on August 22nd 2023 in Grand Cho Wisconsin officers were dispatched to a residence due to reports of a disturbance between a man and a woman it was reported that the man was intoxicated is he in the truck still okay hey are you John hey how's it I'm good I'm officer Jones I'm with the gru Police Department I know you are I'm good can you just stand over here for me how you do good can I just pat you down make sure you don't have any weapons on you okay just turn your face to truck for me okay go ahead you can p whatever you want to okay that feels good okay John what's going on today I don't know um just do me a favor keep your hands out of your pockets for me okay that's fine that's fine I'm just looking for my cigarette that's all okay so no nothing I got up everything was good in the morning you know like you do every day and I'm going to go to work this is great yeah come home the neighbor I told the wife I said I'm going to go down neighbor see how he is cuz he broke his ribs like well I don't want you getting drunk today I'm like I'm just going to see how the neighbor is MHM a heart can the speed yeah okay you know manopause and so I went down talk to the neighbor and he's like let's go to the bar and I texted the wife I said we're going to go to the bar you know and we'll talk to Rob make sure he's okay and blah blah blah okay no problem all I get home neighbor dropped me off I walked in the door and she started flipping out okay I'm like don't touch me mhm and then she's flipping off just pushing me and push me finally I'm sorry somebody keeps pushing you what happens you tell me you know exactly what happens dear okay well you tell me what Happ officer you know what happens you're going to push him back it's not always going to be pretty but I did I did push her and I don't like pushing her she's my wife we've been together for 15 years M and I'm like all right all right so I said back I kept getting pushed and pushed and pushed get out of the house get out of the house I said ain't you your house what happened I just got home mhm hey slow down where you going knock the door okay for what hey John let her John no John let her go talk to your wife okay that's what she's doing okay that's why I need to know didn't say that okay so she's going to talk to your wife I'm just going up to the door that's not what happens okay we're not going to sit here just go up to the door John I'm not going to sit here and argue with you so continue with what you were telling me I will Andes take a step back Jones I'm sorry can you take a step back for me ma'am Mrs Jones yep okay can I talk to you for a minute yeah okay I walked in the house the side door was locked okay I'm like all right all right can't open the door you know how people get M okay not a big deal I'm like I got my key so I walked in the front and right away she approached me like this you're not coming in here I'm like excuse me what did I do this is my house yeah doink dink dink dink okay just like that okay so I push your back I said you're not [ __ ] stopping me for coming in my house I'll call the cops I said go right ahead I'll call them or I'll leave one or the other doesn't matter to me anymore cuz I'm done with your [ __ ] bullsh that's what happened okay okay that's my story and I'm sticking to it dear okay thank you I like your nails they look good so do you have the text messages on your phone that you could show me yeah I can I can okay I'm playing Donkey Kong right now be there in a few minutes mhm and that's what I always get that was it okay which means she doesn't believe me you B there you know you been there officer I personally haven't but can you take a step back for me really I don't I don't we all have personal space right okay okay you want 6 feet I'll give you 6 feet thanks let me clarify this okay she've been homesick for the last what's day Tuesday it is Tuesday I'm Sundays Y no it is Tuesday cuz I don't work I'm disabled The Neighbor come over last night asked me to go to the bar I'm like dude I can't I can't do it I'm not doing it tonight he's like just come on come on he's all toasted I'm like what neighbor did you go talk to where does he live I mean cuz if you got locked out and he saw anything I want to make sure to get his side of the St down at the end of the Vlog okay how many cops you need that's my supervisor he comes to a lot of stuff come on man are you being for real John I can't do anything seriously I can't do anything John I can't do anything about about him being here how many you need he tells me what to do I don't tell him what to do seriously he's got to come do you call and go this guy I don't call dude you would have been standing right here if you had me call for another one seriously he's he's got to come okay come on so anyways you got home went to the neighbor's house correct neighbor asked you if you wanted to go to the bar correct you told her you were going to the bar correct she said okay it was all fine and it was all fine until I came home this door was locked so you went to the front door correct and I have a key so I unlocked it in your way it started pushing me and pushed me like three or four times finally this isn't right and I get it so don't even judge me sir or ma'am I mean I can get pushed by a lot of people like 100,000 times and it doesn't matter to me yep but this was like dink doink doink get out of the house this is my house too dink so I pushed her she landed on the couch okay then she got back up started pushing me again I'm like don't do this and she kept doing it and I'm like dink back down I'm like here I'll help you up I'm sorry and then that was that and then she called you back I know you have the cameras John do you have your ID anyway chance are you really going to pull if Jones come on what do you mean am I going to pull what identifying who you are yeah yeah I just told you she just got to has to run you through our dispatch then come on man just have to do our job I know but we're going to seriously when we get called out man we got to do our job any else you want to look in there no you sure yeah I was just putting your ID back in there can pull it out for you no that's all right are you right yeah okay yeah what they are you right what they got to say I don't know yet they didn't tell me I'll let you know if it's bad that's for sure you know what I can tell you I'm not fing yeah 35 years ago for some weed which should have been reing done already yeah yeah okay and that was it everything else is and like solid no warrants that's a good thing correct you know why cuz I take care of my that's good cheery inside yeah she's in with the wife oh front door is this way dude this all bull hey and if it is we'll be out of here in about 5 minutes just stop John John let him go Jones this is all you know it's [ __ ] hey you and I know but you and play this game John listen John you and I both know that when we get called called we have to do our job and investigate right yeah and I get that but it's all [ __ ] Jones John that's what we're here to figure out we're here [ __ ] remember personal space take a step back no I I respect you I respect you Jones take a step back you want to take me down take me now no I want you to take a step back yeah thank you okay but I don't agree what the [ __ ] process is we just have to investigate he's not even I don't agree with theing processes because they can listen to her John I said here and listen to you did I not yes you did some pushing inside I guess at one point all right okay that's the process just the same the same thing would have happened to you house I'm going to get she doesn't want me here and I'm going to get that hey and I mean it's your house so she if she can't make you leave but it's probably best that if you two do separate for the night I've never touched her I've never hit her a person has a limit you know this John I do I do and if somebody were to push me and you're taught that you're taught that in the military you taught that in the police force so was I it's not rocket science you're taught that yeah okay can you take a step back you're getting a little close John we're going to have I'm going to have you told me and I get that listen I have okay you have I not listened Jones you do but you you get closer and then you walk away and then you get close again then you walk away but you understand the frustration I do you know what youo okay all right let's not do that you're just going to make the situation worse fine great because you want to make it worse because I'm done now because I didn't do anything to [ __ ] hurt her when I left I didn't do anything to hurt her when I came back okay and no one's saying you did I've never heard her and I never would nobody's saying you did J right then don't call the police gee obviously somebody said I did but John that's I've been through this not for domestic but I've been through the cops system I know how it goes I know how you work I know how it deals with and I know what happens so yeah for this to happen is bullsh John just stay over here for me be right there John John stop stop John stop you need to listen to us right now right just stop listen to me you need something here just stop listen to me come back out here please need you you can drink all you want when we leave but right now I need you to step out of the garage told nothing's going on just stop okay but listen to me why do you all have to come in here list because we don't know what's in here Jen have you watched the news lately yeah guess what and I don't agree with all the [ __ ] that b and doing do you defund the police do you agree with that I'm not saying let's defund let's defund everybody let's defund the border and you know what's going on okay and bull I won't come out okay come on you go ahead go John do not touch me I appreciate you stop why are you touch okay all right all right do not why are you touching me when I can't touch you okay okay I'm sorry but I don't like people touching me if you tell me not to touch you okay listen to me right now all right and listen to me clearly I am we are trying to figure out what's going on so am I you you're trying to be in charge of the situation and right now you're not so just not trying to yes you are John you're you're wandering off you're getting up in my officer's face just listen to me all right I'm sorry okay go ahead I've listened to you you listen to sorry officer go right ahead okay you're getting up in my officer's face I don't like that okay okay all right I know you're making this situation worse than it has has to be correct see why I know all this but why do you want to go to jail no I don't okay then calm down all right I am because right now you're not going I'm fine okay I'm fine so then just bring it place I want to go up to my property and be done with all this [ __ ] you can't drive tonight obviously no [ __ ] so what's your plan for tonight cuz the biggest thing I'm going to stay at my friend's house on the block that's my that's my plan that's your plan yep cuz the biggest thing we don't want obviously is us coming back here I appreciate you guys being here I really do okay well I wouldn't go that far I didn't say appreciate you guys I'm just saying don't don't make it worse okay we're here just to try to figure out why right I came home also I had this big problem I'm like get the off me she pushed me four times how many times do you need to get pushed how many times how many times will it take I I don't know you don't know correct so then you can come and question me we're questioning both of you aren't we but did she tell you he I have a question for you yes just cuz I have to ask you didn't give her permission to pushy did you no I didn't give her any permission to push me okay when she pushed you did it cause you pain at all actually yeah knocked me down hurt the left side of my rib again cuz I broke it last about two weeks ago and she knows this so why would you push some I know she's sitting there going yeah he's just saying that you're a rookie aren't you I'm been here a couple years why are we making this worse we're not making respectful we're not making it worse you're not being respectful are you John all right here let me explain this you yep go ahead okay she didn't do anything that would cause me pain okay is that good Jones sure can you talk to her and find out sounds like yep we already did so what she said I didn't do anything to him she's telling us the same thing you're telling us right she did your guys stories she did nothing that's not what she's telling us she told us that there was some pushing between the both of you okay so stop stop with the B why would I lie to you give me one good reason as to why I would sit here and lie to you my God I don't I have an answer for you I don't have an answer for why you think that either know how psycho she is okay that's why there's cameras there there's cameras in the front so I know what the going on when about the cabin m whatever what we're trying to figure out right now is if she can go somewhere tonight we don't want you guys together no I don't want to be by her okay I think it sounds like is your neighbor friend Rob or what's his name no John hey John stop do you want to go in CS or no I don't then knock it off stop then stop then let go then let go I will put you in cuffs for what I'm calm rob me right now okay I'm looking at you can you please let go if you calm down you're getting damn close to Gordon C okay I get that can you please let go though are you going to stop yes I will if you let go okay okay that's not that difficult really simp not that difficult to be respectful listen to stop stop okay all right all right okay it was not her Hey listen to me if you don't calm down I'm going to put you in cuffs do you understand I get that do you understand I told you so many times been telling you Jones if you don't calm down you're going in cuffs there's have I gotten your face at all no more chances you have I got your face have I gotten your face you need to calm down have I gotten your face you won't answer the question have I gotten your face you've gotten close to me but every time I ask I gotten your face though you're in her face right now John listen to me have I gotten your face dear listen to me have I gotten your face you need to calm down why is it always cuz you're yelling that's why it's you w listen we are listening to you all right everybody just leave and I'll leave okay you can't you can't drive John you can't I mean I'll tell you if you go driving I'm going to and I see your then pull me over then right and then you'll go to jail great but I don't want to do that to you A Vacation Fun Times see John why do we have to do this we don't have to do this that's what I'm saying you're going up and down I'm not escalating anything yes you are no I'm not I'm not officer I'm not escalating nothing seriously I'm not okay all IA was walk over there start yelling yeah I there was no yelling I wanted to talk to the neighbor but you yell here's the problem okay once somebody expresses what they want to say that's when the officer is getting somebody face and then it escalates more no you don't you don't get this okay you was TV you was TV yeah I watch a lot of TV obiously not it's it's not always the guy that comes forward to talk to the police that is the problem we're not saying that you understand that John we're saying your action since we've been here been the problem we're not saying that you're going to be getting arrested for what happened before we got no no and that's fine I've been like honest with you guys we know since you stopped here and like I okay I'm not deteriorating from bull I'm telling you what happened and what did go on and what what perspire officers y I respect you guys and I respect the work you do and it's not easy I get that but when you're dealing with somebody that had a couple beers and maybe be had ra and you got to pull up to somewhere that you know I'm not a a habituary whatever you call it offender that has nothing to do with this nothing at all Jones I know why don't women I don't hit women John why don't you ever my last kill people that do that John why don't you ever say my last name you say hers last name is Long well that's really up see this is the John that we can talk to can be good I can be good I can be good all right okay but see I'm not a bad person I'm not saying you are John not here's my problem because we got a call got a call so we can figure it out now do I feel the best do I feel the best leaving you to you don't exactly so we're just trying to figure out if she can go somewhere or can go some can you come talk to me for a minute please come here I am talking to you come here come on no let's stay out here John let's stay out here you can talk to me right here why because why do we have to go in there cu want a drink I don't think you need one right now you're such aing pain stop do it I'm not doing anything m l okay gotcha you're good man good man so just let's chill let's chill out here for a little bit 27 do I have anyone available John stay out here stop no John I told you are you being for real yes go back out there dude am I doing anything to [ __ ] hurt you or harm you what did we just talk about I'm not doing anything to hurt you or harm you in any way go am I doing anything to hurt you or harm you in any way am I doing anything to hurt you you're going places that I don't know where you're going and I just told you where I was headed go holy you too I as well seriously okay we're not going to yell at her now just walk back out there no I'm not yelling at her I'm just talking to my daughter is that okay yeah you can talk to your daughter you have kids I do I have okay not that difficult right to talk to somebody and say hey how's it going talk to your daughter just asked I love you but they won't let me go in my own garage because they want to make sure that you're safe I am safe holy no they want to make sure they're safe has nothing to do with making sure I'm safe has to do with they're safe and I want to go back there to get something that's what we need to figure out you going to keep walking away me you going to keep walking away okay see no I didn't do anything officer I didn't done what I walked up to my daughter what did I do what did I do what did J I didn't do anything John hands behind back what did I do what did I do stop John you're under arrest for what disorderly conduct for what John stop ping off disorderly conduct John what the my watch his back watch his back my back him Fusion give us your arm I get him in I didn't do anything what did I do to make you arrest me what did I do I was talking to my daughter wow this ain't that hard fix go ahead no no go ahead break my back go right hand give us your arm what the did I do huh huh uning believable are youing kidding me for what we gave you about 18 chances I talk to you you want I talk to you Jones this is bull listen to me yeah I wasn't out here I don't know what happened right I talked to him all a sudden he attacked me oh yeah no not oh yeah you see your daughter backing up from you I talked I didn't touch her she knows I would never touch her are you being a for real officer tell him the truth John stop yelling I didn't touch him okay that's bull yeah wait till I talk to my lawyer go ahead okay yeah that's great you will have a job you will not have aing job at all okay get off me hey hey John call mying lawyer get the F off me stop no no non piss okay innocent to proing guilty right innocent to proing guilty right mother yeah yeah I'm innocent I'm innocent I'm innocent get the off me get the John get the off me not right now in the house get the [ __ ] off me [ __ ] you need to stop get the [ __ ] off stop John get off get the [ __ ] off listen to me yeah there you go you youing [ __ ] John get the off me John 27 I if I die I'm suing I'm [ __ ] suing you [ __ ] my hands hurt mying feet we'll sit you up if you stop resistant I'm not so are you willing to sit up and not KCK okay so we're going to roll you over here okay help you why dude why why yeah John how many chances did I give you out here today A Lot you kept going no I didn't I was talking to my daughter you just dude let me talk John when you're going up to your daughter and you Corner her by the house cuz she's backing up from you Corner yes you did Jack I was talking to her sir you were getting so close to her she was backing up yes she was to where she went right to the house and you kept never touch her she knows that how do I know that oh my God hey units responding to our can come code for please do not arrest me you are going to be arrested for disorderly conduct for I didn't do anything John it's about the seven chances we gave you that it was not s sitting with you that it kept going but yeah yeah do you want medical J do you want medical attention you know what I'm going to say this I'm going to say this one time this is why people don't like cops because you're doing the wrong thing okay do you need medical attention the wronging thing uning believable uning believable no no press now I'm fing mad I wasn't before but now I'm iring you get the [ __ ] away from me mother John we no listen no I will listen I'll listen one time one time because you didn't listen did you so we either can put you in that which is the wrap system oh jeez thanks or I don't want to we can get you up and you can walk to the squad and it's uh what's DC $150 yeah it's 150 bucks that's the bond $150 for what that's the bond cuz I have that yeah you think people have that nowadays with Obama I said to bond out of jail are youing being for real so do you want us to put you in the ra or do you want to walk to the squad you know what I'm going to explain something to you has he been here for the whole time no got here he hasn't but he just got here right right and he's ready to put me in it right well that's only because he hasn't been her to hear told get it John that's only if we have see that's both can you walk to my squad car if I help you out I can I can but Jones Have you listened to me yeah I have let me get your other shoe okay and we're going to I don't think you have I have because if you have I I wouldn't be in handcuffs right now this is so much [ __ ] yeah everyone has a bad day man' yeah no it's not a bad day motherucker not a [ __ ] bad day you know what this is this is bullsh listen to me my Jones I want to talk to you can I talk to you yes I am so stop stop let talk to J she's taking you to let me talk to her right now I want to talk to her right now please thank you this isn't that difficult get off of me we can't do that you're in cuff so stop right I'm in cuff we have to hold on to you Jones yep go ahead please let me talk to you please go ahead alone we can go to my squad car and you can talk to me in there Kat watching why man I don't know why I you I was inside do anything yeah but listen to me okay I was inside the next thing I know your wife says that you were getting in your daughter's face and then the next thing I see is my other officers out here trying to get you in cuffed but why I didn't you tell me I wasn't out here Jones I didn't do anything okay right now John I need you to walk to my squad car okay so you and I are going to walk to my squad car I got okay let's go do you want your phone with you cuz we can put it in a brown bag and do what look at it that way you have it at the jail and what take all the info off of it no you are just put in the you know what what's up yeah get off me please get the off John I only need one hand okay get back up back the up you are not back the back the I behind I'll walk behind you back up please back up please please okay I'm going to be the only one that's got hands John I got hands on you back the John it's me you're good let's walk you're going to put me in the back of the car yeah are you yeah let's go now I'm done with you get in the back sit down I want to talk to you sit but you got everybody following you why can't we talk I already told you we can talk what we get in the squad come on man really this some B John was charged with resisting or obstructing an officer and disorderly conduct he was found guilty of disorderly conduct and senten to one year of probation [Music]