don't do it again I will bit me yeah dog record this please romantic relationships are bound to experience some rough patches once in a while even the most compatible couples have misunderstandings and fights and that's all part of the deal however there are times when things get really nasty especially when abuse centers the picture but contrary to popular belief we can't always pin the blame on men Sometimes women become abusive and it gets pretty ugly let's explore three cases where abusive girlfriends wreak havoc in their relationships if you're into good stories about jealous ex partners then you're going to love this apparently a woman in Joliet Illinois whose name was later revealed to be arante lby called the cops at about 4: in the morning to report alleged trespassing but not long after the cops arrived it was pretty clear that something was off the call was about a man her ex-boyfriend who's staying with his current partner the cherry on top is that she and the new girlfriend live in the same apartment building here's how that went down him because he saw he living at a female house down hall for me if my minding my business hallway charging my phone it has nothing to do with him so what my situation has nothing to do with him whated he don't live here he's trespassing what happened he put his hands on me he threatened me with a what you mean h the the w flow sign out here okay from the very start we have obvious red flags first the woman's walking around and staying on her phone while talking to the cops secondly her story is a little flimsy and not very clear and don't even get us started on the I was just charging my phone in the hallway argument please but things get better as the man in question appears at the scene I want him here perod he don't live here I live on that floor he don't live there he stand with a female in her kid matter I stay it don't it do cuz you only able to come in this door you don't show me the proof where it's at where your pass at you can't show the pass you don't I can show it don't matter what time it is you should never you should never talk anything baby I know Miss green I know everybody in that office's your I live here okay yeah but you almost did no you hit me with that I'll press the Char I'll press the Char oh Little Miss law expert is pressing charges it doesn't matter that her story makes no sense she'll make sure to press charges against the man after some more back and forth with the man the officer at the scene takes her aside and tries to make sense of the story however the story makes even less sense now where were you at I was in the hallway charge my phone okay I live you're in the hallway I'm in that situation right now everyone know that everybody in ever I mean not everybody ever but everybody in the office I was l charge my phone I don't stay too far from the outlet where I charge my phone came here tonight this my first time seeing I don't know him this just keeps getting better the man obviously is not happy about the whole situation and the two argue for a few more moments this is why the cops have created some distance between the two just to make sure that there aren't any unwanted incidents at the scene with everything being so murky one of the officers comes back to talk to the woman again however what she does next is both mindboggling and Incredibly hilarious hey what apartment are you in I got to go all way through here when you got somebody in here that don't have a pass or re pass that's that's trespassing no it's not all you can do this must not be the right number for me to be calling because they never answer the phone like that hey what apartment are you in it's okay I'm getting you fired tomorrow what apartment are you in that doesn't matter it does matter no it doesn't do you have room or not doesn't matter for my it doesn't matter I don't have to show you my apartment nothing you're not helping this situation or nothing he's using profanity and cussing out I live here for 6 years I'm 24 years old he looking at someone it doesn't matter it does not matter my door is kicked in I have poof so when if y'all don't want to do anything now it's okay when when it come daylight and Thursday and today when when the people come in office and the property managers come in office he won't be here he going to be already gone but guess who who house he at he stop walking over there don't tell me I live here I don't care I don't care you don't care I do okay talking about as we can see now she's starting to be really fussy over this maybe she's slowly realizing that she's in a bad spot and is being defensive not only does she not know how things work but she's also actively making this whole thing worse whenever you try to make things worse for the cops it's not going to pan out well for you and then the shouting session commences you want to figure it out and you still won't know he trespassing he don't have no visit to pass I live here six years you're not proving me that you live here I care I can't prove CU you steud up stop walking there stop walking there what what are you talking he call me and everything but y'all want to listen to him he's smoking in the hallway and everything but y want to listen to him it's okay I'm calling your CEO hold on now is she trying to call the CEO this is pure gold but there's a lot to unpack here with the shouting continuing in the early morning hours one of the neighbors goes to their window and informs the officer that she in fact does live there meanwhile another cop at the scene tries to patiently talk her down and settle the situation all while the woman's former partner is in the building's hallway so what what do you want from us what do you want us to do yeah okay that's fine that's fine that's fine okay you don't know nothing about you don't need our help so at the end of the day you can't help me I'm the one I call bye you don't need our help at the end of the day whoever you at they getting exported they won't be living there no more and all I'm trying too at the moment she's causing a disturbance but there are also a few other potential issues at play including a false 911 call things are soon going to get a little more heated up once this situation moves into the building the cops are now in the hallway and are D is back inside and once again she's acting like a law expert a lawsuit we got his name and we got everything so anything that happens to me got it all on camera y I'm turn my bra down you to me tell me what's going on let him leave he's trespassing I'm press Char you know list I live my lease is here I'm going to house once he leave I'm going and show be I a show nothing y want y want to listen to me I call for y CL we talking to the wrong person he don't live here the argument inside the building continues for a while in addition to refusing to reveal her identity at the moment the woman makes a few more accusations even adding that the man's possessing guns in a home with kids but while cops are trying to find more information from other residents in the building arante jumps right in for another round and gets herself in trouble the cops now have to take action don't touch me don't touch me not touch me do not touch me don't touch me don't touch me touch me stop touching me don't touch don't touch don't touch open y'all recording at the open me me i n don't touch okay put your hands I put my back I put my back oh feel me put your hand your why you doing that to my arm put your hand down your back no I'm not put your hand be on your back now they breaking now no now no y don't have no reason y don't have no reason what's the problem no she clearly isn't cooperating but Behavior like this isn't unusual for the cops however her next move will escalate the situation and make things more physical since the cop's arm is near her face AR say attempts to bite the officer get off of me don't have to use physical Force get off me they stop moving they get off of me you bite me I swear to God yeah kill me I'm calling for yall help and y'all can't help Noe St this [ __ ] don't do it again I will and that right there is a case of assault on a police officer from the very start things weren't looking good for arante but if she only cooperated at least a little bit things wouldn't get to this point unfortunately it's already pointless to reason with her so it's off to jail although it wasn't clear in the video footage the cop claimed that she managed to bite him she bit me yeah she me dog leave me alone I was I was mind myit I called for y help yall listen to another PR that's wrong that's really wrong I'm asking for your help he got a gun in there he for che when you're acting the way you are I was going to go home no you weren't I was I Live Well I don't know why what's the cause she can play dumb as much as she wants but her crimes are as clear as day now that she's handcuffed there's nothing left for her to do but cry and complain obviously she's changed her tune now and will literally say that she didn't mean to bite the officer it's like she never really left kindergarten a female officer now comes in to assist with the arrest we'll now see the situation from her angle can you leave she's biting so I didn't mean to okay let's go that's not right come on you're going to go with me in my car no we're going to go in my car tell me to C we're going to go right tell me to call come on I we'll talk I don't want that's not right I'll talk to you me when I'm not fa okay well we got talk to you over there okay no Since the situation got to this point the sheriff also comes in to check up on them now we're switching to his camera as the cops are moving arante to the car she'll once again throw a tantrum and do her best to make their jobs more difficult no go on please are you the sherff please it's not right no don't do that you the the for yeah I'm okay I have the right to know where I'm arrested I told you no I'm not no I'm not no I'm not no I'm not look you do stand up stand up stand up I am no you're not you're you're dragging your feet I'm not y'all yall not letting me know why I'm arrested oh y why you arresting me my apartment is alive they're going to secure right now they're going to get your Sho too okay not I'm not doing come on no I'm not come on no I'm not knock it off knock it off knock it off stop you're not telling me why I'm arrested listen for a second no no you did her with some more struggle the cops managed to get her inside the car however her kindergarten Antics don't in there and she'll continue to act up and through Tantrums as we're wrapping this up let's just see this brief clip from the car where arante Contin continues with her act ma'am stop doing that you're hurting yourself oh well these these C from too P okay well we tried to fix them for you and you weren't working okay well we're almost there okay we're going to fix them for you stop pulling your arms you're just going to hurt yourself pulling her out of the car was also a challenge as she continued with the same act in the end arante was charged with disorderly conduct on a police officer and resisting arrest judging by her behavior we're not sure if she really learned her lesson well at least we hope that the residents in that building can get some sleep while she's in jail our next story takes us to the beginning of January 2023 an officer arrives at a location he's familiar with a woman living at the residence called the authorities claiming that her boyfriend is refusing to leave although the cop knows both of them from some previous calls this time around it's going to end a little differently he arrives at the residence and he meets the man who allegedly refused to leave she get into an argument she's arguing I'm not doing anything no listen to no not yet not yet is it going to probably yeah not on my behalf so don't be assuming not assuming anything I'm just asking questions let me get your information just do me a favor you could go over there I'll go talk to you right now okay can down here in my house okay that Mr you want to come on here although things at the scene seem to be calm for now the man told the cop that a physical altercation was imminent this should be taken seriously so the officer needs to sort things out with both parties separately however from the very start the woman immediately starts causing trouble Watch What Happens Next as they all step outside the residence come on you want to come over here I'm going to tell you you know what don't touch me don't come up on me now I was coming up on you but I have every right to I have every right to record you don't I have recording right now but look I'm telling you right now it's right here it's all recording so I'm going to let you know right now okay so I'm going to talk to him over here I don't need you following us because if you come at us again I'm going to arrest you not coming at you I'm going to arrest you for obstru obstructing OB obstructing um I have a First Amendment right to be wherever the hell I want to okay well I investigating my property okay your property is over here it's not over here First Amendment right you're going to end jail if you you can take me to jail if you want you're going to you with a lwuit okay that's fine you're going to come up with a law you're going to come up with a lwuit trust me trust me please don't argue all right what a lovely start to the conversation although trying to act all knowledgeable about the Constitution the woman's not doing herself any favors and as things progress she just keeps escalating the situation remember she was the one who called the cops but but now she's acting like this don't come behind me again I'm not going to tell you again okay all right well she gets her phone I got you did she hit you at any point David did she try to she pushed me that's pushed you what Wasing about with you she's intoxicated she turns into ja and hide when that happens so that's basically what's going on yeah she was she getting mad at you about I don't remember now but it's it's more traumatizing to to go through to have any you know idea what you know and now the woman comes back again and interferes this time she brings her phone with her and brings up her supposed First Amendment rights again who would have thought there were so many law experts in this world My First Amendment rights pleas put his hands on me please okay please don't do that I'm leaving this you're going to leave right now yeah no I'm recording this good yeah but nothing else physical between it's best thing to do right now it's for need to she's really trying to make this more difficult than it should be isn't she but when you keep interfering with the officer while he's doing his investigation you're bound to get yourself in trouble since she was acting like this it was time for the good old handcuffs to do their work just letting everyone know you're live what's your name my name is um I don't have to tell you I don't answer questions yeah you do I don't answer questions ma'am I'm not going to I don't answer question with you okay I don't answer questions right now you do because I what is your name I don't answer questions you don't answer questions I'm going to ask you again I don't answer questions okay right now what I need you to do is put your hands behind your back David behind your back he's TR don't David he's trying to arrest me he's trying to arrest me David David just stay over there David he's trying to arrest me don't move I don't answer the question help help help help help help help don't move stop stop stop dude why are you arresting her all she wanted to do was record a live stream for her social media following but seriously why do you call the cops and then refuse to cooperate as the situation progresses the woman will keep resisting arrest ultimately this will only make things worse for her another officer now comes in to assist with the arrest pleasee please stop please stop give me your other hand can I I I will I will I will I will give it to me I will I will honey I will but don't don't you're breaking my you're breaking my shoulder you're hurting my shoulder he's hurting my shoulder 103 for 96 you okaying my shoulder I'm stopping I'm stopping let me let me let me get up got to after the struggle the woman who finally revealed that her name is Lindsay is now being apologetic David her partner is informed by the officer that she'll be going to jail for resisting arrest and battery on a police officer because she kicked him twice after cooperating for a brief moment and sharing her information with the police Lindsay will soon start off another episode yeah know before it wasn't hurting but it's hurting now um my my left side of my face is um going numb and it's hurting bad okay the last side of my nose okay well that's why the fire department came to check up on you they it was it wasn't hurting then um when they came but it's hurting now I don't see anything on your face right now or anything that on my nose okay let this officer finish his paperwork and he'll let you know in a bit okay I can see you with my flashlight I just don't see anything that's yeah I okay yeah you're okay am I left side on my nose yes ma'am you're okay there's nothing on your face or obstructing your face okay yes I can see from here you're good it's okay my my nose yes ma'am I'm looking at your nose let this officer finish this paperwork and he'll notify you're hearing a bit okay and then we'll get you some because the fire department already came okay we'll get you some here in a bit okay let this officer finish his papk now we can't say for sure whether or not this is an act to seek compassion in this situation whatever the case may be the officers can't be too careful around her so she's going to have to wait however while talking to the officer the woman now claims that she's dehydrated and that she needs her medication after a while she seems to go through a panic attack I need my anxiety medication okay hang tight we'll get you somewhere they can give you we're not Medics anet we're not Medics we can't give you anything let him just give me my anxiety Med let him get let him get me my [Music] anxiety you need to breathe you need to take a breath you okay you should take a breath let him give me my anxiety medication please how you doing sir so unfortunately Brother since we're not pharmacist or Medics we can't allow you to give her or us give her anything cuz she's in custody right okay okay that makes sense we'll get her to to a Detention Center where she's going to receive she needs to go to the hospital she does yeah and at the fac at Detention Center they offer at the moment the officers can't do anything but wait for her to finish venting there's also the danger that she may hurt herself with all this in mind as the officer said it's Detention Center time for this lady but as the cops are next to the patrol car it now seems that the woman is fainted I think she passed out dude you all right M Lindsay M Lindsay I feel like they're going to deny her at the DC if she keeps acting up you guys want to head up to the memorial just so we can get that yeah hey Lindsay Lindsay Lindsay I need you to take some breaths for me okay Lindsay I need you to relax and try and breathe Lindsay Lindsay sit up and breathe for me okay [Music] she was yeah did she pass out is this an act again we don't want to draw any conclusions the cops need to act and be careful both for her safety and theirs whatever the case may be after she fell out they're now escorting her to another vehicle and she'll be taken to the hospital okay come on here we're going to transport you to the hospital I you're okay take you to the hospital take a seat what your head ready we're going to help you ready yeah you grab from so I can get you up okay you oh oh oh my hands are up sit up and it's back to the screaming again it wasn't that unexpected as she'll call some more problems along the way but enough was enough now that she's been taken to the hospital it's time for some more drastic measures when handcuffs Aren't Enough they'll have to employ other means to subdue [Music] her me not comfortable the middle why are you hurting me what are you guys doing to me they going to be put in the wrap that's fine I can't breathe I can't breathe keep falling I can't breathe keep falling I know I can't breathe okay we're trying to help you as much as you can but you're not helping yourself I I I'm sorry I can't breathe someone nurse nurse someone record this record nurse nurse some nurse record this please nurse stop nurse record this please it's too late to yell for help now she's already proven to be pretty Cy and the cops have to carry her to jail now let's take one final glance at that part goes down I can walk I can walk you didn't want to walk earlier I know but I'm saying I can walk now that's unfortunate I know I'm trying to cooperate now you guys I'm trying to you're hurting me ah I can walk wait oh oh oh oh my ankle I was just trying to tell him like my shoulders my shoulders my shoulders okay okay you guys you can let me go by now yeah Tough Luck Lindsay you only have yourself to blame for ending up here a little cooperation would have spared you from all this and the most ironic part she was the one that called the cops but she ended up being the one who got locked up but compared to the previous case maybe she learned her lesson eventually she was charged with resisting arrest and battery on a police officer this one is a cautionary tale about the dangers of drug use back in August 2022 the police were called to a Suburban House in Georgia after reports of a domestic dispute when the cops arrived a woman named Sher little told them that she wanted her partner a 40-year-old man named Larry Patterson thrown out of the home both parties were injured so it was clear they'd gotten into a physical fight watch as the s try to make sense of the situation while talking to Sherry I'm not whatever any I say but that's some nicely be nice to me he just you know just on and on and and ask nice to leave I know I'm scared of him you know can can I stop your real quick yeah what happened to your face let's be 100% honest come on I don't want to press charges but he I get that he did and when did he do it um not yesterday the day before but um I that means I didn't want like I was just like okay from the very start it's pretty clear that something's a little off here apart from the bruising there's the obvious slurred speech nonetheless the cops are still very patient and ask her more questions about what happened getting like just the argument and he just just thinks I'm sleeping around head I'm not he was call me I said please don't call me that I'm not like that i' asked leave because it's went to this level and and I know if you don't leave it's going to be more if not one of us killed like you know I mean I don't know right what what's your name I'm sorry about it what what's your name I'm sorry okay I'm officer will from son Police Department this is Officer uh him from the son Police Department the the thing is is y'all both staying here you'd have to go down to traces and get him evicted the other option I mean the other I'm scared well you know what what you know what you know how many how many times can you how many times can you get beat up on a daily and stuff like that when when when you well you're saying you don't want to press charges and stuff like although it's clear that something went down the story isn't completely adding up on the other hand she might just be really scared of the man and that can explain her current reaction moving forward the cops get a few more bits and pieces of information from the woman however once she shares all that he tells her directly how things work we can't make him leave you know that you know that way but but but no no no assaulting is is is uh is something you know we don't really we don't really have to go off you saying you don't want to press charges in state of Georgia there's a Family Violence act you know I knew that you know so so what tell me this was two days ago yesterday or what not yesterday day before you know so I mean look at your face sweetheart you know what I'm saying you know look at you look at your face you know like and he's got some my money give it to me like just just you know you you got bruises all over your face your lips busted yeah he said that so what made you not want to call 911 I'm scared of they come back here you know I guess he did go to jail you know I'm scared of him like he's got it looks like he got maybe got a drinking problem yes whatever may be the case it's clear that Sherry is in potential Danger from Larry going off on her again meanwhile Larry's still on the property in a shed just near the home before the cops go over and chat with him they make it clear why he's going to get arrested but here's the interesting part things aren't all that simple and she reveals a few details that also put her in a bad light I'm going to get you a pamphlet for a t let me see your face man he's going to go with me for the FAA what's that Family Violence act B you get charg with battery f and they'll give him stipulations to the judge to stay away from you you hear me then we're going to give you a TPO for him so you can call if he comes around you that that don't mean you call him to come over here no no yes but if he comes around you yes he gets charged but he'll have stipulations to the judge too so you didn't put your hands on him or anything like that right I defending myself but like he's got like you see like I didn't know if it was like a m yeah he he's got a scratch on his face yeah but like look I mean he's a man you know well her reactions to the cops questions were interesting why didn't she mention this earlier be that as it may the two officers now head over to Larry to get his side of the story well before they arrest him that is and the guy's just sitting there living his best life what's your name on shes huh on shores Shores I said on name Matt Wilson from the sunville police department nice to meet you brother go ahead and explain me what happened to our face explain what happened mine I'm getting to that yeah godam she want my man it looks like y'all both got into it well God she she's want to go do look we're not hitting GDs with me and stuff we're talk we're being respectful like men ain't we yes sir no let's calm down just a little bit I a even make well you're you're getting a little too rowdy right there let's let's talk like men yes sir all right off topic but let's just take a moment to appreciate this man's careless attitude despite his situation however right from the very start of their encounter we can see that Larry's acting not so respectful after putting him in his place the cop now asks direct questions you explain to me what happened what happened was she was going to run off and do some dope mhm I said baby don't go do no dop would you I said baby please don't go do no dop she got the anger and acne and this and that and so on and so forth and I said baby don't go do no dope would you please don't go to go cuz she she at it I'm not at it and I like honey please don't with you going further into it the man then details how the fight between them broke out according to his accounts she was the one who attacked him first pay close attention to how Larry's tone changed compared to the beginning of the conversation and he's got a pretty wild version of the events last thing I know she Dr up on me she pretty big old gal you know what I mean it started licking on me a little bit you know and I said honey don't I said why God she bit me and bust her lip biting me you know I you said tooth Mark in her she said you hit me I said no I didn't honey I said you bit me she bit me to three times right there and that's all defense I godamn honey and and she she's whooping on me pretty good and I would I didn't want to stand up and just fight her toe to toe like a man so I just let her have it and that's that's all I know I saw G that is a pretty wild story isn't it at this point the cops are letting the man fall into his own trap after his not so convincing version of events officer Wilson asked the obvious question okay how the bus a LIF and the bruises all over her get on her face The Bu Liv where she beat me okay about the bruises well God I was godamn you said you said you you didn't hit her you said no I never hit her I would never hit her well what about the bruises on her face well God she attacking me so she just got bruises on her face from attacking you the hell out of me I I mean I get that I'm not defending that I'm just saying about the bruises on her face how do we get bruises on I don't know I she got a br smoking do but but she's scratched all over me probably smoking dope just scratched all over me man oh man you got to Laugh to Keep from Crying sometimes this is the funniest thing ever we really are at a bit of a loss for words on this but officer Wilson has heard enough it's time to take action watch closely as the tension Rises what we going to [Music] do all right stand stand up stand up you're going to jail come on m going to jail you're going to jail both of y'all are going to jail for battery f both of us yes yes you are why am I going do because you're fighting stand up no we were I said stand up I'm tell here right now you ain't going to tell me yes I am I'm giving you commands to stand up sir sir I have I giving you commands I'm asking you to get up I've committed nothing I'm asking you to get up I'm I'm telling you now you don't get up Sir get up I've committed nothing I'm giving you commands to get up you're going to get instruction charge if you don't get up I'm get telling you to get up been no CR Shir did he really think that the story and this excuse were going to work although the taser was out officer Wilson holsters it and grabs him with his own hands officer he also assists him stand up stand up stand up stand up because you're resisting You Get Up Stand Up you want to get taste get up I don't want to get nothing stand up I'm giving you commands to stand up why am I because you're being place under arrest both you stop stop tensing up you're going to be I going to jail stand up for battery FAA stand up Family Violence stand up now no don't worry about cing me I ain't going to do nothing yes you are stand I said stand up godamn I go you got fight me stop get on the ground why are you get on the ground where you get on the ground stop resisting well that was a fun little conversation but the officers have handled it pretty well in this whole mess it seems that Wilson's camera's Fallen to the ground although it's still recording after handling Larry the cops now go over to deal with Sherry although there's not nearly as much struggle with her she still tries to find excuses all right you're going need come to for what he's got marks too so both going to be charging battery on top of me well he really was he was choking me several times well he has different story but all we know is both y'all have Mar well you're going to have to come too for battery FPA see I didn't even do that he's he's he's mean like he's several times he several different ins was choking me slam me on the ground choking me the slamming and choking wasn't part of her narrative earlier so yeah she's definitely trying really hard to find excuses at this point well Sherry tough luck despite your claims that he's lying you're still going to jail officer heem then explains the situation to her you know this is his story that it came from you you started it he has a bite mark where you bit him I know but he was on top of me but we can't I'm we can't prove that it was self-defense cuz y' both have different stories but y'all both have bruising but he's he's he's strong I understand but you're going to have to come with me all right you got anything on you no all right I'm going to Cuff you to the front I'm not going to Cuff you to the back then when we get get some shoes on yeah yeah you can get some shoes on what do you like I ain't that like you see that he's vient while it's easy to see that Larry has some serious anger issues that doesn't excuse her behavior in any way the cops have made up their minds and she's got to go we got to go we got to go here put your hands up front like that some shoes no ma'am you can wear those in the ja hey he's mean like I I'm not saying that he's not but we got he's lying about everything you okay in there please sir like I I mean you see what he's done to me yeah I'm good he's lying about everything well we have the only evidence we have both have to be charged and the judge will decide from there but we have bruing on both y'all I I I have mental problems like not like crazy like but like I'm slow in other words what I'm saying I got you I just can't well you'll be I have not done nothing okay you're not going to stay in there but you got to go and at least get your your charges stay in there yeah you're not going to stay in jail but you got to go and get like you got to go down there they we got to give you your charges they got to book you and then you can get released the officer is very patient with Sherry and explains that at this point it's difficult to confirm her story eventually she was taken to jail where she was processed for said charges but as we can see neither her nor Larry's versions of the story really checked out both were caught line and were yet to see whether they actually learned their lessons and that's a wrap we hope these abusive girlfriends have taught us what 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