[Music] oh on March 25th 2023 officers responded to a domestic battery incident the caller reported that his ex-girlfriend had arrived Uninvited and assaulted him he said she pushed scratched and slapped him preventing him from calling 911 she was reportedly drunk and making threats refusing to leave the premises and she was threatening and it was at 9 and I called they had a Rove I just wanted her to leave the premises she was standing here and she was threatening it was like around 10 10 9 in the afternoon and then today she came in and we had problem like discussions like hey don't come to my to my house we don't have anything between us anymore like we're done and she made that correctly and she decided drove here she lives all the way in for all she doesn't even live anywhere near her 30 something miles or anything she drove all the way here without my consent parked up and everything tell me she's inside my house I came out respectively hey what do you what do you want like I don't want anything against we're done right the man told officers that the suspect did not live nearby but had driven over 30 mil to his home without his consent he tried to end the conversation calmly but she blocked his path and physically attacked him he showed photos and videos of his red face and injuries from the AL I'm like hey look please do not touch me or anything we done talking what what else do you have to say what is the point of this conversation what are you trying to achieve because clearly we cannot be together because there's lines that you cross boundaries and boundaries that you cross over and over again there's no point of contining the relationship she understood that that yet she still want to get in her way hugging on me and everything but I'm just like y like get away from me I even have videos photos after the slap I mean photos face is red and everything try to so that that on your face is new yes like right now I just she just pooke me in my eye she just missed the eye barely but then she slapped me over here she SL me before and I'm like hey why you SL me before she have long nails huh she have long nails um no she has no more Nails that's how that's how like force of I just like hey like all right you call her because she keeps on bling games she's acting like she can't hear me can you call her she texted me saying that she can't hear you guys I'll show you the text just call her I don't care for just call her I just her just call it again yeah ignore it Sarah maybe okay he's going to the the deputy that's with me he's going to call from his phone he's going to call from um phone okay officers attempted to call the suspect but she ignored their calls eventually an officer used a different phone to contact her she agreed to speak with them all sh be so we're here because you know he called us right yeah and he said some things okay again alleging that you did some things against him all right and because of that um before I ask you any questions I'm going to read you your rights okay this doesn't mean you're under arrest no okay so Farah I'm required to warn you before you make any statements that you have the fen constitutional rights being said you wish that talk to me talk to you yeah yeah okay all right so phah what happened today so today was having a uh like a talking about the future right we was talking about the future as if like okay if we have kids in the future he said he's going to make our kids have a DNA test and I was like baby that I like that's not something I agree cuz to me it looks bad as a woman if I'm dating you making our kids go through a DNA test that's not good that's not good cuz you make it seem like I'm the bad woman here like [ __ ] I haven't cheated on you I haven't done anything in the past why would you want to put our kids into like in a DNA said to see if that kid is yours and he was like oh he's like got he has big attitudes oh I'm the man of my own I do what I want I could I could do if I want to do that I would to put my kids I like it's nothing like that but to me you got to understand my feeling to how do I feel about thing I said you got to understand how do I feel about it and stuff and he's like oh do you want to break up do you want to break up I was like okay you okay fine we could break up since my feels don't matter in this relationship because if I say okay I don't like I don't want my kids to go through DNA test like I If we haven't Che on if I haven't done that when officers arrived they read her rights and informed her about the allegations against her she agreed to talk and shared her side of the story like pinching me pinching me like hit like hit me when his arm like get off and he push me push me and I got mad at back and everything he he like like pushed me and he slapped me like I was like wait why you doing this for why do you and I was like why do you why you did that I think my one of my fingernails he think I slapped him he I know he going to say that he that I SLA him one my I said why I why you did that for why you doing this for why we going through this for he like oh I told you to leave leave I said I'm going to leave I just need to talk to your parent let your parents know that we I can't we not together so if they don't see me like around your house that we not together and then he got mad and stad I just like everything that he gave I just put on okay I'm done put my stuff on and that's all but he started like getting mad like mad all of it like that everything so then he slapped you yes he slapped me when you were hugging him when you were hugging him he slapped you no when I was Hing I I at first wasn't even hitting each other CU I'm a loving person I just because he was got mad like all calmed down and and Creo he speak Creo he said he like I feel like I would slap you right now just because you came to my house to go talk to my there I just didn't even I I didn't even say anything I just ignored it I just gave hug just like hug him tight and stuff just kept huging him tight and he was like pitching me look get the [ __ ] off off me I was like why are you doing this for why are you doing this for I see all you doing all of this just because of what argument that we both can't agree to each other he oh get the [ __ ] off me get away from my house or something I I'm going to get out your house please let me talk to your mother because her mother she's in she too I please let me talk to you m and let know what's going on and I'm going leave and he started hitting on me and everything and then he was like okay let's talk I was like no I don't even want to talk and after what you just did Pinch Me pushed me to the ground everything took my airpods like my airpods on the ground th in there ke tag like he just threw it all I'm like why are you doing this all for he like got any girl like all mad and everything he think he like I was like and he just like went like this and I was like so he slapped you yeah he SLA so right yeah okay he I was like why are you doing this for I'm trying to get into him like why are you doing all of that for for what why are you letting your angry getting to you for what it's like he's controlling or something if he if it's like if I don't agree with something he feel like the suspect agreed to speak and explained that the argument was about future children the suspect disagreed with a potential DNA test believing it implied mistrust and made the suspect look bad the suspect stated that cheating had never occurred so testing was unnecessary you something I it's not like that if relationship it's two people it's two head sticking together you can't just be like you want this and other like I'm just like that's me being controller I want to know why why is for and you doing all of that getting offset anger like hitting on me like everything oh get the [ __ ] out my house and I was okay I'm going get out but I just need to let your mom aunti cuz they just call me and everything I said you need to let them know what's been going on just in case if you break up they don't see me we already broke up like we broke up you don't see me in the house anymore that's it I just let them know everything and he just I don't know I where else did he hit you like it's my arms and it's my fish and what what about the text messages the text I was coming to he show us all the text messages said you're blowing up his phone yeah I was CU he hang up the phone and and when he was like okay you want to break up you want to break up and then you want to break up and he hang up the phone I'm like and I I'm like why you hang up the phone just because of that why you don't L it just because of that just because I said in the future if we have kids in the future if we have kids so let me ask you how did he get the uh how is he how did he get the scratch on his face and his neck when he had hit me and I got up to the ground I was like why you why you did this for why you did this for I think like when my finger and scratching I'm like what are you doing why you did this for for what so what did you do to him H so how do you get those scratches like when I was doing like this I was like why are you doing this for I was like this why are you doing after he hit me and everything pushed me to the ground hit me and like push me to the ground I was like why you did this for for what for what like trying to kill you being self-controlling oh get the [ __ ] out my house I do whatever I want I said what I said like if I'm daing a woman and woman don't want to listen to me I'll do I'll just leave the relationship or something I'm like what you doing this or I kept everything all calm and he just don't want he just kept everything all calm I kep everything I was like why are you doing everything for it he told me leave leave I just to stay quiet cuz I didn't believe it I was like where do you live for Lao yeah I live for and I'm just like calm and strong I didn't even say anything I was like where' you go from here when you left huh where did you go I went to go to the beach and everything stuff because I don't like I don't understand just because of the argument I was like that makes no sense because just because in the feature you got mad he's like he's always he's always like that and like every time we have an argument he's always control it control it control it like yesterday we had an argument together on the caller insisted on the right to make decisions which the suspect saw as dismissing feelings when asked about breaking up the suspect agreed stating that feelings were not being considered what are you doing I when he was like I think he was moving my hand probably my hand probably like scratched so I was like what are you doing what are you doing and he probably like just like like moving like oh why you touching me why you touching me why you touching me before why did he say he he poked him in the eye oh I think I poked him in the eye cuz I was like this why I didn't even Pok him in the eye what are you doing this for cuz I was trying to like get into why like why you pushing me to the ground just because me just I didn't even do anything I was like okay and Creo I I was like I was I was like babe and cre I was like babe this is he just like oh don't touch me don't touch me don't touch me get the [ __ ] off me get the [ __ ] off me bro I'm like what why are you doing this so far and then he just P down we didn't even say anything and then he was like I don't want you to go inside let me talk to you for a moment what's your guys' relationship huh what's your guys' relationship us right now boyfriend girlfriend yeah boyriend girl how long you have been dating that's a year and a half a year and a half yeah all right yeah okay it's he's always like that always like that argument control it I'm like what it's like I don't have no voice speaking relationship I don't he just like he want everything about him or everything like yesterday he was like talking and everything we was talking about like financial and stuff if we in the house together this how it would go him to me what I said was not okay was like I tell let me let me explain to you same thing I explained to him okay when you got guys are in a relationship romantic relationship right within the last 6 months that's lasted a year and a half okay you guys are now cons you guys fall under um you know dating SL domestic relationship okay right in a situation where somebody batters the other somebody hits the other okay after the breakup the suspect called to inform the caller's mother following cultural customs the suspect described attempts to deescalate by offering tight hugs but the caller forcefully pushed away cursing and demanding distance of that happening okay someone has to go to jail the primary aggressor will go to jail okay whether the victim wants to press charges whether they want to um cooperate whether any of that okay okay I just want to let you know that he didn't want to cooperate with us but we're here and our investigation concludes that you were the primary aggressor in this situation understand what I'm saying you understand what I'm saying I understand what you're saying but listen listen I don't want to start any problems all right we're going to go down to the jail for T you're going to go downtown you're going to get booked okay you're going to see uh during first appearance you're going to see the court they're going to set a bond I'm not sure if they'll even set a bond I don't know that process from here on now talk to you you can talk to the judge when you get there that's the same thing we don't have an option anymore we don't have a choice in the State of Florida we cannot walk away at this point he has injuries consistent with the story he told us okay so listen have you guys tried talk to his mother how the way he ised to what's that have you guys talked to his mother how the way he is Tom just do me a favor turn around turn around do me a favor turn around no I'm just asking listen turn turn around I'm just asking a question turn around we'll talk to but you got to turn around no I just didn't have you guys talk to each other about what turn around the suspect admitted to causing them while questioning the violence but claimed it was not intentional the suspect explained that arguments were always about control with the caller making all decisions the suspect felt unheard and discussions about financial matters also became one-sided relax stop resisting or you going to catch another charge stop resisting stop calm down calm down sah I need you to calm down okay look what you doing bro what happened what stay over there ma'am stay over there we'll explain everything in a minute I didn't even do anything stop moving why didn't even do anything though why did you run away from us this go talk to his mother time what he's doing to me that's not what we do here stop squirming I just want to talk to I just want to talk to the Auntie listen I just want to talk to her is she is she comfortable with you will she listen to you tell her she needs to calm down tell her she needs to calm down I just want to talk to the you're not going to talk to her right now stop moving your arm you see what you did bro why did you tell him that you put your hands on me too why you just making see stay over there stay over there what he doing to me bro tell her she needs to calm down need to calm down C down she's making it worse well officers restrained the suspect instructing to remain calm the suspect struggled and shouted about unfair treatment the suspect continued resisting while being handcuffed questioning why the caller was not also being arrested officers warned about additional charges we're going to have another problem stand up let's go this way can I get my shoes off yes get in the car you anything else on you I don't want to kill him come on come on get on the car get on the car the get in the car get in BR what did I do but just shoot me just shoot me get in the car here get on the car you're going to get an extra charge get on the car you're going to get an extra [Music] charge look what you [ __ ] did put your leg in the car put your leg in the car you're going to get another arrest another charge put your leg in the car put your leg in the car put your leg in the car look not even going to take me home away relaxx what I doing the suspect once in the patrol car expressed distress asking to be shot rather than arrested officers repeatedly instructed the suspect to cooperate warning of charges seat Bel on you I need you to lean back I got to put the seat Bel on please don't please I have to put the seat Bel on you just okay then don't even lean back you're fine you're fine there don't even Lean Back come on no please don't put the seat belt on listen stop stop being difficult I got to put the seat belt on please please I'm L please listen to me pleas to me please I can't stop being that's the only way I could catch my breath no lean back hey I'm done hey I'm I've been very Cooperative with you lean back so I can put the seat Bel on lean back now or you're going to get a third charge for resisting all then lean back right now that's the only way I could catch my breath thank you Lean Back Lean Back come on I don't want have to use Force again Lean Back Lean Back stop what are you doing I can't I need to my bre come on it's don't tat my breath all right put your leg inside put your leg inside the final charges included domestic battery and resisting arrest if you enjoyed this video be sure to hit the like button share your thoughts in the comment section and don't forget to subscribe to our channel to stay updated on our future videos click on the notification Bell icon after subscribing thank you for watching and see you in the next video