[ __ ] are you [ __ ] kidding me? You cannot put your [ __ ] hands on me. Are you stupid? >> Hey, turn off. >> Are you [ __ ] stupid? >> What begins as a disturbance near a gas station escalates when a woman strikes an officer during the investigation, turning a simple encounter into an arrest she didn't need to earn. On June 30th, police confronted the suspect at a gas station in Carlsbad after receiving a call from staff about her disorderly behavior. >> Okay. Well, you know I'm going in though, right? >> Huh? >> You know I'm going into jail. Well, I don't know that. Let's go. >> I do know that. >> Well, go over there. Let's go in the back. >> I'll be right there. >> Okay. You're not in charge. Okay. >> Okay. Good. Then you cannot put your hands on me. >> I can't. >> No, you cannot. >> Okay, >> [ __ ] Are you [ __ ] kidding me? You cannot put your hands on me. Are you stupid? >> Hey, turn. >> Are youing stupid? Get a >> Are you stupid? You cannot [ __ ] Stop put your hand on holding. >> You better relax. >> Okay. Hey, [laughter] >> put your hands in the back. Hurry up. PUT HIM IN THE BACK. PUT YOUR HANDS IN THE BACK. Stand up. >> What? Why? [ __ ] >> Get over there, man. [laughter] Get over there. She not right. Don't miss my Get over there. >> You [ __ ] and see if I can help. >> Talk to that guy wearing brown clothes. >> I do have emotions. I do. I have A [ __ ] [screaming] Wake me up. >> Your sandals. >> Please don't don't sandals. >> Sandals, bro. Wake me up, you stupid pot. You dad. [screaming] My arm is [ __ ] bride. >> Stand up so we can search. >> Help me. Help me. Get off my hand. >> Stand up. >> We have to search. >> WE HAVE TO SEARCH. >> OKAY. But are you >> okay? Sandals. Just put him in the >> stand up. >> Are you stupid? >> Stand up. >> Just give him your sandals, bro. Put him on the floor. Put her in the vehicle, please. >> Thank you. >> We're going to sit you inside the vehicle. Okay. >> No, we need >> guys. I did not be no disobedience. Okay. I'm sorry. >> You dad in you, motherucker. >> You unfair. You have to be treat them all different. My caring gun for you guys [ __ ] He wants a picture. Can you guys kill it? >> Yeah, we got it. >> Send this out of the vehicle for me. >> You [ __ ] You dad. >> Something about this. She's my daughter. >> Okay. And then she's sick. Okay. And then she drink >> that's why she took all everything outside. >> That's why I'm trying to tell you don't be >> before that she hit me. Okay. So it doesn't matter. >> Before that she hit me. So it doesn't matter. >> She hit you. >> Yes sir. I'm sorry they they really hit you, but >> I tried to explain what's wrong with you. You know, she's not right. Okay. >> Y'all want to step out for me now? >> You going to be cool? >> Yeah. >> Okay, sounds good. You want to take a seat? Sit down in the wheel wheelchair. >> No. Okay. Seems like fun. Seems like a fun day. Yes, sir. >> You're going to start something. You better not lock yourself in the in the restaurant. >> No. >> Yeah. I have a tampon on right now. I could leave it in the toilet if you want. Can I give you some water? >> You can't wait until you go to jail. >> I've had the same tampon in for hours. I just don't want to stain myself. That's weird. Dude, you know, >> I don't care about that. It's just that you might just lock yourself in there. >> That's like the last thing I want to do, >> man. You just fought me. >> I fought you. >> You did? >> I fought you. >> Yes. >> Oh, yeah. You did? Oh, you chased me. But it's a lot of motion. It's not through you. >> Yeah, that's that's what I'm saying. So, I don't want to go through that again here at the hospital. >> We're not like I could give two and a half like I'll put this in, but I just don't want to have an accident. Does that make sense? >> Mhm. >> I don't even think I can put that in by myself. >> Okay. >> I had the same tampon in for the last 6 hours. I'm pretty sure it's about time to change it. >> I'm not getting into that. Okay. My My only argument is that I don't want to >> like for me to be locked in there giving you drama. >> Yeah. Just like you. Okay. >> Do you understand that it was me who called you guys? It was me. I was the one who called the police. >> Okay. Well, you don't at the end of the day whenever police wants to talk to you, right? Cuz what you did >> is you put your hands on me, that's batterying against people. >> But you did taste me, too, though. >> Oh, yeah. Cuz you're resisting. >> I was resisting. >> Yes, ma'am. >> Okay. And I I when I called, I said, you know what? I had two or three cups of wine >> and I have every right to. >> So, I'm not at my best moment. I had three cups of wine. >> Okay. >> And I said that when I called. >> Well, if >> but I did call and said, "Will you guys come over here?" Wait, you can't [snorts] control your emotions. >> You know, Alexis, just put this pad in my panties. Will you help me stuff this in my panties? >> The nurse is going to come and go with her. Okay. >> Can you please put that in my panties? >> The nurse is going to be right here. Just >> here. I'm sorry. I'm not trying to fight with you. >> But the last thing I want is like, look at my shorts walking around with a >> I'm trying to work with you. >> You're not a female. You know what that's like? >> I'm trying to work with you. >> I'm trying to work with you guys. Like nobody called the cops on me. I called the cops on myself. I'm on parole and I said, "Yes, I drank. Yes, picked me up." >> And there's no issue with that. Okay. The issue >> No, the issue is that nobody will do that. Nobody will call the cops themselves. So, I realize I'm in the wrong and I'm sorry. >> I got I get that. >> Okay. Let's just wait for the nurse and then she's going to help you. Okay. >> You know, honestly, the only thing I want is bad. >> Yes. >> Yeah. She's already on her way. You're afraid that I'm going to lock myself in there. I get that. I did give you a little bit of [ __ ] at the gas station, right? >> Unnecessary. You don't have a warrant. Nothing like that. You don't have a warrant. It was unnecessary, but it was unnecessary. >> Well, it is cuz I was string. >> Ma'am, just >> just do this. >> I don't know. I think I'm good. >> You're good [snorts] now. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Just take a seat cuz I don't want to take you to jail and then not know your side of the story. Okay. You have the right to remain silence. Anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of law. You have the right to talk to the lawyer and have him or her person will be in question at any time to exercise his rights. Okay. Do you want to talk to about the incident? So what happened? I mean before I got there, you know the incident before that like what happened? You told me that you called us, right? And then >> who was that? Your dad. >> Yeah. >> Okay. So Okay. So whenever cuz you saw me pass, right? >> Right. So whenever you saw me pass >> like inside the gas station. >> No. No. Whenever you were walking from Kure to the gas station. >> I didn't see you. >> You didn't see me? Okay. So I passed you. >> You passed me? >> Yes, ma'am. In the car. >> Well, no, I didn't. >> Okay. Yeah. And that's fine. Okay. I'm just explaining you. >> So at that point, your dad was on the phone with dispatch. So dispatch called me in the radio. So I turned. >> So he called and I called. >> Yes. So I turn. you you you ran towards the uh the shell of the gas station, right? So, I get there, that's when I'm trying to make contact with you to see what happened or in what way I could help you, but you started giving attitude >> and I told you, man, come over here and pretty much you fought me, okay? Cuz pulling away and stuff like that, that's resistant, okay? You hit me a couple times, okay? I don't remember how right now. I could review my my body camera for sure. I know that you tried [snorts] to hit me with the closed uh fist. Okay, I saw that. >> So, what was the reason that you called us? Just for me to know what happened. Okay. Before that, cuz I don't, like I said, I don't want to take you to jail just not knowing your story. Okay. I want to know what else happened. >> Oh, that's why I called you guys. >> Okay. So, what happened? >> Uh the same reason why we got we had a disagreement and since I am about to call you. So, so what started the issue? >> The issue is that I drank two cups of wine. >> Two cups of wine. Okay. Then, and where was this at your dad's house? >> Well, today when I was over there, like my boyfriend. >> So, today you were in Jasmine before the [clears throat] >> my older sister from working on the yard cleaning up, cleaning it up. >> The front yard or the backyard? >> The backyard? >> The backyard. Okay. Oh, like set setting it up like for the party. >> Okay. Like tables. >> I was excited and nervous cuz I don't >> And your sister that came down from El Paso. She's >> She's over. No, my twin is >> Oh, your twin. Okay. >> She lives a couple blocks from there. I'm from Rose. >> Oh, okay. >> But my family has a step very well with her. >> I did everything to change everything about me for my drug use. That's my main thing was drugs. No, >> for her it's always been okay. Like, oh, she does her drugs. She does her alcohol now. It's fine. They accept her. I've never thought that I'm like a bad person. First, it just gets to me that, oh, she can drink. She could get to my parents house, have two or three cups of their wine, drink it. She'll be so disrespectful to my mom and she'll leave. And they still support her. My twin. >> Your twin. Okay. financially. Even though she's married, I usually get to me. Does that >> was at at your dad's house, right? >> She wasn't there today. >> Okay. So, you it was a conversation of you and dad, right? Talking about your twin. >> We weren't talking about her yet, but >> Okay. >> I They had wine in the fridge. Everybody's working. Nobody knew. I had two cups of wine. And my boyfriend was like, "Are you busting?" I'm like, "What does it matter? I'm nice to everybody anyways." I keep doing my dad. I left him to his house and my dad showed up over there. My dad was like, "Are you drinking this and that?" So, you know, I got a lot of jealous like I had fine, but it's funny how my twin can drink and you guys are kind of steep that from her. Why? Why? And she'll be rude to everybody. Why? >> So, pretty much you get upset cuz they always think that you're the bad person when your twin's doing worse than you. Japanese stuff for you. >> And they don't tell her anything, right? Just whenever it comes to you like drinking, having it's a little bit like they go they go off on you. Yeah. So, that was a disagreement. And then what happened after that? >> From there, I went to my boyfriend and my dad saw me. Well, I had left my boyfriend's house across like the neighbor's house walking back. >> So, you were at the uh Jasmine, right? >> Yeah. But from there, I left with my boyfriend and he lived on Harbor Street. He pulled up to his house and I'm like kind of the same thing like oh everybody can drink except for me and until you guys knew anything about me drinking I'm just as happy as anyone but you guys know and you just pick on me like I'm um I was telling your boyfriend >> so he was picking on you too. >> Yeah. Yeah. Cuz we were he was working on my dad's truck on Jasmine Street >> before he left. I went in his car and I was like in that argument we had to his house. I was like okay fine. Yeah. So he was driving you to the to his house. >> His house. Yeah. Yes. I drank. Fine. I'm sorry. It's funny how you could drink, my mom could drink, my uncle could drink, and I drink and it's a mess. I'm like happy until you guys knew, right? >> And then after that, your dad from he drove from his house to your boyfriend. >> Boyfriend's house and my Yeah. My dad pulled up around that area around my boyfriend's dad's neighborhood and I was just walking over. Who were you? >> The shell cuz I had called one of my friends to call me over there. >> Oh, okay. Can I like to pick you up or? >> Yeah, I was like me and Julia were arguing blah blah blah. Please pick me up cuz this will calm down, but like it's not cold. >> And she had told me she lives around the area. She's like, okay, I'll be there. And when I look back, my dad's right by me. And I'm like, you know what? I need time to go down. I'll call myself because I know I'm pro. I'm on parole. I'll call myself. That's when I called you. I mean, right now you seem pretty chill, pretty cool. Okay. What kind of like >> films because I'm nicer. Like I can have two cups of alcohol and I'm I'm a nice person. Genuinely genuinely I have grown somebody. >> Yeah. >> But [snorts] all I care about is doing do doing for parents doing for my >> twin comes around. She's two blocks from that or three blocks in a house that my dad put her in and she'll come by asking for money in her rude voice bust up and she does that all the time. So disrespectful. Nobody ever wants to talk to her and it's just like forgive me. Like I hold my whole truck and to see this in front of my face. It hurts. >> I mean you were pretty chill like I said. Okay. And right now you are. What was like why you just decided to pretty much resist whenever I was talking to you? Cuz I mean I thought that I I told her, "Hey ma'am, let's just go to the bag." I told her like two times and I think [snorts] I was I was decent. Okay. I wasn't being a jerk until the third time that I was like, "Ma'am, you're not going to continue to buy whatever you have to. Like I'm here already. So we I'm investigating see if you're okay. So you kind of like pull away and you try to pretty much hit me but >> you know you went to the ground and all that. So why like maybe >> like a >> it was just too surreal for me moment even though I knew I was the one that called I didn't know that my dad had gone through a lot. >> Yeah. >> And at the end of the day you guys I trust this is like the second or third time I call you guys. >> Yeah. Can I trust cuz it's not >> biased? So, this is the thing. Okay. This is my first time dealing with you. I haven't seen you. You haven't seen me, I'm pretty sure. Right. What what happened? I mean, trust me, I don't like that. Okay? Cuz if I'm if I can have a normal conversation with you and try to avoid all this, it's way better, right? Cuz it's not good for you. And trust me, it's I don't enjoy this, okay? Hurting people, right? I joined this profession to kind of help out whenever you call the police department, I could be able to help you. So next time if I deal with you, just be cool. I'm there cuz for legal reason, okay? So if I get there that you were involved in, I don't know, a fight or you stole something. Yeah, whatever. Just be calm cuz like I said, my approach to you was decent. Okay? So be like, "Oh, hello officer. How you doing?" Like what happened? Okay. Like I'm trying to be cool and it it has like Yeah. >> So just please like next time uh let's just have a normal conversation, okay? If you're having a bad day, just talk to me. That's why I'm there too. Okay. I'm there to listen. >> And if Well, don't worry. Okay. Cuz it went south really fast. >> Yes. So next I'm just Hey, you know what? Like I'm having this emotions. I'm like really stressed out right now. Okay. I will talk to you and I will listen, but at the same time, we can't be talking in front of everyone, right? That's why I was trying to Let's go to the back and just Yeah. talk like adults. Okay. So next time if I make contact with you like, "Hey, Mrs. Let's go to the back. Let's go over here. That way they don't know your business. Okay? Cuz I don't like people being my teachers. You know, that's what I'm saying. It could be so simple. So so so simple. You could avoid all this. Like I said, just next time, let's just try to pretty much have better communication. Okay? Just tell, hey, I'm stressed. Okay? I do understand, but at the same time, let's just get out from the cuz we weren't like on people's way cuz they were trying to pay. Okay. >> So, let's just get this clear. I'll see what I could do. Okay. From my part, but just next time. >> Okay. I see where you're staying. >> Sounds good. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Uh I think you're that grab your money. Okay. >> Yeah. >> I'm pretty sure. So, I have your purse. I believe I have your phone, too. Uh they're going to check you out. So, let's just get this done and then we we can transport you to the Eddie County Detention Center. Let's just go. >> Let's go to the car >> to your post. >> Yeah. >> Is it okay? What are you doing? Cuz you know, she was a caregiver and everything, right? Well, I don't know. >> No, it's not career. I'm on this in my Lexico pill and a drink. Okay. I love you. I'll talk to you. >> I'll talk to you in a bit. Bye. >> You got? >> Yeah. >> So, that's your sister from El Paso. >> Oh, okay. >> And I don't have a career. >> Oh. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> And what happened that last time? She like, "Oh, well, >> we can have like what is that called?" Like Yeah, I know. where like if the dog has your rights over you like no [ __ ] like >> that custody. >> Yes. And just like no. >> Okay. >> Like go to my appointment. >> So um like I said, okay, I'm trying to be cool. You're being cool. Don't do anything stupid. Okay. Cuz I'm just going to talk to them really quick and then they start to Okay. >> Yeah. >> Sounds good. >> And next time you don't want to fight with you, okay? >> I don't want to fight with you guys. >> We could be cool just like right now. Hey, what's going on? That's it. Okay. >> Yeah, >> that's way better than >> it is >> wrestling in the ground or whatever cuz it's hot and right. It's high. You're like, "Oh [ __ ] my feet are >> right." Okay. So, let's just go walk. Let's get in the car. You good? >> Yeah. >> You're good. Okay. >> So, you're I'm guessing you're the sister. >> Yes. >> Okay. And then you Okay. So what happened? I guess you're a husband. Okay. Okay. foreign. Okay. investigator. See You don't Okay. Okay. [snorts] We have to do that. Okay. No, I think I think your boy probation. Yeah. chapter. Yes. Okay. I mean Thank you for your patience. Okay. Get probation. Okay, thank you. The suspect was charged with resisting arrest and battery to an officer. Please leave a like if you enjoyed this video and be sure to subscribe for more body cam footage daily.