Let's go get him. Will you please go get him? Thank you. You don't know what I'm going to do. You can't stop doing You can't tell me [ __ ] all right? I'm in my own yard. YOU KEEP YOUR HAND OFF OF HIM. STAY BACK. IT'S LITERALLY on right now. [ __ ] you. Y'all Y'all [ __ ] need retraining. Officers arrived at a residence to speak with 20-year-old Brian, who was accused of hitting his cousin during a family gathering. What started as a simple inquiry >> [music] >> quickly turned into a neighborhood spectacle, mostly thanks to Brian's mother. It was clear from the first few seconds that Brian wasn't the only one who struggled with boundaries, as his mother decided to treat the police [music] like unwanted guests at a dinner party she never wanted to host. Does Brian live here? My son. Yeah. What do you need him for? I just need to talk to him about Uh let me go get him. Okay, I appreciate you. What happened? I'm trying to figure that out. Apparently, they got into some kind of argument or something like that, and I just need to get his side. >> Was there an altercation? I guess so. I wasn't out there helping the other guy. Do you know anything about it? What, little Brian? That's what he's talking about. I have no idea. Uh Junior, Brian. Oh my god. Oh my god. Yes, ma'am. I need a lawyer and a donut. I I don't know. That's up to Brian. I don't I don't know about that. I need a lawyer. Okay. I'll tell you this right now. He's got felony charges, and if you interfere, I'll have to arrest you, too, and I'd rather not do that. I'm not lying. I'll take Let me just go get my son. I appreciate you. You want to ask little mother Will you please go get him? Will you please go get him? Thank you. I'll take my time, but I will go get him. We go around the other side. I really don't want her to interfere cuz it's an unnecessary arrest to me. >> Hey, dude, I can't control her. I understand. You ain't got three brain cells. Y'all need to stay together. Well, you don't tell me where I need to go, ma'am. You don't tell me where I need to go. No, you need to go with them. You can't nobody, ma'am. You don't know what I'm going to do. You can't stop doing You can't tell me [ __ ] all right? I'm in my own yard. >> Ma'am, if you can't stop doing stuff, okay? I can't stop, and I ain't got to go inside. >> Stop. You make it No, these mother They're going to make it worse. It's okay. All right. What What happened with missed and hit my little brother [laughter] cuz he It's okay. Marvin just Marvin just talked to me. I'm not going to stop. I'm sorry. No, don't be. Mom, please stop. >> Handle your business. You're making it more >> slick comments. They can't do that. We're going to talk at the car if you can't stop interfering. Let's go. Brian. Brian, come with me, okay? Right now Right now you're detained. Okay. Brian's mother immediately started a serious case of main character syndrome, acting like she was the queen of her own place. She had no emotional regulation and very poor boundaries with her adult son, making the entire situation 10 times worse. While Brian tried to stay calm, his mother kept interjecting, clearly enjoying the drama way too much for a parent. Stay back. Stay back. YOU CAN'T YOUR HAND OFF OF HIM. STAY BACK. YOU [ __ ] RECORD THIS. Get somebody We're already recording, ma'am. It's You KNOW WHAT? I DON'T TRUST YOU. DON'T TALK TO ME NO MORE. IT'S literally on right now. [ __ ] you. Y'all Y'all [ __ ] need retraining. I don't give a [ __ ] about what you are recording. He stopped it and started again. You're just saying that you need to I never touched it. I never touched it, so No, I didn't. You can decide at any time to exercise these rights and not answer any questions or make any statements. Do you understand each of these rights that I explained to you? Having these rights in mind, will you talk to me now? Yes, I do. Well, you got a question. What Well Well, I I just asked that in a second because I'm completely honest, and I know exactly what happened, and I know And if This is not really helping, is it? I know. She It's I go through a lot, dude. But Um If just stay right there while we talk to him. You staying right there. Ma'am, you're not going to interfere with us. No, I'm not. You ain't going to interfere with him. I went over there being the older brother, and I literally said this, I will not do anything. So, I grabbed my belt, and I went over there, explained like, you cannot do this. He's a little kid, and I'm my age, I can't put my hands on you, just like you shouldn't put my your hands on my little brother. ground, not hard. I know they said that it was hard. Whatever. But yeah, I've did that, just playing around and stuff like that as a kid. Is that legal or illegal? Brian eventually admitted he went over there to discipline a child, not realizing that corporal punishment doesn't apply to cousins. He needs to get away from her mom if he ever wants a normal life, especially [music] since she was busy arguing with everyone instead of listening to the actual law. He shouldn't put his hand on my son. Were you there? What? Were you there? >> I ain't talking about I'm talking about that [ __ ] Oh. These mother is crazy. They're on drugs out there. Son. Ma'am, I'm going to stop interfering. >> talking to you. >> Stop. truthfully Stop interfering. >> Get away from me. Stop back from me. Stop interfering. >> I'm not interfering. Get back from me. You're scaring me and threatening me. >> I'm not threatening you anyway. So, technically, you're under arrest for child abuse, Child abuse? But since you're being okay, I'm just going to cuff you in the front cuz I know I know I know your your adrenaline's going to go crazy and everything. If you do not move out of my personal space, I'm going to press charges on you. I need a I need a lawyer out here. For what? If you call 911, ma'am, I'm going to arrest you for 911 abuse. You are getting very aggressive. >> I'm just telling you not to interfere with them while they're talking. Why don't you just mind your business? This is my business, ma'am. >> [ __ ] back from me. I don't have to go anywhere. I'm not intimidated. I'm just I'm not You're going to be in trouble. >> I'm just telling you to do I'm genuinely trying to be a good kid. I'm trying to follow So, God and stuff like that. So, right now, it's all it is is is an exact accusation. When the judge hears everything, it may just get thrown >> Wait, I got to do all that? You're going to have a court date. Well, can I make a um an appeal or something like that? Like um go check their house in their perspective. Well, if you're going to complain, I would rather you get No, ma'am. Do not let I want TO GO SEE MY SON. NO, MA'AM. MOM, STOP. YOU FAT. That's all you got to say? I'm fat. Oh, well. You ain't fat. Let me go tend to my boy. >> No, ma'am. I'm not. I hate what you stand for. You're not here for the people who didn't do nothing. You little Ma'am. CAN I BRING MY BIBLE? CAN I PLEASE BRING MY BIBLE? If she's willing to get it for you. >> Mom, can you please GET MY BIBLE? YOU SHOULD HAVE YOU SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO ME. YOU COULD HAVE BEEN HONEST WITH THESE stupid As the officer officially placed Brian under arrest for child abuse, the mother's behavior reached a new level of insanity. She actually threatened to press charges on the cops while body shaming them. Lady, you're not in a position to call other people fat. She claimed the officers were scaring her, yet she was the one being the most aggressive person there. I'm going to be honest. I'm following God, Mom. Whatever happens, happens. I DON'T CARE. WHAT THE MOM, YEAH, MY BIBLE. MY keys are in my room. WHAT THE Y'ALL HAVE TO TELL ME WHAT YOU'RE TAKING, my son. How old is he? Not >> He is grown. He's He He's been told his charges. You know what you wrapped up, won't you? >> I don't have a wife, ma'am. >> Well, whatever. Exactly. Go get his Bible, please. Hello. Y'all two are [ __ ] Please get my Bible. I was Can I sit down or something? He's just talking to you. >> it, baby. I'm getting it. And don't worry, you won't get out tonight. I'm going to be up there to get you here in just a little bit. >> be out tonight. Fat. [ __ ] you. You don't know how it goes with this [ __ ] >> to first appearance, ma'am. Yes, he does. Hold on. I'll talk to you in He goes to first appearance in the morning, ma'am. Mom. It's not going to work. Mom, please get my Bible. Dude. [ __ ] you, you fat Go get his Bible, please, so he can have it. If that's all you got to say, it's not really doing anything. You know you are crooked as You would have known the real situation. >> go get his Bible, ma'am, please? He's requesting it, please. It's the nicest thing I heard all day. [ __ ] you. You're doing the wrong thing here. It's You're doing the wrong thing. Go get his Bible, please. So he can have it. Just got to make sure nothing in your pockets, all right? Nothing in your hat? Nope. All right. You want to hold on to it, but it's not going in your pocket, okay? All right. I got to get my phone or my Bible, one of the two, or at least both. Dang, these people are hard. Yeah. So, what charge would that be? Right now, it's just child abuse. What? You can't say just child abuse. Umbrella charge. What's an umbrella charge? It's kind of It kind of covers everything, okay? So, it depends on what the judge sees and everything else after that. Dude. All right. That's That's the way it is. I'm going to attempt, okay? All right, dude. I'll just sit sit tight as best you can, okay? Hey, Mom, can you get my phone now? His mother was still busy insulting the officer's personal life and marital status, proving [music] that if a trash bag were a person, it would look a lot like her. Can you imagine having a mother like that? His son never stood a chance with her influence. Just stay right here. >> to call Christie and Donnie. We're going It's going to be fine. You'll get out tonight. I hate y'all. Y'all are wrong for this. That boy didn't do nothing against the law. >> we weren't there. We don't Well, are you taking it out on me on him for the way I acted? No. >> You are. You're pissed, aren't you? Who? Me? Yeah, cuz the way I talked to y'all. No, ma'am. I told Everybody knows y'all have y'all do. >> This is nothing to us. I got the Bible already. So, cell phone and flip-flops if you got it, ma'am. Y'all will all rot for this. Y'all don't know that he's a good boy. He's a Christian. He's a good boy. So, cell phone and sandals. Cell phone and sandals, please. Devil gets y'all snatching y'all out the window and >> and sandals, please. I hope this happens to your boy when you have one one day. You'll know how I feel. Cell phone I mean, if my kid If my kid done wrong, he needs to go to jail. My kid didn't do wrong. Well, I wasn't there. I don't know. Yeah, you wasn't there. That's why y'all are here. So, cell phone and sandals cuz somebody else that's here was. And he lied, too. Kiss his ass. I don't kiss anyone's, ma'am. Who's driving me? I am. Can I talk to you about God? You can talk to me on the way there if you want to. All right, then. Did you want to talk to him, ma'am? There's this thing called um son of judicial something another. Don't worry about it, Mom. I know God's got me. He's not telling you he's stupid. It's not enough, ma'am. Under 20 is a felony. If I don't get anything He's not stupid. Okay, we're about done here. We're about done here. In the end, Brian was hauled off to jail while his mother continued to scream insults from the driveway. She proved that she was a horrible mother who would rather pick a fight with the law than admit her son made a mistake. Her lack of self-awareness was alarming. Brian living in a jail cell might actually be the first time he gets some peace from his mother's chaos. Brian was charged with child abuse and taken to jail. What started as a simple family discussion turned into a serious legal case, partly because of the mother's behavior. Do you think this kind of reaction from parents helps their [music] children or harms them? Share your opinion in the comments. If you found this video interesting, [music] subscribe to the channel for more real body cam cases.