Love, lies, and Snapchat. On the 9th of January, 223, Officer Aras responded to what's becoming a regular feature at 601. Another round of domestic chaos starring Snapchat, jealousy, and a lot of scratches. [Music] The count 47 on 23. Thank you. All right. Hi. Hey, man. Hi. So, what's going on? So, she just got home from the bar. She thinks I'm cheating on her, which I am not. Okay. Uh, this this is happen. This is probably like the fifth or sixth time, and I've never wanted to call. I've like to She just Yeah, she tore you up pretty good, man. Is that with just with her bare hands or bare hands? She It's crazy. This is like She's This is like the sixth time she's done this. So, she just got here. I think this is the last straw that I can take. So, just just walk me through. So, she got here and then she started attacking you. I was laying in my bed sleeping and she came in and she's like, "There's a girl that I talked to on Snapchat a little bit, but I have not cheated on her. I'm not I haven't seen her since high school." I got you. And uh and I sent her a picture of a flower or something like that. Yeah. Yeah. And so and she just came home and she came right into bed and just started attacking me. She ripped the necklace off, punched me in the face so many times, like as hard as she could. I gotcha. Okay. And this is like Yeah, like I said, I don't I didn't fight back, do anything, but this is like at least the sixth time this has happened. And it's the last straw for me. And she's in pretty intoxicated right now, I think. So, but I don't know. Does she have any weapons on her or anything like that when she came here? There's no weapons. I mean, there's she she's attacked me as like bam. She She was in karate, you know. So, she's like she's used her karate moves to choke me out, throw me to the floor, punch me in the face. Yeah. Okay. Let me just take some pictures of your injuries, man, cuz those are pretty. I don't know what else. She did that just with her hands, right? She punched she punched you in the face and she scratched you up. Yeah, I have other pictures in my phone from when she's attack when she's done this before. I've called her I've called her mom when she was attacking me like this before and she smashed my phone to pieces when I last time I called. So, I'm going to start in your stomach area, man. Just cuz I see that one right away. Yeah. In my chest. Your chest area. I don't know where all. Okay. Let me see your neck if you want to lift up. Do you want medical attention? No, I don't. Let me see front of your face, man. All right, let me take a look at your back real quick. She She's Did she bite you? Yeah, she was biting me. Yeah. Okay. I didn't do I did nothing. All right, let's see. I have other pictures of my phone from the last time when she did this. Like punched me in my face, told my busted my lips open and punched me and All right, then. She's inside the are the door. She's inside naked. Lock all the shoes, shut me out, and lock the door. You guys have any weapons inside? Like any guns, fire firearms, stuff like that? No. I said she was on like martial arts or something. She's got any swords or anything like that in there? No. Okay. If the door's open, are you okay with us going inside? Yeah, but it's um It's locked. You're pretty sure it's locked? I'm pretty sure it's locked. Just do me a favor. What's your uh what's your last name? And do you know hers by chance? Uh her phone number. Yeah. If not, it's fine. Let's just try to make contact. See if we can make contact with her. Um, I'm going to be honest with you. I mean, she's going to be arrested tonight if she comes out. Okay. Uh, all right. So, I don't really want to get her in any trouble as much as I want this business. Yeah. I mean, unfortunately, in these situations, and domestic situations, it's not really like if you want to or not. It's like we we're obligated. We're obligated by law. It's the state. If we show up and there's injuries, like by law, we have to take enforcement action. Yeah. So, Okay. So, we're gonna try to make contact with her. Okay. So, if you want to do you want to hang tight right here? Well, can't even believe this. Is this your vehicle? Oh, I own both vehicles. That's the one she always pure hives. You can see she must be feeling way too hard. Okay. All right, boss. Is there a kid inside? There is a kid. Screaming 2year-old son. Is she Is he okay? Did she touch him at all? No. No, I don't think she would ever do that, but who knows? So I'm if my part didn't react it's like has she been drinking or she only I think she's been drinking. I don't think she's on anything. Have you known her to not uh drugs? Not that I if she does she hides it from me. Uh I don't think I think she's probably just drinking. I think she thinks I'm cheating on her, but I'm not. Okay. All right. All right. Like my partner said, just hang tight here and we'll, you know, try to get this all. The boyfriend claimed he was sleeping when his girlfriend, Stephanie Haynes, returned from the bar, saw a Snapchat photo of a floor, scandalous, and unleashed fury. He ended up with scratches, cuts, and a bite mark because apparently that's how she says, "I love you." He didn't fight back because getting mauled once a month seems to be their thing. Um, let us see if she'd be willing to come and just speak to us at first and then we may go that route if need be. Hey, Stephanie. Mind if I go in and just shine a light and see if she's sitting there? And where is that out? That leads out back. [Applause] Hey Stephanie, this is Officer Aras with Decal Police Department. I'm going to need you to come out to speak with us. Is she answering you at all? What's that? I think our back bedroom window is open in the back. I don't know if she's getting dressed right now. Hey, Stephanie. This is Officer Aras with the Cal Police Department. Could you come out and talk to us? Stephanie, I'm going to need you to come to the door. This is Officer Aras with Decal Police Department. I want to check around. Yep. 91. What's that here? How about we hang tight for a second just because she did try to hurt you, you know, when she got here. I don't want you to get hurt going back inside. Let's just see if we can work with her and try to get her own. Does she Does she take any medication or anything like that? Is she She takes anti-depressant medications and if she doesn't take it or if she drinks on it, she goes crazy. Okay. Has she ever been suicidal or anything like that? I I think that you know, I don't know. Okay. Okay. Just want to make sure. Um yeah, just hang tight for a second. Stephanie, this is Officer Aras with the Cow Police Department. I need you to come to the door. 21. She's at the front. Hey, Stephanie. How was how's it going? Can you step out? Can Hold on. I'm going to Can we come in? No. I need to talk to you. No. No. Okay. I'm sleeping with my son. Okay. I'm but naked. Okay. Well, I need you to come to the door. Okay. I'm at the door. Okay. Well, I need you to put Okay. Um No. No. No. And no. Okay. Well, I need you to I need you. This is my house. This is not your house. Hold on, man. Sorry. It It's done. We have full entrance. Okay. Can you wrap up so we can talk? No. I need you to wrap up. Okay. Well, you need to come to the door, Stephanie. I do. Okay. Who says I need to? I do. Okay. The police. Yes, I'm the police. We need to talk about what happened today. Okay. So, go ahead and wrap up for me. What happened today? I worked three jobs today. Okay. Can we talk about it? If he if he goes somewhere else, can we talk about it? No. Why? I have a child sleeping in my bed. We can work that out if you can come and talk to him. Good night. Yeah. So, I appreciate you coming to the door. So, let's talk about it. Okay. Can you wrap up, please? No. Why? Good night, Stephanie. We need to talk. Why? Good night. Okay. So, I'm going to need you to come. Okay. So, I need you to wrap up. Wrap up with the towel. Okay. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Stephanie, I need you to stay right. Can we come in? No. I need you to wrap up. Okay. Well, we need to talk. Why? Okay. What happened today? Do you want him to go somewhere else so we can talk? Who? Your husband. He's not my husband. Stephanie, wrapped in a blanket in confusion, played innocent, then said maybe they were being romantic when she clawed at him. All right. All right. So, right now, put your hands behind your back. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Put your hands behind your back. I gave you I gave you plenty of chances. Put your hands behind your back. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Put your hands behind your back. Wait, hold on a second. I'm going to cover you up. This is a dislocated elbow and my hand is broken on the Wait. I'm going to keep you covered. Relax. Why am I relax? We're going to keep you covered up. Take a deep breath. Take a deep breath. Your kid is sleep. Take a deep breath. Where can we get you cold, Stephanie? Your legs. What is happening? Here. Let me have the I got her. Have the husband come in and grab some clothes. He's not my husband. What's that? He's not my husband. What is he? Your boyfriend. I need you to get her some clothes. Oh my god. Pants. Okay. I'm just letting you know right now you're arrested for domestic banner. Just go ahead and go. Oh my god. [Music] right now. Just sleeping with me. Okay. Go ahead. Are you okay with me putting a hoodie on you? No. No. Is there stuff? That's not what I'm putting on. I'm not putting on a sweatshirt. Do you want a t-shirt? T-shirt. shorts. What the Okay, you're being arrested right now. I don't know why this I'm going to explain it to you. Okay, just take a deep breath. Okay, you're fine, right? Look, he's got a shirt for you. But I do want them here. I'm going let you work on it. Okay, we're done. I'll advise in a second. Um, she was naked, but we're working through it. Okay, that'll work for right now. She can fix up again. You're never going to see him again. You're never going to see him again. Well, that's a discussion for a later time in the date. But let's get Let's get your clothes on, ma'am. I'm done. Let's just get your clothes on. Let's I want to talk to Officer Gordon. Okay. I want to talk to He's not on a shift right now. And I'm the officer taking the police. So, whatever. Why are you dressing me? Because you're naked. You need to have clothes on you. I'm asking him why he's dressing me. Because you're naked. I kind of feel like you're showing me kindness right now. You're showing me kindness. We're going to lift you up. Come on, ma'am. Stand up. Okay. Go ahead. Help us out. There you go. Help us out. That's clear valid. Which arm is You said you have the right arm was dislocated. Okay. She got a pair of flip flops. Can I have a ponytail? I was I was asleep. Okay. I'm going to pull your shirt down some more for you. Okay. Here. I'm going to double lock those for you. Hold on, Stephanie. Hold on. What shoes do you want, Stephanie? What shoes do you want? I have a pair of green flip-flops. Where they at? I think they back door. By the back door. Back door. Okay. Can you see if there are some green flip-flops? We'll bring the city PD with us. Um, you said they're by the back door. All right. Oh my god. Hey, what was your first name again? Stephanie, Stephanie, stand up. He has to double lock those straps or they're going to get tight on your wrist. You don't want your wrist to hurt anymore. I don't know. Do a favor. You go hang out right there. We'll be back with you in a second. Okay. Come on, Stephanie. Stand up. You want to get shoes on, Stephanie? Come on. You got to go with us now. Let's go. Otherwise, you're going to go barefoot. I know. I get a little Okay, that's fine. Take a deep breath. I have a very bad breath. Okay, then let's get you outside. It's a lot cooler than something. Yes, I do. Have an inhaler. Do you have an Stephanie? Do you have an inhaler? It's in the other room. It's okay. Door. John, do you know where it is? To the left. Hey, John, you see if you could locate her inhaler for me. You said she has one. No, I'm going to go. I'm working with it. I just can't. I need to Do you want to Do you want to use your inhaler right now, Stephanie? Yeah. Okay. So, stand up. You got to stand up. I can go get it. Here. We got it. Stand up. Stand up. Can I have the hair on my face? Yeah, absolutely. Sorry. Stand up so I can help you out with your hair. Okay. It's a little short, so it's fine. There you go. There we go. Which one would you prefer? The inhaler, please. It's a push down and then breathe. Okay. Okay, just let me know you're ready. Oh, no. Let's do it again. You have to push down and then like my mouth has to go. Better. Can I put my hair? I wish you wouldn't have put this on. I want to put the hair out of my face. Okay, stand up. Stand up. Just stand up. Stand up. We're gonna be out of here. If you don't cooperate with this, you're going to get a resistant charge. Come on now. Oh, no. I just have this all in my face and my nose is running. Keep Stephanie, one thing at a time. Keep your head still and we can help you out with that. All right. He's going to help you out. Just keep still. Okay. No, you're not getting all my hair. I need Put your shoes on. Put your shoes on. We'll get it outside. Wait, hold on. Hold on a second. Just Can you listen to me, please? No, we're not making deals with you. I'm not making a deal. I'm going to I'm not making a deal. Can you listen to me? Put your shoes on. We're going Can you put my hair in a ponytail like this? We'll let you do it at the PD. You're going to have to do it at the PD. Let's go. Cuz we You're going to be released at the Put your Put these on. Does that work? All right. Put them on. I didn't know that. That's Well, you're not letting us explain. I'm sorry. I don't know why. Okay, that's fine. Let's just get out of here. Okay. I don't know why your son is my word against your child. Hold on. Your child's sleeping, correct? You don't want to wake him up to see this. Let's go. Why is it my word against you? Okay, let's put you explain the rest up there. Put your shoe on. Let's go. Okay, let's go. I could just hug my count. Your what? Stephanie, let's go. All right. I'm sorry. Let's go. This is my home. I drove myself home tonight. Don't say that. No, I mean earlier. It was much earlier. All right. Listen. Listen to me. Look at me. Yeah. I can't see you. Then throw your hair back. But I'm crying. Listen to me. Can you just move my hair out of Yes, ma'am. I'll move. Sorry. I'm sorry. You're fine. But I need you to listen to my partner. Okay. Whatever took place between you and him. Listen. Listen to me. Just listen to me. He's trying to help you out. I'm I really am trying to help you out here. That's Shepherd. You do not want to charge with the state for resisting. I not been there, done that. You don't want that. That's not doing that. I know. I know. So, I need you to listen to my partner. We're going to go down to the PD and then he can ask you more questions and you can give your side up. I am being it'll be explained to you. It'll be explained to you. Okay. Why doesn't his abuse get charged? Why doesn't that get charged? Talk about it. We'll talk about it after I'm elementary school. Go ahead. Watch your step. No. No. Watch your step, Stephanie. Watch your step. Are you going to sit back here with me? No. Stephanie, I'm just going to sit here. We're done playing. You're an adult. You're an adult. Come on. Work with me. I've been speaking to you. Somebody sit with me. Hold on. Let me put a seat belt on. Is someone going to sit right here? No. We're going to go to the police in front. We'll talk soon. My arms are Okay. Yes. They're behind your back cuz you're arrested right now. I'll be right with you. Okay. What was your uh first name again, sir? John. John. Okay. Um, what I have here is a uh uh domestic violence information sheet. This is something that we provide every single time we go domestics. Whether there's injuries, probable cause to making arrests like we had here tonight, it doesn't matter. We always lead people with this cuz a lot of people don't understand the rights they have, especially males. Okay. Um there's a lot of information on here. Take your time to read it. Essentially, it's explains what an order protection is, how you can get one. Okay. Um there's also a number for safe passage. I don't want to blind you. This thing gets pretty bright. But um there's a number there for safe passage that if you choose to, you can contact them. They have a lot of great resources that can help you and the kid out during this time. Okay. Um obviously she got arrested for she did she she got you good. Oh yeah. So um hopefully this is the last time. Yeah. Even if it is the first, hopefully it's the last. This is like the fifth time at least. Jesus Christ. Yeah. Um well, hopefully your kid um didn't see here too too much. Hopefully they were just knocked out sleep, which is the best. But um I would really reach out to Safe Passage. Like I said, they have a lot of great resources um here in town. They're local. All right. Um if you have any questions or anything like that, always feel free. I put the report number, okay? Um on there for you. So, if you have any questions, anything like that, feel free to contact us, okay? Um, obviously, she won't, it's a domestic related charge, so she'll be going to county tonight, so you don't have to worry about her getting bonded out, showing back up here, okay, today. Okay. Okay. You okay? Yeah. I know it's rough, but you did the right thing by, you know, removing yourself and contacting us. So, good good job for you. Okay. All right, buddy. Thank you. All right, man. You try to get some rest tonight. Okay. Okay. All right. 2051. Oh, man. Oh, man. Okay. Hey, Stephanie. Yeah. Hear me out, okay? Just Just hear me. I don't mean to be disrespectful. I just really shy. Okay. Can you let me speak right now? What? Can you let me speak? really quick. Okay. No, I I I appreciate it. Okay. So, this is what's going to happen. Okay. We're going to go to the police department, but I need you to work with me. We can't keep doing this whole bargaining thing. Okay. Bargaining? Yeah. Where you're like, "Oh, wait. I need this. I need Because I can't wipe my nose or do anything for myself." You're going to be able to wipe your nose at the PD. Okay. I'm going to release those handcuffs once we get there. Sound good? We good? This is so real. Oh my god. All right, take a deep breath for me, Stephanie. All right, I'll walk you through the process. Let's just let's just keep going through this. Let's get whatever happened tonight. How does How does he not get All right, we'll talk about that all right now. Just give me a second. Okay. Hey, Stephanie, remember what we talked about that you were going to work with me? Yeah. Okay. Yes, absolutely. Okay. Thank you very much. He put my He put his pants on me. He didn't even put my own. Okay, I'll be right with you. Okay, just hang tight. You're leaving? Are you leaving me? No, I'm coming back. I just have to pull the hair out of my face. Yeah, we'll work on that. Just give me a second. Okay, it'll be real quick. Okay, Stephanie, I'm going to reach over you. Okay. Mhm. I need to reach over you. So, can you step back so I can take your seat belt off? Step back. Yeah, I mean like sit back. Sit back. Yeah. I forgot you're a teacher, right? What do you teach? K through five. K through five. So, you're like a sub or something? I'm a literacy teacher. Literacy teacher. Okay. Hey, work with me. Okay. Let's Let's get you through this so I can explain. I can't see anything. Okay. Well, throw your hair back so you don't hit yourself. All right. Take a step out now. Go ahead. Take a step. All right. You good? No one. I I did that. I get that. So, walk over to that door for me. Just watch your step when you're going up there. Okay. Stephanie was arrested, read her rights, and casually contradicted herself during questioning. No marks on her, plenty on him. Another toxic love story. Snapchat strikes again. Yeah, I'm good. I mean, if you are you busy? Stephanie Haynes was charged with domestic battery and was transported to DCSO. Okay. If you need anything, just wave wave up at the camera. What? What? What? Stephanie, we're not going to keep playing this game. This is the last time I tell you. Otherwise, I'm going to add a charge. Okay. I'm sorry. I I've been nothing but nice to you. Yes. If you need something, you wave up at the camera. Okay? You hear me? Are you hearing me? So, if you need help, you wave up at the camera. I'll be I'll be in here every 30 minutes if you need something. Okay? Stephanie, I need you to hear me out and acknowledge what I'm telling you. I acknowledge you. Okay? So, just take some time. Take some time to yourself. Take this time. Take this time for yourself. I'll be as long as I get this paperwork out, it should be fairly quick. Okay? But just give me some time. The more I have to be here, it's going to take longer. Okay? So, do me a favor. Just take a breather. You know, think about what happened tonight. She saw a Snapchat of a floor, flew into a drunken rage, scratched, punched, and bit her boyfriend, then claimed it was romantic. He got the bruises, she got the cuffs. Modern love.