you guys aren't welcome get the out of here you're not married no it's my house you're not married period here you're going to go to jail you're going to get tased if you don't stop stop yeah you enjoy prison yeah you [ __ ] on June 18th 2021 officers were dispatched in response to a distressing call from a distressed woman a woman fearing for her safety and that of her children dialed 911 reporting a heated altercation with her intoxicated husband as tensions flare within the walls of their home she made a brave decision to leave seeking Refuge elsewhere officers intercepted the woman in a nearby parking lot where she recounted the intense verbal dispute that had unfolded moments before what's going on well I had called earlier and I was waiting to talk to somebody um I didn't have a cell phone so obviously got notification my husband who have been drinking and I left I don't have cell phone when my kids were there okay so I don't know what like my rights are like you get a hold of my kids you live in P orange yeah okay the altercation tonight yeah okay anything physical pushing kicking scratching sh just an argument argum but he's drinking so I'm like fine I'll leave but he has and my kids are there when you say he has your cell phone did he take your cell phone yeah okay were you trying to call 911 when you took your cell phone so it's not keeping you from calling 911 or anything like that you didn't say I'm going to call the police and he took your phone or something like that no cuz I have called the police before and so just cuz that would be a separate that would be a crime if you're saying I'm trying to call the police and I I take the phone from you and I don't let you call the police it's it's not allowing you to call 911 deprivation were they present during the argument or were they asleep during that they well they were but they were asleep or they were present they were asleep I mean one was asleep one they're both in their rooms okay so they weren't witness to the argument they were in the house but not witness to the argument no okay no they weren't witness to the argument or no yes they were not really like I talked I have a 17-year-old so he's not he's in tuned okay Goa um the 10-year-old I just I'm just nervous cuz I don't have a phone I'm supposed to be to work at 8:00 okay do you work in Port Orange or no I work okay do you have the things that you need for work or yeah I mean I have my scrubs yeah okay you work at Halifax or no I work at at what Twin Lake a part of okay um all right let me get some information are you the registered owner of this vehicle yeah is it you and your husband um yeah probably okay I'm just going to run the tag just so I get both in the call so what are you thinking you want to do for the evening do you have somewhere that you want to stay or you want to mean I'm going to have to try to go over to a I don't have any family down here I okay okay um well what are so what are you wanting to do I saw the call said something about like what your rights are I mean obviously if you guys are married the house is marital property you have every right to go back to the house but if you're thinking so like so if you were at the house right now what we would advise you to do is one of you to separate you know one of you oh he's never going to leave it's going to be me every time okay have you guys had prior instances of domestic I called once before because because his drinking has increased to the point where it's like oh my goodness is he an alcoholic anything yeah he is he is truly and it's very sad to me and it's been hard for me to say I sure not yeah go through that do you think he's asleep right now I know we're kind of short staff tonight took us a little bit to get here that's that's why I said it wasn't emergency I just wanted to talk to you guys and see you know pertain to the cell phone and not even being able to get a hold of my children so the cell phone you guys are married so the cell phone is going to be marital property um is it a phone it's your phone like you use the phone all the time okay do you guys pay the bill together both you pay the bill yeah I would say so I mean we have a joint to go okay um so we can go to the house and here's the thing I can tell him that he he probably won't even open the door for you he won't it's fine it's do you have a key to the house we have some Key C to get in okay so you can let me in the house and I can make contact with him if you live there with him right you all live there it's not like a house you guys aren't separated where he lives there and you live somewhere else okay yeah if you you have ever rights to the house so you can let me in the house um are there guns in the house do you think that he would be like violent with me or anything like that not that that means he wouldn't go there but just okay um so then yeah we can go there make contact with him um and get your phone back I mean you shouldn't have to be just driving around without a phone and going and work without a phone if that's if that's your um if that's your goal the thing is I mean if he wants to dig in his heels and say I'm not giving the phone back I mean I I can't take him to jail for not giving your marital property phone back you know but I mean if it's been some time now he's probably calmed down a little bit you know as I'm sure you have um and hopefully you know just with the police being there would be enough for him to give the phone back so with there being a domestic disturbance I have to go there and make contact with with him anyway make sure that not not saying that not implying that you would do this or anything but it's a domestic incident so I have to make contact with him make sure he's not laying there with a knife you know sticking out of him bleeding out so um just I have to make contact with both parties make sure that when he says the same thing you say he's not going to tell me no she hit me in the head with a baseball bat and I've been you know at the hospital getting stitches for the last hour or vice versa you know the kids don't tell me no he he hit my mom with a baseball bat or something like that so just make sure everybody's stories are the same um that they're no indications of physical violence or anything like that so if you want to go over there and hang out in the car I can talk to him and try and get the phone back or um sure it's it's all up to you it's all what you I don't I mean I hate to make it a big deal for the kids or anything I just it's pretty hard to function without having that to be able to contact them if they need me absolutely yeah yeah especially if they're you know it's not like they're little little kids are of school age so they're going to school tomorrow yeah we're in school okay um yeah I can have another officer meet us over there and I can follow you over there and then um we'll go inside contact him let's let just let us make contact with him first okay she said he's not going to open the door she's probably have to let us in I just walk okay let's let's just see if you Orange please hey Anthony hey buddy hello how are you good I'll for with the Port Police Department oh sorry I don't want to wake wake the dog up we're um good girl we're here obviously just uh I guess you and your wife had had an argument earlier any pushing kicking scratching shoving or anything like that during the argument what any pushing kicking scratching shoving during the argument nothing like that okay um she wants to get her phone and some belongings so that she can go and stay in a hotel for the night uh go to work in the morning do you have her phone nope okay where's her phone at no idea you know all right you want to what's hey do you want to hang out with oser Lowry while she or me and oser Lowry while she grabs her belongings no dude you guys aren't welcome what's that you guys aren't welcome okay well she wants us here so we're going to be here as long as she well it's my house it's you guys are married it's marital property okay well it's my house you can't keep her out of it listen listen nobody's trying to agitate this anymore you have two children in the house this is already gone past where it needs to be all we're doing at this point just so you know all we're doing is a documentation report a documentation report saying that you guys verbally argued and that she got some belongings and left the house for the night you're going to make this a lot more complicated if you try and refuse her entry into the house no I'm not okay she needs to get inside to get her phone and belongings that she needs to spend the night elsewhere no okay sir you cannot keep her out of her own house okay that's my house okay that's her choice okay are you guys not married are you married you guys are married Craigs enough good girl you guys are married correct sir I'm telling you the easiest way to go about this is let her get her stuff and go on about her way for the rest of the evening and you guys can talk about things tomorrow she can go about her way as much as she wants okay but that's it okay that's all we're asking yeah that's all we're asking nobody like I said you're not in trouble she's not in trouble she just needs to get her stuff so that she can go on and do what she's got to do okay peace out okay well she wants us here so we're not going to leave until she's done getting dud she's not even in the house so get the out of here okay she's right here how about that she's right here okay so I tried to be polite mhm but at this point get the out of here okay so here's what what's going to happen I'm going to tell her that she has every right to force entry into the house okay no she does not yes she does she lives here and if you try and stop her I'm going to take you to jail telling you that right now just make sure he doesn't come around the side of the house we R basically you have every right to be in the house every right to be in the house um and I my goal is not to engage in anything physical with him um but I also want to be prepared I also want to make sure that when when we make entry into the house that if he chooses to become physical then he makes that decision for himself okay I'm not um you should not be held captive in your own house you should not be intimidated to go into your own house you shouldn't feel like you shouldn't be able to get your own phone now I will tell you him refusing to give the phone back or not not telling you where the phone is not enough for me to take him to jail but if he tries to stop you from going in the house or stop us from going in the house because you have rights here you're allowing us to come in the house with you that is enough to take him to jail so okay okay and I just if we're going if it's if it looks like it's going that way okay um I'd rather have another offer here sure he's a bigger guy and yeah not that not that the two of us can't handle it but why not have another officer here he's just cracking like it's not yeah just stand over here he been drinking a lot huh yeah dude assle [ __ ] my property now oh sir oh sir yeah both y'all Tony we're not trying to cause any problems dude you're you're causing the problem here what you're causing the problem here no I'm not this could be as simple as her grabbing her stuff and leaving you have off my property your children are in the house right now I want you to keep that in mind your children are in the house right now okay okay well they're sleeping so don't okay get out here now no sir we're trying to work this out with you man you're making this way harder than it needs no I'm not it sir we're already telling you all you have to do is let your wife get some belongings and she's willing to leave for the night dude she chose to leave so peace out she has rights to this property no she don't she lives here I don't Tony you're making this way harder than it has to be that's sir are you trying to encourage now you're trying to do the only thing that's going to happen is you're going to get your dog hurt yeah yeah I would not I would not do that man yeah cuz you yeah yall [ __ ] you have a family Power Trip yeah Power Trip yeah I'm here cuz I got called here get the [ __ ] out of here both y'all get out now Tony you ever been arrested before you want to go to jail tonight no I don't me I don't want to take you to jail okay okay I do not want to take you to jail I do not want you to go to jail the last thing I ever wants to take somebody to jail out of their own home in front of their children you're making this way worse than it needs to be you are picking your Hill right now your mountain right now rather than letting your wife get her phone and some clothes so that she can go to a hotel peace out both y'all peace out I hope you think about this when you're sitting potentially sitting in a jail in the morning okay you're making your own decisions right now no this is my home and it's your wife's home as well so no even if you just hand me the stuff man yeah we don't have to come hand us the stuff hand she'll tell you what belonging she wants you hand them to us and we'll leave that's all we want that's pretty fair we won't I won't step a foot on your porch I'll even step back on the grass and she can tell you what what you want and you hand it to her why can't why can't we do that I feel like that's reasonable that's pretty fair no that's my property get the off now both y'all Tony we're not leaving dude y'all don't have no right to be on my property yes we do your wife wants us here if your wife is giving us permission to be here we have permission to be here no don't work like that Tony do you have an attorney yes sir why don't you contact the attorney dude off how the attorney give you some this motherucker right here I don't care about you why you cursing at me right here why you cursing me have I cursed at you no have I yelled at you no have I been disrespectful to you in any way that's it so why am I getting called names I apologize this is just my job man that's it I'm just trying to get you and your wife to be able to go your separate ways for the evening that's it perfect thank you noap on I'm not trying to make your night harder on you I'm really not I've never met you before a day in my life at all I'm just trying to get I'm trying to allow your wife to get her things so she can go to work in the morning and you to go back to bed dude that's her that's her so you want to keep your wife from being able to go to work in the morning that's all she's trying to do she's not asking to take TVs she's asking to take her clothes and her pH no she's you guys have no idea what went on before you guys got caught right I don't that's why I was asking you all right all right give me your side tell me no dude it ain't none of yall's business okay how much you had to drink tonight dude it's my home you're absolutely allowed to drink as much as you want exactly I'm just asking just a question all we're trying to do is just get her stuff so she can get out oh my god dude the big old mofo that's right we brought in the big guns hopefully we don't have to how how how are you how tall are you are how T you are 64 you're like 5'2 yeah all right mother is like 62 all right 63 good girl Tony do you want to just give her her stuff so that this doesn't have to go any worse dude no it ain't going no worse son in my home you guys ain't going nowhere you guys aren't going to force entry into my home no period but your wife can period and we're going to stand by and if you stop her we're going to take you to jail I want you to be 100% clear on that okay well look up the records it's my house okay you guys are married no you're not married no it's my house you're not married period period all right so look it up then give me my phone we're not that's all I need you said divorce we're not married her saying divorce does not mean you guys we're not married hey big old motherucker come here hey come here what come here what's up you think your dog's going to stop the three of us oh sick so what's going on can we get this over with your 40 lb dog's going to stop the three of us dude she so what what's going on you going to get yourself and your dog hurt that's it what can we do to get this uh going quicker we're just trying to resolve it man get out of here we're not leaving all right so well I a open what I would suggest is that you can bring her stuff to us that you don't want us come in in the house cuz she's going to want us to come in with you with all yall you don't have no right to come in my house she wants to period period and it's uploaded to the cloud so okay you guys want to that's fine yeah you guys want to around no we want to resol this we want you to give her stuff so she can get out of here dude her if if she was a resident she has rights to the property yeah no yeah yeah you can contact your attorney with your phone if you want yeah all right so I mean we're not going to stop recording so I mean we'll record for you just TR to do your favor yeah my ID is p 464 by the way what my ID is p 464 did dear so when you when you be yeah we the that's that's that's don't be an [ __ ] I'm just giving you my ID okay and don't be an [ __ ] you're the one that's being like that no I'm not [Applause] okay you mother I opened it let me have the cell phone [Applause] Tony want us here the phone she wants us here you better back up back up man back up you're going to go to jail you're going to go to jail back up all right you're under right [Applause] Tony hey I'm Drive done you're going to get tased if you don't stop stop three two stop resisting right now stop mother stop stop we're going to get dri done you going to put your hands behind your back under arrest you're under arrest put your hands behind your back for resisting for what for resisting you ready for what resisting I'm T you no you're not ready put your hands on your back last chance hey I got this I I got this one I got video up got this we have video hey I got videos up in here okay too late yeah what did I do no what did I do huh you told you it wasn't worth it stop are you good y to the car head stop to the car yeah hey you just you just assaulted a police officer what did I do you just assaulted a police officer you just threatened him with the intented headbutt him good job charge congratulations Fon charge oh you got act like a child that's okay you mother what are you doing what are you doing oh what are you doing keep walking what are you doing when your stomach oh you on your stomach hold on hold on Yo kill me me [ __ ] huh you yeah kill me yeah George Floyd kill me you wolf I just saw light for me wanted the phone I can't get shut the up go ahead me go ahead go ahead me you ass [ __ ] we're going to roll back this way Tony here actually just let's search him he's on the ground yeah search me for what you're under arrest you're going to jail so we're searching you yeah he suck mother this is the alcohol yeah listen to me this is over nobody's aggressive if you're not get the out of here that's the mother your children yeah doesn't care yeah she's roll over a F you mother are you really going to kick me right now lay down now that's battery on law enforcement office two felony charges enjoy prison yeah you mother enjoy prison yeah you [ __ ] you come into my house and then you him again get another charge yeah yeah yeah every time you kick him it's another charge yeah you cut it out dude huh have a seat have a seat it's all get on side yeah all in tap you're right it is yeah hey if he doesn't want to get in just tase him drive son him oh yeah tase him you going to sit up or yeah whatever you guys want we want you to sit up instead of being a child oh yeah big tough mother huh [Music] go ahead shut it we need you to turn around dude I can't I'm puffed so you're going to lay like that yeah shut it you have to move you around like a little baby again shut it [ __ ] shut it why would I shut it on your foot no I tucked my foot in there right trying to he kept he just kept pushing his foot into me yeah yeah yeah yeah it's on that yeah dude I'm working with y'all mother no you're not yeah you are you would trouble you want to work with us dude y mother charging my felony off can you set up I'm trying there you go all right Tony sit back this way go mothering assh Z back this way rotate that way and there you go face that way off face that way off mother off told you you could go easy right all you had to do mother I knew he wasn't going to be like me to open it but I thought he would at least open it so I especially when we just reason with him or hey just give us the phone hey just hand us the phone and we'll leave you know but unfortunately he's an adult just like you're an adult he's got to make his own decisions drunk or not you know at some point you're going to make your own decisions and you can't stay hostage in your own home and not be able to contact your children because he decided to get drunk and act a full yeah so don't feel guilty about that he made his own decision we gave him every opportunity we bagged bagged and pleaded with him hey this doesn't have to be any worse right abely so don't feel guilty about that you did nothing wrong all you did was get your phone which you need to go to work yeah so I contact your children all right um You just want to make sure your kids are okay and all that before we leave okay they're okay though yeah they know that their dad being stupid okay all right man you all right Anthony no mother let's go can I get out or what unfortunately you have to go out to the branch jail what unfortunately you have to go to the branch jail now why cuz you resisted officer Gill give me a break I'm in my own house all your uh your wife just wanted her phone back okay so I'm go to jail for that when officer Gillum gave you a order well I don't care I get it all on yeah we we do we do as well he might okay Tony I'm Sergeant roads on the supervisor okay just do me a favor okay we don't want to put you in the restraint I don't want to okay if you're going to if you're going to act okay we won't do that but listen if you're banging your head or doing anything violent but it's very restrictive I don't want to put you in it man but if you can behave we'll take you out there we'll get you out you can post bond and we'll be doneen I've told you guys multiple times like I appreciate all the service okay and you guys are good cops and the community like I love it okay well we appreciate that compliment but I just need your cooperation right now and that's and we'll be done with get out of here don't get D just be cooperative okay are you willing to complete a sworn written statement for me of what you saw in here I don't know it's completely up to you I don't think I want to right now I don't want him in trouble he's a good person he's UNT now he did he did this to himself um it's it's kind of one of those things so there's really not a whole lot we can do about it we tried to reason with him we tried to talk with him about it he just kept going antagonizing us trying to you know be aggressive I understand um so if if you don't want to do a SW statement it's it's an optional thing I don't not a problem not a problem um if you have any any other questions or anything like that do I asked him is he going to sit in jail a weekend do you feel like we did anything wrong in this situation okay all right he would go to first appearance tomorrow okay and since I'm guessing you're the only person who would come and bond him out yeah yeah so if you don't bond him out he'll be there for a while yeah how how long's a while did you get the his bond amounts so $2500 for him to get out um 250 C through a bail bonds man then I'm an enabler yeah if I let him out I'm enabling the drink that's your decis decision I can tell you what I would do i' let him sit I am going to because he needs to understand that this kind of behavior is not no it's not okay um you guys got two two kids in the house two sons in the house I saw them looking through the window that's not something I want to see is these kids looking out looking at us taking their is is he their father okay to jail so man my house explain it to you like a million times I did not want to take you here at all trust me I was getting ready to go to lunch I did not want to take you here so then you charg me a felony of uh assault on an officer tell a police officer you're going to head Bott him while you're this close to his face okay it's my house you still can't there's a police officer there for a lawful reason you think it's okay to threaten a police officer no I don't but at the same time you think it's okay that you guys guys come into my house and did you see your wife there with us okay your wife has just as much rights to the property as you do just like imagine your wife was in the house and she's locked you out and you tell us I want to go inside the house it'd be different and you go inside the house and your wife pay for it it doesn't matter you guys are married I get what you're saying cuz I pay the bills in my house I get what you're saying okay that's fine but for you guys to Jack me around like that you were fine with us if you just if you were just a gentleman about it and you said okay I'm under arrest and you put your hands behind on your back then it wouldn't have been a big deal okay so I what do you want us to do what do you want us to do you know it's what what did you want us to do you know it's [ __ ] I didn't that's why we have body cameras sir okay everything's on body camera you got three cameras that capture everything and then you got cameras in your house you know for a fact that if I would fought back that it'd be a different story right okay well if you would have fought back we would have charged you the battery on a law enfor no you would have tased me sure maybe no that's what you threatened but well I threatened a Tas you if you wouldn't give us your hand cuz you had this hand in front of you the whole time you remember that I remember that if you would have fought us I probably would have been using my Taser I probably just we just would have fought you back okay so I didn't fight you guys right okay so you you threaten to headbutt an officer that's that's the violence that's the reason it's resisting with violence is because you offered to do violence to police officer if you didn't do that it just would have been resisting without violence re in my own house all right but we're there for a lawful reason the judge is going to put me in prison for you guys coming to my house for my wife's cell phone give me a [ __ ] break so how many opportunities did we give you to give us the phone I even said you can just I'll talk to the about it [ __ ] tackled me tackled you you got to get in there before they take them off yeah we're going to go outside go ahead and go that way just going to run the back of the car here mother that's why I called him why do you think I call him I'm not stupid I'm not going to fight you by myself what no 38-year-old Anthony ruin was charged with assault on the law enforcement officer and resisting arrest with violence