I said answer the phone or I'm going to hit your car. >> Then you did hit him. >> I really didn't mean to. My daughter's upstairs. Hold on. But I got to Okay. >> I have PTSD and I have PTSD from jail from the cops. Let me go. I'm not going anywhere. I'm going to fight you if you don't get your hands off of me. >> And I hope that you know in the morning when you're dealing with my body that this you could have just stopped. On March 3rd, 2025, officers responded to a residence following a report of a woman committing a hit and run by striking her daughter's father's car and leaving the scene, then threatening to hit it again if he didn't answer his phone. All while her child was in the car with her. >> Hello. Hey, Deputy Marles County Sheriff's Office. Looking for Alyssa. >> Can you guys come in the garage? >> Sure. So, uh, we're here because of an accident. >> Okay. Could you tell me what happened? Um, I bumped into my baby daddy and he sped away. >> Okay. So, >> did you ever call in to report it or? >> No, I didn't because he sped away. >> Okay. >> Figured he wasn't calling either because why would you drive away? >> Okay. So, you were you were just not going to report it or you expect them to report it? >> I was going to call I was going to go deal with everything in the morning that I just dealt with today. >> Okay. It was a lot more than >> what happened. What happened today? >> We just were in court. So, we just I had to go to the courthouse in the morning and I was just going to go to the sheriff's office while I was there and report you guys didn't stop by. >> Okay. >> Am I out here? I was >> very good. Was it Was that the vehicle you were driving? That was the vehicle you were driving. >> I literally barely tapped him. It was a stop sign. My car stopped itself anyways. Like, it's a brand new car. >> Okay. I know you guys were in you was talking to me about you guys were in that custody dispute or whatnot earlier today. >> What's going on with the text messages? >> Which text messages? >> Text messages you sent to him. >> Yeah. Which ones? >> Which ones? Uh you want to show me which ones? >> That's what I'm going to go look. >> There's no There was just a bunch of them that >> there's a bunch of them that you mentioned that you were going to hit him at the next stop sign. >> Oh, yeah. I did say that. >> You did say that? >> It looks like it. >> Okay. All right. um >> bumped into him at the next stop sign coincidentally. >> Is your daughter with him now? >> No, she's here. >> She's here. Is anybody else who's living here? >> No, >> just you and her right now. >> Mhm. >> Okay. Do you have the insurance for the vehicle? I need to get the insurance for a crash report. >> Well, I'm still investigating right now. >> What thought process was you texted your car and you >> I said answer the phone or I'm going to hit your car. >> Then you did hit him. >> I really didn't mean to hit his car. And my car stopped it. It's not like it actually hit it. >> God damn. Right. >> I honestly don't think so. Like my car stops. Like it stops itself. I honestly I want you to go take it on the bus. It literally stops. >> I'll take a look at the vehicle. I just need to get what uh what's the insurance company you are with? >> Sorry. It's progressive. >> Do you remember where you hit him at? Like what street? >> There's a stop sign on >> right by that church there. >> Yeah. >> Okay. I'm going to take a take a look at your damages real quick and then just for my accident report. Okay. >> To take the child. >> Okay. >> Especially since he's not paying any child support. >> Okay. But you guys are going to court. Is that for all of that? >> Yeah. >> Nice court dates. >> Uh well, we just had a court date last week and they just signed I told them that I would sign this plan if you're going to help me on the days that you don't have work because the way his work schedule is like we're both like 1099 workers. So, it's just weird, right? So, if you're not working, take your child so that I can go work. Right. That's just like common sense. I think >> you mentioned something about having me go to court tomorrow and then you're going to stop by the sheriff's office. >> Oh, yeah. I'm going to go file. Yeah. >> I'm I'm not a scheduled I'm going Yeah. No court date. I'm I need to file. >> Were you guys arguing at any point like while you were driving? >> No. Just text messaging back and forth is what it was. Okay. >> Okay. All right. I'm going to be straight up with you. The hit and run. There was a child inside. Um, you're going to get hooked for uh >> No, my daughter's upstairs. Hold on. I got to Okay. I'm not going to Okay, I won't be under arrest for endangerment of a child. Okay. >> We will work on that. >> No, I need to call my mom. >> Call her right now. You're just going to be placed in custody. Okay. >> Okay, that's fine. Can I just call my mom? No, but we'll call on speaker. We'll alert it on speaker. You guys put it on speaker. >> You don't got to be all rough with me. >> I'm not. I am not. >> I am not. Okay. >> We'll call her right now. We'll call her right now. Okay. >> She's not available. >> We'll find something. You're not going to leave your kid here by himself. All right. >> Mom. Mom. Mom. >> Why am I getting arrested? >> I um I'm on my way. >> I'm on my way. >> Where are you coming from, ma'am? >> Okay. Okay. >> Just figure out leaving. I need to go take my medicine before we leave. Okay, we'll get >> No, you need to No, please. >> Okay, we'll >> What's your medicine? Calm down. >> Calm down. What's your medicine? >> I can't go to jail. >> I'm going to rush out, dude. Please let your medicine. Mom. Mom, just be on the way. Take a deep breath. >> I'm in the hallway now. >> What's your medicine? >> What's your medicine? >> I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm I'm working. What's your message? >> Hang up the phone, please. >> You want me to hang up? What's your message? >> I need to >> Sorry. I just need to I need to >> let me go take an edible before we leave. I can No, dude. No. I'm going to freak out. >> You have You have prescription. Do you have a prescription? >> Yes. I have PTSD and I have PTSD from jail and from the cops. Please. No. Please. Please. >> We'll take >> We'll take a seat somewhere. You want to take a seat? >> Sit. Sit right on the edge. Sit on the edge. >> No, dude. I literally I'm going to freak out. I'm going to freak the out. I need you to let me a hand go. I need you to let me I need you to let me go. I'm not going anywhere, dude. I swear to God. I swear to God, I'm not going anywhere. >> Listen. >> Listen. >> Okay, >> it's already done. >> Take a breath. >> Take a breath. >> Okay, I understand. Nocription. >> No, I need to go inside. >> Well, take We could take a prescription later. >> Oh my god. I don't >> I'm going to freak out. I'm going to freak out. I'm going to freak out. I'm going to freak out. No, dude. I'm going to freak out. You're not going to give me what I need. I need to go inside. Please. >> What do you do? Edibles. >> You are not taking an edible before we're going to to jail. >> I'm going to freak out. I'm literally going to freak out all night long. >> Do you have a prescription that you want to take in a bottle? You can do that. But you're not taking an edible before you go to jail. >> Just take some deep breaths. Oh my god, dude. No, stop. >> No, I'm not going to jail right now. >> Please. Oh, please. No, dude. Please. No. >> Relax. >> No. Please. I can't. I literally can't. I literally can't. >> Take some breath. >> No. I need you to You're making this. I literally I'm going to myself. Like, that's literally what I was saying. That's why the cops were here earlier. I literally I'm not going to jail. I'm not I'm not I will literally Oh my god, dude. I'm not going like this. I'm not going like this. I'm not going like this. I'm not going like this. >> We have medic on the way to help you out. Dude, >> this is this is exactly what I did not need. I need you guys to let me go, please. We're >> making this way worse. >> No, I need you to uncuff me. I am going to freak out. Can you put my in the front? You can't puff my feet, too. I can't have my arms like this, dude. >> Oh my god. >> Deep breath. >> Oh my god. Take some deep breaths anywhere. >> Stop. >> No. No. >> No. I can't do this. I'm >> It's already >> No, I can't. No, no, no. >> No. You guys got to let me up right now. You got to let me up. Let me up. Let me up. No. Let me up. I'm going to break my hands. I'm going to break my hands. Yes, I am. I did it before. No. Let me up. Let me up. Let me up. >> Please let me up. Help me. Don't let me get down. No. Please. Please. Please. Let me up. Listen up. No. Let me up. Please stop. Stop. Please. Please. >> Stop. We got ambulance on the way. >> If your hands is coming. If he has >> stop. >> Stop. Take some deep breaths. Work on some deep work on some deep breaths. We have an ambulance coming. >> He's attempting to try to >> Lap me up. Please. Please let me up. I can't. You I'm literally telling you that I have PTSD from the police. I'm literally telling you. I'm telling you that this is literally what I'm scared of and you're doing it. >> I'm literally I'm literally telling you that I'm scared of you guys. Let me up. I'm not running away. I'm not doing anything. Let me up. >> The way that you're acting is not letting that feeling feel comfortable for you to stand up. >> My hand Get your hands off me. Get your hands off of me. Throw yourself. >> Just listen. >> Just listen. Take a breath. >> Get your hands off me. >> No, cuz you're throwing yourself. I'm suing out of you after this. I'm literally telling you that I have PTSD from the police from you guys putting your hands on me. >> You are hitting yourself on the door >> because you won't let me go inside for one second. >> You want an edible? We can't have you take from jail and I'm literally telling you that and you're Oh my god. >> If you have prescription medicine, we can take that with you. >> We take prescriptions with you. >> Okay. >> We just can't have you have take an edible before you go to jail. Oh, dude. Let me up now. >> You're throwing yourself. >> Just take some breath. >> I hate you both. I wish. Oh my god. >> Take some deep breaths. Calm down. >> You need to get off me right now. >> No, cuz you're off me right now or I'm going to get a new charge. Please, please, please, dude. I'm begging you to please get your hands off me or I'm going to get another charge. I'm begging you. I'm literally begging you. I'm literally begging you. >> Your behavior is not letting us feel comfortable you to stand up. >> I promise to God. >> You start banging your head on the door and you're throwing yourself down here. Why does it make us feel comfortable for you to stand up? >> Get your hands off of me right now. >> Not happening. It's a two-way street. We need to calm down. >> I'm calm. I need you to get your hands off of me right now. I need you to get your hands off of me. >> We're not doing that cuz you just told us that you're going to try to fight us. >> No, I'm going to fight you if you don't get your hands off of me. Please, please, please, please, please, please, dude. I'm having such a bad year. I'm having such a bad year. And listen, I'm sorry for that. >> No, you're not. >> Your behavior is not helping your cause. >> Oh my god. I'm Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. I >> you feel more comfortable seeing the ambulance. >> When you when you have somebody tomorrow, it's your fault because I'm literally not like I need to get the Oh my god. I'm going to bash my head into the cell as many times as I can because of you. >> Because of me? >> Yes. Right now. Because of both of you. And I hope that you know in the morning when you're dealing with my body that this you could have just stopped. You could have stopped everything. No. already done. You were the one that dictated this. Don't over causing all of this. >> You could have getting your hands off of me for one second. >> Stop. No. Cuz you're throwing yourself. No. Oh my god. Yeah. And now I'm literally going to freak out all night because you won't get your hands off of me. >> Freak out all night long. Throwing yourself. >> I'm going to [ __ ] freak out all night long. >> We'll have that there. Just keep an eye on you. >> Oh my god. Dude, please get your hands off of me right now. If your behavior changes, if your behavior changes, maybe we could make an accommodation. But right now, your behavior is not dictated that you're trying to throw yourself around. Stop. >> Please. Please get off of me. Please stop. Please. You're hurting me. You're not hurting me. You're hurting me >> because you're hurting me. Please stop. You're hurting me. You're hurting my shoulders. Please. I have nerve damage on this shoulder. You're not even pushing up. Look at her pushing out. >> No, you're not. >> Okay, just rest. >> Please. Please, >> Alissa. You by you throwing yourself around. That's what's going to cause injuries. >> Oh, my shoulder hurts so bad. No, dude. No. You >> hand yourself. Oh my god. Because you're trying to break your own wrist, >> dude. Get your hand off my shoulder. >> Stop throwing yourself around. It's a two-way street. >> Dude, where the is the ambulance? Where are the paramedics? They >> Where are the paramedics? No. Where are the paramedics? Where are the paramedics? Get off of me. >> No, you guys are getting sued. Oh my god. Get off of me now. >> Now, >> dude, you can literally stand right there. You can literally stand right there. >> If you weren't throwing yourself, we wouldn't be in this situation right now. >> Oh my god. >> We don't want We don't want you to hurt yourself. >> You're slamming your head into the wall. >> Oh my god. >> You're throwing yourself into whatever this is in front. And then you're moving around causing your soldiers to hurt. And you said we're going to try to break your hands. And I also said that you were going to kill yourself. So we can't let you sit here by yourself. >> You got to let go of me. You got to let go of me now. >> You're hurting me. You're hurting me. Please. >> Just take a breather. We're not trying to hurt you. >> We're trying to keep prevent you from hurting yourself. >> My hand isn't even squeezing on your arm. >> You're hurting me. Please. >> We're just trying to prevent you from hurting yourself. That's all we're doing. >> Help me. Please, please let me go. You're hurting me. Please help me. Please just make them take their hands off of me. Please. >> What's your name? >> Please help. >> Can you stand up? >> If they let go of me. >> She was on your throat. >> No. Please. Please. Please. Okay. >> I need them to take their hands off of me. >> I literally have PTSD from you guys. I can't. I literally have diagnosed PTSD from the police in jail. I need them to let me go right now. Right now. No. They're hurting me. >> They're breathing. >> No. He had a [ __ ] shoulder up more than it already is. I need >> you. I need to cuz I can't breathe. I literally can't breathe. parents are on our way here for the mom and dad. What's What's your mom and dad's name? >> No, I need you to let >> What's your mom's What's your mom's name? Stop. Stop. Alissa, >> please make them take their hands off of me. Please. >> You're throwing yourself in breathing. >> Please listen to me. Please >> listen to me. We're trying to help you out when you throw yourself. You're in handcuffs, so you don't have your arm to stop you. Breathe. >> Take some deep breaths, Elissa. Deep breaths. >> I need you to let me go. Please let go. Let me go. Please. I want you to >> Oh, God. >> Are those your parents? Are those your parents? >> Please. Please. >> Are those your parents? >> I don't know. Wait, tell your mom. >> Mom. Gary, help me. >> I need to get on, guys. >> We're just Stop. Carpet. >> Stop. >> My carpet. >> What? >> What are you trying to do? >> Hey, Alissa. >> You need to take some breaths. >> Alissa. >> Okay. >> Did she do this before, ma'am? I can't help >> I cannot help >> to slam their head into the door. >> Mom, please. >> What do you want me to do? >> I need them to get their hands off of me. >> That's not how it works. Please stop. >> Mom, I'm going to myself in jail tonight. I'm going to bash my head into the wall enough time. I'm literally I swear to God I can't stop it. >> I can't I need to put I can't stop it. >> Please stop. >> Mom, please stop. >> Mom, I'm literally calling him for help. I'm telling him I want to kill myself. >> Mom, I'm calling him all week. I'm calling him all week. I'm saying I need your help. I need you to take the baby. I can't do this. I can't pay any of my bills. I can't do anything. And he won't take the baby. And then he calls the police and puts me in jail again. >> Stop fighting them, please. >> Oh my god, dude. They hurt. They're hurting me. But they're protecting you. >> You keep saying you're going to try to break your ass. The cops are so tight. >> No, they put these on so tight. He was so mean right to begin with. I wasn't going anywhere. I wasn't resisting at all. They are. They're cutting off my [ __ ] circulation. >> Ma'am, we can't even read. Okay. >> No. Mom. Mom. >> Alissa, I can't help. I can't do anything. >> Mom, >> I need you to calm down, please. >> I can't. They're arresting me for child endangerment right now. >> That's not what I was told. >> Yes, they are. >> That's one of the charges. >> One of the charges. >> She ran into a car that she sent a text message that said, "I'm going to hit you with my car." to hit the person with her car and then left. >> He won't answer the phone. He said he's going to drop the baby off at 7 a.m. I said, "No, I can't." I said, "I can't. I can't do this." >> We said it's something I work through. Okay. >> I made $2,100 last month. My bills are 6,000. I can't do this. >> Okay, we'll figure that out later. I need you. >> I love you and I'm sorry. I can't do this anymore. >> No, I can't do this. >> The correct address. >> I can't do this. >> Oh, they went to the intersection. >> I can't do this. >> No, we're over here. >> I can't. >> There's a dispatch saying that. >> Okay. >> We still have the medics coming. Okay. >> No, you don't. You guys are >> They're on their way. They're on their way. >> They're hurting me, >> right? Cuz you keep telling us that you're going to try to break out. You told this officer that you were going to get more charges by fighting him >> because you guys won't let me go >> because we can't. You started slamming yourself into stuff. Okay. >> Understand your actions. This is what leads to to this. We're trying not to hurt you. We're trying to protect you from hurting yourself. >> We're going to bring you to the hospital. Okay. >> We're bringing you to the hospital. >> Stop it. >> Please stop. >> No. Please. >> I can't do this. And they're not even going to bring me to court tomorrow. I'm going to sit in there for like 3 days. They literally >> Is your husband inside with the >> child? Okay. >> Is that you'll get through this? Okay. >> There's nothing more to get through. >> You got to find Well, I'll help you later. Not tonight. We can't do this. But you'll find a cheaper place to live. We We can't do this. It's too much. He's not going to help you. It's not his job anymore. >> It's his job to take his son. It is. It is. It is his job. >> Will you? with him now on his parenting time. Had only his parenting time. He didn't have to come and get him earlier when he wasn't working because god forbid go to work. But god forbid I could go make any money. He didn't work all day. He didn't work yesterday and you wouldn't take him. >> Troll somebody. >> Mom, I can't. >> Alissa, can you can you walk? >> I need these cuffs off. >> Alissa, can you walk? Can you walk to the ambulance? >> I need the cuffs off. That's not going to happen. Can you walk ambulance, >> please? Slide your Crocs back on. >> Too many. My phone. >> We'll worry about your phone. >> You have to put it in my hand right now. >> We don't We'll get your We'll take your phone with you. We'll get it later. >> Pocket. You can We'll bring it with you. We'll bring it with you. >> Fine. You just need to put it in my pocket so it's on my person so I get it when I get out. >> You're going to get it. I'll take it with you. >> Bring it to you. I'll bring it to you. >> It's coming with you. Look it. I have it. >> Look. He's got it in his hand. He's got it in his hand. Oh my god. >> We have it. >> M A L K O W SK. I bet. >> What's yours? >> Sued. >> You're both sued right as soon as I get out of this jail. I promise. >> God. No. I need these cuffs off me right in the front there. The woman was charged with DV, two counts of aggravated battery, aggravated assault with a firearm/device/vehicle, criminal damage to property, two counts of endangerment, harassment through electronic communications, reckless driving, and failure to give notice of an to red.