What's good everybody? Welcome back to Body Cam Vibes. Back with another body cam video we're going to react and discuss to today. Shout out to Prime Time Cam for this video. When I saw the title, it just made me want to do it. I just like doing these videos right here for some reason. I just want to see how these moon flies going to act. So, let's just get into it, y'all. >> Officers responded to a call of a domestic dispute. >> How's it going, sir? and I don't like >> he wants me to get out of the car when he brought me here so he can take me home. >> Okay. >> He's lying. So, I don't really care to explain anything because he already explained a bunch of lies. So, I don't care. >> Well, I like to get both sides of the story cuz I don't believe anyone really. >> I said that I didn't want him. I simply asked cuz he works with his grandma's caregiver. So I simply asked instead of you going today, can you go another day and can you hang out with me today? He was like, "No, no, no. It's my grandma's grandma." So I said, "I'm tired of her always talking [ __ ] about me, always making problems. I hope she that's all I hope." Then he started flipping out on me, started choking me, punched me, took off his shirt, was swerving everywhere, and now he's trying to blame it on me, saying I hit him. I never touched him and I never said anything out of place. Maybe I said I hope, but that was it because I simply wanted to hang out with him and asked him if he could switch the day. I'm not doing [ __ ] to him at all. >> Did you grab your shirt at all? >> I didn't even touch him. No, >> he said he said he didn't touch you either. So I I have two sides the story. >> Yes, he smacked me. He was trying to put his hands over my like he went like this, punched me, like smacked me on my face, was trying to put his hands around my like neck and like my shirt, then took his shirt off. >> I literally have writes all over my body of [ __ ] that he does to me. Like it's not. >> Well, I'm just trying to feel what happened just while you >> He took his shirt off and started swerving. I didn't even touch him. I didn't do [ __ ] to him. I dumb. Stop being immature and say the truth. I did not touch him. >> Okay. All right. No, like I said, I try to get both sides of the story. >> If he brought me here, he can take me home because this is an ongoing issue. Just because you take me home, he would think he's never going to and he's not going to leave me at all. I'm going to go home and as soon as you drop me off, he's going to be posted up outside my house begging me to come out. Tell him to take me home and put away. >> Well, the thing is is that because you guys are fighting, I would suggest not to go without. >> No, he brought me here. He can take me home. >> Cuz if he said he punched you and choked you, why would you want to go? >> What's the wrong time for >> Because it's an ongoing issue that's not going to stop. >> Okay. Well, if you go with me, >> as soon as I as soon as you drop me off, >> he's going to be at my house. He's going to be stalking me at my house every single day, morning, night, and day. No matter what I do, he's going to be following me. He's going to be stalking me. He does this all the time. >> Okay. Where do you live at? >> In Berwin. >> Berwin. >> Do you have a driver's license on you or a ID or anything like that? >> And I'm sorry, but I'm not going to take it back. I do hope his grandmother of the amount of drama that she's caused me. If you he wants me to sit there and take it back, I'm not going to take it. >> Well, he feel the way you feel and control. >> Maybe if she didn't start [ __ ] with people and run her mouth, people wouldn't feel that way. >> And he says, "I have a police report of her saying I I said this and said this to her. I have many text messages and I can also make a police report of all the things that she has harassed me over the phone. I have more proof than she could ever be able to collect against me." So you said he started to choke you or put your hands on your neck or >> Yes, he started pull my sweater smack and started swerving everywhere. I never even stop. >> Where he smack you at? >> Like right here on my neck. >> I'm one of those people that try to take in consideration that sometimes women do be telling the truth. A lot of people out here do not believe women. Oh, they lying. They making up stuff like that. But I I try to take in consideration that she's telling the truth and he did do those things to her. But sometimes they cry wolf so much until you it's hard for for him for you to believe them. But on some cases men do be out here putting hands on women. So I do take consideration of that. But at the same time that grandma must be feel something about her cuz she can't stand her. And it's probably for a reason. People always love to tell their side, but they never tell the other person's side. What the other person see if that grandma giving you hell and you talking about she wish she can she should be un alive or something she said then it's something that that grandma seeing you that she don't like. Let's get back into it y'all. See what's see what's going to happen. Whose car is this? Sorry. It's >> this car. Okay. 71 clear valve going >> 104. Okay. Well, I guess we're going to run into a little situation cuz if it's his car and you're in it, >> I'm not wasting my time to tell him to take me home. >> Well, I don't think it's going to happen. So, basically, you can come out and we can get a ride. Try and figure out how you can get home. >> He can take me home. You can let him know what No, he can't take you home. He doesn't want to. >> So, I'm trying to do this peaceful. >> When you drop me off, he's going to be outside my house trying to harass me. >> So, you can let him know that. >> Then you call the police again. >> No, you can let him not. No, now to my house and harass me. >> Okay. I can tell him not to go to your house, but he will have to come out of the car, though. >> No, I know. >> Yes, >> he needs to. Okay. Well, go with the same ball that you're doing to me. Go tell him to not show up at my house when you drop me off and harass me at my house. Go ahead and go tell him and then I'll get out the car. >> Okay, I'll tell him. But then I just want me I'm trying to help you out, too. So, I just don't want you to get in trouble. So, >> I'm trying to help you out, too. So, please like go ahead. I will get the out the car when you go tell him not to follow me home and not to not to go inside my house. >> Okay. >> So, please can you do that? >> I can. >> Go ahead. >> I'm waiting for my partner home. >> I'm just waiting for my partner to get here, too. So that's all. >> When there's two people, I got to make sure there's enough people. >> My uh some of my stuff is at his house. He lived two blocks down. I want you to drive. I want him to >> No. No. No. No. That's not going to happen. >> It doesn't matter. You're going to get car. >> It doesn't matter. Or you get arrested. >> I want my things back. >> You can get your stuff out later. >> I want my things back. I don't want to see him anymore. I want my things back. >> I don't want to see him anymore. I want my things back. >> Okay. What you got to do is get out of the car, get a ride, and then ride. Why would I waste my money? >> Two things are going to happen. You're going to get arrested. Okay. Do you want that? >> No. >> Okay. I don't want arrest you. I don't want you to get arrested. >> Things I don't want to see him anymore. >> First, you get you got handle that later. Right now, we're handling today. >> Why would I want to handle that later when I don't want to see him? I want my things now. >> Well, that's not going to happen right now since you guys are not home. >> I want my things. >> Okay, you can get that later. Right now, it's not going to happen. The only thing that is going to happen is that you will eventually get out of the car either in handcuffs or not. >> Cuz I want my things back. >> Okay. And not only is that >> I don't want him to show up at house and harass me when he gives my I want my things now. >> Right. Now, I'm seeing you as the aggressor and I have the feeling that you are the one that hit him. >> Okay. >> I don't give a >> What that means is that I have to arrest you and you spend the night in jail. Okay. >> How you feel about that? Because >> Well, it's not how I feel. It's what's going to happen. Don't give too about that. >> Okay. Well, then you're going to have to step out. >> No, I'm not. I want my things back. >> Okay. If you don't step by, you will get pulled out. >> Yeah. So that later So that later he when he goes to give me my things, he beats my ass. And it's your fault because you couldn't drive 2 minutes to get me my >> It's not going to happen. >> Yeah. It's not going to happen. Yeah. Not going to happen. Not going to happen. Do you know? >> Step out of the car, please. >> No. >> I want my >> You have to step out of the car. >> Well, I want my things. >> Okay. >> I'm trying not to pull you out. I don't want anyone to come here. Do you want to get pulled out and go to jail? >> I want my things. >> Cuz it doesn't go well. >> I don't care. I want my things. Why can't I grab my things? >> You're not at your house. >> Do you realize that when you drop me off, he's going to show up at my house and harass me? >> Did you call the police then? >> Yeah. And what are they going to do? What the are you doing? Nothing. I want my things >> right now. I'm about to arrest you. >> I don't want my things later. So when he goes and does get my partner, we're going to pull you out. >> I want my If you're not out by the time I get back, we are pulling you out. I'm going to have to arrest her for domestic battery because I can see she's the aggressor. You >> see the injuries on her? >> No. >> But I got both of their stories and I can see how she is. I can see how he is. I can see she's very aggressive right now. So, if she doesn't get out of the car, it's going to probably happen that way. I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. I mean, I don't see any injuries on any of you. >> Yeah. There's no injuries. Like, she was begging me like pulling my arm trying to jump over and that's the only reason I >> She said she never touched me. Well, yeah. See, obviously I had my shirt off. You can ask the guy when I helped out. I have my shirt off. She pulled my shirt off. >> I got to call her shirt. Yeah. >> I just had to take my shirt off. She's like, "Walk me like by the shirt like I had to take off." >> Okay. >> What What property do you have at your house? >> At his house. >> My fire stick. And that's pretty much all I care about. And my chargers. >> Just your fire stick and your charger. >> My My chargers. My fire stick. And then the rest is like clothes and shoes and things like that. But I mostly just want my fire stick and my actually need >> What we can do is my partner will take give you a ride to his house. I'll go as well. We'll follow him. >> I just told you that and you told me no. >> Okay. Well, first I have to find out if it's okay with him. >> I just told you that. I asked you that. He's trying to help you out. >> I'm trying to help you again. Okay. For me to say yes, he has to say yes. >> Okay. He said fine. >> If you're good with that, that's great. >> I fine. I'll give you a ride and we'll go over there, take your fire stick, and then I'll be done. You asked him to put like my shower things and all of my dirty clothes and things too in the bag. Like I want like all of my things. >> Okay. You said just a fire stick or something. So, >> no, it's all of my clothes too and all of my shower things. >> Oh, your clothes and shower things. How much stuff is it? >> Yeah. >> All right. You're going to have to set that up with your over. >> Okay. Then right now No, he just said that I can get my chargers and my fire stick. >> So, if it's right next to the bag, why can't >> If it's something very quick, that's easy. If it's going to take too much too longer that he can literally just pick up with my dirty clothes, >> grab my shower thing because the bathroom is in his room and he can grab my chargers and my fire stick and it's going to happen with my things. >> We're going to follow him. He's going to get them. >> I'm trying to say charge my fire. >> What's that? >> What did you ask me for? >> Okay, you know what? Get out of the car or you're getting arrested. >> Okay, but I'm asking. >> All right, get out of the car or you're getting arrested. That's it. No more demands. No more demands. You're going to do what I tell you. Did I tell you or you're going to get arrested? >> Okay, but I'm asking you a question. >> Okay. No, out of the car. >> So, what did you question? >> Out of the question. >> Do what I tell you right now. >> What of my things did you ask? >> 95. >> 95. >> Get out. >> Out of the car. >> I still want my car. >> You don't have to pull me that hard. You don't have to pull me that hard. >> I told you. You had enough time. Now I I definitely think you are the aggressor in this. Grab her stuff or >> Oh, yeah. Her stuff is going. >> Can I please grab my things from my pocket, please? >> Yeah, we will. Give me your office. >> You have anything in your pockets? >> Does it look like I have anything in my pocket? >> Question. I have to ask. Do you have anything in your pocket? >> You had a problem when I asked you a simple question. So, maybe you should check for yourself. >> I was asking you. The woman was charged with domestic battery, disorderly conduct, and trespassing to a vehicle. Thanks. >> Okay, now this this case right here is tricky. I'mma tell you why it's tricky. I'mma tell you why. Because like I said when I did my little pause earlier, we tend not to believe women about men abusing them. And she says something that is kind of true. Now, no, now hear me out now before I get in on her. She said something that's kind of true. She said he's what he's going to do is after y'all leave, he'll come back to my house and harass me and then beat my beat my ass like she said and then y'all ain't going to do nothing. And then she said the dude said well the police said call the police. They said yeah like that's going to really make a difference. I have seen many cases when police and the law have ignored women when they telling them this dude is abusing he's harassing me and next thing you know she's unal alive you know what I'm saying so it's like a it's like a tricky thing because obviously she got a uh some issue she talk she got some aggression in her which is true but at the same time we tend not to believe women or we just take it lightly and I have done a lot of u body cam videos like that I have seen a lot of body cam videos and and and true crime things when the woman keep on saying this man abusing me y'all ain't doing nothing they let the dude out and restraining order ain't a ain't enough and then next they know they under a lot so I on that end I can understand but let's get on her if you keep on saying this is an ongoing uh what she said this is an ongoing thing leave him he's he's not no good for you y'all not working y'all toxic just go why you still want to be? And I'm like, the cop, why you going to be let us take you to the house and get your stuff? No, I'm on a ride. He go come and get me. I said, find a ride. No, no, he going to take me. Why do you want to be around? So you can keep on nagging him in the car and arguing about stuff. Just leave the whole situation, man. Stop wasting your time. And I can tell that I can tell why by her attitude. Why the grandma mad at her? Grandma probably don't like her. She probably just and she feisty and got a mouth and and the grandma just don't like her. She Let me tell you something, man. Parents and grandparents, they have this thing in them. They can tell if a person's not right. We never tend to listen. Not on all cases, but I can say most cases, parents know because I dated this girl back in the day. I was super attracted to her, man. She was just my type. She was short. She was chocolate. I just she was just my type. But my mama always felt uneasy around her. She said, "I don't know about her." And I in my mind I'm like, "She's straight. She a good person." And my mom said, "I don't I don't know. I just" Then she said, "I had a dream about her, man." And she was she had a sneak around you or something like that. She said, "I just" She said, "I'm not trying to be funny. I just something about her I don't like." Long story short, she was right. She wasn't a bad person like like a bad person attitude and stuff, but she she did some things to me. She was unfaithful to me and she started like flipping on me. Sometimes you got to listen to the grandparents and the parents. If they got an attitude they don't like a person, it's for a reason. And and we just we tend to never like just listen when these situations right here. and she turned something that could have been so simple and made it hard. That's all I got to say about this one right here. Y'all let me know if y'all agree with the things that I'm saying in the in the comments. I love these comments. I love y'all saying things. You know what? Even the ones that I don't dis that I don't agree on and even some of the ones that I just feel like y'all should just keep your mouth shut on. I like to read them because everybody entitled to their opinion. So y'all come in the comments what y'all think about her. What you think about this Moonfly right here? All right. Thank y'all for being here. Thank y'all for the love support on this channel. We really appreciate it. Thank y'all.