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Why did this abusive wife think she could attack her husband just because he didn't want to watch their child? >> my husband. They called me. I was at work. Apparently, he's got physical. He's got proof of it. I don't know what the hell's going on, but I know I got here and it was bad. I had my wife call CPS and I called you guys. >> Okay, when you say it's bad, what do you mean exactly? Like what happened? >> Like bad. Like they got scratches and marks and crap all over them. >> Okay. >> So, and supposedly like the baby got hurt along the process. Like I don't know if they scratched her or dropped her or something, but I don't think it's safe for the baby. I don't just want to take my baby. >> Okay. Are you her grandpa? >> Yes. >> Okay. Do you have your ID on you? >> Yes, ma'am. Um >> Did you see any of it happen or you just heard it? >> No, none at all. I I heard it over the phone. They called me. I was with a client. I'm a contractor and I was with a stinking client and I had like drop what I was doing and leave. >> Okay. >> And come here to this. My wife also works at Integrated Services. Did you hear them up there? >> Is that >> That's her. >> And your son's in there, right? >> Yeah. They mean business. >> Okay. So, you're saying that she hit him or they were hitting each other? >> The story is she hit him. And then he tried to restrain her. But they both got marks on them. >> Okay. >> Um >> Hey, can I come talk to you? What's going on there? What's going on? Yeah, you know the cops were called because your dad called them on you. >> grandma. >> Okay, got you. Is that baby? >> Yeah. >> Okay, just make sure we get all the Okay. Okay. Yeah. And but here puts her up. >> Her maternal grandma. >> Yeah. Okay. >> That's the one I'm going to take with me. >> The girl's yours. >> Okay. >> His dad called the cops cuz they're over exaggerating cuz I wanted to leave after he wouldn't [ __ ] let me out. >> Yeah. >> And then he wouldn't allow me to call my family, so I snuck charged my phone and called my [ __ ] family cuz he wants to [ __ ] leave for the holidays without us spending time with our family. So, I got into it with him about it. And then his dad wanted to be over exaggerating and he called the cops. >> Got you. >> Okay, do you guys have your IDs on you? >> Um, yeah, somewhere. >> Yeah. >> That's your dad's fault. That's your family's fault. >> Who are you, sir? >> I'm the great grandpa. >> Great grandpa? >> She's her or he's her grandpa. >> Right. >> Okay, got you. >> the last time was the whole daddy incident, so I didn't want to be here. >> Just making sure we got everything. >> Are you the grand grand grandpa? Okay. What's going on? >> So they got into it. I don't know. Apparently she come home drunk. Got into it with him, started hitting him, tried to restrain her, then she wanted to leave with the baby, then they called me. I had to drop everything I was doing with a client and I had to come over here, make sure everything was okay. She was going freaking crazy. They both got marks all over them. I had my wife call CPS. I just want to take the baby home. >> Sure. Let me get your name, sir. >> sure that they're both freaking going to jail at this point. >> What's your name? Okay. >> I just know I got the only reason I'm at the house. >> It does because your dad >> Do you need to talk to him or talk to her? >> Yeah, sure. >> I appreciate it. >> All right, come over here. >> So I'm the only one that raises this goddamn child on my own all the [ __ ] time. I begged him to stay home for the holidays. >> Hold on one second, let me read this off to you if that's okay. >> Yeah. I begged him to stay home for the [ __ ] holidays at least. >> You have a child in common? You have a child in common? Like is that is that is that your child together? Are you guys married or anything? Not married? >> I'm 20. I'm 21. But um so we started getting into it over that. Well, [snorts] then he tells me I can't leave with my daughter. >> Okay. >> That's not because I'm the only one that raises her. I'm the only one that does [ __ ] around here. I clean this house. I cook for everyone. I raise my daughter all day while he's gone with his friends all day. It's exhausting. I'm tired. >> Yeah. >> And he doesn't understand that. So, he wanted to call him little daddy and his daddy wanted to call the cops. So, he thought he could try to get his way. It doesn't work that way, bro. I >> What happened to you? >> Well, we'll we'll determine whether or not they're going to be charged or not. >> But, I'm the My daughter's >> [crying] >> caramel's out though. Did you say hi? >> was dropped? Was the baby dropped? >> I don't know. I wasn't here. >> And we got told >> No, he wanted to say I did, but I didn't do it. It's when he was choking. >> So, the baby was not dropped. >> No. >> Okay, the baby was not dropped. >> Okay. >> Okay, so let me get this straight. You guys are arguing about uh him going to his friends and then him staying here. And [snorts] then what happened? >> And then it started getting physical cuz I wanted to leave with my kid. Well, he wanted to leave first. I told him you're not leaving so that I can have a break cuz I've had by myself straight with no help whatsoever for weeks. I just needed a break today. I've been going insane. >> So, you wanted him to take the baby. >> Like, keep her here. Oh, they live together. >> Okay. Okay. >> Yes. >> And then what happened? >> And he refused. He was trying to leave, so I wouldn't allow him leave. So, I'm like, I'm not going to be the only one responsible for something we both chose to do. We This is planned. My daughter was planned, bro. Like, >> [laughter] >> this is not just a accident. Like, we know what we're getting into. And he refuses. So, I'm like, "Okay, I'm going to leave with her then. I'm not doing this [ __ ] no more." He refuses to let me leave. He says [snorts] I'm too drunk. I'm not too drunk. I haven't drank enough yet. I wanted to call a ride, my aunt, and leave. He refused. My phone died. He wouldn't let me charge my phone. He wouldn't let me out of this bedroom. I was with my [ __ ] daughter. When [snorts] we started getting physical cuz I wanted out. >> Okay, so like he was holding you in this room? >> Yeah. >> Okay, so his back was to this door? >> Yeah. Okay, and then what was he doing? >> So, what happened here, man? >> Well, it all it it kind of all started where she first started drinking and whenever she got too drunk, nobody else [clears throat] was drinking and she was started off nitpicking at him and trying to start fights or whatever, which she usually does. And she was just in his face nonstop screaming everything. So, they got a hold of the baby. The baby was in the middle of them like fighting and everything, which they didn't put him in >> meaning a fight as a physical fight or like just just arguing? >> They were yes, they were just arguing and then Sekoya ended up like obviously you can see the marks on his face. >> Who's Sekoya? >> His his girlfriend. >> Girlfriend, okay. >> Yeah, so. And uh yeah, she left marks all over his face. >> Did she How did she would leave the mark on him? >> So, this is me pulling up. I recorded a video. I walk up. He's full of scratches and she's in there screaming. >> Mhm. Yeah, I saw the video he had. >> We tried to calm her down like we were trying >> have video of her please come outside? >> has video of her flopping flopping on the ground with no shirt on and rolling around and on the ground and everything. >> Yeah, so she she was pretty freaking dropped and pretty plastered and >> So, So, the they were arguing over what again? Over over her drinking? >> Yeah, and then like he he just told her like to pretty much quit nitpicking and stuff because that's the whole reason he gave her she she's pissed because she couldn't drink or whatever and everything. So, she's got the she's drinking out of >> Yeah, I saw the energy drink. >> And then she's putting it to his made a old can or new whatever. It all comes out of her. >> Okay. >> We told her not to drink before >> So, at what point did he did she start hit he start scratching him hitting him? >> Whenever he tried to get a hold of the baby because she was uh she was drunk drunk trying to give the baby a bath and then tried to change his diaper and everything, which >> Okay. >> we did not like that was not okay because like I mean he went in there and the baby, she dropped her baby on the head. The baby's got a mark across its cheek. It's got red marks on >> Was she trying to give it a bath? She was >> No, that's whenever he was trying to get the baby out of her hand and she was drunk and dropped the baby. She was like >> His name's Dakota? >> Yes. >> So, he had his hand around your neck. Is that right? Did he Did he punch you at all or is it just his hand around your neck? >> I don't care though. It's fine. He can hit me as many times as he needs. I just need him Call me about this instead of calling everybody else cuz anybody I call tries to talk to both of us. Everybody he calls tries to break us up and run him away. He's quite all day. He's gone all day. I'm fired. >> I want to take a picture of your neck, okay? I'm just going to take a picture. >> getting locked up, too? >> We're not there yet. I'm just trying to get the story. All I'm going to do is going to take a picture of your neck, okay? >> Am I getting locked up? What do I need to do? What about my mother? She's She's She's a She has a She has a She's a foster home. >> Is that one the one that's here? Okay. >> I want to go with her. >> I would Don't jump to conclusions yet, okay? >> It mainly just started getting bad because of the fact that he didn't want her taking care of the baby while >> Were they um So So, was she the primary person to and instigate the physical altercation? Okay. >> And she was She had him on the phone like She does this TikTok live, has him on it, puts him on it, and calls him all these names. >> did he At what point did How How was she getting injured in this situation? >> Injured? >> Yeah, apparently she has Apparently she has some sort of injury on her on her face. >> She I I have no clue. That could have been anything. I didn't I didn't see him hit her or anything. Like I said, he tried to hold her down obviously because she was hopping up and like scratching and clawing and smacking >> You guys hang tight. The poor family will be with you in a second, okay? >> Do you have any more marks on you? Okay. Anything on the back? Okay. >> Yeah, grab my camera. >> Sounds like she's the primary in this, sounds like. According to the witness. >> Which one's the witness? >> Friend downstairs. >> She was saying the opposite. >> Hm? >> She was saying the opposite. >> The what? >> That he was blocking her from leaving. And then she has bruises and everything all all over her neck. >> You want to get a statement on this? Let's see. I'll talk to you out here in a little bit. Witness over here. Sounds like she uh >> 30 feet. >> Yeah, she started cuz she was I'll sketch her trying to take the baby out of here. >> Okay. >> So, he was trying to stop her from leaving with the baby. In the midst of that, she scratched him and everything else. He was trying to hold her down, stop her from leaving. >> Okay. She has some bruises and bruises on her neck though. >> As far as he scratched all over his face and neck and everything like that. So Did you see Did you see the video he had on his phone of her flopping around on the floor? He's got one on his phone of her just acting >> On him? >> Yeah, almost. His phone is his Yeah. >> Did this happen >> Her flopping around on the Hang on for a second, okay? Her Her flopping around on the floor, no shirt on, just rolling around acting acting wild. Like she's >> Okay. >> I think she's probably a restroom situation, to be perfectly honest. >> You don't think they're 21? My My My opinion is both 21. >> You think so? >> Yeah, they're both >> Okay. I I can't talk to her, but this is what the witness is saying that you know there was a an argument cuz she was intoxicated. She was trying to He was He was trying He was trying to She was trying to pick the baby up and leave. This guy was preventing her from leaving. That's how the This This is where the physical part started. So >> But it's it's up to you. I'll let you do it. Whatever you want. Whatever you think. >> I don't It's your call. If you want If you If you think If you think 21 both, I'll do it. And we'll And we'll find a place for the We'll find a place for the kid. >> Are you taking the baby? >> I Yes, I would love to, please. >> Okay. Where is the baby at right now? >> Upstairs still with everybody. Hey Dakota, do you care to fill out a written written witness statement? >> I'm coming. Okay. >> [crying] [snorts] >> All right, [snorts] go ahead and hand the baby over. Thank you, I appreciate it. I appreciate it. So, you're both under arrest for domestic violence, okay? Okay. And you're okay with the baby being with her, right? Okay. Okay. All right. >> I need to go. Hey, that's me. >> No. >> You will always be for this. You will always be a for this. No. That's my mindset. That's it. You will never see your granddaughter again, Julio. I promise that. I promise you will never see your granddaughter again. >> We're going to go to that cruiser over here. >> No. I love you, but your dad will never see her again. I love you so much, but your dad will never, ever see her again. I did so much for my child. Did you get a picture of her chest? >> I did not. He's going to be He's probably going to get to the jail, and I don't know if he's going to be able to see it real well in the car. Anything else? I don't think so. I think that the grandpa was second to the baby, right? Is that what they determined? >> I got a female and a male, 21. >> And you got any prior charges of DV or anything, domestic violence, or anything like that? How old are you? I'm sorry. >> 20. >> 20, okay. >> How does mom have the right to determine where the baby goes while she's intoxicated? >> Are you married? >> No. I just wanted a family. This is literally going to [ __ ] up everything. Not even going to be able to get in school anymore. The adult program for phlebotomy. Yeah, they said any type of domestic like abuse or like assault they don't accept. That was my only way out. How bad is jail for real? >> So, what's happening now? >> You what? >> What's happening now? >> You're going to jail? >> Okay. Will there be a bond or no? >> Uh not for domestic violence, so you won't be able to be in court um on Friday since tomorrow is Thanksgiving. So, you won't be in court till Friday. >> This is so stupid. My baby didn't deserve none of this [ __ ] Not a single [ __ ] percent of it. >> Valid. >> [snorts] >> Now she's going to be so confused. I was just so tired of being made out the bad guy and I actually ended up being the [ __ ] bad guy. That's crazy. Uh we lived downstairs when I was pregnant and when we had her we moved upstairs. It's crazy though. I just called his dad and told him everything that's been happening last night and he comes here and does this today. >> Does his dad and your mom get along? >> They're both mature, so they kind of have to. >> Are you guys married? >> No. >> You're just together? You just live together? >> I know I seem so stupid, but I just wanted him to mature. >> You're going to walk in that door right there. So, he's 18 and you're 20? >> No, we're both 20. >> You're both 20? I'll put your ID right here. Did he try to give you a fake name again? >> No, he said get her address. >> So, what charge is this? Domestic violence? >> Mhm. >> Like, what is it a misdemeanor or felony? >> It's a misdemeanor first degree as long as you don't have any prior prior >> Normally go about things like this, do you know? >> That all depends solely up to the courts and and the attorneys. We don't deal with that part of it. >> You're good. >> Once Once it gets out of our hands, we're we're done with it from there. >> And what made you guys arrest me? >> You're You're being charged with domestic violence. >> Walk out there and uh face the window to your left. >> He had two cell phones? >> Mhm? >> He had two phones? >> Yeah, I think the I think the one is locked to put from me to go out either >> No. >> The one is your daughter. >> Okay. >> Just put them both with his property. >> Okay. >> All right, let's >> The couple was arrested and charged with domestic violence. 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