Who's this? >> There's a phone and a vape on the ground right here. >> Is that theirs? I'm >> assuming. >> No, I just got it. >> What you got there? >> You guys want me to contact Jesus? Just >> talk with him. talk with her. >> Yeah. >> What's up, man? What's going on? >> Um, this is a guy to get drunk. I don't really I'm not a drinker. So, I when she gets drunk and like I said, my daughter, I told her I wasn't trying to come out at 2:00 in the morning. I still can't get it. whether my child and I told her I text her like 4 minutes I got that please be outside 2:00 in the morning trying to get back she she was in the car screaming and like I told her I pulled in here before I stopped she jumped out the car she fell and I think she jumped out the car she fell and after that she slammed my car door the first time she did it I let it slide the second time I said pushing y'all the second time she slam in my car door. That's when I got out. I did push her. I'm not going to lie. I told her I pushed her. Then she she decided, you know, she wanted to shoot on me and stuff. Like I said, I'm not pressing no charges. I'm not worried about it. I'm not I don't really care about that. But yeah, she didn't shoot on me or whatever. >> And after that, I pulled off. And then she said she said I took her phone. She texted me as I pulled off and said she >> is that her phone on the ground over there with the geek bar? >> Yep. She's stupid. What are you guys dating or anything? >> Yeah. Yeah, we're together. >> You guys are together? >> She texted me when I pulled off and was like, she said, "Oh, I'm just going to sleep out here." >> What? What happened to your forehead? >> She uh she had hit me. Like I said, I'm not worried about >> You said this happened on your side. >> Is that what that said? >> Yeah, we're going to have to That's what he's saying. Uh is she humming the hitting a middle line? >> It was all verbal. She said she jumped out of the car in the highway and he pulled me here. >> I drove by that way. They were at the back of the car. >> They were already out of it. >> Yeah, they were right here parked out of the car arguing. I throw my lights on. I pull up. He walks up to her, starts grabbing her bag right in front of her. And then that's when I jump out and I go over. >> She said it's an argument over spending time together. She visible. >> Yeah. How are we doing? >> How we just ID? >> Okay. >> I didn't run or anything yet. She just gave it to me. >> Okay. >> Um when I drove by, they were out of the car arguing. >> Okay. >> I pulled up. He walked up on her, started like grabbing her bag and stuff. >> Okay. >> She said she drank a little bit. >> They all were like spending time together. Okay. Okay. >> Spending time with their kid who's in the car. >> Okay. >> And that's boyfriend, baby daddy. >> I got you. >> If if it's any constellation like it wasn't to the point where like >> verbal >> he put his hands on me like I get I get angry and anything like that like >> stepped out the vehicle. >> I'm not going to lie. I probably shouldn't have stepped out the vehicle in the middle of the road, but I didn't. >> His fault. It's not his fault. It's my fault. And I'll take that. I'll take the blame. I'm sorry. >> You're good. >> No, no, no. I'm very sensitive. I'm very sensitive. I'm sensitive right now. So, at the end of the day, >> you think your phone might be at work still? >> No, that phone is somewhere around here. There's >> a phone in the lot over there. >> About to say that phone is somewhere AROUND HERE. I KNOW IT'S somewhere around here. Give me one sec. I'll grab it. Anything like this ever happened before or? >> No. No. >> No. No. It's me. It's me. It's me. It's just that >> it wasn't a good day today. My my my back, my neck. Thank you, baby. >> My neck. I got some of my lab on you, bro. >> Yeah. Go ahead. >> Okay. Thank you. My vape, my neck, everything. Not my Sorry. I My neck, my neck, everything's hurting. Like, it's a lot going on. This should never like it should never happen. This is my fault. Like, I'm not going to lie to you. I don't. So I take certain like >> but it's like I sometimes like I get angry and I take that [ __ ] too far. >> I got you. >> And I should never dropped out and and like came off but um I'm I'm not going to lie. I'm a little I'm a little crazy. Like a little >> I were crazy. Like >> I got you. >> I don't I don't try to be You don't get in arguments like this. get in arguments at all for like months. >> Uhhuh. >> But it's just like I I'll take the responsibility. I I I spazzed out a little bit because at the end of the day like I take respect a certain way and if somebody don't talk to me a certain way, I spaz out. >> I got you. I got you. >> I shouldn't be like that. But at the end of the day, like I've I've been dancing for four years. I've been sitting here and doing a lot for four years. I've been here working hard for 4 years. I've been sitting here doing a lot for 4 years. I got a baby in this car. >> You feel me? It's a lot going on. >> I got I'm bill baby. >> Uhhuh. >> I'm biller. That's me. Yes. My baby in the car. It's my baby in the car. I pay that insurance. I be everything. >> So, at the end of the day, like >> I'm just at the end of the day when I tell you, hey, like I'm here ready to pick me up. Sm he's not a troublemaker. That >> he's not a troublemaker. I'm He's sweet, too. He's barely He's not even He barely getting out there. All he do is smoke a little weed at home. He don't even do that. >> There you go. >> So, it's like I know I'm responsible. I'm not I'm not fully responsible because I'm sensitive, but at the end of the day, like I know I'm a little bit responsible for this. >> She's owning every bit of this, even calling herself a little crazy from sensitivity. How does builtup stress from work, bills, and a kid flip into jumping out on a highway? Well, he's not coming from there, but I'm coming from. >> Okay. >> And I'm going tell you right now, I can live in a straight line. I'm not [ __ ] up. >> No, it's fine. You weren't driving, so >> I'm not [ __ ] up. It don't My friend just had It don't matter if you driving. >> Yeah. >> I take things to heart very, and that's always been me. >> But I shouldn't have like jumped out like that. That was crazy. I got you. >> Cuz I'm Yeah, this [ __ ] driving. SHE DROPPING OUT MY HOUSE. And >> where was work at? >> No, I'm just kidding. >> Just what town? >> Okay. >> Yeah, it's right here. It's right here. >> It's just that Yeah, it's just that it's me. >> I'm not going to lie to you. Like I'm not I'm not okay with uh >> I talk a certain type of way. >> I got you. And people should talk to me a certain type of way. >> Yeah. >> Talk a certain type of way. >> I don't care. >> Okay. All right. Where you headed now? Home. >> Where's home at? Right. >> Okay. Got a little bit of a ride. A >> little bit. That's what we sitting in. We were sitting silenced and we was in the car for a long time. We don't care. >> It's just that like me personally. I got to speak on it. Sometimes. Sometimes I got to speak on it because it's like why do you I'm not even gonna talk about it cuz you know you you like I love him. I love him to death. I love him. I didn't want to sit here and >> but >> it is what it is. >> What's going on? What's kicking? >> Little wild night tonight. >> I wish it was I wish I made some money tonight. Um, so we're just kind of sorting through everything, trying to figure everything out. Uh, we got a job to do. So, um, >> what' you guys tell this officer? I'm just trying to hear both sides. >> At the end of the day, we had an argument. We had a altercation. >> Okay. >> Um, >> and I guess I shouldn't shouldn't have did that, but >> something's a little wrong in my feet. Um, at the end of the day, like this is my fault. If you want it, it's my fault. I I >> So, if it's not, I put I put my hands on you. Like, I'm not going to lie to you. >> No, that's kind of where my >> It's where it's like it's like a you know what I'm saying? Get on my way type [ __ ] But for me, it was like don't touch me. >> I got >> So, I kind of like >> You hit him with a closed fist, open fist. >> I don't know. He went >> I mean either way. So, >> no, I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. I know it's a fault. I know. >> All right. So, at the end of the day, what he's saying, he's got more fun. Is that even without saying it? >> Yeah, he got Yeah, he got no, >> but what we have wrong body? >> Even with mutual pushes, she's insisting it's her fault and ready for arrest. What pushes someone to selflame this hard under pressure and alcohol? >> You're going have to come. >> You can arrest me. >> That's okay. >> Um, >> that's okay. >> We'll go from there. All right. So, my partner is going to push puffs on you. >> Wait, wait, wait. Can I close my bag? Close my bag. back in your car. Take that [ __ ] >> We'll we'll close it for you. All right. >> We We'll close it for you. All right. >> I don't want no homeless people trying to take me. >> No, no, no. We'll take it with you. >> All right. My eyes. >> I don't want no I don't want nobody trying to throw my [ __ ] in my eyes. >> All right. Is there anything in the car that you need? >> You brought me my phone, right? >> Just call his 41. It's in my bag. Cool. I'm good. All right, we'll just bring you over 65 a lot tighter. >> I'm going to close in front of you and carry with me. Okay, >> I'm not worried about you stealing my bag as it goes. >> No, no, just see it's closed. Let go. >> I know. Just close them. I'm not worried about that. >> I am going to make these tighter. Just one second. >> No, I only say that because I will be in the car trying to figure out if I can get them out. You got some small wrists. >> Yeah, I do. >> Oh my god. >> Before and I was like I was able to get out. So it was like >> and I got some small wrist. >> I was like hey like >> here. Hold on. Come back down here. >> Like let me close these. They're tight babe. I could feel I can't get out of these. >> This one you could. >> There you go. >> It's my right hand. That should be flipping that spot in. No. Don't get in my bag. >> Which car you got? >> I got seven. Yeah. Yeah. >> I in the car I'm in, >> please. >> In which car? >> The car I'm in, please. >> Get you in your car with him. >> Yeah. >> Oh, >> we got a long walk for you, unfortunately. >> It's okay, babe. You still walking long walks. No, I'm really upset. No, bro. Take my stuff. Everything. Everything. Money. Everything. Money. Everything. Take it all. >> No, cuz my thing is you come. She can take her stuff, you know. Take her stuff. Take her stuff right now. You talking about It's okay. >> Can't help me. Thank you. >> There you go. >> We just got to take your your bag. >> I can't get it real quick. I'm a nicotine team. Can I please real quick? >> There you go. >> All right. Which bag you want? >> Just put in the pink. I'll >> put it right there. >> All right. It's in the pig bag. >> All right. Where's the uh >> Thank you so much. >> You go here. >> All right. Cool. All right. Just hang tight. >> Yeah. Here, dude. >> Yo. Um, do you want to fill a BNF app before we go? >> Yeah, we can do that. Just uh you all right back there? >> I feel you. >> Yeah, I don't vacuum. I'm sorry this happened. >> No, don't be sorry. >> No, like I'm not going to lie to you. Like I'm really sorry. >> It's all right. >> It's really crazy. >> 6538 County. >> I'm sorry. >> Wait, did a did a a standby person? Did he call the cops or did he call the cops? >> Uh, I think it was standby. Just give me one second. I'll be transporting a female 41 to headquarters starting mileage 53361. >> Uh I guess someone driving by. >> Yeah, I'm not going to lie. >> That's my problem because like even if a guy like pushes me like I'm not like I feel like I still put it on. >> Yeah. And it's like even though he didn't feel it, even though it was like a smoke, it was a shove. Like don't do that. >> Yeah. >> And I should have >> I'm sorry. You got to go. >> No, it's all right. Don't be sorry. >> I'm sorry. >> It happens. >> You find my right now. I am so sorry. >> Don't bathe. It's all right. And that's why I try to go home. I'm trying to go home, too. >> No, I'll be I'll be on till 8:00 a.m. So, >> I'll see you later. >> Yeah, I'm always be all right. >> Well, me like I'm a late night worker, too. But I try to >> Yeah. Trying to cut it a little early. >> Yeah, >> there you go. >> Oh, okay. >> Yeah. >> But it's not even like I can walk, like I said, I can walk in a straight line or anything like that. It's just the the fact of it's my friend. >> It's the way I was raised. I watch my mom get all that. >> So it's like as soon as somebody shoved me, I'm like hot. >> Yeah. You don't need that happening to you. >> I just don't want the same. >> Yeah. >> That's it. And it's not like that, but it just is for me always on. >> Yeah. No, I always I'm sorry. >> No, it's okay. That's a good way to be though. Honestly, >> I'm so sorry. >> No, don't don't worry about it. Just let me Got to call in real quick. >> 6538 counting. Ending mileage 533 62. >> We'll let you hit it again. I I don't got no problem with that. >> You have it? >> Yeah. >> Can I hit it? >> Yeah. Hold on. I'm going to bring you inside. So, >> okay. >> Just give me one second. >> Bring you right up. All right. >> I'm sorry. >> No, you're good. >> Oh my god. I forgot this is a mirror. >> Oh my [ __ ] >> We got it. >> All right. >> Sit you down on the bench to the right here. >> To the right. Yeah. >> How does deep regret and self-awareness hit right after an emotional trigger escalates? What do you think drives that cycle? >> Thoughts below. Sub for more raw cases. The next one's a wild escalation.