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stop right now on January 19th 2023
officers were dispatched to an apartment
in Ohio following a domestic disturbance
report the complaint filed by Derek
Sperling Jr's roommate alleged that
Derek was screaming breaking items and
throwing objects off the balcony upon
arrival a heartbroken Derek was found in
his apartment breaking things he was
upset because he believed that his
girlfriend was cheating on
him what the
hell where's his name dere
dere where is he he
might's going what's
going this man
don't dude watch your feet man I want
what's going on I don't care bro about
what stop
talking what don't you care about
man there get in
there man what's going on bro ain't
nothing going on I'm good no you're not
good man Jesus look at this I don't care
about none of is bro what's going on
what do you think going on man I'm not
talking to you bro I don't talk F the
police bro why not bro what do you mean
why not bro have you been living in this
world bro what do you mean why not are
you kidding me relax you think I'm about
to talk to you bro you're in a whole
uniform bro I'm not talking to you yeah
I am man I'm TR to help yall okay and he
really called the police like just
saying stop stop acting you're not going
to walk through me hang
on I'm not going to walk through you you
the bus huh you damn right right now I
am okay what's going on bro bro stop
talking to you bro okay do not go in
I'm good you can stand here and talk to
him then all right talk to him talk to
him
then is you slow Derek Hey listen to me
better calm down bro what's going on I'm
calm you better calm down I'm call okay
that's cool okay D I'm here to figure
out what's going on man bro look at the
apartment man look at the I don't care
about this apartment bro okay I
understand that I'm going to leave okay
going have my f come get me okay coming
to pick you up my mom wait until she
wake up okay I'm going call her at a
respectable time so she can come get me
why
why why you my girlfriend my
ex-girlfriend she was cheating she with
some other dude right now okay she said
she's at s house she left her Apple
watch here you can see the messages
through her Apple watch seeing all her
messages talking to all these other
dudes she said she went to the airport
to pick up her friend she went to go
pick up some dude from
Cleveland okay she telling everybody she
she stopped Shing her location with me
to go to the airport to go get her
friend from Cleveland right okay she got
a whole hotels and I see the message
done about she want him again all this
other stuff what do you expect me to do
we supposed to be working on getting
back together she's so sad she's so
emotionally upset all the time she
always come to me for help advice all
that I'm the only one who there for her
I mean I I talk to
him I get it if that's what's going on I
I get it don't act like being crazy
bro don't listen man stop talking to me
I'm talking okay well listen if I'm
standing here and you're walking at me
and you're trying to push through me my
roomate I then you could ask me to move
you don't just push so I can go talk to
my roommate if that's the case if you
give me respect then I'll give you
respect the so I can go talk to my are
you done talking I'm going get his
information here man I he just doesn't
want to talk right now he's scared okay
that's all he he doesn't know but like
he told me what's going on on man and I
I that my heart hurts that [ __ ] you can
my
information one of the officers then
spoke to dereck's
roommate what
happened be sure me what the hell
happened have been like off okay she's
over somewhere else because they're
supposed to be separated he got drunk
drunk last night and I just I don't
think he ever got not drunk cuz
[ __ ]
yeah that's tough okay makes more sense
um Jesus
[ __ ] is yeah she's an actual
cop
um do
you do you know like is this laptop
yours all this is all her
stuff holy [ __ ] well this is all our
stuff yeah I
mean the problem is is
like I
mean I can't decide everything
works Jesus
Christ I mean who are we supposed to
sign what's what you know he's got Su
him
civilly his girl broke up with him and
now she's with another dude right now
and he was drinking all last night and
now he lost it the room here roommate's
live here yeah this is his roommate so
the roommate says that he's been
drinking all
night the girl I gu sent him some stuff
about with a
dude
and that's what this
was
this he in
your roommate your roommate said you
were drinking all bro I'm not drinking
all night bro that's what your roommate
said I didn't asleep I just woke up I'm
wondering where she at I'm checking her
location Apple watch I'm seeing all
these messages I get that's why you're
mad I 100% trust us we all get it are
you talking about drinking all night he
said I didn't say you were that's what
he said okay that's why I'm about to go
talk to him y'all won't let me talk to
him talk he want to talk to you bud okay
so it's that I don't want to talk to
that's make
sense Jesus
Christ yeah you did you think we want to
be here no because you act like a child
so we have to come out here and deal
with it because you want to act this way
when everyone else is trying to live the
life you want to act like this and then
we have to come deal with it and then
you're going to be shitty with
us Jesus Christ why you because I care
about you I care about everybody BR I
don't need to know you to care like that
bro okay go then just go in your room
and be mad is he outside there's nothing
he's staying here was he outside at
all what was he doing
this so the issue is you're going to
have to sue him civil probably for all
this
stuff to come get me okay man are you
you're planning on leaving I'm leaving
what are you talking about I'm leaving
this is this how we normally is are you
guys like usually really good friends I
me we're we're
not okay you think
um I mean from anybody's perspective if
he's seen stuff that she's messaging to
another guy we can all understand why
he's living we get it now saying his
actions are okay by any means
um the issue is with you guys being
roommates he's mad at me I don't why is
he mad at you because I did you say
something no I didn't say he just he
texted me and
said something about or I knew the whole
time
and he's done with me or
something any threats like I'm going to
hurt you no he just tried to knock down
my door
this
door
the door right here like he literally
it's locked you somehow banged it open
and I just kept it shut with my hand
yeah
um so the problem is you guys live
together so stuff is kind of like Mutual
property we can't sit here and say okay
this is his and that's yours this is
that it's you're going to have to sue
him for everything that he broke not
even he's like cuz he was threatening
her when he got home or when she got
home if the problem with that is if
she's she's the victim she has to be the
one that wants to prosecute we can't
file on her
behalf or oh we were saying like if
you're gone he's going to come in and
break your [ __ ] don't
know I don't know I'm trying to think of
what I can do because
like I can see come over if I wanted to
smash if I wanted to go to my house and
kick my door down I can do it and it's
not a crown if I want to smash my car
it's not a
crime the only thing is I
don't comes down as you can't decide
everything that who's is what you know
at this time like I can't sit here and
be like no I get that like what about
the TV out there no yeah it's not that
I'm just scared of him and I get that
promise is I have no legal place to put
him because he's not
a he didn't threaten you so I can't say
he's a threat to you he didn't threaten
himself so I can't say he's a threat to
himself so I'm like trying to think of
where I can like you know so we call it
a pink slip as well Force somebody to go
somewhere right to the hospital I just
don't think he's there yet at the moment
because I can't I can't with with him
not threatening you and not threatening
his own life or you know stuff like
that I can't I the hospital will never
accept him that's that's the problem M
um do you want to go somewhere do you I
mean I can we can stand by if you want
to collect some stuff and we can walk
you out um can I yeah yeah I I don't
want you to be here if you don't want to
be here so yeah you go and do some stuff
we'll hang out
here if she comes it's going to be a
fight someone's going to go to jail if
if she comes she wants you just had to
tell her if she comes here and we have
to come back out because there's an
issue because they're arguing then
there's a good chance she's going to get
arrested and him okay because here's the
thing we're trying to alleviate the
situation you know what I mean we know
you get it obviously right now things
are tense until he leaves I would say
she should not be here we're not
obviously she we're not telling her she
can't yeah if she lives if she lives
here and wants to come here she can but
if we come back out but they're both
getting arrested if there's an issue or
some sort of disorderly between
them we got to do something about it
while the officers were attempting to
speak with Derrick's roommate became
argumentative with them probably for all
this my to come get me okay man are you
you're planning on leaving I'm leaving
what are you talking about plan I'm
leaving I'm asking don't ask me nothing
bro for real why do you got to act like
this man you're sitting you're acting
like a child hands on me BR don't walk
towards me aggressively bro I'm not
walking towards you aggress if I'm
standing in here you walk towards me bro
you in my apartment bro what are you
talking about look what you did to your
apartment you're acting like a freaking
child how about you up you're an adult
how old are you I'm I'm old enough to be
an adult you then act like one don't sit
here and break all your roommate stuff
now he's got to deal with it pay for
this too got to deal with it though I
it's not just you're not in his room
your your actions are affecting him as
much as they're affecting you that I'm
not affecting me bro I'm letting all my
emotion out who you talking about who's
going to clean this up you bro she is
bro she get here I'm making sure she see
this bro you always cleaning it up no so
why is you worried about who cleaning it
up because your actions are affecting
him you're acting like a child him bro
he good you should be
after a while officers observed Derk
throwing items off his balcony once
again despite being ordered to stop
Derek persisted in his
behavior hey my
man listen hey Derek
dere bro I thought y left well listen
man you're throwing stuff outside the
balcony you can't throw stuff outside
brothes okay but you can't throw her
stuff outside of the balcony listen you
can't throw stuff outside if you want to
do stuff in here that's on you but dude
when you're throwing stuff outside
that's not your property okay bro that's
thanks for letting me know bro okay
go still ticket yeah so right okay
here's the deal man you're getting a
ticket okay BR that's cool so now we got
now we got to wait wait for what for him
to write out a ticket before we can
leave hey look man just hang out for a
sec you are right now under ARR for
disorderly conduct we're writing you a
ticket just hang tight
okay we tried to be cool with you man
bro I thought y'all left bro we did man
but you're throwing stuff out the
window
hello can't you tell get
me bro I broke all our stuff bro what
are you talking about she the one who
out cheating what are you talking about
you can come get me bro for real the
police here they all in my face bro come
get me bro for
real all right
hang tight okay but hang tight she I
know but we got got to get my stuff okay
but you got to hang tight how much stuff
are you trying to
grab you know how much stuff you're
trying to grab backpack full of suitcase
do you know how much BR all my stuff
right here bro that's it is there any
what else you want to get
you're social good man I'm not telling
youall you if you don't tell us we're
going to take you down and arrest you
and we're actually take you to jail do
you know the laws bro I you have to
identify yourself you're under arrest
right now identify myself one time bro
that's your far from not remembering
listen why you staring at me bro just
hanging out man bro where is the ticket
it don't take this long to it take that
long to write a ticket he's got to write
it out man by hand no bro every time
over y write that in two seconds bro
yall just want to be here and
investigate different it's an actual
misdemeanor bro it's not just a traffic
ticket shortly afterward dereck's
girlfriend Malaya Pew arrived and the
situation quickly
escalated something good just
got is wrong with you wrong with you bro
D I swear you swear to God what bro kill
you is wrong with you what's that called
bro ain't that's a violation or
something she just said she going to
kill me that's a threat bro arrest her D
get your [ __ ] I already got my stuff bro
you late bro huh you
late
hold you're not going anywhere man just
hang
tight man oh my god listen I get I get
it's stressful please kill him I'm not
going to kill what I'm not going to do
nothing I'm okay but I need you need to
be smart first off with your choice of
words please and then I get it as
stressful but there's a better way to
handle this
okay what you're going to have to do is
you're going to have to take him to
court okay he obviously because you guys
live here we kind of explain it to your
roommate a little
bit you guys have shared property so
you're going to have to take them to
civil court this this is all
I'm good I'm about to
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leave stop right now what are you doing
put your hands behind your back
do not t up on me bro like that relax my
arm not B bro bro look at my right arm
bro don't bend like that bro my
arm BR watch
out stop D relax my arm not like
that hold on hold on readjust the C I
swear to God bro y bro
stoping bro my like that bro I'm not
nothing bro you're twisting your arm bro
my arm do
not bro bro I swear to God mad
bro not tense up I'm not not oh my God
we going to we going do not let me turn
so I can
myot bro I have to do it myself bro my
arm is
not bro oh my God bro take these cffs
off me so I can move my arm relax
adjusted bro take these CS off so I can
move my arm bro put your arms behind
your back
andjust cannot bro I physically cannot
move my arm bro bro oh my God bro I be
bro all right what's happening what did
I miss obviously she came here he
grabbed a laptop threw at her face but
that's a offense bro she said she going
to kill me what what y'all not
arresting you doing bro I can't move my
arm behind my back bro I physically
cannot move my arm behind my back
bro like what are you doing
bro bro I readjusting the Cuffs man but
he's still trying I can't move my arm
I'll tell you what I'm going to put two
cuffs on okay bro what are you talking
about it's going to give you more space
okay slow bro he's tight as [ __ ] bro I
get my fingers in look two fingers you
making them tired with your finger in
them bro what you doing bro bro stop
arrest you just stop bro I don't give no
arrest bro are you on way bro she on her
way I already talk to my mom you don't
got to call my mom her number bro you
slow why you talking to my mom bro go
talk to that [ __ ] you was just with she
press chares yeah do she want to you uh
you still working on the ticket no I
just had to a clerk since I'm
for y'all see my arm
bro behind my back bro dude just relx
bro I'm
not ding up pulling against this is why
I said I'll put two cuffs on it will get
you more L okay I don't understand bro
per just let him talk talk let him talk
bro talking about let me talk I don't
even like talking bro I'm telling really
cuz you won't stop bro what what
[ __ ] it's um everything's starting to
make sense I'll tell you that bro it
don't make sense bro cuz I can't put my
arm behind my back
bro I
literally bro my Mom calling me y answer
my phone bro can you my phone not yours
my phone is I know did you guys see him
throw it yeah thre in front of my face
oh okay hey you're under arrest for
domestic violence okay so you're going
to jail let's
go no go to jail don't care go to
jail where you 75 45 to the front desk
off where you to jail
where all right bro can I put some
clothes on we don't even want to come
out going to jail for bro I can't put no
clothes on bro bro why you grab me so
aggressive oh my
God stop dude bro stop what relax just
go to jail come on bro I don't even got
no shoes on I don't care that's your
problem bro that's said you don't need
anybody up
there stop stop
stop stop it bro get off me relax bro
get off of me bro relax do not try and
run I'm not trying to run Cay for a
marathon now you're getting another
resisting charge BR I'm trying to P my
arm bro
my my arm is not even my back bro look
at my arm relax bro oh my God
bro unlock the car
why you I'm not bro my arm don't know
for real what happened to your arm
what's wrong wrong with it yeah oh okay
that Mak for real all right then I'll
get you a squad I'm not the Le I'll get
you a
squad hey his cell phone and his wallets
in your uh in the front okay
man Derek Sperling was charged with
domestic violence failure to comply with
a police officer and disorderly conduct