What's good everybody? Welcome back to Body Cam Vibes. Back with another body cam video we going to react and discuss to today. Shout out to Body Cam Boss for this video. Go to their channel and check their videos out. They got some good ones. The original title of this video made me want to do it. So, we going to get into it. We ain't going to waste no time. As always, united we United we stand, divided we fall. Almost got me then. >> [laughter] >> On June 15th, 2025, [music] officers responded to a residence for a call of a domestic dispute. >> Chattanooga Police. Come in. What's going on? >> He had to test me. Come on. >> Why do you call the police? >> you mind stepping out with me, please? >> Yeah, well, I almost stepped out. This is my apartment, too. >> All right. All right. Well, we need to get separated. Cuz I need to talk to one at a time. >> She wanted to put her hands on me and hit me. >> So, what? >> No. You can't >> So, what? All right. You don't want to talk? >> No, we're just going to separate now. Cuz I went to sleep. >> No. Cuz he cheated on me with his baby mama. Let that be known. Don't forget that part. >> Officer, I'm going to show you messages with me and my baby mama. I'm not cheating on her. >> You want to call the police? >> So, she want to Since you want to think I'm cheating, I'm going to call her myself. >> Yeah. Just Just >> No. No. No. I'm going to call her myself. >> That's cool. You mind stepping out with me so we can talk? >> outside with you? I didn't call you. Make him step out there. Stop talking. >> I'm going to step out there. Hey. Hey, baby mama. Baby mama. Baby mama. Baby mama. This is This is a real one. >> Baby mama. >> This is an officer. She think She think I'm cheating on you cheating on you with her. Can you tell >> No, baby. We not WITH EACH OTHER. >> OKAY. COOL. >> SO, DO ME AND YOU KICK IT? Do me and you kick it on that any type of level? Don't you got other men, right? >> I just got talking to >> What you say? >> I'm always in Chicago, bro. >> All right. Exactly. I don't want to step out there no more. Thank you. >> tell So, tell me though. And what happened? >> That That's the That's the reason right there. >> Are you okay? >> I'm cool. You get out of my face, YOU CAN GET BACK CUZ I DIDN'T CALL YOU. GO TALK to him, he called you. Get out of my face. Thank you. >> So, what happened? You going to tell me what's going on or what? >> She She started going ape. Look Look at her eyes. >> Cuz she So, she you're bleeding though. Where is that coming from? >> [laughter] >> You said what? She hit you? >> Yeah. >> All right. >> even I don't even want to press no charges. Yep. I did it. >> So, who hit who first? >> I I hit him first. >> Okay, you hit him first? >> Yep, he admitted it. >> Where Where did she hit you? >> My mouth. >> Okay, can you hear? All right, so you say she hit you and then you hit him back. >> Yeah, I hit her in the lip. I don't hit I don't hit people in the mouth. >> No, you hit me in my eye. Let that be known, too. >> No, I didn't hit her in her eye. She definitely did hit me in my eye. >> too? Okay, I got you. All right. >> Both of my eyes. Just to prove a point. >> So, how did she hit you in both eyes? All right, so how did the argument start, man? You said it started from your from your mouth? >> Huh? >> So, it started from your mouth? >> Yeah. >> So, how did the argument start, bro? >> How did it >> How did it start? >> I was sleeping. She ended up catching attitude cuz she It's Father's Day. I'm a father. So, she ended up sleeping all day. I played the game. By the time she got up, I ended up going to sleep. She was already asleep, she just woke up. >> Okay. >> Then, I don't know All I know is she tried to wake me up. I didn't get up. I was going to get up. She was So, she ended up leaving the house. So, I ain't going to lie to you, I didn't I chase after her. I ain't chase after her like physically, I just wanted to see where she was going. I ain't found her. Whatever the case may be, I went to the store, came back. >> So he was sleeping, she came in, started accusing you of cheating with your baby mama. >> Yes. >> And then she punched you? >> Yeah. >> Like this, open hand, what? >> Both. No, she started throwing fists and goofy stuff. >> All right. >> So she was talking to >> Can I get your version of what happened? >> Well, HE JUST TOLD Y'ALL WHAT HAPPENED. WHAT DO Y'ALL WANT TO KEEP LIKE WHY DO Y'ALL KEEP coming to ask me if he just told y'all what happened? >> So he was sleeping >> You see they keep talking to me like You telling me not to talk to them but they talking to me. >> He just told y'all what he told y'all everything that what happened. We heard it from him but we want to hear >> That's just what happened. WHAT DO Y'ALL WANT ME TO DO? TELL Y'ALL I'M GOING TO TELL YOU WHAT MAKE ME WANT TO CHANGE THE STORY AROUND SO THAT >> SO whatever you said >> Whatever he told YOU WHAT HAPPENED, I GUESS. Go ahead go with it. I don't care. I'm not going to >> we're asking you. That's why we're asking you. So he's telling us that he was sleeping, you came in and you got upset because he's talking to baby mama, so then you punched him in the face. >> That makes sense. So that's what happened, Nancy. >> I'm asking you. Is that Is that what happened? >> ask him. He He just told y'all right. That's what happened. >> That's what I told you. >> Okay. I guess you go with that. We go with that. That sound good. >> Were you seeing anything with my baby mama? >> No. >> That sound good. >> Another case of young dumb love. >> Yes, young dumb love. >> Toxic ass love. >> Yeah. And then this is just a clear sign of why you don't need to be in a relationship when you're young because the level of ignorance right now that she's displaying is embarrassing. >> It is. >> So just just don't be involved when you're young. Don't. You got to know that's the reason why they don't really have any friends cuz they're young. They're starting out. But just don't. Don't even do it. Stay at home with your mama, go to college, do something, get a job. Something but don't get no man. >> Yeah, we have our conclusion at the end. >> [laughter] >> Okay. >> All right, Jessica, you can go. >> Ma'am, I need you to stand up for me, okay? >> For what? >> You're going to jail. >> I'm going to jail for what? >> I just said >> I'm going to jail for what? >> No, no, no, no, no. >> Y'all don't have to tell me anything. >> No, no, no, Stop. DON'T TOUCH ME. >> STOP. STOP. >> [ __ ] YOU WANT TO TAKE ME TO JAIL. >> He didn't say >> I don't WANT TO PRESS CHARGES. >> STOP. >> THAT'S NOT HOW THIS WORKS, THOUGH. >> OKAY, STOP. >> I'LL TELL YOU WHAT HAPPENED. STOP. >> STOP. I'll take you out of the car. Stop resisting. >> Stop resisting. >> Stop. >> And now you want to talk. >> I'm No, I'm not. >> All right, stop. >> He just said I'm not resisting. I'm not resisting. >> Now here you are. Stop moving. >> He said stop. >> Okay, stop. >> What the I TOLD YOU THAT RIGHT BEFORE. HE JUST SAID HE DIDN'T WANT TO PRESS CHARGES. >> THAT'S WHAT HE SAID. YOU'RE GOING TO TAKE him to the car. >> He just said he didn't >> That's what he said. >> Stop. >> Put your hands behind your back right now. >> Hands up. Hands up. Here. Here. Here. >> Stop moving then. >> I'm putting MY HANDS BEHIND MY BACK. >> ALL RIGHT, [laughter] JUST FACE THE WALL. >> Can you listen? >> Just face the wall. That's it. >> You just said you didn't want to press charges. How are YOU GOING TO PRESS CHARGES ON ME? >> That's not how this works. >> I'm not letting you press charges. >> That's not how this works. >> Say that to the judge. All right, make them a domestic violence choice. >> How is he the victim? He put his hands on me, too. >> You punched him first. >> He put his hands on me, too, back. >> it. All right, you need some shoes? You want to get some shoes on? >> are right here. Got my phone. Kitty cat police station. >> And we're going to the to the station, bro. She She can call you back, though. Okay? All right. I'm going to hang up on him, all right? >> Call back. He hung up. >> No. >> My shoes are right here. >> All right, come on. >> I'm coming. >> All right, he's gone. >> So I'm pressing charges on him. I'm going to put the domestic violence charges on him. He trying TO HE SAID THAT HE DIDN'T WANT TO PRESS CHARGES. >> ALL RIGHT, KEEP WALKING. >> He said he didn't want to press charges for domestic violence. I'll be the victim. I didn't want to tell them my side of the story. Come on, BRO. I'M NOT GOING TO GO IN THE CAR. YOU DON'T GOT TO GRAB ME THAT TYPE OF WAY. I'm a whole female, bro. bro? Can you grab me cuz I don't want him to touch me, please? We're right here at the car. Can you tell them to grab me? I don't know. You're manhandling me, bro. Please, chill out. >> No, there ain't nothing on me. I got >> That's fine. She still has to pat you down. >> Okay, I don't want her to touch me. I don't want you to >> That's fine. I'm about to just face the face the squad car. Just face the squad car. Hey. Can you just hold up the second? You're not going with her. You won't get a chance to talk to her. >> But how come I can't go? I'm supposed to get my ass out of there. >> And why is her behind you? But close the door. Close the door. >> Cuz that's how I see her getting I didn't say take her to jail. >> So again, in Illinois, domestic violence victims don't have a choice. If they tell us that the battery occurred, we can confirm that, they're going to jail. Okay? >> [sighs] >> I hate cuz she I know she would have called y'all first and it would have been I'll be in cuffs. >> That's not how it works. Just because someone calls first, that's not how it works. Yes, it do. No, it does not. I've been doing this for over 20 years. I'm telling you that is not how it works. I don't know why everyone has this misconception of that's how it works. I called first. That's not how domestic violence arrest work, okay? If she doesn't want to tell us her side, we're going off of your side and you said that she came in and struck you first, so you hit her back. You have an injury, she doesn't. All right. I don't have a better way of explaining this to you, but usually the victims of domestic violence, they let domestic violence go on for far too long before they finally call. I'm not saying that's the situation here, but that's why the state of Illinois is the way that it is. Okay? They take the they take it out of the victim's hands of whether or not they want to pursue charges. Charges can be dropped at a later date. But for now, we're trying to keep the victim safe. That victim is you. So, that's why she's going. All right? If you don't feel safe in this home around her because of incidents like what happened today, you can call Safe Passage. The ladies there can help you out possibly getting an order of protection if you feel that you need to go that route. If you don't want to deal with Safe Passage, instructions are right here on how to obtain one, okay? So, that's yours. This is also your stuff. Um I have another sheet that has a bunch of questions on it. Um I'm required to go over with you, but it's completely up to you. Do you want to answer any more questions about what happened today? No? All right. Do you feel safe here? >> Just for myself. >> Okay. What about when she comes back? >> I don't know. >> I know it I know it's a stupid question coming from from one man to another. I get that. >> I don't know. I might have to give her some dick cuz she leaving. >> Has she ever been arrested before? >> [laughter] >> She'll probably be out within like a day or two. That would be my guess. I don't know. >> The woman was charged with domestic battery and [music] resisting arrest. >> One thing about this young generation, man, they they mouth and got no filter. They they just say stuff like, "I don't know. I'm going to give her some dick before I leave." or something like that. The woman just knocked the [ __ ] out you. >> Yeah. >> He said, "I'm going to give her some dick before I leave." You know what I'm saying? Give her some of that toxic dick before I leave. But anyway, [laughter] God dog, this is Like I said earlier, this is a case of being young. Most people are not going to agree with what we we're going to say about relationships because we're not saying all cases. >> Mhm. There are some people There are some cases that uh people get with their person and they be with them. >> Right. >> And they be And they be uh Excuse me, let me sip some sip of water. Uh they be with them for a long time. I have a classmate that was with their wife since we was in middle school. >> Right. >> But eventually they got a got divorced. In their early 40s, now they messing with other classmates. >> Mhm. >> He got another classmate, she with another classmate. And they've been together since like a long time. So some people really actually do be in love with their person. >> Right. >> But 90% of the time they still be young and toxic love. >> Mhm. >> And they don't know how to handle their emotions. It's I have to say especially women. Women do not >> It's us, huh? >> Yes. Y'all don't know how to handle y'all emotions. This is man. Like the man saying, "I ain't even dealing with my baby mama. She way in Chicago." >> Mhm. >> And she's tripping about that situation. >> [laughter] >> About the whole thing. And and and women, y'all don't y'all don't think. Y'all just >> Yeah. >> Y'all just snap. >> Yep. >> You know what I'm saying? You've been there, so I know you can talk more about it. >> Yes. I was young. I was dumb. I was ignorant. All of that. I I've been that girl that I think um when you grow up in a society where you you see predominantly that men always cheat whether it's been your father, uncles, your brother cheating on their girlfriends cuz you live in the house with them, you see it. You know, you get in your head most men are going to cheat. So even if you don't necessarily have evidence, you're paranoid. We grow up like this paranoid. We grow up seeing men who don't want to commit. We grow up seeing 50-year-old men who's still trying to sleep with 20-year-olds cuz they don't want to commit. They don't want to settle down. They don't want to give up the coochie. >> Right. >> Like, it's it's it's so hard for normal women to um meet men who do want to be >> That's true. >> faithful. So, it's it's in our head. It's programmed. Keep this in your mind. Keep looking on his phone. See where he's going at. >> When he say he hanging out with his boys, is he really hanging out with his boys? Like, if he going out of town, is he with that baby mama in Chicago? >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> what I mean? So, that's it's very hard for women to just keep our sanity because it just seems like all of y'all do the same thing. >> Yeah. >> And um I went through that. I was very mature for my age. But when I got um like 18, 19, and 20, and I was with um my son's father, I was very crazy. >> Yeah. >> I didn't want him out of my eyesight. I didn't want him to go nowhere. He looked the wrong way, I'm hitting him over the head with something. And I didn't think that that would ever be me, but that was me. >> Yeah. >> And but I I realized um as I got older, you no matter what you do, >> Mhm. >> somebody's going to be that person. They're going to be bad. They're going to be a cheater. They're going to be etc. We just waste our time arguing, ladies. We just waste our time. >> Yeah, and to be honest with y'all, and a woman got mad at me when I said this before in the video. I don't care. >> Mhm. >> To be honest with you, this is only my opinion. Um I think everybody is denial about people. I'm not in denial about being human. You can be this faithful person who never cheats on nobody. And then you can go to work right now, and this woman that you work with every day, or this male that you work with every day, and you'll start getting close to him. And you'll start having thoughts. Then one thing leads to another. Y'all start getting close and y'all start being um job wives and husbands. And next thing you know, y'all in the closet sneaking doing something. Mhm. Do you get what I'm saying? And and not not that you wanted or planned to be, things can happen. So, what I'm trying to say is we are human and especially when a man is young, I'm being honest, it's hard for us to stay faithful when we're young. Because you got all that women out there coming at you, you're going to the clubs. Especially in this generation, the DMs open. All these women, if you look a certain way, they hit you up. You get what I'm saying? It's like really, really hard for men to stay faithful these days. And women, too. But I'm I'm talking I'm talking about the men. When we're young, sometimes we just we ain't ready. That's why y'all need to just be like uh friends with benefits without feelings. Until you know you're mature enough to say, "Hey, I'm ready for a relationship." Don't get me wrong, some people are like that. Some people automatically, "Hey, I want to be married. I want to be this." And that that's good. I'm not saying every man, but I'm saying about the nature of a man. The nature of a man is it's hard for us to push off that P word when there's so much coming at you. And then your baby and then your baby mama's Let me say this about about that, too. They may not have been doing nothing now. But every now and then, he go up there and he say, "Hey, you know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? Let me get some." And she let him probably let him do it. That it is what it is. She probably she she probably skeptical of that. She probably know they did something in the past. We don't know the full story. Yeah. >> Sometimes it doesn't even take nothing. It's just like I said before, women's insecurity. We just get insecure. The younger you are, you Your brain's not developed fully, so you don't know how. There's no such thing, by the way, about what I'm about to say. But you don't know how to fully keep a man happy. You don't know how to fully carry on a stable relationship because you're not old enough, you're not you're not mature enough to do it. You know, and then when you say when people do it, they do it, but they do it at a fault. You know, a default sometimes, like you're just going on what you know, what you think you know, what you think you learned from your parents. And sometimes you get it right, sometimes you don't. >> Yeah. >> It's it's easier, I feel like, to just be single. And I'm looking back, I wish I would have just been single in my 20s, like my entire time and focused on getting myself more prepared to be an adult. >> In a relationship. >> Yeah. Then I wish they were relationships related, but I I'm a relationship girly, though. I don't like to be outside, you know, I don't like to be all that wildness and stuff like that. >> Mhm. >> I just I can understand where, you know, why she >> Want to be in love and stuff. >> No, yeah, why she's feeling the way she's feeling. And trust me, I don't know when outside a couple niggers' heads, so I understand why it makes you want to hit them. >> Men, you said the N-word. >> Oh, yeah. Men head. >> [laughter] >> Oh. >> Because you want them to hurt. You want to feel You want them to feel the hurt you're feeling. >> The hurt The hurt that you feel inside from being hurt has nothing to do with pain hurt. >> Nope. >> That is a different kind of hurt. When somebody hurts you inside, that's worse than physical pain hurt. >> Yes. >> That's a hurt, like you feel disappointed, like you want to blow the world up. It's a different kind of hurt. I've been there. Um but on the flip side, I had to go back with what she said. She said she's a relationship person. I wasn't. I was uh whenever I want you, I call you kind of person. I never thought about being married, I never thought about being with nobody until I met her. To be honest with you, she's she's the longest relationship I've been in. I just never thought about it. Never thought about kids. I was just I'm a Scorpio. If y'all into zodiac, I'm just like, "Hey, one one fish two fish red fish blue fish knick-knack paddywhack who's next?" That's That was my thing. Like, I never wanted to I just like to have fun. But, when I got with her, man, she was like a mixture of everything I wanted in one. I was like, "Oh, yeah, she's this, she's that, she's open. Ooh, and she not she not she don't nag me. We have fun. All that." So, that's what made me say, "Hey, I like her. I That's I don't want to be with her." Yeah, she reeled me in. She had me She took some time. She was about to leave me one time. But, anyway, we don't get into all that. I'm I'm yelling now. >> That's for another time. We going to have the talking channel, y'all. So, just stay tuned for that. >> Raw Truth Lounge. Yeah, we got it up. We just ain't doing nothing with it. >> I know, right? Yeah. >> We going to get there, but I just think, man, if they really in love with each other, stay together. But, if not, just just disperse. Cuz things going to get worse. She hit you now, she going to be It going to be worse. Then, you going to end up hitting her back and things going to transpire, man. This will get worse. That's all I really got to say. >> Let me say on a serious note, cuz we, you know, we talk about it and and we laugh and joke. Um domestic violence it does go both ways. >> It do. >> Um I've heard a very disturbing story recently of a woman unaliving baby daddy. Um she caught him cheating, confronted him, and she >> Pop pop. >> Yeah, he opened pop pop on him. >> Yeah. >> Unaliving him. That's the That's the anger that you don't ever want to get to that level. >> Yeah. >> And you don't ever want to go and take somebody away from their family. You don't ever want to not be able to rectify the situation because you you so angry because of the hurt or the betrayal that you unalived somebody. But it shouldn't get to that far. >> It shouldn't have got there. domestic violence is one of the leading cause of most people being allowed today. Like can you imagine that on state to state? Um and I would like I said not to take away from anything but men also become victims and the police said that you know he was like he was like I know it sounds stupid to actually say this. A lot of men end up in domestic violence situations but they don't want to talk about or we supposed to say DV in DV situations but they don't want to talk about it and it's because it seems such like a um >> What's that word? I know you talking about. Like you don't see like a man would go through >> Right. Yeah. And I think when he was thinking about it cuz when she was getting arrested he was very nervous. He was shaking. I didn't think he I I guess he was like I didn't want it to go this far. They always call the police but they never wanted it to go that far as you know the person getting arrested. But it could one day have saved his life. You don't know how angry she would get. You don't know if it's like going to keep if you allow it one time like the man said you keep allowing it. That's why the state picks it up. It's cuz somebody has to intervene because people are so used to just fighting and being toxic. There's no end until somebody loses. >> Loses their life, brother. That's true. And I want to say this before we leave. I want to say this. Even when you young learn your laws because he didn't even know. I didn't press charges on her. No, the state take that up. You got to learn your laws, y'all. Y'all y'all do all the stuff. I know y'all go to school for education but learn your state laws. Learn your laws, period. I knew that. I said no matter it's too late. Once you said she said she hit you, she was going to jail. It is what it is but you heard what the cop said. He said might be dropped later. Just go you got to take that L. >> True. >> That's all to it, man. That's all I really got to about it. Hey man, y'all y'all just be safe out here, women and men. And um and stop being territorial. Um listen, you don't own nobody. I know the person hurt you, but think about you going to take your life you going to lose your life and your freedom and he's going to be he or she going to be on the live when you could have just met somebody better in the future. Cry, be hurt and in the future you would have met somebody who loved you down the line. Stop being territorial of somebody. You don't own them. People are going people are made to disappoint you. I'm not I'm they're not made for that, but you know what I'm saying? People are going to disappoint you. That's human late that's human nature. One way or another or another a person is going to make you cry either by hurt or death. Somebody you love might something happen to them. You still going to cry. You still going to miss them. So you don't own nobody. Just let it go. Say man, you hurt me. I'm going to cry. I'm hurt. I'm going to let you go because you missing your true blessing because you want to unalive somebody or cuz you so hurt inside. I know that pain hurt, but just let it go. That's all I got to say. Thank you for being here. Thank y'all for the love support. Come for the comments. We want to see what y'all got to say. Until next time, don't get caught slipping on camera.