and that he was hitting me to get me to listen cuz he was protecting by her jaw we do wrestle and D your back put your arms behind your back I'm stand right here on January 9th 2022 officers responded in reference to a battery that had occurred in this incident the victim and the suspect's parents met the police in a nearby parking lot this is when they broke down just how abusive the suspect truly is why you guys doing now it's a little complicated go I'm M okay to the to this child over here my let her come so it's your boyfriend okay and you're the mother of the boyfriend okay and that's the father okay how you guys doing all right so what's going on todaying me okay and I haven't had the nerve call I should have first started but I didn't all right I got today I kept calling and calling no answer so I go knock on the door he swings the door open and I can see something was going on in his eyes like she'll be out in a minute when she came out her shirt was wet like she been crying and she was like just get in the car and go I said what's going on she said get in the car and let's go but by that time he done W on her she saying all this is hurting and may is [Music] bruised okay all right so if you could show me the bruises from um where he hit you we can go from there yeah and when did that one happen last weekend and then so any from today I know it's I here in public sorry it's not Bo yet no no centr I'm saying right here he bit me okay and that was today M and and that's my mouth shut I and I when he did he did it so fast on on your neck and your chest and this is all from today little more all right and this happened from this morning okay around what's your name again typical you geia yep man we we don't want that you know we don't want that nothing bad to happen to him for us you know him getting attitude and then you having to you know what I mean yes sir he don't have weapons guns and all that but knes are in the home you know okay but he don't have weapons I don't hope he to be that dumb but I think he needs help that he won't get okay is it just a behavior that he needs help with or is it like drugs or alcohol it's mental mental mental health okay and what's a good phone number for you hey so um how long you guys been together seven years seven years um yall have kids together um how many kids two two kids and the home that y'all stay in how long have y'all been living together there we moved there in November is see there now there now Teri to go back home okay are they legally married no okay I got this place uh honestly it's in her name because my credits so it's in her name that I live there is that my name okay with no credit okay they don't know I put it in my name to get my drink off right right he he was now the but he done made his way to the apartment and W go uhuh and that's our son we don't want we're trying to you know it's when it's our right so what are y'all trying to get done he he's very he's literally been jumping on her day and today was the last St cuz my my grand child saw it okay and when my grandchild told me what happened it was a rap for me right right my grandchild told me what happened too okay that's the first thing he said when he came out to Door a grand grand uh dad dad did this m I said no has he done it before yeah it's like on the daily at this point has he been arrested for domestic violence before um do you mind if I take pictures of of it of the of the bruises the bites everything cover yeah I'll be right back you know because they came and she covered it up okay they she came they came to lock him up for it uhuh because her family called M and when when they got there she said um something else happened this is why my mouth busted because this happened okay and they did not take me and how long ago was that two weeks after my S may may early May late May early June okay this past year got is he uh own any drugs or anything no maybe marijuana okay you have any weapons no but like I said NES are in the home yeah but he don't have what he don't have any Firearms no terrified to go home I can't afford to put them up in a hotel because I got that apartment for her to get off the right and we don't want no situation where you know he by E ass or whatever y'all have to you know what I'm saying we don't want that right but if y'all got to take to jail right well I mean right and we'll investigate that and then if there's enough there than Poss right he's two right that's first thing he just told me when I go now I want my child to go to jail but I'm also going to protect mine well definitely yeah they're young and innocent and can't protect themselves this is too much I don't want my child killed either though you know what I mean right well nobody wants that right and he might have he already might have anyway for probation violation was on probation for you think all kind of Dum stuff I got it soci everything you can run it well I think that's what he's running right now you didn't get did you give him his name yeah we got on my leg okay that's fine oh you ain't got nothing under there you what is you what is uh what is you I forgot what you was I'll be right back what was you again for um military what's that um oh you uh uniform uniform she's uh I guess taking photos if you'll give Mom the the camera CU she doesn't want us okay so thank you you're welcome man check and see if uh you already put hers in the car I'm going to check and see if we have any history she said he might be on probation I'm going to see if uh we have any history with him real quick okay cuz if he already has a war makes it even easier yeah so with the relationship that they have and they having two kids together they've been together for 7 years um the home that they live in now currently together they established res uh residency together so at this point it kind of cancels out if you want to press charges or not because now it's a Family Violence um charge and the state of Georgia charges that so we are mandated to make an arrest regardless of her saying she doesn't want to press char or not just because it falls under Family Violence um and that's the state of Georgia so saying go to jail um yes he's terrified to go to the house so he will he will go to jail just from the simp of fact like you have the alleged crime the evidence to it and the relationship I say with the state of Georgia with that I'll give you a victim's bill of right it'll basically run down uh as far as you having a TPO from from him if you want to have bunk additions they're probably going to have bunk additions with this stting that he can't be probably with um around you or the kids and you'll have to set up times where he'll have to see the kids and do you know where he's at at he's at the house right now her key is she left her key but we have a key but yeah okay have to and he going to look at that one see cop car well being mother and father do yall think y'all could probably possibly talk to him oh yeah he don't respect us no I mean that that's basically why that's why I want going to be that that's probably why I wanted to that's why I want to come and tell you you know I know how he is uhuh and I I don't want nobody to kill him I know if I come I'm I'm going you know what I'm saying do something I don't want to do okay okay we probably just have to go from that point we have to ask our cuz nowadays the climate of law enforcement we can't do stuff without going to our supervisors and asking them so we'll ask them see where they want to go from there they'll probably say we have to kick the door in she got we got got the key okay then so yeah if you oh so y'all have the key so we don't even have to worry about kicking the door and um we'll just have one of y'all have to actually physically open up the door you know we can't do that and then uh bing that is on your name you have the right to say you can enter or not it Just cop car and there's little board that he can put in front of the door you know what I'm saying come cuz he going he can put that board on if he see that car he can put that Bo up a bigger problem so I need y'all to be he won't be a to see y'all car we have like tactical approaches where we'll probably leave the car out of the way and just approach a house on foot and go about it that way okay that that's all I need to know okay um before um we even start going into that realm I just need to know so when I do the report of the what happened today so what letter huh so so from from what happened this morning when y'all woke up till now tell it say it I ask him can you take out the trash okay make I said said yes or no I said we end up getting evicted cuz his house is disgusting he won't do nothing he got upset he started saying stuff about her falling and all this and then he started hitting me saying that I need to listen to him and keep my mouth shut I need to start talking I don't even know why he he just starts going okay I don't okay so that she belittling me and he's protecting me but you're kidding he who's Bel uh belittling you he said his mom is belittling me calling me a bad mother okay and that he was hitting me to get me to listen cuz he was protecting me but the way you were hitting me that's not protecting okay all right this last week it happened so why why did it happen you got CU I wouldn't have sex okay so last week when have sex with starting to get every other day and I and I understand me mar as you're holding back but I know it's uncomfortable to talk about this stuff but the more that you give me the more I can be able to help you out with the situation and writing up the report so I know um I don't know if you feel comfortable with talking to men but we'll be able to do the best we can if you just go ahead and let us know everything so we can help you I know it's I know it's very uh you know tell them what it do yeah I work 12 hours okay so I'm tired and I say no to sex because I don't feel the because all does me okay now starting to me because I don't okay basically I have to get of my kid and I have messages to where he demands me to come in and he said if I tell him no more time I'm going to get hurt okay do you still have those messages in your phone okay I'll later on um give you my email if you okay with just screenshotting them and sending to me I can also add those into the report as well I know I know it's difficult to talk about this stuff but I'm just here to kind of help you out um you said today was enough and and you want to get out of the situation that's why I'm here you took the first step with calling us and to get out of the situation so we're going to try to do our best to do what we can and so you said today when he was saying that your mother his mother was belittling you he grabbed you up and started hitting you my shut and when IIT so F did you um happen to get that picture of the inside of her no I don't know if y see it that we we'll try our best to um and then the bite mark I got it okay did you get my leg what was that one wouldn't that one occur last week last week okay so after he um I guess you was say hemmed you up by your jaw uh what happened after that he grabbed the knif he said that dead he was going to hurt her okay and I I got the knife from him how did you get the knife from him I power I could for it I okay and what happened after that there when she pulled up and knocked on the door and he slung the door open and said I'll be out in the morning and after that he was just talking and he's upset cuz I won't pay his formation anymore it's not my job to B it's not he he just sits there he don't she went to take her grocery shop so that's why came and got her told her he could she better not be gone that long yeah be bad when we get back and stuff like that so I just that's why I I kept her we've been G for we've been trying to figure out okay all right um so with the victim's Bill of Rights when I give that to you um I'll Circle a couple numbers where like once again you can get a TP you'll have conditions with this um where he Poss the judge will probably say he shouldn't have no contact with you or the kids uh probably his mother and father it just depends and if you don't feel safe with going home um it is a vine number on there that'll let you know also when he's released so if you want to get out of the house when he's released they have that number that'll let you know when he's being released and when we pull up I'm pulling I'm not going to pull up to the door I'm going to let you out to do they're going to be right behind you cuz I'm going to try to stay neutral in this as best I can you going to get out that car and you going to walk up to that door they going to be right here not going by yourself okay but I'm I'm not going I'm still don't need to give him a chance to put that damn board up there that's what I'm saying that's why I'm saying she's going to walk up to the door he's not going to see my car pull up I'm not pulling in the driveway she's going to walk down and go in the door they're going to be right behind not going to go in that let me go talk with my partner real quick and I'll be right back with you guys all right while searching the suspect in their database officers discovered that he already has a protection order for another victim which officers soon find out is a family member of his girlfriend protection order with another female and her family is it her family mhm okay who is that her little cousin was he saying her supposed it though well it's still showing that there's active um protection order I know it wasn't with her I think it might yeah I have her cousin cuz they they said that he was um being rude to her saying rude things to her okay so this is unrelated to all that unrelated but it's her it's her pleas got you okay I just I didn't know if you were aware of that or not oh yeah I'm aware of okay so is he is he normally violent a violent person well I mean just a violent person just with her does he ever have um like been diagnosed with anything like uh been anger management or no what ADHD and all that kind of stuff yeah that's kind of normal that's normal but as he's getting older he's turning into there a monster okay that's why I asked about drugs cuz a lot of times people when they start doing they don't do what they normally would do like alcohol uh I know marijuana for a fat right but that's you get that stuff from people got a hold of something that it wasn't good for him right right he's texting her now ask what taking her so long don't has he ever um hit the children I think so but my grandson is not going to tell me no story right well that's good most children are truthful years old he know what he's talking about right I guess at this point we're going to go over there I'm going drop her off on the side cuz I don't want him to I don't want him to see me with the and I don't want the kids to see y'all go in she's going to walk down to the door and he said that y'all will be right behind her going in right he's going to and I'm going to go around back in case he tries to you know run out the back but she going to walk in on the door is he known to run from police you don't run before but he ran right to the house and they went right on he dumb he dumb how old is he just turned 23 but he got a m over five year old oh man so nobody else should be at the house nobody El okay does he drive he said he's got suspended license I thing no he was driving without license oh there you go he got a yeah he he he been racking him up probation right now and he should be having a violation on there what was a I didn't see a probation violation onen yeah what was it for or what is he on one for the car situation and one for this family violence thing with the little girl a little girl girl oh okay the one with the TP yeah okay okay he want to go back home to your house jail no he when he gets out of there he will be homeless he cannot come to my house because he is not mentally stable to be at nobody's house well there there's programs if if if he's willing to change and do the right thing that they'll help him out with it and there's anger management classes he can go to definitely it's something that he's going to have to want he's notz can't force him cuz he's an adult now but he's going to end up in a sounds like he's learning the hard way as what and I'm I'm I'm his mother I I have two sons of a 19y old and I have him and I am that mother that protects her sound like it it sound like it but at this point I'm a grandmother man right your priorities on them I understand you you've done what you could with with them right now I'm going to be upet and I'm going to go home and probably cry yeah we're going to try to get his side of the story and then go from there but well good luck on that yes ma'am so you going to see them eyes and you going to know when you look in his eyes you're going to know something's wrong right so you want to leave the way wherever y'all Park we'll park behind and then we'll walk up there as long as it's out of view of the house okay you want to call him I'm going stay right here but just call him out or you can goes hello hello accpd 9971 the front door is open yes sir I made contact with Mr how you do how you doing M uh yes sir all right how you doing today pretty good so um can you come out here um so your girlfriend called us today 104 com around front about you guys having a argument or dispute with one another um what happened we have disputes all the time okay just had a little uh little slight disagreement hey how you doing what's happening that's all we just we just have our little ways and then we go our separate ways sometimes and we come back okay so what happened this morning if you could detail like from detail to detail you know basically we had a little argument about uh see it started off with us not having a ride and you know my mom she's having to do everything for us and whatnot and you know and just we just have little issues with you know us not having cuz we just moved here and us not being able to do our own thing mhm you know it puts us in a position where we always arguing okay we not necessarily getting along with each other so so what happened after when y'all had that argument this morning um we just had a little had a little disagreement you know we had we had um say hello we have contact with the ma house hold on real quick I'm go put a shirt hang out here come here come here yeah come out here real quick we a not done with the interview man yeah we yeah okay okay go ahead close the door come right y'all can come in if y'all want to no no no yeah yeah yeah okay so he's trying to get your your side of the store yeah so what happened after that when y have I know you saying y had a dispute but can you detail what happened during the argument um we had a little uh we had sex and and of course we just went our own way I mean what's the issue um so M has a few bruises on her body cuts inside her mouth scratches on her oh that was from last night and and she did uh uh bite her jaw we do wrestle and we play around and I mean I don't I don't hurt her now if that's what you trying to figure out well I mean that's she's calling us out here because of those those things why uh as far as the bite marks why would it be bite marks on her um B where did those come from the bik marks those came from the previous times that we've we've fought and that's been months and well not even months I've been locked up like previous times before this happened okay and the scratches on her neck and test the scratches of few came from a lot of the rough housing was doing and rough playing I don't believe she called y'all out here cuz we didn't even it didn't get that far as to this the fight and situation okay so that to figure out no so during the whole argument did it get physical uh no sir no so it didn't get physical today she just got those marks that uh look fresh on her today let me open the door no it's a little B it's a little I know but we we need you to come out here you know what just just put your hands behind your back put your arms behind your back I'm going stand right here put your arms behind your back put your arm behind your back all right keep want to go inside man you being detained right now I have you know that we don't we don't fight okay just so you guys know okay well well I mean that's why we're trying to give you your side out the store and it's a mere understanding mere uh dis misunderstanding as to what what was really going on between us and okay you want to hang tight with him okay I'll go get patrol car your car unlock or you can go get your patrol car I'll hanging tight with him so you understand you understand why we're out here right yes sir okay so is it right now you're being placed under arrest okay what I'm go ahead and read your rights so if we uh have any more question for you then you'll be under Miranda okay explain to why you well I'm trying to that's what I'm saying so you have the right to remain silent anything you say can will be held against you in court of law you have a right to a lawyer if you cannot afford to hire a lawyer one will be appointed to you at U the County's expense knowing these rights as wife if she tells you to let me go she y'all can let me go right no so right now uh so you live with with your uh girlfriend your child's mother right right right so you live together you have child together right you fall under the domestic violence laws in Georgia even if the person that is making the accusations doesn't want to go forward the state has to go ahead and take over the charges because y'all live together the domestic violence laws are there for a reason okay so that's why we're out here we're trying to get your side of the story at this point there's enough probable CS for arrest based on what this gentleman was telling you what this officer was telling you so Ian we'll let you talk to your mom we can give her a call is that who you're texting yes okay we we'll get you I got it I got it I need I need to put my phone thing I need to put my [ __ ] come on man come on man you you don't want to resist in charge we're not going to give you one you embarrass me I can't but no out here looking at you come on man y'all really doing me like this my girl we're not doing you like this you doing yourself like this y'all really making mistake right now I hope y'all know that you have your day in court okay y' make a mistake sir all right watch your you think we can do a little more talking about this before go ahead and read Miranda I promise y got the wrong information y y'all got the wrong situation at hand sir watch your leg I don't want have to pull you through there man this is my wife me and watch your leg me and my wife have misunderstandings all the time sit back he's going to roll down the window I just need y'all to talk to me watch your leg I got to close the door it's our policy can yall see she wrote me back on my on my yeah I look who you talking about your mom just anybody open it she wrote back okay all right miss about to read you I just need a yes or no for both of the questions that I asked at the end okay all right you have the right to remain silent you can decide at any time to exercise these rights and not answer any question come on sir you going to get another charge you keep playing around come on can we talk he's talking to you listen to him you to talk to me too sir do you understand each of these rights I have explained to you can you open the door so we can please talk do you have yes or no just open the door so we can talk yes or no M I need to do a little more explaining yes or no yes sure I understand okay have these rights in mind do you wish to talk to us right now yes or no yes sir okay so what do you want to talk about I need you to open the door so I can get a little more comfortable so my word can FL no we can hear you perfectly right here I y'all can stand in front of me I won't go nowhere I can't listen once the door closed it don't need to be opened up unless we taking you out at the jail that's it can I get a can I get a shirt can I get some socks we we can do that for you yeah we can do that for you where they at I just need I just need for y'all to walk me in we can't walk you in once you're in custody we it's our policy listen we're we're not doing all that what do you want for me to get you if not you go and you can grab arm listen either you tell the officer where he can get a shirt and shoes for you or you could just go like this is is all over the place I just need to I just need to go in yeah is she in there um I'm not sure she wed well I'm going to lock the door yeah she walked around the back so you can go ahead with all right so what am I being charged with um right now battery Family Violence Family Violence battery battery Family Violence means I can't come back around my family um it depends on what the judge say I don't make those rules you think I can ask him yeah you can ask him hey excuse me sir can I talk to for me I'm going to do the give the pamphlet and everything okay and uh my door Hey sir you mind if I ask you a few question ask what's up um um I explained to him in a more calmer tone of what happened between me and my wife right and um I'm still not able to uh explain it correctly because you know it just it just slapped me across the face I was wondering why she gone so long right well and and in situations like this uh it's out of hands it's going to be in the court system and then you'll have your day in court to be able to testify on your behalf and then you know she'll have her time to testify and go from there uh like I said devesta violence laws here in Georgia are very strict and what we can and can't do and once there there's a accusation made of Family Violence then we have to act and it doesn't matter if the victim wants to come for it or not if we come out and investigate we see there's enough probable calls then we have to do what we got to do um right now you're under arrest for uh battery Family Violence now like I said you'll have your day in court you're innocent he proven guilty I will I be able to bond out on these charges uh you'll be able to go before a judge uh and since it's a DV charge and you'll talk to them and they will set the bond they'll probably have Bond conditions how many days do it take to have a bond oh you you'll probably talk to the judge either either they'll come in this evening or it'll be first thing in the morning but um he's going to go ahead and get this ball rolling so uh you might can talk to one tonight so if if if cuz I'm pretty sure that I mean those are are merely just trampoline like exell you know well you don't have to explain your case to me um it it's neither here nor there at this point um I can can I be honest I always like honesty like me and my that was my mother who she was with and you know my mother she she shares a slight bit of jealousy between me and her being together and with us having our own place because she helped us get this new place uh due to credit but my wife she she pays the bills here CU you know we just of course we just moved in here like like two months ago gotcha and you know um and my mom she shares a slight bit of jealousy and and and I tried to you know talk to my wife about you know her her being in the position that she is and how she needs to own her position I'm just going to stop you there for for your own benefit and and for you to learn from this situation you know I would listen to what the court has to say there there's there's programs that you can go into for DV domestic violence and anger management issues uh talk to them but I was going to finish uh by asking like what's up if hours to get out M due to me having two kids and due to me having like due to this being my home for real and this was merely just uh a a a slight misunderstanding but a fair uh conclusion um okay M would I still be able to come back to my home that is entirely up to the judge it's not up to us they will set the bond conditions and then if you violate those Bond conditions you'll be right back in jail so whatever they tell you make sure you follow to a te cuz you don't want to mess up you know your case when you go before the judge uh for when this goes to trial or goes before the judge because if you violate those Bond conditions they're going to look like this guy's not even listening to what we got to say so they're going to look at it and like hey he's he's not following these orders so that doesn't look good on your behalf so whatever they set forth with the judge through the bond conditions follow them to a te generally they they have a lot of times no contact and or no physical contact stuff like that so you just make sure you listen to what they got and they're going to give you a copy a physical copy make sure you go by those until your court date okay baby baby I'mma call you can I can you stop and say my mama please that's my mama behind me oh I know can we can we speak to my mom please please please some money in my book okay she'll get you can call her you got her phone number um in your phone please can we turn around and say something no do you have your phone number in do you have her phone number my M phone number is it in your phone can you turn around please just go back by we have to go please does your wife know her number do that for me please sir please please sir please can you do that for me please love that I love that truck I'm a GMC Chevy guy myself you got that right got the 53 in it on the V8 oh 62 even better the bottom of my heart please Mr okay Mr for me please all right you not listening to me are you listening to me please please do that for please please please you're not trying to listen right now to me I'm begging you sir please do that for me have your phone go back to the house please all right you're not trying to listen does your wife you you have your number your wife number in your phone right yes so when they let you get her number out the phone just tell your wife hey tell my mom to put books on my um money on your books and they'll let you do that all right so this is uh the Crime Victims Bill of Rights okay this is your your rights as a victim of domestic violence okay um this tells you your rights um I read it when you get a chance okay um if you need a place to stay that's nobody knows you and your your kids you can call Project SAFE okay this is a great number they can help you with a TPO with the cost doesn't cost you a thing they can help you out um as a victim of of domestic violence okay the suspect was booked in for battery Family Violence first offense what do you think about 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