So, I came in and I was frustrated. I got >> Were you in bed? >> No. >> Where were you at? >> I was in the closet. >> Okay. >> I came out. She's in. >> So I came out and she got a little she and she came in for me. So when I came out I I got I was frustrated. I say, "Okay, you know why she like why don't you just go sleep in the other bedroom for the night and we'll figure out tomorrow and just got over there." So, we just start arguing. Are you are you brother? >> You can stay in there. >> The dogs are in the bedroom. They're fine. >> Go back in there. >> Can you go back where I told you to stay in there? >> No. >> Ma'am, you got to go in there, please. We're in bed. >> I know, but she's drunk and please help me out. >> She I know, but she's drunk and I don't want to have any. >> We're going to talk to you. Can you please go in there, please? Thank you, ma'am. >> I just want my dog. >> We'll figure it out. Give us 5 minutes. She's >> Give me five minutes, please. >> I close the door and she broke the door. >> She's just standing in the room. We're trying to keep them separated. So, >> and then it just got >> so figure out. Mary just told me to stop buying social. >> I said I broke my [ __ ] door. I said, "Look, this isn't your house. Can you please go to your room? This is not not your house. My house. >> Did the other talk to you?" >> Yeah, I think so. >> Okay. The first one that got here, did he already talk to you? >> I think so. >> Okay. What happened? It did nothing. It's just okay. I was in the other room watching my show. She was in the air and I was ready to go to bed. Then I went in and I um I saw her in the closet. She was beating off. I don't have sex anymore because I'm just not I don't feel sexually whatever. And I want to go to bed. I'm like, "Okay, that's fine. I just wanted to make sure that she was okay." And I went to go to bed. And I'm laying down and she's like pulling out the Congress's arms. She's like being erratic and I'm just like I'm trying to pull her just push her off. I'm just trying to protect myself. I'm just pushing her off. And she's just like just get out of my room. Like no, this is my room too. I want to go to bed cuz I have to go go to work in the morning. And I'm [snorts] And that's her bedroom. She was like, "Well, this is my house. We She didn't do anything wrong. She didn't do anything wrong. >> She didn't do anything wrong. I just I just wanted to go to bed. I just want to go to bed. She >> was pulling the covers. You're trying to push her off. And then how do you guys end up separating? >> We didn't separate. She just called the cops. Like I took her phone. I'm like and I'm trying to push her off of me and she's just saying this is my house and it you know it is technically because we had a house in Colorado. We moved here. >> I don't know. >> How did you get the Where's the blood come from? Was that from her or is that from you? >> Me just me trying to get her away from me. >> Where are you hurt? >> I'm not I don't think I am. I don't think I am. I think it's it's her. I just better to get her off of me. >> Okay. So, did it maybe come from her then? >> Yeah. >> What's your name, Mom? >> Melissa. >> Melissa. >> Meadows. What's your last name? >> Meadows. M A D O W S. I don't know. She's just drunk. She's drunk. And this is how she is all the time. Just this time she just called the cop. I just want her just to calm down and just go to bed. That's all I want. >> Sure. What's your date of birth? M for you down. I just went to bed. >> Sorry. 77910. I just want her to calm down. >> I just want her to calm down. She will calm down. >> And then, do you have a driver's license inside of Colorado or is it here in New Mexico? >> In New Mexico, though. Okay. What did she say? >> I just wanted her to calm down. >> Okay. Tell me what happened step by step. >> Okay. So, I'm in the other room watching the TV. She's in here watching the game or whatever. At some point, I'm like, I'm ready to go to bed cuz I have to get up early. She's not in here. So I'm just like I just want to check on her. She's in the other room 217. She was being off >> and I'm like okay that's fine. And I just left and I went to my bed >> Melissa Meadows and she comes in. She starts off and she's like pulling me out of the bed and I'm just just making up with myself. I'm just pushing her. I'm like you need to go to bed. >> Okay. So she came in and took the cover and the sheet off. Correct. >> Yes. >> Okay. And then what happened? >> And then she just kept pushing it and I just went just was just >> No, I'm asking specifically what happened. >> I just got up and I pushed. I'm like you need to get away. >> Did you get up or did she pull you up cuz you said two things. >> I don't know. I don't remember. It was just it just everything came. I [clears throat] can't even I just know that I just pushed her and I was like, "No, I need you to go to bed. I need to go to bed. we need to go to bed. You need to go. I'm down. That's all I owned on her. >> And then she just kept saying, "Get out. Get out." I'm like, "No, I'm not getting out. This is my room." And then that was it. I don't I just It's just all calm. It's a blur. I swear. [snorts] All I wanted to do was just calm down. That's She's always I get the calm down part. So, what happened? I need step by step. So, you got you got out of bed. Were you pulled out or were you Did you get up on your own? >> I was pulled out. >> So you were how >> I mean she with the with the I guess when we were I guess with the I was pulling the cover. She was pulling cover. So however that went. I don't I don't remember. So I don't know if she pulled me up or I was just trying to just like I don't remember. >> Okay. You get out of bed and then what happens? >> And then I push her and I'm like do not [ __ ] touch me. Why did you push her? >> Because she was coming at me and I was like I all I was like you need to calm down. >> Okay, >> you are drunk. I said I kept saying that you are drunk. You need to calm down. Let's just go to bed. And she's like no this is my house. I'm like >> okay. And then what happened? >> And then she came at me and I I mean >> what is what has come at you? >> All right. She had my phone she had three phones at her and I'm like trying to get away from her and I did bite her. Why? >> Because she was trying to take my phone and I'm like trying to pull it from her and I'm trying to like I'm like I will go. I will go. I will leave. >> When she had your phone, did you already throw her phone in the toilet? Had you already done that? >> No. No. This was after No. >> Cuz she had all the phones and I we were on the floor before I got >> So now we're on the floor in here. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Okay. So you're you're jumping around. You say you don't know what happened, but then you do know what happened. So again, I'm gonna ask you to tell me step by step. >> I don't remember because everything happened so fast. I'm telling >> Well, you you obviously do remember because you just told me a detail. >> Okay. I'm just saying that I think I know that we at some point we were on the phone. I'm telling you. I promise you. >> So you get out of bed, you push her. Then what happens? >> We're just we're just we're fighting like we're trying to we're trying to get stuff out of each other's hand. And at some point, we got into the other room and I got it. It took a long time because she was on top of me and I was struggling. >> How How was she on top of you? >> She was on my back. I was on my belly and I was trying >> on the bathroom floor. >> On the bathroom floor. >> Okay. So, how did you get to your belly on the bathroom floor? Cuz you left that out. >> I I don't know. We were just fighting in here. I don't know. Somehow we got into the bedroom. Why are you asking me this? Because I'm just trying to >> We just need a detailed account of what >> I know, but I'm trying and it just have everything happen so fast. >> Melissa, just take a deep breath for me. All right. Because the >> I just I just don't want to hear >> I get it. Can you listen to me, please? I [snorts] get that you're upset and that a lot happened right now. We are just trying >> all at once. >> If you've stopped interrupting me, then we can get to the end of it, right? >> So, you guys are fighting in the bed. >> Yes. >> Somehow you guys start fighting over phones in this area. >> Yes. And then you end up here. Did you fall? Did she push you? How did you end up? >> I don't know. I don't I don't remember. I just know that at some point we were on the floor. >> Okay. And she's on top of me and I'm like trying and I'm like it's a minute before I can get any of the phones out of her. Right. Cuz at first because when we were in here, >> I got the phone like I I got the phone. The one that has the it's the purple and it's the pink one. Okay. >> And I got it in my pocket. But for some reason when we were in here, she had this and the the phone that I got. I didn't get her work phone at this point. Right. >> Okay. So, you're on the floor, she's on top of you. Then what happened? >> And I got the phones away from her and I threw them. I threw every I threw the phone. >> Why? >> To get it away from her because I couldn't get a grasp and I was trying to just just throw them >> and then try to get >> like What are you trying to do with the phone? >> Try to for her not to do something stupid. What is What stupid is she doing? >> Stupid. She's trying to like call like there's something she's some somebody's being stupid. Somebody's attacking me. No, we're having a fight. >> So you took the phones from her so she couldn't use them. >> Yes, >> that makes sense. Um, so then what happened? >> And then I just threw the phones or whatever and she's like, "Oh, so you're" And then at this point, this is when I realized she has gotten my phone. She got my phone and the and her phone, the the home phone. And I'm just like, "Okay, here." And at some point I knew that she the work phone was in the toilet and I'm like here here's the phone. Like I got it out. >> You threw the phone in the toilet? >> I didn't throw it. I threw it away from her and it just happened to go in the phone. >> Yes. And I got and I gave it and I pulled it out. It the the phones work. I'm like here's your phone or whatever. >> Okay. Then what happened? >> And then she called and I was just like why would you do that? >> Okay. What else are you leaving out? What happened next? >> What are you talking about? >> You keep saying that's it. That's next. Okay. But there's a broken door. So, do you want to >> Oh, no. No. Before that. Like, no. >> So, you left that out. The broken door. You left that out >> because you didn't you asked me what happened right here. Like, you asked like >> leading up to it. Leading up to it. He's asking everything. >> All I know is is he had my dogs in here and I was just trying to get to my animals. That's it. >> Okay. So, >> Oh my god. Why? What she >> You're in the bed. There's a physical education here. >> Yes. >> Then there's a physical education in the bathroom. At what point were you outside the bedroom? >> When she pushed me out the bathroom, I I don't know. I So, and I'm like, I'll leave or whatever. >> After the bathroom, you ended up out there. >> Yes. Yes. And then I pushed her because she had cuz Bren Garbo was here and I just can't just come in and get her. I like I'm like, "These are my dogs." I'm like, "I'll leave the room." And she's like, "You have to leave my house." I'm like, "No, I'm just going to leave my I'm not going to leave my dog." So, that's when I did that. it. I'm telling you, I'm swearing to you. All I wanted her to do was just to be quiet because she's drinking. She drinks all >> Okay, so again, we're getting off track. You >> I'm not getting off track. I'm telling you this is how she is all the time. And this is >> So you're you're outside the bedroom. You got pushed out. >> Yes, I got pushed out. >> Okay. And then what happened? >> And I broke the door to get my dogs and she ran a garble came out. >> Okay. And then what happened? And then that's when we started scuffling again. And that's I don't I don't I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. All I know is is we were scuffling. And this is this is not normal for her. Like I'm telling you, like >> you break in the door and then what happens? >> I come in and I try to get I try to get everything that I needed. I'm like, I'm just going to leave. I'm like, you're not going to take me out of here. My dog was here. My little animal. >> Then what happens? >> I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I'm telling you. I don't know. >> You said I don't know. But then a couple minutes later, all of a sudden, you know, so >> No, it's not. No, it's not that. I told you what happened in there. I told you what happened right here. I don't know. >> So, after you break in the door, is there another physical altercation in here? >> No. No. That No, not that I know of. I'm telling you what happened in there. I told you what happened. I told you when I told you. >> So, then you come back. You break the door and you come in here. There's not another physical altercation. What happens next? >> She calls cops. And I just and I'm like I'm like >> while she's calling the cops did >> nothing. I just came in here and I was like I'm like why would you do that? >> You didn't let me ask a question. Um so while she was calling the cops did take the phone from her. >> No I did it all before then before she went off. I told you all that happened there >> after she calls the cops. What happened? >> And I told her I'm like you are a [ __ ] [ __ ] I'm like, I'm you're drunk. And I'm like, you did what you did. And like you're just pulling me into this. Like I was we just that's all we did was like verbally argue about it. >> And >> oh my god. >> What happened after that? >> And that was it. You guys came. That was it. >> So at what point did you bite her? >> I I bit her in the ear, I guess. >> Why did you bite her? >> Because she had her hands on me. >> Okay. Um what point did you scratch up her neck and everything? I I mean I I don't know. I guess when we were all in the altercation and then here like everything happened in here. >> Okay. And you have blood on you. What's that from? Is that yours or hers? >> Probably hers. I don't know. Like I I don't know. >> Do you have any scratches, injuries anywhere? >> I don't know. >> There's a scratch on your left temple. Is that old stuff or is that a birth mark or is that new? >> No, I guess it's new. >> Do not close your eyes. >> I just don't just take a deep breath, please. >> I just want my animals. Like this is all like we that's all we have. Like do not please. >> I'm just trying to see your face. >> I know. >> I'm just trying to like I was just trying. >> Why are we doing this? >> So I'm going to go back and ask a couple clarifying questions. >> Just tell her that I just want her to stop. >> I'm going to go back and ask a couple of clarifying questions. Um when this first started, you were laying in bed. >> Yes. That's all I was doing. >> So you came in, she's beating off. You lay down in bed. >> Yeah, that's it. >> Tell you that. >> Stop. He's just giving you a recount. Okay. >> She walks out. When she walks out, she grabs the sheets. >> Yes. >> Okay. She pulls them off. Is she saying anything? >> Yes. Get the [ __ ] out. It's your fault that I'm doing this. Whatever. Whatever. >> So, she's pulling the sheets off. Does she touch you? >> Yes. >> Where? >> I mean, she's touched me everywhere. Like, I don't know. Like, she's touched me through the the cover. >> So, you're laying in bed. Is she pulling the sheets from over here or is she right on top of you? >> Right on top of me. >> Okay. >> Because No, because this wasn't like this. It was made. The bed was made. >> And she's pulling the sheets off you and you don't want to get up. >> Yeah. And I told her, I'm like, "I'm not doing this." I'm like, "Just go to bed." And >> And then she gets the sheets off, you stand up. >> What does she do to you at that time? >> She comes and runs at me and I [ __ ] retaliate. She didn't >> And that's it. That's all. And I'm all I'm doing is just [ __ ] just taking up for myself. I don't want anything to happen to her. I'm just telling you. I'm like, I'm just like, >> oh my god, why is this happening? This has never happened. I want this to stop. Please, my make it stop. >> Ma'am, may I take some pictures of you? Are you okay with that? >> No. >> No. My Where's my Where my Why did you just make her stop? I was just taking I don't understand. >> I just need to stop. >> Oh my god. >> She left, right? >> She goes and gets into bed, right? She separates herself, right? >> I just need her stop. I just need her to be not drinking like I don't need to be I don't need I don't need I don't I don't want to go I just go back home. I just can't >> She's drunk right now. If you just if you just go by her she's drunk. >> She will be fine. I swear to you if she just fine. >> I just need to go to bed because I have to go to work tomorrow. Oh my god. >> You got to start pushing right there. >> Why is she doing this? >> Just tell her to stop because she's making a fork. just told >> us to [ __ ] >> That's all. And this is what happened. >> I think we're just right. Okay, go ahead. All right. >> May I take pictures of your injuries, ma'am? >> I don't have any. I don't think I have any. >> It's completely up to you. >> I don't think I have any injuries. I I was just hanging out with myself. I just want her to stop talking. Like she needs to stop talking to me cuz she's I'm telling you she just has it. She's a freaking problem. >> I understand that you keep repeating that. >> I just don't >> Whatever you can do to kind of soo >> nothing. I don't want anything to happen to her. I just want She's a good person. It's just had a bad night. She just had a bad night. >> Drinking. Yeah, I understand the drinking [snorts] is bad. Um whatever you can do to soo yourself, we'll figure this out. Um, it's got a >> Does she have shoes? >> Does she have some shoes that we can grab? >> Slipper something. >> I mean, it's over there, but she has wine over there. >> Is it purple shoes type deal? There's more. >> Hello, >> man. We hear you. We hear you. We just need to get her some shoes. >> Her shoes are right there. Her shoes. I'm I'm missing one. >> Okay. >> Where are the animals? They're in here. >> Just give us about five more minutes and go get your doggy. Okay. Just let us figure this out. Just please hang out in here. >> Oh my god. Oh my god. >> Ma'am, what's going to happen today is she's going to be arrested for battery on a household member. >> No. >> May I explain it to you though? >> Why? >> Yeah. Why is an important question? So in the state of New Mexico, ma'am, we [snorts] have zero tolerance for any type of domestic violence. We have to arrest. If we don't arrest, we get fired. It's part of the state statute per our policy. I I get that you were concerned about her drinking. She's a good person. Sounds like things escalated. Unfortunately, those things do happen. But when the police come and domestic violence, we have to arrest. So that's what's going to happen today. Doesn't mean she's a criminal or a bad person. It just means today things kind of got out of control. Okay. Can I see her? >> No. No. >> Oh, come on. >> The reason, ma'am, she's probably going to be released tomorrow. >> All right. I think she needs to go and sober up and think about what transpired today. >> All right. Um, but as of now, would you like a domestic violence packet? Domestic violence packet has resources for you. It also allows you to >> No, I didn't I didn't mean to do that. >> Ma'am, you didn't I Oh, God. >> Ma'am, she's already in our car. We've already arrested her. Oh my god. I didn't I didn't I didn't do it. I did. That's the reason you're not going [laughter] to jail. We've developed probable cause of belief. She was the primary aggression. That's why she's going to jail. All right. Now, moving forward, would you like me to get you a domestic violence packet that annotates how to get an order of protection? >> No. No. No. Because >> you you >> Oh my god. Is there anything else I can assist with today, ma'am? >> No. >> All right. We may come back to talk to you. I'm going to go check up on them and then we'll figure out We'll probably be out of your hair. Okay. >> If you have any questions, um, we'll come back and answer them. What are you doing? Yeah, she she doesn't want one, but I'll try to give her one anyways. Oh, okay. Hi, stranger. What's going on? And let's give her one just change your mind. Yeah, I have plenty of I'll go grab one. >> Yeah. Okay. Watch out. 46. Yep. Here's two right here. And I'll give her this one. >> Is there anything additional you all need me to do? You won't let me take pictures of her. I already told you. >> Okay. >> What does the phone look like? You need to grab our phone. Frank 124. What's Frank Z number? I'm a little bit just Got those sweaters. Got those. No, but where's her phone? No. Did she Does she have her phone with her? >> Ma'am, real quick. >> Why is he not Why is he ignoring me? >> What was your question? I'm sorry. >> Why is he ignoring me? >> What question were you asking him? >> Because I'm like I just don't want any charges brought against her. Like I don't >> I know. I know. And these domestic violence situations are tricky. motions runs high, but it's not on you to charge. We can pick up the charges on behalf of the state. I'm not saying that's what's going to happen, but there is a court process and we have to go through that process. Okay? You'll have a chance to go on the judge, SPEAK WITH THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY, and kind of explain what's going on. All right? But what I want TO DO IS THIS PAPERWORK. This is a case number two. It's a domestic violence packet. It's ways to get an order of protection if you want. There's a list of telephone numbers and resources here if you need any of them in case you change domestic violence. Um the order of protection mean she won't be able to talk to you or have any contact with you. If she does, she'll be arrested for violation of order protection. I don't want her. >> It's just something for you to think about in case you change your mind. And I know it's stressful, ma'am, but we'll take this up in court. Okay. I'm going to Do you have any other questions you would like me to answer? >> Why are you taking her? Like, what? >> I know. I know it's a little confusing, but we have to deal with domestic violence to stay in Mexico. We have to. It's not against you. It's not against her. We have to use our back. Okay. >> How is she doing? Like, is she doing okay? >> Yeah, she's really calm. She's She's doing really well. She's talking TO THE OFFICER. UM, we'll figure it out from here. Okay. I hope you're okay. Hey, hey, hey, stop. A door open engaging with you. Why do you find the need to grab the sheets and pull her pull them off? >> What made you want to do that? >> Because I was in the closet doing my thing. She came in and then she left and >> she left. Right. >> Yeah. And so I came out. >> She goes and gets into bed, right? She separates herself, right? >> So I said, "Look, I wrote the bed bed to myself. Can you please just go into the bedroom?" >> And she said, "No." I said, "Look, it's not. Can you please just go into the bedroom?" And then that's when the altercation started. So >> you pulled the sheets off of her. >> I pulled the blanket off. Yeah. >> She said, "No." >> Was she holding on to the blanket as you pulled it? >> Uh, kind of sort of, I guess. And then we start arguing and I pulled the sheets off. >> I said, "Look." >> And she's telling you to leave her alone. >> She did. She said, "Leave me alone." I said, "Please just go to the other bedroom." >> Okay. >> We have another bed. Just go there. Leave me alone. >> Okay. And then what happens? >> And it just kind of escalated from there. >> You guys start pushing each other right there because >> No. We just start talking back and forth. I said, "Look, go to the go to the other bedroom. Go to the other bedroom." And um we we just you know a lot of stuff just came up. >> Okay. >> A lot of old stuff just came up. >> Right next to the bed after you pull the sheets off. What happens very next thing between the two of you? >> Um we start arguing. She started throwing some stuff and she left the room. So, I I close the door. I close it. I >> think we're skipping a whole bunch of stuff, right? >> There's a whole thing going on in the bathroom that we're skipping. >> Well, why is there in the bathroom? >> That's what he's asking. >> Okay, go ahead and turn the floor. You guys know what the channel's under? All right. >> Arresting me. >> Yes, ma'am. >> For >> battery on a household member. Domestic violence. >> I can never I never let it happen. >> You're the primary aggressor in the whole incident. 21 female 15. >> Where's your driver's license? >> Uh to my in the garage. >> Okay, let's go outside. >> Do you need shoes? >> Yes. Where? Where? Um my closet. >> You will figure this out. Oh, just got to >> Does she have shoes? >> Does she have some shoes that we can grab? >> Slippers, something easy. >> I mean, it's over there, but she has mine over there. That's her sign. >> Is it purple shoes type deal? There's >> Yes. Yes. Yes. Where's she going? God, guys. Just Okay, listen. She didn't call. Like, please don't. >> Hello. >> We hear you. We just need to get her some shoes. >> Her shoes are right there. Her shoes. Oh, I got the other one over here. Oh my god. >> Where are the animals? >> They're in here. Just tight. Okay. A door open. Go to the top of All right, this way. Passenger side of the truck. The passenger side of the truck. >> Yeah, the passenger truck. Step up with your left foot and then I'll help you get in. You got to pick yourself up. You got other packets. Oh, heat. I'm getting a DV packet up. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Um, let me just write the case number and stuff. >> I explain to her what's going on. I'll just give her one just in case she changes her mind. I think I just have ours actually. >> Do you have an extra one? >> Yeah, I have. >> Can you actually give me a couple? I just have ours. Watch 46. >> Here's two right here. >> Yeah, I think. >> Okay. >> Is there anything additional y'all need to do? She won't let me take >> Yeah, I already I already told man he's just going to cut his camera complaint. We just need a DVD packet. [ __ ] >> number. >> Okay. >> Thanks. Stop 27 fire. That's going to be outside Dollar Tree. Uh they got people behind the stock room doors lighting a fire hub into the building. Frank 124 PD Frank.