Um Would you like to speak to anyone from the domestic violence response team? >> No. >> Okay. Just uh I think there may be a victim notification on the court order. Just put your That's okay. And then one more signature right here. Right there. You were offered a restraining order. Your rights have been read to you and the domestic violence team. Get on this. All right, so we do have a warrant for her arrest. She is going to be lodged into the Ocean County Jail upon her arrest. Once she gets released from the jail, >> You got a warrant for me? >> No, not yet. >> No, we were only we were waiting to talk to you. >> Okay. >> That was just a minute ago. >> Um but let me let me just explain this before we go further. She will be placed under arrest upon our interaction with her. All right, hopefully we could uh do that tonight. Um Once she gets released from jail, you're going to get notified from this called Vine system, all right? >> Okay. >> If they ask you for a PIN, it's right there. >> What about my phone though? Like >> What? We're we're we're working on that. All right? So, like I said, hopefully we could uh solve this all tonight. Um if they ask you for a PIN, it's right here, 1527. It's on this >> when they call me to >> Yep. >> to notify >> Yeah, if they ask you for a PIN, it's going to be right there. All right, so you don't have response team this is going to be your copy of the of the temporary restraining order. All right. Um she's not going to be allowed to contact you in any way, shape, or form, whether it's telephone, text message, email, All right, Facebook, or or third party. Okay. All right. Um if that does happen, you could call and charges will be filed. All right. Now, have have you made any contact with her since >> Yeah, I tried calling and she never responded. >> No text messages, nothing while you were in the hospital? >> I did. I mean, just to find out about my son. >> Right, but you're saying my point is she never responded. >> No. No. She uh took the we were sharing location. She stopped that. >> Okay. Well, the car is at the residence. >> She's got to be there. >> All right. Um you only have one car, right? It's the uh >> The Kia. >> The Kia. >> Yeah, Sportage, yeah. >> Brown or champagne color? >> Brown. >> Yeah, it's brown. >> All right. Yeah, the car's still there. I just drove drove by and looked while we were here. So uh >> Do you do you have a house key with you? >> I don't have it with me. >> No. >> Do you know anyone anyone else that might have the key to get in? >> No. >> No other way? >> She's she's she's in there, man. I know she's never going to open. >> Yeah, that's that's kind of where the problem that we're having now is you know, do you think you could call her and be like, "Hey, listen, I need to come back in." >> I'll try calling her. >> All right, cuz you know, we don't we don't want to have to break the door in >> Me neither. >> and scare her son >> That's where I live, too. >> Yeah, yeah, we don't want to put and that's that's more damage on you. You got to do that to have repairs. Now, we're just trying to think of a a reasonable way cuz you know >> Of course, and I don't want I mean, commotion in the neighborhood where I live is embarrassing. >> Right. Sure. But regardless, she's there's a warrant out for her arrest. She will be she will be picked up. And actually you you have the judge granted temporary custody of your son to you. >> Well, if if she gets arrested, when do I get to my son? >> Well, hopefully right >> child protective whatever services are going to get him and then they're going to call me or >> No, no, you would you would just take custody of him right now. >> But even if it doesn't happen tonight, we will make the proper arrangements for you to um >> But yes, child protective services was called. That's just that's a mandatory phone call we have to make during domestic violence instances. So they have opened up an investigation. >> No, this is my fear now. The car is under my name. That's my vehicle. >> Right. >> She's done it before. The police goes over there and asks for the keys. She says she cannot find them. They're out of spitefulness. Then why am I going to have a vehicle? I'm not going to have access to my home just because she I know what's going to happen. She's not going to answer the door. And if you guys get in touch with her, she's not going to tell you where the keys are. Then I'm stranded. >> Right. >> And and that's That's beyond beyond anybody's control. I'm just like >> The best case scenario with that is if we catch her driving. That would be the best case scenario with that. >> So let's let's say we go over there now, which is what we're going to we're going to do. Let's say she doesn't answer. You know >> Can I climb through the window? Is that going to be >> You can. No, it's your residence. You can you can climb through the window. >> Is there a window that's usually unlocked? >> Yeah. >> And that's accessible from the porch? >> I have to pretty much climb on the thing. >> Which which window is that? Is that a can be a room that she's going to be in? >> Yeah. Again, I don't want to make a commotion. >> Right. It's embarrassing. >> Sure. I I would I would imagine she's not going to go quietly. I'm sure she's going to be doing some shouting. So if we had to take her into custody, you know, I guess my point is is is there a way that we can try to go over there now and then see if we can get in there. I guess my point is if we can't make contact with her and we can't make take her into custody tonight, would you go to your parents' house? I mean, I don't know what would your plan be until we can get her in custody? Without breaking your door in. >> I'll have to go to Lakewood. >> Okay, I mean, we can give you a ride there if that's the case. So we're just we want to do this as reasonably as possible. >> Of course, yeah. >> And you know, not to I mean, your your life's going to be upset regardless, but to All right, so that that'll that'll be our plan. Then we'll try to make contact with her now and and do this now. >> You want to try and >> And if we can't, we'll we'll give you a lift over for the night and I guess that regardless, she's a wanted person. There's a warrant for her arrest. >> Yeah, I could try to go over there. >> Try it. >> I'll knock on the door maybe. Make sure that they're awake, okay? This is our mobile home. >> You have any questions with this restraining order? This is a contact number for the Ocean County Courthouse. >> There's a lot of information there. >> And the date for this is scheduled for >> February 4th. >> February 4th. And the final uh restraining >> Well, it would be a hearing here. Hearing for this order to move forward. >> And uh the court date for the criminal case was there >> I I don't have the >> And you'll Yeah, you'll get notified of that. >> I guess when that happens, I'll have to be there. >> For what? For for the criminal case or for the restraining order? >> For the criminal case. >> I mean, not necessarily. Like if show up they might just dismiss it. But that's up to >> No, no, I don't want to follow through with it because >> Yes, so this [ __ ] got to end. >> Yeah, yeah, so >> This [ __ ] got to stop, man. >> You would have to speak with the prosecutor. >> Okay. >> They would know what to do. >> They would know what to do. >> All right. All right. >> I'm afraid you're going to have to hold the keys and I'm This is It's a lot. >> We We understand it's a lot for you to have to handle. >> Yeah, we We'll park up at the end of the street. Yeah? >> Yeah, that's it. >> 130 at Central. 30. My cell phone 144 42 16 13 on Central. 30 warrants are >> What do you see tonight? It was probably there >> It was yes. Yeah, like I said it was kind of parked closer than where you where it's usually parked. All right, let's uh let's see what um Do you only have one key to the car? >> Yes. >> Want to bring them out or leave them in there for a minute? >> bring them out. Can I leave my personal belongings here? >> Yeah, sure. Okay. >> You need to turn them >> Huh? >> Full perimeter, man. >> I mean, you know, we have to take people into custody. We're not We're not hurting people on purpose. You know, if she fights, we have to just hold her arms back. Are there any weapons in the house? >> No. >> I think the window's locked. >> Okay. >> I think she's coming. Get her out of >> Take me for what? What are you talking How do you feel >> It's a light. >> And wake me up in the middle of the night >> You know why? Can you get dressed, please? >> Why? >> I'm Sergeant Cosgrove Seaside Police Department. I'm recording you on my body cam, okay? Audio and video. >> What am I >> Uh you're you're wanted for aggravated assault for your arrest. >> Well, what did I do? >> Striking him with the vehicle. >> When did I strike him with a vehicle? >> 8:00 p.m. 8:00 p.m. tonight. >> With what? >> Your vehicle. >> I brought him to the hospital. He went to the bar and complained that he was hurt. I brought him to the hospital and I went home with my son. So, how am I going to jail? Where is the proof that I struck him with a car? >> As a domestic violence victim, which he is, stated that you struck him with the vehicle. >> As a domestic violence victim? >> Correct. >> I have domestic violence with him where I've pressed charges, where I could put a restraining order on him from cases that I've had in the past. I have called a thousand times to you guys over and over at the Open and Seaside Police Department. >> I didn't say that. >> I have never been aggressive towards him. So, how do I have a police Where's the proof that I get this accusation? >> So, the situation is under under domestic violence victims' rights in New Jersey, okay? There's very little burden of proof. So, we have to take every any and all complaints seriously and the judge issued us to issue this arrest warrant and please put some clothes on. You're going to be taken into custody. >> But, how do I get booked for something I haven't done? >> You have to go to court and prove your side of the story. >> So, I have to get charged, booked, and I have to go there and then and then what? Why is he coming to my house if he's so-called out of control, got hit by a car? Why would you come back here? Why would you go here? >> he he resides here. He wanted to come back here. >> You reside here? You want to come back here? So, >> Yeah, you're not talking to him right now. >> Hold on. Hold on. hold on. I'm just talking to you. This is my house. My name, my son, my house. Okay? You guys are coming in my house at I don't even know what time it is. I got him banging on the door, on the window, sounding like a thief at 2:00 in the morning. >> We We were here at 8:00. You didn't want to speak to us then. We gave you time to speak to >> Is that fine? I got a 10-month-old. I don't even know what you're talking about. You guys are going to take me there. I'm coming back home. This is my house. Like, what what is what is going on here realistically? >> Realistically, you are being placed under arrest. You're going to be lodged in the Ocean County Jail. The judge issued him a temporary restraining order. >> How? >> Again, you're going to have to speak to the judge about that when you go to court. >> makes sense to you that if I made a heinous crime around like against him, he's going to come back home? >> Again, he resides here as well, correct? >> He also resides at his mother's house. You If if Wait, it just It just doesn't It's not real. You are out of your mind. >> I'm tired of this. >> This one tired of it? Got an immigration custody thing. I will talk to the court. I will talk to the judge. Ocean County Jail for what? This is what I'm saying. You keep like how do you walk into someone's house and say, "You're going to jail." No, I want to speak to the judge. You're literally walking in my house. I didn't let you in my house. That's one. Two. >> We have We have an arrest warrant. >> accused though? How do you get accused by something like that? How do I go to sleep last night with my son, drop somebody off at the hospital after they've been at the bar all day? How do I get accused of like how does that happen? >> That's That's the way domestic violence works in the state of New Jersey. >> But there's domestic violence charges with me. He's the Oh my god. Nothing happened. Am I Am I sitting here Like, what are you talking about? I can't sit here and just be like, "Oh, yeah. Yeah, arrest." Wow. >> Listen, if you don't put some clothes on, that's how That's how you're going to county jail. >> to me how I'm going to jail. >> Because the judge gave gave us the power to place you under arrest based on his statements. >> On his statements? By words? >> Correct. >> By words? By words? >> Right. >> There's no proof. >> Um >> Like I'm not saying that, but how do you like How do you just come to my house and do like I don't understand >> Under under domestic violence it protects the victims and their possible injuries. >> Under domestic violence and their possible He literally This is left over from him choking me 2 days ago. >> You called Did you call the police? >> I got pictures. I got proof. I got videos. >> You can call them and you can file your own charges, but >> Yes, then put them down in my charges right now AND PUT HIM TOO. Like this is what I'm saying. I have a past history of domestic violence with him where I'm sitting here as an abuser. I've almost had to go to the Harbor House because of him. And you're walking in my house because he walked in and said that I ran him over. If I ran him over, why would you like I don't even understand. He's not mentally right right now. He's got immigration cases next month and literally he's literally trying Whatever I told them when he went there I said, "Go get mentally evaluated in that hole." And I left him there. I told them people I'm like, "He needs to get checked out. I don't know what he needs." I left him there and I left. I didn't I left him there. >> What what happened what What happened in Did you Did anything happen with the car tonight when you guys came back driving around? >> Nothing. I have a breathalyzer in my car, okay? So I can't be drinking and driving. I have a baby in the car. I don't Nothing. What is going to happen? Like I don't I can't like I don't know how you're just like walking in my house like, "Hey, here." How am I supposed to react to that? I don't even >> I I I understand how you're reacting cuz it's it's very you weren't expecting it, but under this under the state law, this is how this has to go. >> So, counter my state law? >> I can't. That's He's He's the current victim. It doesn't work that way. >> Victim of what? >> He said that you hit him with the car. He was at the hospital. He made a report there. He spoke to the judge. The judge granted all this. You're going to have to go >> has And he has marks of getting hit by a car? >> Again, he has a complaint of pain and has and has injuries according to the hospital. But again, you're you're you're going to have to have your day in court to to say your side of the story. This is This is just how it goes. >> How am I sitting on in the thing? >> What do you mean? >> Like how My mouth is so dry. I have Could you give me a water? >> Yeah. Do you have a Right there on the floor there. >> It's not the first time that this has happened in my lifetime where some [ __ ] idiot walked in my house. Thank you. And I'm supposed to leave the baby with him. >> Kirk, the judge granted him custody of your son. >> The custody of my son? >> Temporary custody >> Custody of my son? >> Yeah. >> No, call the judge right now. >> We're not doing that. >> How do you sit there and Well, my >> Get ready and go. >> Get get >> Yo. Don't don't don't interject. Don't interject. >> Get him out of my house. >> He He He resides here as well. >> here? >> a driver's license. I don't >> It's my lease. It's my house. >> have a shirt to put on? >> IT'S MY HOUSE. >> GET YOUR ass Get your Get what you need a wallet and ID >> How long am I going to be there? I have my period. I have my son. He's How is he going to be there? >> The judge granted him temporary >> caretaker of my son. >> At this point it doesn't matter. The judge granted him temporary custody. >> Temporary custody for what? So, I can't see my son? >> Well, until you can of until you go through the court system, no, you can't. >> Court system until I get This is my house. I'm coming back here. >> You're going to Ocean County Jail tonight. >> Okay, then what When I get out of Ocean County Jail, where do you think I'm coming? This is my house. >> The judge said you can't come back here until that's until at least you're going to have a court date on the February 4th. >> A court date on February 4th. So, you are locking me up on accusations of him till February 4th because a man walked in here office and said >> You might get out of the county way before that, but that's when your hearing is for the for the restraining order. >> How How do you guys have a man who walks in I'm having a really hard time processing this at all. That a man walked in and said he gets hit by a car and you guys just walk in my house like, "Hey, we're taking you." And now he has custody of your child. And I've been a domestic violence victim with him. Like, do you guys do like any type of like open his case, his files, look at his history? Like, this is not This is not like how how I've never been a violent person. >> Again, the state of New Jersey doesn't look at it that way. They take all victims as >> Can you call my mother? Like, I don't understand. >> now you need to put a shirt on, get what you need to get. You We'll let you make a phone call at the police station. But, you're you have to come with us. >> No. I'm going to deport his ass. This is [ __ ] crazy. I am going to put that restraining order myself that I have on him. >> Do you want to grab your items and put it in the back of my car? >> Yeah, you You can go ahead grab them. >> 5 6 7 13 14 15 missed calls and one missed call from the Seaside Police Department. >> I left I left you a message something like 8:30 9:00. >> But my whole thing is how do you not come and get two sides of the story? >> I tried. We knocked. That's on video. I came in knocking on your door and then I and then I called. >> you do that? Like I don't understand. >> After this warrant is issued, there's I don't need another side of the story now. And there was a light on when we got in here and then it was off when we left. >> I have a dog. Did the dog bark? >> He knew we were here. >> No, did the dog bark? I have a dog. I have a dog. If I heard the knock, I I have a dog. >> All right. Quick quick quick can we need you to put a shirt on, please? >> I have to change my pad. >> Whatever you have Whatever you have to do. Show me your license, please. >> Do you guys have to read it? >> Yeah, I I need to see it. It's on the It's on the paperwork. I don't need to see it. After I left the bathroom. Yeah, sure. What can you put a light on in here? >> Where Where's the light switch? >> It's on the wall on the side here. >> No. How does this go? And her mother tried to get You have custody. >> Found the baby has no formula. He has half a can. >> You don't need money to buy him some? >> You have um Apple Pay and there's 50 bucks left in the bank account. So, I guess you thought of everything. Listen, I don't know what you just did. Enjoy your life and when I come back, you're going to get the [ __ ] out of house. Cuz that's what I must have got last week. You're one dirty illegal. Dirty. Does it matter? No, right? >> That's your preference. >> Doesn't Doesn't matter, right? You keep saying no. I don't know why you keep my open. >> Your sweater is pulled out there. >> Don't be concerned about me, please. Rest in your peace, honey. >> I still love you. You are in >> Can't you guys get me You guys are going to have a real crime in 2 seconds. Y'all going to have a real crime. I need my jacket. >> Uh is it this one here? >> No, no, no. Those are not it. I got a jacket in my car. My green jacket. >> Green jacket? Is it in the master room? >> It's in the car. It's in the car with the keys I got right now. You find the green jacket, you find the keys to the car. Well, there's the keys to the car. I know. I know. I guess I'll I'll turn it in tomorrow. >> You want this one? >> I'm not worried about >> Take your wallet out. >> Don't worry about my wallet. I must have really killed him. >> You want You want your cell phone? You need any other >> I need my cell phone. >> Okay. >> Yeah, that's the only thing I have. I don't know if you noticed it, but I don't even think it starts, to be honest. >> Ma'am, if you're just putting your hands in your bag Yes. >> You sound like a man who broke into the grace. You still recording? >> Yeah, everything is being recorded. >> please. Very concerned. >> Okay. >> Thank you. Oh, and can we have on record that if I come back and something happens to my dog, he did it. >> So, whatever you said is being recorded. >> Oh, she's a cat. Try to think. >> Look at the light over here to the left. I'm sorry? >> We didn't have to figure it out with the That's what I'm talking about. We got to take care of that boy. crazy >> Good? >> Yeah. >> I have a female 41 starting miles to headquarters. 104351 >> 45245 >> Do you have documents that he was intoxicated? >> I'm sorry. >> Do they have documents that he was intoxicated at the hospital? >> Um I don't have any documents of I'm sure they took blood from him, but I don't have access to that. And I'm not sure if that would have been done this quick. >> Do you have the transport officer? >> Yes. You'll just have to go >> to have to go to jail. You want to tell me what I have to expect at this department? >> Um I honestly can't answer that question. >> my like personal like record, right? And stuff like that. Like can I counter sue? >> What do you mean personal record? >> Like you're taking me to jail. >> Like that information type of thing? >> 100%. >> more of a civil >> Huh? >> That's more of a civil. >> That's civil? >> Yeah, between you and him. >> Yeah, but this is going on my record and I didn't do anything wrong. >> Yeah, right. >> Like how do I cuz I obviously this whole my record will be ruined. >> Yeah, I mean it I was just going to ask if you had a lawyer. But uh I can't give you any legal advice. >> No, I'm not legal advice. Just the things that you've seen every day. >> Right. Yeah, um my best advice to you is to consult with a attorney. And uh see what they have to offer. offer you. But yeah, that anything like defamation of character would be a civil dispute. Alien mileage 1043510. That's the judge's determination. Hold on one second. You will have a hearing with the judge. >> You said what day? Today is like what day? That's like 3 weeks from now. >> Well, that's the restraining order hearing. That's That's No. That's on the 4th. But, you're going to have another hearing in front of a judge before that. >> What day? Tomorrow, Monday? >> Tomorrow's Monday. So, it might even be Yeah, it might even be tomorrow. Might be Might be even earlier. Right over here to the left. Just look at that gray Just gray square. Look at this gray square on the wall over here. I'll take a handcuff off. Just put your hand up on the wall, all right? You can step closer. There you go. Nothing in your pockets here? >> Well, I didn't check my jacket this morning. >> Okay. Anything in your other pockets? >> No. >> No. Okay. That's fine. All right. You can just give yourself a number right here. >> Yep. >> All right. Have a seat on the bench. You're comfortable with that jacket on? >> Yeah. That's fine. >> Would you like a glass of water? >> Yes, please.