I know you all have kids together but if y'all are unhappy you know what I mean and don't and and I have nowhere to go I have no friends in the family that's the issue you're isolated me for four years I have no one my family wants nothing to do with me because a hammer because of all the drug problems it's because of him they don't like him they don't like the way he treats me because I I mean I look obviously I look you up right as soon as soon as we talk to you as soon as we talk to him we look both of you up and I can see you have a pretty extensive history with some drug issues all I've ever done is the pot so how how is it that if you've only done pot you've had because his brother drugged us one time he put some stuff in a blunt and I didn't know