when entitled people clash with the law and those who enforce it their behavior often goes from bad I haven't done nothing to worse they ignore the police and act rudely are those her glasses or mine they were on the car they're mine now they look a lot like mine they they were on the car however they all have one thing in common in the end they pay the price touch me oh yeah all the way oh Ma'am the police department I need to talk to you thank you just real quick you're not in trouble Ma'am if you keep walking away we're going to have to arrest you cuz I've already at least for just list listen listen listen listen I'm going to explain it to you I will arrest you I will I have to talk to you so the ladies across the people across street want to issue you a criminal trespass how whenever I L can I explain it to you no you can't because they're [ __ ] because I didn't even get to go buy food or anything you know I I understand that I get it I understand that I understand don't understand yes I do they didn't want you to go inside that's why they didn't you iide and I go to that store all time never and that's why they want us to issue a criminal trespass I go to the store all the time and I buy I get it and I'm not saying that you steal anything I'm not I'm just tell you that's what they want to do and so I have to do that no you don't I I have to if somebody uh since they called us and told me to come an issue a criminal trespass back I don't have to because you're starting to you're starting to obstruct what I'm telling you to do because you're refusing to go back to my car this is your last [ __ ] let's go go go gra grab the leash grab the leash of the dog I don't care you're about to go to jail you are going to go to jail go to my car for what stop like for what what am I going this isn't even my my dog like I'll give you the dog for what like I don't even want it like twisting it the wrong way dude stop like I'm not even resisting arrest or anything you're going heads no I'm not like all I said is all I said is that I wasn't going to sign the paper like you can't do this to me I haven't done nothing you're going to go stop help I nothing bend your legs and stand up stand upen waiting for my you're probably a bit confused about what's going on here so let me clarify someone from a nearby store requested that the police issue a criminal trespass warning to the mentioned girl because she refuses to accept it and ignores the officer's commands he is current ly handcuffing her in order to further process the said request a criminal trespass warning is a formal admonition issued by Property Owners or law enforcement to an individual it warns the person that they are not allowed to enter or remain on a specific property if the individual returns to the property after receiving a warning they can be arrested and charged with criminal trespass so for some reason the store employees do not want the girl on the screen near their premises now get ready for what comes next stand up stand up stand up stand up I haven't done nothing dude stand up so we can [Music] walk you're under arrest we're done how because I told you multiple times to go to my car you didn't tell you were ordering me I didn't do anything I didn't even do anything I was waiting for him to bring me some food like I haven't done nothing no I haven't done anything dude like I swear I was waiting for him to bring me some food from inside and he didn't even bring me food you're going to jail get I haven't even been in that store you I don't have warrants nothing now you going for what for obstruction for what obstruction I was sitting there with the dog the car get no you can't tast me cuz I'm pregnant hey we're not going to do this so give the [ __ ] no there's no way around it okay you no I want a real reason to go to jail cuz I was just sitting there waiting for food I haven't even been in the get in the car no stop you kicked me you're going to get another charge get all the way up stop you have no right I haven't even done anything I'm waiting for food get in okay get [Music] in I [Music] almost I told her hey stop I need to talk to you told her several times to stop she finally stopped um I was talking to her I told her I said hey I need to get your test last morning from right there she got ped I was never I never got to go in they never let me in yada yada yada and I was like yeah that's because they didn't want you to begin with and then they said you came over here so obious didn't see that and she refused to walk over here and the whole time so I just grabbed a hold of her she wasn't W to move so we went now no I'm I haven't done nothing no I was just waiting for him to get me food as you saw the situation completely escalated the girl keeps repeating that she hasn't done anything but she doesn't understand that she's been arrested and that the police officers are acting this way because she simply won't listen and refuses to cooperate the police have realized by now that it will be difficult to deal with her in this way and therefore they must change their approach towards the girl it is also concerning that she is allegedly pregnant but we still don't know whether this is true or just a trick to get out of trouble Ma'am let me talk to you real quick okay don't you're you're not getting under AR just don't don't make it hard on you okay we're going to get you checked out just come play trust me hey Estella listen to me I want you to listen okay all right Estella and listen if you don't listen to me you're not going to understand what's going on all right you don't have to look at me I don't care but I want you to listen to me okay okay from the very beginning I never told you that you had a ctw at the family then listen I'm going to explain it okay I never told you that you had a criminal trespass warning I never told you that you stole anything I never accuse you of any of those things what I told you what I was trying to tell you was that the people at Family Dollar wanted to issue you a criminal trespass War for whatever reason they don't have to have a reason okay now that's why I was telling you over and over and over that I need you to go to my petrolum unit that way I could get all of your information and then that way I could issue you a criminal trespass Cod okay even though you didn't even if you would have refused to sign the criminal trespass warning you would not have gone to jail okay you would have still gone on your way and so when I grabbed a hold of your arms to put you in handcuffs you begin trying to pull away from me and then when I was trying to walk you to my patrol car you still continued trying to pull away from me at which point I took you down to the ground and put you in handcuffs and at which point that's why you're now under arrest as I said the officer calmly explained to Estella why everything just happened and since she finally calmed down it seems she finally understands the situation she's in now they are taking her to the hospital for an examination to determine if there are any injuries and the officer explained to her that everything will be fine if she remains calm but let's see how long it will take before she becomes aggressive and Loud again Guilty By Association isn't that's not what this is well then what is it because other than that you have no none whatever none because I've never had a criminal trespass St I never said you did then why why because I refuse to sign your paperwork no you can read up on the LW a little bit okay because it is a lot for I'm not doing any medical service here you go ahead and take me you can refuse at all you want they're still going to come and ask you questions I'm not I'm not doing it I'm not doing it that's fine like I'm seriously not doing it I swear on this baby's life this kid while you guys me the out I swear to God I put out on everything I leave me alone leave me alone leave me alone I have no reason to be in handcuffs I just want to left the bone by you guys and everybody else I just want to be left alone I don't need your help I didn't even need your help Ben let me go leave me alone you guys have no leg ride whatsoever stop you guys have no legal right leave me alone what are you taking leave like and then SL that right there all right we're good up there all right Estella I'm going to give you I'm going to give you the opportunity to stand up and walk to the car and get in on your own okay because listen I don't want to cause any more issues all [Music] right watch your legs in the end Estella was charged with resisting an officer and now take a look at this case where the police received a report of improperly parked Vehicles blocking free pass message on the street the officer who went to the scene looked for the vehicle owner in a nearby house but no one answered when the tow truck arrived to take the vehicles away a young lady came out of the house to prevent the towing of the vehicles Miss hi you have this association with this car yeah it's my boyfriend's car um can you Prov can you Pro ownership yeah I have a title um the problem was it wasn't running that's why it's been parked right there but I try to push it into the driveway we've been here for half an hour trying to reach someone so now they have it and now you he'll have to make here is there any way you you don't own it he doesn't own it yes we both own it it is our car is the title in your name it is in his name and that does us no good um he lives here excuse me please can you please make an exception I've been here for half an hour I banged on your door got nothing I didn't hear it okay so you can go show proof and he can pick it up you know anyone owns this car that's next you know them y that was my boyfriend's friend I was that one's going next I wasn't aware that you were this one's already done so could you please make an exception and help me push it into the driveway so that no because you don't even own it Miss yes I yes we do no you said some other person who's not here owns it and they didn't register it so they can go to the tow yard show proof and pick it up hello Jer they're Towing the B7 and they're about to tell MCH this car so you guys should get back here the B the B7 is is still right here but the police officer is not letting me take possession of our car why I don't know why why aren't you letting me put this car into my driveway cuz you don't own it Miss he owns it and he lives here okay well if he were here maybe if someone else were here maybe I talk to them okay so I have to come talk to you go I don't I guess so um they're Towing they're taking the B7 right now I it's it's loaded up on the thing he won't let me push it into our driveway if you don't move I'll arrest you miss he's saying he's going to arrest me if I don't they're going to be here in 5 minutes move you'll be arrested company can wait 5 minutes you're going to be arrested if you don't move they said let me talk to my boyfriend real quick move away or you'll be arrested you can't arrest me when they're going to be here in 5 minutes watch me are you an adult can you can you please stop to watch listen no no I don't listen to you Miss please stop your power last chance Last Chance please stop your power move out of the way please not your car you're in the way can you please listen to me no you need to listen are you going to move or not I will move turn around place your hands behind your back stay there just stay there no they're going to he's saying he's going to arrest me turn around place your hands behind your back we're going to of him it's fine okay are you are you going to move or not are you refusing to move Miss you're going to be arrested can you please turn around place your hands behind your back if you're not going to move can you please turn around and place your hands behind your back if you're not going to move listen dude can you please not dude yes or no you can't arrest me yes I can turn around no you can't yes I can no you don't have probable C you do not have probable CA you're going we're going I'm trying not to I'm trying not to but I can obstruction is the probable cause all right there we go now you're under arrest we're going through a lake the officer must establish vehicle ownership before taking any action if the owner is not present and someone else claims ownership or or association with the vehicle they may need to provide evidence such as the vehicle title or registration if a person interferes with the lawful Towing of a vehicle such as standing in front of it to prevent the tow truck from taking it they can be arrested for obstruction the officer is acting within the law and following procedure even though the girl does not like it especially now that she is in handcuffs but wait until her boyfriend arrives that's when the real show starts my car why the are my car things I I'm not calming down my car back I'm not I'm not doing this we've had zero warnings zeroing you're arresting my girlfriend for Park Park what the is going on I just got here okay so explain let's started out you pulling up like this and being hot I was doing the speed limit I'm not doing anything not doing anything hotter than you guys are doing right now I just got here so what's going on on your side I show up to all my cars being towed away and someone being arrested are they in the roadway no they were parked here sir can you can you help me understand what's going on here well now that if this is your vehicle and you can prove ownership now you have to pay the release fee no why I didn't do anything why is it kidding toad it's illegally parked in a roadway Hazard what's going on got here I always talk talk to well don't walk up on him like that walk no you won't yes I will what the going on wait wait wait to my explain what's going on now you can go to the TOA and make AR range and you guys are messing with the wrong people you going to be sued about it being par right no one can answer any questions you're just taking my I just got here to search someone I don't know if I don't know what okay what do you guys want to do here you you done B I am talking with my partner figuring what's going you're Park in my front yard so what do you want to do not your front yard the stre you just took my car for no reason this I'm not helping you guys I don't just shut up please just what are what are we doing here stop asking questions you guys done then can you get out of here no we're on we're on the public roadway man okay just just shut so was my car couldn't even wait 2 minutes for me to come back I get back and then you and then I get ignored you guys are and you're just going to ignore me huh you made a statement you have a question I have a million questions you guys won't answer them you answer them with the Vagas dumbest like I don't know what's going on and that's because you guys won't explain it to me I'm trying to be reasonable the car was towed we were called here for a reason what's the reason I wasn't dispatched I came as a backup officer backup for what extra cars don't want a car parked on the street because my partner made an arrest I'm a backup officer that's why I'm here you just got hit so you don't know please step [Applause] back respectful oh dude you don't have to do you don't have to step back for well they shoot so I shoot too when the policewoman asked the owner where his Vehicles had been parked he replied that they were on the driveway which we know is not true it seems the young man is quite irritated by the situation probably most of all because he quickly realized that he was wrong and there was nothing he could do about it except curse and yell the improperly parked cars were towed his girlfriend arrested and it all points to the end of this mess but the young man decided to stir things up a bit more I got to find my ey glasses thing drop them I may have when she was twisting around off the property off the property where do you do you think he's standing are those her glasses or mine they were on the car they're mine now well they look a lot like mine they were they were on the car so now we're good I'm not doing why are you running off my proper we I think he has my eyeglasses and he just glasses you gave them to me they were sitting off my property sitting on the car on my car and you told me to get them are those on my car are those my officer glasses or not do you want to be charged with theft Chester okay fine you want glasses yeah after you threw them if they're damaged you're going to get charged with criminal Miss calm down where did they even go you threw him in here somewhere you want a they brand good it are those yours or hers yours those are mine thank you Chester is lucky that the officer's glasses were not damaged and his girlfriend was charged with resisting an officer on July 15th 2022 the police received a report of domestic disturbance in Carl's bed New Mexico neighbors reported that a girl was beating and harassing her boyfriend how's it going man good hey were you just walking with the with a girl huh were you walking with a girl down pain Street or nothing like that okay we got to call it's a guy possibly getting smacked around by a girl in a pink shirt so we're just checking there you're good someone down there you saw somebody down there what's all the scratches on your neck man right here yeah yeah yeah what's your do you have an ID on you bro I don't you don't what's your name man I don't even to tell you I didn't break no law I didn't I know but I have a lawful reason to stop you okay because we got dispatched you match the description of the guy that was getting beat up by a girl okay you have injuries on your neck all right don't matter you got to understand that I have a job to do I have a job to do okay you have scratches on your neck okay which are signs of some kind of battery all right which are probably from which are probably from your girlf girlfriend right I don't want to press charges we're fine right it it's probably from your girlfriend right do matter okay so if it's from your girlfriend that means it's a domestic violence okay so which means I have to investigate it and I'm authorized to take some kind of action on it okay why are you talking to me because I don't know who I'm going to talk to we'll find out what the I can't cuz you're not giving me any information man you'd be the victim I don't want to be a victim I don't want to press charges I don't want to betim that I mean I don't understand why it's so hard to give you to give me your name let me tell you why it's because the young man is terrified and we don't know what he's been through with a girlfriend who is possibly abusing him shaky voice and emotional facial expressions indicate a heightened emotional state which could be due to fear trauma anxiety or sadness refusing to give his name and ID suggests a desire to distance himself from the situation and to avoid involvement with the authorities domestic violence is often shrouded in shame and secrecy irrespective of the gender of the victim male victims in particular can experience additional layers of societal and internalized shame due to perceived gender norms and expectations reluctance to file a report is also a common reaction among domestic violence victims they might fear escalation of violence believe the abuse was their fault worry about the repercussions for their partner or think that the authorities won't take them seriously from the very beginning we can see that this is a serious issue that is rarely discussed let's see what happened when the police located the girl I just don't want to get in trouble but I didn't do nothing okay but you not wanting to get in trouble is getting in trouble I'll tell you my name we go down there and we can talk to the person that's Comm yeah I'll tell you back I love you so what's going on I I just had an argument it's nothing serious I'm sorry it was more on my part so I give you my ID in the okay where's your ID uh right here there you go so what's your relationship with this guy uh that's my boyfriend for about a year now okay and so what's going on between you two just a verbal argument it was nothing extravagant Jay it's more in a verbal argument because we had people calling in saying that a female was hanging on the shirt of a male like that and there is screaming so I mean you can check me and you can go to the shop he's bleeding you're bleeding I mean he talked to all of us though but no he he didn't do anything like that to me if anything was myself and my nails lift my nails okay what happened I scratched myself I do get pretty crazy myself I put nothing on him my like my rights I'm sitting here telling you right now like I'm fine he's fine you have an address you have my ID I giving my Social Security right now I have no problem with that sir okay it's just I don't want no problems this is my man we had an argument that's it I have a problem when people have but it's also okay you ever have another problem okay not when someone batters another person in a domestic violence see that or did they just hear us arguing because I yell I yelled like a mother I going to lie it's not even him half the time it's me I will completely say that I'll go to Joe right now for that okay that's me remember this moment when the police officer put handcuffs on her because after that nothing will be the same but before that let's say something about this issue there's a misconception that men canot not be victims of domestic violence many men are hesitant to come forward and Report abuse due to societal expectations of masculinity admitting to being abused especially by a female partner can be perceived as a sign of weakness to better illustrate the magnitude of this issue in the US here are some figures the national intimate partner and sexual violence survey found that about one in seven men in the US have been victims of severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime time approximately 4.8% of men have been stalked by an intimate partner during their lifetime it's estimated that about one in 10 men have experienced rap physical violence Andor stalking by an intimate partner over 25% of men have been victims of some form of physical violence by an intimate partner 28.5% have been victims of psychological aggression by an intimate partner in their lifetime the impact of domestic violence on men can be profound affecting their physical health mental well-being and overall quality of life they may suffer from depression anxiety PTSD substance abuse issues and other long-term effects similar to female victims and now brace yourselves for what comes next hey respectfully do not I'm telling you respectfully do not tou you like that tries to kick me she just broke my glasses I can't breath I can't bre well you can kick me can't you she kicked me in the [Music] face hey so much stop B stop I hope she's going to buy me some new glasses hang on let me get let go me let go let go now let go kill me let go kill me kill me stop kill me stop kill me no go tell my mom I'm going to JP okay we we will no don't do it first stop mom she's going to jail go tell her okay come on okay have a seat come on sit up in [Applause] there you either got to sit in there or you're going to get Dragged In you [Music] coming no okay wife Che on you three times day dirty I'm not married no as you can see this arrest went wrong in so many ways and the girl got herself into numerous troubles under New Mexico statutes 30222 24 battery upon a peace officer is defined as the unlawful intentional touching or application of force to the person of a peace officer while he is in the performance of his duties when done in a rude insolent or angry manner this can incl include kicking or spitting on the officer this offense is a fourth-degree felony in New Mexico under New Mexico statutes 30221 it is unlawful to intentionally resist evade or obstruct an officer while they are performing their duties this can include physically resisting arrest or giving false information I will also mention possible criminal damage to property for the broken glasses and disorderly conduct now about the boyfriend's reaction some victims of abuse internalize blame believing they have caused or somehow deserve the abuse seeing his girlfriend in distress even if she's the perpetrator might intensify feelings of guilt or responsibility but on the other hand he might simply fear that her arrest will lead to further violence or retaliation against him once she is released okay if I take that spit hood off are you going to spit on me no I'm not going to spit on you well you were spitting yeah I was okay I'm going help you out I'll let you use the bathroom Okay I'm going to spit on you I promise promise yes I really do promise I spit on you I'm sorry nothing's over here come over here yes sir sorry I don't any kids no what what are you doing can't stay in relationship long enough I don't have one I don't smoke so we're going to be up here a while start all right all right have a seat I want I don't want to make my mom feel Weir I'm saying she's supposed to cut my hair and my boyfriend's hair she's Barber mhm you are more than welcome to stop by walk in anything you want she already told me okay so come back um I'm just going to walk over there and see what they're doing I'm going to have a seat can you walk with me then can't go over there you can't no or you just don't want to we can't you're in custody I have to have it here I have to take you to jail so I can't even go to my mom's shop right now and let don't know oh man I apologize but I can't make any other stop so what the I just sit here and say what no we're going to the jail yeah so what do I say hey I'm in jail because I didn't have a ID what the do you want me to say bro what do you want me to say how much you want me to pay you how much what's worth it for you what what do you want don't talk like that you just get yourself in more trouble hey a all you can do is talk to me but you [Music] don't hey knock it off you let me out or what since she injured herself during the arrest before jail the aggressive girl was taken to the hospital there as you saw she completely changed her attitude towards the police her shift from aggressive to Charming suggests an attempt to manipulate her surroundings and the people they're in trying to charm or seduce the officer is a classic manipulation tactic to gain favor or special treatment by Switching gears from violence to seduction she might be testing which approach would be more effective in getting her way offering bribes indicates a degree of desperation she's pulling out all the stops to avoid legal consequences or unfavorable circumstances the officer maintaining professionalism in the face of her tactics is crucial individuals trained in law enforcement and security settings often receive training to recognize and counter manipulative behaviors I didn't do nothing we're going to figure that out okay well then call my lawyer we call get you Dr call my lawyer we'll put you on the phone I I after this tumultuous intervention was finally brought to an end the girl was charged with assault upon a peace officer battery upon a peace officer resisting arrest criminal damage to property and finally domestic battery and now look at what it looks like when a person is very drunk and entitled man what's going on today no I was just ring you were what ring okay can you think you do me I'm going to come talk to you in a couple minutes just to get some more information you think you think you can sit at the back of the thank you you think you can sit at the back of the all right that's enough you get sit at the back of the rescue for me please or stand right here for 5 minutes that's fine I'm going to come back and talk to you okay okay can you guys just take her in there for a minute he keep trying to run out on us wherever you want what's your name can you can you sit over there please for a minute make me feel better am I going to make you feel better mhm why you feel bad of course oh okay that that's fine you can stop touching me um so the uh CSA over there is done with his action investigation I'm Deputy I'm with the Sheriff's Office Jeffy I'm now conducting a DUI investigation okay well we we're noticing some things on you so I'm going to conduct an investigation all right have you had anything to drink today just no have you no no okay would you be willing to conduct some exercises for me absolutely you would oh okay why not all right as you've seen the woman is obviously extremely intoxicated so much so that she can hardly speak she has caused a traffic accident in such a state and the emergency services are now on the scene conducting an investigation you saw how she touched the officer several times and even asked him you going to make me feel better so we can say that her behavior has been strange and somewhat scandalous from the very beginning she agreed to field sobriety tests so that the officer could determine if she was under the influence of something but how these tests will end up is quite another story okay so follow my finger with your eyes let me step down a little bit you want to back up a little bit please so that way we're not so close all right so just follow my follow the top of my finger with your eyes okay don't move your head just your eyes all right you understand absolutely adjust your eyes not don't move your head right I'm going to do the same thing but I'm going to go up and down okay keep on following it with your eyes okay well I have I have to show you what you're I I have to show you what you're doing first before okay so this next exercise is called the walk and turn turn I I have to I have to go through it okay no can you can you watch me before you try to attempt it let me I'm just done with it I haven't I haven't finished showing you the exercise yet okay you are telling me why I have been really do you not do do you not want to do the exercises I just have all are you refusing to do the exercises no okay then let me finish explaining it to you and then you'll have a chance to show it okay no I haven't finished demonstrating the exercise okay I want to be done with it I want to I haven't finished demonstrating the exercise as soon as I finish demonstrating it you will be able to you're not going to go home right now as soon as I finish demonstrating it I'm going to give you the chance to do it and then we'll continue okay one two 3 4 but you'll go to nine do you understand yeah are you ready all right you may be good when you're ready one 2 3 four five right okay you're finished all right last exercise all right it's called the one leg stand all right something like that not quite so I'm not driving I'm not going anywhere I'm not going anywhere okay can can you watch you do the exercise and then you do it can you just okay whichever foot you're choosing all right are you refusing to do the exercise no okay then do me a favor let me finish what I am doing and then you'll be able to talk let me finish what I'm doing all right cuz if you don't let me finish what I'm listen to me if you don't let me finish what I'm telling you to do and you don't give and you don't do the exercises and you don't dispel my worries all right I'm just going to take you straight to jail I won't even give you a chance to do it okay to jail you you're done with the exercises you don't want to do them anymore all right then let me show you stay quiet for 2 minutes so that way you have a chance to do it all right and then you could do it all right st stop the exercise is that what you're saying you want me to stop you don't want to do it cuz if you don't want to do it that's fine I'll just take you straight to jail yeah go over there' come over here okay come over here why you that um I don't you know that listen stand there okay listen what listen what you know I know what okay all right that's fine all right you may begin when you're ready you may begin you may begin you may begin four 5 that's it she's flirting with the officer rushing him and all the while she has an attitude as if the law does not apply to her this lady is in trouble but she's so under the influence of alcohol that she's simply not aware of it at least for now but you will see soon the officer gave her every chance but she squandered it and now he has no choice but to arrest her for DUI and take her to the station look at him put your hands at your side put your hands behind your back put your hands behind your back put your hands behind your back oh no you're under arrest for driving under the influence of drugs or alcohol do not get out of the car stay in the car okay do not get out of the car I promise that if you give us a hard time all right it's not going to be well I I I I have a long all right put her inside just roll her window down all right get inside the car get inside the car get car fuing hold don't kick me okay you just got another charge for battery and a law enforcement officer get in the car get in the car I'm trying to see you now get in the car get in the car you just kicked him you just caught another charge close move your foot go talk to him over there move your foot move your foot move your foot move your foot move your foot Why move your foot move your foot move your foot I move your foot move your foot move your foot you want me to grab it from the other side move your foot over move your foot over your foot there pull her pull her you're going to get a citation for following too closely for the accident okay you got into an accident you don't remember the accident yeah he's actually Watcher of the you down real quick okay he time I'm cat you down real quick touch me oh yeah all the way oh I'm going see no this thing get this thing you after this awkward event the lady was charged with battery on an officer resisting arrest and [Music] DUI