he just swung on me this morning but all of a sudden it's just a big deal a kid chose to raise a hand against his parents but the father's unconventional punishment took things in an unexpected Direction was there a tussle or something that happened yeah the kids I had altercation okay where they at police one right there and other one in the house one's right here this guy yeah that's a kid okay who's the other and kid my stepson in the house you okay you hurt no injuries or anything just make sure you got any injuries don't need a medicine so what did they call and say there was an altercation here what's up man what happened to you with who can you roll up your sleeves that's your blood all over so you got you got in a fight with a neighbor over what my M boyfriend she came he came in there like ripping down the curtains while I'm in there laying down now up in the back up your mom's boyfriend yeah not my mom left in the neighborhood no no no but your mom's boyfriend arranged this yeah where is he at now right there with the white um t top and you fought who one of the guys over there yeah who started the fight him really he came in there and then he ran out what did you guys argue about what was this over he's pin his hands on his parents this kid yes he pin his hands on his mother but his hands on me I'm his St back he's being abusive to us you understand me we dealing with DCF he done stop going to therapy every Wednesday he don't want no help for himself okay we trying to get help for him where do you live and that's your son and stepdad so if there is issues of him putting his hands on either of you do you all call us to let us know that this is happening yes call baby you can check our reports we been offic he came there trying to rip it down but I took it like before you could rip it and I HIIT it behind me and then that's when he tried to grab it from me and I pushed him off me and that's when he called on the neighbor what he tried to grab the curtain and then that's when the neighbor came inside yeah after he called down there and why did he have the neighbor come inside to come fight you yeah cuz he was mad at you did he hit you though no they let yall fight and then they broke it up yeah your mom's boyfriend or your mom they were both in there They Se both my sister don't came in there trying to help but my step like my mom boyfriend she pushed him out and told him no let it happen know I'm trying to get him into any kind of program something that's going to make his mind work do right exactly then you tell me is it a brother you keep swinging at your parents he and your parents did you get your parents growing up I couldn't oh okay and just like he has an opportunity to explain if you don't mind as a guardian may I speak with him in private and just talk to him about what happened do you want to talk to him okay okay come we'll go right over here I was on my game and my mom got a my grandma got a call so I'm like what's going on and then I hear say oh he in the house oh he's sitting down grandma or Grandma okay so you went over there mhm so I came over here and then I went upstairs he was hitting on and then his mom he was on his step yeah he hit him in the face okay uh he told me to handle him and I did but he told you to fight him essentially did you want to he wanted to fight the kid why the reason why this whole thing happened is because my sister had snuck him in he know he's not welcome there so as her big brother too like that's my little sister no I'm the little oh that's your big sister oh so your big sister's s him in if even if he hadn't have told you to beat him up you still would have but you took it an opportunity because he told you to all right they not disrespecting they Grandma I know your hands still work I understand no serious I believe it especially when you and everybody trying to talk to him everybody trying to talk to but nobody can get through what it's going to take for you to get leave him handcuffs yeah have you been home all day okay what happened today I woke up and I heard like yelling my mom and my brother my dad my brother got violent he St my D and then I my dad had called a boy down from another house to um come beat up my I didn't when you say getting violent did you see one do anything specifically he started throwing water and stuff and um trying to your dad oh and tried to kick him but did you hear how did you know your dad got that Ki from fight cuz I heard him on the phone he said bring him down I'm not going to make him fight him I just want him to stand here to imitate him and then that's when the kid came and want was just still getting violence so my dad just told K when they started fighting where was your mom and dad oh they like they moved out the way so they could fight mhm and then you and your sister how how did you guys get involved um cuz like this my brother so I don't want nobody beating on my brother I hear you so I tried to break it up and my sister she kind of like jumped in tried to get the boy back for my brother cuz he was hitting my pretty hard were you guys able to get him off k no no so how did the fight end uh I don't know I just I got mad so I just walked out the house and went and sat in the car me and my sister so when you guys walked out they were still fighting you couldn't did your mom or dad try to break up the fight did you see I don't remember how does your dad have his phone number he's friends with the kid G how does your dad punish you like when you're in trouble take our phone take your phone does he get violent with you guys you got two statements from her so what decision are you making at minimum the May the like and abuse after and what about the mo I mean minimum there going to be a DCF report but as far as charg is I don't think there's enough evidence that she allowed the fight or encourag the fight or set up the fight but she did not she failed to intervene okay so what I'm being in charge with right now uh child neglect reason child neglect is because several witnesses confirmed that you called him so you see the mark on my face that he punched me in my want to take pictures of my face please will on the side I want pictures can I explain the rest of it yes no problem so that you called him that you called him over there to beat his ass essentially so there were a few people that had the same statement separately that both you and her were behind this whole fight between those two because obviously you know you can't put your hands on him that's clear so exactly so what how would y'all mean that fact that you but the fact that you called him over there in the eyes of the law is illegal that's why I one saying you put your head exactly so how is he but y so all this this B been coming out bad he been putting his hands on us and nobody ain't doing nothing okay so you're just now saying that you didn't say that before what you mean we been say that I know but you said in the past today though today he punched me that's what I said you hear nothing I said look at my mouth take pictures I heard everything you said pictures of me to said you're not being arrested for you physically hitting him hurting him that's not what you're being arrested for for child neglect for encouraging him to get beat up in his own room I'm going to tell her my wallet my room like my my stuff so y'all this boy going to go in our room stealing all of this stuff like this so war is known to take your ass stuff man everything what you mean he's stealing in our house like a mother he just broke up all that stuff last night this what I'm trying to tell my wife she should be calling every time but the police ain't doing this is ridiculous he just swung on me this morning but all of a sudden it's just a big deal like this is crazy he's saying that Juan hit him in the face right when I talked to the kid in the black shirt he also said that Juan hit him in the face and then that's when he was like Hey do this so we do have a domestic battery with Juan as the offender and him as a victim MH okay so hold on let me talk to him real quick you definitively said just now that onean hit you in the face in my eyes that's domestic violence it's domestic battery okay what backs that up is the gentleman in the black shirt the young kid that ju got in a fight with also told me that he punched you in the face but when you were going off earlier about him being physical you didn't make it seem like definitively that it happened today oh no it happened this morning everything happened this morning okay if one hit you in the face and then you said handle him the fact that ju hit you in the face to me is domestic battery and that is enough for me to affect an arrest on Juan for domestic battery it is true he hit me punched me in my face my daughter don't even seen him this was right before the right before the fight this why the boy came okay I said one my thing is with let me be honest with you you want to fight your parents why you cannot fight a child out there then your age why you want me to put my hands on you I'm not doing that I'm not going to jail for no bull HQ with with both of them all right so this is what I'm going to do okay I am going to probably go over there and arrest one for domestic battery on you right yes he need to be charged take pictures of me too yep we are he hit me this morning when my wife in the room and told him to get up and clean up he did not want to do that so she took the curtain off and he just swung at me bom hit me bom I backed up and ran off the house okay okay which car you put my wife in she's in the Tahoe so he's going to be under arrest Juan so we did Juan go back in the house ma'am uh yeah the police officer took him in okay I need one out here let's go here and I need this yep all right go ahead and then go put him in our car going Walk This Way all right make sure you search yes ma'am problem ju you got anything on you you have your phone anything else got airod so what is do my cousin come for my kids I hope DC y'all ain't going to take my kids all right so I'm require to warn you before you make any statement that you have the following constitutional rights okay any statement can and may be used against you in a court of law specifically in the in the bedroom with you and and one really ain't nothing really happened with me you just were punching at my ass that's it you know what I mean like I say my wife went in there and told him to get up clean up his room and she took the curtain down he sashed the curtain back and I sashed it back he end up punching me you know what I mean so I backed up and then she end up snatching the curtain back and he with the kicking kick me on the side like bro you don't put your p on your mama bro you feel where I'm coming from bom then I come back he just calling me all type of names and just keep swanking at me bro and I'm I can't do it I'm not going to put my hands on him and one how long have you know one said I raised him I raised one since he was two months he a never had a his mother Okay so we've been trying to get therapy family th we even need stop going to family therapy so today specifically you know after he did what he did to you after he did what he did I asked him I'm tell you honest I asked him I said why you fight that boy who you just got into with who you just got caught in the grandma house yes you didn't cuss at him no nothing you ain't even disrespect his grandma you stop right there like a normal kid yes ma'am over there they got into altercation over there because he was disrespecting the boy Grandma he was in their house for a week hiding in there we didn't know where so you know kadaran from the neighborhood yes I I come out there I help out with all kids out you want to go out help with all he do what very defant oh man he very oh it's ridiculous um it's very sad when you got in contact with uh kadaran did you have his phone number or no I didn't I just he was already outside I just stand to the door and said come down here he was outside I didn't call him saw him that's right but I said I was going to call him but I didn't when I walked downstairs just he was already outside I'm like just come down here because I wanted one to see he's 15 years old he's 16 man this this somebody close in age that's all I'm saying you got so much anger that you want to fight us fight your kid out there but like I can't tell a one you not being for the outside you understand me you just bringing the pressure inside of your house but that's wrong man why you sing on me what so I can't tell you what you just trying to guide him in the I'm just trying to guide you that's all but it's everything that sh be all type of names so very disrespectful it's very it's very out line when uh kadaran was outside um so he came inside into Juan's bedroom he just came inside I told ju to come downstairs he would not come downstairs so when when I went downstairs I hear him his mom up I said hold on I'll run back upstairs he come behind me because he hear the commotion yes he hit the commotion because Mom now back and forth back and forth back and for run up there getting disrespectful to herad is like I said bro it's the truth bro you know what I mean like I said one you have so much anger you want to sit there put your hands your mama you want to push her you want to punch me do all this me hit me in my face bro I Ain bro all I'm telling you is just have respect I don't understand why we going through all this because this is we going through some real don't deser like I said his dad is parent right his and that's probably mainly what's AFF what's affecting there you go so that's why he's having but guess what me as a real man I reached out to that hey you know we should have been going through this one in 16 years old you know we should be communicating cuz I have other SS that which is one system the other three is mine like I told him man we need to communicate man you should be coming to pick up one sometime on the weekend something build a relationship with but I guess some dudes you can't force them to be in a child life who don't want to be in a child like I never asked you to call me dad you call me dad on your own I deserve that the one understand me it just I'm not falling with your stff when she move where she that now and that is terrible bro oh you should said that's how you talk to me shut the up even with that therapy man everything all right let me let me speak to her and him and then um we'll be father was charged with child neglect kid was charged with domestic violence