We started like pushing each other around. He pushed me. He threw that at me. He reached his hand in. He swagged me across the face. I don't know how I'm supposed to do this by myself. >> And she thinks that I I do stuff behind her back, but I don't. I can't afford for this to happen. >> When we're angry, we see red. It was an accident. >> On March 9th, 2023, officers responded after a woman said her boyfriend became aggressive during an argument after she went through his phone and accused him of cheating. >> Hello. Is he here? >> No, he left. >> Okay. What happened? >> I had woke him up to ask him why he had been doing things behind my back on his phone. He got really upset with me and started disrespecting me. We started like pushing each other around. He pushed me. He threw that at me. And then >> through what? >> That shirt. I go to grab my kids diaper bag because I had hid the keys in there. So, from their room back to my room, we walked past each other and I closed the door and I tried to put the baby's crib in for a minute. I even tried to like take the bath without Come on, baby. It's okay. >> It's okay. It's okay. >> I tried to put the crib on the door knob so he wouldn't be able to come back in and just leave him alone cuz I know how he is. He's persistent and he will try to continue to keep going. So, I just wanted to separate the argument. And I even tried to hurry up and stack this in the crib to make it heavier. >> Okay. >> But he still managed to push his way through. And I'm like trying to hold the door closed and he's like, "Stop it. Stop." And I'm like, "Please get out. Please get out." And he reached his hand and he slacked me across the face >> on what side? I could see the little red. >> Mhm. And that was like it for me. I was like, "You're not about to do that again." I called my mom. She said, "Call you guys." So >> So after he slapped you, then what? >> I'm pretty sure he just left. He ran out. >> He realized what he did and he was like, "Oh, >> yeah." He's never put his hands on me before. >> This is the first time this has ever happened. >> Now, when he reached in, was it like on purpose or stop or was he just trying to reach in and grab something? >> No, he purposely he's like he smacked me. He's like, "You stop." Like telling me to stop, but I didn't want him to come in the room at all. I'm trying to tell him get out. >> Separate each other because he's already pushing me. So, I don't know what's the point of trying to come back in. He slapped me across the face and was like, "You stop." And then I'm like, "No." And I called my mom and he immediately left. >> You know where he went? >> No, I have like the all the car keys and stuff. So >> you left on foot? >> Yeah. >> You got a picture? >> He's short. I don't even know what he was wearing. >> So he was sleeping. >> He was sleeping and I had woke him up to >> cuz So you went through his phone, saw that he was had some infidelity going on, >> right? >> He woke him up. You guys went through a back and forth argument about it. >> He still has beard and everything. >> Mhm. We've had arguments like five four four or five years ago in Sugar Mill Apartments in First Late and Ker and um but >> you never we never got physical. >> No, but they still considered it one of the witnesses there like a door broke down and one of the they still considered it a DB case. So he did go through the anger management classes before and the court case, but this is like the first altercation where he put his >> Do you mind if I take a look at your face, please? >> Yes. It's a little red. >> Mhm. >> Like make a big flash across your eyes or >> No. No. >> It was just a little little tap or >> No, it felt stronger than tap. Um >> I definitely caught me off guard cuz he's never put his hands on me. I don't know like what's going on with him, but I don't know. I'm tired. >> Does he have any keys with him? >> House keys? No. Not at all. I have uh both house keys attached to our vehicle. >> So if he wanted to come by tonight, you couldn't get in anyway? >> No. No. Okay. I'm going to ask you if you want to pursue charges. >> No. >> Doesn't matter. State's picking them up. >> Okay. >> So, he's going to have domestic charges pressed against him for domestic battery with child, which means I'm about to cut a warrant for his arrest cuz he's not here. >> Okay. So, if he shows up um >> what's going to be it's a process, but yeah. >> Okay. And so, like would he have a bond? Cuz he has work and I don't work at the moment. Not until the judge says one, which means he's going to be in jail for as long as the judge says. And then he'll set a bond and they'll have a protective order against you. Probably set by a judge, which means he can't come. >> Even if his like name is on the leaves, he pays all the bills. I don't know. I don't know how I'm supposed to do this by myself. >> I understand. Wait, I'm going to give you some some paperwork, some help for domestic stuff. >> I don't want to do that to him. I understand that, but because of the fact that he you said he you there's proof that he you picks up the charges on this. >> So he should just like turn himself in. >> Better now than later. >> I don't think I can get in touch with him at all. >> Would save a lot of headache if he was just to come back and turn himself in. >> Please leave your message. >> Go straight to voicemail. >> It's okay, baby. Mom, they're going to arrest him, but he's not answering me right now and I can't go through this right now. >> No, we pushed each other around cuz I didn't even put I didn't slap him. >> Who initiated the pushing match? >> Me, because he was just trying to dismiss the situation. >> Give me one second. >> He just hung up on me. >> Hello. I know he's freaking out because they're not going to set him on bond right away. Mama, >> where did he say he was? >> He didn't tell me. >> So, is he coming back here or >> uh he should be? He said he was walking back, so I don't know how far he >> She woke me up because I have an Instagram from prior from before >> and we just got into it. And we don't usually do this, but I'm I'm the only one that pays all the bills here. Please, >> I take care of us. I'm asking that you please don't do this. This never happens. I promise. >> Man, give us a second. Please go back inside. Start from the beginning. What happened? >> We were inside. We were arguing. She told me about an Instagram from before that I had prior that she seen me before and she thinks that I I do stuff behind her back but I don't. So she threw my phone. We got into it and she woke my gears up. So we got into it and then after that she put me out and I walked up. I told me I should call the police that they're going to come over and all this. I told her why she have to do this. I I really don't feel like getting into this and I can't afford for this to happen. >> I don't have the money to pay all these type of things. So I'm begging you. >> So listen. So there's a couple details that I that I need. She woke you up. >> Yeah. >> You got to an argument. >> Anything you want. I have to tell you. >> The shoving match happened. All right. Tell me about the shoving match. >> She woke me up and we were shoving each other. She woke my daughter. >> Shove you first. >> Her she me. >> Okay. >> And then we start we got into it. >> Okay. >> And then she opened the door and I told her please stop screaming. >> Okay. At what point did you slap her in the face? >> Right after she tried closing the door on me again. >> Okay. So she opened the door the first time. She tried closing it again. You reached in and popped her face. Okay. Where were the kids in all this? >> I'm just asking the police. [Music] >> Yes, it was on accident. >> Accident or not? This happened in front of children. So, so like >> sir, it was an accident. >> That's an accident. >> This is why. >> Listen. and the right to remain silent. Anything you say can will be against you law. You have the right to attorney. If you can hire a foreign attorney, won't be sent to you free by the courts. You have the right to stop answering questions anytime. You have the right to have attorney present your own question. Do you understand your rights? >> You understand your rights? Yes, sir. >> Sir, it was an accident. When we're angry, we see red. It was an accident. >> Understand that? >> I'm sorry. >> Just take a walk with me. I'll be right back. >> Leave. Anything in your pockets on your left touch phone >> Louis look at me when you reach through the door. It was an accident. >> Yeah. >> You were on that. >> No problem. >> Tell me how it happened. >> All that was literally I grabbed the door and she said to stop and I said okay. I told her just please and stop. And then she opened the door one more time and that's when all that altercation happened. I I I walked out right after I was done cuz I already knew something big was going to escalate and I told her she could please stop to not wake my kids up. I didn't want nothing. >> How did you slap her on accident? >> From when she had closed the door on me. >> What? What did you try to do >> when I was opening the door? It was cuz she was trying to hurt me when she was trying to press the door on my arm and I didn't forcefully open it. Yeah. You got an ID on you. Where's it at? Back up for me for a minute. Child, please. >> Just a recap. Put this on. Saw a message. Won't come up. Initiated a pushing match. Trying to get in. Accidentally slapped you. >> Yes, sir. >> What's your statement? >> Yes, sir. >> Turn around. Anything you say can be used against you in the court of law. What's in your rights? Yes sir. >> Bearing those rights of mine. You going to speak to me? >> Yes. >> Okay. So all the statements that I just made earlier are true, right? >> Yes sir. >> Take a walk in your pockets about pockets on. She was charged with DV and endangering a dependent.