911. Where's your emergency? Cops already here once. Um, my drunk wife is trying to steal my daughter's school property, uh, laptop and book bag. But it's not even mine. It's my daughter's school laptop. Well, so the school gave it to her. It's her school issued laptop. So, the school is given to your daughter. So, it's in your daughter's property. And anything your daughter owns is both you and her property cuz of her. She doesn't have legal custody of them at all. You guys are married. So she can steal my daughter's school laptop. Did she try to leave? She like she was going out the back door and that's communal property is what it's called. So I can grab her alcohol and go pour it out because it's not welcomed in my house. Yes. Okay. Let's not start a fight. No, because it's not allowed in my house. I am sober myself for a reason. She's been turning it off as she does. I figured I figured she would. Um, we've been locked in the bedroom based on her previous She knocked on the door. I don't know what she Yes, I've dealt with her before. Oh, and everyone hasn't during her previous She does not like that officer. I'm telling you that now. Just a heads up. That's so She didn't like me last time I talked to her either. Um Um, so I came I so she took a shower. Okay. She came back out. She started to leave after you guys left. Okay. Um came back in um running at the mouth. I came out of the bedroom to take my 4-year-old to the bathroom and that's when she started with the book bag and running out her mouth like, "You're not allowed out here. You're not allowed out here. Why are you even out here?" I recorded her at all. I got you. So, in regards to the property though, it is uh it's called communal property. You two are married. You two live together. You both have established residency here. Basically, everything in this house is communal property. So, not not saying do it tonight. If you were to move out, right, and come back and you want to grab stuff, if she says she stays here, the house is I know hypothetical speaking though. Or better, if she moves out, she comes back and she's like, "Hey, I want this, this, this, this is all mine. I'm taking it." But you say no. Maybe this is my keys. I don't know. And but you say no, this is mine. It would stay here and she would have to go to court because it's considered communal property. It's going to stay in the house. This is my house. Your your daughter's laptop. Everything for your daughter is communal property at this point. It's it's property. Can we go somewhere else tonight? No. I have my I don't speak to my mom because of her. I'm telling you, shut out. Thank you. [Applause] So, I was already here. She can go picture me. She's been at Pendleton on and off all week drunk. She's been at hotels on and off all week drunk. I got you. We We already tried the whole Yeah. leaving thing. She got arrested on Monday for the same. She hasn't been here since Monday since she was arrested. I got you. I left the bedroom to take my four-year-old to the bathroom. I should be able to My four-year-old if she's four, she should be able to use a bathroom in her own house, right? She needs She thinks because you said I wasn't allowed to leave the bedroom that we're not allowed to leave the bedroom. It's your house. You can go wherever you want in your house. I didn't leave this house. You Oh my god. She This is This is all night long. 24/7. It doesn't stop. I got you. If you don't mind just chill out here and I'll try to talk to her a little bit. Melissa, stop. I didn't leave the bedroom. I did what you told me to do. You said stay on this couch. I did. I didn't either. Melissa, sir. Melissa, please let me talk. Let me talk. There are kids back there. Nobody wants to hear this yelling. It's bad for them. I agree. I don't want to. So, why are you yelling? Stop. Stop. Let me talk. There are kids back there. Do you think you're not leaving an impression on them doing this? Sure. Come on. I don't want to upset them. I'm a nurse. Cuz I I can I don't care what you are. You just told me you you're not working. You're not a nurse. You are a nurse. You take me to guide you. Do you think Do you think you're not leaving a pressure on those kids? Come on. Please. Is Is she a better example? Please answer me. Is she a better example? Are you sitting in here yelling and closing your Is she a better example? That's her mom. Dude, I've talked to her for all five. She's crazy. That's why you for longer. I can tell you right now that job like her. You You are not being good example for them. Please, sir. I have agree. Okay. I'm not a fool. Okay. She's a psycho. Those are her kids. Okay. She's putting this example for us. All right. So, explain this thing with the laptop for me. The laptop. She's saying something about laptop. What laptop are you talking about? Her goddamn laptop. Daughter's school laptop. Sir, I don't you looking at my area right here, sir. I did get it back cuz she Okay. I have no laptop. I don't even know what she's talking about. Okay. Well, Melissa, sir, we we need to find something out because I'm telling you right now, she needs to take her kids away. If we keep being loud, you're going to get arrested for disorderly conduct again. Sir, we got to stop. What? Really? Yes. What am I doing? That's so I can hear you yelling from out outside. Come on. I can hear you yelling from outside. Okay, you're right. You should take both. Correct. I'm not taking you both. Yeah, we should both go. I am trying to avoid arresting. We both should go. Arrest. I'm trying to avoid arresting both of you. We both need to go cuz she's a psycho. Melissa. Sir, she needs to go too then. Melissa, obviously you and her are not getting along. Why won't you just go stay with your dad? Sir, I'm on the She left the goddamn bedroom. Stop, Melissa. I did what you told me to do. Is that She can It's her house, too. She can leave the bedroom. You told me to stay on the couch and avoid contact. There's a camera right behind you. Ask her to see it. There's a camera right here. There's a camera right here. Okay. What does that have to do with anything? You're pointing out cameras. There's a camera right here. I chill on the couch. Avoid contact. Don't talk to her. I did that, sir. She came out of the bedroom. I didn't initiate her. I didn't engage her. Correct. Stop. She would have had to come out. Stop yelling. I'm telling you, stop yelling. The kids don't want to hear this. It is midnight. They should be asleep. Correct. They don't sleep anymore. They should be asleep. Come on. If I'm going to get arrested, she gets arrested, sir. Cuz she is not being any different. I'm not seeing her yell and scream and get all upset. Sir, she came out of that bedroom. I'm hearing you yell and scream. Oh my god. I did what you told me to do. I stay on this couch like you asked me to do. Correct. I did tell you that. Come on, Melissa. Correct. Come on, Melissa. She left down a second. Take it down a second, please. That's all I'm asking. Sure. That is it. Okay, sir. If she wants to leave that house, you can. If you want to leave the couch, you can. Oh, I'm allowed to leave my couch. I'm asking. Oh, I'm allowed to leave the couch. I have to go in my bedroom. I'm asking that you No, I'm going to have you stay here right now. Oh, I'm not allowed in my bedroom. I'm going to ask you. Oh, okay. Cuz that's different then, right? Cuz you told me to leave. Stay right here. I did what you asked me to do, sir. Stop. Sit back down. Chill. You asked me to sit on this couch right now. There's an active investigation. Okay. I have the entire right to have you sit on that couch right now. Okay. Your house once we leave and there's nothing going on involving us. You walk to the kitchen, do whatever. I'm asking that you stay separated. That's what I'm No. I'm going to go Mike to that bedroom and we are going to be back. That's good. It's not good. It's crazy. You are embarrassing yourself. Not at all. Yes, you are. You may not feel embarrassed. Not at all. But you are. So, I can tell you right now, there are neighbors out here watching. Come on, Melissa. Can I go out in the front door and wait? No. You're going to sit right here. Okay. Come on. Why do you feel the need to be like this? Sir, she's crazy. She punched me in the eye and your staff allowed her to do that. Correct. I wasn't here. I haven't I haven't read the report. I wasn't here. I'm telling you. Me, but 5 days later, I got a black eye from Monday when her punch me in the face. I see the black eye. Oh, 5 days later, you can see it. I see the black eye. Five days later, you can see her punch me in the face. She wants to play like it's a it's like I'm this drunk. Okay. I drink. Absolutely. Okay. 100%. I drink. She's not innocent. Okay. She punched me in the face and they allowed her to get away with that. I wasn't here. I wasn't. I know. I know you were here. Okay. Dude, you don't like me anyways. Can I please get out of here? You I Please, Melissa. Sir, I'm telling you, this guy has not liked to me from the beginning. I would like him to leave right now. Melissa, we are trying. You I have dealt with you and you've been very cordial and nice to me. I don't like him. He's never liked me. Melissa, please just hear him out. I don't want I have nothing to say. I'm in I'm asking this entire my life. Listen. Listen. My life. Can you listen so I can leave? Please leave. Yes. I'm going to kill you. No, I'm not. Can you listen so I can leave? Please leave. I'm going to say what I have to say. Sir, you hear him out. That is all I'm asking right now. I trust you. Hear him out. Please. Sir, he's my partner. I trust him. Hear him out. I do trust him. I do trust him. Son, don't worry. He's had my back on plenty of He's not He's hates me. He hates me from hate you. I don't You hate me from Pendleton. You came in cuz you were upset about my son. What? Your son? My son? Yeah, my son called you about me and you came in and gave me a lecture and you haven't liked me since. I give everything lectures. Melissa, I don't like you. I don't like tell me what you want to tell me. I have anything. I'm not doing anything. Okay. Well, let me speak so I can I'm in my own house. Okay, I understand. Melissa, let me talk a second. I Okay, I understand that. Listen, we can't make you leave. No. Is there And you don't want to go anywhere? I'm not going anywhere. Okay, that's fine. This is always an issue between you two and you guys don't even want to like goate. Why do I know how to separate? What is it? Her guts. Then separate. I can't. I have no means. She has my phone. You got to go to the court and start a process of divorce. It is not that. You got the $360. You guys got to find a way. You have the $360. Hold on. Hold on. Oh, I got it in my That's fine. Listen. You're a douche. Okay, get out of here. Just get out of here. I don't want to come back here and people go to jail. I don't want to be Goodbye. If I come back to my house, people will start getting tickets or going to jail. She's not leaving. It's her house. She's not leaving. I'm not leaving either. It's my house, too. Just Dude, it's my house, too. You want me? I told her everything in this house because you guys are married. You're allowed. You're entitled. You're entitled to everything. That's fine. And I told her that if we come if just don't talk to her. Don't talk to her. Sir, this gentleman, please just listen to me. You guys, this gentleman told me not to leave this couch. Go to jail or people. Sir, please listen to me. This gentleman told me not to leave this couch. I didn't leave this couch. She came out of that bedroom. I did not. There's a camera. She can show you. I did not leave this couch. I'm not saying I don't believe you. I don't know. I wasn't here. There's a camera, dude. Ask her for the camera. I did this couch that left that bedroom. I told you to chill on the couch and avoid contact with her. That won't stay in that bedroom. Stop. We are going to tell her the same thing. Please do. But if she wants to leave the bedroom, then I can go in the bedroom, right? If her daughter wants to go use the restroom, answer me cuz I'm going to I want a hard answer on this camera. If she locks the door, if she locks the door, don't bust the door down because we're going to come back out here. You are going to get arrested for disorder. Why is that? In my own house, I'm going to get their Absolutely. Because I can tell you right now, I can hear the kids in the back. You are them. Okay. Take that. Tell her to take them kids and go. It is her house, too. All right. I'm just leaving. All right. Get goodbye. Melissa, just stop. Nope. I'm going to go in my bedroom. We better hang out for a second. You're not. You're not. I have three toners to protect. Get away from me. You got this. Get away from me. [ __ ] shut the door. Melissa, come here. Come here, sir. I want Last thing I'm going to say. Okay. Stop. Sir, stop. That's my bedroom. Stop. Please. There are kids back there. It's who they are. They don't need this. My house, correct? This is my bedroom. You live here, correct? So, I correct. Stop. I'm asking you to go in my bedroom. Correct, sir. Melissa, stop. You better let her You better tell her let me in my bedroom. I'm not telling her to open the door. So, she have to let me in bedroom. If she wants to lock the door, she can lock the door. Or I would like to speak with your supervisor. No. Yep. Now. Nope. Yep. Now. Nope. I would like to speak with your supervisor later. You step on behind me. I will tase you. Get the back in the house. Okay. Tase me. Get back in the house. Nope. Then stay out here. That's even better for me. Have a good night, Melissa. Where's your supervisor? We do not need to get you a supervisor. I'll get a supervisor. That's fine. It's going to turn into a domestic very quickly. [Applause] We'll call You want a supervisor? We'll call a supervisor. I asked for a supervisor a long time ago and denied me. Supervisor that did. Okay. Well, you want to I asked for a supervisor. I want a supervisor right now. Well, then come out and I'll follow. No, I'm not going to come out cuz you're going to take my house. No one's taking your house. No, you you hate me. You hate me to begin with. This guy's been trying to be cool the entire day. Melissa, he could have wrote you a ticket the second he got here. Come on. For what? On my couch, sir. Cuz you were screaming loud enough from inside the house. I could hear you from down by my car. Your [ __ ] Come in the house. Not to leave this couch. I didn't. Okay, I believe you. Okay. I She started the [ __ ] then. Okay, then she started it. I don't know. Well, okay. Explain how she started it. She came out bedroom, sir. And you told me not to leave this couch. I didn't. You said the super coming. Where's the super? They're coming. They have to drive. They're driving. They're okay. From where? Tippa 2, sir. I mean, we didn't call the faults. You called him like 3 minutes ago. Oh, you mean when you wanted me to call? Oh, you mean cuz I You realized it was on the cop camera or I'm not a douche. Really? All right. What's going on? I'm a supervisor. You're the supervisor? Yeah. This I asked for supervisor three times. Okay. They refused. Okay. All three times. And then realized I was on camera. Okay. I don't need to be cussed out or anything like that. Okay. I'm not trying to cuss. Okay. Let's just talk like adults. Okay. Yeah, that's good. All right. Yeah. They refuse. That guy has been completely fine with me the entire night. And this hates me. Sorry. My mouth. Thank you. I apologize. This gentleman Williams hates me. Okay. Officer Elkins has been more than a gentleman with me. Would you Would you feel more comfortable just talking to me? I would feel more comfortable contacting. Okay. You guys want to go outside for a minute? I don't want to talk to Elen. I just Elkins is good. Okay. Well, I'll just talk to you. Okay. Yeah. What? He realized he was on camera, so he then he decided he needed he probably should say something cuz I said I wanted a supervisor. Sorry, it's my job. That's okay. What's um I mean, can you tell me kind of what I mean, a brief summary of what's going on tonight? That gentleman, Mr. Williams, hates me. Okay. He's hating me since Pendleton. Okay. He came onto the scene newly. Uh Alkins has been dealing with me for the entire time. Has had no trouble. Okay. I've had zero problem with him. He told me to come in here and sit my ass on his couch, sir. Okay. I did that. That I'm sorry. My wife. Yeah. Came out of that room and started the Mhm. I stayed on that couch just like I was told from that gentleman. Okay. And And both of you live here? Yes, sir. We I don't know. I I don't know that I've ever dealt with I don't think I've ever dealt with you, sir. I have a a home on Pendleton. Okay. Which is what you may be referencing. Mhm. But it has no utilities. Okay. We've been living here since uh September. All right. She has been trying to get me out of here since September. We just we don't get along. Mhm. Today we get along. Tomorrow we don't get along. Today we get along. Tomorrow we don't get along. It's the same day. Different day. Absolutely, sir. Today she doesn't want me here. I have nowhere to go. Okay. She has a car. She has the means to leave. I don't. I have zero money. I have zero car. I have nothing. So, if she wants somebody to leave, she needs to be the one to leave. Well, let me ask you let me ask you one question. I have I have literally stayed on this couch, sir. Okay. Let me ask you a question. I I mean, absolutely. And this is no way I understand that she's one someone to leave, right? Absolutely. And I sir, if I could leave, I would leave. Well, let me ask you this. I hate her. Listen, let me ask you this. If um we have a place we could take you, you have a place where I detox. Well, yeah. I'm not stupid. Okay. Well, no, that I mean, obviously. Oh, have you been there before I take it? Yeah. I'm not stupid, sir. I'm okay. Nice try, though. Well, it's a place. Sure. It's You're think I'm not dumb. No, I never said you were. No, but you thought you were going to come in here and I'm going to be dumb. I'm not. No, I didn't think that. I'm just trying to get you to a place where you where you'd be safe and have a place where it doesn't work. This place right here on this couch. And that's fine. I'm just bother throwing out suggestions. She She's the one that had to leave this room. Ma'am, come back. Hey, come back here and talk to me. I'm telling you though, she literally had to walk out of this bedroom, walk through here to get to me. I didn't have anything to do with her, sir. Okay. I laid on that couch and there's a goddamn camera. Okay. Ask her to watch it. She won't show you that to you. I'm not upset about anything. I just want my I have zero problem laying on this this couch. I have zero problem. She's my psycho. She's calling the police and I have nothing to do with it. And I'm not trying to go to jail. On Monday, they didn't listen to me. And do you see this? Mhm. She bunched me in the face. They wouldn't watch the goddamn camera. But that's from Monday. Okay. Did you make a report about that? Sir, I made a report. They were here. They took me to jail. Okay. I stayed in jail. Yeah, sir. I I don't know anything about that. So, I I understand. I stayed in jail and a and a a orange jumpsuit. Mhm. They had me stay there because I What did What did they charge you with? A minor misdemeanor. Hi. Shut the door cuz the dog know you. She She will run in, jump in. All right. Um she's been up and down running her mouth since they left the last time. So her saying she's stayed on the couch. She hasn't. I have video of it because there is a camera. Yeah. which is fine, whatever. Um, I came out of the bedroom to take my 4-year-old to the bathroom. Okay. And that's when she tried taking my daughter's school laptop. Okay. So, that's when I called whatever. Um, I've recorded it all. Um, I didn't punch her in the face. Didn't even touch her on Monday. Have it all on video. She got into a phys Oh, not a physical, but a verbal fight with cops. Was arrested. Never even touched her. She did sign a statement on Monday. All right. Where's the kid at? Is the kid in the same bedroom? I don't know. I don't know where the I didn't know there was a kid in the house. The bedroom is in my talking. Oh, I know. You're not coming. There's three children in my room. Sir, the police said I could go in there. Is that Listen, just go back there if No, sir. You told me I could go in here. Not in there with the kids. Come on. Go there. Sir, you told me I could go in my bedroom. Go, sir. Listen. Sir, you told me I could go in my bedroom. I'm telling you right now. Oh, now you're telling me I can't go in my bedroom? Go out. Go out there and stay on the couch. Okay. Okay. We want to We don't want to make this horse being around the kids. No, I sure don't. But I You told me I can go in my bedroom, sir. Separate bedroom. Please just stay here away from the kids. Oh, no. I can't be in my bedroom. Okay, I'm I'm going to be done here. Okay. I'm asking Sir, I can't be in my bedroom. No, stay out here on the couch like Officer Elkins asked you to. And we don't have Officer Elkins. He's He has enough sense. Is this offic? All right. Oh my god. Why are you still here? I hate you. We're done. Sir, yes, please. I want him off my property. We're leaving right now. Okay. Please just stay on the couch. Leave each other alone. All right. I just want Officer. We're leaving. We're all leaving. Okay. No. I just want Officer Elkins. He's leaving with us. Okay. Why? Because we're done here. No, you're not done here. She still won't let me in my bedroom. We're not We're not getting us. Okay. Please stay on the couch like Officer Elkins as you. I'm in my bedroom. That's cool. Oh my gosh. Okay. Leave the bedroom alone. Just go find my bedroom. I I listened to what you told me to do. I I was trying to be a better person. Melissa, listen to me. Sir, I'm not trying to be a better person now because I literally was trying to be a better person. Sir, a better person is going to be staying out here on their couch. So, you stay away from them so we don't have any problems. Okay, sir. She has no right to my house. Yes, she does. She She lives here just like you. Okay, then I should have my bedroom. What? Do you want to do that to the kids? I don't give a about the kids. They're not. So that's that's a problem. Okay. Yep. I don't give a They're not my That your mentality is a problem then. I don't give a about them all, sir. I want my bedroom. I don't give a I don't give a about her or her kids her. Okay. Well, then you're going to get arrested again. Okay, then take me to jail. Let's go. What are you going to tell me what you have to do for destroy the conduct? Okay, here you go. Arrest her. No, I was definitely not outside. I was in my house. Well, earlier you were, weren't you? No, I definitely have not been outside my house. So, that's a good try. Come on. No, I'm asking you. No. Nope. Definitely not. You can You can answer me. We just told you. Okay. Nope. You didn't answer me at all. I want answers. Melissa, come on. I was in my house. You No, you were out here earlier yelling and screaming. I was not out to you. You were just out here on a porch. I was not outside at all. You are you guys sleeping over there? Your car unlocked? No. I'll get it. Stop. Look at me. I swear to God I'll swear to God up. seat, please. Thank you. You get this thing off me. Why would you bother put this all the people? [Applause] I'm telling you. Is that a female? Nope. Okay, then I'm you. Nobody has a right to touch me. Come out. Nope. Not coming out till a female is here. Ma'am, come out of the car. Not coming out of the car until a female is here. I know my rights. Please come out of the car. It's not your rights. It is my rights. I don't want to put my hands on your stuff. Please feel put your rights on. Go ahead. Go ahead, sweetheart. Come on. Come on. Okay. Where's the female? Where's the female? I want a female officer right now. You are ruining my rights. I have a right. I have absolutely a right to be served by a female and I am not being served by a female. Take her down. Okay. Yeah, just take her down. She's coming. We'll just Where's the female officer? She's coming. I want her a female officer right now. No, I want I want female officer right now. Hey everyone, it's Trent, prior deputy sheriff, patrol sergeant and canine handler. And what we have here is a classic case of an adult that wants to act like a child. And obviously these officers have had to deal with this woman on prior occasions and have had to arrest her before and her behavior seems to be an ongoing issue. And this is one of those calls you're going to go to as a cop where you're going to have to lecture the two adults involved and say, "Hey, your relationship probably isn't working out. You should probably break up. one of you should probably move out at least for the sake of these kids, which this woman doesn't care about as she articulated herself. They're not even mine. F them. Which is a huge red flag. And in this situation also, you're going to want to notify Department of Family Services or Child Protective Services to let them know, hey, you should probably look into the living situation with these kids because clearly there is something going on that could potentially be affecting them mentally if nothing else. And it sounds like this woman had been lectured on a prior occasion by that one cop that she doesn't like and she was not having that whatsoever and she just wanted to go ahead and say, "I'm a nurse." And therefore, the cop was the one with the issue even though he was probably giving her some good advice. What was also pretty funny is the fact that she thought she had to permanently stay on that couch essentially or her spouse had to stay in the bedroom. And obviously that officer meant, "Hey, you guys should probably take some time away from each other. Maybe she can stay in the room, you can stay on the couch, but you're free to do whatever you want. You both live here. You're married. You do have communal property like that officer stated. And for this laptop issue, so that is owned property by the school. And if this woman were to take that laptop and run away with it or take off out of town or whatever, then the school more than likely would need to be the victim for that theft and then they would have to be the one to file that report. And the disorderly conduct charge is a very easy thing for these officers to articulate. It does not need to be in a public place. As long as two or more people are affected by her and her behavior, then that definitely qualifies. Also, the high risk and likelihood that there was going to be some sort of domestic issue if these cops were to leave. And they did say that on body cam. That is also going to be a factor as well. And in my opinion, she also could have been charged with child abuse, which does not need to just be physical. It can be mental as well. Any sustained fear, worry, or severe distress inflicted upon a child specifically by her behavior definitely qualifies under that law. And in my opinion, this call took way too long. Sometimes you're just going to recognize the signs as a cop that someone's not going to go with the program. they're not going to have it. They just want to be obnoxious and loud and yell and like I stated, they just were being overly accommodating in this situation and were trying to give her chance after chance after chance. And like she said, just go ahead and arrest me. So, looks like they made the right call in that decision. What was also pretty funny is her demanding to see a supervisor and this cop just said, "Nope." So, I don't know if people watch too much YouTube or whatever the case is, but just because you demand to see a supervisor, more than likely that is not going to go in your favor. And also, you do not have to get a supervisor as a cop. This cop said, "I don't have to get one." That is true. You do not. Just because somebody demands one, you do not need to call your sergeant over to deal with the situation. And 10 times out of 10, as long as you're doing what you're supposed to be as a cop, your supervisor, if they do show up, is going to side with you in your decision. And obviously, we see that in this situation where the supervisor was actually the one to order these cops to make that arrest. And that is going to be it for this one. See you guys in the next one. She was charged with disorderly conduct. [Music]