Can you get her out OF MY HOUSE? >> STOP TALKING. >> I TRIED TO RUN TO RONNIE AND HE'S IN HERE TAKING MY PHONE. >> THEY'RE NOT GIVING ME NO RIDE. THERE'S ONLY ONE CAR. THERE'S no car here. >> On September 20th, 2023, officers responded to a domestic dispute where a 21-year-old woman refused to leave. Instead of accepting a free ride from the police, she became aggressive, leading to a tense arrest. >> All right. >> She does not need to be here. >> Okay. >> I just got off work. >> Okay. >> She's being disrespectful. We just moved here. That's why we moved away from where we were cuz all my girlfriend's kids is so disrespectful. I don't want to take her somewhere. She got to get out of my house. >> Okay. So, she doesn't live here anymore? >> She doesn't live here. >> Okay. >> Yeah, just just I don't want to hear she got to go. Well, I don't They won't take you somewhere but you getting up out of here. >> STOP TALKING. I SWEAR I TOLD YOU WHAT I WAS GOING TO DO. KEEP TALKING AND I'M GOING TO SPIT IN YOUR >> FACE. >> YOU HEAR THAT? >> YOU HEAR THAT? >> RONNIE, COME ON. JUST >> WHAT'S GOING ON? >> [ __ ] GIVE me one Give me one second. He didn't I'm going to call you back. He I'm going to put the cops on the phone. I'll call you right back. >> Call the police for what? I'M IN MY HOUSE. >> I SAID I'M GOING TO TALK TO THE POLICE. RONNIE, STOP TALKING. >> STOP. >> CAN YOU GET HER OUT OF MY HOUSE? >> I WILL. >> STOP TALKING. >> LET'S ALL TALK LET'S ALL BRING IT DOWN A LEVEL. LET'S BRING it down a level and get this figured out. What's what's going on today? >> Long story short, I I'M NOT EVEN ARGUING WITH HER. I SAID SOMETHING LIKE, YOU KNOW, TO MY LITTLE brother don't drink Sprite whatever. Look back forward, boom, she left. >> It wasn't even I don't know not even that serious. My sister got into it whatever. Not worried about it. >> He He feel like he want to be the man of this house which he not. I'm not your daughter. 21. >> So, >> NOT YOUR DAUGHTER. >> NO. >> NO. SHE HAS TO GO. SHE DON'T >> STOP TALKING. I'M TALKING TO HER. >> ALL RIGHT. LET'S BOTH CALM DOWN. >> CAN you go into the next ROOM WHILE I'M TALKING TO YOU CUZ IF YOU JUMP IN MY CONVERSATION AGAIN, I'm going to be upset. >> Yeah, let's Can Can you just separate to the other room for me, sir? Just I promise I'll listen to you as well and then we'll get this figured out. Or just to keep tensions down. >> That's That's what's not keeping it down. See, THAT'S THE GOAL. WE'RE GOING TO GET >> YES, CALL MY MOM. >> I'M GOING TO TELL HER THE SAME THING. >> SHE IS. >> ALL RIGHT. HEY. >> You can either let my uncle choose YOU OVER ME. NEGATIVE. >> OKAY. SO, your mom's boyfriend. >> Whatever he want to be. >> Okay. Do you live here? >> No. >> Okay. >> I'm visiting. >> How old are you? >> 21. >> Okay. Got you. Got you. Okay. So, you came over to visit your mom. You guys got into it. And now, where did Do you live around here or do you live >> I live in I have a house here, but I live in Iowa City. >> Okay. >> Can you GET OUT? SEE, NOBODY USE THOSE PHONES. >> OKAY. I GET THAT. I GET THAT. I GET THAT. OKAY. I'M TRYING TO TALK. DO YOU MIND just stepping into >> Goodbye. >> All right. Just so we can bring it down. Okay. So, came over to hang with your mom. Did your mom go >> She literally just left out for work. >> Okay. >> I always come here Mondays and Tuesdays so I can get y'all out of this situation so I can't not stay here, but be down here for a time. They take me home. They pick me up. Now, nobody wants to take me home because everybody in their feelings. >> Okay. >> He wanted me to be the man of the house and join in the conversation. But, you're not disrespecting what I'm >> Lady, stop while you're >> Yeah. I'm Don't say nothing to me. I don't disrespect I've never disrespected you until now. Don't say nothing to me. I'm not I'm not your I'm not You have three daughters. He has My mom only shares a little girl with her. She's at school. Then, he has two daughters somewhere else. Nobody in here is your kids to be saying anything to. By the time you got my mom, all of us was grown as hell. THEREFORE, YOU'RE NOT siblings as well. YEAH, WE'RE ALL SIBLINGS. HE'S NOBODY'S DADDY. He wants to be the man of the house, so bad. Your 3-year-old will be here a couple hours. We don't have to listen to you. Nothing. My mom's here whatever she left. [ __ ] don't you want to call the police afterwards because you felt like you want to keep trying to attack my character and disrespect so yes, I'm going to disrespect you up to here. Simple. That's how it started. >> Okay. Babe, and would you please let this officer know what's my status, my living situation here? >> Got you. So, with So, with your daughter um does she live here then or like will stay the night a couple days a week? All right. So, my thing is so like there's so clearly you and your boyfriend have residency here. My my Right. My thing here is um you know, she sounds maybe like she's trying to get a ride to at least leave here until she's has a ride to go back to Iowa City. My suggestion for you though is, you know, to prevent her from establishing residency here. You know, I I understand you know, what you want to take care of your daughter and help her out. So, you know, giving her a place to stay a couple nights a week. >> [snorts] >> Um I would just caution you know, not to make it so frequent that where she gains residency here. Yeah, because when someone like is frequently here on a you know, regular basis, they get what's established residency. And so, what do we have like Right. And it but it doesn't matter like if she's on the lease or not. It's if she's living here consistently and even though it's not consistent like, you know, all the days of the week, it sounds to me like it's been a pattern where, you know, Monday she drive she gets driven down from Okay. Okay. >> But she don't come here often. She goes to my brother's house. He lives right down the street. She came She not I don't want to hear that. I don't want to hear nobody disrespecting my mom. STILL BEING A MOM LIKE I said told her last time. You disrespect my mom one more time, we going to be up in here fighting. I'm not We just moved from a crib. That we shouldn't have to go through that. You see what I'm saying? I'm the one that got to leave here and hear that. She can go. >> I DON'T CARE IF >> OKAY. >> I got to come home and say I get spit in my face, disrespect. I pay bills here. >> Harass me. Problem. >> Okay. So, can >> And I don't ever want her back in my house. >> Okay. So, we'll talk to her, see if she can get somewhere else to stay for a week to get her ride back to Illinois. >> to go. >> I can do that. I'll call the city. We can do that. Okay, man. So, did you get anywhere with getting a ride? >> No, they're my ride. >> Okay. So, talk to your mom. She's at work, so obviously he's not going to give you a ride. >> No, I don't want him to give me a ride. This is my mom's house. >> Right. >> So, >> Your mom and him, they live here. >> Right. >> They've allowed you to stay here. >> No, my mom. He has no allowance over He's not on my lease. This is He's not I don't know. >> He has residence here. He has residence here. >> Barely. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Well, according to the state of Illinois, he's established residence here. >> My address is my mom's address, literally. So, try to figure it out. So, so what what are we talking about? What are we doing? >> So, here's the thing. Is You do not have residency here. You know, you're You stay here infrequently, a couple nights a week here, but it's not, you know, a consistent thing. >> No, it is. >> Okay. >> every single week. I'm down here every single week. I have to come back down here on Tuesday. Literally, this is every week. I don't miss a week. >> Okay. So, do you have someone that can give you >> No, THEY'RE MY RIDE. >> OKAY. What about a friend's house that you can stay >> I don't know anybody down here. What did my mom say? >> Your mom doesn't want you here. Your mom was saying that you have a place in Rock Island. >> Yeah, but why the [ __ ] would I go there if I have no way home? >> Okay, but maybe that's somewhere that you can go to cool to let cooler heads prevail. >> no, no, I'm not telling her nothing. I'm going to find wherever ever I need to go. I'm cool. I don't even have my [ __ ] keys to the house, so why the [ __ ] would I go to a house there's I don't have keys to. >> Well, the thing is is >> I'm not staying here. I don't I don't I don't give a rat's ass. I don't. I don't even want to be talked to no more. >> Okay, so where where are you going to go? >> Sit right here until I find me somewhere to go. I don't I don't have [ __ ] to say to y'all, him, my mama, nothing. They could die for all I give a rat's ass about, and that's just how I feel. >> So, let's work on finding someone >> That's what I'm trying to do. Okay, I don't just just stop talking. >> Okay, would one of your siblings give you a ride somewhere? >> They're not giving me no ride. There's only one car. THERE'S NO CAR HERE. >> Got you. Okay. >> What if we give you a ride somewhere? >> No. I don't [snorts] need your help cuz y'all didn't do nothing. >> they don't want you here. >> I'M NOT IN THEIR HOUSE. I DON'T CARE. >> YOU'RE ON THE PROPERTY. >> SO, I don't care. I will gladly go on the public ass sidewalk. I DO NOT CARE. >> PERFECT. >> I really don't. Just don't. Just stop talking to me. Y'all are >> leave. >> Okay, well, y'all going to be sitting in here till I decide to walk on the public ass sidewalk. >> You don't need to make this any worse than it already is. >> cuz y'all are no help. >> I just offered to give you a ride somewhere. >> I don't need y'all ride. Not sitting in a police car. I've been I I don't want you. No, I'm I'm pregnant. I'm not sitting in no hard ass seat. I'm cool. I take my chances walking somewhere. >> Do you have a lot of stuff here? >> Yeah, I do. Cuz this is where I come to on a Monday and Tuesday. Where I'm living in Iowa City. If that's the case, for me to just keep up this peace so I don't get into this. I will keep up. But now she has to find somewhere for her So when you talk to her, please let her know she needs to get a U-Haul to come and bed and the rest of his clothes because he can no longer come back in there. If I when I find me a ride to Iowa City today, I when I find my keys, I'm taking them with me. So nobody will be able to get in my house. >> On the on the stairs. >> Okay. Here, I'm going to explain this to you. So listen carefully. >> Nothing. He just >> Hang up the phone. Listen to what I'm about to say here. >> Give me one second. Talk to I don't know what they said cuz they didn't >> on the phone long enough. You need to listen to what I have to say. >> Here's the deal. >> I'm on THE PHONE. DON'T DISRESPECT ME. >> You're about to end up in handcuffs for criminal trespassing. >> now the police. >> You need to move along. Find a different place to stay. >> TO MOVE ALONG? DON'T you see where I'm trying TO FIND A RIDE? DON'T YOU SEE I'M TRYING TO FIND A RIDE? DON'T YOU SEE I'M TRYING TO FIND A RIDE? >> OKAY. THAT'S FINE. STAND UP. >> Stand up. Stand up. >> I'm trying to I'm trying TO FIND A RIDE AND THEY OVER HERE DISRESPECTING ME. >> NO. Hang up the phone. >> I'm trying TO BRO, I'M TRYING TO THEY'RE ARRESTING ME. >> STOP. Let go of the >> THEY'RE ARRESTING ME. >> LET GO OF THE PHONE. >> I'M TRYING TO FIND A RIDE AND THEY'RE SITTING HERE TAKING MY PHONE. >> DON'T MAKE IT HARDER ON YOURSELF. Don't want to break your phone. Stop. >> Bro, >> STOP. >> I AM PANICKING. GET OFF OF ME. GET OFF OF ME. >> [screaming] >> STOP RESISTING. >> DON'T TOUCH I'M TRYING TO FIND A RIDE. >> STOP RESISTING. DO YOU HAVE YOUR LEARNER'S? >> NO. >> OKAY. STOP. Bring your arm back. You're going to get charged with resisting, too. >> That's cool. >> Okay. It's cool. >> care. >> Okay. Bring your hand back. >> Relax your arm. >> No. >> Yes. >> Cuz why am I going to handcuffs? >> Because you're resisting. >> I'M TRYING TO FIND ME A RIDE. >> STOP. >> STOP. >> STOP. You're going to end up on the ground. Stop. >> And if If put me on the ground, we're going to have a problem. >> You need to stop resisting. Stop. You need to stop. >> No. >> You were given plenty opportunities. >> care. I'm trying to find me a ride to the out of here. >> Stop. >> Pick up my phone. >> Leave it there. >> Pick up my phone. >> Leave it there. We'll >> Pick up my phone. Are you going to pick up my phone? >> Nope. >> Are you going to stand there? >> to walk. We're going to have to carry you. So, I'm going to have to get somebody else here to carry you to the car. >> Okay. Are you going to pick up my phone? Leave it or not. >> Leave it. >> Are you going to pick up my Yes, pick up my phone and put IT WITH MY MY BAG. WHAT THE [ __ ] DO YOU MEAN? >> Leave it there. We're going to get the rest of her stuff. >> No, leave my Put my phone in my bag. In my black bag. On the goddamn bar. Just leave it there. I will come get my stuff. Put my phone in my bag. You're asking too many questions. >> The woman was ultimately charged with trespassing and resisting arrest, a harsh lesson in just walking away. Don't forget to like and subscribe for more content.