on September 16th 2024 officers in Oklahoma responded to a residence after a woman hit her 67-year-old father with a shovel the woman had become angry with her father after he refused to let her drive his car because of her suspended driver's license here's what the officers did next what's going on Ed well I got hit with a okay I I piced I picked a crowbar up because she was getting violent with me and I was trying to protect myself I got you and she hit me uh I don't know what I need I can't tell you want an ambulance elbow's broke or not okay how what what kind of shovel was it a fulls siize digging shovel or what uh uh little uh shovel that was uh uh like scoop I've been scooping dog or up it or whatever okay like a little flat blade of shovel and you think your elbow's broke I don't know what do you want to do pretty damn strong what do you want to do well she didn't think I could do anything you know what pisses me off is I was over here working yeah over here in timberidge doing a customer job yeah and Josh is going to come up here in a minute with some firewood okay and uh so she calls me and you know and I and I get mad because she's uh found a keys to the car which car at Tahoe okay she found and I I figured she lost him and never was going to be able to find him again mhm and so U where's she at right now huh where is she at in the house okay all right so go ahead sorry she found the keys of the Tahoe so she found the keys to the Tahoe she called me and she started talking about having to go over to some damn Motel over on 122nd yeah and she said uh that it's my fault because her clothes are missing now okay she left him over there she left him over there and said it was my fault okay and so anyway uh she keeps trying to I told her you getting that you getting that T Dog yeah you you getting that Tahoe I'm calling the police on her okay and she just got back she's driving without a suspended license again yep and I told her I said you get in that Tahoe and drive off I'm calling the cops on you I'm have you Ro and so she got mad at me and started swinging at me you think it's broken I don't know you an ambulance come check you out no I don't know so she grab was this did she swing in the shovel at you before you even had the Crowbar yeah yeah she uh yeah yep all right are you Jessica come out here and have a seat on this [Music] chaired crowbar around at me huh he's swinging a crowbar around is that because you hit him with a shovel no it was because he had a crowbar man so he had a crowbar one that had the Crowbar the whole time we were out here he's like swinging around how how close was he to you when close he hit me with it I picked up the show I'm not going to lie I don't have any reason to lie I'm a lot of people say that okay you know what I mean no I really don't this time there Nothing Left to Lose do you see camer here huh was anybody else around when this happened just just doing him I just wanted to stop yelling at me on the time you mean swinging around you're doing this number did he I mean yeah I I wish I had video I'm going to put a camera on this house uhhuh okay cuz he's saying that you got hold on real quick he's saying you got hit you hit him with the shovel before he even had a crowbar no no that's not true when I came out to him he was out there by the trash can and he had a crowbar in his and he swinging in by the trash cans yes and where were you I was with him did you walk up to him I was trying to talk to so we so he had the Crowbar and you approached him always do this we always no I know I've been here I've been here before always you don't you don't know that what I'm saying um we always talk when he gets home has always been like that I am 39 years old we always talk and since my mom died and that was 4 years ago in January um about two of those years even not remember I think it's the you w't go to the doctor how come I know the history here right um how how huh the history of you guys fighting and and I mean I've been here a couple times how come you did not call us if he was S I did too huh I just did you just did I did ask the lady call her your dispatch lady I talked to her uhuh because I had to go get my phone I didn't have it on me I had to run inside so you didn't get hit at all I got hit on the hand he hit me with that crar on the hand it was just enough you feel like I feel like if you got hit by the Crowbar it be a little it' be broken well I thought it would be red more red I did okay do me a favor set your phone down stand up stand up hands behind your back is he gonna go why am I going to jail I didn't do do stuff I didn't do anything okay we were 1809 the other day Dad hey calm down please stop let me tighten your head let me tighten your handcuffs so they don't tighten you is guilty sir this is are you guys stop moving so I can lock these handcuffs do you that'll that'll all be documented in the report okay Hey listen listen do you have anything illegal on you anything that's going to poke me in your pockets no why I got to go to I want to go to shed this is not fair he he's just guilty he was doing the cowb me first I'll put I'll put that no you got to take him jail too this isn't fair why you serious are you you're about to get more charges ma'am stop dad stop I'm not going to help you you're going to get more charges you quit resisting you be under arrest quit resisting why me that's enough don't take me to jail why would you do that please stop can you please tell me why you're not taking him face the car separate your feet oh my Lord face Dad please don't do this he needs me y he doesn't eat right and all this he's go dementia have something I'm not trying to be mean I'm really not change lift up your hand so I can search your back waistband I'm sorry I apologize I'm not trying to be rude well I know I'm I'm sorry well sit down but why are you taking him cuz he's sit down please he's SW to CW Jessica sit down please can you answer my question please I'm not trying to be sit down please but now's not the time I'll talk to you a little bit in a second okay I was calling for your protection and you yeah you also have meth so that cigarette pack was not mine oh God I didn't do anything dude that's you have mess where where in your wallet it was not it was in your wallet it was in my wallet yeah she just said I'm gon to kill him said he's gonna she's gonna kill [Music] him man where's he at he went to see if he can find the shovel in the house he took it inside she took it inside I don't know what she did H I don't know I know that dog crap right there I'm sorry I I threw that out there because she throws it in the front door hey someone's going to come out here and take pictures of your injuries okay you said you don't want any medical you know want an ambulance no I don't do you plan on going to the hospital afterwards sir she's going to kill me when she gets out so it doesn't matter anyway she's going to kill me just say fi on him huh yeah okay I don't know his name I'm GNA get her going we're gonna teach you you guys are not listening to me I didn't do anything I was protecting myself cuz he swing crowbar at me hit me why is it only ask the lady please I'm sorry you don't like me it's whatever I don't care I'm going to sue the you I'm going to sue the out of you I hope you know that all you're doing is costing that poor man money you idiot I don't give a you are a dude ass believe any more this is this is not fair you're not listening to me you're cing me okay but you won't even listen I know who the you are now pcho you guys got a power trip you're going to get sued so you just hold on to your I'm hold on yeah you better cuz I'm the out of you I called you for protection and you heard my me well you shouldn't have pulled away on you're also getting charged up you are up you guys are a police department just start out there and say uh what whatever happened today and what made you call us what were you all arguing about just statement of incident just start anywhere there yep is is that why she hit you with the shovel cuz she was trying to take that reason okay what was the other reason I told her that well she just got frustrated with me she uh she says I'm psycho and I'm I've got dementia and I need have my brain check and she's going to sue me and her lawyer's going to sue me and sign that right there says you made the statement if you think Jess can can afford to hire a lawyer what do you think about that situation she can't absolutely so she's bluffing you okay you know we'll we'll help you out as much as we can Ed but we can't help you if you keep helping her does it look like I need any stitches on you might you want to go to the ER yourself or you want us to call somebody I can myself okay bud yeah well I was getting back to last night I yeah she I got into her again yep so I tried to sleep on a bench over there off on that a window there it was really uncomfortable all night I could see her walking around with flashlights and stuff you know you slept out here last night yeah finally your own house why Ed well because I didn't want to be around it then I got my trailer had a bunch of brush on it that I've been cleaning up yep so I just climbed up on she's going to take a picture real quick on your pull your elbow she's going to get a photo I just climbed up on I climbed up on that R yep what what do you think you need us to do to help you Ed cuz it's escalating and we're afraid you're going to get seriously hurt it's going to happen anyway when she gets out when you let her out I'm sure I'm going to probably die that's the way but you probably need to go get and her friends you probably need to go get a protective order her friends want to kill me too probably be a good start are you going to get a V down have to do something yes down tol that's going to be the way that we can arrest her immediately when she St over here is going is going through that get that protective order while she's in jail how often do you let her stay here maybe four days a week or something okay so she's pretty much calling this home so you're going to have to have her evicted well when my wife died but I understand four years ago yep but it wasn't even it wasn't if I die I I mean I didn't mind Jesse having in the house but I'm not letting her piss all my assets out window she will and that's what she's doing she will yeah every time you come over or she comes over she's getting something out and taking it to the old guy up on Broadway and yep she pwns your stuff yeah and and so all my I believe that all my gold and my silver's already gone I believe it she's you know she's a drug user well that's what I've been told well uh th% Ed and that's what they do they steal your stuff and sell it so they can go get their drugs I mean we can tell you that till we're blew in the face but it's up to you to take action on it she's going to C blowing your phone up here when she gets to County Jail she's gonna start calling you I'm thr the toilet I guess you bonded her out last time and that's what Gilbert was telling you and you got mad at him for bringing that up it's tough love you can't go down there and bond her out you need to go to County Courthouse I'm not going to her okay well you said that you said that last time but well okay I'm not doing it protective order at the county yeah get I wish I I wish you guys did it yourself yeah it'd be a lot easier yeah that's instead of having to all go all the way down to getting a big line and all that crap I don't know how bad it is probably the day of the week yeah what I said I think it it depends on the day of the week time of the month how long is she going to stay in there that's a great question she'll have to see it she'll have to see a judge so it could be it won't be today but oh last time she got in jail and she got out on her own recau or whatever well that don't surprise me and I saw I was doing dishes and I thought I was going to have some free time you know and I'll be damn I heard a voice and it was her you need to have her evicted Ed you got get an eviction understand are you looking at me you got to get her evicted and then you got to get a VP so she can't be coming and going in this house with her drug friends cuz Stacy is a th% she weighs 100 pound she's a tweaker she's on drugs I don't know her boyfriend but she is I I don't want her over oh I know you don't well you should feel the same way about your daughter until she gets clean it's tough love that's your daughter I get it but if she's hurting you yeah she's gonna keep hurting she's gonna keep hurting youed she she's gonna keep I know sir so I guess it's just a matter of a short time before over here somewhere well we want to we want to prevent that I kind of want to start carrying a gun I had that crowbar right over there oh yeah I didn't know what she's capable of yeah I see it well I mean if she's on drugs there ain't no telling a shovel there ain't no telling what she's capable of she's High Ed y so all right buddy we're going to get out of your way well I'm sorry you no no no you don't have to be sorry just take our advice okay go to the county courthouse get you a V and eviction all righty all right ited have a good day sir we ran the female correct they were R local County we' not actually officially been asked Runner yes please can I have a print out for a blue sheet with call notes as well why isn't he going to jail too this is I call you protect me hello okay I can't believe it I I didn't do anything I'm hold I also heard you say you're going to kill him so I also heard you say you're going to kill him so that probably doesn't help you out very much I'm sorry see I mean that right there is why you should be a cop okay I didn't do anything you're not listening sir please stop please stop doing this to me you just hate me and I'm done with that I don't even care I'm a grownup I know how to handle things I don't understand what I did wrong in the first place I was trying to call you guys for your protection and now I'm in the back seat of a car now everyone's safe now aren't they dude no they're not because my dad is still on the loose and he is losing his mind you're not listen it's [Music] dementia 659 1097 ending 314 I'm make sure my lawyer everything okay it'll be in the report it'll be in the report and on body camera protection and you're little you really up this I'm trying to tell you I didn't do anything wrong whoa now we go with the racial slurs wow whoa you stepped out of Line's up she's peachy by the way she might have some CDs in her wallet and I need to go through and see if it's enough I didn't do anything this man he has a hold in The Grudge and I don't yeah this bag right here um I need to go through a wall there there's some a bag that looks like it has some CDs in it I just didn't want to perfect just popped out of that's that's that's exactly what I need where it where' it pop out of left pocket the suspect was charged with domestic abuse with the dangers weapon possession schedule substance and obstruction [Music]