've made all that legal and what he don't realize is Steve helped that now somebody says you can still do what now that Steve did that he helped that money right okay it could be a colleague for you have to account for good money you can't account for bad money you gotta account for good money that is genius go on go on go upstairs I'm listening I'm just saying like I don't I don't like to say too much because I don't want nobody calling me but I'm just saying like she was smart enough to make it right because they can't backtrack it now because back then there was no computers and all this stuff so she's intelligent enough to know that now nowadays it's easy exactly yeah it made it to the phone before the computers she is so loud and not to mention this is another thing that I heard in the rumor mill and I don't know how true it is yeah she may have had Steve to adopt Lori oh I heard that as a rumor I heard that now if if she did that um that uh uh I'm so my mind is I can't even get in my mind you got a chance but no wait a minute Essie Barry said that um oh what's his name Steve oh the Lord is his child that yeah he adopted now and her son too he adopted both of them and then she that was one of her prerequisites for that's that was a requirement guys I'm not sure about the sun because he knows no listen I heard Steve say it out of his mouth on his show he did he adopted both of and gave him his last name because that's how much he loved their mom I heard him say that myself so he I wonder if he did all three of them because when she met him she had two girls and a boy yeah but it was the one with the light eyes that looked more like her that's the one no that was the boy it was the boy that was the one that looked more like um Margie that he was talking about he's the one this boy yeah okay and but and then there's there's one um that her husband was saying that um that Steve strong-armed him or said something disrespectful to him I mean Mr Thompson says yeah that was that was a requirement that he he um adopted that not genius I think I'm a subscriber to her she can teach me something I it's gonna spin the block but right now but no but Shane you got me I have chill bumps Essie Berry does a good breakdown but you coming from a legal standpoint yeah she's coming from morals which I was on board with the morals I'm like yeah yeah you know I'm thinking I'm screaming at the computer but no champ you've been a legal eagle I'm going no I don't think she's smart baby strategic and you just you just hit me with some I'm going oh my oh my goodness and that's why some kids when people don't let me finish my thought they never get to the end of where I'm going because usually that's how that's how I derive at some of the stuff I say because I thought past all this stuff right here because like I grew up in the midst of all my family members my father and everybody doing my father was literally a genius that got swept up in the addict his addiction um had he not got swept up in there he was one of the first people I ever saw with the computer and that's where I get some of my skills from I think he had a computer when I was little before they even had him in the schools so it was like you know a lot of people I like my mind is constantly tick tick ticking and I'm always thinking of that I and I try to I tell my kids this all the time like I tell any young person I talk to I don't want them to think about I'm doing this for that I want you to think about I'm doing this for that and in 10 years what is that gonna do and how am I gonna work it like that because I have always gave myself a five-year plan but then when I started having my kids you know playing switch but I was like five years was it good enough I Should Have Been Thinking Beyond that so that's how it goes for me like I do make a plan but I want my plan to evolve into a bigger thing and that's also a ground thing that my grandmother from church that I got like I always wanted to be a bigger thing and that's why I look forward I don't I don't so much go backward because if I stay in the in the past that's gonna eat me up so I move forward but at my own pace I don't let nobody else push me along I do my own thing um wow listen to what everybody say now because people drop some jams people do drop jams on you but I still move do it my way because every everything that people say is not good for everybody somebody may say something that's good but you have to figure out how to do it in your way and perjury just did that she did that thing like she did I mean you can listen I'm she's not my favorite person I'm just gonna keep it above however you can't hit you can't hate her hustle if that's your type of thing I personally like to think that I could I hold myself to a higher standard when it comes to that because I wouldn't want no one to do that to me I've had some people to betray me fiercely and I wouldn't want to do that to anyone else however if that's your thing that's the way you might want to get her blueprint if that's what you're gonna do you might want to get her blueprint subscribe to my channel what she did in in this listen we know this is a patriotical world and most men usually use that same blueprint on women it's a lot of women in prison for trying to outprove the next woman to hold on to that man and he what he did usually is because of the the you know that the X trafficking you know they usually and they're a lot of them voluntarily do that just the baby to prove it's a booby Pride you know and that's what they do and that's basically what that that that world is about trying to see who can out prove themselves to that man and that's what she did she did she just flipped it on them she used her looks and she used that same blueprint on Steve Mr Thompson and that uh Mr Thompson or whoever she she flipping on him and used it and she scrubbed that money that girl is a black sheep about you and foreign 4150 however he gets what he gets Marjorie feel free to send me a few dollars cash at me don't overlook don't do it to where my tail did it but she can fall asleep right don't do it the way myself did it don't do it the way Martel did it don't do it at the table don't do it be in too Ross what's your feelings on murder I heard you they know about murder okay y'all I think y'all y'all are forgetting a very important part this is me I think y'all are forgetting who taught her who taught Marjorie Mr Townsend talked more yeah yeah so you got to think about it he told her he taught her the game he took the fat because she was pregnant with his child she kept in contact with him then stopped because she got married however comma she was still helping him while he was in jail y'all forgetting that little part so it's more to this than sure enough I'll give it to her she she learned to hustle whatever she did what she had to do to make it legitimate but you're forgetting who told her who she stayed in contact with and who she was basically taking the taking care of with not only his money that she left her him with her with but also steals their money yeah but he ain't too Ross I'm gonna let you finish but I'm gonna drop in there that's where I get what I'm saying from because go watch the video with him and Mims he says what I said just not in that way he says Marjorie is a smart girl and Mercury knew what she was doing he said in a Natasha interview too but he he said and I didn't want to go so far as to say you know she got with the you know and I did the you know so I wanted to just kind of say she was smart at how she was moving because not until Steve married her did she several ties with him he said he said as soon as she got married she the day before or the day of it was like the wedding and he heard from her since because she said when Steve I can't talk to you no more and he talked they talk to her since and you know why because she like I got the money it's clean and I want them to move forward to my next venture because I'm gonna get some of his too I think it's the to me because I heard part of that interview I don't know if I heard the first half of it the second half of it I think it's still some dealings in there still I think that's um I could be wrong but my spirit tells me my spirit using ain't wrong I could not be wrong but my me there is still some I ain't saying they hoochie cooching that's not what I'm saying yeah just like she stopped calling him she did not she stopped talking to him sure enough but she still kept kept him in the things that he needed that's what I'm saying from what the stuff that I've heard and stuff so I'm saying that this could have been the overall plot and then now you all of a sudden you don't want this man book to come out okay Steve you don't want his book to come out Marjorie said nothing about this man's book why now I I think it's bigger it may not be I don't know I don't know nobody personally I'm just telling you what my gut says and usually my gut is right but it's bigger but baby I want her to get Steve I want her to take him for his drop and his socks [Laughter] when you said it you think there's still some feelings I was going to ask that question do you think and then you hit it there I said okay yes I believe you're absolutely right now let me ask you this um when it comes to uh and my mind just went completely blank um it was something you said and I said you you're on to oh when it comes to Steve's character when you was it you or was it Shan when y'all said something about something with Steve and I said I can I was thinking I can believe it because mirrors uh Shirley Strawberry with her husband is caught up and you know all that message he's caught up in and Steve was going to try to ease him out the country [Music] um you know clean up clean clean get that money clean or making sure that everything is clean for Marjorie right now and him being away with everything I can see that it's even I knew that because first and foremost because of how he is but even more so now with this whole um Shirley Strawberry mess with her husband him trying to ease him out the country and send him to one of his condos over in another country so that he can you know be reprimanded for what he's done so I I is even more so the way Steve says different things Steve is still in them streets increase the way he used to be in them streets allegedly and in my opinion oh I want to take y'all back when you say that PIN to work so I want to take it back remember and original uh original Kings of Comedy the um the version that they taped I believe they taped a lot over here but the guy when he took his jacket [Music] that guy right there Steve if you look at how Steve is backstage maneuvering things you can tell he's he deal with the streets oh no yeah the guy said he go to computer school that guy yeah okay yeah I can I'm done you can't tell the way he talks about and says things on his radio show baby he he's still in them streets yeah because he said don't let this suit fool you and I said I ain't gonna lie I just think he was just talking noise when I left it when I crossed cross off my list they gone forever once I'm done yeah yeah I feel you because I he he comes on every morning here and I used to win even when I went off work I used to wake up to watch him when I wasn't working I mean listen to him I don't listen to him no more he he rubbed me so wrong and it was before that Think Like a Man stuff started coming out he just it's just it just what he's saying and doing just don't seem right and I guess I'm right yeah who was it that he was mad at because 41 feet sorry he got mad at somebody because he couldn't get on the Oprah Winfrey Network that's when I knew he had lost out of his mind and that's when I started he's the opportunist too he's an opportunist yes because he wanted to get in with uh Oprah and um what's his name yeah he saw them laughing talking Oprah said Oprah was interviewing Steve and she and Oprah told him we'll be I'll be um when I'm done I'll be you know in our in our sub spot and our secret spot something and and Taylor and Tyler said oh okay and he was I want to be a part of the spot and I was like look at him salivating I was like and I was like oh you're so fake but I really believe I can I can take um Steve I do I understand thank you look remember I haven't seen you you better stop this circus [Laughter] did you wanna you got anything about Steve Harvey I just can't stand him and he can get everything that she does to him because that's his karma yep um yes and she look how much he's lost though you are he's barely holding on to what's in a Family Feud he he has lost a lot he's falling he's falling a lot yeah yeah uh talk show and some other deals that he had going on he was down bad he was like fourth slot I was like he was doing an accident I'm big on even if I don't like a person I'm gonna give him their props I may not care for you at all like you know what the girl looked good I can't stand her I want to drag her by her edges it's a girl is sharp you know I'm gonna give you a problem him at all his okay I'm back let me shut up I don't like him 41 41. some kids tapped me in takes off earrings and grabs the Vaseline yeah first of all I'm just text him that Vaseline to put on his lips I should have said that yes I should have so anyways I um I I don't like him but let's just keep it a buck the man can he can hold your attention on the talk show oh he can when I used to watch it I don't watch nothing he could have something I want it can be with they can say it's going to sustain your life for the next 10 years you must watch it I tap out and say you know what I take my chance I can't stand it I cannot stand that man but the thing again when I used to watch him he is very entertaining the man and I understood why they were giving him yeah I remember who he is but GG said her granddaughter did your granddaughter go as a guest on the show Gigi it was because they had a kids segment because you know yeah uh don't like him at all never did was cheated not cheated she said he would lie and she said he had very bad hygiene I'm listening not my words I have to believe it she did yep very bad hygiene she did and she and she said a lot of things that he would say my daddy told me when I was young she said oh that was a lie all of that stuff was like a lot and you I can't stand a person that's been there done that taste that smell that yeah every conversation now I would like to know what and why Miguel had that stuff in his back girl smart interesting kids on there okay did y'all don't know I just saw that at random I was like now if I had to see it y'all had to see it here's a judge shows yeah I tried to watch a couple of the judge shows but and the people is you know what wasn't even on Steve too much he do over act but I hate when the people over act like they like this is my big break I don't want to see that [Music] let me see what's going on wait a minute are y'all saying Steve got a judge show yeah yeah oh okay no I mean I won't be watching oh nice Gigi okay shoot Steve Harvey gave her granddaughter money I think oh wow well he had that you know he had that kid segment on his show on his talk oh yeah no those kids were out of those kids he had all the all those kids on there they were smart interesting those kids had stuff going on on his they they pulled up there that was nice with the kids yeah it was because I gave him money yeah I love him I watched I saw his viral video the little boy he got he can he he can spit them sermons though I'm like okay because I don't know my Bible that good sir um if I remember correctly his Papa Was a preacher and you could tell you it's Papa honey yeah because that's how I was he was preaching to his mama on his viral video you do he also had little James Tucker on there y'all know who Little James is Little James Brown his mama voice was annoying to me so I couldn't get into the legit's Tucker the mama his mama voice is so annoying not little James yeah I mean I love little James Tucker he was just on he on his his little James Tucker and he on Instagram and he on Tick Tock and he that little boy is a old soul if you ever seen one hmm oh her daughter her granddaughter wasn't one of the kids oh gosh okay GG but his show was good yeah whatever was good we have to go eat so I'm gonna drop down okay I see I do miss you friends come back questions how many days is it going to take for big Ari to go off after the trailer aired it's coming honey it's coming even if she been you know somebody been keeping the reins on her I guess but she ain't gonna be able to help herself for too much we gotta wait until she block him and then he goes to email and all that somebody said she said shut up but that might be why she can't go be going live and all that because her sister probably like in order for you to stay here you ain't showing the inside of my house to these people that find us you better stop it and she can't sit in the car she ain't got one that's true oh damn bad guy she down real bad in these streets and another woman that made it on the platform and it ain't her it ain't her and then even that like that yeah that girl walking from the room whether it was staged or not she gonna lose her mind yeah that is do you think she's hiding now I think somebody forced her to maybe hide a little bit but I don't think she is hot like I think her sister I think her sister who she's claiming her sister that I don't know if that's her real sister or not but I think her sister may have said um you might need to come chill and just let let everything because that if she has anybody who cares about her mama sister whoever if they saw any of that original Straight No Chaser mess right and the responses from the bloggers they should have told her to sit down because yeah if it ain't came it's coming so you need to just sit down and get it together I agree 416 415 said po Lil Ting Ting big I already can't do a car walk Chronicle well feeling she did say she was writing a book feeling she did say yeah that's what she told nay she said it's gonna be in her book y'all remember oh my God nay oh I said this girl gotta hate hearing her name right now she has that one hey I'm putting my book man yeah shout out to her I'm standing I'm like [Laughter] [Music] and that's what I've been saying too I've been saying natives NADA and I'm like yes y'all thought the lady named like this 10 videos I caught myself laughs 24 feet said shout out to original Straight No Chaser and they laid it all out yeah yeah original straight no chasing good on you for putting it out and then I go to Black Titanic for her to rent for the reenactment but somebody said that she put it out because she was just trying to see why a yeah I I even thought that too but I was like she's not doing a good job not well I'm saying Ariana's not doing a good job are you saying someone said that no no no I don't know I don't know because you gotta put you gotta put out there where you got all your information from that's true because at one point I thought she was she she was trying to appear like Mel was giving her information but now that she didn't did this now we know where her information was coming from yeah trout mouth I haven't seen it 41 fit the new reenactment from black Titanic I haven't seen oh I haven't seen it either I think she did it yet because this morning she went live this morning yes I was in there dang I had my head down there a lot of time oh man yeah cause she trying to get a name for her I think she said Debbie and Miss pinky she did I put in my boat as The Golden Girls they're gonna have a segment with just them I love it but they need a name so um I put the Golden Girls in okay okay they calling them the grandmas probably want that shin I know but that's what I was I just said what I was calling them but I mean they probably don't want that but I was calling them to Grandma's because I couldn't think of their names but yeah that's when they trying to get them a little name that's cute yeah I like that trending are you finished with your lips no I'm still going um with a nice afro or some locks man I'm trying to get them to a certain I'm getting I feel better about it because I was like if I can't get my shine that was gonna really make me mad or my lip creases I was getting kind of like all right now lip creases gotta go or it don't work if you can't but it's going okay so far I got to do the teeth you gotta finish the teeth then I'll probably be done after that yeah I don't know if I'm a job I put uh the new being across it because I'd have to find it set I I told Trinity right now I need him to help me match the font and I forgot to ask him again because I was gonna kind of like embed the letters new being on there but I wanted to match the font they already used like you did can you do a ring with Nubian on it I could but it ain't gonna match the font uh okay hold on GG okay got it got it GG thank you but Joyce said yuck mouth was talking trash about original Straight No Chaser at one point so in her opinion this this what's going on oh okay yeah you can't be talking junk about people when they got uh tea on you Piper hot tea for real yeah you can drag me through these streets I ain't saying nothing um seeing and she'll make no sense yeah oh go ahead but I was gonna just say they don't think ahead they think in the moment and that's why they be making all these bad decisions yeah and that just lends me to why that she has nobody really telling her anything because if you had people that were really in your corner and if whoever she's calling her sisters I'm I'm sure she's heard us say several times who do you have nobody is looking out for you yeah not even to pull your coattail or your edges about this fool right dragging you down like you could have done so much more with yourself but you didn't let him just pull you down right yeah but you know what Shannon you're right like you said a girl's girl someone like like you or me or something like one of us with some sense would listen but she's let me calm down see I'm about to get hyped she's not going to listen because she she let me be not I gotta keep this sensored she's not going to because her narcissism will always outweigh any if they're if she had if she owns any Common Sense which I really believe that she doesn't but if she did it will always I'll sh it will overshadow any of that because she thinks in her mind she and although at home behind all of this this mask that she wears you know the the you know the show the the show that we used that years and years ago that we watched the um Wizard of Oz you know the the Wizard he was behind the screen yeah he was and when he was exposed a little insecure huh 41 feet asked the question I said that's what I heard that she recorded Ari coleslaw years ago I heard that I never saw for myself but I've I've heard I heard the record and that was the recording where she was talking about Martel and she was talking about her friend but I thought it was another friend at the original Straight No Chaser had the recording but I thought it was just another friend she's not gonna listen to that we will no that girl ain't gonna listen to that only person she gonna listen to is my tail she's not gonna listen to that that's the way narcissists don't listen to reason if you're not telling them what they want to hear forget about it that's true and the bad thing is I think she knows knows it deep down but she's so deep she's right right yeah you said knows what can you expound on that when you say she knows what she knows that he's gonna hang her out to dry he's not gonna have her back he's he's gonna throw her under the bus if it's him or her it's definitely going to be her and um she knows that she knows that but she just like I said I think she's just in too deep and she don't know how to get herself out of it you know what I'm saying and some kids have you heard of the term uh sunken cost fallacy yes that's where Ariana is that's what she is yeah where you don't walk away thinking that you put so much into it that you've moved more about walking away but you actually would be better off to still walk away and take your loss basically yes yes but she he's so small but as long but she's going to continue to feed herself the lie just so that she can be able to she's got to do yes one day whatever her breaking point is I don't know no she's been in a prison cell probably and looking to the left and the right you know to the window to the wall and she gonna be saying like I literally could have stopped this you know she when you have to fit though if you don't want to sit down when you get sat down and you have no other choice but to you know come to terms in the reality I think that's when it'll hit her but it's going to be too late as long as listen when y'all study narcissism as long as male is alive but I don't think Ariane is a narcissist yes she is I don't think so I think that there are different types everybody has traits well not everybody but people have levels possibly but I think that there's a a more dominating something else going on with her I just don't in my brain that's not what I categorize her as I feel like brainwashed I feel like there's something else yeah you can say that over here but you can't say that nowhere else I'm gonna back you up so far on that one because how I see it more of the she from what they've been saying in the YouTube Street she's a product of the thing that she's in so if you're a product of something that's what you know and I'm not gonna blame I'm not blaming her mother I'm just saying you know what you are in and what you know yeah to change that behavior that's what you're gonna you're you're going to become what you know because you're going to do what you know she she's a for my man girl and and those girls don't necessarily to me scream narcissists in my opinion I guess I'm gonna have to stay over here and say that but look when if you watch them for my man episodes right they're desperate they're like they're trying to feel the boy they're trying to you know they're probably usually with a narcissist Mart Tiana is a narcissist but I usually those those people that do all that are not the narcissist you know she's not trying to she's not doing self-preservation at all in this this situation to me like because listen to the last video she still after she said how bad she's been treated what did she say s man he's really not a bad person wow so at this point in my mind like are you serious is like if this is really how you feel baby you need help yeah you need some serious help and at that moment that's when we all should arrange a prayer circle and rebuke that devil because at this point I'm I'm with um some kids and I'm gonna help her till she behind them bars like because it's nothing because at the end of the day regardless of what he does she's gonna spin the block and who she did and that confused the heck out of me in my mind because I know in my big old mind and my behave I ain't sticking around for none of that I don't care how old is she again oh 41. oh no she said her age on that 34. yeah she said I'm third I'm about to be 34 and she was I think she was working through it in her mind even though she didn't verbalize it that's why I said she knows it it's just that she's just in too deep I'm sorry come on go on do you think yeah one day she'll get clarity and then she'll nap on him she might snap either she gonna be in because well she gonna be in because of him one way or the other in my opinion right right because you're right did y'all peep her trying to speak nice on mail that took yeah what are you doing I'm like girl because that's when I'm saying that she was working it through her mind even though she wasn't verbalizing it but she was going in from how I seen it she was going through so many different emotions and she really was thinking because you know a lot of times when she pop out she's just talking talking but I could tell she was really trying to think about it yeah and I do think she meant that because she kind of probably do feel bad for the role that she played even though but she's just so childish and she don't she can't put everything together on her own right now but I really do think she meant that though I really do you know now that you guys are saying that that could be true I because of what how narcissists operate me being so empathic I know may be like oh give her a sucker and a hug I'm one adult now I sit back now and I watch and I always look behind everything because my thing is are you saying now this you guys could be spot on and I'm going to straddle the fence on this normally I'd be like I mean I'm sorry I'm gonna go ahead and straddle the fence on this because normally because of what I've been through I'd be like no I'm standing dead on the 10 toes down I'm gonna go ahead and straddle this but the reason why I'm saying this because I like it I'm sorry go ahead I want to hear what you think I appreciate that straddling it because you know oh and and here's why because you guys this is why I like this conversation this is a good dialogue because it's it's helping me to not to be so much of a staunch thinker on just one side anymore because what I've gone through because but here's the thing there's a chance when you guys say it for my man because I'm such a girls girl and I know how men can manipulate and how women can be so malleable in life and then too when it comes to the narcissism whenever a person when they're narcissists when their backs are up against the wall they can become start acting in a way to where women like us we always want to give them a patent on the back and say let's give it one more chance now she they're they can be good at manipulating love bombing because her back is up against the wall and I'm coming from the angle of narcissism on this one because her back is against the wall and what she's about to be reprimanded for and what she's facing all of a sudden nah we could you now you're about now we can hit some vowels and and everything now now we can handle sounds coming out of you practice mail was everything but the child of God right you gave him to you she did everything that you would not all of a sudden you talk you you got her kids and you own it on Beyonce's internet don't you know that make poking fun you got everything you know but now all of a sudden why because of what I've been through I'm a little bitter so help me bring me back because I I I I ain't spinning the block I done left and I ain't coming back so I'm gonna need y'all to help me so I need y'all to help me experience when it comes to her help me because this is a good balance help me serious the thing is I understand what you're saying though and I get what you're saying because I I have been this way since I started liking boys if a girl come up and she want a neck bad that she's about to tussle over him here you go honey I'm gonna exit stage left and I'm gonna be quiet as I do it so you can have them without all the rigmarole right and see the problem is most women and all of us in my mind I could see me beating her up for even calling me you know what I'm saying but I'm not gonna beat her up I'm gonna do you one thing good because I know he gonna beat you down yeah I said he gonna beat you down is he gonna tear you down like he's doing it you're gonna end up in jail man so I'm just gonna exit stage left and let y'all do y'all thing yeah and if he exits if he exit stage right instead of stage left with me bye but 9 10 out of ten after you exit after I exit I can't take you back because you're always gonna be that and but if you can live with being that come on and see the problem is Martel has set there and programmed this girl and did and he's programmed her to be exactly what he wants and she's gonna forever be there whenever he go from charay to the Houston girl to the DC girl to this girl to that girl because you know what he coming back here because he know I can get I can do things that his wife couldn't do he doesn't have a wife anymore sweetheart right even as though he doesn't have a wife anymore you should be that one you should really like you say you don't you you that beat right it should really be that b right now and you're not and if you didn't catch that and nobody told you because if she was my friend I'd be banging her head up against the wall and we couldn't talk no more after this because you can't come to me and say nothing about him because he did this to her now he's doing it to you and how long you gonna sit around and let him do it because you go through it yeah yeah yeah and so that's what I'm saying I was that friend I was that friend like if she if coleslaw was my and I used to never call her this but that's why I'm at this point after that that's this Revenge P I'm like oh no you better be glad I'm I'm only using that but at this point because of I was that playing that I would have been still faulting Marcel I'd have been like oh he's doing this he's doing that I'd have been trying to uh oh yeah and but now I'm at the point where I'm not I'm not cuddling you know stupidity and narcissism and all that mess anymore always point my finger at him because she has played a very big part in this and so not when it comes to narcissism it's like a fingerprint you have to find out is it narcissism what are the traits and it's not being you know finite a woman is pregnant just because she's sick don't mean she's pregnant if she sits gain weight they don't necessarily mean she's sick gain weight and something moving on her stomach okay now we're pregnant so that's how africanism is you know just because a person is doing this one thing and two things three four five or six okay we deal with narcissism so and then we got to figure out what type you got to find a fingerprint so when I was watching her what and I was like this girl she's giving up a lot of bells and whistles and uh and that's and every time Mel's name was mentioned and her compared to Mel she was excited but then all of a sudden she would become defiant and I was like what is he feeding her so when y'all mentioned about for my man I thought that it's perfect that's but that's that's genius that's it that's why I was saying earlier when you and I was talking Shan if a man goes to death dog his ex to me you're done you're you don't qualify I I want to know about you not your ex because three times to a story you're gonna start her side in the truth you get the dog to her about to me we're done because I'm next so whatever he was feeding her that's why she's so defiant and so it's coming back around full circle with this conversation and it's because you know right I'm like but this all thank you and I seriously I think thank you because it's helping me to become more balanced in this in this regard because I'm like she better hope I don't see her on the street because she won't be the only one in jail and that's why I said she's uh not here today but I'm saying in general she's still conscious of what she's doing which is why she yeah you need to be held accountable yes you know I just think her motivation and how the manipulation has happened is just a little different from yeah yeah I agree yes and I think people lose that fact of the fact that we're not trying to excuse her for anything no okay we see how she got where she is because at first I didn't want to hear nothing she said I'm married and if this she called me and my husband was sitting there he'd have caught that phone he had to pack up everything at that moment and be about my house and she just she I feel like at her age and I'm I'm assuming because the rumors are that like she pretty much was obsessed with paris's Dad and then he married his wife and dipped and was like leave us alone he'd be like you ain't gonna interfere with this so this is a pattern yeah I'm thinking she when she latches on because I would like to know and see this is where my brain always go to because I would like to know her relationship with her father like where is the man that they say yo mama was in the same thing with like you are Knox so where is the man who they say yo mama was in the same with and in my mind if I'm thinking like what I generally see in regular everyday situations is he when he went with his wife and she said I ain't got no kids and it is what it is I'm out here like Martel was planning to do now the minute mail let that drop out her mouth and he confirmed it you can't even speak to me or my child no more you better get a court order if you want to see this here baby because you will not he will never see that that you would have left him if she would have said okay um she don't have an identity I don't think she has her has an identity and she doesn't she was still he probably was still promising her the financial part because she didn't have her finances together if she probably knew who she was you know even not even if it was 100 halfway and had her own bag she probably would have chose that route but she was just too far gone I think too dependent I think it goes back all the way back Shan you hit some some points girl because going all the way back we are all products of our environment and when you mentioned her dad that is why she's so this is why she doesn't like the Eminem kids because they're getting what she always wanted for herself to begin with and then her son he's a constant reminder of what it is that she had to live with that's why she's fighting to make sure that he gets a spot the spotlight via social media via whatever the case is and being that he doesn't he's only got 200 followers and Eminem kids are constantly paraded throughout and we love them even though their faces can't be shown that is a constantly constant hit to her ego a constant hit to her childhood being constantly reminded of what she didn't have and what she probably would never be and what she was not what she did with her father and obviously what her mother did not put there because she she's a shell of a woman and the fact that her mother did not try to make up for what it is that she didn't have because of how she was she was brought here so it's just it's a vicious cycle it's a generational curse she's doing what her oh my goodness Chan so when is your book coming out my goodness girl I got a lot of stories I got a lot of stories and stuff that I see on a regular basis and the only reason why I know that kind of stuff is because when you go criminology and stuff like that that's the kind of stuff you look at you look at and after that saying we did our court reports and stuff like that for judges and different stuff you do in court and the factors you consider you consider that stuff yeah you know so it's it's like this is what I did forever so when usually and that's why I don't know if y'all hear me but every time something happened I'm like well why I'm always like well why like yeah everything that's my answer my answer for everything even if I really don't I want another why I'm not gonna pay for work and I know trending because I was but why yep but I don't get it and that take you down that rabbit hole exact that part because I didn't pull me off the rabbit holes now okay I was like girl I'm looking for this and I'm looking for that and I'll be like you know what maybe I should stop she like yeah don't do it because it's the why of things to me is always interesting because you can see it once you figure out the why of some things you see it later on and things and be like oh okay Shane when you said earlier about her dad and I've been there do you well I'm sure I don't even know why I'm gonna put this in question for him but to make sure I'm safe because y'all know what my mind is so I want y'all to bring me back now do you think because I don't want to all be about narcissism this is what I want to ask do you think that's why Marshalls Okay Okay Marshall that's why he he chose her because that's something he tapped in and it's something that he knew was missing and then I'm glad you answered that because 4150 said it in the chat she said and oh that's why I was going I was gonna break and mention it in there because she said that he picks these young girls and my word is that you know most people use it for teenagers and stuff like that Miss Professor Damita Joe I'm pretty sure she agrees with me this is gonna make some people probably mad when they hear it that's why it's my opinion not trending Shannon I don't want to break I want to cut you off man I don't want to put you off let me say this because I want you to expound on this because I'm loving what you're saying add this in there because I'm like put this in a question for me I want you to add this and then why you answer it it does she view him and like as a father figure is that why she does everything that he says because not only is she in love with him but she does everything that he says to make him happy as a father figure yes or no I don't want to touch it because I don't trust myself at this point go go on yes and I'm gonna give you an example remember when Carson said she said he's going to be mad at me I can't do you want to be mad at me oh my God who does that for kids and their parents oh he's mad at me if I say if I don't do it he's gonna be mad girl you you writing a book you're writing a book please you know what you're right you I have chill bump Shan because I don't trust my because I'm so mad and bitter about this because Mel is my girl I'm so I don't trust myself so that I'm like I'm tossing it to y'all you are I forgot about that I've never forgot about that she did say that um I'm sitting here with my mouth hanging open yep and see I I re and when I'm talking about these people I remember all that stuff I remember all that stuff yeah you in the legal system you have to remember details like that and I will say I've learned to Ask Shane why why do you mean that because then because I because I didn't come at you I didn't I didn't know you as necessarily contrarian Shane that's not anything but I have learned to I don't know like when I started asking you though why just so I could because most of the things I actually think I either agree with you or I'm like well we'll just have our differences but the asking you the why you you gotta always ask Shanna why because you know what information you can get from that so when I end up in jail for doing something I'm gonna say Shan why why and they give me my bell problems right before you do whatever it is thank you yeah in Atlanta somewhere in Huntsville I'm going to get triggered I'm gonna forget that it ain't my problems in a bid on black Titanic I'm yeah I'm gonna be on black people okay but go on but no but listen and all jokes aside that was a good that was good you correlating that was good I I totally forgot putting those details together I I because I'm speechless right now and you know what in the beginning I had to stop watching her lives because I started to feel sorry for her in the beginning but as much as she continues to go on I'm like this brother crazy yeah like that's why I go walking yeah she's really like to harm people for him yeah yeah definitely again remember what she said she said Tim wasn't in it I feel how I feel about it but at the end of the day you still was gonna do it I don't think you get a second chance you need to be sitting right next to him at the table in in the judge in the courtroom right next to him where they putting on this case you need to be right there right exactly because you did it too I'm just saying it is still chance for her soul to be redeemed because or as she sit at the table while she's getting her why Mel getting her justice for her future encounters is too right pretty much for anybody she's already yeah I love this balance here because like you said you there's still room for Grace on the other side but you you're gonna reap what you sow it's not gonna it's not coming off the table but afterwards there's some Grace but you getting your behind whipped here at the end you're gonna sit at the table in the courtroom his lawyer and your court appointed attorney yeah y'all court appointed attorneys well my Tails because we can tell that he's not good at picking out attorneys so he better get a court appointed they're going to be using her recordings and her messages and her all everything's gonna be on her yeah the best thing that she could do to save herself and if I was her friend I would have been walked her in the police station and said tell him yeah make a deal Make No Deal I ain't done yet but I'll be they'll be pulling me down I'll be sliding on the floor telling another thing as they're pulling me [Laughter] I'll be in Memphis and another thing is guess what else hold on I'll be bleeding trying to get better I'm at about 20 minutes out y'all cause I'm pretty much now just tweaking it's pretty much done at this point okay I'm tweaking so just let y'all know it's about 20 minutes out and then that way I can count down begins it's 8 40 well my time 8 40. what time is it Joyce what do you mean male uh Joyce what are you saying what's going on Joyce I don't think she's there poor baby oh y'all got me feeling I can't believe I'm saying poor baby I'm sorry baby all the time as I listen yeah I'm not saying I'm just giving her different profile that's all yeah at the end of the day we feel we all feel the same way like I feel like like I can I can arrest you and feel like you didn't done bad but say dang I'm gonna pray for you tonight homie and you you do better once you get out you know what I'm saying yeah when you do do time for what you did do better yeah I just thank y'all for helping me to look at that because I was meaning just once I mean I was like Fat Joe say lean back I was leaning back I'm not touching an apartment I don't I'm feeling bad I know no because I can't stand chicks like that but when you when you look at the whole when you look at it from that angle I can't help but to go oh my because I'm big on looking going back to Childhood just like and I refuse to look at her childhood and and to share how to go there and I'm like can I can I throw this in here too Mel has got everything under control oh yeah yeah this ain't even this ain't even about uh what Melody has to handle Joyce this is yeah yeah I just want to do I like profiling criminals yeah but it's just a beautiful way Sharon spent it and I'm going she not only is a legal eagle she got to have psychology involved in it now I'm feeling like Lord now I got to actually have a heartbeat for this child I didn't want it but it's there because when they know because when they go to prison they use what we do in court in prison so we have to give them the full picture in prison so they can do what they need to do in prison from what we gave what we got in court so that's what I look at so I don't know like it's just for me it always and because I came from a huge family a huge dysfunctional family like it's some everything going on in our family that I can see where certain people's children who was into this not their kids into that and it's like wow you know and back when you're going through it you don't think about it but now at this age like maybe 10 years ago I wouldn't be doing this but now at this age and because I primarily just look into things now I'm seeing like okay like dang they doing that because it is that gonna excuse what you did right they don't excuse what you did right but that's the starting place to get you help after you deal with your consequences right that means so many things you do have to meet people where they are and that's amazing and you know what I have never done a mess like this I've always been a girls I've always a God no matter how empathic I've always been man I God I have had people to do me wrong but a man like Jay-Z said and I'm talking just like I know these rap songs but I don't but Jay-Z said 99 problems but a ninja a Ninja ain't one okay I never had let a man disrespect me look at one guy just used the curse word in a sentence with me I didn't speak to him for two years don't don't do me okay I'm back and I had I got retriggered but anyways my thing is this I've Never Been In Her Shoes right so I can say that I feel that but at the same time I don't never want to be so rigid to where I don't want to be able to get close enough to say okay where you at what let me see you let me hear you you know because you never know I could be that way I'm no different from her I'm no better than her so I couldn't do that you know what I'm saying no no You Never Say Never I pray God knows I pray I'll never be there but you never say never I could meet that guy and I would want somebody to see me and hear me too if if that's a big F that ever should ever happen to me he strike me as the type of person that would surround yourself with people that would shake you if you met that person and be like of course yeah before it's too late because you yeah yeah I'm around quality picked a few people I deal with are very quality and I would like to think that I would listen um but I just I don't never want to be that chick to where I look at people and look down on them say whatever it's just whatever throw it to the Wolves I don't want to be that chick that's why I appreciate you all bringing this looking at bringing that slant to the table I I value that I do okay but I just want to be clear that if the Wolves is the law I still want to be thrown to the woods oh yes yes but I don't think the Wolves is the law though I think he's a wolf I was going to ask you this y'all everybody that's up here in the chat okay so do y'all think I think Martel is like okay you know how you uh have you ever seen someone they they say Throw spaghetti at the ceiling and see if it's done because if your stick is done because I cannot give Martian a credit on being smart that's not what I'm saying right you think he probably hollers at a hundred girls and then the ones that stick that's how he then knows who to latch onto because they stuck the other ones was like you know walking away like I read like that red flag I believe that that's what that's what's up that's what some kids describe that's that's basically that's the narcissistic trait right yeah yeah he touched the waters he tested water yes he know I think he knows where what his shortfalls are he know his capabilities you know and he he looks for people with the exception of coleslaw I feel like he looks for people that he could use the things that he Lacks to help him Elevate you know what I mean so yep one trick pony yeah and just whoever Falls for that trick yeah yeah yes and then you know you got the picnics that's forwarding on the day in the inbox on the day in the DM that's true you know get the pick means um nobody being in his DMS though aren't they seriously that's what's crazy honey in these groups honey I just had to win I just had to back one down I'm in the group on Facebook and she said that he was good for TV I'm like what has he done like no response [Music] and I'm gonna tell you one thing that I found too in in the trailer when he's yelling that scared me I got nothing wrong that's what I said I said what has he done but changed the pitch of his voice wear them suits like Starkey said smiling up other than that what what else has he done nothing he one step away from needing these handcuffs he two seconds from needing a handcuffs right at that moment because to me he's escalating like I don't know about nobody else but from what I'm saying seriously that's why like even when I'm reviewing like dang I I can't even just think of him as a fool because he he's actually in my opinion dangerous he looked in distress he was pissed he when he was yelling at um nail which I think he should yell at her ass but oh my God you know like now listen okay just to finish up this machine he really was in a he he he left his body he wasn't having an out-of-body experience and because sir why are you that mad and his energy rubbed off on nail and she yelling back at her like a fool girl if you don't go up in your house and see the thing that made me nervous was I've heard that before right before oh go left oh real left and it's like oh cause he still believes his lies that's dangerous yeah that his pitch if y'all listen yeah I'm pretty sure y'all gonna see that trailer his tone just got to evil that's what I call it Vanessa he was doing that um high pitch whatever you want to call it yeah tone that he was using yeah that's what it felt like that's what it felt like that is exactly what it felt like it is their masks are snatched off and his mask YouTubers have exposed him in a way they hate to be exposed and every time he hears that his truth comes out that comes out on these YouTube streets that meant y'all have no idea what he morphs into behind closed doors and so what they what you are what we all see on on the show that is nothing they're they're actually they're added heavily editing that show right right right trust me that's true because he went crazy behind the set of the reunion that's crazy oh really yeah yeah I heard that yeah yeah yeah it's definitely because remember we was all wondering why Carlos was crying and Mel was yeah we all like what's she crying for him it didn't come to find out it got leaked out there he was cutting up at the reunion that's why she was into she she probably was nervous and a little scared because y'all letting this man come back out here after he's right like here like come on up and when she said that he risked the one basically stream of income that he had cause she knows he loses that he really more unstable because he has nothing going for himself to focus on and that's true he doesn't he he and he's he's spiraling out of control and he's trying to he's grasping for straws to try to continue to appear to be something and everybody knows that he's not he sees it but whatever he tells himself that is good enough to get by so he'll put it he'll pitch it to try to make make the world like you said um Tran here toss it to see if it sticks yeah yeah and then the YouTubers are debunking and so and he's spiraling out of control and I'm telling you this is not they need to well they're not going to do it because it's all for TV and Carlos does not like black women right just like funky does not like black women just like T.S Madison does not like black one y'all see the coordination they don't like black women and so because of that I haven't gone over there to see what tears medicine says I'm gonna keep it at let's not cool okay this but I did address the funky diniva thing oh okay okay well I'll retract that let's just say a legend and so um it's all for if well when you when you watch it you'll see what I'm talking about it's all for showmanships for TV for just to be able to get their name out there and all that just add the black woman's expense and my biggest fear and just let your mind go there just let your mind go one while and I'm gonna leave it at that when it's true we've all at least been that's why we're all glad she has security I know security is not 100 but we're probably playing because I think we've all you know like we see it we're waiting on the people that can make a difference about us see it because we've all seen it like yeah and that is always they don't and it's just that's scary but what is that yacht that show with the uh the the young forget the name of that show with the the young ones with the that works on the Piat beloved yeah it used to how they manufacture I mean you know how they made sure all that was taken care of when that young lady yep you see how they protect them yep no enough said wait a minute that was production that stepped in too I just want to keep pointing that out production stepped in first and then later Captain uh zashawn what's his name not Captain Sean Captain I can't remember his name now but he you know of course he let him go and stuff but production physically stepped in first what happened oh oh baby hold on let me see if I can get it baby is it below deck the yacht yeah yeah yeah it's a little reality show on Bravo not little it has a lot of spin-offs now I looked at it but I haven't seen it in a while yes let me see if I can find there was an incident and I'm trying to see if I could just find the clip you know they everything's copyright but I had I had put my little filter over it so I'm trying to find that to see if I can show you but yeah was it with the black girl no okay good okay all right are you thinking about to me but y'all can keep going I'ma look for this clip I'm gonna look for it that's what I was just saying I wanted to just say that how the difference in how that is done and and my thing is they did an excellent job as they should have right they didn't you have this over here and not just this particular show but they're constantly they're steadily coming up coming up with these shows pitching these shows yeah it's the same difference the same thing I agree and it just thickens me and I I think about that quite a bit I do when it comes to mail with that I I but I just I I just miss it you know once my mind go there I just heard for dismiss it yeah I'm able to hear Luther Vandross the way I had to play them did y'all still hear him no no like hours ago no you know no we are yeah jingle okay yeah because I'm gonna have to get it that way for this one when Bill left him it uh took off the covering or Veil yep right that's the Band-Aid off yep mm-hmm because it exposed that he didn't know how to count spell yeah it just you know it showed that he needed betterhelp.com it just it shows it exposed everything hilarious and I'm sorry he didn't deserve mail I I'm I know she's been through a lot you know since the divorce but he didn't deserve her I'm sorry I know it's a shame he broke up his family I feel the opposite he didn't deserve her but the beautiful person that she was she just she was she she was she saw something that never it never manifested as he as she says right and here you come with that that old ring and that what I would call it a tarnish ring uh and and the seaweed that those want flowers that was seaweed right you can't even spell it oh you know what let me just get to the clip of where he did it but yeah this is what what happened you'll it's a filter over it because you know how they do with copyright but okay just to set it up they all party below deck that's what they do the crew parties right they drink a lot that's what they do they consensually hook up well this time one of the crew just went naked into a girl's room that did not ask him to come over and the production stepped in again so who's the person that's hitting open that door and flicking on the light is a production person okay and I was saying this is to me what Carlos should be doing on loving marriage Huntsville but okay so I mean more than that at this point but you know what I mean actually stepping in for real for real okay let me turn my volume up here y'all go see you later bye [Music] on the shore what's up guys nothing switching the shore power yeah the whole boat's trip [Music] okay [Music] there we go [Music] thank you very much thank you very much I gotta get you out of here because she wants to go to bed Hey look yeah wow [Music] for a second um [Music] do that we can't do that we can't do that I don't know oh my goodness yeah wow I'm telling you but yeah that's why yeah disgusting yep yeah it sounds like she was so inebriated she couldn't even she was like yeah cause I think she went she was knocked out they had still they were still partying so she was probably I don't know if she was waking up to see her she was trying to you know someone's just trying to stay calm but all I know is that girl did not ask that boy to come back to her room naked right fail behind yeah so I was just like that's what I just be think I'm just thinking like I have their shortcomings too but I'm just saying I I saw a real example of how you should be stepping in to protect anybody that's part of that cast you know what I mean but you see how he tried to set it up with Destiny the con you know in their interview where he was kind of like I guess eluding or whatever that they try to protect each other and he doesn't always know what's going on or whatever but yeah like stop no yeah and I did definitely see how he set that up Destiny's whole interview was to set Carlos up to look like he still liked Melody to me and because she was like you know you have your favorites and I'm like Destiny he is setting you up but you so you so gone I don't even know I don't feel bad for you for not getting it but this was right interview for her it was useless for her but he just wanted to clear his name that he didn't fire her yep exactly yeah has a good relationship with you know her and and that they hide things from him that's the only thing I got out of that interview girl that's it that was Jazzy J that was a show called below deck it's a Bravo reality show um and the crew is who's followed on that show so all the the deck hands and the they call them the stews like stewardess they um follow them and they party a lot that that is what they do on their off nice day party and that guy was non-consensually going into that girl's bed he probably would have reflection stepped in and he did get fired and that girl got fired too the one I don't know if she turned the power off and made it look like a power outage because I feel like they had a little little plan going like and I'm like what kind of woman helps a dude do that but she got fired too that other girl that was in the hallway not the one that went to go check on her but the one that was like the powers out or something she was saying she was in the hallway um she got fired too good wow yep yep yep that's just like I haven't watched this season Jason I feel like his name is Captain Jason it's below deck uh is it down under which one is that but yeah because they're awesome it was Australia New Zealand yeah down under thank you Professor Damita Joe yep because I used to I'd be watching Olive I just catch up on them late but I'll be watching all of them me too yeah it's a little addictive but that was just a and that's not normal they haven't had moments like that that's it was very significant to see that um they usually are just you know they they hook up on the show like that's what they do but again consensually right yep okay I guess last round of everything so y'all I I thought I was gonna have more Glitz and Glam for this one but this is the the lips for this one um those are really nice so I like that me too yeah for the final final I'll see if Trinity right now can help me put Nubian on the actual lips like just it'll be it'll be just like embossed or embedded in there but I just want to put Nubian on the lips oh and you're gonna show it to us I like them yeah I'll try to post a final and um the final will be the one that's available to download but I'll definitely still post a final on the community tab too yeah the middle I like that stripe me too thank you you're supposed to be my little uh a little shine marks because I like the glockey green is my favorite but my absolute favorite color number one favorite color my first I think woman that said green favorite then then there's pink yellow green all that I told you yes green is my absolute favorite that is so cute well thank you I had I'm glad well you know I'm uh catch most of y'all back over at Chit Chat probably but okay y'all go ahead go ahead get your last word I know I just want to say thank you for seriously and thank you thank you all collectively for helping me to see look at how because I was just way way way to the left y'all brought me you know that back to the middle in terms of the whole Aryan thing because if it were me I truly honestly I would want someone to stop and say okay look that's just my favorite um and and even though I'm Still rocking out with mail you know but at the same time being balanced thank you all for this conversation because prior to that uh I had my brass knuckles on so other than that um yeah but this was a good dialogue you all really readjusting me I'm dead serious because I was standing dead on how I was feeling ten toes down but this I really needed that Readjustment seriously thank you thank thank you thank you thank y'all for making it balance I will say this some things that's not gonna be balanced it's how when that woman came up on Black Titanic and couldn't offer any specific examples it's not gonna be balanced if I get somebody like that I'm probably going to say I think you made it to the wrong part of the channels because it's just not that's we can't have a conversation if you can't get specifics when it comes to something that deep so we could be better and she made no sense though nothing she said made sense nothing that was just an opinion you come with just an opinion and you just standing just standing blinking that come on defend people that have we have receipts on how a legendary criminal they are like it's really weird I missed that one oh but I did I did keep uh she did come back around okay but I it just made it I get upset when people say you throw rocks and hide your hand okay so what rocks did I throw just just tell me which rocks are through because if I threw the Rocks you got moved that something was thrown what was strong right because at this point you found out I threw the rock so please specifically name The Rock IES um I would like to back up what Sunkist said like I like to be able to explain how I feel or how I think because everybody don't think like me most of my friends though and I say it all the time a lot of people don't agree with me but we can agree that I have my own how I come to conclusion and you have yours right so I'm not necessarily here to change how you think I'm just sharing with you what I'm thinking right that's it you just agree to disagree and that's that's what I'm talking you can that's this is grown with a conversation everybody can't sit with them so it is what it is and I appreciate y'all for even letting me do that because 99 out of 10 that's why I only come here and two other places because people and then what other place that I went to I don't know if I'm gonna go back because they wouldn't let me finish my sentence so if you can't finish let me finish what I'm saying I don't know if I'm gonna do this again with you because I mean I respect what you say and I'm giving it all that but I'm not I'm probably gonna do this again with you and I have no ill will feelings towards anybody I'm just not gonna do this like why would I put my again like area why would I put myself in that situation again I'm good it only takes one time for me boo-boo yeah and I mean I'm just like okay because I can share how I feel and why I feel that way but if you you just so steadfast in the fact that you don't want I'm asking you to change I'm not asking you to make a different adjustment to how you feel how you think I'm just explaining how I feel and I'm the type of person that always why and I want that understanding regardless of what I agree with it or not right y'all I mean I can't be on here talking how I talk when I'm on the phone with somebody and they tell me why and I'll be like that just ain't good enough you know no but you know it is what it is we here having conversation we ain't here for me to really be involved in somebody's life like that I'm right here for conversation can I say this much I'm glad that you stand ten toes down on how you feel if that's truly how you feel because look how much you've helped us to grow just in this one conversation and then we help each other to grow you no I'm you have no idea what you've done for me anyway I'm dead serious you helped me to look at it from another angle that it's not always bad to have a different different slant on a different thought process on a certain situation it brings growth so when it comes to being on people's channels and pedals because I don't do toxicity and it was two times I had to go off on somebody's Channel and I unsubscribe and I look back I'm just like um um live laugh love once I once I'm done you're considered to be on on on song that you're done yeah I'm done I'm not coming back because I don't do toxicity so it it just because you have your com your your mindset that is not always a bad thing to have a to disagree and not be disagreeable you don't it's there's two different is it two different it's two different ways to look at that so I think it's good that you that you you came with your your your mindset and where you spent it I was like well shut the front door so I think you need to keep them I think you need to stay there what you have because it comes from your field you what where I mean what you what you did is for a living and and I think you need to step step with that stick with it I'm just not gonna go back there with it right right that's me all day long my husband all the time be like just stop just know but I'm just that's me I'm me I'm just sticking with me but I'm just not gonna go there because and look and um it just it could have went left but it did it and I won't go back out because I just can't I I just I just can't use myself for that and it was really of no personal consequences I'm out I think I said she can leave for now oh okay I'm just I just thank you is that you yeah yeah okay okay go ahead whoever was next I'm sorry I'll be next okay go ahead this is my second time on this panel and I I appreciate you allowing me to get on the panel I've never been at anybody else's panel but yours because because I feel safe oh so thank you so much I love you guys oh we love you too we appreciate you Professor Anita Baker DaVita Joe I do appreciate and this one discussion great yeah I enjoyed y'all I enjoyed it too that's why it's best to be supportive there's a difference in fact when you follow someone you follow someone you have to have one mindset whatever that person's channel is like he was saying Shannon you have to follow what they say and what they think and feel or either it's going to be combative but you um what I appreciate about training allow us to support her Channel so she allow us to have to be free thinkers and that's why not only Demeter Joe with you I appreciate you saying you feel safe because when you say that I see which I feel that same sentiment because I feel safe too and because Trina allowed us to be able to be free thinkers and you know Shannon all of us that have been up here any of us that have been up here we've been able to say what we need to say and it's been a safe space um and we've been able to embrace that um instead of just being just followers it's almost like a cult either you think the way I think and feel the way I feel or either you're going to be ostracized for and I I value that I do yeah and I think um with with that being I think that was a kiss that's where some of the people that aren't millimeters that's kind of where they I feel like they feel that way like oh it's they only think this way or they only feel this way or you know whatever and we're I'm we're all here are millimeters but we like you said we're free thinkers we're critical thinkers and I do if y'all listen to my channel y'all already know I'll be like well I think this is what that person's trying to say or you know whatever I kind of like to look at the big picture and then try to take pieces from there the say how articulate how I actually feel about it but I think that kind of I guess what I'm trying to say is I guess that's kind of where some of the people that aren't mailing me this kind of feel because they listen to those panels and they're getting it from those panels in it's not that way if all the way around the board right you have to come with something reasonable though like that's all like don't come saying like martel's good TV and okay well he's dangerous like yeah like I need be reasonable but come with some reasonable but yeah overall No One's Gonna bite your head off but just you know within reason though because I like I said my limit was where black Titanic was too with that one woman I was like this doesn't make any sense so I'm just uh yeah so within reason when they say he's good TV what attacking and abusive I mean I mean doing attacking women they just dropped it like oh he's star power he's good TV and I'm like what you know that's it no follow-up like trending saying no follow-up no examples or you know any of that yeah wow wow [Music] she does really good I have not watched the show but I want to watch it because of her you're a second person told me that they're like I'm not sure I like it I binge watch every season I can't watch and wait for the next week it just happened just and so I'm way I wait to the last two episodes to drop or when I know they gonna drop like that next day or something and then I just that whole day I just boom watch it and sometimes it takes me a coat one time I watched overnight and mine was like what is she doing it was just Christian Keyes is my God okay yeah baby yeah he is from my area and that's my guy so whenever he is something I always check it out give it a chance okay man it's good because and like the legal aspect of how she run everything like she's street she hood and Eva is playing I would have never seen her in a row like that like even doing her thing yeah it's turned up this evening it's a lot of undercover police officers over there girl okay I can't wait because I've been listening to some of the reviews then I stopped like no don't do it because I need to watch it and just see everything well I'll let okay y'all I'ma let y'all go I enjoy all right and everybody on the panel thank you so much okay I enjoyed it ladies I'll talk to yourself good night everyone good night thank you okay y'all we are done for the night I'll play our music on the way out thank you for lasting with me and I'll have the picture posted on the community uh Community tab within tomorrow or the or Monday and then of course the download will be available for the members but thank y'all so much thank you 4150 for holding it down down there too yeah Ruthie I enjoyed you bye Jazzy J for life thank y'all all right y'all I'll see you soon bye [Music] right here [Music] cause everybody [Music] foreign [Music] oh oh oh oh oh oh 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