Why would this teen think she doesn't have to respect authority just because she wants her phone? >> What's good everybody? Welcome back to Body Cam Vibes. Back with another body cam video. We going to react and discuss two today. Shout out to Body Cam Leak Leak. >> [laughter] >> We're not going to waste any time. Let's jump right into it. Always remember, united we stand, divided we fall. >> Come over here, let's talk to the police. And I don't care. I don't care. She's 16 years old. She don't want to listen to my rules. >> And she took my phone and broke everything. She's 16. She can't even get up for herself. I'mma let you talk. I ain't about to argue over this child. >> So this morning somebody, one of these children, they stole >> One of her siblings that she hates. >> That she they took $2 out of my purse. >> After I got >> I don't care. >> IT'S MY MONEY THOUGH. >> All right, let's go. I'll talk to you over here. >> I don't care if it was a penny. That's my stuff. After I was nice to her. >> She's 16 though. >> Okay. >> I don't care. >> Okay. Well, he's trying to talk to me. >> I understand. I'm just going to >> Anyways, but >> No. >> But you should be talking to these kids that just witnessed her breaking all this [ __ ] AND KICKING MY DOOR. >> I thought you said you wasn't going to say that. >> Look her up on the computer. How? Look you up. But guess what though? I'm a grown woman. >> Turn her over to the police. >> You live at my house, but you're not living here anymore. >> What might leave? It's my name that's on the lease. >> You're not on my lease. >> Yes, I am. >> No, I don't care. As of today, you're not on my lease. >> Okay, thank you. Bye. Anyways, >> Come look at this glass she broke. >> I will. >> This is not my grill over. She's tearing up [ __ ] You're not never coming back in here. >> I don't Mom, why do you have to do is give me my phone so I can get the money? >> I said you're not getting no phone. YOU'RE 16 YEARS OLD. IF I WANT TO TAKE YOUR PHONE, YOU'RE NOT getting it. >> WHAT IS THAT? YOU'RE A CHILD. >> I PAID for that. JUST LIKE YOU PAID FOR THAT CAR, BUT IT'S NOT IN YOUR NAME. >> SO IT AIN'T IN MY NAME? I don't got a license, sir. And I got a car. >> But you paid for it though. That's yours. >> So it I paid for my phone. I DON'T CARE. YOU PUT THAT >> ALL RIGHT, CALM DOWN. Calm down. >> drinking. It's illegal to drink alcohol. >> Okay. >> OKAY, ALL RIGHT. ALL RIGHT, JUST give me 1 minute so I can figure it out, all right? Okay. I understand. Okay. All right. Just Calm down. Hey, stop. Stop. Hey, ma'am. Just give me a minute, all right? Hey, do you mind just I'll come talk to you in just a second, all All right. Okay. >> Lord, this is just boy, I swear, boy. >> Okay. Just talk. It was letters. Letters don't talk. It was letters. Don't talk. >> This morning um I bought I mean, this morning somebody stole $2 out of my purse. After I was nice and bought people McDonald's yesterday snacks from the game yesterday, and I was mad. So, I was like, "Mom, somebody took my $2. Can you find out who took my $2?" So, after that, I went in my room and I was just talking to talking to me myself. You know how you mad, you still want to talk about it over and over. So, I was in my room talking about it, and I closed my door so no I didn't start nothing with nobody. She banged in my room. Who I was talking to. Then I'm like, "Mom, I'm mad. I'm talking to myself. I'm not mad at you. You didn't steal the $2." So, then she just the situation started escalating more, and then she snuck She snuck in my room and took my phone. She snuck and did it cuz she know that I'm not going to allow her to take my phone that I pay for every month. Mind you, that bill is 200 plus that you're not even finished. Put that in your purse. So, you can't just be taking my phone. She drove me to school. I did not go to school because I didn't know how I was going to get home. So, I went home. And then when I got here, she started arguing with me more, and then I told her can I get my phone back? I got to go to work in a couple hours. So, I told her that the bus come at 2:50. The bus never came at 2:50. I don't have no type of phone. She left, and I couldn't even check the bus time. So, she got back, and I said, "Can you Can you take me to work?" And she was like, "Yeah, come on. Come on." And then when I got out the door when I got out the house, the doors was locked, and I was trying to open the door. She said, "Get away from my car. You're not" She think I'm trying to get the phone. I'm like, "I'm trying to get in the car so I can go to work with a with a phone or not. I need to be at to work at time on time. So then she kept saying, "Get away from my car. Get away from my car." And then I try I was trying to pull on the doors and then she she made me step all the way back to get the phone and then she locked the door right back and said, "I'm not taking you to work." So then I start getting mad. I was like, "Mom, I need my phone or I need to go to work. If I have my phone, I can call my friend at Ice to get a lift so I can get to work on time. You don't want to let me get my phone. You don't want to let me in the car. So how am I going to get to work? That's all I'm mad about is getting to work. And then she she got all the kids, left, locked the doors, and then rose um my hand was on the door um the door handle while she was driving cuz I was trying to get in the car with her or get my phone so I can go to work. And then she just sped off. Like how am I going to get to work? And then >> This this blood don't talk to her. >> And then she kept pulling around near things saying, "Recording her crazy B, crazy B." So I started saying, "You crazy B." back cuz she's always calling us B words and all that stuff. So when I say it back, it's a problem. Like what? And then she kept um going around the block and then I went to the neighbors and called the police. >> So at what point did the window get broken? >> With that the window never got broken. I had a key. First I was trying to open the window to get in the um house and then I found a key over there. So I went to the side door, I opened it, and I got in the house. And then when she came, she came walking down the street and saying, "You kicked down my door." She don't know I got a key to the side door. >> Okay, what happened to your hand? >> My hand is when I punched that cuz I was mad. And then um she came >> Punched what? >> The that thing right there. >> Like the box on the side of the house or >> Mhm. >> Okay. >> And then she came with saying, "Oh, you're not never going to get back in the house, stupid B." And then I knocked down that. And that's why that is right there. >> Did you knock down the grill? >> Mhm. >> Okay. Did you buy the phone or did she buy the phone? >> I bought it. It's in my dad's name. It's not even in her name. I just paid the bill $142. >> Okay. All right, just hang out out here for me. >> I just want to say this before they get to the mom. Uh it seems to me, I don't know everything. >> Mhm. >> But it seems to me, I sense a little jealousy. >> Between like mother and daughter? >> Yes. >> I see it all the time. >> I see it. We we going to talk about that later. But it it's something when it's that from from hearing her talk We'll get into that later, y'all. Let's let's get back into it, y'all. >> All right. Can you Can you tell me again what just what's going on? >> Well, this morning she got mad and she said she was missing $2. So, I said, "Raquel, because we woke up late cuz I still play football. We had a game this week." We woke up late today. Everybody was late. I said, "Listen, everybody put on whatever and let's get out the door." So, she I guess she looked to see in her purse cuz she said she wanted to get her coffee. I said, "Raquel, please let it go. I'll give you the money. I'll give you some money. I'll replace it." That's what I said. >> Okay. >> I told everybody they was bickering and I told everybody be quiet. She's the only one that didn't listen. I said, "Raquel, please stop. Get ready for school." She go on and on. I'm talking, yelling, cussing, talking. This is all the time with her. Every few days she got an episode going on. So, I said, I seen her phone was on the floor cuz that's the only way I can get her attention and get her phone. I always take her phone because you my child. I I helped you get that phone. So, therefore you not about to sit here and disrespect me in my house. So, I grabbed the phone, we leave, and I dropped them off at school. When I When I came back, she was here. I said, "You need to get up and put your work clothes on because I'm about to take you to work so you don't be late cuz I got stuff to do." So, I said, "Are you going to school?" She said, "Yes." So, I drive her to school and at 12:00 cuz she get out at 11:30 and I figured since she on her phone, maybe she think I'm going to pick her up. So, I called the school. I said, "Hey, is my daughter still there? I was going to pick her up." They said she never When I pulled off, she left the school. She never went into the school. When I came back home, she was laying in her bed. I said, "You need to get up and put your work clothes on because I'm about to take you to work so you don't be late because I got stuff to do. She didn't want to do what I said then so I left again. I came back she came in the door. The kids I was picking them up from school about to get them ready because they usually go to their granny's house on Fridays. They're here getting their stuff ready. She comes in the house and I get my stuff ready. Huh? No, she doesn't go because they have a different dad. Her dad don't deal with her because she steals she stole from his house and he cut her off. I've been raising her by myself with my husband of 15 years. My My husband lives in Maryland. We're kind of separate right now but he's coming back next month. So I asked I said well can I cuz I got to get two phones so I said well can I order one in her name and under your name and she said yeah. She did pay the bill 143 when she got paid or whatever. But the fact of the matter is I took you to Metro I took you to Boost and they said you got to be 18 to get a phone. She does not have no phone in her name. She can't get a phone in her name cuz she isn't 18. The only reason why I took her phone is cuz I asked you to be quiet you not you keep on causing chaos in the house. Everybody trying to get ready to go we argue late. You're not listening. So when I told her to get ready to go to school and I dropped her off I was going to give her the phone after school because I felt like she would be calm by then and we could talk. But you never went to school. So that's two things you did this morning. You was unruly this morning then you skipped school. Okay? So I said well I'm not giving this I was going to give her a ride to work when she start calling me so I pulled her out my door I said get away from my car. I was going to but the phone was sitting in the cup holder. So my my door window was cracked she kept trying to reach her arm in. Then she kept pushing up on me so I brought my son out here. She said if you touch me I'm going to kick you in the nuts. He still grabbed her and they both fell on the floor. Then she started trying to bust my window and stuff. Can you go over there cuz I left you alone while I'm talking. Can you get her? >> Yeah can you just go away by my cruiser? >> You see what I'm saying? You see how she >> I got to talk to her first so go away by the cruiser please. >> You see how she thinks she runs stuff at 15 years old? >> Yep. Go away by the cruiser, please. >> Is she not even listening to you? This is I get it 10 times worse. >> I understand that. I'm just trying to figure this out. So, if you could just go away by my cruiser. >> Look, you see what I'm saying? >> Okay. Well, I'm I'm investigating potential criminal activity. So, if you want to just >> He He He doing his job. You can't tell him >> Can you hurry up? I have to figure it out. All right. I promise you I will not be here any longer than I don't have to. >> Right. We all got things to do. You would have been at work if you wasn't doing all that crazy stuff and anyway. So, this is what happened. I pulled off because she kept I was going to take her to work, but she kept on trying to I'm sorry that you hate me. I love you, sweetheart. I want you to go away. I'm trying to talk to this man. So, she kept pulling the window was cracked. She kept trying to stick her arm in there. So, I was like, "Get off of my thing." cuz I see she keep leaning on my mirror. I don't want my mirror to break. >> Okay. >> I had to unlock it manually with my key so I can get everybody in the car because she was trying to beat on my car. So, when I'm pulling off, she she's beating on my car and hitting it with stuff. So, then I came back to where I was about to see where she might have went. And I see her pushing my girl down. And then I see my door fly open and that way. >> Okay. I'm going to talk to her. So, if you could just wait over there. >> I did call her out her name because she's pissing me the [ __ ] Every Every couple days this is what the she be doing. Okay? When we first moved here, she had a whole episode across the street fighting the police and I begged them not to take her to jail because I know that she's stressed. She don't have a I sure did because you in here acting a fool. YOU NOT ABOUT TO She want me to fight her so bad, but I won't. I won't. I'm not going to be like these other moms that that be fighting on their daughters. I got way more strength than what she think. She think she could beat me. She keep trying to gauge me into a fight with her, but I'm not doing it. That's why I pulled off and took my kids away from that because they don't need to be seeing you acting like that. So, I came back around here and she like And I said, "You're not coming to my house." So, she ran in here locked the door, but I got a key, but she holding my top lock to where I can't put the key in. Just doing dumb [ __ ] So, now I said, "No, I'm not giving you a ride. You don't want me to drive. If I didn't want you to have a job, I wouldn't have signed your permit. You have to get my permission to have a job. So if I didn't want you to win, I wouldn't sign it. She is always in the middle with some drama. I try to be there as much >> Hey, I'm talking to her. So if you could please just wait by my cruiser. >> No, I see you. >> You are you are literally delaying the process. So if you just want to stand by the cruiser, that'd be cool. If you keep coming over and talking, I'm just going to put you in the back of it. >> Okay. >> You're jumping in. So >> I'll walk her to the car as of course. >> I ain't going to lie. I said I would have took you to the right but after you just did all that, I'm not doing [ __ ] I'm not taking you nowhere. >> All right. >> Why would I give you a ride or give you a phone when you ain't YOU AIN'T CALMED DOWN SINCE THIS MORNING OVER $2 WHEN I SAID I WOULD GIVE YOU THE MONEY. Whoever took it, I don't know who took the $2. Siblings do [ __ ] like that all the time but I said to diffuse the situation, can you be quiet? Can you stop arguing with everybody? I'm not talking to nobody. I'm talking to myself. But the thing is you still be a negative and we all need to get out the door. You need to get to school. They need to get to school. Like what is she arguing and cussing and mad about $2 not going to get it back and it's not going to solve it. So I told you I would give you the money back. I won't hurt. I don't know. I want you to help her. >> Please. >> I don't know if she need to go to St. Thomas and get evaluated. I don't know but everything you just did was crazy. So anyway, this is what I'm saying. I'm not mad. I'm not trying to get her in trouble over this little [ __ ] I just asked her to be quiet and be respectful because if you think that maybe you are grown enough to be on your own, maybe you should go stay with Randy. You have a job. You have your school. You about to be a full body. You could be successful. If you hate me so much and you don't want to follow my rules when I tell you to stop, when I say stop engaging and stop talking about this, I will replace it. That's not good enough for you because you want chaos. Let me tell you something. Let me get mad. What she do last time? Y'all didn't she tear her room up? She tried to jump out the window. Me and my son had to get her back in but she like I just want to She be doing crazy ass [ __ ] all the time. I let her I let her have company. I let her go where she want to go. I am a I am I try to be more of a friend because I want her to be happy. >> That's the problem. That's the problem right there. >> Where does Where does she work at? >> Panera. >> So, I guess for just for me so I can help you out the best cuz there's juvenile stuff is a lot more complicated and there's a lot more of like >> I don't she does not understand that if she get in that system it's hard to get out. >> So, that's what I'm trying to figure out like what would I guess kind of like the best thing for you. >> What's my options? >> Like without putting her in any sort of a system is like >> She don't got no family members out here. >> Yeah, so if I me just got to hearing everything I think the best case scenario and I'll have to look it up to see if it's something that I'd be able to take her to if if that is an option cuz she missed the bus or at least take her to a bus stop maybe for like a little bit away from here. But if she can get to work um as long as she can get back like on the bus or whatever else is that Okay, so if she can Okay, so I'll do a report on it just so there's like some documented proof of what's going on. I'll just say like hey, you didn't want her at this time. You didn't want this to turn into a thing and I can give you the phone number for I get that. So, so I can do that. I can give you a referral number. So, I can give you a phone number for CSB and I guess what I would recommend for today would be let her Okay. Well, that's kind of like a Yeah, it's kind of it's yeah, it's a Yeah, it's kind of a legal mess to be honest with you. >> I don't know. I I would have took her to work but I ain't I'm her nowhere now. >> No, I get that. >> I'm not nothing for her. You're not I told you you're not getting that phone ever back, especially now. And don't talk to him, please. >> Okay. >> You better get her. I'm telling you because she keep on trying to I'm telling you. >> Well, I can't so in terms of like what I can do and you know, it's all like a matter of it's all a matter of like legal precedence. Does she have her bus pass on her? >> I will get it. It's in my purse. I tried to give it to her. I don't know why she It's in my purse cuz I gave it to her. >> Okay, I'll just meet you back out here. >> I said no. What >> You're 16 and you disobey me, you get nothing. >> I need my phone. The I paid for IT. LIKE I NEED MY PHONE. >> OKAY. >> I paid for school. I have a doctor's bill. >> I'm not giving her the phone cuz it was a a privilege to have a iPhone 6. >> No, I get I get that. So >> I need the bus pass. >> I'll see what time it come. >> No, I NEED MY PHONE. I GOT I'M OUT AT 10. >> AND I'LL MAKE SURE you I'll pick you up. >> NO, I DON'T WANT YOU TO. >> WHAT? You see that? >> I want to go to Safe Landing so I need my phone. >> Okay, well let's call them. >> I have a $200 bill. I just paid for it. >> And guess what? >> And I don't get to use my phone and take the buses? You know, I get out late as heck. Like what? >> I'm calling Safe Landing right now for you. >> I need my phone. >> I told you when you got paid to get a new phone. You didn't. >> What is Safe >> You told me to take my phone. >> I know, right? >> And I gave you $100 the other day. Be quiet. >> I need my phone. I need my phone. Like I need my phone. >> I KNOW. >> LIKE WHY ARE YOU HOLDING UP MY DIRECT DEPOSIT? I NEED MY PHONE. >> GUESS WHAT? I'M GOING TO MAKE SURE YOU >> OKAY, I NEED MY PHONE. >> I'M GETTING NO. YOU JUST BROKE [ __ ] You just KNOCKED IT OVER. YOU JUST KICKED MY DRAWERS OFF. NO. >> I PAID FOR THAT. >> And this is why. She's not allowed in my house. >> Just calm down. >> Okay, can you give me my phone THOUGH SO I CAN GET TO WORK? WHAT TIME IS IT? ALL I NEED IS MY PHONE SO I CAN LEAVE. THE PHONE THAT I PAID FOR. Like what this is just crazy. >> How's it going? Good. How are you? I'm okay. She keeps going back and forth. She said she can stay there and the daughter said that The daughter said that she wanted to leave or go stay at Safe Landing. So, Give me give me 1 second. So, here's Well, you need to you need to talk to How you doing? >> Yeah, I want I want her to come she wants she's going to volunteer. She said she don't want to be there. So, do you guys have a van for her? She wants she just said in front of me she WANTED TO LEAVE. >> IF YOU DON'T COME OVER HERE AND CALM DOWN I'M GOING TO PUT YOU IN THE BACK OF THE CAR. OKAY, AND EVERYBODY >> YOU SEE HOW PHONES MAKE them kids act? >> Yes, all the [laughter] time. Oh my god. Oh god. >> You're going to get >> Lord Jesus. >> Stop running. YOU'RE MAKING THIS WORSE. STOP. OKAY, WELL NOW WE'RE GOING TO GET >> Lord man. >> Stop fighting. Stop fighting. Stop fighting. >> The teen was arrested and charged with resisting arrest and obstruction. Drop your >> Ooh. >> Oh my god, man. You know what? I'mma tell you, man, if I didn't want to see what was going on in this video, I would have been fast forward y'all cuz I cannot stand all that yapping and blah Y'all can't take that. That make my nerves bad, man. I just can't I can't deal with that, man. And that was a good cop, I have to say, cuz I would have been grab grab her and you would have been in that cruiser. >> Yeah, he was very um tolerant. I feel like he was a little little uh too tolerant. >> yeah. But god, dog, man. This this is a crazy situation. >> Mhm. >> It's just so many things I want to say. >> Yeah. >> Oh, man. Should should I get on the phone thing first or I just start somewhere else? >> Well, let's go back and um correct something that we both s- What you said about the jealousy. >> Yeah. I thought it was >> Kudos to mama for not being one of those moms. She seems like a very level-headed mom, >> Mhm. >> a very cool mom, mom who's like she said trying to be her friend >> That's >> instead of being her daughter. That's the problem with a lot of youth today. >> right. >> The moms are younger, >> Mhm. >> so they try to get their kids more leeway to be free, to be happy cuz even with me, I I know growing up, my mom gave me a lot of leeway, but it's like a dog on a longer leash. >> Mhm. >> Being on that leash, you feel free. >> Yeah. >> And when it's time to wrangle your ass back in, you don't want to go back in. >> Right. >> The shorter the leash leash >> leash, mhm. >> [clears throat] >> the less you feel like you have you like oh I already know I can't do that I can't do that. But if you give them more >> Mhm. >> You know the old saying? What does it say? >> They said they said give a inch and somebody take a yard or something like that some [ __ ] like that and >> [laughter] >> Y'all he messes up all the >> What did they say? >> If you give a inch they'll take a mile or something like that. He Y'all he mess We have so much fun in this house. Because he will mess up the most simplest of sayings. But yes, as you can see mom being her friend and not just parent, she's taking off. She's gone too far. She won't listen. Mama can't reel her back in because she has that phone, she has a job. She like I don't need you what I need you for? Just give me my phone. I got my direct deposit on there. My money come on there. I got my cash app. >> Mhm. >> They have all these ways of making money. >> Yeah. They don't need you. >> You don't know what they be doing on social media. They got apps where kids can do things and get paid for it. That's all I'm saying about that. >> Mhm. >> They feel like they don't need parents anymore. They The only reason why they need you is because certain things can't be done within a um you know at their young age they need a parent's like permission like she said to get a job or whatever. >> Mhm. >> So that's why she she's more like unruly is because she like man I already got me a job I got money coming in I don't need you to say this I don't need you to be in there. Whatever you want to say. She ain't even went to school. >> Right. But the mom The mom is the typical uh slap backer with their mouth. >> Oh yeah. >> Yeah they can't that's that's who they are. But I commend her >> Mhm. >> for saying she said she want to fight me. I ain't going to fight that girl. I love that. Most parents would beat their girls ass and knocking them out. >> Yeah. >> I like that she's like, "I ain't She ain't going to fight her." I love that. I I I love that. I was like, "Yeah." Um But, what I want to say is this um Did you see how the kids act about their phones? >> Yes. Yes. >> You take their phones Let me tell you something, man. Our lights was off. We had a hurricane about 2 years ago. >> Yep. >> Our lights was off, and even our phones was down. But, we had a we had the uh It was the internet on the phone the company. >> Oh, no. Our internet was down. Yeah, the everything. >> Yeah, everything was off. Yeah, all everybody's internet. And we sat here, man, and was just bored. >> Mhm. >> And I had downloaded some stuff >> Mhm. >> off one of our I think it was Netflix or something like that. And we watched the movies on the phone right here. Bored. Her son >> [laughter] >> He was like he was about to He couldn't even make it. He was like, "Oh my god, I can't even make it, man." Like they can't they can't even make it without their phone. See, we came from a non-phone world. So, we know how to put pop a DVD in, a VHS if we find something. We know how to be bored. This generation don't know how to function without their phones, man. >> No. >> And that's sad. >> It is. It is. >> walk out the door right now. You know, I've got used to my phone, and the only reason that I feel some type of way about leaving my phone is because you feel like something can happen to you out there. There's no payphones no more. >> Mhm. >> You feel like and you ask somebody, "Can I use your phone?" People funny about that. >> Yeah. >> So, that's the only reason why you feel some type of way. But, we can actually go outside, the old schoolers, and function without our phones. >> Right. Yep. >> Other than we need to contact somebody. We could just go. Sometimes I put my phone down and say, "Man, I I I got to take a break." >> Yeah. But, they don't know how to make it. >> I mean, when TikTok went down, the world went crazy. "Oh my god." >> Yes. >> The girl said, "I'm going to be bored for the rest of my life." I was like, "I don't even care about no damn TikTok." Like >> We don't even have Tik Tok. >> I'm like, nah, nah, nah, you take YouTube down now. >> Yeah. >> Man, I'll throw the world on fire, man. >> [laughter] >> Yeah. >> But, that's crazy, man, like they can't function without their phones. But, then let me put it this way, they put everything on the phones. Phones is kind of their life. >> Yep. >> Your money on the phone. Everything is like there, so it's kind of like a kid. >> Yeah, that's what I was going to say. I understand, I think I did say a little a little bit of it. I understand what the daughter is saying. I feel like mom was just using it as leverage. Like, yeah, I got your phone and see how your ass going to get to work now. See how you going to talk to your friends now. Because in her in her parenting, that's all she has left. So, she has to use that as leverage. Like, if you're not going to listen to me, this is the way I'm going to discipline you. So, that's that's all she has um left. That's the last string >> Mhm. >> as they say. But, um I just want to go back and reiterate, you know, um mom has, you know, kind of displayed some things that that um that are not uh like the stereotype. I love that. >> Mhm. >> I love that, you know, even though she is in a way some ways, you know, the uh the younger moms do more talking and more yelling with their kids. Um Some some times, I don't know, I guess it depends on how you're raised. >> Mhm. >> I was raised with an older mom. So, my mom was like, sit down. >> Mhm. >> Be quiet. We going to talk, blah, blah, blah. >> Mhm. >> It's no you running back and forth with your mouth. Your little young Nah, cuz my mom would have picked up something and probably bought me across my head talking like that to her. Oh, my grandmother back in the day. And my grandmother's grandmother's were usually older, could wrangle in the kids like Grandmother's now are 50. >> Yeah. No problem. >> Daughter's Well, I'm just saying like the older version of grandmother. Like they're they are 50 now. Like and then the the the younger versions, yeah, 42. Like grandma like so we don't have that same old school upbringing >> Mhm. >> that kept the kids in line. >> Right. >> Not saying it was always good because it came with a lot of abuse sometime, negative talk, whatever. But it kept their ass in line. Like my mom knows certain tactics that young moms these days don't know. >> Yeah. >> And so that's the only leverage she has is to use the phone. But I just I just applaud her for being like that different type of mom. She was like, "I'm about to get my kids out of this environment cuz you ain't going to have, you know, all of us out here yelling and embarrassing the family and da da da da da." >> I love that. >> Yeah, I do love that. But I also get where the daughter's coming from like I get off at 10:00 at night. You taking my phone. I don't pay $200 for this for the phone bill. Like come on, mama. Which I feel like they both have a right. I they I they just need a mediator to like help them, you know, and giving your daughter over to whatever it is called. What is called it? Um >> Uh no one asked me. You know I'm sitting here >> to say lay it down and I know that ain't right. Stay grounded. Grounded. >> grounded homes or something. >> Landing. Safe landing. Something. Something like that, y'all. >> Yeah. >> Yeah, we we always get that stuff mixed up. But so she does have some type of mediator between like um you know, teenage life and parenting. Which I feel like everybody should do that. When you realize that your child has something going on with them, find some kind of medium, a psychotherapist, a regular therapist, or psychologist. Get them to counseling in some kind of way if especially if they're on Medicaid or get some kind of s- assistance or if you have like personal insurance, get them some kind of help. There's no excuse for these kids not being able to be voice their opinions and stuff nowadays or get some help. But yeah, this was a crazy video. >> Yeah, it was. It was a good one, too. Something good that we can talk talk about. >> Yeah. >> Yeah, I was about to say uh also, women and women don't get along living with each other. It's something about >> I don't know what >> that y'all that y'all clash. Y'all clash in real life. I'm surprised women are friends because y'all clash. >> It's the mouth, yeah. >> It's the mouth. I think I think all of that stems from years of suppression. >> Yeah. >> From um the majority of black women in slavery, we were oppressed. And then we weren't able to say anything, weren't able to have a voice, weren't able to vote, so on and so forth. Now we like we free to say anything, do anything. We going to say what we want to say. And that's the problem. >> Yeah. >> We say too much. >> Hey, I ain't going to lie. You know, not to not to go against what you're saying, which is true. I see some white people clap back, too. >> Oh, of course, yes. >> I'm talking about I'm talking about women, period. >> We all women have been oppressed. That's what I'm saying. But specifically when you when when you hear people say black woman, you usually hear that angry black woman phrase. And that's where it comes from. We We have a lot more to be angry about. We were so oppressed. And I'm not going to go into any cuz I don't want to hear about that black fatigue. You can keep that [ __ ] But anyway, I'm I'm good. >> I know what you're saying, yeah. Um I'm I'm half on half with it. I I agree 100% what you're saying. But at the same time, like calm your mouth down. Shut the F up. >> Yes. >> Cuz I'm a man. >> when to shut up. We need to know as women. >> Thank you. Cuz the mom kept on going on in the beginning. I'm like, "Mom, shut up." Cuz she was trying to talk to the daughter. She kept on coming back, "Yeah, cuz you blah blah blah blah." Shut up. >> Yeah. >> I can't stand that, man. Just shut up. >> Yeah. >> Thank y'all for being here. Thank y'all for the love support on this channel. Now, let me tell you something now. I I I'm getting aggressive, but she know me. >> Oh, yeah. >> We don't even argue. >> Yeah, we don't argue. We don't have no stress. We don't have no issues. >> Yeah. >> We don't have no None of that in our relationship. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> None of that, but it just I have no tolerance for stuff like that. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. But, thank y'all for being >> Y'all. I know. Y'all, look. I ain't going to lie. >> Mhm. >> When we can learn a lot of things, we going to talk and y'all need to come over to our talking channel. >> Oh, yeah. >> This man changed me cuz I was not that I was That was What she was a >> I can't even see that in you. >> But, yeah. He didn't know me like that, but I was like that. And this man, he set some ground rules. We going to talk about that on that other channel, so maybe y'all should Try our other channel in this TikTok. >> other channel is S and K Talks. It was Real Talk Body Cam, but I changed it because I was like, um we wanted to focus more on discussion and have discussion about different things. So, I said, "We already got a Body Cam channel, so why have two?" >> Yeah. >> So, come on over I'll leave the link in the description, so we going to have some real talk on that channel right there. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> So, thank y'all for being here. Thank y'all for the love support. Thank y'all Thank y'all I already said everything and until next time. >> [laughter] >> Don't get caught slipping on camera. >> Yes.