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On November 10th, 2024, officers responded to a confusing domestic disturbance. >> Hello, sir. >> Good morning. Have you guys Have you guys been drinking? >> I've had a few, but she's over in the living room. >> Yes. >> Can we go speak to Can we go speak to her inside? >> I'll talk to you in here. >> Okay. Sounds good. >> What's up? >> Can I come inside, right? >> Sir. >> All right. Okay. So, what's going on? >> What's going on, man? Well, she came in. We were at a party, and I told her she had to leave. >> Okay. >> And she didn't want to leave. She started scratching my face on her, but I didn't hit her or anything. Else, she's like standing right here. >> Okay. >> She started scratching me, telling me she's going to go inside. And then when I saw one of you guys coming in, I just pulled her aside and then let her go in. >> Okay. And you were She was trying to get her stuff? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Okay. >> Well, I mean, I didn't block her in from I just This is my house. I just told you you can't come in. >> Okay. And your your name How long she live here live here? >> Uh year. >> She has? >> I don't even know a year, like, you know? Like, 6 months, 7 months. 6 months. Okay. All right. >> told her she had to come another day, you know? That was not the time. >> Yeah, cuz it's You guys are two >> It The house is under my name. >> Yeah. Okay. All right. But, when you're saying that she's living here now, right? >> Well, she has lived here. >> Yeah, she has her stuff here. She's She's She's She's residing here now. So, that's That's the thing. >> I'm doing her license is not >> No, I get it, but at this point >> is my property. It's my home. Just cuz someone's living there doesn't mean >> Well, in New Mexico, it is It differs, man. Like, yeah, yeah. Cuz once once they've been here >> come another time, you know, another hour. >> No, and I get it. Yeah. >> And I didn't want it to lead up to this. >> I get you. >> You know what I mean? >> No, I For Yeah, I I get you 100%, man. But, like, I just want you to know that once a person's been living here for like over like about a month, then it starts becoming their residence. You guys were arguing about what? Just her not coming home about the party? >> Yeah, I told her not to come here, to go to her mom's house. >> Okay. >> I did not push her. >> Okay. So, let me go in here and talk to her. I'll just stay out here, and I'll go talk to her. All right. >> I was literally just going to come get my stuff, cuz he's always like this. He's always freaking toxic. I never called the cops on him, but he's always been abusive. So, I just decided to come get my And he's like, "Oh, you're not going to go into my house." So, I decided to call you guys. Like, where can I get my And I'm going to go to my mom's. >> So, the argument was just in reference to he was just being toxic like that. Nothing in particular of why >> Nothing in particular. Exactly. >> I see that he has a scratch on his face. >> He pushed me first. And I'm so It's like I'm tired of him. He's so toxic. >> So, the end of camera footage >> I do. And I don't know if he just disconnected them or what he did, but he pushed me first. And I called the cops because he said, "Oh, you're not going to go into our house." We've been living here for 2 years. I've supported him. He's been abusive towards me. >> Okay. >> I've never done I don't know if he's claiming his mom, but I'm the one that takes care of my child, but here's my ID. No clip was recorded, but look. He pushed me first. He's so toxic. Last night, I always put my child to sleep in the bedroom, and and I fell asleep with my kid. He's like, "I woke up at 3:00." And I'm like, "Oh [ __ ] I fell asleep with him." He's like, "What were you doing at 3:00?" And I'm like, "I was asleep with your kid. What the But, look. No clip was recorded. But, he pushed me first. >> He's saying that you didn't want to come home from a party. >> Oh my god. I drove here, sir. >> Okay. >> I drove here. This is my vehicle. I have the title to this vehicle. I drove him here. I picked him up from his uncle's, and I drove us here. >> Okay. >> How was I not going to come home if I drove us here? >> Yeah, and but she he also did say that you were super intoxicated, and you don't seem Yeah. >> Okay, but I drove I drove us here. But, I'm so [ __ ] sick and tired of him. I was coming for my stuff. He's like, "You're not going to come to You're not going to get inside." And I'm like, "Yes, the [ __ ] I am. I live here. We've lived here for 2 years. He's abusive. He's everything." >> So, you just told me you came from his uncle's house, but then you were at your cousin's. >> He was at his uncle's house since 4:00 p.m. >> Okay. >> And he's like, "Hey, come pick me I can't drive." So, I picked him up. I was at my aunt's where her daughter, my cousin, was at. >> Oh, you guys were sitting separate areas? >> Yes, separate areas. He was there since 4:00 drinking. So, I picked him up and then I took us to my aunt's house and we sat there for half an hour and we just came from there. I drove us there. How is he going to say that I'm intoxicated if I just picked him up and I drove us home? How? He's a toxic ass. I go to college. I take care of my son. Like, I'm not even crying because of anything. Like, literally. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Give me a second. I'll be right back. So, she's stating that you she she came towards you and then you pushed her and then that's when she scratched you. >> push her. >> Huh? >> I did not push her. I was >> Yeah, and then for some reason all your cameras and stuff are off. >> They're off. >> Yeah, she tried to give show me a video of what you guys are doing. Are you able to show me anything? >> Yeah, cuz >> She tried to show me videos of Yeah, of the altercation and and all the videos are they are not showing. >> I can't do anything with my phone, officer. >> I know, but she has it too also. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm telling you. She was going to show me the altercation. But the thing is you guys have the same account, right? Or you guys have separate accounts? >> The thing with Blink the cameras like >> Yeah, yeah. >> it doesn't it doesn't record like automatic, you know? >> What do you mean? >> It you have to have a subscription for the Blink camera. So, to record while something's active. You can only see it if it's live. >> I So, you could only go on to your phone and see what's going on as it as it's happening. So, it never records anything? >> The it I don't think so. >> So, there's no video of anything that you guys could show me to prove anything otherwise. Because she's telling me you pushed her and that's why she scratched you. >> She was trying to push me out the [ __ ] door so she She get in. >> To to get what? Cuz she's saying that she just wanted to get her stuff to to go to her mom's >> I don't know what she wanted to get. I told you that she had to leave regardless. But I did not push her or do anything. >> But she's saying that she just wanted to get her clothes. >> I don't know what she wanted to do, man. What did she want to steal? >> Just because she wanted to stay, you didn't want her to go in? You know you can't keep her from coming into the house, all right? >> What do you mean I can't keep you out? >> Yeah, this is her residence now, man. That's what I'm saying. Because she's been living here. She said she's been living here with me here for 2 years. >> 2 years, yeah. We haven't even had the [ __ ] for 2 years. >> Well, she says she's a resident here. >> We've been like in February. >> So, it's been more than a few months. >> A few months. >> Yeah, so you guys have been living together. >> On and off, yeah. >> Yeah. Well, it gets she's she's So, she's a a resident here now, man. So, she's has as much right to this place as you do. That's what I'm saying. Okay. Unless she's been trespassing. Has she been trespassing here? >> No, she hasn't. >> No. So, she's allowed to come in. She has a She has a key to the house. She She She You guys have your kid right here? Is she saying that? >> No, she's at my mom's. >> But she But you guys live with your your your your child, right? That's what I'm saying. So, you guys live together. She said that you were at her at your uncle's, right? >> Yes. >> Right now you were saying that you were at her aunt's house together. >> No. >> And she didn't want to leave. >> I'm not going to You didn't ask for the whole story. >> What the I asked for what happened, man. >> What happened at the time of the altercation? You didn't You didn't ask me what time I ate or anything. It was what time I of the altercation. >> Okay, so now you're just being sarcastic, bro. >> Oh. Well, come on, bro. >> Look, for my >> Safety and for your safety. >> Yes, okay. Sorry. >> You have anything else? >> Uh that's it. I don't have anything on >> Okay. >> You told me like what happened on the altercation. That's what happened on the altercation. I was at >> But I said I But I did say what happened what led to it, right? >> I don't That [clears throat] me being at my uncle's did not lead to this. >> That's like >> Sir, what does this have to do with this? >> Because I'm trying to figure out what happened and what led to this. >> What does that have to do with this, sir? >> Well, cuz there's an inconsistent source sources. That's that's I'm saying? Like you guys are in different places and different areas, and you're saying this thing, she's saying this thing. >> I was at my uncle's house. She picked me up. >> Mhm, okay. Now we're Now we're good. >> house, and then we came here. >> Exactly. >> That's where the altercation started. >> Okay, so she's telling me that she's telling the truth. Cuz you didn't say that at the beginning with. >> Oh my god, sir, well you didn't ask me for that. >> Okay. >> What does that have to do with this problem being here? The problem was >> you said that she didn't >> The problem was not on my uncle's >> Because she said that she didn't want to leave from her aunt's house is what the the problem is. And she was She had a problem with you her leaving. That's what I'm saying. >> she have a problem with her leaving? >> You said that. >> I don't know. >> Yeah, you said she had a problem leaving her aunt's or her cousin's party. Right? But you guys were together there. That's why it all started. Did you say that? You said that the whole thing started cuz she didn't want to leave her aunt's. That's what I'm saying. >> The problem was because we didn't want to leave her aunt's house? The problem was because she wanted to go in. Well, she came in, we were at a party, and I told her she had to leave. >> Okay. >> And she didn't want to leave. She scratched She scratched my face on her. I'm trying >> go back to the thing. What happened? What from the start? >> From the start? >> Yes, uh-huh. >> Where do you want me to start? >> where where you called her to go pick you up from your uncle's. >> I called her to go pick me up from my uncle's. We went We were at my at her aunt's house. >> So you guys went back to her aunt's house. >> Yes, we went back to her aunt's house. We were there for a couple minutes, like 30, 40 minutes. >> To do what? For just just to say hi or >> Well, yeah, we were just saying hi. >> That's good. >> And then we came here. >> Okay. Then she had a problem with you guys coming over here or >> We had a problem because she started arguing with me. >> Okay. About? >> I told her what was her deal, why was she acting like that. And then once we got here, I told her, "You know what? It's best if you leave." >> Okay. >> And that's when we got here, and she wanted to go in. And I was just standing there at the door, and that's whenever she tried to force herself in. And I was just standing there. >> Okay. >> I was just standing there. And that's whenever I saw the first police car come in. And that's whenever I jumped off, and she came in. I don't want She wants to press charges. I don't >> Well, do you know what I mean? >> Yeah. >> Like, you know >> Well, at this point it's not really up to you guys, you know. But, I just got to make sure I I verify >> Yeah. >> Sounds good. >> All right. Give me a second. >> It's pretty cut and dry. >> He has the physical markings. She doesn't. She's a 15. >> Yeah, and that's what I was trying to figure out why it started. He's like, "Well, I don't know. She was already mad." And I was like So, that I can't figure out why why it all started. Uh >> Yeah, me neither, bro. Like, all she's saying is that he was being toxic and that she's claiming that she's a good person or whatever. That she goes to school, this and that. Like, [snorts] I'm not getting to the whole point of why the discussion started. >> Yeah. >> It's just that she's being toxic. And I'm thinking he probably thinks that she's cheating. That's why he's over here being, you know >> Yeah. I'm going to go ahead and give you a DV pamphlet, okay? This is pretty much just saying that, you know, there's there's programs that you could call in case you wanted to, you know, the crisis intervention file protection order or stuff like that, you know. Just to help you out in case you want to separate in this this situation. All right, you know what I mean? So, this is a DV pamphlet, okay? It can help you with like crisis intervention, protection orders, stuff like that just to get yourself separated from the situation. Cuz, like you said, this is getting worse and worse. You might want to get yourself out of this. But, at this point I see that he has a scratch on his face. >> Mhm. >> Okay? Per policy, now it's pretty much Once we find out who the primary aggressor is, that's the person that has to go to jail, okay? >> Well, he pushed me first. >> I get you, but he has a big old scratch on his face. >> He pushed me first. He always my Last time he punched me in my lungs. I was >> Did you call the cops? >> my ribs. No, I didn't. I never called the cops on him. I went to the doctors and they said, "Oh, you have bruised bruised lips bruised ribs. This is going to last up to 6 months." >> Well, you need to get yourself out of >> at least this time, okay. >> So, you if you should get out from me We can try to work it out here. >> Oh, my god. >> Okay. Do you have anything that on your any of your necklaces, any bracelets, anything that I have to take out? All right, cuz you can't take anything to to >> Can I take my stuff? >> Yeah, you can. >> All right, it's it's a little unfortunate but in these situations um you know, we have to enforce what what proofs we have. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> How old are you? >> I'm 19. >> Oh, my goodness. >> The woman was charged with domestic battery. Thank you for watching this video. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.

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