what's with all the marks on you you got some good marks I know I know okay so was was that from her yeah get the get the I you here right here some victims find themselves at the mercy of their insane partner but what happens when the cops intervene to protect them from harm turn around turn around turn around put your back I swear dude you guys are so I want to go I want to go here are several situations when cops have had to rescue victims from their psycho girlfriends signing with the case of this woman who slapped an officer after assuming he was her husband looked like she wasn't even taking care of my baby you know um she was like I said she was passed on the couch get the TR the I thought you Polie officer I need my St [Music] no on the 19th of May 2023 police officers responded to the call of a man who claimed his girlfriend wouldn't allow him the custody of their child when the officers arrived the man claimed that his wife had been nonchalant when dealing with their baby and also made other comments that made the officers want to dig in more into the situation to see if they could help I don't know how long she's been drinking for but she's been drinking I got off of work she was passed out on the couch I I had to come went through the back door and she was just passed down on the couch we started getting into getting into argument because of how everything was because she's texting someone's gonna talk to you next okay we've been for the past couple weeks some of the reports if they brought up the whole history but um I mean I she's been trying to live here we've been you know trying to you know coexist together but it's is not able to happen anymore you know yeah um I mean like I said the what what had happened today is that I got she she was drinking um I got home she wouldn't to the front door so like I said had to go to the back she was passed on the couch my daughter was in was in her play pen but um the the whole house was M you know looked like she wasn't even taking care of my baby you know um she was like I said she was ped on the couch but anyway she's she's just been she's just been really really you know violent with me just yelling at me ever since I found what she what I found on her phone you know I got I got mad to the point I I paid through the phone having heard from the young man the officer tried to get some information from the wife later identified as Leah but she chose to not make things easy it's officer Hernandez spoke to you last time been like that's been the whole problem since like the first time you guys got call here like a couple weeks back you know like we've been trying to work so when I tell you you guys years what happen I can't I can't I'm done with you per real what every time you guys come there's nothing done like I'm so tired of you guys what do you want me to do you guys are my house you want me to get out you don't want me to be in here anymore please I'm hurt I'm hurting you so bad Leah you want get out of my house please get out no you why get out why do you want because the father of my child keeps cheating on me with co-workers at his work I can't he goes to work every day he makes a schedule I can't okay I can't what do you want me to do though I'm really going to don't leave please leave please leave I can't I've been going crazy since 24th you guys have been get the house get the house all right thank you Leo when the supervisor discovered that Leah was not Co cooperating with the officer he had dispatched because she alleged that the officer had failed to provide the necessary assistance he chose to speak with her directly to understand her perspective however the state in which he found her made him doubt her ability to be an appropriate Guardian for the child can I talk to you you want you want another officer please please come and talk to me nicely please I'm pretty please okay look you've come here a few times yes please I love you you come here a few times come can come yes you can but I need you to understand me okay I I'll understand you speak to me B please shut the door I don't I don't want I want so yeah he's been I'm drunk I'm sorry I know I drink it happens all right we all have those times Dia I need you to listen to me okay I'm here to help you out okay I don't feel like you're here help me out I don't feel like I feel like you're just here to look what he did to my phone look what he did to my phone when did he do this he broke it right now I can't talk to anybody how' you break it he slammed it on the floor and it's yours it's my phone you bought it I mean he pays for it and Sh but okay I I want to tell you something right now tell me he's cheating on me he goes to work every day he makes the schedule the cheating on me with works with him every single day I can't I I'm sorry I really wish I could do more for you okay but I really wish you could do more for me too because I'm hurting I wish I could in my in my head okay I hate being here I'm only here for my little daughter she need me Angel works every day 9 hours a day my daughter is the only one I know she needs me but I have a hard time being here for her Miss Leo how do you spell your name again Leah how do you spell your name again please let me talk I hate when you I hate when you guys come over here I have we've been together for 9 years 6 years he's been abusing me 6 years I never because the cops always make [ __ ] worse okay did he touch you today where did he he has he has a warrant too okay where where did he touch you at what did he do he pushed me where I just don't want him getting arrested after all his done he's cheating on me still I don't want where did he where did he kiss you at my shoulder look I need you to explain to me what happened right now so I could he caught me he caught me texting somebody else okay that other man makes me feel nothing like he makes me feel he hates it that makes me feel that man makes me feel complete he's another he's in another state okay I don't I don't want to be listened I don't I want to make sure I'm not being listened to CU I'll really get beat when you guys leave I'll get beat so can you talk to me about today can you please look out the door and make sure he's not here my partners I with him out in the front yard she attempted to explain what had happened in a frantic way that raised the officers concerns about her well-being and prompted them to consider how they might assist however her subsequent actions made them realize that they were dealing with the actual abuse Le I need to know what he did today physically to you okay he hit me but what today what did he do specifically yes he hits me every single time we get physical he hits me where where does he hit you I we fight back I literally fight back I don't care I don't care what he says okay where does he where did he hit you at on my face everywhere on my head did he hit you in your face no did he just pushed you that's it he just he just shoved me around because I was texting somebody else but it doesn't it doesn't matter where in the house did he show you right here in the Liv room right here where do you have injuries at I don't have injuries wish I did I had injuries on my body a week ago all up here all up and down can I see the back your back I don't call you guys only him only he does can I see you know how to call though you want us to help you I don't call you guys cuz I don't want to be a okay Leah I need to see your back can I please see your back I don't have anything I'm telling you turn look at the wall like my my my brist is right here make sure okay your wrist what let me see your wrist M what about your wrist my wrist my whole arm was like literally broken for three weeks so can you tell me the whole story today so he caught you you texting another guy and argu no no no no okay then please stop okay tell me I can't even breathe okay what do you guys even hear I'll let you breathe okay you guys literally make guys you don't know what it is Le if I leave today you just act like cars but this is real Leah if I leave today are you going to yes I hurt 258 not 247 258 I hurt constantly constantly I'm sorry Leo look I really wish there's more I to do but thank you I really do appreci I'm trying to help you out to see where you hit you today that way I could do something about what's going on I've been hospitals for a week nothing has help me other than him pushing you that that's all he did can I tell you look what he did to my my phone today he broke my phone what time same time you guys were arguing after you guys found out you guys were cheating on each other okay he was cheating on me he's been cheating on me I know officer I have not been chill okay give me one second please believe me I believe you believe me cuz I'm crying so much but please I need somebody I'm here to help you out I'm trying to help you he okay I can't press charges officer is your phone did you buy it no it pays for my it pays for my phone I can't press charges get the CH get the CH I I thought you were my boyfriend you look at my boyfriend as things unfolded she began to realize that assaulting a law enforcement officer was not the best of ideas she had crossed all reasonable boundaries and was now going to pay the price please officer I need my daughter I need my daughter she's the only person I have officer no stand up stand up come on youing my stand up stand up my daughter I want to kiss my daughter stand up come on if you stand up and be cooperative us we'll see what we can do right now right now you got to stand up let me kiss my daughter guys let go of me let go of my wrist just for a second please please I'm right here I'm I'm arrested please let me get let me give my daughter want let meiss my you let me kiss my daughter please I'll let you guys go let me just kiss my daughter I'll I'll I'll walk I'll walk I'll walk I'll walk let me let me get up let me get up let me get up let me get up okay get up actually if you can just ch over there I don't want to see please help me 1 2 three let me help come on make it up CU I have stick leg up ready 1 2 three we go can you let me kiss my daughter we'll talk about that right now let me kiss my daughter please let me kiss my daughter she my world my officer listen to me please I want this police officer listen to me I want this go inside Leah go inside come on please we're talking you have listened to me before but this officer has never been here I know he's never here I I want to believe I want to just let me talk to him please I'll P calm down okay I'm trying to calm down okay I'll keep the door like this you I'm trying to calm down but you always don't listen to me you only listen you only listen to the man and that's pisses me off we're about to be done why do you guys only listen to the why as a woman who's been threatened by multiple men why do you cops only listen to the answer me right now why only is to men the reason you're under arrest is because too you don't know what this man has put me through while her partner did not press charges against Leah she was charged with assault on a police officer next we go to a case where a woman assaulted her boyfriend for trying to let her know that she was not taking proper care of their baby she tried to attack this was the first time but it's not on video but she tried to attack me and I went like that I flinched you have to FL your hands on your back no I need to call my sister to get my baby please turn around turn around BR it back I swear dude you guys are so on the 28th of May 2023 police officers responded to a call following a call from a man who claimed that his wife was putting his child's life in danger his concern was that his wife must have given their baby food causing an allergy when the cops arrived at the residence and began to interrogate him they realized that they had to look deeply into the situation to see how they could help I was like well what did he eat ask cream she goes like squashing hazelnut some type of nut I I don't know what kind of I never heard of the nut's name so I was like oh well that's probably I was like it's probably because of that nut and she goes it's not a nut and I'm like what like so that's when it [ __ ] twisted right there cuz I guess she thinks CU like I don't know because the music was playing but I was talking regular but I guess she took it like I was being like like aggressive towards her or something so she like sideways she it's not a nut and I'm like okay like what the and after that uh I was like dude why you going to get she's like why are you doing that I was like why am I doing what why you going to get all mad over cuz I say it's not a nut I was like you know so we start going back forth right here right right I'm in the kitchen still she's right there I get my food when I noticed she's not going to stop cuz she always wants to have the last word when I Noti she's not going to stop I just get my food cuz I don't want my daughter's my daughter she was she you know I don't want them here so I'm going I get my food I go to the back room right here in this room um I you know after that that's when I'm going to start eating my food and she's just she's on the uh she ends up calling someone on the phone she's talking a whole bunch of crap whole bunch of crap and like I'm telling her she's telling them like everything like the whole situation I was like yo like uh I was like tell this about uh not before she started hitting me but uh tell the tell it right like if you're to whoever you're telling them to like don't make me look bad tell so I have it I'll record I knew like I started recording once she uh once I knew she wasn't going to stop cuz she just shut the how she's going to end up hi going south you know so I like I always I've been recording and recording and this is just one of those incidents where I CAU I got this one on tape um I have other ones too but not where she hits me but anyways um and like I guess she like gets pissed off like cuz she's the phone she called me back to the room telling me like she can't be on the phone cuz uh I'm over here saying I'm talking to my daughters about her that's another thing that brought her to the room like cuz she was back and forth to the to her room and the girls room but after she was in the living room then she wants to stay following me and gets closer then she goes to the so I tried closing the door and she don't CL [ __ ] just going off talking a whole bunch of from my girls you know I'm like dude you're talking about you over here acting showing my girls how to you know but anyways um after uh like uh like you know when I'm telling you tell story right uh like some eventually something triggered there I have to hear what I said but something triggered her that I said that she [ __ ] she uh no no well I did that I have it on video that part but she attacked me before she came into the room um and I uh she tried to attack this is the first time but it's not on video but she tried to attack me and I went like that I flinched you know and I I I'm not I didn't swing I flinched I put my elbow up and she I don't know which arm she hit me with but uh she hit she I felt to hit me good you know with her swing and impact against my elbow I felt it anyways that was that and she swung she swung at me twice but she only hit me once okay but she didn't hear me like anyway just on my ALB anyways uh can I see it did you like bruise or anything like that no I sure there's a bite marker on my back though like the officer wanted to take a picture the man presented video evidence of the assault to the officers and while at it another officer goes in to hear his partner side of the story like most abusive Partners in a bid to avoid getting into serious trouble she tried to paint herself as the victim but somehow while busy playing the victim card she didn't know that she was unknowingly making statements that showed the cops that she was the actual abuser how you doing I've been better honestly is there anybody in the bathroom right now no is anyone else in the house besides him outside no okay just you two uh-huh okay are you able to no this is my witness as she was on the phone the whole time okay hearing everything all right I just want to get some basic information off you uh first off do you need medical attention or anything like that no I don't think so okay just go and tell me what happened so it all started because I was eating I had made a sof food the girls were playing in the room and I tell this people that my daughter had H my son had hided from whatever he was feeding him and he's like well what what was I feeding him I said butternut squash and he like he I'm a damn idiot oh no that's probably why that's literally what started it it's like talk to me like that like what is your problem so the whole time I'm sitting in the living room he's walking back and forth between the room checking on the girls and the living room talking to me okay the person I have on the phone heard me telling him leave me leave me alone shut up leave me let me talk let me have my conversation leave me no he wants to go and start literally like talking about me to those kids one of them is my daughter okay so I'm telling him dude like shut the how hard is it to just shut yeah why do you have to say anothering me when I'm actually calm mhm because that's what he likes to do he likes to provoke me when I'm calm and I'm Collective telling him just shut up and leave me alone dude St that just see me but then when I lose my sh and I pop the so he wants to oh let me just call the cops let me record her because to the way he's treating me okay the minute I told him D just get your sh get your daughter get the that's when he wants to start screaming at me I'm on the phone the whole time he doesn't know that he starts at me like what am I supposed to do when I'm sitting here trying to talk to my sister trying to calm down and he's from the other room so obviously I the go to my doorway and I'm telling him dude shut the find your business leave me alone if I want to call my sister and B to her I can do that leave me alone he gets up and his like oh am I screaming at you now he didn't know I was on the phone still am I screaming at you now his bit literally landed in my cuz he's in my face in the doorway just how he's standing I was in the doorway and he's screaming at me getting in my so I mushed his face and I said do away from me be me the he goes in the room oh you know what I have this all on camera I said go ahead dude then it's going to have on camera when you're sitting here screaming at me from the other side of the house even when I come in my room I'm trying to come talking SH now he thinks he going to scare me when all it's going to show is himing provoking me anytime I try to calm myself down and deescalate the situation there he goes talking on me got you so yeah I went in there and I'm like dude what is wrong with you leave me the how hard is it to just shut yeah and leave me alone I Ru leave me alone each other in front of the kids and he's like oh wait me pleas I got it all on camera this time I got it all camera I said dude I don't I have you on camera in front of my daughter but did I press charges no was that today he put it put that was a different time that was a complete different time she claimed the issue with her boyfriend had always been a family pattern especially with his mother and was having a hard time dealing with them but it's just a pattern of behavior with this dude he likes to provoke me and then when I that's what he was like oh let me get her when she's looking I don't have these issues dude with nobody but him and his family him and his family are always doing this to each other that's why because he does this to his mother his mother does it to him they do it all to each other and I'm just like straight up I'm fed up with it no Behavior reactive abuse is a real and I'm just done so I get your dude and you and your daughter can wait over there for your mom cuz mind you I had already texted his mom to come and pick them up when he started screaming at me okay so I told him get your dude get the starts talking [ __ ] to me like that doesn't sound like to me the same person that's out there talking to your guys oh yes sir yes sir that was not at all how he was before you guys got I get that yeah I get that so I'm like it's just I know how this goes dude I've dealt with this dude doing this to me I've never been in trouble with other than with him so it's for me because when I tell you it's a behavior it is like but anyways we literally started wrestling over the phone in there I had to bite him on his get him off of me because I had the phone in my hand and he would not unless he ripped the phone from my head okay so you were s you were in you're in the living room area no no I was in the living room when the argument started okay at some point I came in here and I shut the door and I was on the phone when he starts provoking me screaming out talking that's when I was like dude like I leave me the M you say you don't want to fight like but I'm literally here trying to decompress trying to myself down talking to my sister because she can calm me down right and he's me still provoking so after you come in here you close the door that's when he comes in here and try to take the phone away from you no he like door and he's like oh um why don't you tell the whole story tell her what you were telling to me yeah like come on dude I'm not at this point I wasn't even with him anymore I wasn't even paying him any for because I was on the phone with somebody that can hear everything too right that's when he wants to okay he came in here slammed the door open he didn't come in here like he stood at the door and was just me my sister's like dude what the hell is going on like okay and after after that he goes to his room back to the kids's room talking them oh don't be like your mommy okay Isabella don't be like don't be like this don't treat people like this so you know like provoking me I'm like dude like every time that he provoked me it got but like I just bro like I get that I can't put up with that when I'm sitting here trying to deescalate my anchor and my problems trying to keep from letting it get that far right and he like just kept going so at that point I went in there and I'm like what is your just like that so what is your you want to be doing this in front of the kids we can do it I said dude I just want you out of my wait I don't care and at that point we start wrestling over the phone cuz that's my daughter's phone right like not his so I grabbed the phone and I'm like that's f as do that he didn't like that no he starts wrestling me to the ground in front of the girls and literally me I had to bite his to get him off of Me Okay and like literally he snatched the phone out of my like and that's where it ended once I saw that that like he got me exactly where he to react like that I said dude just can't the at this point she had no idea that the cops had seen enough evidence that showed that she was the actual abuser and that they were just giving her the benefit of the doubt it was only a matter of time before they decided to put her away for the safety of her baby and partner like go here like he didn't break contact with the phone you guys were both fighting over the phone together and that's when you fell into the wall and then did he fall on top of you or did you fall on top of him at that point that's when we started to spin around because when he pushed me into the wall I wasn't letting go of the phone yeah and then you guys spun there and then do you remember if he ended up on top of you first or did you end up on top of him when yall fell end up on top of me okay so he ended up on top of you and then how was that where was your head in in the room do you remember his butt cheek was on my face right so was your head near the wall or near the door no my head was right here okay so you fell was just L like flat yeah and how did he get on top of you that way when he got on top of me he was like this trying to get the phone from me okay so he was standing over you after you had fallen on the ground and I wouldn't let it go and that's when he sat on me and he was forcing the phone out of my hands and I was like dude get where did he sit on you at right here like on your person on your body no like he literally like basically teab bagged my face he was just like this trying to pull the phone up okay so he wasn't like sitting on your chest obstructing your breathing or anything like that no did he did he make contact with your face or but was on my face okay I was just I didn't know if he was like squatted down and you you reached up to bite him or if he actually like no like he was pushing his weight down not enough to like choke me or seriously like injure me but he there was no obstruction of your breathing like you didn't have to change how you were breathing this is how you normally talk after you're upset or cry or this is like your normal voice right yeah okay um and uh okay so at that point he kind of like sits on your head you bite him he gets up with the phone mhm at that point I'm like let go cuz I'm just like dude get the that's when you go back in and stay on the phone with your sister until we show up mhm because they're literally breaking the law ball they're letting him kidnap my daughter he's not on the birth certificate understand that he's never signing off for David dude he has no right to take my daughter okay calm down for a second that is my daughter my baby let me care of her let me explain to you what's going to happen right now okay right now you're going to be under arrest for better on household member okay wow yes ma'am no to call my sister to come get my baby have to your hands on your back no I need to call my sister to get my baby please she's down the street please please just let me just call her let me just call her you can't go to the state please my sister's just down the street f up put it put your phone down look look at me I'm getting arrested for himun everything's going to be figured out right all I need to do now is turn around turn around turn turn around put your back I swear dude you guys are so sh sweetheart you have shoes he took my daughter and he was even have right to her hold on do you you have shoes somewhere dude they're arresting me come get my son please please don't let him go in the state please he's not going to go with the state I I promise you I promise you he's not going with the state who in the end the woman was charged with battery speaking of rescuing boyfriends from psycho girlfriends here's a case where a young abusive lady tried to cry her way out of getting arrested for assaulting her boyfriend what's with all the marks on you we got some good marks I know I know okay so was was that from her yeah all right go ahead and stand up you're going to be placed under arrest for domestic violence okay I don't want to go I want to go my mom I understand we we're going to figure all this out okay what happened he's got marks on him she said he said you I did that on July the 18th 2024 police officers responded to a call reporting a domestic assault when they arrived they encountered a woman in severe distress and in need of assistance however the situation soon became complicated making it challenging for the officers to determine who should be taken into [Music] custody over here with me let's have a SE my back there are you hurt at all no I'm not H let's go sit down I had to go to the university right now you have to sit my professor is waiting for me what what is going on what happened he gets angry all the time I wanted to go get get the retirement gift I was wrapping the retirement gift for my professor I wanted to meet her and she's been waiting since 11:30 and he won't let me rap it and he's like I'm helping you I said I want to I want to put tape on the cardboard thing because it's coming off and he like no let me do it I'm like please let me do it because I don't want to wrap it and then when she opens it it comes out and then he didn't let me do it and he put He started getting mad at me and he threw all this on the table and I told him I'm getting late I already told her that I'm coming at 1130 to meet her and then I told her I I'm stuck somewhere give me 10 more minutes and she's been waiting since 11:30 for me and then we came out I said you give me my car and I'll just go and meet her and I'll just give the gift then come back he's like I will throw this I will throw this gift I said you have thrown all these things and I been paying for it you throw it all so this is this is just $25 I don't care you have done thousands of for do you guys live here together okay during the interrogation the officers soon realized they were going to be dealing with a more complex issue than they had imagined but for the time being it was difficult to determine if her boyfriend was the abuser or if she was just trying to play the victim card subsequent events would soon unveil the truth is that your boyfriend yes try to relax okay you want a glass of water one just calm down so he can get this done can you call your professor to see if tell an emergency came up so she'll she'll understand that there's an emergency okay she's just upset about that I think yeah I just I heard my uh doorbell ring and um I I have a video camera and I heard yelling and then I was in the bathroom I just woke up I worked thirds and okay I seen her on top of the car but she said he didn't hit her that she jumped on it so I got that much okay so tell me what happened that way what what do you you have grass stains all over your what what happened I was I was trying to leave I was trying to get my things he took my back backpack with all my documents with all my cards and my phon yeah he took all this and then he when I said I will take the car and so I went and take his car his stuff was in there so I went there but I came back and I said please give me my this is your stuff you can take this just give me my car and I'll leave so he's like no I'm not going to give you so and he started leaving and which one is your vehicle this one it is mine but it's not in my name still because I just have a permit right now okay so I I just told him that you know I want my car can you give it to me and then he he said no and then he said prove that it's yours and I said you know it is mine please just leave this leave the at leave the car keys so he he said no and he started leaving so I was on his car on his car trying to stop him to not leave and give me my stuff back well obviously we know that's not a good idea right that's a good way to get her I'm glad he didn't try to take off with you on there what were you guys doing rolling on the ground what happened we were not rolling on the ground he he did this so my all this hit the floor and so I went down what is your name okay do you have an ID or anything not I don't know where it is okay can you spell your first name for me I can I it down [Applause] with do you have a driver's license or a permit no he drives with me because okay did anything get physical with you two other than you jumping on the car no okay okay can you just calm down from it if I have to go to the to the school and explain to what was going on to your professor I will but no please don't well I I just don't want you to be upset because that because right now I don't want you to leave because I got to figure out what's going on okay so just hang out for a minute okay can I call her yes you can call her do you have your phone with you yes yeah okay go ahead the officers tried to intergate the man but what they discovered left them in a state of confusion about who the actual victim could be you year okay she said about a year so anything I gu ever happened before no it wasn't until we got in it wasn't until we got in here we got in here you know we cool first four months or something like that and then start playing up I wasn't over here when off was talking about the rolling on the ground thing what what happened with that nobody rolled on the ground nobody rolled on the ground no you're covered in Grass know pick up grass start the car it's in the car we start W on all yeah but no on the ground she got on the ground when uh she left um had stuff in the car I was it I going to go report but the stuff was already in the cart she was in the in the grass I was leave and she's like give stuff you something like oh so I got the book bag here here's your take it and I came back to the car to leave I said I'm out I said I'm leaving I'm gone I said you want me done I'm gone you want gone you want be done I said done then said I'm out I got in the car as get in the car um she's like give me the keys give me the keys and I'm like and about Honda it's my car give my give my kid she bought the H with her money we were Wai until she got a license to put in her name she got a permit and helping her drive and we she she have a car I told her you can't drive the car without me in it I'm licensed you can't drive the car without me in or a licensed driver you can't take that car she had already just taking this one and she parked it there I didn't call I need to call you guys on that yeah um so uh she said give me Keys me I'm not giving you Keys you're not getting them you're not getting them and um she starts living out beat the crap out of the course start kicking the car hit the window stuff like that I I already had door shut what's put all the marks on you we got some good marks I know I know okay so was was that from her yeah what was she doing going at me for for what purpose was she trying to get something from you was she she's pissed she's just pitch where were you at when that happened I was at at home Point uh standing in the hallway I was staying in the hallway okay so you were still inside the house we were still in the house at that point in time I had the present uh present in my hands and uh I said I go and right here let's go she's still flipping out fine I chair and call sit it and uh can do it I'm done I'm done I'm done I'm done Rel left turn Fu walk out go go go and uh can't do any more year and um yeah she uh that I walk out car but anyways that was done um she sitting here gave her stuff she fli key start be the car I want to put the car in Reverse she she s i put the car in Reverse I was about to go she jumped on the hoodie car when she jumped on the hoodie car I was facing this way uh facing this way but in reverse and uh I said get off car get off car I'm not to take the [ __ ] I said you're not keys let me get out of here get off car after several interrogations although the officers were initially confused as to who to arrest they eventually determined that the young lady was the abuser despite her tears it was at this point that things began to take a turn for the worst for her she wouldn't go car I still have it in reverse I be my pull back she'll car you mean she but she didn't and I was I was back this way and I was far way and she went I said get off the car let me go for her cuz I knew she dve B so I like let me get let me get no no just get me the KE get me the she would not get off ke not getting Keys all right let us talk for a minute were you a to get hold of your professor I okay what happened he's got marks on him she he said you I did that I did that but I I was trying to make him stay because I wanted to go to my professor do you do you understand that by doing that you can't you can't cause somebody else's physical harm by trying to get them to stay somewhere or do something I know I'm sorry I understand I'm talking to your neighbor sounds like you guys have been been through some stuff in your relationship that maybe you're in some in some trouble that you you need some some information on on how to get out of it and I'm going to help you with that but right now we got to I got to deal with the situation at hand I don't know I really love him but give you he keeps getting mad on so so simple stuff we are talking and he gets mad like in a blink as I blink my eye he's just like another person and so I but I love him I don't want him to leave and I also don't want to leave him well we we got to find a way to to not fight like this please ask him to not be mad on like just so small well I mean I can ask him but I can't change somebody's people don't really react that way to me you know what I mean like they they'll listen to me while I'm here but it sounds like maybe he's got some some anger issues and by what happened today I don't I don't doubt that you do too and maybe you I have now I am I am that's what i' I've been telling him since okay so I was never like this I I used to be like calm whenever he gets angry and and he gets mad but this is like getting bad and you see yourself changing a little bit as well I'm getting bad at like things also now she was charged with domestic violence