No. I need to talk to you. No. No. Okay. I'm sleeping with my son. Okay. I thought naked. Okay. Well, I need you to come to the door. Okay. Come on, Stephanie. Stand up. You want to get shoes on, Stephanie? Come on. You got to go with us now. Let's go. On January 9th, 2023, officer Aris arrived at 601, where the drama is repeated. This time, it was a chaotic domestic scene fueled by jealousy over Snapchat. What followed involved shouting, accusations, and a whole lot of scratches. The situation spiraled quickly, turning another argument into a full-blown police call. Watch now. The Cal 47 on 23. Thank you. All right. Bye. Hey, man. Hi. So, what's going on? So, she just got home from the bar. She thinks I'm cheating on her, which I am not. Okay. Uh this this has happened. This is probably like the fifth or sixth time and I've never wanted to call any I've like to she just Yeah, she tore you up pretty good, man. Is that with just with her bare hands or she It's crazy. This is like she's This is like the sixth time she's done this. So she just got here. I think this is the last straw that I can take. So just just walk me through. So she got here and then she started attacking you. I was laying in my bed sleeping and she came in and she's like There's a girl that I talked to on Snapchat a little bit, but I have not cheated on her. I've not I haven't even seen her since high school. I got you. And uh and I sent her a picture of a flower or something like that. Yeah. And so and she just came home and she came right in the bed and just started attacking me. She ripped the necklace off, punched me in the face so many times, like as hard as she could. I gotcha. Okay. And this is like Yeah, like I said, I don't I didn't fight back, did anything, but this is like at least the sixth time this has happened and it's the last straw for me. And she's pretty intoxicated right now, I think. So, but I don't know. She Does she have any weapons on her or anything like that when she came here? There's no weapons. I mean, there's She She's attacked me as like Bam. She She was in karate, you know. So, she's like She's used her karate moves to choke me out, throw me to the floor, punch me in the face. Yeah. Okay. Let me just take some pictures of your injuries, man, cuz those are pretty. Yeah. I don't know what else. And she did that just with her hands, right? She punched She punched you in the face and she scratched you up. Yeah. I have other pictures in my phone from when she's attack when she's done this before. I've called her I've called her mom when she was attacking me like this before and she smashed my phone to pieces when I last time I called. So, I'm going to start in your stomach area, man. Just cuz I see that one right away. Yeah. In my chest. Your chest area. I don't know where all. Okay. Let me see your neck if you want to lift up. All right. Do you want medical attention? No, I don't. Front of your face now. All right. Let me take a look at your back real quick. She She's Did she bite you? Yeah, she was biting me. Yeah. Okay. I didn't do I did nothing. Let's see. I have other pictures on my phone from the last time when she did this. Like punched me in my face till I busted my lips open and punched me in. All right, then. She's inside the door. She's inside naked. She locked all she me out and locked the door. You guys have any weapons inside like any guns, firearms, stuff like that? No. I said she was on like martial arts or something. She's got any sword turn there? No. Okay. If the door's open, are you okay with us going inside? Yeah, but it's um It's locked. You're pretty sure it's locked? I'm pretty sure it's locked. Just do me a favor. What's your uh what's your last name? And do you know hers by chance? Uh her phone number. Yeah. If not, it's fine. Let us just try to make contact. See if we can make contact with her. Um I'm going to be honest with you. I mean, she's going to be arrested tonight. She hit him multiple times and he still didn't want to press charges. Seriously, guys, please leave someone like that. It won't get better. This is just crazy, man. Get out now before it's too late. Being single is peaceful and calm and honestly very underrated. She comes out. Okay. Uh, all right. I don't really want to get her in any trouble as much as I want this. Yeah. I mean, unfortunately, in these situations, and domestic situations, it's not really like if you want to or not. It's we're obligated. We're obligated by law. It's the state. If we show up and there's injuries, like by law, we have to take enforcement out. Yeah. So, Okay. So, we're going to try to make contact with her. Okay. Oh, man. So, if you want to if you want to hang tight right here. I can't even believe this. I get this her vehicle. Oh, I own both vehicles. That's the one she always pure hives. As you can see, she must be feeling the way she's hard. Okay. All right, boss. Is there a kid inside? There is a kid. Freeman, our twoyear-old son. Is she? Is he okay? Did she touch him at all? No, she I don't think she would ever do that, but who knows? So, I'm if my part didn't already like is she been drinking or she owns I think she's been anything. I don't think she's on anything. You know her to not uh drugs. Not that I If she does, she hides it from me. Uh I don't think I think she's probably just I think she thinks I'm cheating on her, but I'm not. All right. All right. All right. Like my partner said, just hang tight here and we'll, you know, try to get this all. Um, let us see if she'd be willing to come and just speak to us and then we may go that route if need be. Hey, Stephanie. Mind if I go in and just shine the light and see if she's sitting there? And where is that? Out that leads out back. [Applause] Hey Stephanie, this is Officer Aras with Decal Police Department. I'm going to need you to come out to speak with us. Is she answering you at all? Our bedroom. What's that? I think our back bedroom windows open in the back. I don't know if she's getting dressed right now. Hey, Stephanie. This is Officer Aras with the Cal Police Department. Can you come out and talk to us? Stephanie, I'm going to need you to come to the door. This is Officer Aras with Decal Police Department. This guy is strong and did a great job staying calm. A real man doesn't fight back, but bro, domestic violence is never okay. Don't stay silent. This poor guy worked hard, but it seems like he still doesn't believe in himself enough to leave that abusive woman. I really hope he finds his confidence and takes his son to a better life. We'll check around. Yep. What's that here? How about we hang tight for a second just because she did try to hurt you, you know, when she got here. I don't want you to get hurt going back inside. Let's just see if we can work with her and try to get her out. Does she Does she take any medication or anything like that? She takes anti-depressant medications and if she doesn't take it or if she drinks on it, she goes crazy. Okay. Has she ever been suicidal or anything like that? I I don't know. Okay. Okay. I just want to make sure. Um yeah, just hang tight for a second. Stephanie, this is Officer Aras with the Cow Police Department. I need you to come to the door. 21. She's at the front. Hello. Hey, Stephanie. How was How's it going? Can you step out? Can Hold on. I'm going to Can we come in? No. I need to talk to you. No. No. Okay. I'm sleeping with my son. Okay. I'm about to naked. Okay. Well, I need you to come to the door. Okay. I'm at the door. Okay. Well, I need you to put Okay. Um No. No. No. And no. Okay. Well, I need you to I need No, you don't need This is my house. This is not your house. Hold on, man. Is it It's done. You have full entrance. Okay. Can you wrap up so we can talk? No. I need you to wrap up. Okay. Well, you need to come to the door, Stephanie. I do. Who says I need to? I do. Okay. The police? Yes, I'm the police. We need to talk about what happened today. Okay. So, go ahead and wrap up for me. What happened today? I worked three jobs today. Okay. Can we talk about it? If he if he goes somewhere else, can we talk about it? No. Why? I have a child sleeping in my bed. We can work that out if you keep coming and talk to me. Good night. Yeah. So, I appreciate you coming to the door. So, let's talk about it. Okay. Can you wrap up, please? No. Why? Good night. Stephanie, we need to talk. Why? For what? Okay. So, I'm going to need you to come. Okay. So, I need you to wrap up. Wrap up with the towel. Okay. You can't come in. I'm sleeping with my son and I'm completely naked. What? That's not okay. If she's doing that, child protection needs to step in and check the child's safety. She shouldn't be allowed to be alone with her child right now. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Stephanie, I need you to stay. Can we come in? No. I need you to wrap up. Okay. Well, we need to talk. Why? Okay. What happened today? Do you want him to go somewhere else so we can talk? Your husband? He's not my husband. All right. So, right now, put your hands behind your back. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Put your hands behind your back. I gave you I gave you plenty of chances. Put your hands behind your back. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Put your hands behind your back. Wait, hold on a second. I'm trying. This is a dislocated elbow and my hand is broken on the Wait. I'm going to keep you covered. Relax. Why am I relax? We're going to keep you covered up. Take a deep breath. Take a deep breath. Your kid is sleep. Take a deep breath. Where can we get you close, Stephanie? Your husband. What is happening? Here. Let me have the I got her. Have the husband come in and grab some clothes. He is not my husband. What's that? He's not my husband. What is he boyfriend? I need you to get her some clothes. Oh my god. Pants. Okay. I'm just letting you know right now you're arrested for domestic battery. Just go ahead and go. Oh my god. [Music] Just sleeping with me. Okay. Go ahead. Are you okay with me putting a hoodie on you? No. No. Stop. That's not what I'm putting on. I'm not putting on a sweatshirt. Do you want a t-shirt? T-shirt. Shorts. What the Okay, you're being arrested right now. I don't know why you're sleeping with the female. I'm going to explain it to you. Okay. Just take a deep breath. Okay. You're fine, right? Look, he's got a shirt for you. But I copy you down here. Here, I'm going let you work on it. Okay. I'll adise in a second. Um, she was naked, but we're working through. Okay, that'll work for right now. She can take something. You're never going to see him again. Sure. You're never going to see him again. Well, that's a discussion for a later time in the date, but let's just get Let's get your clothes on, ma'am. I'm done. Let's just get your clothes on. I want to talk to Officer Gordon. Okay. I want to talk to He's not on shift right now. I know. And I'm the officer taking the police, so whatever. Why are you dressing me? The officers in this case did a fantastic job. They saw that the man was the victim and treated him kindly and respectfully. Men can be victims, too. The woman pretending to be an innocent victim after hitting her boyfriend was really disgusting. You're showing me kindness right now. You're showing me kindness. We're going to let you stand up. Okay. Go ahead. Help us out. There you go. Help us out. Which arm is you say? My right arm was dislocated. Okay. She got a pair of flip flops. Can I have a ponytail? Like I was I was asleep. Okay. I'm going to pull your shirt down some more for you. Okay. Here. I'm going to double lock those for you. I don't want them. Hold on, Stephanie. Hold on. What shoes do you want, Stephanie? What shoes do you want? I have a pair of green flip-flops. Where are they at? I think the back door. By the back door. Back door. Okay. Can you see if there are some green flip-flops? We'll bring the city PD with us. Um, you said they're by the back door. All right. Oh my god. Hey, what was your first name again? Stephanie, stand up. Stand up. You have to double lock those straps or they're going to get tight on your wrist. You don't want your wrist to hurt anymore. I don't know. You go hang out right there. We'll be back with you in a second. Okay. Come on, Stephanie. Stand up. You want to get shoes on, Stephanie? Come on. You got to go with us now. Let's go. Otherwise, you're going to go barefoot. I know. I get a little Okay, that's fine. Take a deep breath. I have a very bad breath. Okay, then let's get you outside. It's a lot cooler. Yes, I do. Do you have Stephanie? Do you have an inhaler? It's in the other room. It's okay. John, do you know where it is? To the left. Hey, John. You see if you could locate her inhaler for me. You said she has one. No. I'm going to go. I'm working with it. I just can't I need to Do you want to Do you want to use your inhaler right now, Stephanie? Yeah. Okay. So, stand up. You got to stand up. I can go get it. Here. We got it. I have it. Stand up. Can I have my hair on my face? Yeah, absolutely. Sorry. Stand up so I can help you out with your hair. Okay. A little short so it's fine. There you go. There we go. Which one would you prefer? The inhaler, please. It's a push down and then breathe. Okay. Okay. Just let me know you're ready. Oh no. Let's do it again. You have to push down and then like my mouth has to go. My bad. I have asthma and it's frustrating to see someone pretending to have a panic attack. Inhalers don't help with panic attacks, so that doesn't even make sense. Can I wear a ponytail? I don't like that shirt. I want my green flip flops. It's like watching a behindthescenes show of Trailer Park Fashion Week. But don't worry, honey. You won't need your green flip flops. You'll get a free pair of orange ones in jail. Can I put my hair? I wish you wouldn't have put this on. I want to put the hair out of my face. Okay. Stand up. Stand up. Just stand up. Stand up. We're going to be out of here. If you don't cooperate with this, you're going to get a resistant charge. Come on now. No, I don't want I just have this all in my face and my nose is running. Keep Stephanie, one thing at a time. Keep your head still and we can help you out with that. All right. He's going to help you out. Just keep still. Okay. No, you're not getting all my hair. I mean, put your shoes on. Put your shoes on. We'll get it outside. Wait, hold on. Hold on a second. Just Can you listen to me, please? No, we're not making deals with you. Put your shoes going. I'm not making a deal. Can you listen to me? Put your shoes on or we're going. Can you put my hair in a ponytail like this? We'll let you do it after. You're gonna have to do it at the PD. Let's go. Cuz we You're going to be at least at the place. Take your Put your Put these on. Does that work? All right. Put them on that. Well, you're not letting us explain. I'm sorry. I don't know why. Okay, that's fine. Let's just get out of here. I don't know why my word against you. Hold on. Your child's sleeping, correct? You don't want to wake him up to see this? Let's go. Why is it my word against you? Hey, put your explain the rest up there. Put your shirt on. Let's go. Okay, let's go. I just hugged my account. You're what? Stephanie, let's go. Are you going to get this? I'm sorry. Let's go. This is my home. I believe I drove myself home tonight. Yeah, don't say that. No, I mean earlier. It was much earlier. All right, listen. Listen to me. Look at me. Yeah, I can't see you. Then throw your hair back. But I'm crying. Listen. Can you just move my hair out of Yes, ma'am. Sorry. I'm sorry. You're fine. But I need you to listen to my partner. Okay? Whatever took place between you and him. Listen listen. Just listen to me. He's trying to help you out. I'm I really am trying to help you out here. That's separate. You do not want to charge with the state for resisting. I not been there, done that. You don't want that. That's not doing. So I need you to listen to my partner. Sir, we're going to go down to the PD and then he can ask you more questions so you can give your side of it. I am being arrested. It'll be explained to you. It'll be explained to you. Okay. Why doesn't his abuse get charged? Why doesn't that get charged? Talk about talk about people. I'm an elementary school. Go ahead. Watch your step. Oh no. Watch your step, Stephanie. Watch your step. Are you going to sit back here with me? It's tough when people have to face the consequences of their actions. Honestly, man, you should leave her and try to get custody of the child. She's not mentally stable. I'm really glad she got arrested. She acts like one of the biggest drama queens I've seen in a long time. And this is the kind of person raising your kids. I wouldn't want someone like her raising my kids. No one's going to sit here. You're an adult. Come on. work with me. I've been speaking to you. Is someone going to sit with me? Hold on. Let me put a seat belt on. Sit in the back of the car. Is someone going to sit right here? We're going to go to the police department. We'll talk to my arms. Okay. Yes, sir. Behind your back cuz you're arrested right now. I'll be right with you. Okay. What was your uh first name again, sir? John. John. Right. Okay. Um what I have here is a uh uh domestic violence information sheet. This is something that we provide every single time we're going domestics. Whether there's injuries, protocols to making arrests like we had here tonight, it doesn't matter. We always lead people with this cuz a lot of people don't understand the rights they have, especially males. Okay. Um there's a lot of information on here. Take your time to read it. Essentially, it's explains what an order protection is, how you can get one. Okay. Um there's also a number for safe passage. I don't want to blind you cuz this thing is pretty bright. But um there's a number there for safe passage that if you choose to, you can contact them. They have a lot of great resources that can help you and the kid out during this time. Okay. Um obviously she got arrested for I mean she did you she she got you good. Oh yeah. So, um, hopefully this is the last time. Yeah. Even if it is the first, hopefully it's the last. This is like the fifth time at least. Jesus Christ, dude. Yeah. Um, well, hopefully your kid um didn't see here too too much. Hopefully they were just knocked out sleep, which is the best. But um I would really reach out to Safe Passage. Like I said, they have a lot of great resources um here in town. They're local. All right. Um, if you have any questions or anything like that, always feel free. I put the report number, okay? Um, on there for you. So, if you have any questions, anything like that, feel free to contact us. Okay. Um, obviously, she won't It's a domestic related charge, so she'll be going to county tonight. So, you don't have to worry about her getting bonded out, showing back up here. Okay. Today, okay. Okay. You okay? Yeah. I know it's rough, but you did the right thing by, you know, removing yourself and contacting us. So good good job for you. Okay. All right, buddy. Thank you. All right, man. You try to get some rest tonight. Okay. All right. 20 51. Oh, man. Oh, man. Hey, Stephanie. Yeah. Hear me out, okay? Just Just hear me. I don't mean to be disrespectful. Just really shy. Okay, can you let me speak right now? What? Can you let me speak? She's setting a terrible example for her child. John, if you're still not sure what to do, ask yourself this. How would you feel if she did something like that to your child? Because if she did it to you, there's a good chance she could do it to him, too. She tried to act like a shy, sweet, misunderstood teacher who was the victim. But she doesn't think she did anything wrong, which means she might do it again. Really quick. Okay. No, I I I appreciate it. Okay. So, this is what's gonna happen. Okay. We're going to go to the police department, but I need you to work with me. We can't keep doing this whole bargaining thing. Okay. Bargaining? Yeah. Where you're like, "Oh, wait. I need this. I need that." Because I can't wipe my nose or do anything for myself. You're going to be able to wipe your nose at the PD. Okay. I'm going to release those handcuffs once we get there. Sound good? We good? This is not for real. Oh my god. All right, take a deep breath for me, Stephanie. All right, I'll walk you through the process. Let's just let's just keep going through this. Let's get whatever happened tonight. How does How does he not get All right, we'll talk about that all right now. Just give me a second. Okay. Hey, Stephanie. Remember what we talked about that you were going to work with me? Yeah. Okay. Yes. Absolutely. Okay. Thank you very much. He put my He put his pants on me. He didn't even put my own pants on. Okay. I'll be right with you. Okay. Just hang tight. Are you leaving me? No, I'm coming back. I just have to pull the hair out of my face. Yeah, we'll work on that. Just give me a second. Okay. It'll be real quick. Okay, Stephanie, I'm going to reach over you. Okay. Mhm. I need to reach over you. So, can you step back so I can take your seat belt off? Step back. Yeah. I mean, like sit back. Yeah. I forgot you're a teacher, right? What do you teach? K through five. K through five. So, are you like a sub or something? I'm a literacy teacher. Literacy teacher. Okay. Hey, work with me. Okay. Let's Let's get you through this so I can explain. I can't see anything. Okay. Well, throw your hair back so you don't hit yourself. All right. Take a step out now. Go ahead. Take a step. All right. You good? No one. I I get that. I get that. So, walk over to that door for me. Just watch your step when you're going up there. Okay. Okay. If you need anything, just wave wave up on the camera. What? What? What? Stephanie, we're not going to keep playing this game. This is the last time I tell you. Otherwise, I'm going to add a charge. Okay. I'm sorry. I I I've been nothing but nice to you. Yes. If you need something, you wave up at the camera. Okay. You hear me? Are you hearing me? So, if you need help, you wave up at the camera. I'll be I'll be in here every 30 minutes if you need something. Okay. Stephanie, I need you to hear me out and acknowledge what I'm telling you. I acknowledge you. I'm sorry. Okay. So, just take some time. Take some time to yourself. Take this time. Take this time for yourself. I'll be as long as I get this paperwork out, it should be fairly quick, okay? But just give me some time. The more I have to be here, it's going to take longer. Okay? So, do me a favor. Just take a breather. You know, think about what happened tonight. Bro, if you don't want someone arrested, why call the police in the first place? What do you expect them to do? Give her a pep talk? She should never be allowed to stay with kids. She's not stable. Parents should be worried about someone like her who attacks people in their sleep and can't even sit calmly in the backseat of a car being around children. She shouldn't be responsible for any child, not even her own. Stephanie Haynes was arrested and charged with domestic battery after attacking her boyfriend in a drunken rage over a Snapchat post. He had visible injuries. She had none. She was taken into custody. In the end, if you enjoyed the video, hit that like button and drop your thoughts in the comments. 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