I had to get the belt and I can't you arrest me? >> No, you didn't do nothing till >> No one grows up expecting to be drawn into official processes. But when healthy communication [music] breaks down and accountability is avoided, outside support becomes necessary. >> I am an attorney and I will see you. >> Get on the ground now. Get on the ground. >> Put your feet down like a normal person. and uncomfortable. >> This series isn't about blame. It's about asking a deeper question. What lessons are adults truly passing on to children through their everyday choices. When officers arrived at this home, no one imagined the situation would turn out to be far more complicated than a routine visit. >> If y'all not arresting me, I'm not stepping out of nothing. I ain't even going to lie to you cuz I didn't move this vehicle. I ain't even going to lie to you. On September 7th, 2023, officers were dispatched to a residence to follow up on an individual under community supervision. Tracking data pointed to this location. A woman connected to the matter was contacted, but she said the person was not there and chose not to engage, reflecting how people may react offensively when they feel pressure. >> Do you look here? >> Okay. We're trying to find a Nicholas Bolder and he lives at 802. Is there anyone else in the house right now? >> Mind if we check inside? Cuz the dude has an ankle monitor and they're saying he's pinging at this spot. >> I'm asking you cuz the dude is making basically to this female >> and so a halfway house called us about him. So we're just trying to get the guy. I get you, but I explain it to you, right? Is that it? It came to 802. So that's why we're check. I just happen to see you in your car. So, so just for safety, I just like to make sure he's not in there in case you or anything. And if there's >> anything in there, I don't care. I just want to make sure he's not here. So, we know that the halfway house is safe. That's all. >> Contact. >> I'm sorry. What' you say? >> Okay. So, I rolled up. Burglar was by this Jeep. >> She took off down. Yeah, she took off down this way. >> Okay. >> We got I got back there in a second. He's got to be inside >> my car. >> He's got to be inside still. >> She's saying she lives here. He's planning to let no one else in there. >> Yeah, but >> she's not giving any consent for us to go in. >> We ain't going to be able to get in there. >> Let's say 100% that it went into a flight, you know. >> Yeah. >> Who's a girl? >> Uh owner of the car to catch it. But >> um so how long is this going to take? >> Um give me >> Yeah. Give me one second. She wants to know how long this is going to take cuz she has things to do. So this is hers and she said we can't go in. How do you not >> APA? >> Hey, dear. All right, so I just got here. I'm Officer Constantino. >> So, you got kids in here. You got family, you know, all around. You got a bunch of cops around the house. You don't want to get yourself in any kind of trouble. Let's just get this done so everyone can just leave. You can leave. You know, we'll leave. You can do get on with your business. If you would just allow me and my partner to walk through with you real quick. That's fine. And then when the search warrant gets here, then you're going to end up going to jail for what we find out. Okay? It's called obstructing official um business or obstructing justice. >> How is that? Because I didn't give my name because I want to call a lawyer to see if it's with him. >> Dear, if you don't give your name and if also if he ends up being hiding in your house, person that we believe to be there in >> my car, how how we >> dear, I'm just telling you what's happening and I'm giving you every opportunity and I'm hoping that you can make a a good decision for yourself and for your children and hopefully then, you know, we can get this done. >> That don't even make sense. >> Okay. Hey there. Or you could just roll the dice and just hope. That's why I need Yeah, that's why I need to contact my lawyer because that don't even make checks. Okay. How is me sitting? Y'all specifically see me sitting in my car. >> I just got here. I have no idea. >> But I'm saying the officer that just tried to talk to me. Yeah. Right there. >> Hey dear, that's fine. And when the >> right there, he just said that he seen me sitting in the car. >> When the search warrant get when the search warrant gets here and we do go in the house. >> Hey, that's fine. That's fine. when the search warrant gets here and we do go in your house and then when we arrest him then we'll come back out here and we'll arrest you and then whatever happens you know in regards to everything else >> my kids get picked up right now like that's not a big deal >> you might want to make arrangements cuz that is going to be the next step okay so if you want to be away from your children that's fine >> I'm not going to be away from my children cuz I'm going to get bonded out today anything cuz I'm going to fight this cuz there's no way in the world that y'all going to try to arrest me >> or or we or we can just work this out together right now and you just walk me through show me he's not there and then we're done. There's there's no need for me to do that because I know for a fact I >> the search the search warrant is the other option, dear. >> Okay, so do that. >> Is this your home? >> That's correct. >> Yes, this is >> okay. So then when that door gets damaged by the SWAT team and when we go through there and we find them, then you're going to go to jail and then you also have damaged property. Don't you want to relieve? >> My door has been damaged numerous times because breakins because y'all mother don't do [ __ ] >> Sorry, we're trying. >> I know for a fact I'm not going to jail for no official obstructing of anything because of the simple fact. >> I'm I'm telling you right now you're wrong about that. But I'm letting you know that charge is going to get dropped because I was sitting in my car. >> But you're still going you're still going to go to jail. >> We're just asking for your cooperation in the investigation. >> All right. >> Within a couple of hours. I'm telling you that right now. >> You guys see him going? >> Well, y'all have a good one. >> As attention shifted from the man avoiding [music] contact. It briefly turned to a woman in a vehicle after an irregularity with her driving [music] credentials was discovered. >> What's his warrant for? D some other [ __ ] >> Let's pull her out since she's suspended, too. Start working that. You're uh you're suspended. So, can you step out for me, please? Your vehicle's running. You're suspended. You're right. Step out for me. You're suspended. >> My kids are in this car. >> Step out for me, please. You're suspended. You don't even drive. >> My vehicle is not moving. Like, >> step out for me. >> I'm not. >> You're running a vehicle right now. Step out for me, please. >> No. Stop. >> That's illegal. That That is illegal, >> dear. They're telling you right now. I'm telling you right now, my vehicle, y'all seen me start this vehicle. Bring y'all little body cams back cuz y'all just seen me start this vehicle. >> Dear, why not? Let's alleviate all of this. Just tell Nicholas to come out. Just tell Nicholas to come out. >> Just tell Nicholas come out. Yes, he's in there. He's pinging in there. He has He has a GPS monitor on them. >> Okay. But I seen mother run, so I don't know where the anybody was. >> I was in my car this whole time. >> Freaking back up. They're not doing anything. I don't want to do >> car. Can you close my door? >> I don't want to do >> Can you close my door? The reason I started this car was for these bees. That's to sting my mother kids that's allergic to bees. Can you close my car, please? >> You're suspending. You have a car running right now. Step out. >> Oh my god. I am not doing that. If y'all not arresting me, I'm not stepping out of nothing. I ain't even going to lie to you cuz I didn't move this vehicle. I ain't even going to lie to you. >> I got really bad news for you. All right. You ready for this? >> Oh my god. There is bees and my kids are allergic. >> Okay, I got an EpiPen with me, so we're good. So, here's the bad news. I have a GPS monitor that's inside that place that tells me that >> you turn the car off also. You're not allowed to drive it. >> Okay. >> He's also got a bond for that says we can go in that house any time of day. So, here's what I'm going to tell you. We're going through Oh, yeah. I've got a bond for regards to >> my house. >> We're getting that as well, but now we don't have to. But with that being said, as soon as I go in there, soon as I go in there, there cuz the GPS is in there. >> I don't know who this person is. >> I'm going to be arresting you when we're done. I'm asking you to give me the keys and give us consent or we're going to be knocking the door open, then you're going to get more charges. Can y'all close my door, please? Thank you. >> Where's your keys at, though? Give me your keys. >> No, you can have a car key. >> I want the car key. >> Okay, I'm going give it to you. >> Thank you. >> Wait, why do you need my car key? >> Cuz I don't want you driving off. Bye. >> All right, fine. Or or we'll just pull you up and tow it. We don't want to do that. So just hand the key hand the car key over. Why do you want to be like this? You're going to make it worse for yourself. Your children are in the back of this car. >> You a fool. >> I can tell. I can tell. And it's totally apparent. >> I cuss around my kids. I don't know about y'all, but I do. >> This is private mother property. I don't know what the y'all talking about. I don't know. >> You're not allowed to drive on private property either. >> Bookie. This is my property. I ain't drive in this. I ain't even going to lie to you. Y'all ain't move. Y'all ain't seen me move [ __ ] >> Stay here. She does not drive. >> Y'all ain't going to grab no keys. Okay. Well, y'all can close my door, though. >> No, the door's not shutting. >> All right, >> dude. Let me go get my sled. >> Even though the monitoring equipment was no longer active, the location was verified [music] and procedures were followed. This shows that the system is designed not only to respond to [music] rulebreaking, but also to support public safety. >> Coming police department, tell me if you're in here. Answer me or I'm forcing the door in. Hands up. Hands up now. >> Hands up. >> Get on the ground right now. >> Get on the ground now. >> There ain't no need for that. >> Shut up. >> Hey Britney. >> I got you. I got you. >> Damn good. >> Got him. >> There ain't no need for that. I was standing. >> Don't run. You won't get this. >> I ain't run. I was in the house laying down. My >> [ __ ] >> I was >> [ __ ] >> Waiting for y'all. >> I was waiting for you. >> Tuck your knees to your chest. >> Tuck your knees to your chest. >> The mother overwhelmed with emotion, held her child tightly, unintentionally [music] increasing stress. The child was later cared for separately to ensure well-being. A considerate step that placed the child's needs first. >> Sit right here. We're going to have to get that. >> So, what y'all lost from breastfeeding the mothers? Cuz I rested my daughter. >> Hey, baby. Don't worry about the baby. I'll be home. >> Oh my god. >> I don't want to pull the baby away from you. Okay. So, put the baby in the back. >> Don't make this more difficult. You've already gotten us to this point. >> You want us to rip you off from your kids? Is that what you want? >> I would never do that. I'm a mom. I got six kids. Why would you let it get this far? >> All right, we're done playing with you. Come on, baby. You're going to go to the back seat. It's all right for me. >> Can you please not make this difficult for your child? You're going to make us take your child away from you. >> You want to take her child? >> All right. Don't fight. Don't fight. Don't fight. >> Don't fight. [screaming] >> MY DAUGHTER, YOU DUMB ASS. GET MY DAUGHTER. ON THE OTHER side >> going with you. >> Yeah. >> Right now, >> we will move your feet apart for me a little bit more for me, please. I have a back problem. My feet is apart. >> Yeah, I check it's going to be uncomfortable. >> And I said my feet is apart. >> You got anything else on you? Anything that's going to poke me or >> look like I got anything on me? I'm not wearing pants and I'm on my period. I just want to let you know that. >> Okay, thank you. Are you wearing a bra hunt? >> Nope. >> Okay. Actually, I'm going to have you search her real quick. >> My phone. >> We'll get it to you. We can't have you have it, but we'll make sure it gets to the county. >> Not yet. No, I don't know if they have it, but we can get it. >> And can I can y'all get my keys off the top of that car >> and put it in my personal property, too? >> We have to get her phone. >> No, it's attached to my AirPods and he put it on the top of my car when he got my car. >> I'll grab that. >> You still need ID? So, can I not have my phone? >> You know why? >> I told you this was going to happen. This is not what we wanted. This is ridiculous that it even had to go this way. You had every opportunity to not have this happen. >> Is this your stuff right here? >> Okay. >> Who are we calling for your children? Let's just step back from this whole thing. Let's get >> I can't tell you because I don't have >> I'll get it for you. Who Who are you going to call? You have somebody. Okay. >> How far? I know. I I told you to go ahead and get that going, but you didn't. >> You got her phone just >> Okay. Make a good phone call, though. We're not going to be answering text messages for everybody else. You're going to call whoever it is, and that's it. If not, I got to go call children services. She's calling now. >> Hello. >> Hello. >> Um, can you come and get my kids, please? >> What? >> Can you come? Can you please hurry up and come and get my kids? I'm going to jail. >> Why? >> I'm going to jail. Can you please come and get my kids? >> Okay. From >> I'll explain everything when I get out later. >> From where? >> From my house. >> And who's going to be with them? >> The police department. Come get the children or we got to call children services. How long until you're going to get here? >> Um, well, I'm going to have to It's going to be like 40 minutes. Is that okay? >> No, it's too long. >> Okay. Well, then I'll talk. >> Can you please hold on? Hold on. Let me what's today? >> Let me call my grandpa and see if he can come around the corner and fix them up until I get them. >> You need to call somebody else in the meantime too to get that started. You might want to do that. Hey dear, we're not sitting here doing text messages. Make the phone call and be done. I don't want to take the phone from you. >> Okay. >> Well, I'm trying to get You just told I'm going to jail. So, is there a possibility that you could come and get um come and get the kids? >> Yeah. Where you at? >> I'm at my house. I'm in the cop car. I'm getting arrested. >> You're not going to have a bomb. You have no bomb. It's a felony. >> What's a felony? >> Obstructing justice like I told you. >> How is that a felony? >> It's felony. >> So, just so you know, you have no time. We told you this was going to happen. >> Are y'all able to wait 5 minutes so she can? >> Yes. 5 minutes. >> One encouraging outcome was that the child [music] was placed with relatives providing a more stable and supportive environment. >> They have two different people coming. Should be here shortly. Do you have any questions for me? We did everything we said was going to happen. You should have just listened to us from the start. Maybe next time you will. Does she have her wallet and stuff? I need her food stamp card. >> Hold on one second. Hold on. Let's get this done first and then we'll get you whatever you need. Okay. So, she obstructed justice by trying to interfere with a law enforcement investigation during a foot pursuit. >> Uh someone who had a warrant ran into the house. She obstructed officers. We had a force entry and go in. Uh she told him today somebody ran into her house today. >> Yeah. But she allowed him in there. She knew he was in there. you know, wouldn't tell us what was going on because she lied >> stop us from doing our job. >> Yep. >> So, we had to force entry and go get him and that's what she got charged with. She also had >> she even used the children to try to stop us from arresting her. >> As for the individual at the center of the situation, once inside the official vehicle, [music] he repeatedly stated that he felt unfairly treated despite having cooperated. >> Don't take my money and [ __ ] Turn your body cam on. Turn your BODY CAM ON. RECORD THAT [ __ ] HEY, who was that who slammed me to the ground? He weak as hell. I wasn't talking to y'all. I was talking to that a black dude. Black pinching me like a little. You cool though. You always been cool. Hey, my ankle mounted upstairs. Go tell your boys. Tell them real quick. Tell them my ankle monitor upstairs on the floor. >> Already got it. >> Oh, y'all did. My big mama that. She seen me with this do that. Y'all were trying to take her to jail. I was on the phone with her the whole time. Right. Y'all ain't stupid. Y'all had that search warrant. Let me see it. >> Man, I'm good on me. >> N I want to see it. You got to present a search warrant to kick in the door. I'm not stupid. I know my laws. >> You talking to the house? Huh? >> You know. >> No, y'all didn't. She told me. She said they just kicking my door. They didn't tell me. If y'all would have told me heard you're going to kick her door in, I'd have got came out. That'sed up. Why would y'all take her to jail? Why y'all take her to jail? Hold on. Why y'all take her to jail, gangster? >> Because she was instructing official business. >> How? >> Cuz you were inside. We knew you were inside. >> How you knew that? >> I watched you, man. >> You ain't watch me. I thought I sllicked it. Hold on. How y'all get my Reggie? >> What's up? >> How y'all get my boy Reggie? He >> was fast, but I'm a bit faster. >> Oh, he Who caught him? What's up? >> Who you catch him? >> Huh? Who you catch? I can't remember. Was it hard? >> What's up? >> Did he almost get away? >> Nah, too close on him this time. >> No lie. I ain't going to lie. Dude can't me on the streets. None of them. None of them can. >> I bet you can't run you. That dude's running. That one's fast. >> The black guy. >> Yeah, Reggie. >> Huh? >> Reggie. >> Oh, yeah. Reggie good. >> He's fast. >> No, I'm talking about y'all cops. Y'all can't me. Y'all just like he tried slamming the floor like what I tell you, bro. I put my hands behind my back. Leave me alone. Ain't that what I told you? Was you back there when I put my hands behind my back? >> No, man. >> I put my hands straight behind my back. I said just take me to jail, dude. Just slam me. Huh? >> I was in the front. >> Oh, you were the one who kicked the door. >> I was with them. >> Bro, you should have just told her. If you would have told her, I'd have came out. Y'all know that's y'all kicked her door and took her kid. Y'all ain't give her that warning. >> Oh, we we gave her play. >> No, I heard y'all on the phone. Y'all ain't tell her that. Y'all was just trying to take her car and [ __ ] I'm like, y'all can't do that. That's stupid. That's some ass [ __ ] Boy, I got a gangster though. Trying to say I ain't a gangster. I'm more cut than any in this straight gangster. And I want all my money too. Count it out. >> Progy. >> What I had? What made y'all come and get me? My baby mom called. >> No, apparently you kept calling Genesis house. Something like that. >> That's a lie. >> All right. >> Who said that? >> Genesis house. >> Why they didn't lie for my baby mom? >> Are you living right now at uh for her? >> No, I live at too with my baby girl. >> Living too. >> With my baby psych. No. I stay wherever I want. Don't put no address. >> I got something, man. Is that your baby mom? >> Who? >> At 802. >> I'm her. That's how good my is. You see how good it is? >> Yeah. >> That's pretty good, ain't it? >> Well, see that's why the other guy was pinching you. >> Why? Cuz >> you said it. Oh, cuz my >> Yeah, >> probably. >> The man was charged with vandalism, resisting arrest, [music] and obstructing official business. While the woman also faced charges of obstruction of justice, receiving stolen property, childment, and resisting arrest. Under Ohio law, he could face 3 to 6 years and she up to 2 years. Children don't just hear what adults say. They absorb how adults respond. When challenges are met with calm [music] and respect, they learn communication instead of conflict. That is the most meaningful lesson this [music] story leaves behind. You are about to follow a story where intense emotions, personal struggles, and unresolved tension collided in a shared space. One filled with children, families, and bystanders who had nothing to do with the conflict. Yep. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Come on. >> On August 12th, 2025, Florida officers were contacted by a resort about a woman who appeared highly agitated and disruptive near the pool area. Witnesses said she behaved inappropriately, caused minor property damage, and acted disrespectfully toward a 13-year-old boy simply because he did not want to join her activity. It was a moment that highlights the importance of protecting children from unsafe adult behavior. >> Basically, What happened outside? You know, she's buying everybody some film. [screaming] So, I'm like, "Come on, let's go to the room." Every time I walk out, you know, come inside, she's following somebody else. She spit on the three people over there. She broke the table. She's fighting with this guy. >> What did she Let's go see the table she broke. [screaming] >> She did her out so hard. Oh, so how did that happen? >> Who saw it? >> Everybody here. That's a trick right there. >> She didn't want to hear what the little boy sitting next to me. She wanted him to sing. He's a young kid. And he said no. She spit her drink on us. I'm like, that's not that's not good. You know, >> I don't know. Something she had problem, you know. I'm sorry. >> Yeah. Slammed her cup down. >> Yeah. She took she was mad. Slammed [clears throat] her cup down. >> All right. >> Disorderly intox. >> Yeah, disorderly intox and vandalism. So >> what' she do to him? >> All right. Alcohol on it. >> You want me to just explain what happened? Okay. Oh, I came out here to stay with my good friends with him. I fish with him and stuff. Oh, she kept coming around me talking to me. She kept trying to get me to come and dance with her. >> Okay. >> And I kept telling her, "No, no, no. Leave me alone." She kept declining my nose and kept going back to me, told me to dance. She She went up here to the karaoke machine, came back, took a sip of alcohol and spit it on me. She's like, >> she spit it on you? >> Yes. >> How old is he? >> Can you fill out a statement on his behalf? >> Here's a pen. >> Yeah. >> I gave her a pen. She's going to fill out on his behalf. He's 13 years old. So, um, I think that's it. I'm going to go I'm going to go do the trespass warning real quick. >> OKAY. >> OH, NO. WHICH ONE? >> Walking in the water. >> She's swimming in the water. >> Wait, is she in the water? >> She threw her on the ground. >> No, I did not want to press Jordan. I wanted to smash that [ __ ] but I didn't. on you. >> Grabbed a hold of me. >> Southern girl County. >> Is that her? >> Thank [laughter] you. >> Let me get your swimming in the >> Okay, that's fine. >> Your name and >> my name is >> Thanks, sir. >> I'm the one [ __ ] Okay. >> He doesn't want to pursue for the battery. >> Oh, see somebody. I didn't even worry [laughter] about >> his hair. >> Oh, this guy. >> No, the guy right there. Yeah, but he said that the hotel wants to pursue charges. So, what? >> All right. Where's the nearest uh exit to the beach? >> Oh, right there. Perfect. >> After gathering details, officers approached the woman who claimed to be familiar with the law. The interaction was challenging as she avoided engagement, showing how communication can break down when emotions take over. >> Come here. >> No, you come here. >> Did you hear me? >> Yeah. >> So, some old ladies know her up there and they're like and I was like, "Do you know her?" She like, "Yeah, but she's up on the second floor. It's like on the top of her." I'll wait till the guys with uh shorts and flip-flops get here to help us out and go out and get her. She wants to come to us. >> Let her get up to us. >> I really don't want to go chasing the water. >> Hello. >> How are you? >> How are you? >> What is your name? >> Delila. >> Delila. Do you know Miss Delila or you just >> This is Laura. >> Laura, how do you know? >> She is my friend. We met here. >> We're from Georgia. >> We met here. >> Oh my god. Are you >> stay She's staying here. Okay. Mister, >> she's had some tragedy in her life. >> Yeah. So, Mr. And then that flaming guy up there. >> Were you in the hospital? >> Yeah. She look >> figure out what we got. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Move your hand. >> Not you. You try to block me. >> I didn't try to block you >> right now. You're detained. >> Try to video, ma'am. >> Hey, wait. >> I didn't try to block you. I serious. Yeah, apparently you went on a little escapade up there and destroyed some property, spit in some famil family's faces. We're going to take care of the problem today. Okay. >> We're just going to get you out of here. You're done with this. Your behavior is odd at best. >> All right, we're going to walk back up there. >> You're going to have to carry me. >> Yes, you are. >> I need my right. >> Are you really seriously? >> Oh my god. I'm an attorney and I will conqu my >> Oh, you're kidding me. >> Okay, so you're going to let that flamingshole. Oh my god. You're kidding. No, no, no, no, no, no. I'm I'm going to go with you. >> Seriously, I'm going with you. >> You said you're an attorney. My name is Officer Garcia. So, I'm going to get everybody. >> You should probably behave like an adult before you before you lose your uh your license to practice. Act like a fool on camera. >> Turning my license in. Actually, >> are you kidding me? >> Going up the ramp. >> Yeah. Uh the ramp or the Let's just go upstairs. >> Are you guys going to come? >> Look. Do not >> up the stairs. No. No. No. Look. Hey, stop. Just stop for a second because look, look at me. Up the stairs. Laura, look at me. Because Go up the stairs. Go up the stairs. >> Look at me. I see you. Not going up the stairs. >> No. No. No. No. Because I'm not going to play this game. Behave like an adult. >> No. Because you know why? Because that [ __ ] that's up here is going to benefit from all this [ __ ] That is ashole right there. You know what? You guys ALL OF YOU LIKE THAT? YOU LIKE THAT? NO. NO. NO, NO, we put it in the water so that not BLOCK YOU. >> I PROMISE THAT. [screaming] >> I mean, you know what? I'm going to go. I'm going to go and I've never been in house before, but I will get your [screaming] >> Okay, you need to go inside. >> Yep. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Come on. Get up. No. >> No. I don't like this. >> Get up. [sighs] >> Search you real quick. >> Search me. What do I got? Nipples. >> Nipples. That's all I got. >> What is that? It's a clamp and a nipple. >> Oh, that's her. >> What? >> Oh, it looked like she had a rag or something. >> Are you kidding me? >> Oh my gosh. >> All right, take a seat, please. >> No. >> Wonderful. Delta Juliet. >> Put your feet down like a normal person. >> Uncuff me and I'll put my feet down. >> Can't do that. >> Oh, uncuff me. That's my clip. Yep. I have I have a new knee AND [screaming] STOP. >> I have a new KNEE AND A NEW BEHAVE AND put your feet down. >> ARE YOU KIDDING ME? SIT UP LIKE A ADULT. I'm not going to put up with your [ __ ] >> Yeah. Now that you're not out in front of everybody. I see that. I see. >> Put your feet forward in front of you. Not going to play this game. You're a goddamn adult. >> I know I am. And I have a new [laughter] knee and >> Yeah. And a former attorney. >> No, I'm not a former attorney. I I am an attorney and I will see you. >> Yeah. Yeah. I will be >> Garcia. >> There we go. >> There you go. >> Yeah. >> Garcia. >> Yeah. Sorry. >> And you're not going to get the plain guy that just like in >> What's your first name? >> No. >> Tell us your name. >> Delila. >> He said it wasn't Delila. >> It's Laura. >> Laura? What? >> My first name is Laura. >> Yeah. What's your last name? What's your birthday? >> No, it's not. No. >> Are you refusing Are you refusing to tell us your name? That's another telling you to take the handcuffs off and I'll tell you anything I want. >> So hard. >> Cuz they're too hot. They're too much too tight. >> No, they're not. >> Yes, they are. >> Yeah. And I will tell you anything you want. >> That's not how that works. >> Mr. Lyn. >> Oh, yeah. It does. It works that way. Mr. >> When's your birthday? You're not going to tell us? >> I'll tell you anything you want. >> Okay. Do you have a middle initial? >> Yeah. >> Is your ID out of Florida or Georgia? >> No. >> What state is it from? >> Okay. Even though she came from a family with public service experience, she still encountered the reality that status does not replace basic standards of behavior in shared spaces. >> All right. >> My dad, >> huh? >> I'm talking to my dad. He's in Colorado. >> How are you talking to your dad? Because I can talk to anybody I want to >> telepathically or like >> Yeah. >> You don't have a phone? >> I mean, are you gonna give me a headrest? Because I mean like I was a criminal or something. >> All the way until we get to the jail. >> So my dad Hey, call my dad. >> I am under no obligation to do that. >> Okay, just go. >> Aren't you an attorney? You should know all that. >> You're You have lost my yeti. So I'm pissed off at you. >> The yeti that you used to break the table with? that there was a flaming gay guy that didn't like me saying something to him and then all of a sudden so everybody down his whole family whatever and you're going to keep us >> until we get to the jail. >> Are you really really taking me to jail? >> Yep. >> I mean really are you going to strip search me and then you'll just >> I am not going to. >> You guys are so Are you telling me to Valuchia County Branch Jail? Okay. My >> I thought you were an attorney. >> I am an attorney, but I don't deal with this [ __ ] I I help people like >> Well, you might not be an attorney for long. People get disbarred for this kind of behavior. >> I'm disbarred. Oh, I know. I hope I get disbarred. [laughter] Okay. Call my dad. Call my dad. >> Do you have a phone back there? I hear it's something. >> Is it talking through your [ __ ] in the bag >> or is it your watch? Hey. Hey, Dad. Dad. Hey. I'm in the back of my >> Oh, Jesus. Just talking through a watch. >> Dad, do you hear me? >> Do you hear me? Hey, you guys. I'm I'm in like handcuffs and I need your help. >> Just so you know. What was your first [laughter] name again? I'm sorry. Laura, the hotel requested that you be trespassed from the property. So, we gave you a trespass warning. This is your notice. They no longer want you on their property. I understand you probably still have clothing and other personal effects in your room. You're going to have to call for an escort. We'll stand by with you while you gather your belongings. >> All right. All right. >> I'll get your shoe for you. Don't worry about it. >> Oh my god. You made a mess back here, Laura. >> I made that mess. >> This is a brand new car. I just got it a couple days ago. You know what? It was going to get messy anyway. Where's my other shoe? >> Uh, I think we left it down on the beach. >> Oh. >> Oh, your other shoe's in here. We have your other shoe. >> Your other shoe in your hat. Okay. >> Hello. >> Ask some questions. >> And you didn't swallow any >> and I apologize in advance, but she was in the water. So, that both shoes are wet. Yeah. >> So my dad officer in Colorado and I don't know could you give me the respect of knowing that? >> If you ask these very nice folks they will probably I can't speak for them but they will probably allow you to do that. >> I don't even know this. >> It's on your watch. >> No my watch. >> It wasn't dead when we were on the way here cuz you were talking to it. >> Is dead now. >> Is it dead now? Oh, I'm sorry. I don't have a charger. >> If I did, I'd let you use it. [cough] >> He's been He's been an officer for 30 something years. >> That's your dad? >> He's detective >> and I'm a VA accredited attorney and I'm trying to help people that have been veterans. All right. >> The woman face charges of resisting an officer without violence [music] and disorderly conduct. Under Florida law, she could face up to one year in prison and a $1,000 fine. Shared spaces become safer and more considerate when self-control, respect for others boundaries, and cooperation with community rules are treated as top priorities. There are moments in life when the line between guidance and mistreatment becomes uncomfortably thin. >> Talk to me. Do you need an ambulance? Are you hurt? >> On May 12th, 2025, officers were called to an incident involving children. At the center were an 11-year-old girl and her brother whose response went beyond acceptable limits because she would not go to school, showing how academic pressure can be misunderstood as [music] justification for harsh correction. >> This is my little sister. I want to take her to school. like she wasn't trying to go to school today and I took her anyway and they she wasn't properly dressed so I brought her back home to get her dressed. >> Okay. >> And she wasn't trying to get dressed and so she was trying to run away so >> I had to get the belt and I her real quick bro >> I know it's >> Yeah. You know I got to do real quick just an investigation just real quick. Uh just put your hand behind your back real quick. You're not under arrest. You're just going to be detained till I figure out what's going on. Okay. >> I saw him get out of the car. He went that way and shot started directing the opposite way. >> Okay. I turned around and he got out of the car, started her dropped down, >> but he was actually her and then he got her to stop right there. The only thing for me, I went with him and I told him I don't call and he got her by the arm and started dragging her back to the car. She was screaming. >> Okay, >> let me just figure out what's going on stuff real quick. We just got a call from our office and stuff. >> I know this girl stopped. She's like, I'm calling the cops. Who's the one that called? >> This girl here right in front of me. >> When approached, the girl was barely able to speak. A routine check found multiple concerning marks on her arms and thighs, reflecting how long she had been struggling in silence. >> If you are only 11 years old, you need to talk to me. Did you hear me? Are you Are you Do you need an ambulance to come check me out? Talk to me. Talk to me. Look at me. Talk to me. Do you need an ambulance? Are you hurt? Huh? water. Honey, >> have you had anything to drink? >> Huh? >> You haven't had anything to drink? >> You're not going to be in trouble. We're just trying to help you. Okay. >> I'm a mother. Come on. You need to talk to us. Do you need an ambulance? I don't know why he smacked her. He said he smacked her. >> Your arm with the belt, >> but she was freezing. I just stopped her. >> Over here. Where? >> Which house? >> Where is your mom and dad? No. Are they over there? >> No. >> Have you had anything to drink this morning? You have? What did you drink? >> Huh? >> And what else? Have you had any liquor? No. >> Are you hurting somewhere? If he just took you from school, we need to find out why he took you from school. >> She said she was going to get you because look, you're not even properly dressed. You are freezing. >> 41 back. Ma'am, can I try to talk to her for a minute? >> Yeah, I I got a good one cuz I got a I have an appointment. >> What? Just quick statement. What did you see? How did you >> Well, I was just coming down. This lady was already here first. She was I don't know if she was on the phone with the cops or what and she was over here just walking and bending down. I don't know if she's I don't know. You might want to ask the brother what happened. >> Yeah, we are. My name is James. Okay. Are you okay? What happened to your arms? It's okay. We're not here to get you in trouble. Okay. We're just trying to help you and figure out what's going on. You don't want to go to school. Is that what it is? >> Or is this your brother? It's not your brother. >> My cousin. >> Your cousin. Okay. And what's his name? I didn't talk to him. >> Jordan. >> Jordan. And you live with your cousin or with your parents or who? I'm just trying to help you out so we can get you a place to go home. Okay. Is there somewhere you can go? >> I just want to call my dad. >> You want to call your dad? Do you have a phone? No. You have a phone number for your dad so we can try to give him a call? No. Where is he at? >> Santa Fe. >> He's in Santa Fe. Is that where he lives or he's just over there? He's over there. You don't know his phone number. Who else can we call? >> My grandma. >> Your grandma. Like I said, we're just trying to help you out, okay? We're not trying to get you in trouble. You're not in trouble. Nothing like that. We're just trying to figure out what's going on. Are you okay? Do you need anything? No. >> Anything you leg? Did you get belt on your leg? Yeah. Then on your arm, it looks like >> Can we put it back there real quick so I can hear you? Let's come to the ambulance right here. Okay. Let's take a walk. Okay. He hits you with the belt on your leg. I'm just trying to get him find stuff for this. So, I'm just trying to >> her parents here. >> I don't know. I'm trying to get your arms. >> What is he? >> My cousin. >> Your cousin. Can you take off the jacket real quick? Cuz I want to see your arms. >> You just need to see where they put >> So, so what happened? >> I see right there. >> Hold on. Okay. We'll put that jacket back on you. I just got a photograph. Okay. Wait, let me her thighs, the back of her thighs. And on her left and right side. >> So you said >> they're welts. >> The welts. >> Okay. What is it? Like >> welt is like it could be from a belt or >> it could be from a belt. >> Yeah. These ones will turn into bruises. >> See how that's a scrape and this will turn into a bruise >> because it's more of like a where they grabbed on to it. >> Okay. >> And they used to use the >> Her brother admitted to acting inappropriately toward his sister yet believed it was discipline. This highlights aous misunderstanding [music] confusing guidance with mistreatment. >> Try to get a hold of a parent or guardian or somebody we can have. I need somebody so we can do treatment with this and then we'll go to next. Give me a few minutes. I'm going to interview him back here real quick and see. >> Okay. All right. Real quick, Jordan. So, obviously I'm Deputy Co. I want to kind of share this stuff. You know who I am and stuff. Okay. Real quick, what I do before I interview anybody I uh read them. Okay. So, just listen to me. If you have any questions, let me know. Have these rights in mind? Do you wish to talk to me on what happened? >> She was. >> It's a Hold on real quick. Yes or no? >> Yeah. >> Yeah, you do. Okay. just got a um so what happened? >> She was trying to I was trying to take her to school. I took her and my brother to school. She didn't want to go to school. >> Dropped her bag off in her jacket over there at the school trying to take her. I'm still supposed to. >> And who's she and her? That's your little sister. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> Taking her to school. I had to come bring her back to get dressed cuz she wasn't properly dressed cuz she didn't want to come to school. And as I was taking her back, she was getting ready. She didn't want to get ready. So, she was trying to run away after I sucked her a little bit to get I her on her butt to get get ready. >> What did you suck her with? >> The belt. I smacked her with a different belt than this one. This one's I just used this one to scare her, but I her with the belt and then she ran. She wanted me to call my dad to >> Who's your dad? >> Shane legal parent or guardian? >> Yeah, he's actually the legal parent is my other brother. He's lives in Vegas. She's a juvenile actually. So, she stays with my dad, but she's he's full custody. >> And who's he? >> My brother Shane >> Junior. How old is he? >> 22. He's 22. >> I think 21 22. Okay. >> All right. So, um, you said you hit here with a belt. How many times? >> I like five, six times on her butt and then she started running away after she >> five, six times on the butt. Okay. >> And then she said she ran away. >> Mhm. >> Okay. Where did she run away from? >> My house over here. >> The house down here. Okay. >> Cuz she didn't want to go to school. >> So she she hit her cuz she didn't want to go to school. >> She didn't want to get ready and she didn't want to go to school. And she ran away cuz she don't want to cuz I didn't want to call my dad. >> Okay. >> And she's ran away from my mom before too at night actually. >> And how many times did you here? >> No. Except somebody seen that you did that. They witnessed stuff. >> I didn't out here. I just pulled I pulled her arm. She she has probably I pulled her arm and I was coming like grabbing her cuz why she she shouldn't be running away from us. Like we're trying to help her. >> I did see something in the arm. It looks like a weld and stuff. >> No, I grabbed her pretty hard cuz she shouldn't be running away from us. The one trying to help her like >> How old is she? >> Well, by you think >> about 12. >> And then what else happened? >> Just that girl called the cop. She stopped me and she's like, "Are you?" I was like, "Well, she's trying to run away from me." like she's trying to run away from me the school like she she needs to go to school like so that's all that happened today. >> Yeah. >> Okay. So here's what's going to happen. So uh obviously today's incidents okay it's going to lead to an arrest. Okay. Straight up. That's >> so I don't want to impound the vehicle and all stuff. I'm trying to work with you as best as I can. >> There's my grandma there. I don't know if she can drive standing. >> His behavior suggested he had grown up without healthy role models. A reality that became clearer when other family members arrived. You give permission to take the key to hosta. Do you want to leave anything with you? Hold on. Okay. >> Okay. I'm with Hold on. Come here. Come here. >> Where's my [laughter] daughter? >> Come here. Hold on. Walk me back here. Deputy Kokam County Sheriff's Office. You know who I am? Okay. Who What are you to >> This is my son. My son is my daughter. >> So, your daughter >> Janessa. >> Janessa. Okay. Incident occurred. So, you're the legal Are you the legal parent? >> No. No. My my son is she's actually my brother's daughter, but we have Cassie over. I've had Cassie and stuff. I've had her since she was 4 months old, but >> So, but you're not physical. >> I'm not that physical. >> Okay. So, he's on his way up here, right? >> I don't know. >> Okay. So, Shane Junior's on his way up here. >> I hope so. Okay. >> Okay. >> What What's going on? What's going on? >> Okay. Take a deep breath. >> I can't just take a deep breath. Okay. >> So, an incident occurred out here with your son. How old is your son? >> 19. >> 19. Okay. So he's 19. Okay. >> 20. >> 20. >> Okay. My understand is they live over here. >> Yes. >> Do you live over here with him? >> No. No. Me and their dad are divorced. >> Okay. >> Did he with their dad? >> Okay. An incident occurred between him and and Janessa. Okay. Uh she's she's in the back of the ambulance. I'm waiting for the parent or guardian. I need to get treatment for her. Okay. >> I can't disclose too much for you because you're not the legal parent or guardian. You know what I mean? I'm waiting for the uh parent to come up. Can you get a hold to see where he's at? Where Junior's at for me? >> Careful. Watch it. >> So, this is your mom. Okay. Do you want me to tell her what's going on? >> Let her know. Okay. I just cuz that's your you're you're a grown man now. You're obviously over team, but >> that's uh if that's okay, I'll let her know. I'll have Michael move that out of the way for you so we can get that out of here and stuff and then we'll go from there. I'll explain everything else in a bit. I just got to wait to get your sister some treatment and stuff cuz she does have some wel and stuff. Okay. Obviously from the belt and all that stuff. >> Nothing. Come here, man. Go back there. I'll let you I'll let you know what's tonight. >> Are you sure? Okay. >> So, I talked to your son. He said it's okay to let you know what's happened. Okay. So, he uh uh a few times with the belt. >> Good. >> So, >> okay. She's probably doing her stupid again. >> So, >> okay. >> So, he's uh he's going to land with us and we're going to get uh get her some checked out and stuff. Okay. But I need Junior. Can you see where the Shane Junior's at? >> I'm trying to get him to call. >> Let me know where he's at so we can get him cuz I need to get her checked out and stuff. Okay. She has some who we need to get checked out. Okay. >> Okay. I'll I'll get a hold of him. There he is right here. >> Okay. >> So, >> so granted he doesn't want to press charges or whatever, but I'm sure Mike will show you the pictures. I mean, they're not just it's not just this is >> and for him to chase her from down there to down here. >> That's what I was actually explaining to me. That's what we're actually in the process now. Cuz again, there's a there's a difference between discipline, right? >> Exactly. >> Discipline, too. You know, >> right? >> Dad's going to send you money for your bell if anything. They said you have to wait till tomorrow. You might have to say the night. >> I get the stuff out of your pocket. >> They said you're not going to have bell till tomorrow, but I'm going to have dad send me money right away. >> Yeah. >> Cool. The brother faced a charge of child which in most US states can carry a sentence of 1 to 10 years in prison. This story [music] is not meant to condemn but to remind us that children do not need pain to grow. They need to be heard, supported, and guided with patience. Police do not always arrive because of serious crimes. Sometimes they come to prevent a family from slipping deeper into emotional distress. >> So, can you arrest me? >> No, you ain't doing nothing wrong. >> Please. On April 30th, 2024, Georgia police received a call about a family conflict that had escalated involving impaired behavior in the presence of children. Officers arrived promptly and spoke with each adult involved, starting with the father. >> What's going on, guys? >> Go ahead, talk. You can talk. Go ahead, >> sir. You want to come out here and talk to me real quick? >> I just got home from work not too long ago. Baby girl, I found out she put a PlayStation My PlayStation controllers in the freezer. She called me alcoholic said I drank too much. But I mean, it's like I haven't had a drink in like 3 weeks. After that, I said, "Okay, I might need a drink tonight." I went to the gas station, got a drink, came back in the house. She been fighting me tooth, trying to reach the can, some sort of Bahama breeze or what whatnot. She been trying to reach in my hand. She pretty much gave me ultimate. She like, "Choose the can or your family." At the same time, she just pushed me like this. She did it too many times. I didn't lay hands on her, but I did grab her wrist like that. Oh, excuse me. I'm sorry. Well, I did grab her wrist like that. I said, "Please stop." At this point, she jacked me up like this. >> She called my aunt and pretty much just gave her this crazy story saying that I trashed the house because I couldn't find X, which is my PlayStation 5 controller, but the house has been trashed for weeks. I mean, we have kids actually. You can take a look in there. But, um, yeah, it's just wild toys everywhere. She said, "I trashed the whole house. She called my aunt. I laid hands on her. I've been pushing her around. You won't be able to find. You might find a ash mark right here cuz I did grab her and prep her to stop. I literally had two, three sips of this can. It was full, but as she was lying to my aunt, I pretty much squeezed the can and went straight to her face. Now, I did get on my 5 month baby as well when she was holding the baby. But this whole time she was holding the baby. She was just trying to get little things on me. I did call her name. I called her and apparently I called her every name under the sun. >> How are y'all related? >> She's my wife. >> Sheriff's office. >> Hi, sir. >> Hi. You mind if I talk to you later? >> How about we go downstairs? >> What's your first name? E. >> So, you got home and she had put your PlayStation controllers in the freezer. >> My baby girl did. >> Your wife or? >> Oh, no. I got three kids. >> You got three kids? >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Where the other kids at? >> Oh, they're sleep. >> Yeah. My 2-year-old did it. I admit I was upset. >> How you from? >> But little kid put control in the freezer in the world right now. >> Yeah. I just got home. So, I want to eat sit down before I go to sleep. Little kid put my place in the freezer. I went going crazy about the people tonight. I just said, "Okay, I need about to walk out the house." She told me, "If you leave, don't come back." Drove my car to the store around the corner. Got me a drink. Opened it when I Well, I didn't get a chance to open it too much until when I got here. She pretty much was like, she got up and she tried to take the can from me. And I mean, this is a whole lot of pushing, shoving, me hiding the can behind my back. >> Just one can you brought? >> Yeah, just one can. >> What was it? >> I want to say it was clips. She was practically trying to get the can from me. I'm hiding it. I would like know that she was a cat. >> That's cuz she thinks you're an alcoholic. >> Yeah. Yep. But um I told her I haven't had anything to drink in like 3 and 1/2 weeks. >> Okay. >> And you know, she even hid my bottle of liquor. My Royal Green Apple. I don't know where it is, but I didn't try to find her. >> So, who's pushing her at this point? >> Really, the whole thing started cuz she was pushing me. And it got to the point where it got very >> What was she pushing for? >> She was trying to prevent me from going out the house because she was like, "You have to choose between the drink or your family." I said, "This isn't the first time you gave me ultimate whereas I have to choose between you or something else." So, I said, "You know what? I'm going to take to something else this time. Please just leave me." As I tried to walk around her, she's been pushing the whole time with the baby in hand. I'm like, "Can you please put my baby down? Please stop." She just pushing me, pushing me. I got pushed into the wall multiple times. I tripped up with toys multiple times. Didn't get too bad into it. She kept doing this and I said, "Stop." At this point, she grabbed me, tried to me, and she grabbed me by the collar. And that's when [clears throat] I grabbed her wrist and I said, "Stop. Leave me the alone." At that point, she wanted to call my aunt. She was just lying to my aunt, saying or making it seem as if I'm just drinking too much and just aggressively around everywhere and laying hands on her. You will not find a mark on her. You will find maybe like a little mark right here for when I grab it. Yes, you will not find a mark that I did. She lied and said, "I trashed the house and I do everything down and start throwing everything around. The house has been messed up for weeks actually." At that point, I said, "You're lying. Why are you lying like this? Are you kidding me?" I said, "I will pour this drink in your face." She said, "Oh, you ain't going to do the end." I just squeezed the can and it went on her and I grabbed my 5 month 5month old baby. And at this point, she's like, "You see what you're doing? It's all because of alcohol." But in reality, I was only doing this mess because how she approached the situation, but she never want to talk about that unless she's on the phone with any of my family members. >> She grabbed you by the neck, but she wasn't really squeezing. You didn't have trouble breathing or anything? >> No, she was squeezing me, but I I didn't, you know, you worked up, you know, you know. >> Okay. Are you coughing afterwards at all? Do you feel lightheaded at all? Your vision go blurry at all? >> Like many conflicts, each person carried their own pain and perspective, but the lack of listening only widened the divide, something the children had to witness. >> Okay. What happened? >> What happened? So, he came home tonight. I think about 10:00. I was baiting him when he came in. After I took a shower, he said was looking for his PlayStation controller. And I was like, "You just look around the house. We have a 2-year-old in the house." He started um throwing the cushions on the chair, the chair pillows and everything all over. And I was like, you know, we just picked up around because she just went to bed. You don't have to mess up where we just cleaned up. And he goes, "No, I'm looking for started getting in that manner." And I was like, "Okay, just look around." Once I finished feeding him, I would come help you look for it. It's not something that without it you can leave, >> right? >> And then he goes picks up a bottle of alcohol a friend gave to me to try. And I'm like, I already seized your previous bottles. You drank a little too much. I'm no longer comfortable with you finishing a bottle of alcohol or, you know, half a bottle within a day or two. It's outrageous. I understand you're drinking in the house, but consider if not for anything, consider your health. And he said, "I need the drink tonight." And I was like, "You could take a soda. You could take a drink. You could do something else apart from hot cocoa tonight just because you're upset about her putting your controllers in the fridge." And he stepped out and went to the gas station and came back with a can of drink and I said, "You don't have to drink tonight. You don't need it. if you're pissed, you know, take water, take a drink. And he said, I have to drink tonight. I was like, you don't really need to drink just because of that. And he said, I'm going out to drink in the car. That's wrong. You don't have to drink in the car. And I said, if you step out, means that you're picking alcohol over your family. He was trying to push me out of the way. I stood in the line. I was like, okay, you don't have to leave the house. And then he started grabbing my hand. And then I had to call the auntie on phone. At least let me call somebody who can actually speak to him. Maybe I'm not here. And he said if he was going to hit me, it would hit my hand. He has sprained my hand. If you look at my hand, you can see I turned my hand upside down. Push me towards the world sever. I'm that so you obviously would not see if I was the color. You probably see better. >> So he was trying to leave. He stepped in front of >> I stepped in front of I stepped in front of him like this and said, "You don't have to leave the house. If you leave the house, that means you're choosing alcohol all over your family." And he said, "Yes, I'll choose alcohol all over my family." He opened the can of drink and I was talking to the auntie. I said, "Yeah, open the drink already." And he was still screaming and said, "If I'm going to hit you, I'll you. If I'm going to do anything, I'll do anything to you. Nothing you do. What?" You know, all of that stuff. And he opened the drink and he spilled it all over our faces. And that was when I called like, you know, it's getting out of hand. You've done things. You've pushed me into it to the wall. You've done this. You've done that. But at this point, you probably need to be cautioned. >> When he pushed you, did he actually push you out of the way or >> he pushed me out of the way severally? He squeezed my hand, turned my hand off, and pushed me out of the way. And I told him, "You're pushing me and doing that with a child in my hand." I >> think I see something on your glasses. You mind if I shine my light? >> Yeah, sure. That's water from. And I probably smell like alcohol. So, >> do you know what the drink was? >> It's inside the house. It's a can of beer. >> Do you need any medical attention? >> Okay, I'm fine. I'm not pressing charges, but I just want him to push him. >> He said, "If I'm going to push you, I'm going to put I'm sorry. If I if I'm going to hit you, I'll hit you at any point." Did he? >> He said if he was going to hit me, he would hit me hard. That's the word. I tried to record it pushed my phone off my hands. >> Did he make any other things? >> Just the old off your bridge, your nuisance, your all sort of nasty words. I can't repeat. They are disgusting. >> At any point, did you him or put hands on him or anything? Not even in self-defense. You didn't touch him at all. >> I have a child in my hand. There's no point doing that. The PlayStation controller was in the fridge. Is >> it still in there? >> He brought it out and he tried to use it and that was when he realized that it wasn't working and it's just like probably 60 bucks or 100 bucks. >> Gotcha. >> Why you did you or him change clothes since? >> No, I haven't. >> No. Okay. Do you mind if I look at his clothes real quick? See if they're wet or anything? >> It's not wet. It's probably just maybe in here. >> Not wet or anything. >> The mother presented the information she had gathered reflecting long-term exhaustion within the family. It is a reminder that emotional strain when not addressed in time can grow into a serious crisis. >> What I was trying to do before you see that you see what you did even >> Okay. Yeah, I see your shirt's all wet. >> Did you see that? >> Did you get any of that moisture on you bathing him? >> No, I haven't given up. >> You were going to but you didn't actually get >> He already had his night time batt was just eating dinner just to make him sleep a little bit longer than 3 hours. And you know >> when he stepped in front of him or after you stepped in front of him, you never put your hands on him. >> I pushed him back at one point like, you know, you don't have to leave the house. Can I have the alcohol? And then he moved and tried to push me out and I pushed him and be like, you know, just can I show you something? And I was like, you don't have to leave the house. It's just not like put I don't have enough power to push him out. >> So why were you trying to stop him from leaving? >> He said he was going to go drink in the car and I was like that's not what you should do tonight. He drank already too much. >> So when he tried to walk around, you step in front of him. Why did you step in front of him again? >> The first time I stepped in front of him, I said, "You don't have to leave the house. Do you understand it? It's not a big deal for you not to drink tonight. You can just put this thing down. You don't have to drink it tonight." And he said, "I'm going to go drink it in the half." >> He tried to go around you a second time. Correct. And after the second time, >> he tried to go around you a second time. Did he push you first or did you push him first? >> I was standing in line like I was standing in front of him and he pushed me off and I was like, "You pushing me just because of the kind of drink." >> So he pushed you, couldn't get around you. >> Correct. walked towards you again. You pushed him >> and then I held my hand in front like you know just see like because he held my hand and then it happened like you know don't do that. >> Was that the only time that you touched him? You know you can't stop somebody from leaving if they want to leave. >> Absolutely. I understand. >> So if you step in front of >> it was the concern of him drinking in the car. >> Did he say he was going to drive away? >> I don't know. He might you know the concern of you drinking in the car was you know like you don't have to drink in the car. You can actually just drop the drink and drink yourself. hits it. However, you can't prevent somebody from leaving their own house. So, do you think his reaction was reasonable trying to get around you? >> Not that I think. I felt it was a little too much. >> And you're from Nigeria. Different cultures, different customs and person. So, don't take any of these questions the wrong way. >> I understand that. >> In Nigerian, do the women normally run kind of like the household more than the men or vice versa? >> It's a men. >> The women or the girls? >> It's a thing. We all listen to each other. How old were you when you moved here to America? >> In my 20s. >> How old are you now? >> In my 30s. >> Okay. How long have you guys been married? >> Um 3 years. >> How long have you guys been dating or together total? >> Four. >> Total four years together. Three years married. 5 months ago. First baby. >> Second. >> Where is the other child? >> Where was the second child at? >> Does she see or hear anything? >> And is he the father of both childh children? How old is your second child or the first child? >> At no point. You didn't grab his shirt. didn't put your hands on him just to try to get him to stop. The reason why you tried to stop him was >> you see the way the video I did, I was even laughing like really is that what you're doing? That's me. I would laugh it off. I would try to like you know, you don't need this. Sometimes a blooming joke about it like you know if you're leaving go to that one donating mine. It's everybody enjoys a glass of drink sometimes. Everybody enjoys, you know, but I would believe that if I was in his shoes and he tells me don't drink tonight, I would respect the fact that my partner says, you know, don't drink tonight and just the clock down. Everybody gets angry and we all get upset. But you telling me that if you're going to hit me, you break my head off. You know, you hit me hard and you know why he doing all that? Just because of the kind of thing. >> So when you making so much noise about it, it's shouldn't ever get to this point. >> So when he said if he was going to hit you, he was you hard. Was that before or after you two started pushing each other? >> I didn't push him. He pushed me out of the way. >> You said that you had your hand. He pushed you out of the way. Okay. So was it before after he pushed you? >> It was What was the question again? When he said, "If I'm gonna kill you, >> it was said, you know, you spread my hand like, you know, you tried to." And he goes, "If I was gonna eat you, I was gonna eat your head." I'm like, "You don't have to do this." >> Under Georgia law in family disputes, restricting a person's movement can be considered a legal violation, intended to protect the basic rights of each individual. >> Actually, she's been pushing me the whole time. I lost count, man, honestly. >> Okay. But you grabbed your shirt and you grabbed her hand while she was holding on to your shirt or >> Uh, yes. Because she got in my face. And did you grab the hand that was holding on to your shirt or the other hand? >> Uh, the hand that was holding on to the shirt because she was holding my baby in the other hand. >> When you pushed her aside, did you push her down at all or? >> No. >> Why did you feel the need to grab her hand and push her? >> Um, because she was very aggressive towards me and I had to get I had to get off. >> Was there anything else physical happened after she called 911? >> Really wasn't much physical anything. It was just a whole lot of her pushing. >> So besides the shoving, her grabbing her throat, did she hit you? >> No. >> Did you hit her? >> No. >> Okay. Was anybody each other? No, not directly. If anything, more so like antagonizing like I dare you that type of deal, you know. >> She didn't at all. >> No, I didn't. >> Did you you her at all? >> No, I just thought I kids your kids. >> Uh, no, just two. >> This ever happened before? >> No, not this bad. >> Have y'all ever physically got an altercation? Have we ever been caught out here before? >> No. After reviewing the full sequence of events, officers determined that the wife had taken repeated proactive steps in the situation. Can >> I ask you a clarifying question real quick? So, when he was initially trying to get out the door the first time and you put your arm out, were you trying to like push him away from the door or how >> to spend him like, you know, he was like, "Get out of my way and leave." And I was like, "You don't have to." And then he tried to me off and you know, like, you know, get out of my way. And I was like, you know, you just >> Okay. So, it wasn't it wasn't just you trying to body block him. nervous. You would try to push him after he pushed you the first time. >> Why were you trying to stop him from leaving the apartment? >> I didn't want him to get in trouble. >> Why would he get in trouble? >> Alcohol up in an open container in the car. >> He's not drunk at this point, right? >> He's not drunk. >> But you never can tell. You might say, "I'm upset because of my controller." >> You get out in the car and you say, maybe you take a few sips and you say, "Let me just drive around to clear my head." And the cop stops. >> Well, that's not even DUI. >> I just thought it worked. I'm trying to trying to get to the bottom of why why you thought you needed to stop him from leaving the apartment. >> So you you felt the need to stop him from leaving >> just do drink in the car >> cuz and he might drink it and drive. So it's not >> and you know I say I'm drinking in the car now and 5 minutes later I drive around. It was fair. >> Would it be okay with you if I took a picture of your hands? So that's what we like to see whether there's marks or no marks because >> we're talking about grabbing each other. >> Yeah. And that becomes a question later that like why if there is a lack of something or if there is something why didn't I document that? So it's just yeah we're going to have to document it anyway from coming out here just to kind of cover our bases so I can verify that yeah there's no marks on you. I know you said that your wrist might be spraying. You can't really document that in the photo. But of course you know especially if something comes up in a day or two if you do end up having a they're going to want a reference photo as well. Okay. Flip them over for you and put your hands behind your back. You're under arrest for false suppressor. >> I am not speaking. Let me let me tell let me talk to her. Let me turn around. Listen to me. You cannot you cannot stand in front of somebody and prevent them from leaving for no lawful reason. >> Okay. What? You can't stop it. >> I didn't want to force. >> Man, you're going to end up getting yourself. >> So, the state of Georgia is the one pursuing these charges because you guys live together. You guys are married and have kids. Listen. Listen. You're talking or you're not listening. All right? Because you guys live Stop. >> We let you talk. Give me one second. All right. Because you guys Stop. >> Because you guys live together. you're married and have kids together, that relationship falls under the family violence act, false boss imprisonment, and simple back. Stop. Listen, >> because you tried to prevent him from leaving for no lawful reason, you make contact with him, the charges fall under the family. >> The possibility of him maybe drinking and maybe driving is not a legal reason for you to stop him from leaving. >> You can't deprive him of his liberty. >> I swear to God, I was scared. >> He didn't do anything illegal. It's not illegal to have a drink and to sit in a car. These actions were not meant as punishment, but to prevent a cycle of distress that directly affected the children. At >> this point, she's under arrest for domestic charges. Right. So, she she cannot legally stop you from leaving. >> Come on. I understand that you don't want this. >> No. No. It's She breastfeeds my child. >> Okay, I understand that. But the way state law is written, have you ever heard of the family say >> he was just explaining it to me? >> Did you? Okay, so you arrest me. >> No, you didn't do anything wrong. >> Please. >> So, well, We we'll talk about that. So, right now, because it's a family charge, I understand you don't want her arrested. This is going to be the state that's the one that's taking the charges. >> Oh my god. Come on. >> As far as what you did, you can't intentionally spill a drink on somebody. But what we look for is what's called the predominant physical aggressor. And we determined that in this incident, she's the predominant physical aggressor. >> Can you please overlook this, man? Please. >> We We can't, man. It's it's it's past that. Once we're out here, we can't. >> But my kids, where's my babies? >> They're inside. My my buddy boy, too. >> Yeah, we let her go inside and lay him down in the bed. He's He's asleep. >> Oh, no. But >> you'll be able to go up there as soon as they get done with her. >> Come on, man. Come on. Please breastfeed instead. Come on. Pick me instead. >> She's the predominant aggressor. I I get it, man. >> Jesus Christ, man. Come on. She breastfeeds my child. >> I understand that, but >> No, >> there's nothing we can do. But just hang tight till they till they bring her down. >> I'm sorry. Come on. Can't you guys take me instead? Come on. >> We're not here just to take somebody to jail. >> I know. >> What we've done is we've talked to you, we've talked to her, and we determined that she's the predominant aggressor. >> But what about my baby? What's What's more important here? Come on. >> I get that, but we can't we can't overlook this. But >> Jesus Christ. No. >> A meaningful moment came when the husband offered to take responsibility on behalf of his wife, knowing she was caring for young children, and the family had limited support. Officers then helped arrange a more thoughtful solution to ensure the children were not caught in the middle. >> Begging him. >> He's trying to walk around and you try to block him again. You can't keep silent. >> Can we Can I talk to him? >> No. >> Reported to Cherokee again. I'm 105. >> Yeah. I didn't want to see. I was so he doesn't get in trouble. You said I told you I was going to talk to our pastor. >> But it's not unlawful for him to have a drink. >> No, I didn't. I was scared that he >> But you didn't even ask him why you driving. You never even gave him a chance. You tried to stop him. >> Yeah. I just said, "Please don't go outside." I was begging you. >> Come on. Stand up, please. Come on. Get up. Either get up or I'm going to have to help you out and I might you I'm trying not to do that. Okay. Let's go. >> No. >> I wasn't. >> Back up. Back up. Look. Back up. >> If you don't stop pushing against me, I'm going to take you to the car myself. >> Just relax. Just relax. Just relax. Arrest me instead. >> We don't want to arrest you. Okay. >> Arrest me instead. >> Please walk. >> Please walk. >> Please walk. >> Back up. Just back up. >> I can't. I'm sorry, guys. She breastfeeds my baby. >> Sit in the car. >> Look at you. >> You can answer questions and sit at the same time. Sit. >> Jesus. I'm sorry. >> The one auntie is calling on >> this one. >> Yeah. Okay, this one's yours. >> You want both of them? Well, I'm going to give you this one. That way, when you get out of jail, you can make phone calls. Sit down. Have a seat. Sit down. Stay on the car. Now, you are about to make things a lot worse. Please sit down. Thank you. All right. I'm trying to help you. Put your knees up. Please help me. Please, sir. See, see, sir. I am breastfeeding the baby. >> What am I going to do? >> Does the baby take formula at all? >> No. >> Do you have any breast? >> No. No. Nothing. Come on. My baby has a starve. Come on. There have to be something we could do. This is not Are you kidding me? What am I going to do about my child? >> So, I I would say get some We're going to need to get some formula for the >> Wow, it's closed. >> So, the CVS up there on Town Lake Parkway is open 24 hours a day. >> Where she's going? Where would she be at? >> She's going to Cherokee County Jail. Because it's a domestic charge, she's got to go before a judge before she can find out. That happens within 72 hours. foot in. Sir, sir, no. Please sir, >> put your foot in, please. I wish. I'm not making it work. Oh, no. Just please sir, >> please move your knee. If you do not move your knee, I'm going to slam this door and it's going to hurt. >> Baby, please >> move your knee. >> Do y'all need anything else from me? >> Well, hang tight. Well, if you want to go up check on your kids, that's that's fine. But we'll we'll check see if the baby's eating tonight and we'll uh we'll come back up. We'll talk to you in a minute. >> We get how this disrupts your whole entire nucleus to your family. If you got a five-month old, I can empathize with you 100%. So, I'm here to help you father to father to make sure that we can take care of your baby. Now, we can ask the judge to allow that non contact between you guys, get you guys the help that you need to keep your family together. So, I know that your whole world just turned upside down, but understand why we did it and why we had to do it. >> I get it. I just mad it went to >> I understand. But at least nobody got hurt today, right? Seriously, baby didn't get her. >> Think what would have happened if in all this she had dropped the your baby. Think of what could have happened. >> I get it. I get it. But this hurts worse, man. I >> I get it. Trust me, I get it. >> Take my to jail. Please get her out. >> Like I said, we're not here just to take somebody. >> I know. I get it. But mix some up. Take me. >> Can't do that. >> All right. But next step, what what can I do? >> I think he's talking right now to somebody from the fire department to see if they can help you out at all. Like I said, if push comes to you have to go out and buy formula at night, the CVS is open 24/7. >> I didn't have any money for that. None of us did. She's been breastfeeding since my second born. I agree. It ain't nobody problem but mine. Could you guys at least work me to allow her to pump breast milk or something? Something you can't do that. >> It's not even about the wife at this point. It's my child. >> I understand. >> The firefighters don't normally talk formula, but they're going to talk to see if maybe somebody come down here and like sit down with you and show you how to bottle feed the baby. >> I mean, I I know how to do that. I I just don't have the means of getting formula. That's my problem. Financial. I didn't worry about it because she was breastfeeding. >> Does the baby have any sensitivities? >> Fine sensitivities. lactose intolerant. >> I don't know. Soy. >> I don't know. We never did formula. >> There's no breast milk in the fridge or >> I don't know. I just got home. I I have to >> Does she normally pump? >> Yeah, she does. But these days, she pumped just enough for the moment so she doesn't stock up. >> Here's what we're going to do. I'm going to bring her breast pumping stuff up to the jail. They're going to let her pump milk up there. >> Okay. >> And then you'll be able to go up there and pick it up. >> Okay. >> That work? >> That is amazing. >> You want to pack that stuff up for me? I'll grab it. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. The mother was charged with false imprisonment, simple battery, and thirdderee. Under Georgia law, she could face up to 13 years in prison. This story is not meant to single out anyone, but to highlight an important lesson. When adults pause, seek help, and put children's well-being above temporary emotions, families have a chance to heal and move beyond crisis. Florida shows up with another drunk mother passed out in her car while her child lies on the scorching floor. >> Get in the car. She's on my leg. On June 14th, 2025, an emergency call reported a woman appearing unconscious in her car. Palm Beach County police rushed to the scene only to find something even more horrifying. A baby lying flat on the car floor. And the mother, she seemed unconcerned about her child, busy making excuses. I just pulled over. >> She's like hanging on the door. I don't want to pull it cuz she's going to fall out. You want to >> There we go. Door. >> Hello. >> What? >> Hey, you okay? >> Yeah, I'm all home. >> You're what? You're going home? Yeah. Right here. >> Oh, you Some people were a little worried about you were just sleeping here. >> What the >> I don't know. You tell me. >> Just parked. >> Are you okay? >> Yeah. >> You sure? >> Oh my god. You guys got my baby out here. >> Your baby? >> Yeah. I just parked. >> Where's your baby? >> Right here. >> What's the Back up? Sit down. Sit down. SIT DOWN. SIT DOWN. Sit down. Sit down. Sit down. Let me get my baby. Sit down. My baby in my Put my curs. I just >> Sit down. Sit down. That's a lawful order. Sit down. It could have been a crash. I don't know. They just got >> I just got here. >> Sit down. No. I need you to sit down. Sit down. Right there. Sit down. >> I just parked. >> Are you listening to me? >> Yeah. >> See? See? See? Right there. Look where my finger is. Sit down. >> Yeah. I live right here. Right. I literally just parked. >> You sit down. >> No. Right. >> No. No. No. No. No. I want you to sit down. I'm not going to ask you again. I need you to stay with your vehicle or I want you to sit down. You are not going anywhere. You're staying right here till I figure out why your son was laying in the floor of your car. >> Are you missing something? >> Did you throw up to it? >> No. >> I feel like we should probably check everybody out first. >> At this time, you were not going inside. You were listening. Yes. You know who I am? I'm with the Palm Beach County Sheriff's Office. And right now, you're being right now you're being detained until I figure out what's going on. Do you understand what I'm saying? >> You are being detained. You are not free to leave. >> What? >> I'm going to check your vital sign. No, you're going to call them. >> No, you're going to stay right there. Yes. Yes. You're going to stay right there. I'm going to stay right here cuz they got my baby. >> Ma'am, listen to him, please. >> I'm listening. But they got my baby right here. My concern is your baby. It was out of the car seat on the floor. >> No, he was not. >> Yes, he was. Yes, he was. Yes, he was. Just listen to him, please. We're not going to leave. I can't leave without your with your baby. Without your consent. >> I'm not leaving. I live No. No. Right here. >> Point that way first. Point it that way. Now you live over here. >> No, I live right there. You can walk me. >> We're not going to leave. >> I'm I right here. I live right here. Look, walk with me. No. No. He doesn't want to sit down. Hold him. I can hold him. I can hold him. >> No, you're not going to hold him. You're going to wait right here. >> We're We're going to check his Okay. >> I literally just parked. I promise you. >> Okay. But we want to make sure he's okay. >> We're going to check underneath the car seat. Okay. >> Yeah, because him >> found him underneath the car seat. My partner had to pull him out underneath the car seat. >> I literally just parked right now. >> Well, someone said that you double parked. So, you must you might have just parked. >> I didn't double parked, babe. I did not. >> Someone said that you were here for 2 hours. >> I literally just got here. I live here. I just got here. I promise you 100%. >> Another officer arrived at the scene quietly listening to the entire story. >> Yes, she's a driver. Kid was laying on the floor in the car. She's got she could have been in a signal 3 or signal 4. I need to call the complainant to confirm that he can swer him in to make sure that she was here for an hour. Back seat laying on the floor, not seat belted in on the laying on the floor of the car. >> I'm going outside my house. I promise you. >> I believe you. Someone called and said you want to be talking for 2 hours double car. >> I haven't even literally I just >> I want to tell you what this is why we're here. >> What? I literally just got here. >> Someone said that you >> my mother. >> I literally just came from my mother's house. >> I want to tell you what I >> While arranging a witness interview over the phone, the police discovered an unexpected truth. >> Uh it's a sheriff's office. You want to come out here real quick? So, I'm about to pull up into the neighborhood deck. >> Okay. You called this Mazda that saying it was here for an hour. >> Yeah, they they came in at about 5:00. >> 5:00. Okay. You want to come up here and just talk to me real quick about it? >> Yeah. >> All right. Well, we'll be at the same place where the Mazda was right here. Vital's come back. >> 137 sat 98 100%. >> Nothing broken. >> No, he he doesn't look you. I promise you >> you were sleeping. Three people had to wake you up and your child was in the back four sweating in a hot car. Tell me none of that's true. My baby hasn't been since he came out of my vagina. >> Air condition doesn't stop. Your car was off. >> I live here. >> I don't care where you live. You're parked here with your car off. You were here for an hour. An hour. An hour minimum. >> I I 100% promise you not. >> Somebody called and we're not going to tell you who called. Said your vehicle was parked here for an hour. >> It wasn't an hour. Babe, >> I'm just going to believe you instead of some unbiased witness. >> I'm not going to argue with you. >> Neighbor's house and you can knock on your door and let them know. are 100% never ever ever ever ever been. >> Well, he's checking to see if that person what exactly are sheriff killers right here. 100%. >> What does that even mean? >> I also know I have plenty of people that live behind me that are not sheriffs and that don't know anything that what's going on. >> What does that mean? They have nothing to do with this incident now. >> They're normal people. >> They have nothing to do with this incident right now. We do. Not people that live over there. I don't When that deputy comes back and lets you know how long you're here, then we'll go from there. Okay. >> If you guys need any anything else, I'm going home in my house. >> You're not going nowhere. You're staying here. Did you not hear what I said? You can't leave. >> You didn't say that part. >> Oh, I didn't say that. >> You know what you said? As soon as my baby's okay, then I can go home. >> If you walk away, you're going to jail. >> What? >> I don't have to tell you for what. Just don't go nowhere. >> The police repeatedly told her to stay put. But the leading lady chose to resist and declared, "I'm going home." Patience reached its limit. Handcuffs were brought out and a struggle erupted. >> If you walk away, you're going to jail. You understand that, right? >> I'm making sure my car is locked. What are you guys? >> Go back over there. I'll be right back. >> He's going to go talk to somebody. Ask exactly how long you were parked here. >> He doesn't know because I literally just parked. >> No, he doesn't know. That's why he's going to find out. >> Yeah. How would he know? >> Cuz he's going to go talk to the witness who saw you parked here for an hour. >> I wasn't here for an hour. I literally just paid out. >> If the witness says you were, then you were. >> I literally just paid out. Well, you guys can knock on my door. I literally had to take a >> Don't go nowhere. >> Knock on my door. >> Don't go nowhere. >> I live right there. >> Don't go nowhere. >> I got to take >> Don't Don't walk away. I'm not going now. Now you're going to jail. Now you're going to jail. Now you're going to jail. Stand right here. Come here. >> I'm not going anywhere. >> Why are you doing anything to me? I'm not doing anything. >> Come here. Let go. Let go. Let go. Let go. Let go. >> No. No. No. No. >> Let go. Let go. Let go. Do you have? >> Yeah. >> I'm not doing anything. >> You're not now. >> I haven't been. Now you're different about doing it cuz now you're going to jail. Drop this >> and you smell like alcohol, too. >> Let go. Let go. LET GO. LET GO OF IT. Let go of it. >> What the hell are you doing? You just made [ __ ] so much worse FOR YOURSELF. >> LET GO OF IT. What the [ __ ] are you doing? >> I don't give a [ __ ] >> Do what you're [ __ ] told to do. Let's >> What are you What are you grabbing? What are you grabbing right there? She grabbing me. >> Stop. All right. We're all right. We're all right. We're all right. Come on. Come on. All right. I got it. I'm not touching him. I'm not >> There's no way you're trying to go for my right now. >> I don't have >> Get in the car. Get in the car. You got my leg. Get in the car. >> Get the [ __ ] off me. >> Get in the car. >> Get in the car. >> Why the [ __ ] would I get in the car? I'm not DOING [ __ ] >> GET IN. SIT IN THE CAR. SIT IN the car. >> Get the [ __ ] off me. >> No. You keep kicking me AND GRABBING MY >> OKAY. You're going to be adding charges. You're literally doing it. That's true. I'm not. >> Get in. Back up. >> Okay. Look. Calm down. We're good. Get in. GET IN THE CAR. I KNOW. In the car. >> Am I sucking my Just jump up. >> Slide back. >> No. Slide back. Slide back. Slide back. >> No. No. No. >> That's not a charge. >> Get in the car. >> You're charging me for what? Get in the car. >> Why are you arresting me? Why are you putting me in the car? >> Because you're going to jail. Put her on the ground. Put her on the ground. PUT HER IN THE GROUND. >> WHY? I'm not doing I swear I'm not doing anything. >> Just stop. Calm down. >> Why are you arresting me? >> I'm not doing >> You made me so much worse than you had to be. Calm down. >> Get off me. >> You going to sit in the car? >> You going to sit in the car? >> I swam. >> You going to sit in the car? >> I will. Wait. I'm going to take this off of me. >> Get your legs in. >> I will put it inside, but I need to take the cuffs off of me. >> Put your feet in the CAR. LET'S GO. >> NO. WAIT. My shoe fell off. No. My baby. >> Get in the car. No, no, no. >> Yes, yes, yes. >> My baby, >> I want to go home. >> No, you're on something. What do you want? >> I don't want anything. I promise you. >> You're not going home. You're going to jail. >> No, you're only making it worse for yourself. >> For what? I didn't do anything. >> Even while being placed in the vehicle, she turned everything into chaos, thrashing and repeatedly shouting, "My baby and my mom." Even biting an officer. >> She tried to bite me. >> Call my mother right now. Call my mother right now. Call my mother. Please get the [ __ ] off of me. Call my mother for my baby. >> If I call your mother, will you calm down? >> I will 100%. Please call my baby right now. Please call my mom. I'm not call my mom. We'll call her. >> Call my mom right now. Call her right now. I don't see your phone. >> If you calm down, I'll call her. >> I'm not calm. >> Well, then I can't call her >> cuz they're not tripping. >> I'll call her. >> I'm calm. >> Okay. What's your number? >> I'll tell you where you >> What's your number? Just calm down. Can't cuz the exhaust is in my face. >> Okay, listen. Calm down. >> I'll call her. Can you move my hair? >> Okay, I'll call her. >> I will tell you right now. Get me off of the car. >> What's your number? >> I'll tell you right now. >> You're not calling. Let me see it. I can see it near your phone. >> You want to sit up? >> Yes. >> You can sit up. You ready? Go on your side. Stand up. >> Can you put the hair behind my hair? >> No. >> I can't. >> You may have not been told this before, but no. >> Then can you get me up? I [ __ ] can't breathe. Please put my hair to my face. >> Okay, I'll do it. You got to go. We're going to sit over there. Ready? We're going to sit over there. >> Please glue my hair. >> Uh, you got over my hair. >> Take my baby with me. Take this off, please, >> guys. We're going to put her right here. >> A car seat. >> She can't be transported like that with that cuff on. >> I need a car seat for my baby. I need a car seat for my baby. >> Hey, uh, EMS, can you pull up that uh, what do you call? Let's just let you grab me up. We got >> It wasn't me. It wasn't me. It wasn't me. >> Yes, you can. Put the cuffs back on. >> It wasn't me. It wasn't me. >> Once order was temporarily restored, medical evaluation became the top priority. >> Are you okay? >> No. >> They're going to the hospital. You want to get out? >> Absolutely. >> Do you want to follow them over? Do you want to go in the ambulance? She kicked me in a B. She me my leg. She kicked him. She bit Nick. That's for a felony. She was passed down her car. a witness. She was here for an hour, passed out. EMS showed up and was a couple seconds later. Kid was laying on the back floor. Car was turned off. He woke her up. She started acting erratic. I showed up. I said, "All right, stay here." They checked out the kid. The kid was fine. They're about to leave. I said, "Stay here until we figure out how long you've been here." He grabbed 16 charges maybe, right? He goes on his walk trying to find a witness. As he's gone, I said, "Don't leave. You're detained." Starts walking away. I said, "Come over here. You take no." I grab my arm and walk her back. 2 seconds later, she says, "I'm leaving. You're going home." She walked away. I said, "No, you're not going home." So, I had a 19 charge of resist. I grabbed her arm. I come back. I put one cuff on her. She had the baby still. He took the baby away. He gave the baby to EMS. He started to help me. She She backed like a mule. Me right in the I put her against the car. I got the other hand handcuff on and then from there she went crazy. We tried putting her in the car, guys. I put her back on the ground calm down. We tried to put her in the car again. That wasn't happening. She wouldn't go >> with them over there. >> Yeah. >> And the officer who was bitten was also included in the priority care. >> All right. >> Hey Nick, you okay with the bite? >> I'm not getting good. Okay. Can I follow you there? not okay. I'm saying no, I'm not okay with it. >> Are you okay for EMS to check you out? >> Yeah, absolutely, bro. This game perox. >> Shortly after, a witness came forward, bringing [music] the full truth into the light. >> Everyone's fine. Everyone needs is where they need to be. Um, luckily, no one's. So, go ahead and raise your right hand for me. You swear to tell me everything that you're about to tell me. All the statements that would have occurred uh from when you called today is the truth. Awesome. Go ahead and put your hand down. >> My name is uh Deputy Tori with uh with the Ponch County Sheriff's Office. I know that we were going to speak, but we didn't. Can you go ahead and tell me what you observed and the reason why you called us out here today? >> At about 4:50, 5:00, I was going on a walk in the neighborhood and was walking from the leasing office back to my town home, which is over here. And as I was coming around that side, I noticed a silver SUV coming in from the resident side of the gate. Came through the gate. They accelerated way above the 15 mph speed limit. Kind of looked the other way as she was coming around the curve. I hear tires squealing as she's coming around the turn over here. Didn't see any kids necessarily, but I heard kids like imitating the sound of her car squealing. >> Children as in like outside in the roadway. >> Children outside. Again, didn't really think much of it. Uh, as I was walking to this side facing my unit, I noticed that the car approached the parking space uh aggressively. Immediately put her hazards on. Um, at that point, I just figured, okay, I'm going to go inside my house. Went inside the house for about an hour, left to go to Sprout, and I noticed that the car's hazards were still on. Do you see the vehicle currently right now? >> Yes. The Mazda. >> When you saw it pull in, did it ever leave that spot? >> So, she didn't start in that spot. >> No, she was double parked. I'll walk with you. >> No, it's fine. Just just from right right here. It's fine. >> Do you see where that black Chevy is? She was double parked next to that black Chevy. >> Black Chevy. You mean the Camaro over there? Further down. Okay. She was double parked there. >> The hazards were still on. >> So, that's where you saw when you walked in. And then when you walked out, where did you see the Mazda? >> No. I'm sorry. When I was leaving to go to Sprouts, she was still double parked next to that Camaro. Um, do you have any reason on why the vehicle would be here now? >> No clue. So, I thought it was odd that the hazards were still on and nobody left the car. So, I figured I'd call non-emergency services. I thought she was having a medical episode, like could have had a seizure or something. >> And you saw her in the vehicle? >> Yes. >> You were sure on the time of when you walked into the house, it was 5ish 5. When you went to go leave to Sprouts, it was 6:00 p.m. >> I can tell you real closer to 5:45 when I left. >> Okay. 5:45 when >> as opposed to 600. Sorry about that. >> Okay. And when you called, you were still under the assumption that the vehicle was there, not where it is now. >> Correct. >> And you didn't see the vehicle get to where it's at there? >> No. When I was heading to Sprouts, I called uh non-emergency services and just recommended maybe an EMT or like fire rescue can come out and check on her. It's just not normal to sit in your car with your hazards on. And then I was heading back home. You gave me a call and uh just asked for me to hang out here. >> Okay. Did you see anyone get out of the vehicle at any point in time when you were looking at the vehicle? >> No. >> Uh is there anything else that you feel like you need to add? >> That's that's pretty much it. Yeah, >> no problem. No, it's all good. >> Nevertheless, after all, the mother was also taken to the hospital for evaluation. >> Oh, it's dark. >> Yeah, >> you're joking, right? What the time is it? No, when I was home, it was 3:00 p.m. >> Get up. Get up. >> When you drink, that's what happens. >> The mother identified as Monica v. Pagan was arrested and held at Palm Beach County Jail on charges of child child abuse for counts of battery on a law enforcement officer resisting arrest with and resisting arrest without under Florida law. She could face up to 32 years in prison and over $30,000 in fines. However, court records show that Pagan posted $9,000 bail and was released shortly afterward. After all [snorts] the actions committed by this mother, the question arises, what sentence would truly be appropriate? Was the court's decision too lenient given Pagan's blatant irresponsibility? Share your thoughts below. Witchah, Kansas. Amid the haze of alcohol and screams, a drunken mother recklessly defied the police, indifferent to the children trapped between life and death. On February 11th, 2022, Witchah, Kansas, police quickly responded to a roadway after receiving reports of a serious car accident involving a woman suspected of driving under the influence with children inside the vehicle. At the scene, she showed signs of impaired awareness, slurring her words and refusing to cooperate with the police. Anybody inside still? >> He's a little bit adamant and animated right now. She doesn't want EDMS to look at the children or anything. >> They're the three that were in the car. Nobody else is in the vehicle. Any that you guys saw? Any you guys saw? >> Please. Please stop. Please. Please come get my kids. >> She's She's adam it. No EMS. I don't want anybody messing with her. She said she was fine. Apparently, the kids were in a car seat. I don't know if she was wearing her seat belt, but she's going to be in EMS for usual. >> I don't know. It just literally just literally happened. So, I'm calling you. I'm just now calling you. I don't know what the >> Yes, there's 16 cops right here. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 >> I'm EMS. >> No, we're just trying. >> She wants to talk to the police. >> You talk to me. >> Yeah, you want to talk to me. What's your name, man? >> Leticia. >> All right. We do have EMS here. Would you like your phone? >> Would you like the children to be checked out? No. >> Would you like to be checked out? >> No. >> You sure? >> I'm positive. We're fine. Look at us. >> We just want to make sure. >> Like, we're good. I literally live blocks from here. Leticia. >> Yes. >> I just need you to sign this that you don't want us to do anything. Okay. >> Do you have a legal license? >> This just says that you don't want us to check you out or do any type of treatment. That's all that is. >> And do you have ID on you? >> Yes, I do. >> Okay. >> He's fine. I'm not going to help me. Please help me. >> We're trying. Hey, we're trying. >> Obviously, we're trying to >> Please help me. >> Hey, obviously we're trying to figure out what's going on, but we just want to make sure everybody's all right. Hey, buddy. >> Everybody is okay. Hold up. >> Hold up. >> Phillip. >> Phillip. >> Thank you. Mama, please. Come here, buddy. >> Yeah. Our plan is to do it at this point. Despite her condition, the mother, Leticia, remained adamant about not handing the children over to anyone, not even her own sister. >> Why cops don't give a [ __ ] about me? No, I am chilled. I am Ashley, how the how chilled you expected to be. I hold a whole ass car and all three of us are just sitting on this parking lot still breathing. How do you expect that? Yes. Okay. Hold on. >> What do I do? >> I I need to talk to you. So, can I have your your kiddos hang out with my partner right here while you >> My kids are going everywhere with me. >> Well, literally, we're going to we're going to stay >> is going to take my kids from me. >> Somebody is going to come take my kids from me. >> Your sister's coming to get them. >> Your sister's going to take I'm going to stay right here. >> I have three kids of my own. >> Y'all lie though. >> No, I PROMISE YOUR SISTER'S >> Y'ALL LIE THOUGH. >> I PROMISE. >> NO, y'all lie. Y'all live coming to get your kid. >> I know she's on the phone right here. >> I know your daughter has your phone. >> Thank you, baby. >> She also refused to cooperate with a DUI test, forcing the police to seek alternative solutions. >> I just need you to step right over here. >> I'm not You can stay right here. >> You've been drinking. >> I have. >> I need to run you through a couple of tests. >> Yes, that's fine. Just charge me with the a DUI. >> We can sit here and I can have you do this while you sit. Can we do that? >> I'm not Yes. I'm not I'm not doing the whole That's fine. I can have you do I can have you do >> I have been drinking. >> Yes, absolutely. >> Are you right or rightanded? >> I'm right-handed. >> Put your hand like this for me. Just keep it like that for me. Okay. And just watch me. I'm going to show you a couple things. So, what I need you to do, just watch how you start. You're going to take your thumb and you're going to touch it to your index finger. I Let me show you and I'll show you how then you can start. You're going to go 1 2 3 4. When you get your pinky, you're going to count backwards. Four 3 2 1. One pass. 1 2 3 4 4 3 2 1 >> Okay, I didn't finish. Just give me a second. >> Like, just I'm drunk. I don't want to do all this extra. I'm drunk. Please, just let my sister come get my kids. Please >> just do this for me. Okay, we got >> I don't want my kids to go into state. >> They're not going to just let me admit that I've been drunk and let my kids go somewhere where they know where they know where they're going. After multiple attempts, she finally agreed to take the test. But right from the start, her impatience was evident. She defiantly challenged. Take me to jail. >> Can you do it? Can you You do it. You do it. You do it. I'm not doing no more field sobriety test with you. I'm doing with him. >> Well, we're going to need you to stand up. >> I'm I'm I'm admitting to being drunk. >> I'm admitting to being drunk, >> right? But we still have to run you through these tests. Will you let him do it with you? >> Yes, absolutely. >> Kiddos will hang out here with my partner. >> I'll hold her. >> She don't know you. >> Okay. 1 2 3 4. Please. >> You got to put them. >> I can't. >> They're not going to hold them. >> My son is extra Philly, but my daughter is not. >> She was. She was Philly with me. We just want to check your >> drunk. I did it. Why were you doing all this extra [ __ ] >> Okay. All right. >> Just got to check your eyes. Okay. >> I'm drunk. Like, I've literally already had minutes. So, why do I have to go through? >> All right. Just pay attention to him. Okay. Let us just run our test and then it'll be over. Okay. Help me out, too. Okay. So, just look at my finger and I want you to follow your finger with your eyes only. Okay? Don't move your head or your body. Okay? Take your time. No problem. You have my word. You follow my finger here real quick. You ready? >> Yeah. Okay. Just follow with your eyes. Don't move your head. >> So, you just you just became a cop. >> Bless your heart. That's why he's helping me out pretty a couple more times for me. Take a deep breath. >> I can't. Y'all have my car right there. >> I know, but you expect me to just be calm. >> No, I don't want you next to you. You're being >> Y'all expect me to just be calm? >> We got a couple more and I'll we'll move on to the next. Okay. Chin up a little. >> I already admitted. I know. >> So, why do we have to go through all that? >> Just take me to jail when my sister gets here to get my kids. >> It's just a part of our policy. Just do your job. Take me to jail. >> I drove under the influence. That's cool. Pars me with that. >> Before the test was even completed, the mother broke the rules on her own, refusing to follow the officer's instructions. >> We're going to try one more thing here real quick. Okay. If I can have you walk right over here for me. We'll face this way towards the fire. Go ahead and put your left foot on that yellow line. >> You can do that sober, though. >> What? >> You do it and I'll do it. >> I'll show you. I'm going to do it. >> No. Here. I I'm going to get you start. He can't do it. He's going to show you. >> Put your back up the way to the back. All right. >> But I've already admitted so I don't know understand why I have to go through. >> Take your right foot. Bring your left foot. Just like this. Heel toe. Put your hands on your side and fly. I want you to stay like that. 423. >> I have to show you how to do it. >> I've done this. Like help me. >> I'm trying. >> You're not. >> Yeah. We just got to have you do this test. >> You're not trying. >> We got to have you do this test. This is a part of it. >> So, what's next? What's next? What's next? >> What's next? >> So, again, we have to show you how to do it. Okay. >> No, you don't have to show me how to do You don't have to show me how to do. >> We're trying to help you. >> You're not. >> No, >> you're not. >> You personally are not. >> This is a messed up situation. >> It is. It is. But we have to run you through this test. >> We're trying to do our job. Wait, hold on. >> You need me to go back? No, I we haven't started yet. >> You already recorded me doing it, so I'm just going to keep going. >> Well, I have to give you the directions first. >> YOU ALREADY DID. Did he not? >> I haven't. There's no reason to do. >> He was already recording. Can I get my >> She even admitted, I drunk, hoping [music] the police would skip this step. >> We're not want to do >> I already told you I was drunk. >> Do this for me. >> I already said I was drunk. >> We're not wanting to do the test for me. We'll blow into this for me. Okay. >> Did I not do the test for him? Okay. Hey, what's the next test? >> Okay. >> What's the next test? >> Well, I didn't even start that one. >> The foot one. >> Uhuh. I have to I have to watch. >> Since you want to play some game, >> put the right foot in front. Put your hand down your side and stay like that. Don't move. Okay. When I tell you to start, I want you to take nine steps down here. >> I'm sure all of them feel like that about me. >> Once you get to your ninth step, I want you to turn around and take nine back. It'll look like this. Like this. >> Yes. Can we just Can we just do this? You're doing what you want. Can we Can we just go n for n step back like this? Take nine little touch back. Okay. All right. >> What I need you to do is look at your feet as you do it. >> I'm not going to look at my feet so I can fall down. >> Keep your hands down. >> Fall down looking at your feet. >> Keep your hands down your side. >> Okay. Ready? Are you ready? Go ahead. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Okay, ready? 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Okay, good job. Place your feet together like that. This [ __ ] Why would you sign up to be like this? When I ask you to, you can raise either your left or your right foot. When you raise that foot, I want you to raise it five to six inches off the ground. >> Okay? >> The scene quickly descended into chaos as Leticia repeatedly argued, refused to take the sobriety test, [music] and incessantly questioned her rights to smoke and use her phone. >> The most important thing is >> there's a statue for that. >> The most important thing, hey, how many >> The most important thing is listen to listen to >> No, I'm not. I'm going to listen to you before I listen to it cuz I'm sorry. I need you to listen. Oh, you should probably move and you should probably be doing your I need you to look at your toe. Count out loud. Keep your hand 1,002 100 to 1,004 100 to me. >> 1 Like, who honestly can do that? >> Lift your foot. >> I can't do that. I don't feel like anybody on a normal basis could do that. You do it. If you do it, then I'll do it. >> You're We're done. I've got You're good. >> Okay. I'm already drunk. Charge me with the DUI. That's fine. I'm not breathing into that. >> Is there a reason why? >> No. I've already admitted to being drunk. So, I'm not breathing into none of that. >> Is there a reason why you don't want >> Where's my phone? >> 15 36. >> I'm just standing here waiting till y'all figure. >> Can you breathe into that for? >> No, I'm not. I've already admitted to being drunk. I don't feel like I need to breathe into that. I don't. Can I have my kids back? Can I have my kids back? Thank you. Can I let no one come back, please? Come here, baby. >> We're going to go sit here to pick you up. Okay, >> be careful. >> No, there is a hell of reason to out. >> No, so I don't even have to go to jail. >> So, I'll explain to you. >> Okay, hold on. Listen. Listen, Nick. >> So, we'll go to jail. They'll process You promise to show. >> Okay. What if I have warrants in other states? >> I don't. >> I don't have no warrants in other states. >> So, I just get booked in and get booked out. >> Yeah. We'll go down and I'll read you some process. About 2 to four hours. >> Oh my god. >> Just coordinate. >> Yeah. The car will begin to car. Amid the chaos, the police remained calm, managing the situation to ensure absolute safety and arranging proper care for the children. >> I admitted to being drunk, so I'm not submitting to any resilizers. I'm not doing that. I'm not. >> Suck a dick. Can I go get my cigarettes now? >> Cigarettes. >> The car is upside down. >> We can't have you smoke right now. >> Can I go to a quick trip and buy some more? >> Can't. >> Okay. Well, I am. So, >> no, ma'am. You got to stay right. >> More cigarettes. >> Am I being detained? >> Yes, you are. >> Okay. Under what law? >> What do you mean? >> What law? >> We're detaining you because we're detaining you because of a DUI. >> Okay. I'm not driving. I'm walking. >> Right. But you can't leave. You've already been detained, so you're not leaving. >> E. >> Okay. Well, we're going to go get some cigarettes. We're going to stay. >> Can I get some cigarettes out of my goddamn car? A black and cannot. >> You can't do that for me. >> I cannot. >> You cannot. >> Come out. >> You cannot. >> Nope. Come here. Come here. >> Here. Stay right here. So, let's just hang out until your sister gets here. Okay. >> Here. Stay right here. Mine is going to get her cigarettes out the car. >> We can't have you get in the car. Okay. >> I just want my cigarettes. >> But we can't but we can't have you get in the car. >> Can you get my cigarettes? I know you can get my cigarettes. I know you can get my cigarettes OR YOU COULD GET my cigarettes out the car. >> If you're not going to cooperate with him, I'm going to put you in custod and put you in the car. >> Yeah. I'm going to jail anyways. >> I'll do it right now and let you >> No, I just want to smoke a cigarette. >> I can't. I don't. I want >> a black. There's a whole pack of cigarettes in my car. >> I want you to be able to sit with your kids until your sister gets here. But if we're not gonna be cooperative and we're gonna be angry, I'm gonna cuff you and put you in the back of >> So, what made you want to be a cop? >> Let's sit down with your kids real quick. >> No, just relax. >> It was the mother's minimal cooperation that made the rescue process tense, pushing everything to the [music] limit and leading to the handcuffs being brought out. >> I'll deal with him before I deal with you. >> So, you get the [ __ ] out of my way. I want to a cigarette. >> You have no right to consult with an attorney. I do have I do have a right of the test. >> Give me this. >> You have no right >> cuz you know this is foul. >> Read along with >> I have to read it to you. >> Well, read it. You should know your should know to read my right without a stand up. >> Please don't do this. >> I'm sorry. I'm so mad. I just want to slow up. >> You're being a pain in the >> I'm being a pain in the but I'm just >> I'm not playing this. I was trying to be nice and let you sit with your kids. Your sister got so mad. Like, what do you expect me to do? >> Treat me with respect like I have with you. >> I am. You're not treating me with respect. I just want to smoke a cigarette. >> I can't have you smoke a cigarette. >> Why? >> Hi, buddy. Don't do that. >> Okay, I'll sit in here and wake up when my sister gets here or what? My kids are literally being out here. >> And he'll stay here with this officer. Hold that. Let's go to the car. Hey, stay here. >> Hey guys. Hey. Stay here with me. Okay. >> Hey, stay here with me. >> Stay here with me. Okay. >> Mommy. >> Hey. Hey. Hey, buddy. Buddy. Buddy. Buddy. Buddy. Come here. >> Hey. Come here. >> Mommy. >> Come here. I got you. You guys going to hang out with me. Okay. >> We're going to move you his car. >> This gentleman. I got you. >> Where's my kids going? >> I have no idea. I just got here. >> My sister's here. >> She was in Moane when we called about 15. >> I'm not talking to you. I don't even like you. >> That's fine. It's fine. Is it going to be okay? >> I like I said, I just got here. If they're going family, I don't know. >> You were here the whole time. >> No, that What do you mean you just got here? So, you don't you don't know >> that officer's with your family. I've been speaking with you and him. >> No, this is a different entire process. >> My name is Perez. I have no idea who you've been talking to. >> So, you're just acting like he wasn't here this whole time. >> That officer is in the building with your got a twin. >> I guess >> they don't look the same at all. >> He's a lot lighter than him. >> Who is it? >> He's a rookie. That is one of the rookies. >> Can I just make sure my kids are cool? >> Your kids are fine. Trust me. >> I'm in handcuffs. Where the do you think I'm going to go? >> Have a seat, boys. You're ahead. That's fine. >> You're a And I feel sorry that you work for all these weird white people. >> Watch your head. >> Leticia was taken to the station where legal procedures awaited. >> I understand that y'all are doing your job like where my kids are going. What the am I going to do? Where do I need to get my kids? >> Give me a sec. Let me talk real quick. >> I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. >> Your kids are [clears throat] going with your sis and the officers are going there to pick them up. They were they were uh we called about 15 minutes before our time and they were in Mul. So the ladies that worked that business right there moved the kids inside of the business cuz it was windy and chilly. So those officers the uh the rookie officer that was with me helping me out. He is with the kids inside the building waiting for your sister. I'm just going to say I've been respectful. >> I tried just like we tell our kids. You got kids like kid kids. Treat them the way you want to be treated. >> I tried. I tried. And I'm sorry that that you thought I was just respectful at some point, but >> you're not my feelings. >> I'm sorry. I apologize. >> I I appreciate it. Thank you. >> I just want to make sure my kids are okay. >> Regardless of how you feel. Yeah, I'm drunk and I'm with the gold guard and Yeah, I'm a piece of [ __ ] But now I just want to make sure that my kids are somewhere. >> We just, you know, we didn't we made a mistake today. It was a mistake. >> Big mistake. This mistake is a [ __ ] lifech changing mistake. >> You won't do it again. Correct. You promised me you won't do that again. >> No. >> Okay, just take a deep breath. >> Calm down. >> Take a deep breath. >> How would you feel? Someone told you to calm down after you [ __ ] kid. >> Did you just shut it off? Your battery don't die. >> Oh, I just [ __ ] the calls declined. >> No, just turn it off for us. >> Enjoy what? What? What's the part that you enjoy? >> I enjoy actually helping people and I also >> How do you feel like you help people? I'm very I'm passionate about DUIs because I've had friends by drunk drivers. So, I feel that's very close to me because it's like someone holding it. It's different. You're in a car, but it's like someone holding pulling the trigger, but you're driving a vehicle, >> right? >> I like to get drunks off the street because yeah, they someone, >> right? I get it. >> You're not the first one. Won't be the L. I got to do it behind you. Oh, >> they're ballsy. If you want to put your palms together, it's a lot comfortable. I'm just going to leave them loose. Okay. Don't lean up against the wall because I'm not locking them. They'll tighten up on you. The mother, Leticia, 32, was arrested and held on charges of DUI, traffic violation, and motor vehicle overturn. Under Kansas law, she could face up to 2 years and 6 [music] months in jail, and fines up to $6,000. She also risks having her driver's license suspended, being required to use an alcohol monitoring device, attend alcohol education programs, and perform community service. Drunk driving not only breaks the law, but directly children and society. True power comes not from selfishness, but from patience and responsibility, qualities the mother in this story clearly has yet to grasp. When enforcement measures are needed, things have often escalated too far. Yet before that point, there are always other choices to listen, to pause, and to seek support in time. Today's stories show that the law treats everyone equally, regardless of titles, relationships, or personal circumstances. When boundaries are crossed, consequences are inevitable. We hope this video not only informs but also gently reminds us that every adult action teaches children a lesson whether we realize it or not. Let that lesson be about responsibility, patience, and care, not fear. [snorts] [music] >> [music]